From PRISON, to BOUNDARIES | Juliette Ross | Your BEST RELATIONSHIP yet |
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Juliette was created for Tim, and Tim was created for Juliette. Point, blank, period.
PERIOD!
PERIOD!!
its the rib^^
"If you can't keep your word you can't keep a vow" -Juliet Ross
Baby! This is true. It's eye opening. I love you two. ♥️
That gem hit me the chest!
@@lissymari.e same
Juliette sounds like Janet Jackson lol Her voice is soothing.
I couldn't put my finger on it but you're correct!!
YES I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING
Absolutely!
I LOVE when Juliette comes on the pod! Watching you too bounce off each other, affirming that you know the nuances of each other and just getting multiple gems is THE BEST!
Thank you. I got divorced in January 2024 and I am at peace with it, because it was necessary. My ex husband was not committed and God showed me that I deserved more. However, recently I have been thinking about all that we went wrong. But this session was God sent. Because I know I did my best
This was a very much needed podcast. PLEASE MAKE THIS A REGULAR THING WE NEED POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS
Mannnn all the feels with this episode. When Juliette said “that’s childish stuff”, readjusted her crossed legs, swept her hair to the side, and then proceeded to say “I’m trying to live my best life with my men in my family. Who’s got time for all that?”. A whole mood, a whole convo, a whole Era 👏🏾. I hollered yes ma’am Mrs. Ross yes ma’am 😂, because it’s so true.
Life is short but it’s also too long to purposely to bring unnecessary nonsense, especially when life will bring many of those frustrations our way 😂. Beautiful convo inside and out per usual, I love it when you two speak together on any platform.
May God continue to strengthen and encourage your efforts personally and relationally and thank you again for all you both do to shine your lights together and individually ❤️ 🙏🏾. Book closed 😅
Your sons are extremely blessed to have a momma and poppa who are full of Godly wisdom to pour into them.
Blessings🙏
Thank y’all for the “take all the time you need.” Society pressures us to get back out there but we don’t have to until we’re ready
AMEN!!!
I related to this portion the most. It was such confirmation for me. 💙
I love Tim and Juliette Deep! What a God Ordained Relationship! I love how Tim is unapologetically in love with his bride and how gentle and patient Juliette is with Tim. You guys are truly a blueprint. ❤❤❤
I always think about these things too when I see them 🥰🥰
Tim, you're right! Juliette is absolutely BEAUTIFUL! ❤ I normally listen on apple podcast/ the B-side app. It's nice to see you all! Happy Valentine's Day All!
This is SO good. We need this on a regular basis…like once a week with y’all!👀👀👀
I’m the mom in G’s scenario. I had been abused for all of the marriage, from physically to financially, and I left my kids in the home with him, I had reached a breaking point. Definitely was living in situations were difficult….”the two parent home” ran in my head for YEARS!!! Wow! I have learned to value myself. All I can hope is that our relationship is reconciled as they get older. Juliette is hitting the nail on the head. Y’all pray for me man. My ex is now greenmailing me and is a narcissists. Making it hard to resolve assets/liabilities, lawyer fees mounting and he’s “moved on”. It is hard to see the end. Dwellers pray for me, agree with me. Thank you 🙏🏾
Keeping you in prayer. I pray God gives you the strength to get through this and find peace ❤
Praying for you ♥️
I met my spouse then married a year later. My deal breaker when we met was no porn or addiction to that and other things. On my honeymoon my world was rocked but then a month later it was schattered!!!! In April we will be married a year and the first year has been horribly painful. He had a massive heart attack a month ago. While he was in the medical coma his phone was chalked full of deceptions that for 5 months he had said he was sober , collecting chips from C.R. And fooling everyone!!! The biggest thing for me was … seeing him lay there knowing it was all a lie and still CHOOSE to stay, wash him, feed him, brush teeth , wait on him hand and foot till he was well enough to do things alone. Last week on his month anniversary of living he chose to edge again and I was so hurt because it’s been so painful! I need help!!!! For me! Not him … ME!!! Because I need to learn to seperate and heal for me while he gets his mess under control. I really really really like this pod cast . It’s hot so hard! So when she said till death do us part ….. boy did it resonate.
The vows conversation hit deep for me. I'm watching it happen with my parents and there's nothing more beautiful than watching it live and direct. Mum's health would test any man, and seeing dad just be her best friend and companion through it raises my standards on what I desire for a husband daily. The more I watch them interact through it all the more I know I will not settle for just anything. ❤
Tim and Juliette, the two of you are so disgustingly cute together! And I mean that in the most loving and endearing way possible! You two are a great team!!! Love y’all!
I want to say both of yall together on this POD! LORD knows we needed this!!! Please do this again!!! LOVE EVERYTHING from today's POD!
Tim is at his best when Juliette is near! I absolutely love these episodes!
Pastor Julieeeeetteee! I was so excited to see her on here. I was watching from here in the hospital. I’ve been in here for almost a month now so this REALLY brightened up my day. This topic was really good. This session was extremely helpful to me. Thank you Mrs.beautiful Juliette for you wisdom. Your voice is so soothing and I definitely 1000% agree with pastor Tim Ross that your beautiful inside and out. 🙌🏽💜🥰🤗🤗🤗
I just said a prayer for your healing!
@@kendrac8885 I appreciate you
Same, fam. 🙏🏽✝️🤗
The Vow part: so good! Almost at 1 year in April ♥️ Made me want to watch our personal vows at our one year mark and also with that part of this video. Always encouraged to do more work and love more after hearing from healthy examples! Ty!
This is my first time watching Uncle Tim & Auntie Juliette - 🙌🏽 My Gawd in Zion!! Their ministry is life changing!
As a dweller, thank ya’ll for continuing to speak truth and share with transparency and vulnerability!!
Auntie Julie is sooo well spoken! Very humble and real. You can tell when someone has the holyspirit. I see christ alll in her ☺️. She is someone you would want around you.
17:58 -forgiving yourself.
19:03 -pt 2. Tim (forgiving yourself)
37:28 - keep. . .keep. . .on. .
47:03 - trusting. friendships with men, or women, compartmentalize.
51:07 people tell you who they are
52:44 - we are all needy. Wells.
1:04:41 -you need to have a level of openness.
1:03:58 - from calling it a prison to boundaries
1:24:27 -divorce ourselves to the fantasies and embrace reality.
Watching this after I just called off my wedding (less than a month before it was supposed to happen) and ended my relationship with my fiancé.
This is so encouraging and timely. I definitely just have to count my losses. God bless you both ❤️
Yesssss my friend got stuck in an abusive marriage thinking that’s biblical even following his abusive rules thinking she’s being submissive.
😢 been there before. My heart goes out to her. Much prayer for your phone.
When Tim says, GOLDEN GRAHAMS.... I scream! 😂 The Dj voice!😂😂😂
😂I love when Wifey said....Preach Preachaa😂❤❤❤❤❤This is a match from the heavens above. Praise the Lord for their union❤
I ❤ when Juliette is with you.. the flow is amazing !! Great episode!!
Lol! I love how Juliette is done with a joke & she’s done but then Tim will keep it going & going lol
put value on your Vows ...Love that !!! thank you for this
Don’t just get with people because they go to church and know the Bible. That does not mean they have a real relationship with God. FRUIT CHECK !!! 1:58:32
Love this and you two!!!❤ Juliette is stunningly beautiful 🥰
You can’t keep your word you can’t keep your vow! 💣🔥
I will say It does make sense that Ms. Ross is craving childhood favorites while taking care of someone so close. Please Ms. Juliette give yourself the grace you teach us. Love you may he bless and keep you and yours always 🤍
I wish I had this around when my parents told us about their divorce at age 18 back in 2015. Tbh I wish I had this before that because the way my dad created the dynamics in our household, I was targeted all the time as the only girl among my 3 brothers. Even in their divorce they found a way to form a narrative against me. I was never truly heard our nor understood since they always found a way to put me in the narrative to make me out to be the bad guy all the time. I was constantly exhausted and often had nobody but God to lean on tbh.
It’s not your fault
Watching Tim and Juliette is like getting a glimpse into the life of Syndney and Dre 20 years after the movie
I love listening to you guys. Juliette's voice always remin ds me of Janet Jackson's speaking voice
Yes! I was wondering if I was the only one who hears Janet, too.
I hope this goes VIRAL. So amazing. I am going through a divorce now but I know this conversation will save many from not being intentional about what comes with those vows.
Nobody:
Me: Rewinding to hear Tim sing “take all the time you need to get by” 😂😂😌 I love the basement ❤
There are just so Many Nuggets in this!!! Such a great talk❤ Love it!!!
EXCELLENT POINT Julia, regarding the vows.❤
You know when you think you don't need to listen to something based off title? The whole last hr and 1/2 was speaking to me. You all are honest and righteous. Yah keep you and the Basement dwellers. Halleluyah to this👏🏾🙌🏾
Juliette you are preaching.. I love this…
That Timbaland and Aaliyah track was FIRE fam.
This was me 😢after 12 years i finally left. My children were teens and they had endured so much trauma. I still wish I had left earlier and I’m grateful for God loving me through that time in my life. The best is yet to come ❤
This just fed my SPIRIT...the portion about being content in your singleness. Sheeeeshhhhh A WORD!
Love, love, LOVE the part about having an ‘open’ relationship that brings safety and stability. ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Two of my favorite people!! Thank you both for this much needed pod!! Love you both dearly ❤
Intro is 🔥🔥🔥. I'm claiming it today that you and Juliette are going to have me on. I have a story to share. 💯
Not me screaming at the 1:10:42 Mark! 😂😂😂 “Tim said Ohh, well I didn’t know you wanted to ahh…” lmaoo YES Juliett took it there!! 👏🏽👏🏽 👏🏽 She keeps its 💯
ooooohhhh child......Juliette just spoke a word there, phewww I can breathe a sigh of relief. Narcissist...blame others for their issues....22 years of that....but GOD is good....sending love from Trinidad & Tobago.
This is what a real “Power Couple” looks like, thank you Tim and Juliet ❤
I love the cadence between Tim and Juliet 🎶 thank you both for sharing your love and wisdom❤
A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24
Thank you Julietee❤
Ughh!!! I need Juliette to have a podcast lol.
I loved seeing you lead together! ❤❤❤
Thank you! Such a treat to have Juliette Ross on 🙌🏾💜
I am all for therapy and was going once a week. I got tired of paying for no good help. I can't seem to find a good therapist. I need someone that is going to go deep with me ask the hard questions. I am trying to heal!
It’s best to get a therapist that has specific therapy schooling and did therapy hours. Many therapist have just a psychology degree and that doesn’t help them understand the system and goal setting so they just become someone you vent to
@@SurvivorsCoffeeI thought that's what I was doing. And that's exactly what it becomes..a venting session
@@tmtwilson my last two therapist have showed me their degree on their wall and have shared completion of hours necessary for the state to start practicing as a therapist… first session is a goal setting list toward a treatment plan to measure progress. Finding the right match will take a little research but it’s worth it. What issue are you needed guidance in and start there. May God lead you to one best for you in this season 🙏🏽
@@SurvivorsCoffeethank you
Thank you Ross family for giving me hope to love 💕. As a single mother …. I will definitely take the time I need to get myself together, my character, heal, the whole 9️⃣.
This was great!
Came across this podcast and so excited I found good clean relationship conversations center on good true loving relationship. I shifted my thoughts on marriage and still have hope at 58 on finding the man Father God have for me...Thank you for caring and sharing..Much love to you Brother and Sister in Christ show us how to do it right.
She sounds like Janet Jackson.
Hold on ya’ll. We’re about to find out how on time God is. At least I am. Boundaries has been a big word in my marriage lately. Praise the Lord his plan is the best plan.
Thank you so much for this important conversation! There were so many gems that were dropped in this session.
I just thank God for the Ross family. Full of authenticity and rhe Bible. No pretenses. REAL MINISTRY. Blessings, y'all! ❤️✌🏽✝️🙏🏽🤗
This was great. Any time you both come together is 🤯
Juliette the BOSS is in the building yasssssssss❤❤❤❤
My favoriteeeeeee couple period! Loving all of it, I'm here to tap into all the wisdom that's coming from both of you. Much appreciated and needed! God Bless (L)
Thank you for being an example of a healthy godly marriage ❤. Listening to yall has been such a blessing to my life, and by just watching yall gives me hope that one day whoever I marry will be one of the best decisions of my life.
Juliet is beautiful and this was a great listen!
Good video. Thank you both for your insights ❤
I clicked so fast when I saw Juliette! 🙌🏾❤️❤️
I just found out that Boy Valentines Day is called Malentines Day😂 So we have Galentines and Malentines
Is the person laughing in the background a paid actor? Cuz every time I heard it, I screamed too! 😂😂😂
I love there are no relationship topics off limits ❤❤ thank you both
Thank you for this! Thank you. Just Thank you
This episode was such confirmation for me. Good word. 💙
Juliette is stunning!!!! Absolutely beautiful inside and out ❤❤❤
I feel the same way about Valentines day it should be none essential because we should show each other every day ❤
I needed to hear this. Thank you for your words Tim @2:06
My heart hurts. I am going through a divorce after 23 years of marriage. I honestly wish I had all this counsel before I married.
I went into therapy for my own issues, but eventually came to realize that I was in an emotionally abusive, financially abusive, and spiritually abusive marriage. Even then I stayed for years, until one day in therapy the Holy Spirit told me "It Takes Two."
I'm still struggling with this reality and wish I could still be married, but know It isn't the answer.
I love the two of you together!! It's the best.
Juliette’s voice is super soothing, she sounds like Janet Jackson to me. It’s soft and powerful! I will listen to all the advice she can give (that applies to my life at least lol)
She sounds and looks like Aaliyah to me
I respect your marriage, just as your relationship, respect, honesty, and love you have for one another.
I am truly praying to our God to guide me to be the best wife I can be to my husband🙏🏾❤️
The sound bite during the clap was too hilarious 😂😂😂
I hope to one day be as strong as Juliette.
Thank you for this honest conversation " I miss Juliette "
Love you all basement team
Great transparent questions, answers and conversation ❤❤❤
Hello! Great podcast! I want to help Mrs. Ross!! Her being allergic to dairy and now lactose I have the solution. I’m a personal trainer and nutritionist and have helped many heal their gut health and allow for dairy again!
This episode was SOOOO GOOD!....and btw, I eat my cookies the same way auntie Juliette, it's the best LOL
Not kick the cat and slap the dog please lord im vulnerable 😂😂😂😂
57:08 I took a breathe too tim😂 it took me until you said “breath” to breathe again hahahahah😂😂😂
Such an awesome interview!!
I missed seeing Auntie Ju on the podcast (yes they are my Auntie and Uncle in my head lol) loved this episode.. it was so refreshing and insightful. Much love to Uncle Tim and Auntie Ju ❤️
I heard someone say it's "Pal-entine" for dudes LOL
Yes. People will definitely tell you who they are by just listening to their conversations
This was so good!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
I thank God I found your channel 🙏 🙌 new subscriber ❤