5 Ways to Be a Submissive Wife {Why I Submit to My Husband}
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- Опубліковано 23 лис 2021
- We love, respect, and trust our husbands. But, we also have a side that thinks we know best - and we want to do things our way. So, what should those of us do who are submissively-challenged as wives? How can we learn to submit to our husbands?
Find out how to be a submissive wife and what the bible really says about biblical submission. Plus, learn 5 easy ways to submit to your husband and shower him with love every day!
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it takes a spiritually strong woman who realizes the importance of the God-given role of submission. And, a realization that if Jesus himself submitted to the Father’s will out of love, we, too, can submit to our husbands.
Disclaimer: This video is based on a loving Christian relationship with mutual respect. The husband also needs to love his wife as Christ loves the church. - Фільми й анімація
See, I'm from India, I'm a hindu . My wife is also submissive. I love her so much that I can't even think about spending even a day without her . She is submissive to me and loves me selflessly . I am so much happy in life . 💕💕
women often fail to understand is that when you have the strength to submit what you are doing is compelling a man to be responsible and to commit. Is that not what you want? If it is what you want position yourself with docility to compel his journey towards responsibility And commitment. The pressure in the crucible of responsibility turns coal into diamonds. Women who turn princes into frogs forget this. All women who turn frogs into princes understand this completely. To be submissive to a man is a tremendous compliment and men will go to the ends of the earth to fulfill The lofty aspiration of those who believe in us.
I follow the word of God, but like you, sometimes I say or make suggestions in a way that upsets my husband. I pray for God to help me, and I am learning to make sure respect is my first approach when working with my husband.
People around us, mostly his family and friends are clearly shocked or surprised of how I take care of my husband. His friends hope their wifes would do the same, and the wifes tell me that it is crazy, and that my actions are taking all the progress women have made back to the stone age.
Prayer is definitely key for me. Respecting our husbands doesn't mean women are any "less than" - we are just trying to live by God's plan.
Ask him if he is open to suggestion, if not, then you simply submit with a happy heart. Problem solved.
Such a calm vid, thx for sharing🩷🩷
Thank you so much for your wonderful tips. My husband and I were actually arranged marriage but we believe that it was his holiness, Jesus himself who set us together. Now my only purpose in life is to be a good submissive to my husband which I would like to appreciate since this video helps a lot! I have tried being as submissive as I can and I believe my husband wants what's best for me but lately due to the stress of having our first child I have been arguing with him more, what should I do?
I've had the same problem before and I think at this stage it is our job as women to help the men, know that your husband is also as stressed as you are and is probably trying his best to cope and support you don't ask too much of him and let him work at his own pace for now try doing things that would relax him and help out with his job if you are able
@@saramishra2083 thankyou Sara for your insights, but lately may I also add that he has been hardly coming home early and is always on his phone for when he is present. I don't want to be a burden but is it right for me to assume that there is perhaps a third party involved here?
@@kasturisahoo8137 trust your husband his holiness brought you together for a reason I'm sure he's late because he's working hard to support you
I would say keep communicating with him, and being open and honest in a respectful way. Said a prayer for you!
Pray over it. Learn to not talk back at him
The best wife material is one that is a girly girl and agreeable, or shy and passive. She just has to be herself and any father should be proud to have such a daughter.
Good video. I strive to be this. And agree with all except the religious aspects
Mary, you did an excellent job of explaining this in a loving way. Anything I might add probably is going to just be repeating what’s already been said. Still, we are never too old to learn.
As someone who’s been married for 46 years and still young😉…I admit there have been times when I resisted submission, guilty of wanting my own way. However, I’m almost always happiest when I do show my love and respect for my husband in the manner of submitting to him.
I found the following on submission and thought it appropriate.
We find diversity within unity in both the three-in-one bond of the Trinity and in the one-flesh union between a husband and wife.
The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are fully equal in the sense that all three are God. At the same time, there’s a certain hierarchy in their unity. For example, Jesus clearly spoke of Himself as being equal with God (John 5:18) - and then He said, “The Father is greater than I” (John 14:28, ESV).
The apostle Paul also compares marriage to the connection between Christ and the Church. The relationship isn’t of master to servant; it’s of lover and beloved.
Men and women have equal worth…believing this we shouldn’t feel threatened by submitting to our husbands.
This is so beautifully worded. Thank you for your insights.
God bless you
How to be a biblical submissive wife; obey your husband in everything that isn't explicit sin and not only in outward deeds, but conform yourself to the spirit of his will. The end, everything else is lies and extra biblical deception.
Also, it is not only Ephesians 5, it is explicit from Genesis to Revelation what the place of a woman is in relation to her husband. This is hammered on over and over and over. Woman was made for man, man was not made for woman. Women's reason for existence is to be mans helper, to reverence and obey him. It is core to a woman's very being.
You absolutely fo not, ever, "instruct" your husband, you have no authority over him, he is over you. You take instruction, you do not give it. Not a single thing listed is an act of submission, just basic, normal every day tasks of a secular feminist wife. Submission is to conform to the will of one in authority over you, in this case, your husband.
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Mary, God Bless you! I don’t agree, because the Bible was written in a time where women had no rights, power or voice, but we all have to follow our own path, and if you are happy with your Husband making your decisions and living to please him then I applaud you for your strength, love and kindness.
This isn't submission though. Plus, All of the things you said are mutual things both partners should do in my book.
"instruct my husband."
Who is the head of the wife?
My therapist said in order for our marriage to work I have to be submissive. I’m so lost 😞
I would definitely start in God’s Word - read Ephesians 5 for encouragement ❤️
The heart of submission only God can give you.
I had to train my wife to knuckle down and just do it. I discovered that when she did submissive duties/acts, she had a new level of respect for me.
Those men love to feel respected. Try it. You will see
Girl, are you using a metal spatula on a non stick pan?
Nope, it’s cast iron :)
I think the best way to make your wife submit by writing rules for her
I don't this this is a sign of a healthy relationship. You should respect your wife and have mutual conversation and agreements instead of a list of rules.
@@HealthyChristianHome rules for wife is make her life better
Submission to our husbands is not easy!
It takes a strong woman to lay her pride aside.
God said to Eve in Genesis 3:16 "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you." This was a curse put upon women to want to rule over their husbands. It was a curse because it is not how things are supposed to be!
"The husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church."
Very good point!
The head of the woman is the man, the head of every man is Christ, the head of Christ is God. (1 Corinthians 11:3)
*Jesus is the Son of God.* Jesus is a servant; the Son of God worships the Father. When Jesus was on the cross, he said, "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?". (Matthew 27:46)
"Why call me good? Nobody is good. Only God is good." (Matthew 19:17, Mark 10:18, Luke 18:19)
The head of every wife is her husband, the head of every man is Christ, the head of Christ is God.
If your husband tells you to sin, you are NOT to do it. We are supposed to follow the laws of the land, if your husband tells you to commit a crime, you are NOT to do it. (1 Peter 2:13-14)
⚠Some people want to argue about the name, the message is more important than the name.
That's what I call the curse of Eve! Women don't want to submit to their potential husbands which is why I'm still a content lifelong bachelor.
Not really submission just a Western feminist way of being not confrontational. Women have no idea about men
Submissive wives are most lovable