Wow, thank you. My husband has grown a lot in his faith within the past year. I am what you might call a “baby Christian” and this is all understandable. (I wanted to be a “trad wife” in my first relationship as a teen but took it way too far.) Anyway, still healing from that and both our childhoods has been very tough & confusing. I grew up in a typical 90s family where the “strong, independent woman” was revered. Both our mothers were dominant. Our parents stayed married but there has been so much strife over the years, like my mom will still tell me she would leave my father if such & such happens… girl I am 38 years old and y’all been together my whole life! Many times I had to tell my parents i am your daughter not your therapist or marriage counselor, please go find one.🙉 This video was a true blessing to me. Thank you again, God bless.❤
Tho I have got this about 10 years in marriage, it's so humbling...but my husband wants to divorce... I gues I have failed him so much. But before we sign the papers...am gonna take this advice seriously. So, thank you
the thought is nice I guess, but nah... men don't want flowers 😂 had to chime in for my brothers before their wives think this comment is a good idea lmao your husband was just being nice 😅 ...other than that, everything else Adriel says here is spot on. 🎯
@@danilaroche1156 trust me, if you listen to my music, you'll notice i'm a very lubby dubby romantic type of dude... but men do not want flowers like women do. Sure, we might farm, keep a garden to feed our family, have an appreciation for nature and all that, etc.... but i repeat: we do not want flowers. 😅🍻
I'm 1 month into my marriage & I am finding myself bringing the baggage. I immediately went on a search to learn to be a godly wife determined to be successful. I am so glad I found you. Thank you for your advice ❤🙏
Just paused for a moment to appreciate this amazing biblical advise. Caught me at "just because you're living together doesn't mean you should not respect one another ". As someone who values respect this has really caught my attention and I pray when the time comes I'll be able to implement along with my future partner.
I love that passwords and things like that were included in vulnerability here. I believe that both people should trust the other to act right on social media as well as trust the other to act right when they have access to the other’s social media or other “locked” app/site. If you are scared to allow your partner to know your current password, that says sooo much about what you’re doing or looking at.
This showed up in my algorithm and this is helping me so much I’m currently 19 and totally nervous about marriage and being a good Christian wife. I’ve been so nervous about this very subject ,Thank you so much for making this video!!
I wish I knew all this 10 hrs ago when my husband and I married! I’m thankful to know these things now and am trying to make up for those first several years ❤
What a blessing! I took so much from this and the Lord knew I needed this so badly! I am so thankful to have been led here to you! God is truly always working. ❤
❤You just popped up in my algorithm, I’m glad I was led here I have shared this with every woman I know. This is powerful food for the soul. Subscribed!
Please keep these videos coming!! The way that you give real life context to biblical truths is everything! 😩🙌🏾 I Also just got done watching your video on God’s timing and the break down you gave on the Universe blew my mind 🤯!!! I pray that God bless you and heals you supernaturally!! In Jesus name, Amen!
I'm currently single at 29,but I'm really parpraing myself to be a Godly wife 💍✨ ✨🤲 father God, please give me all that I need to take good care of your son that you will give me soon 🌺 as my lovely weeded husband 😄🙈
Thanks for putting all that good advice out there, as a single man who is really longing for the right woman I appreciate that there are women offering advice for other women in preparation for marriage, and also that there are women out there that are seeking it!
I, too, stumbled on this video and I thank God for you. This has taught me so much that I have been yearning to learn over the last 10 years. I see WHY we've been engaged for so long. I'll be happy to come back with a wedding celebration announcement thanks to you. Please keep these coming. I'd love to hear your tactics in remaining humble and not naggy. ❤❤❤
@@adrielnicolesparks I mean it! I'm in corporate so I have to be reactionary in order to stand my ground but it's been hard to turn it off when I get home. This has helped me ALREADY! THANK YOU SO MUCH and may God continue to bless you so you may continue to bless us!
Very enlightening and well explained. As you stated you previously struggled with nagging, I too struggle with that and it comes so naturally to voice a negative opinion. Crazy thing is I do love him so much but I still love to complain😳.. I hope I can carry what you’ve taught. Thank you.
Hi! If you'd like to access some great prayers you can seal over your marriage, I created some in this blog for you. Much love! www.adrielnicolesparks.com/blog-1/prayers-for-a-christian-marriage-that-defies-the-odds
Thank you for putting all this out there. I cannot begin to express the hurt that neo feminism has put upon men by teaching women and men to be competitive with each other instead of working together. 17 years married, entirely faithful, 6 wonderful kids, a wife i love with all of my heart, but no one has ever told her this, despite being raised in a household which read the bible. There is almost nothing worse than being called and yelled at in front of coworkers, subordinates, etc. Abd disrespected by the woman you have built up to everyone. It has brought so much shame, and its no wonder that men commit suicide at such high rates.
That was good. However, I have questions. Like if the woman is supposed to do all those things, and stay strong. Dies the husband / man supposed to do the same, or do they get to run wild, like the woman / wife feelings or the marriage doesn't matter at all? Like what makes that right?
Absolutely not. If that was the case, I would NOT be married lol. The husband is supposed to love us as Christ loves the church. He gave Himself for us, tends to our every need, is faithful and trustworthy. This is the role model whom the man should follow. Your husband should make you feel like you’re the only one for him. But I spoke on us being strong and patient because it may take some time for him to learn how to fully do that. Hope that made sense ❤️ great question!
Honestly I have felt that very thing many times. I struggled with loving him but not loving the job of the wife. It’s completely normal. Just see where God leads you ❤
Very informative video. ❤ just a tid bit for us to remember. The marriage bed can be defiled if we defile it. Porn and other sexual acts that we know we are doing with an ungodly motive in mind can defile it. For instance, Things like needing a safe word because you have a desire for hyper aggressive, demeaning abusive sex. Marriage does not make that type of act holy simply because it’s marriage. God judges our hearts and there is nothing pure about wanting to be degraded during sex. When God cleanses you from whatever caused us to be attracted to that you will no longer want to do those things. Also, Your partner shld always be in agreement before you just do things to them as well.
Nice video. I disagree with the part when you said "He had to spend a lot more time building her, so that she could build him." I don't believe that women are here to build up men. I believe that they are here to "help" us do God's work together. Other than this, thanks for the video!
Im going to marry a black woman just because divorce rate is like zero for white man black woman. But delemma because I am okay with having black kids but I need a white son. So as long as she is okay with that then I'll use a white woman and then after that I'll stay faithful to my wife.
It's not exactly Christian but Christianity is not the real knowledge it is just the dumb down version for the masses. It isn't fake it is just dumbed down. I am close to royalty right now and by the time I'm 50/60 I will be, if not it will be my son who will finish the job. I need the best possible genetics in my son to make this happen. It's possible my black son will be capable but the chances are way lower. Just research some eugenics and you'll see. I dont want to cheat but I have to buy God's will. I am okay with test tube son though, as long as I have a white son. Royal is devine rights. It is God's will to anoint you.
My manhood is not dependant on my wife believe me. Its good what you are saying tho. It is good to live by this if you are female. But even if you are having this social media I would leave you for this alone.
Also I can tell you something. Adam and Eve is the white origin story. The black origin is different. The modern black race is created from white race. Eventually Adams sons carried down to Noah and Noah landed on the mountain. He carried us down to Africa and we mated with the tribes there and created the modern black man. The origin is different tho. The out of Africa thing is propoganda.
The reason why this is in the Bible Adam and Eve is because the white race is the first race. Before Adam and Eve there was Neanderthals and homo erectus and a few other species. We had common ancestry to the black tribes in Africa (homo erectus) but the white race created all races. We mated with Asians Indians and blacks to create the modern versions.
If you take 100 percent alcohaul and mix it with 40 percent alcohol, you can't get 100 percent alcohol. The best it could be is 90. Eugenics doesn't lie and the Bible doesn't lie either but they will not tell you the literal origin. The Bible hides the esoteric information in it. This is knowledge for kings until the internet came.
Wow, thank you.
My husband has grown a lot in his faith within the past year. I am what you might call a “baby Christian” and this is all understandable. (I wanted to be a “trad wife” in my first relationship as a teen but took it way too far.)
Anyway, still healing from that and both our childhoods has been very tough & confusing. I grew up in a typical 90s family where the “strong, independent woman” was revered. Both our mothers were dominant. Our parents stayed married but there has been so much strife over the years, like my mom will still tell me she would leave my father if such & such happens… girl I am 38 years old and y’all been together my whole life!
Many times I had to tell my parents i am your daughter not your therapist or marriage counselor, please go find one.🙉
This video was a true blessing to me. Thank you again, God bless.❤
...an entire pre-marital counseling in less than 20min, I'm glad I stumbled upon the video❤❤ Thank you Adriel😇
Yes ma'am
This was so good, I’m trusting God for a spouse even with 2 months left!🙏🏾
Me too sis, me too!!! 🙏🏾✨
Tho I have got this about 10 years in marriage, it's so humbling...but my husband wants to divorce... I gues I have failed him so much. But before we sign the papers...am gonna take this advice seriously. So, thank you
Why do you think you failed him?
sending love your way. God Bless you
you have not failed, stay strong and continue and you shall see all will work out...even if you don't stay together.
I bought my husband flowers yesterday. He had rough day of work. Men like flowers too ❤
Your a blessing 😊
the thought is nice I guess, but nah... men don't want flowers 😂 had to chime in for my brothers before their wives think this comment is a good idea lmao your husband was just being nice 😅 ...other than that, everything else Adriel says here is spot on. 🎯
Kay.....
@@danilaroche1156 trust me, if you listen to my music, you'll notice i'm a very lubby dubby romantic type of dude... but men do not want flowers like women do. Sure, we might farm, keep a garden to feed our family, have an appreciation for nature and all that, etc.... but i repeat: we do not want flowers. 😅🍻
um..ok
I'm 1 month into my marriage & I am finding myself bringing the baggage. I immediately went on a search to learn to be a godly wife determined to be successful. I am so glad I found you. Thank you for your advice ❤🙏
May God richly bless your union.
Me too.
Just paused for a moment to appreciate this amazing biblical advise. Caught me at "just because you're living together doesn't mean you should not respect one another ". As someone who values respect this has really caught my attention and I pray when the time comes I'll be able to implement along with my future partner.
I love that passwords and things like that were included in vulnerability here. I believe that both people should trust the other to act right on social media as well as trust the other to act right when they have access to the other’s social media or other “locked” app/site. If you are scared to allow your partner to know your current password, that says sooo much about what you’re doing or looking at.
Before even clicking the video, you were giving me Proverbs 31 vibes❤❤❤
This showed up in my algorithm and this is helping me so much I’m currently 19 and totally nervous about marriage and being a good Christian wife. I’ve been so nervous about this very subject ,Thank you so much for making this video!!
This is GOOD! 5 minutes in and I’m so informed!!
That was just pure goodness... And, that's how you make and keep a successful marriage ladies and gentleman ☝🏾️💖
Thank you so much, and yes it works!❤️
I wish I knew all this 10 hrs ago when my husband and I married! I’m thankful to know these things now and am trying to make up for those first several years ❤
As someone getting married soon, i really appreciated this advice. God bless you!
Of course! I pray God’s blessings over your marriage!
AWESOME, GOD BASED, CLEAR, CONCISE AND WISE!!!!! ABUNDANT BLESSINGS on you, your husband and family🙏🏽🫶🏽
This advice will save a marriage. Please listen to her ladies
I respect your honesty of marriage ❤❤❤❤God bless you ... I'm a woman in waiting . So thank you being real ❤❤❤
Thank you for this! As soon as I finished the video, I started it again. There’s a word here! Amen
What a blessing! I took so much from this and the Lord knew I needed this so badly! I am so thankful to have been led here to you! God is truly always working. ❤
So happy to hear this and yes He is! 💕
God really wanted me to see this video. It was continuously showing up on my feed.
Thank you! 💗💗
I’m so glad you finally clicked! ☺️💕
May God bless you and your marriage for spreading such a humble beautiful message
Awww thank you for sharing this beautiful! May God bless you and keep you and your husband and marriage, children and family! 🙏🏽🩷🥺
It just eats at us! I felt that in my soul.
❤You just popped up in my algorithm, I’m glad I was led here I have shared this with every woman I know. This is powerful food for the soul. Subscribed!
Please keep these videos coming!! The way that you give real life context to biblical truths is everything! 😩🙌🏾 I Also just got done watching your video on God’s timing and the break down you gave on the Universe blew my mind 🤯!!! I pray that God bless you and heals you supernaturally!! In Jesus name, Amen!
Yes ma’am I will! Thank you so very much for these kind words 💕💕
This came at just the right moment. Thank you so much. This really encourages me.
Wow so much wisdom.
I just subscribed because i need more of this as i prepare for marriage.
I'm currently single at 29,but I'm really parpraing myself to be a Godly wife 💍✨ ✨🤲 father God, please give me all that I need to take good care of your son that you will give me soon 🌺 as my lovely weeded husband 😄🙈
Thanks for putting all that good advice out there, as a single man who is really longing for the right woman I appreciate that there are women offering advice for other women in preparation for marriage, and also that there are women out there that are seeking it!
This just blessed me 😌
Thank u i needed to hear this
This is so good, I am getting married in Dec and this was really helpful!
Give the glory to God!!! That's who God wants you to be!!!
I, too, stumbled on this video and I thank God for you. This has taught me so much that I have been yearning to learn over the last 10 years. I see WHY we've been engaged for so long. I'll be happy to come back with a wedding celebration announcement thanks to you. Please keep these coming. I'd love to hear your tactics in remaining humble and not naggy. ❤❤❤
This warms my heart! Prayers over the both of you! ❤️
@@adrielnicolesparks I mean it! I'm in corporate so I have to be reactionary in order to stand my ground but it's been hard to turn it off when I get home. This has helped me ALREADY! THANK YOU SO MUCH and may God continue to bless you so you may continue to bless us!
This was 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🙏🙏
I particularly like how God took time to Build women to be the help meet for man..as in Eve for Adam.
Can we please get more videos like this. I’m 22 I need the help and perspective so much.
Very enlightening and well explained. As you stated you previously struggled with nagging, I too struggle with that and it comes so naturally to voice a negative opinion. Crazy thing is I do love him so much but I still love to complain😳.. I hope I can carry what you’ve taught. Thank you.
Thsnk you gfor sharing your testimoney. Im still waiting to be married.
Very helpful indeed 👌 ❤❤❤thank you
So good to hear your honest comments, a lot of these things I idealize but I am only beginning to realize how much work I need...
Patiently waiting and preparing for my Godly man🥰.
Such a wonderful conversation about a truly God fearing marriage. Thank you! ❤❤
Wow!! So valuable and helpful! I hope I can start using some of these techniques!
I'm a single Catholic woman and wanting to be a Proverbs 31 woman. I am taking down notes from this. Thank you!
Hi! If you'd like to access some great prayers you can seal over your marriage, I created some in this blog for you. Much love! www.adrielnicolesparks.com/blog-1/prayers-for-a-christian-marriage-that-defies-the-odds
Thank you for the reminders. Seems that I forgot all the things I know when I was single. Thanks
Really great video!
You're such a humble soul.. thanks for the word
What i needed to hear !!❤
Wow, all these tips are so helpful, God bless you and yours☺️
Keep it up, this is Excellent.
Beautiful message and encouragement. Thank you
Thank you! This was so helpful
So helpful and I loved this!! ❤
Oh Glory Hallelujah ❤😊 THANK YOU for being so honest ❤
Thank you for this video!
Do you have a video on living together before marriage?
Thank you for putting all this out there.
I cannot begin to express the hurt that neo feminism has put upon men by teaching women and men to be competitive with each other instead of working together.
17 years married, entirely faithful, 6 wonderful kids, a wife i love with all of my heart, but no one has ever told her this, despite being raised in a household which read the bible.
There is almost nothing worse than being called and yelled at in front of coworkers, subordinates, etc. Abd disrespected by the woman you have built up to everyone.
It has brought so much shame, and its no wonder that men commit suicide at such high rates.
You are right on. I truly felt led to share this, so I'm thankful that it's been helpful.
That video was Sooo helpful thank you so much sister in Christ!!!!
He's not out to kill you. You're not out to get him. 😅 ❤
Great and practical tips 🙏🏾
Moral character yes sister
This was so good
This is such great advice,thank you! Keep making videos
This is absolutely beautiful. Just landed on your channel and woow...
💕💕💕
Thank you for this video. 🙏🏾❤
You are so wise. This was helpful. It sounds very hard to do but still very insightful. Patience isn't easy.
Love that❤
Great wisdom 💯 God bless you and your marriage
I need this. Thank you so much
Great biblical advise♥
❤️✨
Let me share this ladies. Chinese proverb states, “A male bird will not land in a nest with thorns in it.” 😉
I needed to hear this today, thank you❤️
Thank you so much ❤
Amazing guidance and understanding
Hi love, thank you!
You are very much welcome. Such an example to me
Thank you 😊🤍🤍🤍
Thank you
That was good. However, I have questions. Like if the woman is supposed to do all those things, and stay strong. Dies the husband / man supposed to do the same, or do they get to run wild, like the woman / wife feelings or the marriage doesn't matter at all? Like what makes that right?
Absolutely not. If that was the case, I would NOT be married lol. The husband is supposed to love us as Christ loves the church. He gave Himself for us, tends to our every need, is faithful and trustworthy. This is the role model whom the man should follow. Your husband should make you feel like you’re the only one for him. But I spoke on us being strong and patient because it may take some time for him to learn how to fully do that. Hope that made sense ❤️ great question!
This was beautiful
Very wise advice thank you
you are welcome!
This was great
Beautiful
Thank you!
I WENT MERRIAGE PRAYE 🤲🤲🤲 ME I !!!
I would like to be married someday
Beautiful message ❤️
I'm a wife.. not meant to be a wife. It's hard to say especially now that I accepted christ. Married almost 10 years and it's just not right.
Honestly I have felt that very thing many times. I struggled with loving him but not loving the job of the wife. It’s completely normal. Just see where God leads you ❤
Its a curse attacking your mind. Be still and get into your bible, He will send messengers pay close attention.
An attack can happen any year of your marriage stay in the word, you will have to surrender and humble yourself and over again.
Very informative video. ❤ just a tid bit for us to remember. The marriage bed can be defiled if we defile it. Porn and other sexual acts that we know we are doing with an ungodly motive in mind can defile it. For instance, Things like needing a safe word because you have a desire for hyper aggressive, demeaning abusive sex. Marriage does not make that type of act holy simply because it’s marriage. God judges our hearts and there is nothing pure about wanting to be degraded during sex. When God cleanses you from whatever caused us to be attracted to that you will no longer want to do those things.
Also, Your partner shld always be in agreement before you just do things to them as well.
The colors of your nails ❤
lol thank you ❤
Amen
Amen 🙏
Gems
Nice video. I disagree with the part when you said "He had to spend a lot more time building her, so that she could build him." I don't believe that women are here to build up men. I believe that they are here to "help" us do God's work together. Other than this, thanks for the video!
❤
Who is the head of the woman?
Caleb John Dover from Greatfalls Montana and Jacob Dover from Lewistown Montana needs to get married.
James Alan Dover from Buffalo Montana you need to get married 🙏🙏🙏.
Nowadays humans are looking for beauty , God created us from the soil ,
Nowadays woman wants money , fame , sex nothing else 😂 remember love is beyond sex , without love no sex
Im going to marry a black woman just because divorce rate is like zero for white man black woman. But delemma because I am okay with having black kids but I need a white son. So as long as she is okay with that then I'll use a white woman and then after that I'll stay faithful to my wife.
It's not exactly Christian but Christianity is not the real knowledge it is just the dumb down version for the masses. It isn't fake it is just dumbed down.
I am close to royalty right now and by the time I'm 50/60 I will be, if not it will be my son who will finish the job. I need the best possible genetics in my son to make this happen.
It's possible my black son will be capable but the chances are way lower. Just research some eugenics and you'll see.
I dont want to cheat but I have to buy God's will. I am okay with test tube son though, as long as I have a white son. Royal is devine rights. It is God's will to anoint you.
My manhood is not dependant on my wife believe me. Its good what you are saying tho. It is good to live by this if you are female. But even if you are having this social media I would leave you for this alone.
Also I can tell you something. Adam and Eve is the white origin story. The black origin is different. The modern black race is created from white race. Eventually Adams sons carried down to Noah and Noah landed on the mountain. He carried us down to Africa and we mated with the tribes there and created the modern black man. The origin is different tho. The out of Africa thing is propoganda.
The reason why this is in the Bible Adam and Eve is because the white race is the first race. Before Adam and Eve there was Neanderthals and homo erectus and a few other species. We had common ancestry to the black tribes in Africa (homo erectus) but the white race created all races. We mated with Asians Indians and blacks to create the modern versions.
If you take 100 percent alcohaul and mix it with 40 percent alcohol, you can't get 100 percent alcohol. The best it could be is 90. Eugenics doesn't lie and the Bible doesn't lie either but they will not tell you the literal origin. The Bible hides the esoteric information in it. This is knowledge for kings until the internet came.