Make It Or Break It | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil
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- Tammy and Paul wed for eight years until their marriage ended. After nine months apart the couple secretly remarried, unbeknownst to their families, who would not approve. Weeks after saying “I do” a second time, the two are having doubts of their own. (From Dr. Phil Season 7)
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I’m glad you remarried him. Now the despicable divorce agreement he had you sign is null and void, and you can divorce him now with an attorney of your own.
I hope that you are right. Dr Phil mentioned "annulment" and you can bet your bottom dollar that is what he will go for. Her sister needs to help her get a damned good lawyer. Sad to say that if she was handed a paper that said in BIG BOLD letters "Final Decree of Divorce" that this was not real bright in signing it.
Word!
I hope she gets custody of both kids. Having a narcissistic parent is no way to grow up.
Exactly❤😊
I was thinking the same thing! But, all she needed was to fight the custody agreement. Men like him have a way of making you feel like you’re in danger if you dare go up against him! I am sadly too familiar with his kind!
18 minutes in, lady your husband is the one with absolutely no class and you are way too good for him.
Run to a good attorney! Borrow the $$$ if you have to! I was married to an abuser - at the age of 53 I had to call my father for $$$ (my ex wanted me ‘to stay home, the kids and I need you!🙄) as I had no income. I was humiliated to have to call my father. He came through big time.❤️. My attorney’s fee, at that time was $400/hr. There was a pre/nuptial (written by my ex) in play. I walked with 1/2 the proceeds of the sale of the home-enough to get my footing-and shared custody of the children except for 1 who refused to spend 50% of her time with him. It took about 2 years of counseling, an extremely Competent Attorney who was a tiny little woman to never cower to this 6’2” narcissist! Haven’t dated since I drove away from that ‘dream home’-more like a house of horrors!
AGREED 100%!!! Dr Phil grew up DIRT POOR, and he's not ashamed to admit it. I'm surprised he didn't bring it up
Well said my friend
His face is annoying. He looks permanently smug. How can she stand that?
Because he has convinced her that no one else wants her and he couldn’t be more wrong. Poor lady.
She kind of has a hang dog look on her face. I can see why he would think they're perfect for each other. But she could do much better with a little more confidence in herself.
He's a complete nutter, Controlling, abusive relationship. She needs to get out , and get a new life. He's vile 🤢🤮🥹
@@lilys7431 I would. I find her extremely good looking. She might not know she's good looking though.
Right?? Like if you looked up “most punchable face”, it’s his.
The bright side is you can get a proper divorce this time. Run.
Dr Phil mentioned "annulment." You can bet the next phone call that he will make is to his lawyer to get that process rolling. He is going to try and hold on to the daughter. The $100.00 a month for child support was just to give her another slap.
I do volunteer work at a charity shop. We had a customer come in on Sundays and she had left her (cashed up) husband and taken the two preschool aged daughters as hubby was very abusive. She was the primary caregiver and her parents had babysat the girls two days a week whilst she went to work at a part time job. Sadly, in the process of getting the divorce she had borrowed money from her parents (and they cannot help her anymore financially) and had taken out a special loan for women who are trying to get divorced (this is in Australia) and she had reached the maximum loan amount before the final proceedings. She told us that she was thinking that she might have to represent herself in the final proceedings. Ex hubby wanted full custody of the girls and that they would go into full time day care. When he would be travelling for work HIS parents would be looking after them. He was going after her for child support and he was going to limit access to her. She told my manager and myself that even is they got a fair divorce and she would get half of his assets that it would all go back to paying off the loans to get the divorce. She had been paying 20% interest to this special loan for desperate women. She told us she did not qualify for legal aid as she worked two days a week. She told us that the only thing keeping her sane at the time was working the two days a week. We told her to apply for assistance through the organisation that we work at.
One time that we did see her was at Christmas time and she bought her daughter's Christmas presents. Her parents paid for one of her daughter's birthday party. Early on in the piece she bought a framed painting for her daughter's bedroom. It was signed. I told her to do some research and find out how much it was worth. It might help with the $$$. This was a university educated woman who had a total mind F by her husband. We have not seen her since January.
A very good point! I hope that she heard that part.
@@lillianfoulkes4084l would not count on it!
She’s very pretty.. leave him..find someone who will respect u..
Don't be afraid to be single. Your life will be so much better.
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YES
Exactly and when the right man comes along that will treat her right She will be Happier than she ever knew she could be.Hes NOT BETTER THAN HER !!
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Class isn't relevant. He's passive aggressive abusive.
I agree with you, however; my mother in law thought it was relevant. My husband didn't feel that way.
@@RivyGenX I agree but Paul does think it’s relevant 😢
She's trailer trash? He has zero class.
Oh he's all class, mostly lower, but all class.
Honey, it’s not just you he doesn’t respect. He also has no respect for the women he’s preying upon on the dating sites. That says it all. Run! He has no character and you can’t change that.
He DOES have character, BAD character!!
He doesn't respect himself so can't respect for anyone.
Question: Why would she want him? He's disgusting
*This man left all of his good qualities in his mother's womb*
Good one 🤣
I love that, l am going to use it.
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YES, LOL!
He is an absolute narcissist, controlling, gaslighting, irrelevant actions that defy logic, just basically set up to fail, and she is coming from naivety to the nth degree, she needs to defend herself and make a new life.
He’s worse than a narcissist. He is clinically a psychopath, antisocial personality disorder, and they are always narcissistic.
He has ZERO empathy. He is cruel and abusive. He has a shallow charm. He lacks remorse. He has no regard for right or wrong. He lies and blame shifts. He takes no accountability for his actions. He is violent and threatening.
Symptoms
Symptoms of antisocial personality disorder include repeatedly:
Ignoring right and wrong.
Telling lies to take advantage of others.
Not being sensitive to or respectful of others.
Using charm or wit to manipulate others for personal gain or pleasure.
Having a sense of superiority and being extremely opinionated.
Having problems with the law, including criminal behavior.
Being hostile, aggressive, violent or threatening to others.
Feeling no guilt about harming others.
Doing dangerous things with no regard for the safety of self or others.
Being irresponsible and failing to fulfill work or financial responsibilities
Taking an ex back is like pushing a turd back in... DON'T EVEN TRY...WHY WOULD YOU 😂😂😂😂
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Ohhhh my gosh 😂😂 that's hysterical!
Bahaha
If me hubby put sticky notes… those notes would become his bed buddies in the spare room
This guy reminds me of Alex Murdaugh. The attorney who killed his wife and son and stole from his clients. He sounds and acts just like him.
She isn't safe with this guy. That's a fact! She needs to run away and take her son, for his safety , if she can't be interested enough about hers
@@jacqueline8559 I agree!
They're both pompous southern men. You will find that in many southern "gentlemen". They can be poor or rich, some are still awful.
Alex Murdaugh murdered his wife Maggie and Paul. He was a wealthy lawyer in South Carolina and went to prison for their murders !
Don’t EVER sign anything you haven’t read or understood.
AMEN!!
Exactly!
This wife needs serious help….GET OUT & stay out!
Duh! I can’t believe she did that!!
Sadly the US education system is pretty whack. The fact that the average reading level in the US is 7th-8th grade.... AVERAGE.... tells us everything
When I got my freedom I never looked back. Been single for 30 years
Lol sucks for you, I’d hate to be old and alone
@@sevel7556so you are together with your spouse because you can’t be alone? That says a lot about your relationship.
Do u have 8 or 12 cats?? 😂😂
good for you ! 🌷
Good for you 🎉 alone is great if you're happiest 🎉
She is too trusting and he is a sick narcissist Please leave him and don't look back
Not easy as they have a child together. Trust me, a bad man can make your life just as miserable when you are divorced as when you were together - if you have a kid together. Especially if you want to move interstate or your child wants to travel internationally. One of my neighbours tried to get a passport for her daughter for a school trip and he blocked it. (this is in Australia)
@@margaretsmith8999Yeah I'm in W.A. & went through some terrible stuff trying to co-parent with my daughter's father.
My biggest issue with him was stopping him just turning up at my house whenever he felt like it.
You would think it would be pretty simple to just get a restraining order in that situation but I was refused one by the magistrate & told to take my case to Family Court.
I was never living with this guy in the first place so none of his abusive behaviours were considered domestic violence at that time! This was in the late 1990s
So frustrating & that was just the beginning. He didn't stop the bs for at least 15yrs...
Okay Lady, pls listen to Dr. Phil. You kept saying "IDK" but you do now. Listen to every word Dr, Phil just told you, "Break it" "Get out and stay out"
She's way too good for him. She is beautiful, intelligent, and well-spoken. He is incapable of being honest, is abusive, and thinks he knows more than everyone else.
Run, run, run from this controller. That’s not a marriage, it’s a jail sentence.
Was born and raised in a "higher class" but acts worse than someone from a "lower class".
Tammy run for the hills. Because he is so entitled he is beneath you. Get away from him. You deserve better I promise you.
I don't think I have ever seen a man struggle so much to avoid responsibility for his actions. He is boring and wearying.
Fr. Im just sitting here thinking, "You are not smart." He's like a flailing fish out of water and thinks it's working.
My ex had a rule that the dish rag had to be folded and placed on the middle portion of the sink. It is never to be left in the sink.
Sometimes I would walk by and deliberately push it off into the sink..sorta silent revenge.
The best part of walking away from him was that he never tried to stop me from going...
He believed his hold on me was so strong he could do anything to me and I would stay.
Freedom has never tasted so sweet 🌷
They need to be married to a slob.
I mean, that rule does make sense...a dish rag should never be left in the sink. But I'm sure there were plenty of other reasons for why he made the relationship suck.
Finally breaking free from a narcissistic is difficult painful long winded process but feels like you are lighter and can breath again
"She's very teachable." Right there...
@@pamelavarilone2614 ahhhh yes, I repeatedly told my ex that I was not broken, so stop trying to fix me ... 🌷
Mr. High Society is beyond crappy. Is it classy to get married and go on dating sites as a single within 3 weeks of marriage.
What a gaslighter! He manages to spin everything, all his OWN actions, to being her fault
She has no self esteem. Period.
I feel like some men will pick up a poorer female just to abuse them and throw it in their face. This guy showed his true colors on this episode the moment he mentioned her social class when he met her. He thinks he is above her and all the rules are another sign.
Of course they do. It makes them feel like they rescued you. They enjoy having that power over them. This is why they don't like when women make equally as much or more than they do. They lose their power.
Yes! They sure do
There's good men out there that don't act this way
She’s a people pleaser. She needs to find herself. She’ll soon realise, rather than being “beneath” him, that people who attribute levels to people because of their upbringing, really aren’t the type of people you need to spend time with.
After hearing of your previous divorce and....you actually married him again.
Previous actions is a mirror to future actions.
Don't walk , run!
Get a good lawyer this time.
Telling adults how to wipe is insane!
As horrible as it sounds, accept that he is an immature jerk. Nothing will ever change with him, he is very selfish.
He is a narcissist Run away girl
Can’t make a leopard change its spots. Time for her to fly
I totally agree 💯👍
They should not be together. He is dangerous. Sometimes it takes time but you have to control those memories and feelings that make you think that person might still be the one for you. Cut the cord! I was married and the situation was similar. Different problems - he was a crack addict- but the man was becoming predictably unpredictable and unstable. I left afraid he would kill someone. We divorced. Fast forward 15 years, he is serving 20 years for domestic abuse (attempted to strangle) AND the topper…2nd degree murder.
I thank God for giving me courage to leave and protecting my
Kids and I.
This woman needs to RUN, not walk. AWAY and never look back!!
My husband and I failed at divorce, got remarried after 20 years , it has worked out really well for the last 26 years!
Good for you! ❤
This isn’t “insane love” it’s complete codependency & abuse
She could do much better than him!
Woman is an abuse victim who keeps coming back to her abuser. He is never going to change and he should never be married to anyone. He's abusive to her and her children and he is looking up women on websites on their wedding day. Run!
If she’s smart, she’ll NOT annul it… that way she can redo the child custody…🤔
I lived in a trailer for 12 yrs, with five kids. We weren't trailer trash. WE were middle class, with situation that so happened to be living in a trailer for many yrs. Because of our financial situation at the time, back in the eighties
He definitely thinks he’s higher class than him 😢 run girl run and don’t ever look back again 😡
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Kids remember love not the house.
nothing wrong with a trailer..sometimes thats what is affordable...and it has nothing to do with trash. Good for you to shelter your family.
@@lindathompson7707 definitely nothing wrong with living in a trailer you know you have shelter and you can take it wherever you want to go that week my husband and I are close to retirement and that’s my dream is to retire with a trailer and paper travel, roasted kids and grandkids move away from the heat and extreme cold 🤷🏼♀️
Whoever that lawyer was should be sued for malpractice!!!!
Her responsibility to read the agreement.
No lawyer should ever represent both party's. It's called a conflict of interest.
@@bubbagump1306 I took a Business Law class, and I can tell you if a document is written by a trained lawyer and is written in legalese it almost never means what a normal, intelligent person would think it would mean. Even with training, I have heard that on average it takes a minimum IQ of about 120 to understand the typical legal document.
So with all due respect, she is an absolute fool if she believes it is her responsibility to read the agreement. She made a common mistake in the past of believing her husband when he said the lawyer was representing both parties. I'll give her a pass for the past for making that mistake, but she doesn't get a pass if she makes that mistake again. Her responsibility is to HIRE A LAWYER and have the LAWYER read the agreement and explain both what the agreement means and also what legal alternatives she can explore if she doesn't want to sign the agreement.
The husband lied not the "lawyer". There probably was no "lawyer".
@@user-xk3fd9yi4x Oh, I’m convinced there was a lawyer. And you are right that it was the husband who lied. My big question is 1) did the lawyer know or at least have good reason to suspect the husband was going to lie and say the lawyer was representing both people, 2) did the lawyer potentially actually suggest that as a possible strategy, and 3) even if he didn’t know about the husband’s lies, did he have enough indication that he knew or should have known the wife thought he was representing her as well?
I don’t know the facts of the case well enough to judge. It’s entirely possible the lawyer was genuinely completely clueless on that part. But while it is a lawyer’s duty to advocate on behalf of their client, another almost equally important duty of every lawyer is to clearly communicate that a person is not their client if there is any possible reasonable expectation on someone’s part that the lawyer is representing them. The fact that she erroneously believed the lawyer was representing her, too, is pretty scary for the lawyer. I wouldn’t pronounce the lawyer immediately guilty, but I would say the burden of proof is now on the lawyer to prove he didn’t know or suspect she believed that and also couldn’t have reasonably known that. Tricking someone into signing a contract that greatly benefits your client is a bit distasteful, but it is common practice. Doing so while the person signing the contract believes they are your client quickly turns into malpractice.
They look pretty old for 12 year olds….
You are right they are absolutely 12 year olds absolutely embarrassing.
What a piece of work. Run lady run.
What does she see in this clown? She is beautiful and can get someone who will treat her the way she deserves
She's way out of his league, extremely beautiful actually and sweet too.
You know, you know, you know?
NO we don’t know!
He looks like one of those senior politicians we see on the US news, looking down his patrician nose.
She shouldnt marry him that way he talk trash. Leave him. Alot of woman don't like him.
She is to blame as well and doesn’t deserve pity
It's the hardest thing I ever had to do but it was for the right reason. My husband did not get along with my son from a prior relationship. He was only 4 when we got together but we did not move in together until he was 9. I had my own home and was taking care of him very well on my own but I was in love and we decided to buy a home after 5 years together and get married. After 2 years of living together and seeing how he treated my son I could not allow it to continue. He was abusive and lied about how he was punishing him. It was so hard to understand why he treated him like that. He was a really good kid. Never got in trouble. No breaking the law. Nothing. But in the end I chose my son over my husband. It darn near killed me but it was the right thing to do. I loved him more than I ever thought I could love a man. He was my best friend. We had the most amazing relationship. But he hated kids and it was only obvious when we moved in together. Still hurts to this day but my son was number 1 then and he still is to this day.
You made the right choice
I’m sorry you lost your big love, but you did the right thing.
If he was abusive towards your kid, it was just a matter of time before he would start to do the same to you. A man who is unkind to children has a special kind of evil in him.
Well done mama🎉
I wish I had left the husband who abused my son from a previous marriage. It is the biggest regret of my life. You did the right thing!
Big mistakes, this man is so so childish. Divorce is the answer for both. They are not compatible. Period. Move on be happy. Life is short.
She remarried him so that last decree is done and now divorce this time smarter to get daughter back fully... she plays dumb i dont think she is at all..
I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.
She is smart this girl
He doesn't even let her finish her sentence!!!! Jesus christ
What a sorry excuse for a man. An official 'steaming pile'. And allowing someone to mistreat your kid? Even worse.
Take your children and leave insteadly. He is a psyco.
She’s just beautiful she needs to leave and never look back!!!
If he hurt my baby he’d be out! The End!!
Him saying he doesn't make judgements and then dissing her up- bringing is so contradictory its insane
I think the wife should figure out how long she needs to be married to him before she can take half his estate as she deserves, and hopefully a little more of a fair balance divorce settlement
I wonder if this has always been her plan to write the wrong day he did to her and her daughter lol
She should get a lawyer and follow their advice!
I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.
Loooking for new supply. Thats what he's doing. This makes me sick. She's not too bright. Good God, why did she go back to him? She needs to get her daughter back Pronto. And never see him again.
I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.
@@margaretsmith8999It automatically is an annulment because they were only married three weeks, which does not constitute a valid marriage by law.
She is not willing to divorce him - she doesn’t think she can do better than this. Despite the fact that Dr Phil has given her the advice to divorce the guy - she would rather desperately go for the “counselling help” Dr Phil offered toward the end. Some women just don’t see the strength in themselves😢
She had serious trust issues with him and re-marrys him. How stupid can one be!
Money can’t buy you a heart.
He threw her son against the wall? How is he still breathing?
Even with Dr Phil’s professionals - this man will NEVER tell the truth. The narcissist is exactly (but not as bad as my ex) and my ex lied, lied, and lied every time we met with the psychologist! Leave Him!
I hope she went on here to catch him in his lies! And get a better new divorce
Protect your son. Period. Dont ever return. Stupid. H e treats his daughter like a queen? Wait til he doesnt, then get her too. Get your son, and Leave. Good Lord. Your right, Dr.Phil.😢
The film 'Sleeping With The Enemy" comes to mind!
Did the divorce become null and void when she remarried. Can she redo the divorce and hire a lawyer to gain custody of both children now?
Ooh. He's not even cute, charismatic or articulate. What's the big attraction?
Trauma bond.
He may be middle class, but definitely, he's not a gentleman... This woman should be a proper mother to her son and protect her son
Hey this dude looks like joey gladstone from Full House hahahaha 😂
Omg your so right omgggggggg omgggggg I laughed so hard that I’m in the hospital now 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
So savage, but true, and the truth hurts LMAO. I wish he would act more like Joey too But I guess that’s just too much to ask.
This guy is so full of it, It's coming out of his ears!
What a jerk. He’s got that smug face.
Run girl run!! This man has zero accountability.
Seriously I can't stand to hear this man. Wow.
Dr. Phil gave this woman bad advice by telling her there's hope he'll change. He will not. There is no hope. She is confused because she's trying to understand him like he's a human being capable of respect and empathy. He is not. He can never be. She needed to hear that.
Clever girl. Now you can get a decent lawyer and get your child and whatever the law says you are entitled to in a divorce.
What a bunch of lame excuses from both of them! I feel for their son. Pleeeeze.
Good object lesson in how narcissists spin any situation to suit themselves
Oh lady....just leave him. He's a total Tosser.
She remarried him so she can get her power back and good for her
Right I think she also wants a REDO on the DIVORCE Papers!!!
Exactly what I thought
@@sandraowen6783
I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.
@@helenmcdonnell2585
I thought that too except that Dr Phil mentioned an annulment. You can bet that the first thing that guy is going to do is call his lawyer.
He wouldn’t call me those things but once! I’d be out the door and not look back! Don’t sign anything with out YOUR lawyer checking it over!
He definitely needs anger management classes, and counseling about maturity issues.
That doesn't work on narcissists.
I doubt he loses his temper with his boss or others who can impact him so it would seem he chooses to use it to control her.
This guy’s voice and demeanor are so odd.
He just have her as a housemaid.
His family dont trust her!!!!! Hes awful run away lady
11:00 "teach somebody something" made me literally screech lol if hes so smug its painful to watch
Doesnt matter what other women think hes not married to other women
Ladies, DO NOT sign a Waiver!
I agree with Dr. Phil. Nothing is going to save these two but the Good Lord. Heaven help them.
What an entitled momma's boy. He is a lost case, no introspection, no morals, just evil
0:01 What is this creepy dream sequence? Standing alone in a dark room and suddenly getting accosted by Dr Phil.
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She argued that she left THREE times, but she went back, even though her little boy wasn't treated well by the man she married.....WOW.....he may be a smug misogynist, but she put her child in harms way and that is unforgivable.
Nothing is going to change that man
Surprise, your marriage is not a secret anymore 😂
No, but if his parents see it they are not going to be real impressed with their son's behaviour. His ex wife, current wife humiliating their son on national television.
He is not even a good lier
Jeez Dr Phil certainly told her ! Her child comes first ! She is irritating ...she needs to grow up!
People who are truly upper crust don’t have to say it.
No person is higher than an other ,that’s snobbery
This guy is LYING all the time it's so obvious!!
To me, the woman is more at fault for the remarriage. Shes talking about things he has done or is doing and he is taking no responsibility. He has one lame excuse after another. She knew what he was and clearly didnt trust him to the point of being afraid. Why would she allow herself and her children to be in his presence ever again. BIG misjudgment.
He had child custody. I'd think she married him again to get her kids back.
I had a son that I ended up raising by myself, at one point I was in a long-term relationship and we ended up getting married, after I married him the way he treated my son changed, within a few months of the marriage the way he was talking to my son and actually went after him one time like he was gonna hit him, I kicked him out put a restraining order on him and got a divorce… and I’m so thankful to hear Dr. Phil say that because yes once you have a child that child is your priority!!!!