Tim Ross on NOT cheating on his wife, & powerful story from his time as a pastor w-
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Love seeing Black men talk about loving their wives! Beautiful!
I need THIS to be black culture; will the real leaders please stand up!!!
Me too. It’s so fulfilling ❤
😂😂😂😂 imagine not cheating on your wife being a profound statement. Im here like dont cheat on anyone
Right on amen.
@@TheJarlath9Exactly. Not cheating should be the bare minimum.
Women want to be loved out loud like this ❤ praying to get here with a spouse one day
Me too sis!!!!
And men would want to be loud too... but the risk, the risk, the risk is too great.
Same here sis!!!! This is so refreshing!
YES 🙏❤️🙌
Yes!!!
I was literally drinking Grape Juice when Tim said I’m not trading my wife(wine) for grape juice 😳🤦🏾♀️🫤😐🤣
Lol
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Ooooooooffff 😅
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So refreshing to see. I think that I am a unicorn sometimes because I don't cheat on my wife. Aint no holding back sex. Going to bed mad. No propositioning other women. She knows that she is loved and respected.
God bless you ❤
GoD bless you bro keep it up
Keep it up.
Tim's conversation with that young lady BROKE MY HEART because HOW MANY OTHER PASTORS had PREYED UPON HER instead of PRAYING FOR HER!!! 😱🤬😭💔
This was sooooooo real smh 😢
Just sad
Him feeling the need to tell her that was cringey and inappropriate. Let that be your truth and your ACTIONS, you don't need to say that. If that was me, I would have left.
@@nunyabusiness3516I feel you
However remember Tim said the Holy Spirit told him to say that. It’s what the young lady needed to hear & see it.
@@deelosupreme5630 - My thoughts exactly yet I also respect where @nunyabusiness3516 is coming from.
Due to how she received it I feel as though it was confirmation him saying it was Holy Ghost led. 🙏🏾
We NEED this example and conversation more! Men talking the talk and walking the walk ❤
Be faithful!!
These are the conversations to be had all 2024. Stop talking about tables please!
Y’all brothas gotta know how important this conversation is for young men like me to hear. This is golden
“I been with six different women” as she changed and grew etc.. that’s deep if more people could think on this level! Whoah
When Kev has a word he has a word🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬🎬
Indeed. Respect!!
Indeed. Respect..
True
This video needs to be broadcasted everywhere. Gods way in marriage is the only way.
Amen 🙏
That's not what thet said.
They say
Bees don't spend time explaining to flies why honey is better than shit
Oooooooo I needed to read this. ❤
Honey!!!!!!!! That touched my soul❤❤❤
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😂 Thank you for putting this in my mental rolodex ❤
Listennn!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This was sooooo good!!! I just had a convo with my bestfriend about my abstinence. I told her the next time I have sex I want it to be with my husband so I can express outwardly how that person makes me feel emotionally. Sex outside of marriage is overrated in my opinion.
Very overrated
Very overrated. I was abstinent for 4 years before I met my husband and it was the best decision ever. We both practiced abstinence while courting and waited until marriage. It’s worth the wait!
Man I love this.I’m single and 37. I talk to GOD all the time and I try not to even look at random women I speak and treat them nice but that’s it. I’ve been in the grocery store and the gym and I’ve literally had women come in front of me while I was working out and bend over to get weights I’ve had women in stores flirt with their eyes and try to come close to me ain’t none of that worth it to me I want my future wife to be secure knowing that I’m for her and only her
So so great 😊
And cheating takes away that safety, security, trust etc from the bedroom, also how you treat your wife impacts those things. Men want to cheat and mistreat and still get sex.
Yeah they do
Theres women who aren't here anymore or struggling with their health because their husband decided to cheat & bring home HIV.
The thought of allowing someone to touch me after infidelity makes my skin crawl
In My Experience You Are Absolutely Correct.
Please God let me have this kind of love!
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It warms my soul to hear black men speaking like this about their wives. Warms me to the core.
This deserves All the views and more than Katt Williams on Club Shay Shay. Great content!
Equal too in the context of GOD!!!
Facts!
I have no social media but I can relate to this. After making a vowel in front of witnesses to be faithful to one woman(wife) until I die, I stand on it! Self-Discipline is one of my best qualities, and my word is all I have. Man up, woman up or dont get into any commitments long-term, especially marriage. Know who you are and what your role in a marriage. If we control our minds, followed by our hearts, we can control our bodies. Also, we can control what goes into our ears and comes out of our mouth. If you know nothing, you can't teach anything. Good day to you all.
I love this. Blessings to you and your wife!!
Love this advice!❤
I say this all the time. Self-Control & Integrity are priorities BEFORE you make a covenant. If you lack either, don’t Vow to GOD or a spouse. Immature people excuses. Mature ones keep their word. Teach it Brother‼️
I needed this. God is preparing me for my marriage, and this was helpful!
These men exist. I have one 😊❤. Yours is one the way.
Truth!
This why I used to hate when I heard people say “you have to do what you did in the beginning” when we’re not the same person and not married to the same person.
And for me, I was terrible in the beginning so I can’t go back to being that guy 😂.
That wine analogy was 🔥🔥🔥
I gave up on relationships. I just watch everyone else be happy. 7 years in. 90 more to go
Whewwww!! I thank you, Lord for my husband!!! He is a man that knows how to lead, PROPERLY, not “PERFECTLY” I love my husband so much! This is the type of conversation s that he and I have. I’ve never had that before and I thank him second to God for being patient with teaching me!! Thank you, Jesus!! Spiritual Growth and Guidance is needed in all marriages!! ❤️🙏🏽
I have been married for 40 years and definitely can relate when they said that your marriage transitions through the years , because you both change to different human beings which is a healthy part of life. Sometimes the other person can’t relate to their partner, because they don’t want them to grow or evolve which translates to getting divorced or worst cheating. But those of us who stay together & respect our spouse and gracefully embrace their progress have successful long term relationships. 😊❤️
Glad I have this growth mindset. Hopefully one day I’ll find someone who will do the same
All I have to say is THANK YOU!!! How wonderful it is to hear 2 men talking about how they LOVE their wives and being married.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
" we divorced ourselves from the marriage that no longer worked" 🔥🔥🔥
From the version of our marriage that no longer works... Barssss
W A I T ! ? WHAT !?!?
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That one line is going to save some marriages out here !
So how do you determine if it’s worth fixing? We quit so easily on marriage
See most marriages take 15 plus years to really get and we quit after 6 or my ex wife quit after 9
Thank you brothers for letting me see there is still men in this world that is committed to having a faithful committed relationship with one partner...so deep and inspiring for me..Thank you.
I mean what I said when I made these vows. I have made the decision that there is not another option.I agree and I just got married two months ago. This is such a great clip that more men need to hear. So many Christian men cheat and think it’s ok.
It's not okay for Christain men to cheat! It's an abomination!
That young lady’s story is my story and God has restored .. thank you Lord 😢
I’m single-and y’all discussing this was my favorite part of the show! We need more men to understand this (and stay out our DMs 😩)!! Keep your paletes on the finer things in life gents! EXCELLENT analogy. 🍷❤
Totally agree! The feeling of having sex without the condemnation was so free and wonderful! Thank God for sending me my wife!
I’m getting married in December and I am hoping, praying and working towards my marriage being like this.
I absolutely adored this whole conversation yesterday! It is so encouraging!
I absolutely love everything about this. Each of them have solid characters. It makes sense that they’re with excellent women. They match their character.
This is great content brothers. I’m 11 years in the game…faithful and focused! 💯
God, bless these gentlemen so they can reach out to more brothers with this powerful message.
Amen 🙏🏿
WOW😮, this is "THE BEST" honest, direct, passionate conversation I've heard about commitment, sacrifice, discipline, integrity, trust, covenant, wisdom, obedience to God regarding HIS COVENANT CALLED MARRIAGE❤❤❤❤❤❤👐🏿👐🏿👐🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿! I am sharing this with a "whole lot" of men who I know!!!! God's peace, blessing, and love👍🏿!
Thank you guys for the maturity of this conversation. Wish more brothers could level up.
I’m a single woman never married. This was a restoration of humanity that I needed. This came to my attention on purpose. Thank you God and thank you gentlemen. Blessings!
Tbh I’m not the biggest supporter of Tim Ross, but this is a really good healthy real convo. Props👏🏽
Also, cheating on your spouse leads to burning in a fiery bottomless abyss forever and forever, that's a good reason too.
Love this. Everyone cheats for void. And boredom . And mainly disrespect. For one, cheating on a person is just disrespect not just what you’ve invested but what you have disrespected.
Been a fan of kev from marriage be hard. But hearing the integrity of how he interacts with female employees made me a bigger fan
"We divorced ourselves from the version of our marriage that no longer worked."
This made me want to run around my air bnb! Jesus!
You said it-VALUE!!!!!!!!!! It's very easy to tear up and leave something that is not deemed valuable. God bless y'all!
👏👏👏👏👏. Thank you for doing this for the community. We need more positive black male role models like y'all flooding the web and not the debased crap we're dished out telling us to devalue ourselves and good men if character don't exist!
This was a real Man convo, 💯
RESPECT TO THESE MEN. GOD BLESS YA’LL
"so you're always finding each other." -Kev ...From a poetic standpoint, that's a beautiful perspective.
Kev spit that wine knowledge from Chateau Elan 😂😂😂
This was sooo good Men of God these conversations are so needed thank you for your truths & realness.. 🙏🏾👏🏾
"I picked mine!" sends meeeeeeeeee 🤣
"We divorced ourselves from the version of our marriage that no longer worked."
Wooo! That's a whole word right there! And I love how it enforces the idea that "it's us against the problem, and never us against each other."
The fastest way to kill something special is to compare it to something else
Great interview!!!
This snippet was fantastic.
Needed to hear this. Glad God brought me here 🙏
This is one of the most honest and mature conversations between men of God, pertaining to marriage, I’ve ever….. EVER been privy to hear. Soooo seasoned with flat out wisdom.
This is HOPE right here. Priceless. I wish this for everyone 🙏🏼
This conversation straight bars 🎯
Right! Y’all know you got it good with the wives you have. Glad to hear you understand that! 👏🏾👏🏾Nuff respect to y’all. ✊🏼✊🏽
This is made me run around my house!! A word!! Thank you Tim and Kevin!! This was an amazing interview and very insightful!
“ We divorced ourselves from the part of our marriage, that no longer worked!” I love this. ❤
This was a really good conversation! I can relate to Kev about the sex before marriage subject.
It's stella rosa catchin strays that has me cackling
We need moooore of these kind of podcasts. I loooove this
Absolutely 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thanks for locking in, Kings!
Yall betta SAY THAT. These are words of wisdom. What is understood does not need to be explained.
My GOD! I LOVE THIS! My Prayer is that every couple with have this bliss with each other!❤
You better preach Kevin!!!!!!
This is DEEP! WELL SAID!!!!
These men have said it better than anyone could ever explain❤❤
I love seeing you both together ❤
Awe I like Stella Rosa tho 🤣😭😭😭
Me too and I’m not going to trade my husband for grapes
Thank you for putting the 'cigarette moments' first in the video. it's the ultimate podcast hook.
This convention did my heart good!!!
Love this!!! This is a conversation that’s needed but I also feel there needs to be a discussion about the other side of it cause all ppl aren’t perfect and both men and women have made mistakes even pastors. Let’s have a conversation about grace and rehabilitation from these mistakes.
I’d like to see that too I think. Trying to trust a man that has left you for another woman is sooooo hard, almost impossible 💔
Standing Ovation!!!👏🏾 this is a WORD
Sending this to my hubby now! We are 22 years in, this is so goood❤
What a POWERFUL conversation!! I’m so encouraged! Thanks men of God!
I love this!!! Problem is we live in an era where everyone wants everything fast and now. More me need to watch this.
I picked mine!!! I’m all in!! ❤
Did Kev say CRAN-APPLE???? 😂😂😂😂
I love ALL OF THIS. Great conversation.
Well God Thank You! All the smart people are Not Dead👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Hallelujah✨
Dope analogy. Awesome conversation.
Watching from. Kenya 🇰🇪 in East Africa
Bottle this conversation and give it away!!! ❤
☀️🙏🏾🌅👑❤️ and thank you for loving our young women. That really touched me in the beginning. 😯😑😢
This needed to be a longer segment. It blessed me.
Amen!!! All glory to Jesus Christ!! What God joins together let no man put asunder!! God bless your families!!!💙
Singles edtions : I am somebody's fine wine. I will not allow anyone to treat me like grape juice lol We are worth the wait!
Came upon this podcast and glad I did. Really enjoyed this conversation!
Loved all 3+ hrs of this!
Damn.. I needed to hear this. Thank You 😢✊🏾.
Thissss. I am a newlywed with my high school sweetheart ❤ and we are not the same people who we were when we originally met. However we are both committed to growing in love together! Also the intimacy feels so much better without the guilt of fornication tied to it. Overall marriage is work but it is beautiful to be able to grow together 😊. I’ll stick to my fine wine 🥰.
Wow this is so good. I have learned this for sure. Mistakes and all and I'm on my second marriage and knowledge is power. Thanks fellas for speaking on this so eloquently.
This conversation is so refreshing! God bless you!
The depth of your wisdom is on another level 🔥
Why can't the response just be simple. I'm a good human. Cheating is a matter of your integrity not if there is someone or something better or worse. Simply your integrity.
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Amen
Don’t let your good be evil spoken of.
So real men do exist. Whew thank God