Feelings Without Words Won't Heal You | Tim Ross
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As a therapist and a Christian, this message is 🔥until we heal old wounds we will continue to bleed on people who didn’t cut us. God bless you brother!
How can I find a Christian Therapist?
Hello there! I’m interested in Christian therapy. Where are you located? Are you accepting new clients?
@@msknowitall4228 Hi, i'm licensed in Arkansas, I do provide telehealth as well.
@@ServantTawanaWilliams what is telehealth?
I need a Christian therapist 😢
"Your body is waiting on your mouth to tell the truth about the experiences its had with you." ✨✨
I pray that everyone who is listening to this finds healing, restoration, peace and blessings in their life.
This message has blown my mind. As someone who struggles with constant overthinking, I see why I feel much better after journaling and doing voice memos. I'm in therapy as well and sometimes I feel ashamed to speak about things that bother me but I'm going to make the conscious effort to care less. Thank you🙏🏽
Same same same I journal write letters and read them out loud to people who will never hear them
Man you wrote my sentiments exactly...I tend to overthink and hold back because I'm concerned about others feelings vs my own and my healing is about Me and my Peace so doing therapy as well to help heal THE WHY about me if that makes sense.
I thought I was the only one that does voice memos 😅, I'm too lazy to journal but I journal record
Just started journaling today got the book/journal called “Breathe” a guided healing journal for black me.
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As a therapist, this is one of the realist conversation that I’ve seen in a while.
"If I can bring someone to Jesus I can probably bring them to my hotel room". So profound. We must be responsible and held accountable for the tool of influence; especially as a believer or minister or therapist in the church. Amen Sir.
That line!! I definitely agree, nothing like real accountability.
I am loving everything about this. I am a Christian and a therapist/social worker and this blesses my whole soul! I pray through these conversations people will seek healing!
Confessing to one another must be why the 12 step style programs work
So I work in ophthalmology and I’ve been doing eye exams all day, everyday, for over 12yrs. Anytime a patient sits in my chair and they tells me they have an eye twitch, my FIRST question is always “are you under stress?” Our body tells us when something is wrong. It can show up in an eye twitch, headache, lack of sleep, anxiety, depression, stomach pain, shoulder pain, neck pain, knots, stiffness, or anything else. My mom has rheumatoid arthritis and lupus which are both auto immune diseases. With auto immune diseases, it’s your body attacking itself. I 1000000% believe that my mom had been going through this because she refuses to truly talk about whatever it is she went through in her life. So she bottles it up and it shows through her. Please, listen to your body! Write it down. Call a prayer line. However you gotta do it, please, just talk it out.
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"If I can bring somebody to Jesus, I can probably bring somebody to my hotel room..." What a simple and compelling way to explain that even our God-given gifts can be used to cause harm to ourselves and others. That and, "the flesh is Jason...". Gotta crucify that sucker DAILY. Period.
I lost my wife a few days ago falling into lust with a random woman sexting. I struggled with watching porn since I was 6 years old. I know I've done wrong but I no longer want to be held down by my guilt nor lies I buried deep down that I never addressed. I'm now taking serious steps to getting into the WORD and looking to God to set me free of my past sins and show me how to forgive myself. I will never lose hope !
Im.sorry for your experience. Please seek out a therapist that can help you navigate and excavate your journey.
@@lynetteshelton7303 I'm trying too. But it's all so fresh that I just been alone. Missing my daughters and figuring out what I gotta do next. It's tough right now
Hey man you are not alone. Get into the word. Seek God daily. It's hard I know but this calls for some serious and sincere surrender to Christ. You can't fight this in your own strength. Get on your knees and do business with God my brother
@@racheljenkins9841 thank you fam. You right I have surrendered to the knowledge that I can't change things out of my control but I can seek my Lord and savior and open the door to my heart to allow him to guide me on the path he has set for me.
I’m so sorry for your loss❤and I’m Praying for you my brother i love you g
Religion has really hurt people!! It’s not all about word. Religion teaches suck it up and serve and quote scripture!! Thank you for what you’re bringing to the table. I’m in school for mental health because I’ve realized this at 50. Thank God!! We are not stuck!!
Vulnerability is our super power down here in the basement. Love this message❤
For years I was in denial about being sexually abused by my father. Last year my body couldn’t take holding that trauma in for 33 years and depression got so deep from holding that in. I got down to 98 lbs because my body rejected my reality. Once I confronted my father and processed why I lived the way I was living due to trauma God delivered me from ALOT. Fornication, unforgiveness, addiction, and depression. Thank you for this message it’s been a year celibate and I desire marriage and don’t want to fall into temptation. This message is approved!!
God bless you dear and keep you on your path of life, peace, joy, healing and wholeness! You are a precious treasure and beloved of God!! Keep running to Jesus!! ❤❤❤
That jason Vorhee’s analogy was crazy 😂😂😂😂😂… its so true
James 5:16
“Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed….”
Wow, this was deep. Intimacy doesn’t happen by accident
Life changing - you can finish a 100 day fast and your flesh is waiting for you
This is one incredible video. For so many reasons. Wow.
Here’s something weighing on me tho. People aren’t like you, Pastor Tim. Or your family. When I was “exposed” for something-which was an enormous embellishment of the truth no less-just about every friend left me. We’re talkin 20 year friendships. Gone in a second. So, it’s not the always the enemy making us think we are gonna get rejected or abandoned. It’s graceless people. It’s been years now and I still don’t make friends bc I just don’t want to go through that. I struggle to choose the pain of potential rejection yet again over the numbing feeling of loneliness. Sad but true.
This is why the concept of the basement is so wonderful. Many people don’t have that. Perhaps this should be an endeavor of mine: to create a place where people can go to offload shame, can feel accepted, and not let sin and maladaptive behavior fester. They could walk away feeling washed and anew. Something to think about.
It’s time we reversed this sick cancel culture to a culture of Grace. I don’t know a single soul who hasn’t needed it, nor one who won’t!
I’ll add this: Tim is right about his perspective that maybe they weren’t “friends” at all, but rather colleagues or acquaintances.
How could that be, having been so friendLY so long? It all goes back to my childhood trauma wound.
I didn’t trust they would stick around if they knew the worst of me. I had coped my whole life through rejection as a kid by performing. Not a good strategy!
I have two friends who treated me no less different after hearing the worst about me-and yes, way worse than even reality. They still accepted me.
There’s something really special about that. That’s why I try and be the Grace I wish to see in the world.
Fire. Raw truth. The church needs this. No more hiding. Open, and receptive!
🗣Your body is waiting for your mouth to tell the truth ‼️🤯🤯🤯🤯
Such a freeing message as someone who was molested at 7 by my stepfather and my mother didn’t believe me and I was sent live with my Aunt via court order. I’m so thankful for being saved, the Holy Spirit and ministries like this.
Wow!! I needed this message. I’ve always been afraid to expose myself and tell the hidden me. I need to heal! I need deliverance!
I love that brotha I’m the same exact way . People always say why do u tell people everything . I lost my mother at 17 when she was all I had . I went through 10 years of craziness and finally after prison and all kinds of adversity god woke me up . I found out that all of my growth was because I was open minded about what happend to me and how I could fix it . Having to learn to do that at such an early age I disciplined myself to talk about my pain influence others and myself in the process . It’s crazy the things I’m willing to tell people to try and help save them ! God bless you brother this was good information to put in the tool belt !❤🙏🏻😇
I subscribed the first 5 minutes. The truth and vulnerability is all i talk about along with God and his word And i finally found someone who believes the same thing. I was molested by my female neighbor and then my step sister then later on by my older cousin....no wonder why i was addicted to porn. As i began my healing journey the first thing i had to do was be honest with self and others. I started telling people i waw molested, i forgave my molesters. The truth set me free. I was no longer bound by the shame or guilt. I took control of the situation and no longer allowed the situation to control me. It definitely made me realize i had attachments and abandonment issues. But you have to start with the truth you guys and it will set you free. Find someone who you can talk to that is Non judgemental. That will not make you feel more shame and guilty. Im starting my own youtube talking about these things and I do mindset and life coaching please tune in. Thank you
That’s discipline!! Whew!!! Your wife definitely have a real one!!!🙏🏽
As a spiritually integrated psychotherapist, I approve of this message 100000%. Blessings to this ministry. I've followed (and shared your videos) you for a while.
I’m grateful to be watching this today.
I’ve made terrible decisions in my relationships, confessed them and I’m now living in the consequences .
The aftermath of all this was starting to make me regret telling the truth. However, I feel so much freedom having told the truth.
I’m looking to Jesus for whatever comes next . Praying for Godly community.
Thank y’all 💪🏾
Some people say i say too much...i refuse to not be truthful no matter who it might cut...i am very vocal about my past cause it might help someone else
Hit home thanks for being truthful, honest & open.
REAL! THIS HIT!
THIS IS THE REALEST PREACHING AND TEACHING I HAVE EVER HEARD IN MY ENTIRE LIFE!!!!! I CANT EXPLAIN HOW MUCH THIS HELP ME AND MY SOUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I THANK GOD FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE!!!!!! I THANK GOD FOR YOU WALKING AND TEACHING ME!!! ITS PERSONAL!!! IM GRATEFUL!!!! My God!!!
Whenever you experience trauma or abuse as a child you either hypersexualize or hyposexualize🥺 something he's been showing me and healing in me
You got this!💛🎉
I am now in therapy. It’s been three months. Thank you again for this podcast.
that part when you said she's just beautiful and it will never happen is exactly the discipline you need to give to yourself. one of the fruits of the spirit is self-control I know growing up we probably always said to ourselves oh there's no way I can control those random thoughts that come into my head. But I learned is with that discipline you can abstain and control your thoughts to a point not saying anyone's perfected it but ppl are learning.
This is such a GOOOOOOD conversation!!! Come on now!!! Let's have these real talks!! Love this brother!! My husband and I have been so blessed by your ministry. Thank you for being obedient to the Lord!! ❤🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
What a freeing experience just listening to this! I now have a blueprint! I just want to live FREE! In doing so, the right people and opportunities will find me and I will finally find my joy. Thank you Pastor Tim!
This brotha is always on point and gets straight to it. Love it all. #freedom
It's interesting to learn that lust comes in different ways other than just sexual. Thanks Mr. Tim
Shucks! That's a word. We can lust after anything... money, position, fame, confidence, control, family, things..
The truth that you preaching is wonderful
Amen! "it's the symptom. It's the fruit, not the root!"
I’m new to the basement. I love it down here!!!
Me too. This is like group therapy
Better to marry than to burn with passion!! You sir are very skillful and a master of psychology! The only thing can keep you from the flesh is discipline and God not man or woman!
Yo this transparency is what we need to change the game!
My body has been waiting 24 years to hear the truth out of my mouth. Thank you so much.
This will be shown and will be the next discussion at my couples gathering because the depth of truth and freedom that is in this message has me on fire. I’m crying in the gym!
“The thought won’t kill you, the act will”
You healed a lot of people today!
The beginning about 'the flesh', the way you taught it so simple and you're right about not looking forward to your counselling appointments with a beautiful woman....teach! You are revealing truth and we all need to hear this...!
I don’t know how intentional this is, but this feels like ministry to me and I really need and appreciate this.
Thank you for holding space about the importance of vulnerability and truth telling. I'd Iove to see a Part 2, laced with Scripture (like this one) on 1) identifying safe people to share with and 2) how to BE a safe Christian so that others can confess in vulnerability to. Thanks!
Thank you for this message Tim. Our past issues needs to have a voice to heal. Continue to flourish!
This was so rich! I’m sharing with my boys, clients and homegirls. I’m going to rewatch with my wife.
I've been totally guilty of hiding sins and constantly falling!!😢 I now rely on the Holy Ghost to lead and guide me!
Your a great pastor for the youth groups
Target that audience
God bless
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 preach!! So real and raw!! Everyone needs this!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is literally so good!! The first video I ran across and I am hooked, the world needs this! Thank you for the realness and transparency. God Bless!
Pastor Tim, I heard you for the 1st time last month at Hope City in Houston and you were amazing! This is your first podcast I’ve listened to….it won’t be my last!
Love the real talk!! You are anointed by God!!
& I speak on it with authority because I’ve walked it , I’ve gone through it I’ve experienced it .
It’s 6am as now “I’m snot crying”…I’ve never heard of you or this basement podcast, somehow I was led here. Thank you.
Top 5 best messages on this calendar year
God bless ❤️
All of this is a form of deliverance.. this was deep. Praise The Most High that I came across this video 🙏🏾
James 5:16 English Standard Version
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"Therefore,confess your sins to one another and pray for one another,that you may be healed."
24:44 is gold 🙌🏽✝️
This is the first time I’ve listened to you and I am thanking the Lord!!! Thank you!! This message and your unique way of delivery is absolutely brilliant- bless you ❤🙏
Tim Fam…. Sir your speaking anointing is 🔥🔥🔥🔥 this happened to me in the Church the most misleading situation EVER .. sleeping with The DEACON.. Father God. I wish I get to speak on your Basement Podcast before 2023 END. In Jesus Name. 🙏🏽🙏🏽💯💯💯💯💯‼️‼️‼️
Thank you for being so transparent there are so many people especially in the body of Christ that needs to be healed. I pray that God will speak and set free all the has been battling with their past
God knows what he is doing. I watch this video early this morning and later today I went to study my bible and it prompted me to read James chapter 1. God is good and this message was definitely for me!! I receive it and I thank God for sending me to your page.
I’m here watching this while I workout, and I just can’t 😂🤣😂😂😂 not cuz it’s bad…nope! It’s actually an amazing podcast. But I just can’t cuz I’m legit cracking up here and running out of breath 🤣😂🤣 I simply can’t listen while I workout 🤣😂🤣😂😂 Love you Tim 😂🤗 Blessings brother! And to the whole team there with you 🙏🏼
Goodness I was just saying the same thing! Like I’m literally. Cracking up tears in my eyes. I’ve had to pause to laugh. Cuz I don’t wanna miss nothing 😂❤
when i was a little kid, i saw my father naked, i heard him trying to have sex with my mom even though she didn't want to because she was on her period, and i even once accidentally walked in on them having sex, which he forced her to. and the night before the day she left him, i had to physically stand between them so he wouldn't slap her, because i heard them arguing and i came to see what was going on. all as a little kid. i used to like watching the "daddy and daughter" type of porn (i'm saved now, so i don't anymore) as a teen into adult age (i'm 21 now), and i never told this to anyone. i didn't think any of it had anything to do with the type of porn i watched, but this video really made it click in my head, so i decided to write this to see if it will set me free as well. anyway, thank you so much for your message, and God bless you ❤️
Comeeeee onnnn. the moment i spoke I felt freedom .... man that was a word, cause I lived that .... that's why I speak up too
this is such a liberating word! It's safer in the basement!!
From the minute you said imma look in the camera sheewww you don't want accountability 🥺 needed that
"If I can bring somebody to Jesus, then I can probably bring someone to my hotel room."...I had to slide my chair back from my computer when you spoke those words. What an awareness of the POWER a Pastor has with the word of God and how you are aware that that power can be abused if you choose to manipulate people that you are attracted to succumb to your fleshy desires. The awareness is amazing, the ability to walk it out is where the "REAL" work happens.
Brother you are the truth!!!! Speaking this way will help SO MANY PEOPLE TO BE FREE!
Bro Tim, this is fire 🔥 for me to hear. I’m not there yet but the journey to vulnerability begins here.
Everyone in and around the world needs to hear this!!! 🙌🏽 Thank you for your transparency, rawness, heartfelt concern and desire to help people get free and live free!! Please don’t stop doing what you’re doing!!!
Bruh this straight up 💯💯💯💯Family!!!! 🔥🔥🔥 Real ones💪🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🩸🩸🩸🩸🔥❤️
Wow, you said you watched porn not because you liked it, but because it was medication for the trauma. That set me free. I used to watch porn so much when I was just 7 years old until I was a teenager. And after I had my baby, i stopped because i didn’t want the same for her Even while pregnant I struggled with it. Recently I figured out it was connected to some insecurities and trauma. You saying this just confirmed everything for me. WOWWW
Even if we still have a sin nature we put our faith in Christ crucified and the holy Spirit must be our helper no matter who we talk to about anything the holy Spirit will help us overcome in time God is long suffering 😊
This topic is needed more. Thank you coachTim for talking candidly about real life, real temptations. Bringing light to sin. Let's go!!!
Thank you JESUS for self control!
HE IS COMING SOON SEEK AFTER RIGHTEOUSNESS!!!
Celebrate Recovery is a Safe Place for Believers to go Speak about they temptation
"The pressure's relative to the call." Bruv…keep going!
Wow wow wow! So many good parts!! “Don’t throw Jesus glitter over the trauma”😭 “Go to therapy” “stop betraying yourself” my God! So good. This’ll set a captive free 🥹
Tim it's not just the flesh, it's what we worship besides Jesus. Idols and patterns.
In the beginning Father held me and I learned to walk around. Practice was required to learn to stay with Father . Now I hold Son soon learning to walk around. Practice required to with Father.
First time watching this channel. Message got a instant subscription
We keep manifesting in our body that what we won't let come out of our mouth. Wow! So true.
I'm watching this and I'm more impressed to ask what was your mother praying for. Because she prayed for healing and there was healing in the entire family. Yes we're all given a choice but a praying mother is so important 🙏🏽
That was a curse on them my God so happy he talked 😢
I’m glade I came to listen 👂🙌🏽
Nah bro what did you just do to my life?!? 😮🤯 I’m absolutely blessed by this seriously! Thank you.
Would love to work with you one day 🙏🏽
🥺🥺🥺 I’m crying tears ..
Sir… I just started following you and My God, you are helping me. Thank you for your obedience and vulnerability. I’m starting therapy because I now believe I’m stressed because I’m not free as a 46 year old woman who was sexually abused at 10.
Kind James verse and First Corinthians verse the temptations of life are no different you just shared just lifted my heart. Thank you.“Common to man “ And living in the flesh ADDS more pressure to your circumstances which are fleeting. Just talking accountability clears the guilt and makes your spirit yearn to learn the word. And yes, I go to therapy.
That’s a shame that we are more afraid of trusting in our brothers in sisters and just confess to God and never get fully healed! Lord help us!!!!!
4:30 If that’s not the realest stuff I’ve ever heard from a pastor…you’ve earned a sub from me.
The candid self-awareness is so refreshing.
Pure heat.
This is a must watch once a week😌
I have always wondered why things become clearer when I speak outoud. When I keep the thoughts in my head i get confused I repeat the same thing and feel lost. Once I speak out loud I can see things clearer and understand what I feel. Crazy