The way they spoke to that beautiful man who had been sexually abused was absolutely powerful to watch . I work as a clinical psychologist and I mean it with all my heart these men did more in that conversation than I ever could have done for him in my professional capacity ! Blew me away , Thankyou
That little speech after escorting him out saying how they like him is a massive thing especially within the military environment. That in itself is enough to help people get through training.
That’s the most amazing part of the series. When they find negative traits and question them, the advice is very straightforward but it is about that person they’re watching. No fancy words, listening intently just tell it as it is - very powerful.
The purpose of taking a man who has hit rock bottom ...even driven to rock bottom, and then rebuilding him in the way he should be, in the way of the regiment, and in the way of a soldier of the regiment, is how they get their best men. You take a man with a predetermined disposition who cant be changed, and he is totally unacceptable from the start. If a man is failing, you drive him to utter despair...to rock bottom and then you can remodel him...this is what they do. They do it exceptionally well. One mans cast offs are an other mans treasure.
@Matt H the environment they're in can be a lot more supportive than a doctor, doesn't say anything about the doctor, but that the person needs to be in an environment that they feel ready to talk in
@Matt H no offence to females, but in this scenario, I dont believe a man would break down and cry like this if these guys weren't there to support them. I was tired last night, it is slightly strange of the original comment, but let's be happy these guys spoke and got through rather than sitting in darkness! Have a good day fella
The way the guys use their masculinity to support these guys is the exact opposite of toxic masculinity. They really do this well, you can see if they totally lost it they would change the serious act but it helped these guys and I think that says a lot.
@@seancosgrove1378 you are bang on. It was like that when I joined but not once when anyone struggled they did not think they couldn't go to the instructor. They were tough when they needed to be and its what helps. Cos knowing you get encouragement from someone like that through a hard time will definitely push u on
It's good that you cried. It's the realisation of making a step forward, a moment to grieve, or just having a hard life atm. Keep your head up, you'll make it through 💪😎
The last one made me cry. I get so angry and could probably end up in prison myself if I ever had children and found out someone did something like that to them!
I know how number 6 feels. I lost my brother in a motorcycle accident back in 1989 and it still hurts to talk about it, even after all these years. He was the pillion on the back of my bike and we got hit by a car. One of THE hardest things I have ever had to deal with; survivor's guilt....
Yeah I lost my sister to cancer and we we're 2 peas in a pod and she was always there for me whenever I needed her.And now there's a big hole there what she left and I've not talked about her to anyone about it and I sure do miss her..
I truly feel for Jake (number 6). I used to watch Emily’s UA-cam videos back in the day. She was very funny and brought joy to so many people, so I was shocked and devastated when I found out about her death. I can’t begin to imagine what Jake was going through at the time and probably still is to this day.
I was also diagnosed with cancer. At age 48. I’m 53 now and cancer free. But damn…you do lose a PART OF YOU to this disease. No matter who you are. It takes a part of who you ARE with it…😔
I’d say the most heartbreaking one of all, they missed it out. The one where the guy had to listen on the phone to his wife being murdered Not that any of the clips were in absolutely no way trivial at all, very far from it, they are all harrowing
@@jayph77 Has he? I’ll look into it and will definitely give a donation, his story was burned onto my psyche when I watched and saw the clip afterwards, absolutely harrowing and about the worst thing anyone could imagine
You can tell the first man blames himself for his girlfriends death which is heartbreaking as its not his fault in any way 😔 hope he finds peace one day 😔
I think it all comes down to needing to find a reason for their death and that it wasn't pointless with no answers. We, as a species, cannot understand the reality of death, the fact that one day someone is here and the next they are gone. Blaming himself is probably his means of coming to terms with that loss. I think everyone does that, even if someone dies of illness. "Could I have given them something before it got worse" or "Could I have spotted it before it got bad so they could get help earlier"
I was gonna say the same it’s when he says she died on a scooter. The slight pause and then he says the one he brought the second he paused I knew he was gonna say something like that it is just tragic and I have nothing but feelings and sympathy for the guy hope he’s doing well
Please channel 4 keep this series alive for as long as possible. The positive influence it has is something that needs to be encouraged. Huge respect for all the staff and recruits who have appeared over the years.
as a 27/m who was sexually abused by my older step brother who kept it in for 21 years him talking kind of broke me, ive been going therapy for over a year. and its helped alittle but still feel trapped in that mental bubble where just gaining a few feet in last year to open up is my mountain to climb i dont think it will ever leave me but i wanna be able to do what this man has done and get up and do stuff like this. much respect and love.
By your comment you've already hit the summit. From a fellow survivor; we are through it. It won't leave you, you leave it. Memories can't do any damage, they are just thoughts. Go well.
Isn't it awesome how tender and decent these sas guys r when those men told their stories. People who many would see as just cold hearted killers have the emotional maturity and the heart to empathise like this. Truly inspiring
I had the same thing that happened to Amuz after he finished when I was in basic. Was the Flag/Guide-On bearer for the my flight in the AF. Was in formation one morning waiting to begin march and all of a sudden, I started shaking uncontrollably and struggling to breathe. Had several of my flight mates behind me start calling my name, telling me breathe and relax, to just try and calm down
The last hot was just too much for me, it broke me , it hurt that he actually felt guilty or that he wasn’t strong for not speaking of it before . The fact your still walking this earth and doing things like this tells me you every very strong.
Who dares wins ,but who tried my also triumph . Always stand astute ,it's not a game it's a choice off psychological solitude you never knew existed .Thanks guys for pushing yourself to show others that the hardest part is proving to yourself that "guess what you can ".50% off the battle is getting out the door .
Wow all you should be proud of yourself for working through everything you guys have gone through in your personal life and still have the courage to keep fighting no matter what. Courage isn't something everyone has . There are a lot of cowards that would have just quit .kudos to all you guys. Never give up
I can relate to Amuz(I hope that's the correct spelling). I had a Cancer diagnoses in 2013 and I didn't think poor me I have cancer,my thought was "what if this kills me and I'm not here for my kids and wife" this destroyed me until I convinced myself that it would NOT beat me.
I served royal regiment of scotland 2 tours of afgahn got out met my fiance iv known her before i joined and she passed away with QTS in her heart she was in a comer for 2 months and stayed with her by her side every day the consutant had shut down the staff room because i was hulcinating via no food water and sleep she passed away 2nd of june last year half 1 in the morning in my arms cuddling her and i dont cry but since then i cry every night and sleep with out her cuddling her green white polkadot shirt and pray to god to take my life instead and bring her back to her mum and sister but life dosnt go that way sadly
If you are scared of heights perhaps not the best job for you.The poor guy though, losing his soul mate. And totally blames himself poor man. I hope the man recovers from cancer but he needs to share his burden. These stories break my heart.
7 months late answer, but you can overcome the fearness of heights. I am afraid of heights and i just took a skylift licence where the skylift can go up to 20 meters. 20 meters might not sound so high up but its quite high, specially when the basket kinda swings back and fourth. That puts fear in your mind. I am working on it and i get higher up each time i use the skylift. Fear is something you create in your mind. You picture things that can go wrong, equipment failure etc. trusting the equipment and small steps each time and soon enough you get up to those 20 meters :)
@@LeSnafu also fear is your natural bodies defence telling you no. That might be don’t jump of a building or just don’t put your life at risk. You only get one chance and you don’t get another chance. You live your life like you can just get a pack to upgrade you.
Great respect for gentlemans...great respect 🕊️ It's amazing how much a human can go through and how strong he becomes...Great respect from heroes...Great respect for a strong ,smart team 🤝 🕊️
Well i haven't had a cry in a few years but this one got me. If any of the lads involved in this video are paying attention, be proud of who you are. Inspirational. This is fucking inspiring guys. You're inspiring.
These are amazing stories, but the one that sticks with me is the guy who's wife was murder by a very sick individual while she was on the phone to him. He had to hear his wife die over a phone call. That guy was so impressive during the training, honestly I don't know how he or any of these individuals did what they did but fair play to them all! Truly inspiring stories and encouraging to see men breaking down the stereotypes that men have to just be hard as nails all the time.
I never spoke out about my sexual abuse until someone else came forward. I felt embarrassed and worthless. I hope i can make a difference to somebody's life and let them know they are not alone.
That last man is tough as hell, open up and do it in front of cameras. I wish I could find the courage to be honest and vulnerable like that and my shits not even close to as bad, but I’ll just keep bottling it up for now 😅
Such a horrible way she went too ..The back wheel came off escooter and she flew under a lorry and it rolled over her and crushed her to bits multiple traumatic injuries
Came here at one of my own tough times. I may or may not ever get into such a training though I'd love to. But even just watching SAS: Who Dares Wins has been very helpful for me.
That last one broke me. What an absolutely hideous thing to go through. Such an evil thing to happen to someone so young. God bless him, I hope he finds inner peace ❤️❤️❤️ I hope his “coach” rots in prison for the trauma he placed on those boys he taught.
I was molested when I was 6 and my nanny at the time stood by and watched it happen. I'm 36 now and it still affects me. I try not to think about it. That's how l cope.
A always was brought up to be hard And tough as My grandad and uncles were former marines and a played Semi professional Rugby 🏉. So a never really cryed or got emotional Etc. But when My brother was found Dead in he's mate's flat a basically cryed for months on end and ended up with the likes of depression and anxiety Etc. A learnt that mental health isent a weakness is And asking for help is Also not a sign of weakness. My Mum got me help and a accepted it And it's because of that Am alive today and that's what My brother would have wanted
what I am seeing is cognitive spychology - drugs are not allways the answer - forcing the sufferer to iron out the kinks is correct and right. I am begining to see this is both physical and psychological preperation. What I had endure was more stick than carrot.
As someone who was abused from the age of 6 until 9 (funny right, 69 haha), nothing but forgivness will help someone get through. The longer one remains angry and seeks revenge, the more rotten their core becomes. It's okay, it happened. It doesn't need to define you. You still get to be a man, which is where I suffered most. Life can be beautiful beyond the dark veil we hide under.
@@alexcapatina57 Your strength and perspective are admirable. I hope to deal with adversity keeping this in mind. Vengeance or anger have and will always be negative emotions. Life moves on and we have to let time do its thing. Wounds heal but scars remain, but you said it really well that we cannot let the scars define us. Thank you for your comment, admitting, accepting, and moving on are admirable traits and you showed all of them. Its not easy opening up about such things be it on any platform, let alone moving on from them. I wish and hope the best for your future, and my gratitude towards you for being an inspiration to other people abused who are fortunate enough to read your comment and believe that they can also deal with it step by step.
Honestly I wouldn't be able to do this whatsoever. It's not so much going down heights (I'd be terrified don't get me wrong, but I'd want to give it a go.) But I'd end up having panic attacks and all that before it even starts💀
UNBELIEVABLE... THEY KNOW WHO YOU ARE. AND THEY STILL DID THATq!!! THAT!!!! IF YOU DONT OD THIS WE WILL NEVER RECOVER. YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO UNLOSE THIS WAR HENRY
The moral of the story is: Don't even apply to go on the show, if you don't have a tragic back-story. It works out fine, but I hope nobody thinks that's the reason for it. It's just how "reality" TV is. Each season, you need more and more extreme "reality".
Fackin' ell man, the stories on this are heart breaking to hear.. That guy who lost his missus, the guy with Cancer only a year previous and then the other lad who was abused as a young footballer.. Jesus H Christ!!! Forgive me Lord for taking ur name in vain but I wish all these guys the very best futures.
Why does Ant always look like he doesn't give a shit about you.... I always feel great advice goes a long way, and if people are confronting fear work with them don't insult them... unless that's the SAS way?
i think ant draws the recruits away he's to tough when they need compassion only when they release it like that guy did does he re think his stragagy by then its to late were as the other guy was very supportive.
One of my main reasons for applying... But there's other ways to tellbypur story I guess.. A little clear up of situations would be good first so I dont get shit wrong but nobody wanna talk straight.. Still searching lol I gave up everything, especially thinking now ha
It's bad that they get these poor guys with troubled pasts which is only for TV ratings.But it's good in another way how they push these guys and talk about there problem's.Because it's a massive release and a burden to finally let it all out and get it off your chest ..
In response to the disgusting comments. Toxic masculinity does not exist. Only hateful people who adhere to feminist (hateful) ideology believe this. To accused someone of this is bigotry. And to gaslight them and say its acceptable is evil. Toxic masculinity does not exist.
When i said my mate's passed the Selection in Special Forces. ? It wasn't easy , they were professional Soldiers for Civilian2to go through Ants training takes some going and at least you tried. Be Proud of yourself.
1st guy, You see what femininity can do for a man, the war on men needs to stop. I see so many sad guys these days. What he lost was was everything to him, he's doing an amazing job 👏 what a man.
The way they spoke to that beautiful man who had been sexually abused was absolutely powerful to watch . I work as a clinical psychologist and I mean it with all my heart these men did more in that conversation than I ever could have done for him in my professional capacity ! Blew me away , Thankyou
That little speech after escorting him out saying how they like him is a massive thing especially within the military environment. That in itself is enough to help people get through training.
That’s the most amazing part of the series. When they find negative traits and question them, the advice is very straightforward but it is about that person they’re watching. No fancy words, listening intently just tell it as it is - very powerful.
The purpose of taking a man who has hit rock bottom ...even driven to rock bottom, and then rebuilding him in the way he should be, in the way of the regiment, and in the way of a soldier of the regiment, is how they get their best men. You take a man with a predetermined disposition who cant be changed, and he is totally unacceptable from the start. If a man is failing, you drive him to utter despair...to rock bottom and then you can remodel him...this is what they do. They do it exceptionally well. One mans cast offs are an other mans treasure.
@Matt H the environment they're in can be a lot more supportive than a doctor, doesn't say anything about the doctor, but that the person needs to be in an environment that they feel ready to talk in
@Matt H no offence to females, but in this scenario, I dont believe a man would break down and cry like this if these guys weren't there to support them. I was tired last night, it is slightly strange of the original comment, but let's be happy these guys spoke and got through rather than sitting in darkness! Have a good day fella
The way the guys use their masculinity to support these guys is the exact opposite of toxic masculinity. They really do this well, you can see if they totally lost it they would change the serious act but it helped these guys and I think that says a lot.
Toxic masculinity does not exist .
@@DEUSVULTEAM I mean it literally does you troglodyte
@@DEUSVULTEAM 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@seancosgrove1378 trigger warning ⚠️
@@seancosgrove1378 you are bang on. It was like that when I joined but not once when anyone struggled they did not think they couldn't go to the instructor. They were tough when they needed to be and its what helps. Cos knowing you get encouragement from someone like that through a hard time will definitely push u on
I just cried for 14 minutes straight. Often men don't realize there is strength in vulnerability. These are truly brave men.
Key term : 'MEN'
@@hamzamohamud1988 what?
@@hamzamohamud1988 there are woman on this show you do realise that this is just because the men have the saddest story???
@@finleythomas1717 This video is about a man being vulnerable, why would we mention women when they’re not directly related to this at all?
It's good that you cried. It's the realisation of making a step forward, a moment to grieve, or just having a hard life atm. Keep your head up, you'll make it through 💪😎
The last one made me cry. I get so angry and could probably end up in prison myself if I ever had children and found out someone did something like that to them!
Same..
Really, really brave souls. My heart goes out to every one of them. I hope they know just how brave they each are. Love, peace and respect to you all.
I know how number 6 feels. I lost my brother in a motorcycle accident back in 1989 and it still hurts to talk about it, even after all these years. He was the pillion on the back of my bike and we got hit by a car. One of THE hardest things I have ever had to deal with; survivor's guilt....
Yeah I lost my sister to cancer and we we're 2 peas in a pod and she was always there for me whenever I needed her.And now there's a big hole there what she left and I've not talked about her to anyone about it and I sure do miss her..
i'm so sorrry for your loss. It gets better
Thats horrible
I pray God helps you with this guilt
@@ORDEROFTHEKNIGHTSTEMPLAR13try to find someone
If Believe in God i suggest prayer.
It will help
I adore how they really show empathy for the recruits it is truly amazing. Thank you for your service.🇺🇸🇬🇧
BRITISH WAY
I truly feel for Jake (number 6). I used to watch Emily’s UA-cam videos back in the day. She was very funny and brought joy to so many people, so I was shocked and devastated when I found out about her death. I can’t begin to imagine what Jake was going through at the time and probably still is to this day.
Did she have a UA-cam channel
I was also diagnosed with cancer. At age 48. I’m 53 now and cancer free. But damn…you do lose a PART OF YOU to this disease. No matter who you are. It takes a part of who you ARE with it…😔
That last one is truly heartbreaking. Hes such a brave lad
I’d say the most heartbreaking one of all, they missed it out. The one where the guy had to listen on the phone to his wife being murdered
Not that any of the clips were in absolutely no way trivial at all, very far from it, they are all harrowing
Yes that was very upsetting, don’t know why they left that one out.
@@MrLooperg it's on another segment I watched that before this ,so it's out there, that bloke is amazing like these lads
He has a charity called strongmen. Amazing character
@@jayph77 Has he? I’ll look into it and will definitely give a donation, his story was burned onto my psyche when I watched and saw the clip afterwards, absolutely harrowing and about the worst thing anyone could imagine
That was so harrowing to watch, what an utterly horrific experience
I was a victim of sexual assault for a while when I was 12 from my gym coach. It was terrible. I can understand what that man went through. Poor guy
God bless you. I hope you've healed, or continue to heal as a person.
You’re an incredible character, and one day you could help thousands bud keep going stay strong you’ve got this x
Really goes to show you don't know what someone is battling behind closed doors are amazing guys
You can tell the first man blames himself for his girlfriends death which is heartbreaking as its not his fault in any way 😔 hope he finds peace one day 😔
I think it all comes down to needing to find a reason for their death and that it wasn't pointless with no answers. We, as a species, cannot understand the reality of death, the fact that one day someone is here and the next they are gone. Blaming himself is probably his means of coming to terms with that loss. I think everyone does that, even if someone dies of illness. "Could I have given them something before it got worse" or "Could I have spotted it before it got bad so they could get help earlier"
I was gonna say the same it’s when he says she died on a scooter. The slight pause and then he says the one he brought the second he paused I knew he was gonna say something like that it is just tragic and I have nothing but feelings and sympathy for the guy hope he’s doing well
Please channel 4 keep this series alive for as long as possible. The positive influence it has is something that needs to be encouraged. Huge respect for all the staff and recruits who have appeared over the years.
They ruined it by going woke, Australia sas is the real deal now with Ant,staz, jay and Ollie fronting it
@@BG-ef8skUK one is my fave and always will be
as a 27/m who was sexually abused by my older step brother who kept it in for 21 years him talking kind of broke me, ive been going therapy for over a year. and its helped alittle but still feel trapped in that mental bubble where just gaining a few feet in last year to open up is my mountain to climb i dont think it will ever leave me but i wanna be able to do what this man has done and get up and do stuff like this.
much respect and love.
Best of luck to you mate, don't let it define you and you should be proud of yourself.
By your comment you've already hit the summit. From a fellow survivor; we are through it. It won't leave you, you leave it. Memories can't do any damage, they are just thoughts. Go well.
This show is great it allows men tough hard men to speak about things bothering them.
Had me in tears. Well done lads 💯
Isn't it awesome how tender and decent these sas guys r when those men told their stories. People who many would see as just cold hearted killers have the emotional maturity and the heart to empathise like this. Truly inspiring
Gotta be a soldier’s soldier, mate
Well it's SAS special air service not the SS Schutzstaffel
I had the same thing that happened to Amuz after he finished when I was in basic. Was the Flag/Guide-On bearer for the my flight in the AF. Was in formation one morning waiting to begin march and all of a sudden, I started shaking uncontrollably and struggling to breathe. Had several of my flight mates behind me start calling my name, telling me breathe and relax, to just try and calm down
The last hot was just too much for me, it broke me , it hurt that he actually felt guilty or that he wasn’t strong for not speaking of it before . The fact your still walking this earth and doing things like this tells me you every very strong.
Panic attacks can come even when your relaxed or in a good mood.
No matter how many times you have them your often convinced your dying.
I’ve had a panic attack, it’s the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. Never want one again
I just wanna hug this guy.
Who dares wins ,but who tried my also triumph . Always stand astute ,it's not a game it's a choice off psychological solitude you never knew existed .Thanks guys for pushing yourself to show others that the hardest part is proving to yourself that "guess what you can ".50% off the battle is getting out the door .
Awww love those ones who always take the burden very strong people.
Wow all you should be proud of yourself for working through everything you guys have gone through in your personal life and still have the courage to keep fighting no matter what. Courage isn't something everyone has . There are a lot of cowards that would have just quit .kudos to all you guys. Never give up
Awwww ....poor guy. There's strength, right there. Kx
Stop acting like you care 😒
Mad respect boys!!
I can relate to Amuz(I hope that's the correct spelling). I had a Cancer diagnoses in 2013 and I didn't think poor me I have cancer,my thought was "what if this kills me and I'm not here for my kids and wife" this destroyed me until I convinced myself that it would NOT beat me.
I remember the story from the brave man at the end when it was first on TV, myself and my wife were both reduced to absolute tears.
“Men have it easy” I keep fucking hearing that and only Men get how hard it is just to stand up and walk forward after shit happens to us.
I served royal regiment of scotland 2 tours of afgahn got out met my fiance iv known her before i joined and she passed away with QTS in her heart she was in a comer for 2 months and stayed with her by her side every day the consutant had shut down the staff room because i was hulcinating via no food water and sleep she passed away 2nd of june last year half 1 in the morning in my arms cuddling her and i dont cry but since then i cry every night and sleep with out her cuddling her green white polkadot shirt and pray to god to take my life instead and bring her back to her mum and sister but life dosnt go that way sadly
If you are scared of heights perhaps not the best job for you.The poor guy though, losing his soul mate. And totally blames himself poor man. I hope the man recovers from cancer but he needs to share his burden. These stories break my heart.
7 months late answer, but you can overcome the fearness of heights. I am afraid of heights and i just took a skylift licence where the skylift can go up to 20 meters. 20 meters might not sound so high up but its quite high, specially when the basket kinda swings back and fourth. That puts fear in your mind. I am working on it and i get higher up each time i use the skylift. Fear is something you create in your mind. You picture things that can go wrong, equipment failure etc. trusting the equipment and small steps each time and soon enough you get up to those 20 meters :)
@@LeSnafu also fear is your natural bodies defence telling you no. That might be don’t jump of a building or just don’t put your life at risk. You only get one chance and you don’t get another chance. You live your life like you can just get a pack to upgrade you.
The strength of that last guy was fucking incredible.
@breadandcircuses8127 I am so sorry that you live this way, good luck in life 🥰
Oh man... that last one broke me man... I've had guy friends who admitted to me years later they got victimized.
So much respect for these men.
Great respect for gentlemans...great respect 🕊️ It's amazing how much a human can go through and how strong he becomes...Great respect from heroes...Great respect for a strong ,smart team 🤝 🕊️
Well i haven't had a cry in a few years but this one got me. If any of the lads involved in this video are paying attention, be proud of who you are. Inspirational. This is fucking inspiring guys. You're inspiring.
These are amazing stories, but the one that sticks with me is the guy who's wife was murder by a very sick individual while she was on the phone to him. He had to hear his wife die over a phone call. That guy was so impressive during the training, honestly I don't know how he or any of these individuals did what they did but fair play to them all! Truly inspiring stories and encouraging to see men breaking down the stereotypes that men have to just be hard as nails all the time.
I never spoke out about my sexual abuse until someone else came forward. I felt embarrassed and worthless. I hope i can make a difference to somebody's life and let them know they are not alone.
And you can still help. You could save the next person. Good on you. Brave. F**king proud of you
“How’d a muppet like you pass selection?”
That last man is tough as hell, open up and do it in front of cameras. I wish I could find the courage to be honest and vulnerable like that and my shits not even close to as bad, but I’ll just keep bottling it up for now 😅
Incredible stories by incredible men. Well done 👍
What very brave men. Triumph over adversity!! That’s what I call a very brave man/ women indeed.😊
He's talking about famous UA-camr Emily Hartridge.
Such a horrible way she went too ..The back wheel came off escooter and she flew under a lorry and it rolled over her and crushed her to bits multiple traumatic injuries
@@ShaneeyLX and you had to write that did you?
Came here at one of my own tough times.
I may or may not ever get into such a training though I'd love to. But even just watching SAS: Who Dares Wins has been very helpful for me.
Respect to this brother at the end
That last one broke me. What an absolutely hideous thing to go through. Such an evil thing to happen to someone so young.
God bless him, I hope he finds inner peace ❤️❤️❤️
I hope his “coach” rots in prison for the trauma he placed on those boys he taught.
I was molested when I was 6 and my nanny at the time stood by and watched it happen. I'm 36 now and it still affects me. I try not to think about it. That's how l cope.
@@TashaShaMus I hope you are doing well mate
@@TashaShaMus that’s awful. I am so incredibly sorry that that happened to you.
People are so messed up in their head.
The coach is probably in a lot of pain because child abusers/ rapists get beaten up in prison a lot so that’s good
@@tomatosoup6428 They’re killed once prisoners find out, especially Pedofiles.
Brave men telling their story
Well that brought a tear to my eye.
A always was brought up to be hard And tough as My grandad and uncles were former marines and a played Semi professional Rugby 🏉. So a never really cryed or got emotional Etc. But when My brother was found Dead in he's mate's flat a basically cryed for months on end and ended up with the likes of depression and anxiety Etc. A learnt that mental health isent a weakness is And asking for help is Also not a sign of weakness. My Mum got me help and a accepted it And it's because of that Am alive today and that's what My brother would have wanted
GOOD ON YOU! KEEP GOING! YOUR AN INCREDIBLE PERSON AND AN INSPIRATION!
Good for you, mate. Life is tough at times but you have to keep hope that eventually you’ll overcome the adversity
What a legend that abused man is.. he'd already won in my book. Real life courage.
I get the feeling all SAS men have been through stuff most people can't understand. It's what separates them from the rest of us.
I’ve had many dreams(while sleeping) of falling off a cliff like that. I’m afraid for these brave people
what I am seeing is cognitive spychology - drugs are not allways the answer - forcing the sufferer to iron out the kinks is correct and right. I am begining to see this is both physical and psychological preperation.
What I had endure was more stick than carrot.
It is time that ALL pedophiles were put down (terminated) once proven guilty
As someone who was abused from the age of 6 until 9 (funny right, 69 haha), nothing but forgivness will help someone get through. The longer one remains angry and seeks revenge, the more rotten their core becomes. It's okay, it happened. It doesn't need to define you. You still get to be a man, which is where I suffered most. Life can be beautiful beyond the dark veil we hide under.
@@alexcapatina57 I just wanted to acknowledge how important your reply was. Nothing to add - my opinion doesn't matter but you have my utmost respect
@@alexcapatina57 hang them anyway for fun lol
@@Lungoose 💯 true brother
@@alexcapatina57 Your strength and perspective are admirable. I hope to deal with adversity keeping this in mind. Vengeance or anger have and will always be negative emotions. Life moves on and we have to let time do its thing. Wounds heal but scars remain, but you said it really well that we cannot let the scars define us. Thank you for your comment, admitting, accepting, and moving on are admirable traits and you showed all of them. Its not easy opening up about such things be it on any platform, let alone moving on from them. I wish and hope the best for your future, and my gratitude towards you for being an inspiration to other people abused who are fortunate enough to read your comment and believe that they can also deal with it step by step.
YOUR NOT ALONE i my self know what it feels like and steal feel it every day
Amuz...it can either own you, or you can own it. Let those around you help, you'll be surprised how much it will help you ♥️
I wish I knew what happened to that vlogger Ms. Emily Hartridge that day. But They are nowhere near the London roads or the reactor room.
Much love to you my man. You are brave.
Is hard as the staff are they are real people and understand people’s emotions.
Good on them
Honestly I wouldn't be able to do this whatsoever. It's not so much going down heights (I'd be terrified don't get me wrong, but I'd want to give it a go.) But I'd end up having panic attacks and all that before it even starts💀
UNBELIEVABLE... THEY KNOW WHO YOU ARE. AND THEY STILL DID THATq!!! THAT!!!! IF YOU DONT OD THIS WE WILL NEVER RECOVER. YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO UNLOSE THIS WAR HENRY
Nothing to be embarrassed about hold your head high mate
Your not a victim my friend your a survivor 🫶 you are such a brave man so don’t let the animal who did this win!!!
8:16 wow
I flinched when he hit him in the helmet
The moral of the story is: Don't even apply to go on the show, if you don't have a tragic back-story. It works out fine, but I hope nobody thinks that's the reason for it. It's just how "reality" TV is. Each season, you need more and more extreme "reality".
I think in this instance, it's people with tragic pasts who want to test themselves and grow
Watching this after finishing SAS Australia and the DS are way tougher in this.
Sundeep is such a badass.
The first man your a credit to your late girlfriend I’m sorry for your loss keep going mate 👍
God bless these gentlemen.
greatest soldiers in the world that just taps you on the shoulder with respect. and you just know they mean it.
These guys are better than any counsellor 👌
Damn this got me in the feels. Powerful.
Is he talking about Barry benell the foirball scout at crewe?
Fackin' ell man, the stories on this are heart breaking to hear.. That guy who lost his missus, the guy with Cancer only a year previous and then the other lad who was abused as a young footballer.. Jesus H Christ!!! Forgive me Lord for taking ur name in vain but I wish all these guys the very best futures.
Why does Ant always look like he doesn't give a shit about you.... I always feel great advice goes a long way, and if people are confronting fear work with them don't insult them... unless that's the SAS way?
You haven’t watched the show if you’re saying that about any of them. Please watch a whole SAS UK series and then come back to your comment
I bet you'll be surprised how many SF members were abused (one way or another) the world over.
Thank God the sas is on our side🤘
i think ant draws the recruits away he's to tough when they need compassion only when they release it like that guy did does he re think his stragagy by then its to late were as the other guy was very supportive.
That was hard to watch at 10am 💔
One of my main reasons for applying... But there's other ways to tellbypur story I guess.. A little clear up of situations would be good first so I dont get shit wrong but nobody wanna talk straight.. Still searching lol I gave up everything, especially thinking now ha
Preferred abseiling facing rockface than in this program, as I did in Outward Bound cours of 3 weeks.
Well you obviously can as you didn’t check his cv
It's bad that they get these poor guys with troubled pasts which is only for TV ratings.But it's good in another way how they push these guys and talk about there problem's.Because it's a massive release and a burden to finally let it all out and get it off your chest ..
You don’t ‘sign up’ to the SAS you are selected.
This isn’t actual SAS training it’s just a taster. If it were actual SAS training they wouldn’t be able to show the recruits faces.
Referring to a comment in the video. I’m ex-military, how about the rest of you?
Since Finlay says that its a taster, perhaps they signed up for it and that's how they know to consider them?
Not true at all, you literally put in an application for selection.
God bless all of you so much.
The Take Away: To have the Capability to MOVE ON and MOVE FORWARD in LIFE>
Accessing Archives.
he bottled that up for 25 years . their are still thousands of nonses . out there who have not been caught. also punished
In response to the disgusting comments. Toxic masculinity does not exist. Only hateful people who adhere to feminist (hateful) ideology believe this.
To accused someone of this is bigotry. And to gaslight them and say its acceptable is evil.
Toxic masculinity does not exist.
11.05 poor lad x what a liberty.
Beautiful human
When i said my mate's passed the Selection in Special Forces. ? It wasn't easy , they were professional Soldiers for Civilian2to go through Ants training takes some going and at least you tried. Be Proud of yourself.
RESPECT
Well said Catherine
1st guy, You see what femininity can do for a man, the war on men needs to stop. I see so many sad guys these days. What he lost was was everything to him, he's doing an amazing job 👏 what a man.
last one me cry so much god bless the way they spoke to him poor sod people like his abuser needs a life of hell