earlier ,i don,t know what the word feminism truly means but thanks to this wonderful speech by kamla bhasin really i feel more educated after knowing the fact that men of quality are not afraid of equality, those who agree likes and comments below ❤💫💯
I came again here...I have watched this talk several times...one of my favourite ted talks...I loved her always...May God rest her in peace....love from Pakistan 💖
I will become a man. A true "Man" The man that she wants to see, The man she wants us to be. Who else are with me? We have to change the world for good.
Thank you dhruve for giving this video. Thanks kamla sahiba.for Allah words.🎉🎉🎉. Because we all 8 sisters are facing 😢😢😢this patriarchy ...what I say...zyadtian from our alone brother😢😢😢😢 Our parents Allah Pak jannat naseeb farmae gave him ... priorities from birth...til their death.😢
Kamala Bhasin ji is such a beautiful speaker and I loved her every word and sentence. She addressed the patriarchy so gracefully, no one would have done better than her.
I usually watch ur public speeches n lectures.The more I watch, more motivated I have been about gender issues.Ur thought should be heard by every men .I m from Nepal.I have been working as a lecturer of English in Tribhuvan University .I have to teach feminism in university as well.Ur videos about gender r very much helpful for me to understand gender in detail.Thank u n hope to see u in Nepal in the passes of time.Thank u Ma'am for ur great thought.
@@frenchwallah I feel bad for you and your inability to appreciate her intellect. Well, I can only hope you will develop the capacity to grasp her ideas!
@Shruti Tripathy no issues patriarchy is the safest and successful system ever built. Whenever there was equality there was only misery and chaos. E.g. Rome, Greece and Soviet union
@@afshanfathima976 please don’t get messed up with term such as patriarchy and others. This termed was coined to illustrate a social hierarchy, which was a part of evolution over centuries. Yes it was good but not perfect and there should be no harm in accepting that. Equality is again a perception of an individual. I believe men and women should acknowledge their differences and support each other for a better society. Blaming other will never work. And yes each individual have their own identity which is more important than a group identity.
@@afshanfathima976 yeah that's why Afghanistan ,Iraq, Pakistan , Nigeria is so developed. And countries like Australia , USA , UK where equality is there. Is so destructive . Sachi mei har jagah mutralaya bna rkha h tum Jaise so called weak mardo ko.
Ma'am you are mind-blowing ❤ even I am 23 years old, but I can't thaught as u. Thank you so much for guiding us on such a important topic which I definitely pass on to my next generation ❤❤
I am reading a lot of comments here talking about how inspiring she is as well as a lot of comments about how she is spreading hatred against men. I believe she spoke the truth. And she inspires me. I am grateful that she is speaking. There will be people who will not agree. But that doesn't matter. What matters is that this is being talked about. Women and men together are coming forward raising issues regarding inequality. There have been various movements. I am glad that people are not accepting this in silence. They are talking. And we have come a long way :) and we will continue to move forward towards equality. He for she and she for he.
siddhi parashar behen follow her she is a wise lady, I a man, she is my intellectual mother. Don’t feel for the negative comments you read by these misogynistic men. They are the root of all problem. Viva la feminism.
What an amazing speaker!! She has so beautifully articulated the facts that patriarchy is harmful for everyone -- and is something ALL of us must fight together.
was raised to be an obidient daughter. Never say no to my parents and hardly talk to strangers. Also my parents werent letting me have friends or much contact with other people. If i started dating i was called immoral by my mother and she put words against me to my sisters so they stop doing company with me. Whenever i had someone i loved my parents never approved of him because they wanted to marry me up so they gain social ascendance and money. So my parents always broke up all my relationships by fighting with my boyfriends calling my boyfriend s family to tell them to stop hanging out with me annuling my engagement threatening me to take me to the prosecutor for idk what my mother had in mind. This left me be alone in life. And when my parents die i wont have anyone around me as relative or family. This is the price i payed for patriarchy and for my mother and father s honor. Till this day i am 45 years old and my mother does not let me date a man. And she does not care i am alone or end up old and alone. She wants that for me. My mother thinks that s the moral thing for me.
You have to be strong and date who you want! you cant be controlled by Patriarchy! It causes misery. Be a bad girl in thier eyes but a happy one to yourself! If each women doesnt stand up against it who will?
Patriarchy is a non-existent problem women have created in their heads so they can have something to cry and complain about. It's always women who laugh at men when they cry, not patriarchy.
Very true.... I always had a doubt in my mind about patriarchy benefiting men. When I tried to fit in the society, I found it hurt my ethics. Now I realised that my doubts were not for nothing! Yup.. when you take what is not yours, you lose emotionally...
Thank u kamla Bhasin mammm Thank a lot u changed my thoughts point of view I😊 never forget this whole lecture in my life and also thank for tedx talk 🎉🎉
Seven years have passed but we still don't understand what to do. I was fortunate to have a family that brought me up in such a way that I could respect my mothers and sisters🙌🏻 and face the evils of the society with an open mind.❤ Hope things get better in right way not like today's pseudo feminists who still can't understand it's true meaning
Very well said and I agree with her that Patriarchy world shouldn't be created or it should be removed. One solid point is that "Hamari ladai mardon se nhi hai, hamari ladai Patriarchy concept ko follow karne walon se hai chahe wo aadmi ho ya aurat." But 2-3 statements she has generalised which can be removed like 'aadmi ne pure Bharat ko peshabghar bana diya' and 'aadmi ne pure Bharat ko peekdaan bana diya hai.' Apart from this, she has rightly said that no man (probably, not even in my knowledge) has started a movement against patriarchy system.
I'm a translator and english teacher...I can't understand entirely what she is saying... It should have subtitles. Not everyone can follow this kind of accent.
You are my idol mam ,you are great speaker and you are very inspired me l watch your speeches about feminism and l want to be a woman like you in my life ,you are a very powerful lady , thanks mam for inspired many girls and make their lifes better 🙏🙏❤️❤️
@Shruti Tripathy feminists are against religions, hindu gurus, Jesus, guru nanak and they call them as patriarchy. Means they are toxic according to your logic!!?
I'm glad to see the comments of men here praising her and the spoech she gave about feminism like literally its not only about women rights but men rights too
Came here after watching dhruv rathee's feminism video
Me also 😊
Me too😅
same here
Me too
Same 😊😊
Man of quality, is not afraid of equality 😊
Wahh kya kha hai
Of course a guy with a profile pic wearing a mask would write a comment like this lol
Man of quality are always man of equality. 😊
Who is here after Dhruv Bhai video
😊😊😊😊😊😊
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❤😊
Me too
Me too
"Men of quality are not afraid of equality" 🙌
Hi Priyanka 😊
Haa@@ramansonwani7413
@@ramansonwani7413yaha equality ki baat kar rhi h tu ab bhi setting me lag rha h😅
Wow sahi jawaab diya
🔔
Soo beautifully she described it ...such people make me believe that education matters ❤❤
absolutely right 😊😊😊😊
How many people come after dhruv rathi's video 😊
I also 🙂
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Meeee😅
❤❤❤❤
Me
Nature makes diversity but not make inequality 👏🏻👏🏻
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Fake
thank you dhruv bhai for giving this video
😊😊😊😊😊😊
😊😊😊😊😊
earlier ,i don,t know what the word feminism truly means but thanks to this wonderful speech by kamla bhasin really i feel more educated after knowing the fact that men of quality are not afraid of equality, those who agree likes and comments below ❤💫💯
Kon kon dhurve rathee ka video dekh kar aaya hai....😂😂😂
Mai
@@akkushakya8928 😂😂😂
@hemrajgurjar2962 kushi...happy
@hemrajgurjar2962 joke abhi gussa me hai... 😃 😀 😄 😁 😃 😀 😄
aree bhai ap bhi?
👏👏 I sincerely pray Mam that your message reach the heartland of India.
Best talk ever.please boys understand this all.
Dhruv rathee gave the Diamond from the coal mine 🔷
I clapped loudly at the end of this video, even when I am sitting in a room alone, watching this on my laptop. Kamla Bhasin 😍
Maine khub share kiya... Achi baat kho jati h....7yr baad sun rhi hu bura lg rha h.. still we need it, all thanks to dhruv.
How may of you are here after Dhruv Rathee videoo
Me
Me !
Current 7 people😅
Kis kis ye Aunty Ache lagi 👍
Sme
Kamla Bhasin Pranam 🙏🏼 a must watch Episode
I came again here...I have watched this talk several times...one of my favourite ted talks...I loved her always...May God rest her in peace....love from Pakistan 💖
😊😊😊😊😊😊
By her talk I can imagine the world which she wanted to see!!
@shivangi The world is always changing
She wanted female dominance in the name of equality.
Itna nasha nhi kiya karte @@vesalore696
Why did I come to know about this so late???!!! She is an amazing woman. Rest in peace mam.
I am watching it today
I will become a man.
A true "Man"
The man that she wants to see,
The man she wants us to be.
Who else are with me? We have to change the world for good.
❤❤
😂 simp
Simp
Are you a simp for your mom? 😂@@crashloyal
💯💯
This type explanation can understand only a human mark my words ..❤ a human no matter men or women ✅👍🏻
Men of quality..... Not afraid of equality.... Wow...
Thank you dhruve for giving this video.
Thanks kamla sahiba.for Allah words.🎉🎉🎉.
Because we all 8 sisters are facing 😢😢😢this patriarchy ...what I say...zyadtian from our alone brother😢😢😢😢
Our parents Allah Pak jannat naseeb farmae gave him ... priorities from birth...til their death.😢
This is called as popularity of DHRUV RATHEE☝️
"Men of quality are not afraid of equality"👏👏👏
I have no words to describe my feeling after listening this.Literally you are amazing..
She is undoubtedly a brilliant and knowledgeable human.!✨
Excellent, deep, analytical, reflective
..with much needed sarcasm
👏👏
Kamala Bhasin ji is such a beautiful speaker and I loved her every word and sentence. She addressed the patriarchy so gracefully, no one would have done better than her.
I usually watch ur public speeches n lectures.The more I watch, more motivated I have been about gender issues.Ur thought should be heard by every men .I m from Nepal.I have been working as a lecturer of English in Tribhuvan University .I have to teach feminism in university as well.Ur videos about gender r very much helpful for me to understand gender in detail.Thank u n hope to see u in Nepal in the passes of time.Thank u Ma'am for ur great thought.
Men of quality are never afraid of equality. True 🥹🥹
She will be missed! Rest in peace and power!
Oh is she passed away.
Yes she will be missed by Pakistan and JNU
Do Google why
@@frenchwallah I feel bad for you and your inability to appreciate her intellect. Well, I can only hope you will develop the capacity to grasp her ideas!
@@poonakumari6092 do you appreciate laden..
She has clear agenda
That's why she never spoke about sayra Bano case ..why
Sayra Bano was a brave lady
@@poonakumari6092 hope you will develop your mind and findout the truth about her agenda ...why she didn't speak about tripal talak and 4 Biwi
Men of Quality... is never afraid of Equality!
Women of quality never fear men of patriarchy
Absolutely. And thanks for criticising without generalising.
@Shruti Tripathy no issues patriarchy is the safest and successful system ever built. Whenever there was equality there was only misery and chaos. E.g. Rome, Greece and Soviet union
@@afshanfathima976 please don’t get messed up with term such as patriarchy and others. This termed was coined to illustrate a social hierarchy, which was a part of evolution over centuries. Yes it was good but not perfect and there should be no harm in accepting that.
Equality is again a perception of an individual. I believe men and women should acknowledge their differences and support each other for a better society. Blaming other will never work. And yes each individual have their own identity which is more important than a group identity.
@@afshanfathima976 yeah that's why Afghanistan ,Iraq, Pakistan , Nigeria is so developed. And countries like Australia , USA , UK where equality is there. Is so destructive . Sachi mei har jagah mutralaya bna rkha h tum Jaise so called weak mardo ko.
बहुत सारी महिलाएं भी इस पितृसत्तात्मक सोच का सहयोग करती हैं, यही सबसे बडा कारण है, जिनके कारण ये पितृसत्ता समाप्त नही हो रही।
@shivangi What's wrong in it?
@shivangi Agar english kamzor hai to Hindi me likh lijiye. Galat grammar use krne ki zarurat nhi hai 😂
Biased sexist Feminism must be ended.
@@burodi9967 Feminism (I am not supporting female identity politics) isn't sexist. It originated due to sexism. Isn't it?
@@aman_insaan go read politiy ncert of class 11. Feminism means equality; equality of oppitunities, equality of income, equality of status etc..
What a well spoken woman ! Truly under-rated
Who came here after dhruv rathee video 😊
My thoughts are always matching with ur thoughts mam. Lot of respect and love❤❤❤
But why she never talk about tripal talak and 4 biwi
Because she has an agenda
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Me too
Thank You Dhruv Rathee ❤️
Ma'am you are mind-blowing ❤ even I am 23 years old, but I can't thaught as u. Thank you so much for guiding us on such a important topic which I definitely pass on to my next generation ❤❤
It's true about our society mam aapne meri aakhen khol di really good mam now I realise it is very big problem of our society..
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Man of quality, is not afraid of equality
I am reading a lot of comments here talking about how inspiring she is as well as a lot of comments about how she is spreading hatred against men. I believe she spoke the truth. And she inspires me. I am grateful that she is speaking. There will be people who will not agree. But that doesn't matter. What matters is that this is being talked about. Women and men together are coming forward raising issues regarding inequality. There have been various movements. I am glad that people are not accepting this in silence. They are talking. And we have come a long way :) and we will continue to move forward towards equality. He for she and she for he.
siddhi parashar behen follow her she is a wise lady, I a man, she is my intellectual mother. Don’t feel for the negative comments you read by these misogynistic men. They are the root of all problem. Viva la feminism.
MARDON KI BAND BAJ RAHI HAI, statments like this imagin if somebody will use it against women!
Plz can we used faminism as egalitarianism .? I am also a girl
Men of quality are never afraid of Equality.
wonderful message to the society
आप बहुत अच्छा बोलती हैं,
आपकी सोच उससे भी अच्छा है।
😊😊
She is a clever fraud.
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@@burodi9967burnol 😢?
This video deserves more views 🫡🫡🫡🫡
Hats off Ma'am 🫡🫡🫡
What an amazing speaker!! She has so beautifully articulated the facts that patriarchy is harmful for everyone -- and is something ALL of us must fight together.
Who is here after Dhruv Rathi's recommendation
was raised to be an obidient daughter. Never say no to my parents and hardly talk to strangers. Also my parents werent letting me have friends or much contact with other people. If i started dating i was called immoral by my mother and she put words against me to my sisters so they stop doing company with me. Whenever i had someone i loved my parents never approved of him because they wanted to marry me up so they gain social ascendance and money. So my parents always broke up all my relationships by fighting with my boyfriends calling my boyfriend s family to tell them to stop hanging out with me annuling my engagement threatening me to take me to the prosecutor for idk what my mother had in mind. This left me be alone in life. And when my parents die i wont have anyone around me as relative or family. This is the price i payed for patriarchy and for my mother and father s honor. Till this day i am 45 years old and my mother does not let me date a man. And she does not care i am alone or end up old and alone. She wants that for me. My mother thinks that s the moral thing for me.
Apni harqat sudharo
Nice story.
You have to be strong and date who you want! you cant be controlled by Patriarchy! It causes misery. Be a bad girl in thier eyes but a happy one to yourself! If each women doesnt stand up against it who will?
@@neetmotivation59tu pehle Krishna bhagwan hate tere dp say😂
One of the best Ted talk tht I have heard today...best line " Nature makes diversity not hierarchy"
Not really!
@@abijithm.k6088 u won't understand coz ur not born as a girl😊😊
@@itisha_b7256 you don't have to be a girl to understand hierarchy
@@abijithm.k6088 im talking about patriarchy
@@itisha_b7256 im talking about hierarchy.. nature does make hierarchical orders
Awesome speech.😢❤❤
Catchy not a single moment of detachment. Entirely engaging. ❤
Well-spoken, I hate the Patriarchy system
Cry
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984 Thanks to patriarchy, you can't even do that.😂
@@sanyashakya1321
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@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984 Noting cool in this 😂...kuch nhi samajh aa rha kya reply kare to 🗿 ye wali emoji daal dete
Patriarchy is a non-existent problem women have created in their heads so they can have something to cry and complain about. It's always women who laugh at men when they cry, not patriarchy.
Apki HR bat sahi h mam. 100% sahi h. Log dimak se bimar h. Soch bdlo india bdlo.
While reading the comments i realized she is no more which i didn’t i knew so far. So sad we missed a great woman....
Such beautiful and heart touching thoughts❤❤
Very true.... I always had a doubt in my mind about patriarchy benefiting men. When I tried to fit in the society, I found it hurt my ethics. Now I realised that my doubts were not for nothing! Yup.. when you take what is not yours, you lose emotionally...
The amount of toxic masculinity in recent comments here doesn't pass the vibe.
Gonna cry?
@@lakshyachoudhary5514 what an illiterate fellow u r.... lol
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984wanna laugh
@babluchakroborty1054 damn
People watching this video are actually educated ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Amazed and grateful
Amazing...... eye opener speech 👍💐
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Rest in peace dear mam.
😑🧐
After a long time... Gone through an amazing learning 😌🙏🏻
Thank u kamla Bhasin mammm Thank a lot u changed my thoughts point of view I😊 never forget this whole lecture in my life and also thank for tedx talk 🎉🎉
Nature gives us diversity not hierarchy... ❤
How many of you come here after watching dhruv rathi😊😊😂
abhii use complete karke yha aaya hu 😅
main bhi abhi Druv ka video dekhke aya 😅😅
I am
Isse kya hoga?
Every word has deep meaning ❤
There should have English captions - such a subject should be available for us all to hear.
She is spreading lies.
I love the way she explained she is a true legend
I strongly believe that eveyone should watch this video.....specially those people who force their daughter to stay at home ...
What about protection!!
i have never seen a single happy patriarchal family. patriarchy and happiness can't coexist.
I miss her every day....
Rest in power kamla di
😊😊😊😊😊
thank you dhurve bhai 🥰
Seven years have passed but we still don't understand what to do. I was fortunate to have a family that brought me up in such a way that I could respect my mothers and sisters🙌🏻 and face the evils of the society with an open mind.❤ Hope things get better in right way not like today's pseudo feminists who still can't understand it's true meaning
Very well said and I agree with her that Patriarchy world shouldn't be created or it should be removed. One solid point is that "Hamari ladai mardon se nhi hai, hamari ladai Patriarchy concept ko follow karne walon se hai chahe wo aadmi ho ya aurat."
But 2-3 statements she has generalised which can be removed like 'aadmi ne pure Bharat ko peshabghar bana diya' and 'aadmi ne pure Bharat ko peekdaan bana diya hai.'
Apart from this, she has rightly said that no man (probably, not even in my knowledge) has started a movement against patriarchy system.
do you know any women who started movement against fake dowry and fake domestic violence accusations.
Listen JBP
mardon ki band baj rahi hai.....totally gender biased statment!
@@Aashish_Thakur.DEEPIKA NARAYAN BHARADWAJ!
@@aksh2510 she is an exception
Such a strong voice ❤️
What a legendary woman ❤❤
😊😊😊😊😊❤❤
Kamla Bhasin is the reason I became a feminist.
LolGuy your life is screwed
Monkey Mind sale kitna jaga ghumega ..band kar yaar ..mein bhi tera jaisa Hun ...tujhe hi dhund ke aa gaya Hun😂
Kudos man we need men like you and me to stand by our mothers and sisters who are fighting a battle
❤❤
I hope you get well soon
Thank you so much for this ❤
I'm a translator and english teacher...I can't understand entirely what she is saying...
It should have subtitles. Not everyone can follow this kind of accent.
You are my idol mam ,you are great speaker and you are very inspired me l watch your speeches about feminism and l want to be a woman like you in my life ,you are a very powerful lady , thanks mam for inspired many girls and make their lifes better 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Thanks madam nice thought
The headline is wrong, Patriarchy dehumanise everyone, not just men. Patriarchy is a system/mindset where one is considered superior over other.
Right.....
would love for this to have an English translation to be more accessible to many
Beautifully explained mam❤
Very well said every word is priceless 👍 I hate Patriarchy system
No crowd of men ever protested together, there might be individuals who did stand up. But as a group, never
जोरदार प्रहार पितृसत्तात्मक पर , आपके विचार बहुत सही है , शायद इन लोगो को समझने में अभी समय लगेगा .शानदार .
@ULTIMATE MGTOW aa gaya brainwash chutiya
@@Dikshaleeminho 😂😂
Matriarchy and Feminism poisons our society.
@@Matriarchy_Feminism correct bro
@Shruti Tripathy feminists are against religions, hindu gurus, Jesus, guru nanak and they call them as patriarchy. Means they are toxic according to your logic!!?
Extremely beautifully articulated.. I wish i would someday speak like her..going to quote her in the upcoming upsc mains 😁
One of the best Ted talk ever ❤️❤️❤️
Lol. Fake and worst
@@burodi9967 i think you love male dominance 😎
😂😂😂😂loll
@@TheVizkan you love female dominance.
@@p.k1526 no we love equal dominance
बहुत सटीक वक्तव्य 💐😇🙏🏼😊🌸
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
My daughter made me show this. Kamla Ma'am you have inspired us in so many ways. Thank You.
Salute mam
Love from Pakistani American
Just found out that she passed away. Rest In Peace madam. You did a brilliant job in your life 👏👏👏💞
Respect for you ma'am
Patriarchy exposes and dehumanizes SIMPS not MEN
👍👍👍👍
That's a strange take.
True👍👍
@@p.k1526 Not true...
Very nice I really loved mam's ideology
Perfect !
I'm glad to see the comments of men here praising her and the spoech she gave about feminism like literally its not only about women rights but men rights too