Patriarchy Dehumanises Men | Kamla Bhasin | TEDxRamanujanCollege
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- Опубліковано 12 січ 2017
- The talk throws light on the existing Patriarcy and its severe consequences i.e. dehumanizing men on this planet.It also give us a ray of hope about upcoming change in current scenario.
She has been actively engaged with issues related to development, gender, education, media and others since 1970. Currently, she works with Sangat - A Feminist Network as Adviser and JAGORI, A Women’s Resource and Training Centre and Jagori Rural Charitable Trust as an active member. She is the South Asia Coordinator of One Billion Rising, a global campaign to end violence against women and girls; Co-Chair of the worldwide network Peace Women Across the Globe; and member of South Asians for Human Rights (SAHR). Prior to this, she worked with the Food and Agriculture Organization of the United Nations for 27 years. Kamla Bhasin has written extensively on gender, women’s empowerment, participatory and sustainable development, participatory training, media and communication. Most of her books are written for activists and development workers. She has also written a large number of songs and slogans. She is committed to the creation of a peaceful, democratic and pluralist South Asia.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
Came here after watching dhruv rathee's feminism video
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Man of quality, is not afraid of equality 😊
Wahh kya kha hai
Of course a guy with a profile pic wearing a mask would write a comment like this lol
Man of quality are always man of equality. 😊
How many people come after dhruv rathi's video 😊
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Kon kon dhurve rathee ka video dekh kar aaya hai....😂😂😂
Mai
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@@hemrajgurjar2962 kushi...happy
@@KingkhanOfficial103 i think 😀😃😄😁😊😇🌝 ye imogies hai happyness ke 😂😂to joke aur laughter ka hai.
But ok,mai to bas pooch Raha tha.
Soo beautifully she described it ...such people make me believe that education matters ❤❤
absolutely right 😊😊😊😊
"Men of quality are not afraid of equality" 🙌
Hi Priyanka 😊
Haa@@ramansonwani7413
@@ramansonwani7413yaha equality ki baat kar rhi h tu ab bhi setting me lag rha h😅
Wow sahi jawaab diya
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Nature makes diversity but not make inequality 👏🏻👏🏻
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thank you dhruv bhai for giving this video
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earlier ,i don,t know what the word feminism truly means but thanks to this wonderful speech by kamla bhasin really i feel more educated after knowing the fact that men of quality are not afraid of equality, those who agree likes and comments below ❤💫💯
How may of you are here after Dhruv Rathee videoo
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Current 7 people😅
Kis kis ye Aunty Ache lagi 👍
Sme
Dhruv rathee gave the Diamond from the coal mine 🔷
👏👏 I sincerely pray Mam that your message reach the heartland of India.
I will become a man.
A true "Man"
The man that she wants to see,
The man she wants us to be.
Who else are with me? We have to change the world for good.
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Maine khub share kiya... Achi baat kho jati h....7yr baad sun rhi hu bura lg rha h.. still we need it, all thanks to dhruv.
Kamala is an eloquent speaker, I love listening to her as she has some incredible thoughts that she explains in simple terms.
We will miss you - RIP - may God bless your soul as you have done great things in this world.
I clapped loudly at the end of this video, even when I am sitting in a room alone, watching this on my laptop. Kamla Bhasin 😍
Who came here after dhruv rathee video 😊
Kamla Bhasin Pranam 🙏🏼 a must watch Episode
I came again here...I have watched this talk several times...one of my favourite ted talks...I loved her always...May God rest her in peace....love from Pakistan 💖
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By her talk I can imagine the world which she wanted to see!!
@shivangi The world is always changing
She wanted female dominance in the name of equality.
Itna nasha nhi kiya karte @@vesalore696
This type explanation can understand only a human mark my words ..❤ a human no matter men or women ✅👍🏻
Why did I come to know about this so late???!!! She is an amazing woman. Rest in peace mam.
I am watching it today
Excellent, deep, analytical, reflective
..with much needed sarcasm
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बहुत सारी महिलाएं भी इस पितृसत्तात्मक सोच का सहयोग करती हैं, यही सबसे बडा कारण है, जिनके कारण ये पितृसत्ता समाप्त नही हो रही।
@shivangi What's wrong in it?
@shivangi Agar english kamzor hai to Hindi me likh lijiye. Galat grammar use krne ki zarurat nhi hai 😂
Biased sexist Feminism must be ended.
@@burodi9967 Feminism (I am not supporting female identity politics) isn't sexist. It originated due to sexism. Isn't it?
@@aman_insaan go read politiy ncert of class 11. Feminism means equality; equality of oppitunities, equality of income, equality of status etc..
This is called as popularity of DHRUV RATHEE☝️
Thank You Dhruv Rathee ❤️
Thank you dhruve for giving this video.
Thanks kamla sahiba.for Allah words.🎉🎉🎉.
Because we all 8 sisters are facing 😢😢😢this patriarchy ...what I say...zyadtian from our alone brother😢😢😢😢
Our parents Allah Pak jannat naseeb farmae gave him ... priorities from birth...til their death.😢
was raised to be an obidient daughter. Never say no to my parents and hardly talk to strangers. Also my parents werent letting me have friends or much contact with other people. If i started dating i was called immoral by my mother and she put words against me to my sisters so they stop doing company with me. Whenever i had someone i loved my parents never approved of him because they wanted to marry me up so they gain social ascendance and money. So my parents always broke up all my relationships by fighting with my boyfriends calling my boyfriend s family to tell them to stop hanging out with me annuling my engagement threatening me to take me to the prosecutor for idk what my mother had in mind. This left me be alone in life. And when my parents die i wont have anyone around me as relative or family. This is the price i payed for patriarchy and for my mother and father s honor. Till this day i am 45 years old and my mother does not let me date a man. And she does not care i am alone or end up old and alone. She wants that for me. My mother thinks that s the moral thing for me.
Apni harqat sudharo
Nice story.
You have to be strong and date who you want! you cant be controlled by Patriarchy! It causes misery. Be a bad girl in thier eyes but a happy one to yourself! If each women doesnt stand up against it who will?
Same with my girl too she's in calabash now her father and mother don't want her to leave well you on your own now date who you want she can't stop you there is two types of patriarchal one good to protect women wife that is wife take care of kids clean house take kids to school and tend house but not over patriarchy and there's bad beating up on them.this that and abuse on girls by two parents and of course you and my girl are going through those parents are sadist they don't care if I'm alone or not
@@neetmotivation59tu pehle Krishna bhagwan hate tere dp say😂
She will be missed! Rest in peace and power!
Oh is she passed away.
Yes she will be missed by Pakistan and JNU
Do Google why
@@frenchwallah I feel bad for you and your inability to appreciate her intellect. Well, I can only hope you will develop the capacity to grasp her ideas!
@@poonakumari6092 do you appreciate laden..
She has clear agenda
That's why she never spoke about sayra Bano case ..why
Sayra Bano was a brave lady
@@poonakumari6092 hope you will develop your mind and findout the truth about her agenda ...why she didn't speak about tripal talak and 4 Biwi
I usually watch ur public speeches n lectures.The more I watch, more motivated I have been about gender issues.Ur thought should be heard by every men .I m from Nepal.I have been working as a lecturer of English in Tribhuvan University .I have to teach feminism in university as well.Ur videos about gender r very much helpful for me to understand gender in detail.Thank u n hope to see u in Nepal in the passes of time.Thank u Ma'am for ur great thought.
I have no words to describe my feeling after listening this.Literally you are amazing..
My thoughts are always matching with ur thoughts mam. Lot of respect and love❤❤❤
But why she never talk about tripal talak and 4 biwi
Because she has an agenda
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It's true about our society mam aapne meri aakhen khol di really good mam now I realise it is very big problem of our society..
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Who is here after Dhruv Rathi's recommendation
I'm a translator and english teacher...I can't understand entirely what she is saying...
It should have subtitles. Not everyone can follow this kind of accent.
who is here after watching dhruv rathee's video? 😊
Well-spoken, I hate the Patriarchy system
Cry
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984 Thanks to patriarchy, you can't even do that.😂
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Best talk ever.please boys understand this all.
Such beautiful and heart touching thoughts❤❤
Men of quality..... Not afraid of equality.... Wow...
Men of Quality... is never afraid of Equality!
Women of quality never fear men of patriarchy
Absolutely. And thanks for criticising without generalising.
@Shruti Tripathy no issues patriarchy is the safest and successful system ever built. Whenever there was equality there was only misery and chaos. E.g. Rome, Greece and Soviet union
@@afshanfathima976 please don’t get messed up with term such as patriarchy and others. This termed was coined to illustrate a social hierarchy, which was a part of evolution over centuries. Yes it was good but not perfect and there should be no harm in accepting that.
Equality is again a perception of an individual. I believe men and women should acknowledge their differences and support each other for a better society. Blaming other will never work. And yes each individual have their own identity which is more important than a group identity.
@@afshanfathima976 yeah that's why Afghanistan ,Iraq, Pakistan , Nigeria is so developed. And countries like Australia , USA , UK where equality is there. Is so destructive . Sachi mei har jagah mutralaya bna rkha h tum Jaise so called weak mardo ko.
Ma'am you are mind-blowing ❤ even I am 23 years old, but I can't thaught as u. Thank you so much for guiding us on such a important topic which I definitely pass on to my next generation ❤❤
What a well spoken woman ! Truly under-rated
This video deserves more views 🫡🫡🫡🫡
Hats off Ma'am 🫡🫡🫡
Very true.... I always had a doubt in my mind about patriarchy benefiting men. When I tried to fit in the society, I found it hurt my ethics. Now I realised that my doubts were not for nothing! Yup.. when you take what is not yours, you lose emotionally...
Thank you so much for this ❤
Amazing...... eye opener speech 👍💐
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The headline is wrong, Patriarchy dehumanise everyone, not just men. Patriarchy is a system/mindset where one is considered superior over other.
Right.....
After a long time... Gone through an amazing learning 😌🙏🏻
Thank u kamla Bhasin mammm Thank a lot u changed my thoughts point of view I😊 never forget this whole lecture in my life and also thank for tedx talk 🎉🎉
wonderful message to the society
Thank you mam...
Awesome speech.😢❤❤
Really incredible speech 👍👍🙏👆
Men of quality are never afraid of equality. True 🥹🥹
would love for this to have an English translation to be more accessible to many
आप बहुत अच्छा बोलती हैं,
आपकी सोच उससे भी अच्छा है।
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She is a clever fraud.
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@@burodi9967burnol 😢?
Amazed and grateful
Need more videos related to this kind of topics ❤
Rest in peace ma'am
Thanks madam nice thought
Seven years have passed but we still don't understand what to do. I was fortunate to have a family that brought me up in such a way that I could respect my mothers and sisters🙌🏻 and face the evils of the society with an open mind.❤ Hope things get better in right way not like today's pseudo feminists who still can't understand it's true meaning
Catchy not a single moment of detachment. Entirely engaging. ❤
Love from Pakistani American
Just found out that she passed away. Rest In Peace madam. You did a brilliant job in your life 👏👏👏💞
Hi, does anyone know how to add subtitles to the video? I am thinking about translating the video. Please let me know, thanks!
Beautifully explained mam❤
Development doesn't come from gender equality. Rather, gender equality can only be achieved, afforded and sustained by an already developed society, where strong masculine men have already created an easier life for all.
The amount of toxic masculinity in recent comments here doesn't pass the vibe.
Gonna cry?
@@lakshyachoudhary5514 what an illiterate fellow u r.... lol
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984wanna laugh
@babluchakroborty1054 damn
There should have English captions - such a subject should be available for us all to hear.
She is spreading lies.
Such a strong voice ❤️
thank you dhurve bhai 🥰
Rest in peace dear mam.
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This will cross 1 million views after Dhruv video❤
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You are right 😊
I love the way she explained she is a true legend
Apki HR bat sahi h mam. 100% sahi h. Log dimak se bimar h. Soch bdlo india bdlo.
One of the best Ted talk tht I have heard today...best line " Nature makes diversity not hierarchy"
Not really!
@@abijithm.k6088 u won't understand coz ur not born as a girl😊😊
@@itisha_b7256 you don't have to be a girl to understand hierarchy
@@abijithm.k6088 im talking about patriarchy
@@itisha_b7256 im talking about hierarchy.. nature does make hierarchical orders
Well.. Spoken ❤🙏🙏
Lol
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Every word has deep meaning ❤
While reading the comments i realized she is no more which i didn’t i knew so far. So sad we missed a great woman....
Very well said and I agree with her that Patriarchy world shouldn't be created or it should be removed. One solid point is that "Hamari ladai mardon se nhi hai, hamari ladai Patriarchy concept ko follow karne walon se hai chahe wo aadmi ho ya aurat."
But 2-3 statements she has generalised which can be removed like 'aadmi ne pure Bharat ko peshabghar bana diya' and 'aadmi ne pure Bharat ko peekdaan bana diya hai.'
Apart from this, she has rightly said that no man (probably, not even in my knowledge) has started a movement against patriarchy system.
do you know any women who started movement against fake dowry and fake domestic violence accusations.
Listen JBP
mardon ki band baj rahi hai.....totally gender biased statment!
@@Aashish_Thakur.DEEPIKA NARAYAN BHARADWAJ!
@@aksh2510 she is an exception
Dhruv rathee valle ---------->>>>>>
Very nice I really loved mam's ideology
Nature gives us diversity not hierarchy... ❤
Perfect !
You are an inspiration mam love you so much 💐❤️🌸❤️🙏🙏
Thankyou 🙏🏻
Perfect thought ❤
I miss her every day....
Rest in power kamla di
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I am here after watching dhruv rathee's video
True defination of *feminism* thanks to druv rathi for the recommendation ❤
Thank you ma'm
Amazing
God bless you mam.👍
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Most amezing speach hat's off mam 💪🏻🖐️
Throughout te video I was instrospecting myself..I am proud to have all the qualities
What an amazing speaker!! She has so beautifully articulated the facts that patriarchy is harmful for everyone -- and is something ALL of us must fight together.
Aayina daikh k darr gaya main bhi !
Jane kabb khud se bicharr gaya main bhi!
Wo wajood k jis ne mujhe hai paida kiya!
Lafz ussi ki izzaton pe dhar gaya main bhi
Pehle insaan tha abb Mard bnn gaya houn main!
Rutba jo Rabb ne diyaa uss se utar gaya main bhi!
Hussain
Inspiration❤
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Worth watching. 👏🏻