It really isn't wise to self diagnosis even for adults. The Left and their political Party has accelerated to utter madness in their belief that 3 year olds and underage children, who we all know still believe in magical thinking, are able to diagnosis themselves.
@@OrwellsHousecat It's a medical condition as soon as we start giving medicine for it. Drug interventions are prescribed for many types of people who are not ill.
Our 13 yr old came out trans, ftm, out of the blue. We didn’t buy it. She did it anyway, becoming a narcissistic, cruel manipulator. My husband and I were in agreement, but the despair nearly split us up. We had to board her with another family because we couldn’t handle the strife. We needed to protect our other kids. We emancipated her at 17; paid for her to live in an apartment alone. She’s 20 now, has chosen no contact, we still pay her rent. She’s autistic, and we we’d rather pay than think of how she’d get by. She has a job of some kind, since we pay for nothing else. It’s been 2 years with no contact. We rediscovered our faith, have a stronger marriage than ever and a wonderful relationship with our 2 remaining kids. We are unbelievably grateful for them. We both had to rebuild our confidence as parents. It took 5 years, every stage of grief, to let her go. Still feels like a ghost limb on our hearts. There are no guarantees in parenthood.
Sad for you i am sure, autistic people get sucked into all kinds of things including "friends" that use them . I am in the opposite position my family has chosen to have no contact as well as my siblings.Oddly people that know me well know exactly why i transitioned, my dad does as well just does not like it , always tried to "remodel me" .
Can I point out that the women objecting to the breast feeding male were largely objecting to the fact that his “milk” has none of the nourishment qualities of ordinary women’s breast milk and that that man was putting his needs before those of a vulnerable infant who would be, as a consequence starved of proper nutrients, antibodies etc. It was the narcissism in him that put his needs before the child’s. Also, there is a move now for damaged infants to be acceptable in society in order that the women transitioning to male can continue to take testosterone whilst pregnant which alters the formation and function of the placenta through which the foetus is nourished. The notion is in order for “men” I.e. trans men I.e. women on testosterone, to experience “motherhood” equally with women, society should accept infants/children with damage because “perfect” babies is too high a standard to reach for and really isn’t necessary. Thalidomide anyone?
your statement is true through and through..but the core of the trans movement has always come from a place of trying to defy the raw facts of biology by attempting to redefine them.
The idea of infants ingesting that chemical liquid makes me physically nauseous. Even more because I know that that evil creature is getting off on it. It’s so morally repulsive I’m disgusted that society allows and glorifies this behavior. We’re a lost and soulless people.
Thank you for offering this discussion. I feel my daughter falls into the category of “I’m not totally sure but feel stuck so I’m just gonna do it to move forward with my life.” And since she’s over 18 I can’t stop her anymore. I’m not seeing this really discussed in terms of peer pressure. And that’s what I’m seeing at play here. Like many trans-identifying youth my daughter is “high functioning” autistic and finally found her peer group, and of course she wants to fit in and prove herself. Taking T in this context is another version of taking drugs because of peer pressure. Unfortunately that process is now fully facilitated by doctors and therapists and much of society.
Autistic children are particularly vulnerable to this trans trend. I have a child who is also autistic but is fortunate because they don't have friends who have any interest in it. My heart really goes out to you. Doctors and therapists who participate in this need to be held to account one day because there is now enough evidence now that transitioning children with rapid onset gender dysphoria has little or no positive benefits. In countries like Sweden they have dramatically shifted their approach because of this. We know as adults that at 18, they are still really children - especially those with autism.
Does anybody know how to prevent autistic children from falling into this trap? I have an autistic toddler and want to know what we as parents can do NOW to prevent future tragedy. It’s really hard to find any discussions about this topic.
@@central_scrutinizr be very careful about the media they consume and what they’re exposed to in general. No unsupervised screen time. If your child has more severe symptoms that may actually be protective…. As soon as s/he is ready, talk to him/her about boys and girls and explain that one can’t turn into the other. Biggest concerns: social media, schools & peers, and any professionals they may interact with.
I think dads will finish this. I know mine has spent his whole life getting so much done every day and helping so many people I just don't even know how he does it.
Such a tragedy. The mothers quivering voice really makes that hit home. She lost her son. The boy lost his mother, on top of everything else. So sad. 😢
I grew up in the late 2000 to early 2010 when I graduated high school. I was extremely gender nonconforming. And just as you say, when I hit my mid 20s I began to accept who I am as a man. I’m very thankful because my family was always accepting of me, I would not be who I am today without my conservative centrist family. It truest does worry me that if I were to go through the same thing I a time like this, that I would have also transitioned. I considered transition in high school, but realized I actually love my body for what it is. Kids need time to figure themselves out. Without anyone, including family, trying to actively endorse this trans ideology.
Your interviews are so important as a social record. And always so comprehensive. There must come a point where your recordings are so numerous that they can be used as a serious body of evidence for institutions which need to know this stuff? Have you ever considered transcribing them all, publishing them (or extracts). Maybe it would be possible to bring a medical researcher on board?
No one points out that the entire family unit is sacrificed around the one person. Whether spoken or unspoken every conversation, every interaction is now centered around this. I wonder if any investigation has been made into how siblings, spouses, grandparents are affected.
Worth reading new research from Professor Sarah-Jane Blakemore Professor of Cognitive Neuroscience in the UK who found out why adolescence through MRI imaging, over years, is an essential process for the successful growth of the adult human brain. Interrupting that causes the brain to not leave childhood or have the neuronal and dendritic capacity to manage all the challenges of adulthood.
Thanks for the reference. Of course her research will be used to support brain-computer-implants and the gov regularly scanning your brain. Clockwork Orange is coming. Only this time they will be correcting anyone who disagrees with the gov
That’s amazing! Also, common sense. Who needs proof that the natural functions of our development have a purpose 🙃 those who can’t see that from the start are So dissociated
Yes, can confirm that more and more parents are now starting to question the "diagnosis" of gender dysphoria and the actions that they have been coerced into medicalising their children. These parents are really badly emotionally damaged now too, so we have to lean in with love to them and not judge past behaviour if they are truly out of the cult, just as we do with desisters and detransitioners.
yeah, a lot of parents knew nothing about all of this until their child suddenly comes out as trans. Then they're scrambling to learn about it and there are so many people acting as authorities on the topic that will scare them into supporting total affirmation and medical transition. They fear their child will unalive themselves if they don't. There are psychologists and doctors that will assure them this is the only way, and they'll assume the research must back it up otherwise they wouldn't say that, right?
It's not that many do or don't have G/D its that they're are different forms of it and they are not actually checking for a history of it . G/D is a real thing but what causes it may not be permanent, if you are very GNC though that does not just change one day , irrelevant being gay or not but almost all very GNC children are attracted to the same sex, the assumption by Alasdair is you must live "as gay" which is nonsense. Tell people the truth about what their life may be like, give them options either way . ua-cam.com/video/q3Ub65CwiRI/v-deo.html
Fathers need to step up - your sons need a role model not a wibbly-wobbly jelly-baby and your daughters need a loving, stable male to balance out the BS that is being rammed down everybody's throat about male toxicity and predatory interest.
Even when I never saw issues with the trans movement and thought it was the next gay movement, I did feel sorry for the parents. It's nothing like your child coming out as gay. I'm confused by people who could so easily accept their children doing this to their bodies and minds. It is a total head f***.
In some instances maybe building a literal fort would help both father and child. Doing physical activities helps one center into their body but exercising is sadly becoming more rare as many isolate themselves on their phone and internet, especially when they get stuck in questioning themselves. I think some of the mental anguish and frustration people feel can be diminished with proper exercise, if you also do group trainings then that's a real social experience too! 💖
I believe that is very true. It puts you very much "in touch" with your body rather than disassociation from it. It gives you a chance to really get to know your body and appreciate what it can do.
It is so WILD hearing moms describe the scrutiny and lack of support they get when skeptical because of the "blue" environments they are in. I'm not in that kind of environment, and it's medium terrifying to contemplate our echo chambers.
I really resonated with the male perspective in this conversation and the way our society portrays/respects the father in the family. A conversation that needs to continue and bear fruit.
59:15 Well transvestites often work as prostitutes. There is more chance the child will become a prostitute if they engage in the “trans” scene, not less.
That is quite common in poorer countries for a number of reasons, not so true in western countries depending on economic class . Out of 10 or so passing transsexuals i can think of just one that is in sex work albeit the very high end Euro. I am not counting sugar babies because most women do not count that as prostitution...cars ect. Most that i know just want a boy friend / husband and a normal life away from...the lifestyle.
that question might have been more pertinent 10 years ago. but at this point "the machine" is self-sustaining with so many internet forums dedicated to the cause. the power of moderation on the internet to shape the message and deny counter-content is everything. in the past when there was really only print media and television, this level of sustained social contagion was nowhere near as easy to set in motion. nowadays these messages can proliferate (forever) in 'security through obscurity' among the vastness of the internet. the proliferation of smartphones turned the internet into the greatest "double-edged sword" humans have ever invented. all you have to do is look at the first group of doctors that started offering to do these procedures (and the profits they turned) to find out who was pushing it.
It’s well known now who is pushing this. A few billionaires who are AGP but want to play pretend Trans and and play god who are financing LGB organisations to push “Trans” ideology. They have large capitalist companies. The researcher who can provide all the info for you is Jennifer Bilek. You’ll find her article on The Tablet online. She’s on UA-cam.
I can’t understand why people can’t remember history. People like Mengele performed experiments like this. In the US, we had asylum patients who were used like lab rats, especially for sterilization experiments.
Yes, I'm 70, and in my lifetime, I've oberved we've gone form homosexuality is illegal to make gay marriage legal - in less than 50 years in Australia. At 16, it wasn't even socially acceptable for me to wear blue denim jeans with a male fly (zipper in the front), lol. It was considered highly rebellious!Now, extreme sex stereotypes are considered true females/women (transition). Seems to me, we still don't accept homosexuality, but, happily morph it into conformity (the trans movement. Totally sad.
But the issue is the high number of kids and adults steered into medical interventions when they actually do more harm than good. Transition works well for some.
@carolynbrightfield8911 do you think it's because being trans is seen as a medical condition whereas being gay is seen as a sexual perversion. Parents prefer the former
If I were a teacher, I would never push this BS. In fact, I would actively oppose it. (I probably wouldn't last very long, though.) And I totally agree with Alisdair that children need a father - hopefully a good father, but even a mediocre father is better that none.
Many have opposed this, Al’s been fired, doxxed, etc. the pressure to shut up is very deep and when you have hundreds screaming at you that you are bigoted, you lose your job, and cps can come for your child if you don’t affirm…it is a society wide manipulation of those who spoils be protecting our kids
1:15:19 "The dad just came home" - yes, and then helped mom with the discipline. "Just wait until your father gets home!" They also rolemodeled the discipline of working all day or whatever else. Of course if you go way back, the male kids went along with dad to work once they were 12 years old or so.
This issue alone, have persuaded me to change my political affiliation. My kids are all grown up, but I’m horrified to see what the trans ideology, with the support of the current government, is doing to children and young people.
Just a thought: as a mom of a rogd girl, I find a lot of información to read or hear.Pitt is a great source(because of its specific caracteristics) but for boys parents there are not so many sources whwere they talk about what thwy are living, feeling...And being able to express how they personally feel without being judged... Great job what you three are doing. Thanks!
I had to look up rogd because I thought it may be a typo. It looks to me as if they make up new categories to justify things. They can’t say “stop, there’s a problem here”. They just give it a new name and say “oops it happens suddenly now”. There’s no coincidence that when you label something and make it a fad, kids will join it. Kind of like with “depression”. Now if somebody is having a bad day the solution is a pill because they are pathological for having a bad day. Or if a kid hates school it’s adhd and we drug them. They can label being left handed a disease and make pills to sell if they want to.
It destroys the family as it gives the child power that doesn't fit well in the parent child dynamic and they do use it as a weapon . Speaking from experience
It laden them with disproportionate power prior to them having gained the maturity and skills to deal with the very predictably damaging longterm outcomes.
You're right. We should even further deconstruct and atomize what it is to be a woman and to be a man. I'm sure that'll make things better. If you ask me, all of human beings throughout history are wrong. But people like me and you, hey, we got it figured out. Am I right?
Humans are not blank slates, but sexually, the majority have wide variation in their attraction, and it can be hijacked by environments and exposure to sexually deviant content at developmental stages, which can shape ones sexuality and self conception.
Oh hell no I wouldn’t cave to this ever. I would tell my kid their delusional & need mental help. I would lay it out plainly “you will be medical patient for the rest of your life” you will be in pain for the rest of your life. Accept the body God gave you. I wouldn’t care if my kid hated me threaten suicide you name it. I would stand my ground no matter what.
Some parents have-and had the children removed from them for being “unsafe”. I think this is a good method in places where they can’t be removed from parents for it
Aren't we all kind of wishing that the fathers would all come with pitch forks and run these people out of the villiage? I am. That's what I'd want to do. I agree with Alistair that it's best to have both the father and mother with the family but if the parents are same-sex I do believe that as long as there are opposite sex rolemodels all should be well. Gay boys need traditionally masculine gay male rolemodels. All we see is the efiminate gay man flitting about, weak etc not the reality of what being a gay man is which is just normal, strong and capable.
So basically what you're saying is that effeminate gay men are weak, and are not strong or capable. And this is helping young gay boys how exactly? Why are you implying that to be feminine is to be weak?
@@OrwellsHousecatlol. Really? Most of YT is filled with male philosophers and male narrators. Most billionaires are male, and money is the only thing that brings power and matters anymore.
33:00 the mothers feel suicidal. That's because the mother is losing the primary position of molding & shaping & controlling the son. Many mothers threaten suicide to regain stronger control over their sons. It's called trauma-bonding
Control and influence shifts drastically over night for our families. Many of us parents are over engaged and some of this desire to transition or adopt a new identity is natural individuating through very maladaptive means - being encouraged and concretized all around us. Trauma bonding and/ or true fear for your child’s long term health and well being? As well as having your own beliefs turned upside down- the grief - the gaslighting - it’s just not so simple as to ascribe one theory. Be careful not to simplify this.
@@MyriamRichardsdotter they do it to both sons & daughters, but more to sons because boys show more signs of independence & difference which the mother interprets as existential threat. Sometimes, the kid does it back to the mother saying that the kid is suicidal unless it gets what it wants (does that sound familiar from the current discourse?).
Children should not be self-diagnosing medical conditions.
It's not a medical condition
@@OrwellsHousecat semantics... it becomes a medical condition for anyone who follows through with the "treatments"..
It really isn't wise to self diagnosis even for adults. The Left and their political Party has accelerated to utter madness in their belief that 3 year olds and underage children, who we all know still believe in magical thinking, are able to diagnosis themselves.
Itis a psychiatric condition
@@OrwellsHousecat It's a medical condition as soon as we start giving medicine for it. Drug interventions are prescribed for many types of people who are not ill.
Our 13 yr old came out trans, ftm, out of the blue. We didn’t buy it. She did it anyway, becoming a narcissistic, cruel manipulator. My husband and I were in agreement, but the despair nearly split us up. We had to board her with another family because we couldn’t handle the strife. We needed to protect our other kids.
We emancipated her at 17; paid for her to live in an apartment alone. She’s 20 now, has chosen no contact, we still pay her rent. She’s autistic, and we we’d rather pay than think of how she’d get by. She has a job of some kind, since we pay for nothing else. It’s been 2 years with no contact.
We rediscovered our faith, have a stronger marriage than ever and a wonderful relationship with our 2 remaining kids. We are unbelievably grateful for them. We both had to rebuild our confidence as parents.
It took 5 years, every stage of grief, to let her go. Still feels like a ghost limb on our hearts. There are no guarantees in parenthood.
Absolutely heartbreaking, I’m so sorry. We are in a similar boat.
Sad for you i am sure, autistic people get sucked into all kinds of things including "friends" that use them . I am in the opposite position my family has chosen to have no contact as well as my siblings.Oddly people that know me well know exactly why i transitioned, my dad does as well just does not like it , always tried to "remodel me" .
@@non_ideological_transexual7414get help
I can really hear the hurt and emotional exhaustion in this woman’s voice and my heart goes out to her.
❤😢🤗
The can hear the emotion in her voice because she has realised she fucked up!
Can I point out that the women objecting to the breast feeding male were largely objecting to the fact that his “milk” has none of the nourishment qualities of ordinary women’s breast milk and that that man was putting his needs before those of a vulnerable infant who would be, as a consequence starved of proper nutrients, antibodies etc. It was the narcissism in him that put his needs before the child’s. Also, there is a move now for damaged infants to be acceptable in society in order that the women transitioning to male can continue to take testosterone whilst pregnant which alters the formation and function of the placenta through which the foetus is nourished. The notion is in order for “men” I.e. trans men I.e. women on testosterone, to experience “motherhood” equally with women, society should accept infants/children with damage because “perfect” babies is too high a standard to reach for and really isn’t necessary. Thalidomide anyone?
your statement is true through and through..but the core of the trans movement has always come from a place of trying to defy the raw facts of biology by attempting to redefine them.
They take testosterone while pregnant really
The idea of infants ingesting that chemical liquid makes me physically nauseous. Even more because I know that that evil creature is getting off on it. It’s so morally repulsive I’m disgusted that society allows and glorifies this behavior. We’re a lost and soulless people.
So, is it Narcissism when a mother feeds her kid manufactured milk products instead of breastfeeding?
@orwellshousecat9122 no, because in that product is still nutrional, and you aren't purposefully passing along hormones to a child.
Thank you for offering this discussion. I feel my daughter falls into the category of “I’m not totally sure but feel stuck so I’m just gonna do it to move forward with my life.” And since she’s over 18 I can’t stop her anymore.
I’m not seeing this really discussed in terms of peer pressure. And that’s what I’m seeing at play here. Like many trans-identifying youth my daughter is “high functioning” autistic and finally found her peer group, and of course she wants to fit in and prove herself. Taking T in this context is another version of taking drugs because of peer pressure. Unfortunately that process is now fully facilitated by doctors and therapists and much of society.
Autistic children are particularly vulnerable to this trans trend. I have a child who is also autistic but is fortunate because they don't have friends who have any interest in it. My heart really goes out to you. Doctors and therapists who participate in this need to be held to account one day because there is now enough evidence now that transitioning children with rapid onset gender dysphoria has little or no positive benefits. In countries like Sweden they have dramatically shifted their approach because of this. We know as adults that at 18, they are still really children - especially those with autism.
@@rogerflack415 correct, and Covid played a major role in propelling it forward. It seems MANY kids decided to transition during the lockdowns
@@rogerflack415…also undiagnosed PTSD. The UK will move forward addressing this issue with a trauma based model. 👏🏻
Does anybody know how to prevent autistic children from falling into this trap? I have an autistic toddler and want to know what we as parents can do NOW to prevent future tragedy. It’s really hard to find any discussions about this topic.
@@central_scrutinizr be very careful about the media they consume and what they’re exposed to in general. No unsupervised screen time. If your child has more severe symptoms that may actually be protective…. As soon as s/he is ready, talk to him/her about boys and girls and explain that one can’t turn into the other. Biggest concerns: social media, schools & peers, and any professionals they may interact with.
Good to hear the dads are starting to coordinate as their input will be invaluable
I think dads will finish this. I know mine has spent his whole life getting so much done every day and helping so many people I just don't even know how he does it.
@@NiaLaLa_V I agree, it will be a game-changer for sure
Such a tragedy. The mothers quivering voice really makes that hit home. She lost her son. The boy lost his mother, on top of everything else. So sad. 😢
I grew up in the late 2000 to early 2010 when I graduated high school. I was extremely gender nonconforming. And just as you say, when I hit my mid 20s I began to accept who I am as a man. I’m very thankful because my family was always accepting of me, I would not be who I am today without my conservative centrist family. It truest does worry me that if I were to go through the same thing I a time like this, that I would have also transitioned. I considered transition in high school, but realized I actually love my body for what it is. Kids need time to figure themselves out. Without anyone, including family, trying to actively endorse this trans ideology.
Your interviews are so important as a social record. And always so comprehensive. There must come a point where your recordings are so numerous that they can be used as a serious body of evidence for institutions which need to know this stuff? Have you ever considered transcribing them all, publishing them (or extracts). Maybe it would be possible to bring a medical researcher on board?
No one points out that the entire family unit is sacrificed around the one person. Whether spoken or unspoken every conversation, every interaction is now centered around this.
I wonder if any investigation has been made into how siblings, spouses, grandparents are affected.
Yes well it comes from a profound and deeply lodged narcissism, so it will be the centerpiece of all interactions.
@@abbyta26 gets boring quite soon, though..😬
i'm waiting for when a person like this realizes they are even bored with all the talk about themselves and their "identity".@@georgiaamanatides4207
Worth reading new research from Professor Sarah-Jane Blakemore Professor of Cognitive Neuroscience in the UK who found out why adolescence through MRI imaging, over years, is an essential process for the successful growth of the adult human brain. Interrupting that causes the brain to not leave childhood or have the neuronal and dendritic capacity to manage all the challenges of adulthood.
Thanks for the reference.
Of course her research will be used to support brain-computer-implants and the gov regularly scanning your brain. Clockwork Orange is coming. Only this time they will be correcting anyone who disagrees with the gov
SJ Blakemore is great :) Also research of the effects of hormones on brain development from research on mice by Margaret Macarthy is worth reading
@@virginiacharlotte7007 thank you I’ll check her out.
@@virginiacharlotte7007 Thank you. The more knowledge the stronger the rebuttal!
That’s amazing! Also, common sense. Who needs proof that the natural functions of our development have a purpose 🙃 those who can’t see that from the start are So dissociated
That's a very powerful statement in the thumbnail. Can't wait for another calmversation.
Yes, can confirm that more and more parents are now starting to question the "diagnosis" of gender dysphoria and the actions that they have been coerced into medicalising their children. These parents are really badly emotionally damaged now too, so we have to lean in with love to them and not judge past behaviour if they are truly out of the cult, just as we do with desisters and detransitioners.
yeah, a lot of parents knew nothing about all of this until their child suddenly comes out as trans. Then they're scrambling to learn about it and there are so many people acting as authorities on the topic that will scare them into supporting total affirmation and medical transition. They fear their child will unalive themselves if they don't. There are psychologists and doctors that will assure them this is the only way, and they'll assume the research must back it up otherwise they wouldn't say that, right?
It's not that many do or don't have G/D its that they're are different forms of it and they are not actually checking for a history of it . G/D is a real thing but what causes it may not be permanent, if you are very GNC though that does not just change one day , irrelevant being gay or not but almost all very GNC children are attracted to the same sex, the assumption by Alasdair is you must live "as gay" which is nonsense. Tell people the truth about what their life may be like, give them options either way .
ua-cam.com/video/q3Ub65CwiRI/v-deo.html
Looking forward to this. I have a story in the book 😢.
🧡🤗
Love me some Alasdair and Josie is a BOSS! ❤
Fathers need to step up - your sons need a role model not a wibbly-wobbly jelly-baby and your daughters need a loving, stable male to balance out the BS that is being rammed down everybody's throat about male toxicity and predatory interest.
Great idea about dads giving practical and active help.
Looking good Angus! Thanks for all you are doing for us.
Even when I never saw issues with the trans movement and thought it was the next gay movement, I did feel sorry for the parents. It's nothing like your child coming out as gay. I'm confused by people who could so easily accept their children doing this to their bodies and minds. It is a total head f***.
More like this please! We so rarely hear from the parents.
I just looked up the book on Amazon, and I saw that most of the reviews so far are 5-star. It made me happy to see.
In some instances maybe building a literal fort would help both father and child. Doing physical activities helps one center into their body but exercising is sadly becoming more rare as many isolate themselves on their phone and internet, especially when they get stuck in questioning themselves. I think some of the mental anguish and frustration people feel can be diminished with proper exercise, if you also do group trainings then that's a real social experience too! 💖
I believe that is very true. It puts you very much "in touch" with your body rather than disassociation from it. It gives you a chance to really get to know your body and appreciate what it can do.
The title says it all
Thank you again BB
and your terrific guests🕊
It is so WILD hearing moms describe the scrutiny and lack of support they get when skeptical because of the "blue" environments they are in. I'm not in that kind of environment, and it's medium terrifying to contemplate our echo chambers.
I really resonated with the male perspective in this conversation and the way our society portrays/respects the father in the family. A conversation that needs to continue and bear fruit.
PITT is fabulous. Keep up the great work.
Incredibly good work ♥️
Oh frick yeah, you know I get a little too happy when Alasdair is part of the episode.
Great to hear and excited for PITT. Thank you Josie and Alister.
59:15
Well transvestites often work as prostitutes.
There is more chance the child will become a prostitute if they engage in the “trans” scene, not less.
Same with the drugs.
That is quite common in poorer countries for a number of reasons, not so true in western countries depending on economic class . Out of 10 or so passing transsexuals i can think of just one that is in sex work albeit the very high end Euro. I am not counting sugar babies because most women do not count that as prostitution...cars ect.
Most that i know just want a boy friend / husband and a normal life away from...the lifestyle.
Women definitely understand that being a "sugar baby" is sex work. Even those who claim otherwise.
Keep digging to find out who is pushing all of this craziness on kids
who
that question might have been more pertinent 10 years ago. but at this point "the machine" is self-sustaining with so many internet forums dedicated to the cause. the power of moderation on the internet to shape the message and deny counter-content is everything.
in the past when there was really only print media and television, this level of sustained social contagion was nowhere near as easy to set in motion.
nowadays these messages can proliferate (forever) in 'security through obscurity' among the vastness of the internet. the proliferation of smartphones turned the internet into the greatest "double-edged sword" humans have ever invented.
all you have to do is look at the first group of doctors that started offering to do these procedures (and the profits they turned) to find out who was pushing it.
It’s well known now who is pushing this. A few billionaires who are AGP but want to play pretend Trans and and play god who are financing LGB organisations to push “Trans” ideology. They have large capitalist companies. The researcher who can provide all the info for you is Jennifer Bilek. You’ll find her article on The Tablet online. She’s on UA-cam.
Yes, it's spinechilling but worth looking into
Haven't you been listening to our President and his Party? How do you still wonder? This all began with Obama.
Thank you one and all
Thumbs up as always for Alistair and Co.
1940s Europe: "we were just following orders"
2020s Nato countries: "we were just following social scientist's instructions"
Exactly.
I can’t understand why people can’t remember history. People like Mengele performed experiments like this. In the US, we had asylum patients who were used like lab rats, especially for sterilization experiments.
We need to accept behavior differences, including homosexuality, instead of sticky gender stereotypes, which seems to me to be the societal problem.
Yes, I'm 70, and in my lifetime, I've oberved we've gone form homosexuality is illegal to make gay marriage legal - in less than 50 years in Australia. At 16, it wasn't even socially acceptable for me to wear blue denim jeans with a male fly (zipper in the front), lol. It was considered highly rebellious!Now, extreme sex stereotypes are considered true females/women (transition). Seems to me, we still don't accept homosexuality, but, happily morph it into conformity (the trans movement. Totally sad.
But the issue is the high number of kids and adults steered into medical interventions when they actually do more harm than good. Transition works well for some.
@carolynbrightfield8911 do you think it's because being trans is seen as a medical condition whereas being gay is seen as a sexual perversion. Parents prefer the former
@@jcimsn8464does it really work?
Amen to your words!
If I were a teacher, I would never push this BS. In fact, I would actively oppose it. (I probably wouldn't last very long, though.) And I totally agree with Alisdair that children need a father - hopefully a good father, but even a mediocre father is better that none.
Many have opposed this, Al’s been fired, doxxed, etc. the pressure to shut up is very deep and when you have hundreds screaming at you that you are bigoted, you lose your job, and cps can come for your child if you don’t affirm…it is a society wide manipulation of those who spoils be protecting our kids
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1:15:19 "The dad just came home" - yes, and then helped mom with the discipline. "Just wait until your father gets home!" They also rolemodeled the discipline of working all day or whatever else.
Of course if you go way back, the male kids went along with dad to work once they were 12 years old or so.
Brilliant interview
This issue alone, have persuaded me to change my political affiliation. My kids are all grown up, but I’m horrified to see what the trans ideology, with the support of the current government, is doing to children and young people.
Same
Congratulations! Welcome to the reasonable side!!!
Just a thought: as a mom of a rogd girl, I find a lot of información to read or hear.Pitt is a great source(because of its specific caracteristics) but for boys parents there are not so many sources whwere they talk about what thwy are living, feeling...And being able to express how they personally feel without being judged...
Great job what you three are doing. Thanks!
I had to look up rogd because I thought it may be a typo.
It looks to me as if they make up new categories to justify things.
They can’t say “stop, there’s a problem here”.
They just give it a new name and say “oops it happens suddenly now”.
There’s no coincidence that when you label something and make it a fad, kids will join it.
Kind of like with “depression”.
Now if somebody is having a bad day the solution is a pill because they are pathological for having a bad day.
Or if a kid hates school it’s adhd and we drug them.
They can label being left handed a disease and make pills to sell if they want to.
Geesh, this is heartbreaking. 😔
Who is Stella, and what is the podcast where she offers advice on walking this back? Please, I need this.
A Wider Lens podcast, with Stella O'Malley and Sasha Ayad
Thanks, everyone.
thank you
Excellent.
It destroys the family as it gives the child power that doesn't fit well in the parent child dynamic and they do use it as a weapon . Speaking from experience
It laden them with disproportionate power prior to them having gained the maturity and skills to deal with the very predictably damaging longterm outcomes.
beat gender stereotypes with more gender stereotypes, super smart
You're right. We should even further deconstruct and atomize what it is to be a woman and to be a man. I'm sure that'll make things better. If you ask me, all of human beings throughout history are wrong. But people like me and you, hey, we got it figured out. Am I right?
Almost everyone is heterosexual & things to tend to fall from that if you look at evolutionary psychology. We are not blank slates.
Humans are not blank slates, but sexually, the majority have wide variation in their attraction, and it can be hijacked by environments and exposure to sexually deviant content at developmental stages, which can shape ones sexuality and self conception.
Oh hell no I wouldn’t cave to this ever. I would tell my kid their delusional & need mental help. I would lay it out plainly “you will be medical patient for the rest of your life” you will be in pain for the rest of your life. Accept the body God gave you. I wouldn’t care if my kid hated me threaten suicide you name it. I would stand my ground no matter what.
Some parents have-and had the children removed from them for being “unsafe”. I think this is a good method in places where they can’t be removed from parents for it
Profound parenting
The black cat went under the couch and turned into a tabby!
Yes it’s a safeguarding issue……
Alasdair is " supervising "?
Trans but not medicalized, great for kids. Trans but not medicalized bad for women and kids.
This was a hard to listen to interview. Sorry but they added nothing to the conversation at this point.
Aren't we all kind of wishing that the fathers would all come with pitch forks and run these people out of the villiage? I am. That's what I'd want to do. I agree with Alistair that it's best to have both the father and mother with the family but if the parents are same-sex I do believe that as long as there are opposite sex rolemodels all should be well. Gay boys need traditionally masculine gay male rolemodels. All we see is the efiminate gay man flitting about, weak etc not the reality of what being a gay man is which is just normal, strong and capable.
Men have been pushed out of all areas of family, culture and social policy by feminism
Yes. Strong men are needed right now.
So basically what you're saying is that effeminate gay men are weak, and are not strong or capable. And this is helping young gay boys how exactly? Why are you implying that to be feminine is to be weak?
@@OrwellsHousecatlol. Really? Most of YT is filled with male philosophers and male narrators. Most billionaires are male, and money is the only thing that brings power and matters anymore.
Do you hear the way you are conflating "feminine" with weak? Do you not see how that is a huge part of the problem?
sigh
33:00 the mothers feel suicidal.
That's because the mother is losing the primary position of molding & shaping & controlling the son. Many mothers threaten suicide to regain stronger control over their sons. It's called trauma-bonding
@orwellshousecat9122. Can you provide evidence for your statement please?
Control and influence shifts drastically over night for our families. Many of us parents are over engaged and some of this desire to transition or adopt a new identity is natural individuating through very maladaptive means - being encouraged and concretized all around us. Trauma bonding and/ or true fear for your child’s long term health and well being? As well as having your own beliefs turned upside down- the grief - the gaslighting - it’s just not so simple as to ascribe one theory. Be careful not to simplify this.
Yup mothers assume it also why they assume they have custody of the children after separation. Does that need references too ?
Most mothers don’t do that to their sons… Narcissistic and borderline mothers do that. They do it to their daughters as well, trust me.
@@MyriamRichardsdotter they do it to both sons & daughters, but more to sons because boys show more signs of independence & difference which the mother interprets as existential threat.
Sometimes, the kid does it back to the mother saying that the kid is suicidal unless it gets what it wants (does that sound familiar from the current discourse?).
mandated child sacrifice
If my son said he feels like a girl, i will bury him 6ft deep.