Her 26yr friend was murdered by her Husband because she wanted a divorce. She just gave birth..

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    0:00 - Her best friend was murdered by her husband
    10:50 - She fumbles all of her dates due to nerves..
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  • @starznmyeyez8906
    @starznmyeyez8906 2 місяці тому +44

    Ladies stop getting sassy at the mouth and telling the man you are leaving. You MUST move in silence. 💯

  • @prettiilexii672
    @prettiilexii672 2 місяці тому +51

    Don't stay ladies, leave at the first sign of abuse!!!! It is okay to leave in the very beginning.

    • @fanny2fr3sh
      @fanny2fr3sh 2 місяці тому +6

      Exit Strategy Always!!

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 місяці тому +2

      Report It Immediately...then Leave Asap!!!!

  • @VitaInDC
    @VitaInDC 2 місяці тому +52

    I've read repeatedly that the most dangerous time with an abusive man is when you're leaving him. Just go when he's not around and tell him over the phone from an undisclosed location and get a Court Stay Away Order. If he's really crazy, you might need to change jobs.

    • @1120forevrr
      @1120forevrr 2 місяці тому +14

      Don’t tell him shhhhhh

    • @calikeisha365
      @calikeisha365 2 місяці тому +20

      Get all of your mail moved to a PO Box, hire a private investigator to watch his every move and then plan your steps around his movements, get your name changed, and quit job, move to another state and then file for restraining orders, don’t forget to get your conceal and carry license. Good luck and stay safe!

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@calikeisha365WOW!!! You sound like you been through it. Mann, you had to go through all of that?? Mann. Crazy!

  • @user-ml9up2xf2b
    @user-ml9up2xf2b 2 місяці тому +11

    To be honest that resonated with me. I’m the strong friend that people call but people really think everything’s okay because no one ever asks . And when I do go through something I only share the resolution. Till this day none of my friends knew that my husband would rape me and physically abuse me. People just think you’re okay because you smile all the time and are bubbly. But what they don’t know is that you’re suffering, and embarrassed. I can say for all certainty God delivered me from my horrific situation and I thank him for that. ❤

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 2 місяці тому +13

    Please Ladies, Do NOT Tolerate abuse from a partner. Period! Report it and Move On....Immediately!!!

    • @chanklinesk7704
      @chanklinesk7704 2 місяці тому

      You realise its not that/as easy as you people online make it out to be

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 місяці тому +1

      @@chanklinesk7704 Nobody said it was easy.

  • @zlane6532
    @zlane6532 2 місяці тому +20

    This makes me so angry. He beat her bloody in the face so he didn't stop when she was crying, screaming for him to stop then he took it further. He's going to pretend he's sorry but there's no remorse in his soul, he just only sorry he's been exposed. Dark souls don't want to be brought into the light

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 2 місяці тому +8

    People dont check up on their strong friends. They just use their strong friends for advice or stregth to lean on...or for them to cheer them up. But when we need a little of the same...or just someone to even check up and say hi how are you(genuinely)...they aint there...unfortunately. It is what it is.

  • @lastsupper8716
    @lastsupper8716 2 місяці тому +8

    One day I forgot to disable my location and was easily tracked down so also make sure to disable location. Check for any kind of tracking devices whether physical or electronic.

  • @sherryderrywade7712
    @sherryderrywade7712 2 місяці тому +17

    This type of behavior from a man has signs and red flags before the ‘ultimate’……people need to know the signs….and escape quietly….sometimes one CANNOT their plans to leave an abusive, controlling relationship.

  • @Bkblackrose
    @Bkblackrose 2 місяці тому +21

    Her own parents saw signs. The man was aggressive towards them…. It is very hard to help those in abusive relationships. They have to want help. But shame, manipulation and isolation plays a huge role. Also a sense of helplessness.. So sad 😞.

  • @kimmy225
    @kimmy225 2 місяці тому +6

    Wow wow wow my aunt was unalived by her ex husband too. Left behind two kids. It sucks so much. 😞 she was a super sweet person.

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 місяці тому +2

      Unfortunately, a lot of these predators look for super sweet women to prey on and break and all that. SMH 😔

  • @Twinklestar932
    @Twinklestar932 2 місяці тому +10

    I pretend everything is fine. Wait till they go to work an move to another state or so far

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 місяці тому +2

      But 1st, report it. Make sure he's reported as abusive. Cause yall doing that, but if yall don't report it...imagine what it's gonna be for the next partner...much worse. This is probably 1 of those cases.

  • @AshleyT716
    @AshleyT716 2 місяці тому +4

    This was so sad SMH I pray for this beautiful young lady and the family and friends of her friend who unfortunately passed. Please be careful out here, ladies. This was definitely a lesson. Unfortunately it had to become a lesson in that way. But please vet properly and pay attention to the signs.

  • @kendras.9772
    @kendras.9772 2 місяці тому +3

    The enemy takes people’s lives prematurely.God got you sweetheart ❤

  • @lotannaob4541
    @lotannaob4541 2 місяці тому +24

    It’s been so many males killing their significant others lately 😢

    • @Debra-OK1955
      @Debra-OK1955 2 місяці тому +2

      So true, It's a dangerous world.

    • @Hjwoqjqbwkk
      @Hjwoqjqbwkk 2 місяці тому +10

      Lately?

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Hjwoqjqbwkk😂😂

    • @PrettyBones-ho4rq
      @PrettyBones-ho4rq Місяць тому

      A blk man is killing a BW every four hours daily, smh.

    • @Hjwoqjqbwkk
      @Hjwoqjqbwkk 21 день тому

      @@MrTwonetwone Like be so for real, this has happened since the beginning of humanity, the only difference is now we have social networks.

  • @calikeisha365
    @calikeisha365 2 місяці тому +4

    I saw this story. This is so sad!!!

  • @The_black_Madonna
    @The_black_Madonna 2 місяці тому +8

    Some friends are hard 👂🏿.

  • @uniquewalker120
    @uniquewalker120 2 місяці тому

    The same guy that allowed this you need. WOW 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @jamipty
    @jamipty 2 місяці тому +6

    👉🏽 Ashley, you look stunning!! 🤩

  • @MsJouvert
    @MsJouvert 2 місяці тому +4

    So sad 😢😢😢😢

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 2 місяці тому +1

    Ambers dad seems street I’m surprised it went this way. My dad has a similar demeanor but he’s very gangster when it comes to his family. If a guy tried to square up with him or threaten him it would be handled.

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 місяці тому +1

      Don't judge a book by its cover ma.

  • @chanklinesk7704
    @chanklinesk7704 2 місяці тому

    What’s sad is the parents kinda had an indications of how he was abusive and even had an altercation with him before she gave birth

  • @EzraIsrael-cb4st
    @EzraIsrael-cb4st 2 місяці тому +6

    HAVE A PLAN FOR LEAVING EMERGENCY MONEY FOR A HOTEL ROOM TO STAY SAFE UNTIL YOU HAVE A PERSONAL PROTECTION ORDER PROCESS THEN RETURNING BACK WITH POLICE 🚔 TO HAVE BOYFRIEND IR HUSBAND MOVE OUT OF THE RESIDENCE NEVER BECOME A VICTIMIZED PERSON FROM A RETALIATION OF PHYSICAL ATTACK WOUNDED OR SHOT BY FIREARM ITS NOT WORTH THE RISK OF STAYING IN THE SAME PLACE

  • @ebonidaneen5639
    @ebonidaneen5639 2 місяці тому +1

    So sad pray for the family. I know 2 murder suicide black men that snapped both left 2 children.

  • @AsToldByDesiree
    @AsToldByDesiree 2 місяці тому

    Wow this first story got me messed up 😭

  • @BambiiSymone
    @BambiiSymone 2 місяці тому +14

    Idk if its js me or not but something doesnt feel genuine from her story or feelings..

    • @1120forevrr
      @1120forevrr 2 місяці тому

      Which part ? I’m prob not at that part yet but which part

    • @cheriew2512
      @cheriew2512 2 місяці тому +5

      She knew things weren’t great with the husband. But what more was she supposed to do? Sounds like she should have left him a long time ago, and quietly. The poor woman 😢

    • @pthesmith
      @pthesmith 2 місяці тому +4

      Are you thinking she did not know the girl as well as she says?

    • @lisak8168
      @lisak8168 2 місяці тому +11

      Everyone isn’t the same no do they express their emotions in the same way.

    • @lindyking2015
      @lindyking2015 2 місяці тому +12

      Omgg I was thinking the same. Its somthing about her energy. Why would you even come on and talk about your dead friend, especally when its so fresh and tragic? I dont think they were that close

  • @Richard-Reloaded
    @Richard-Reloaded 2 місяці тому +3

    🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @rozaleos
    @rozaleos 2 місяці тому +3

    9:32 if you are a friend of a married friend, leave her alone. She is married. Mind your business. Don’t invite her nowhere. Respect her marriage.

  • @raymondhenderson1750
    @raymondhenderson1750 2 місяці тому +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @drob691
    @drob691 2 місяці тому +3

    9:45 Thats because God is not real. Wake up yall

  • @rozaleos
    @rozaleos 2 місяці тому +8

    Don’t marry if you think divorce is an option.

    • @labellegene7971
      @labellegene7971 2 місяці тому +8

      Many of us get married and don’t think about divorce. He could have changed as soon as they got married or when he found out she was pregnant

    • @justlurkin
      @justlurkin 2 місяці тому +2

      @@labellegene7971 you must not know what the term "option" means.

    • @Time4change111
      @Time4change111 2 місяці тому +4

      Sometimes people get tricked by the devil in sheep clothing unknowingly and marry someone God did not tell them to that turns out to be a demon/nightmare. Pray and if God gives you the green light then it is ABSOLUTELY time to get out of dodge no matter how anyone feel about it because God knows who's hiding behind that mask and what that person is planning. Marriage is only meant between the two people God agrees with being together anything less is damage waiting to occur. God bless and stay safe out there all.

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Time4change111naw y’all just ignore red flags 🚩

    • @justlurkin
      @justlurkin 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Time4change111 God actually had things to say about divorce and it wasn't that. You're making up your own bible verses

  • @kekejefferson9219
    @kekejefferson9219 2 місяці тому

    In your religion it says your God gives humans free will. So there are bad people in the world. There are generally signs for you to get away from the evil people.
    Saying god allowed is an lazy excuse for not protecting yourself.
    Newsflash- everybody's God does different things. My God says I'm not directing you who to marry, where to work or where to move. So don't say what her God allowed because we all have our own God that instruct us to do different things.