How To Know They Are The ONE
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- Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
- How To Know They Are The ONE
In this week's live stream, my wife and I discuss in detail issues found in the dating world. We go through 13 red flags that you should look out for and avoid while cultivating a relationship. We share the difference between real love and obsessive love and answer your questions at the end.
Chapters:
0:00 - Intro
Four Principles to Dating
0:50 - The Bible focuses more on purity than who one should date
2:58 - Be the right person rather than finding the right person
6:07 - The Bible limits our options to “ONLY IN THE LORD” when it comes to who is the right person we should be with
20:22 - Find the right person by following God's Word, common sense, and listening to godly counsel
13 Red Flags in Dating:
22:28 - 1. Having a relationship with God is not a priority
23:52 - 2. Their actions and words don't match
24:38 - 3. If they have close friends who are not committed to the Lord
25:16 - 4. Has a wandering eye
27:24 - 5. Recently got out of a relationship without healing properly
30:42 - 6. A person shows signs of controlling or abusive behavior
32:18 - Six characteristics of obsessive love
33:19 - 7. They have sinful habits, addictions, and struggles
35:59 - 8. They don't respect purity and have no desire to wait till marriage to have sex
38:03 - 9. You don't want kids to become like them
38:53 - 10. You don't have peace about marrying this person
29:29 - 11. Your mentors and family feel iffy about this person
40:11 - 12. This person has distracted you from God, the church, and close friends
42:19 - 13. You are already praying for God to change that person
42:48 - Final thoughts about red flags in dating
47:45 - How did you know I was the one for you?
53:22 - Overcome the fear of the past
59:36 - How did you know the person before was not the one?
Taking Questions:
1:05:36 - Should people marry a person with the same spiritual gifts
1:06:45 - Kissing before marriage?
1:08:09 - How to deal with your man if he is tempted to watch porn
1:11:30 - Do consequences follow you?
1:13:10 - Do you have to go to church to meet a man who loves God?
1:16:44 - How do you balance waiting on the Lord to bring a spouse vs dating apps?
1:19:52 - If my BF/GF is against deliverance?
1:21:12 - Is it okay to be married to my husband who is not a believer?
1:22:04 - Will God make me marry a girl I don't like?
1:24:53 - How do I start working on my marriage?
1:25:57 - Is there an age difference that should be avoided?
1:27:57 - Should I marry within my ethnicity?
1:36:00 - Shop our merch!
TAKEAWAY NOTES FROM TONIGHT’S STREAM:
1. The Bible focuses on walking in purity more than on how one should date.
Purity is being without mixture.
It’s an issue of the heart, not the body. Ps.24v4; Mt. 5v8
It’s not a point you reach but a pursuit after God.
2. The Bible focuses more on being the right person than on finding the right person.
3. The Bible limits our options to “ONLY IN THE LORD” when it comes to who is the right person we should be with. (2 Corinthians 6v14)
4. The Bible doesn’t teach that God plays a lottery with relationships, He gives liberty to marry whom we wish. (1 Corinthians 7v39)
• It’s better to wait for God to bring the right person than to wait for God to fix the wrong person you bring to God.
• Don’t be blind to what you see during dating: a spoonful in dating will be tons in marriage.
• Before we get married, we tend to focus on what we want; but when we are married, we will be focused on what we need.
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Happy Birthday Vlad, many happy returns. Have a great time with Lana and your family. 😊👍
Blessed Birthday Pastor, more in love with Jesus & enjoy with Lana & family 😊 very good teaching as usual !
the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......
Thank you Vlad! This is the clarity I need. This video + Sacred Search by Gary Thomas has been super helpful. "Lord, will you please give me a woman who loves the Lord more than me" WOW.
Only in the Lord
"If you're addicted, you need deliverance and discipline, not dating." Come on somebody 🔥🔥🔥
I couldn't agree more with you. I was sexually abused and humiliated as a child and grew up incapable of dating or having a gf. Although I felt the physical desire for sex I was also scared to even try to do it. I never dated successfully so that it became a dating relationship. So I retreated inward and engaged in fantasy and self pleasuring. Now I am in recovery and the cure includes no dating and no sexual activity. I am single and celibate and abstinent. I'm finally at peace knowing this is the life I want for me now!
Come on somebody! 🔥
@@Anthony-yy3kcGod be with you and keep you❣️
Hard truth right here
"If you are addicted you have company "
Marriage is not your identity, your identity is in Christ! 🔥🔥🔥
May the good Lord Jesus Christ Almighty bless your heart my sister in Christ Amen 🙏 ❤️
"The perfect love casts out fear" that's a good one!!!!
Lord please bless me with a husband who loves you more than anyone or anything. Amen
Amen
This!
Literally made me cry when Lana said she had to remind her self " I am a new creation" when she felt rejected and all her fears came back about being not good enough after her past.. ladies, you are a new creation, let God do his work.. Like an onion.. let each layer fall off. This goes for guys as well, let God renew your mind daily. - I had to tell myself- I am an new creation! - I am a new creation!!
I am a new creation
So good, I agree having this experience myself!💜✝️💜🕊️🙏🕊️🫂
Yes Amen!!
I live Vlad’s messages, but it’s kind of hypocritical to say to wait months before getting into a new relationship but Lana literally started monkey branching over to Vlad while in was dating someone else.
@@garret8787😅 I have a question, what does donkey branching even mean?
"If you’re single and you’re dating someone who’s addicted and they don’t seek deliverance nor do they want to put any kind of disciple in their lives, drop them like a hot potato and run from them like a plague." PREACH! Thank you, God, for this!
I'm single for 3yrs. No active addictions, looking to date.?
Lol 😂
@@dwilldoit yeah😃😁😆
I’m in Russia. Got saved last year and changed my life 360. And I love Pastor Vlad’s preaching ❤️❤️ bless you and your wife
Watching this at my job- work overnights as a Crisis Counselor on the 988 Suicide Hotline and watching you guys has truly blessed me and I’m sure it also blessed the people I counsel!!! Bc I get to extend everything I learn here to them. Thank you ❤️ Praise Jesus
Thank you for ur job I had to talk to one couple years ago and I'm very happy of how sweet the lady was she saved me and so did my Lord ❤🙌🙏
This is such rich teaching and THIS is the kind of dating, marriage and singleness advice we need more of in the Church! I’ve been single as a Pringle for a while 😂 and I’m not complaining because Christ has done soo much healing and work in this season Glory
This is good teaching.
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Amen! I totally relate, and agree. 👍🏽
I am related… that’s me
Excellent. Sunday school should teach this. Parent's should also be taught this. Preach this EVERWHERE. Thank you. God bless you. I love that you look for one that loves God more then you....then they know how to love. Stating flags is so perfect. And recognizing to be aware of loss of peace. You can add to your teaching to recognize confusion. Should you or shouldn't you. God is not the author of confusion but of love power and a sound mind. Not a confused mind.
most 90% of these steps are wrongly guided and said for a Men or Women of God..... the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......
I was waiting for God to show me my husband 😂😂😂😂😂 but thank you for this video. It has changed my perspective
I know right 😂😂😂💕
True Sam here😅
Me too! And I prayed for God to show me something and this popped up and boy! Did this clear this up for me🌈
It really did lol ❤️😂
Same here lol 😅
As a single man , open to a kingdom marriage , this gave me hope and helped me to self access and access who I entertain in hopes of developing a relationship with them
Amen. She is telling my story. I have a dirty past, always feared I will never been married with a good Godly man.
OK so it's five minutes in and pastor Vlad is already coming for me. "You want someone to take care of you but are you taking care of you?" ... oh Lord Jesus help me
Haha that spoke to me too:)
My bedroom is a smelly dump. And I love it its the only room I don't have to clean 😁
@@pennyhughes3671 activated carbon, wax melts & a wax warmer, air purifier, and vacuum cleaner.
Made me laugh when you talked about Red Flag number 13-Praying to change the person.- IT SPOKE TO ME INDEED! "It's better to wait for God to bring the right person to you than to wait for God to change the wrong person" God surely wants me to watch this. Also, thank you Lana for reminding me that God loves us and that we are precious to Him and that we are WORTHY! I love you guys! God is using you to be a blessing to us. To God Be The Glory! Everything you talked about, gives me enough confirmation from the Lord! Thank you heaps! - Jessie from Philippines.
I was changed my believe after I heard that very advice from him when preached series on his single ready to mingle book
😂relate
not me praying he is more romantic
I wish my daughters find a man like this pastor!! It is a meddle in a haystack....and he was sound enough to find a lady of the Lord like his wife! She also was wise enough and blessed enough to choose him. Thank you sooo much for allowing Father to use your talents! I am sharing this with my children. May be high-school kids, Yet is never to early to learn!
Identifying abusive, narcissistic or obsessive suitors, reviewing his or her closest friends who are not decent or godly and the people he or she follows on Facebook,etc. also are EXTREMELY important and are at the top of my list.
Whom one and they follow says a lot yes I have realize
In a time where preachers act supra Holy and as if sin never came their way, we have this couple time and again talk about their mess and use their sin to teach us to stay away from sin. This is the kind of teaching we need. Love you guys.
I am rewatching and married. I am a believer but my husband is not. This video has been great counsel to me. Not to try to change him but to change myself.
Thank you
Did you divorce your husband?
You both are so precious! This old lady is in tears listening to you. I love you in Christ,
Grandma
Very good!
"Men usually fall in love with their eyes, women with their ears." Great point!
my son is 22 yrs old holding a small job. Spend all his income on friends and girl friend. They takes loans
Pastor please pray for him to get rid of all this and take up. Jobs with better prospects. And get rid of all bad habits.
Father, please help Melba's son to become a responsible, godly young man. In every direction he goes, may he run into You -- hear Your voice, see Scriptures, hear Your Word, follow Your leading. May He not be able to resist Your Spirit and Your love. In Jesus's Mighty Name.....
Lana's story made me cry because I can relate so much to what she said. 😢 We need to remind ourselves that we are a new creation. We are not our past.
watching this now a year after being with someone who I wasn’t really meant to be with but ignoring all the red flags it’s crazy how all of this is ringing truth into my ear after learning all of this the hard way. But it really stuck with me and this video just reminded me how vital it is to actually appreciate my identity and being single to heal from all of the things I’ve been through. I can only thank the Lord.
I’ve been praying for such a while for confirmation from God that my fiancé is who he ordained me to marry, and not even a couple hours ago and I asked for confirmation again and then he brings me across this video! God is good
I say this with all respect. On the question of should you marry someone from different culture? If you are believers, you are citizens of the kingdom. Your marriage, decisions are Christ centred. If you are born again and the other person is born again , you solve your problems with your knees.
Through prayers , fasting loving each other as Christ loved us. For me , I would marry anyone that Loves the Lord more than me. Being a citizen of the kingdom is important to me than where they come from. We will make it because our marriage will be Christ centred.
Ok, but make sure your values line up. The culture thing isn’t as important as your values. Having different values will make your marriage bumpy
@@honestfriend767 ❤️
Re-watching from India🇮🇳. Kohima, Nagaland✝️😇.
Same here, from nagaland my most favorite man of God, I wish & praying that the world still have more man like pastor Vlad & one to be my husband after I'm ready for marriage
Recently single after a 2 1/2 year relationship, I was engaged for 3 months and it just ended,
I am lost and I want to be healed, after hearing this I will take my time to let god do his work on me and appreciate every aspect of my singleness and the power that comes with walking with Christ🙏🏾❤️❤️ you all do so much for us through God, with your messages
I was with my ex wife for 17yrs. And married for of those. We were in church on and off but not committed. I have been back whole seeking God's will for my life for 6months now. I have meet someone that I feel like may be the 1, but Only if God truly puts her in my life. We meet in a divorce care group, but my focus is more on God and who he is, if he ever wants me to be remarriage. God has got to be #1 in your life. Yes and I know marriage should not be broken my wife had an affair and I still tried to make things work. I did what I could do in my marriage to make it work. I did not want God to be mad at me for getting divorced.
@@Dan_LTL_909 dude that’s understandable for sure i hope this person you met is the one for you🙏🏾 God knows our hearts and I am sure if you put him first he will show you when the time comes who is for us my brother❤️ thank you for sharing your story man🙏🏾
being single is so liberating I was once hurt so badly I thought I couldn’t be able to move forward, but with God he sure knows how to heal you’ll look back at it like wow
A friend of mine married an Elder of a church. Reads and pray all the time and yet he cheated on her twice and slept with a family member of hers. Ask God for his discernment when being approached by Any man.
Thank God I found the ONE, you just confirmed my whole walk in this.
Listening to you feels like home coming😄
So beautiful congratulations
Praise the Lord! God bless your relationship immensely
This video was sent directly to me by God...as a teen christian who just started living for the Lord, this was the red light. God is amazing. All glory be to God for sending you.🙏
I am 41 years old never thought about marriage or settling down because I was always having to much fun lusting for women at the night clubs for half my life. I started attending my local church to brake free from sin and after one year of attending bible college and serving as usher, for the first time I want to get married to a woman of God and I no longer desire to go to the night clubs to seek woman. So far, there is one young woman who has been so nice to me at church since day one, and I am believing and asking God for her to be the one thank God and these pastors for helping me brake free.
My fiancéé is Indian and i'm African american. Her family always wanted her to marry an Indian guy, but my family just desired me to marry a woman of God and the person God had for me. There is the culture barrier between us, but mainly for her family, but we're in love and we're seeing God move on our behalf, and in her family's hearts 🙏🏿
Amen! What a great teaching. I’m watching from Papua New Guinea and I’m so glad I watched this in my single season. Jesus is the only way. I’m so blessed by this Word.
When she said: "I AM WORTHY. Jesus Christ has cleansed my past and doesn't see me like that..." Thank you so much for sharing that - it spoke to me and I know it spoke to many other females as well
I respect you both so much. I have learned a lot from you both in just a month since I've found your content. It teared me up when your wife said she's a new creation. I have felt this way most of my life not feeling good enough. You both helped changed my life for the better. God is so good for bringing me to your videos.
You guys! This is hands down the most wisdom filled marriage video iv ever heard. Thank you SO much.
It's so ecouraging to hear that Lana had fears even though she knew he was the right and had that peace. It gives me hope. Thank you guys ❤
There was sooo much goodness in this. I started writing a comment and lost it, but I'm just going to say, all of this touched me over and over again. Thank you sooo much!!!! I needed every bit.
"Principles not preferences." - Love that!
EVERYONE needs to hear this. ❤️
The timing of this video! Hallelujah!
Ugh! This is liberating. Sharing testimony is rare and takes courage. God richly bless you
This is a full Masterclass!
Thank you Pastors Vlad and Lana.
Everything you've shared is nothing but what we need.
God bless you both!
I'm watching from Albany, Georgia! I've followed Pastor Vlad for a bit on IG, and I really appreciate the fact that you always dig deep into the Word and do your best to present it without any bias!! Thanks a ton for the wisdom y'all have bestowed upon me, as I've basically been waiting on an angel or a sign from God to show me who to date and eventually marry! May the good Lord continue to bless both y'all immensely!!! 🙌
Happy birthday Vlad!😊 I wish you and your wife all the best with your ministry and I am happy to be accepted in. ☺
And also thank you for your present! 😀🥂🎁🎂 😀
I listen to your streams while driving, good stuff!!
Love that you both were honest & came from this biblically. Love you both ❤
The whole message is awesome but what got me the most is your honesty and vulnerability, thank you very much.
Thank you so much for your transparency! I don’t have mentors or spiritual leaders other than my parents but you both are like my mentors.
Thank you Lana and Vlad for your honesty and vulnerability 🙏🕊 this was a great podcast. May God continue to bless you both 🙏🙏🙏🙌
That was amazing! Both set free from fears to walk in the freedom of love. Thank you for sharing such beautiful wisdom. :)
Thank you so much for this life-changing message. I love learning from you. May God bless you both and Happy Birthday Pastor Vlad
Rewatching from DFW. Recently dove into the word, and thankful for the confirmation. Have been in a season of solitude, focusing on self improvement relationship with God, health and wellness.
This message really blessed me!! Thank you both for your obedience!
Im honestly blessed hearing these. It changes my perception in certain areas of Life and knowing Gods Grace is always enough to lead us to repentance and lean towards his Love for us making us worthy and forever captivated. God bless you both
This was a very blessing to me. 🙏🙏🙏🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I appreciate your honesty and openness Vlad and Lana in explaining how you came together and explaining the red flags that show that a relationship should not happen. Yes the Lord has to be number one in your marriage to have his blessing.
Wow! I am so glad you are having this discussion publicly. If only I heard this amazing advice. Everyone needs to hear this, to make this important decision..
Thank you for this. Some great points were made. And I enjoyed seeing the communication (verbal and non-verbal) between you guys. May the Lord continue to bless you.
God bless Pastor Vlad n his family!!!! Praise the Lord!!!! Hallelujah, Hallelujah Hallelujah!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💖💖💖💖💖
Thank you guys for being so candid. Bless you.
I really needed to hear this as I feel ready to start dating after leaving domestic abusive marriage 14 years ago.
That's totally true that we are not perfect! Glory to God!
Thank you so much! This message deeply touches my heart!
This is so practical! I keep rewinding to make sure I catch every word.
Agreed! I think if it makes your mind go to a lustful or sinful place, cut it off! Ladies, if he won’t wait/wants to push the boundaries he doesn’t honor his or your bow to the Lord. I’ve learned this the hard and painful way. Praise the Lord for working despite us and using our brokenness!! 💯🙏🏻🙏🏻
I love Lana, super truthful and honest… you two compliment each other so well..
God bless you mighty for this discussion. It’s helping me out greatly. Thanks again
Watching the replay at the gym tonight ❤ thank you pastor Vlad and Lana for this video. Your marriage is inspiring
Thank you Pastor Vlad. Everything you say, what used to be your struggles, fears, insecurities... That, all that was my struggles. I'm glad that I'm also recovering from the same and I know God is good and he has a plan
Thank you Lana, I needed that reminder to know that I am an amazing woman of God and my past does not define me, it informs and gives me wisdom. I am good enough and I will continue to work on being the wife my husband dreams of. I continue to pray for your ministry. Thank you Pastor Vlad....I have been following your series on the Holy Spirit and He has literally become my best friend. Continue to shine for God.
For two days I had feelings of anxiety, worry and loneliness, and I watched Isaiah's and Vlad's videos each time, the content not being relevant. After a few minutes in the video all those bad feelings even loneliness went away, disappeared. It's incredible because that has never happened before with other videos. God is blessing me through your videos I guess🙂
Am Thankful for this teaching today, I pray God see me overcome what am going through
This had me in tears. Such a powerful message…. Truly what I needed to hear…
Exactly what I needed to listen to,,,, may the lord bless you
watching from Bahrain. woow this is so powerful message.
I am so thankful for this teaching. I have listened to this about 5 times . It’s such amazing teaching. Thank you for your obedience to the lord
El campo Tx
I appreciate this very much! You guys did well providing wisdom, knowledge and understanding. 🎉
Rewatching from Vegas and this is an on time message💕
I just love this couple! To God be the glory
This blessed video reappeared at a divine time, thank you Lana and Pastor Vlad!
Thank you Lana. I love when u guys come. On together. Double the message. Working on a pure heart
This whole video answer a question I posed, to a fellowship group last night. God certainly works in wonderful ways! 😄 Praise the Lord 🙏
Learn a lot from Your Book Single, ready to mingle.!
Really this book played a huge role in my breakthrough from brokenness ❤❤
I'm reading God therapy but will purchase Single ready to mingle next.
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Noo my Brothers Dont fall in the Enemies trap.... All you have to do is WAIT for Gods perfect timing, God will Bring to you your Women or Men of God he has already DESTINED just for you Since the creation of the World that will Glorify his name in both of yalls Purpose....
Rewatching from Fort Worth TX! This is so good. Thanks for clarifying to stay in existing relationship and honor the 4 things the Word says!
What an eye opening conversation and a great blessing. Thanks so much. May God continue to bless you both
Powerful teaching ! Please do more of these types of teaching!
Nobody has EVER made a video or book (and I watch and read a lot) like this! Thank you SO much for your twos wisdom and honesty. I keep praying for God to have my man of God appear when I need to not put so much focus on God delivering Him but me becoming a better Woman of God and the right one will come
This brought so much clarity ; thank you and God bless you guys !! ❤
This is GOLD! just discovered this + I say thank you vessels of God. 🙏🏾
I just sent this to my daughter and the young man she is with and is now pregnant for I think you I don't know how it showed up on my phone but I think it's powerful information God bless you both her name is Kayla his name is Corey and it's been volatile and they're not married but they do have a baby on the way and she needs to take care of herself she is 33 and there needs to be Deliverance healing and I believe in God's perfect will and plan be done in both of their lives
Blessing!! Praise God!! Thank you Vald and Lana and God bless you in Jesus' name amen✝️🙏🏾🙌🏾🔥‼️
Thank you for this wonderful message Pastor Vlad and sis. Lana. God bless you more!
All of it so true!! I had to find out the hard way, luckly before it went to far.
I learnt my lesson and will be wiser in the future!
Good stuff guys
🥺🥺🥺!! I wish i saw this video much earlier! I went on and dated someone that is not in the Lord, got into fornication and later got a daughter...my daughter is only 5 months old, i decided to leave her father (who was at the time my fiancee)not because his a bad person but because we were unequally yoked and he is not in the Lord i lacked the peace of God and never knew it...i was so sure God would change him along the way..i forced him to come to the lord and love him but i learnt the hard way that am not the convictor of the hearts of men!!😂😂! Next time god willing,i will be on guard and instead of looking for certain qualities,God should help me work on my character and qualities! Thank you so much for sharing this pastor vlad and lady Lana!
Sending you love and God’s Grace and knowledge as you walk this road. Be strong and seek God more at this point. It’s done already and nothing can change, instead you can make things better by seeking the Lord more than ever before. Do not let your mind make you feel you are the worst person.
This is all much appreciated 😊
I would like to add that it's anyone who hasn't healed from a relationship, whether recent, not so recent, or long ago. If someone is still holding up a candle/ shrine to someone long ago, then that person has been thoroughly romanticized in their head, and nothing you do or are, will be able to ever meet this ideal.
Not the same for someone who sincerely still feels brotherly/sisterly love and respect for their deceased/ex loved one. This can actually be a good sign. Run from anyone who runs their ex/exes down. They are someone who is not prepared to take responsibility for their own actions that weren't good, and were more than likely a contributing factor/s. They will do the same to you. Do your very best to find out why the previous relationship ended. Maybe they committed adultery etc.
There should be no harm in asking his family and friends, and visa versa. Don't fall for love is blind. If it's blind, it's not real. Also the very obvious but most often made mistake, " He/she is TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE!" It inevitably is.
Thank you both for a great and much needed podcast. This subject is vital because children will more than likely become part of the equation.
There are too many damaged people in the world due to wrong marriages and/or divorces. It creates a vicious cycle.
God continue to bless you both for being true soldiers/sheep for Christ. 🙏 🔥 🙏.
Btw, l love that, "When the guitar stops playing the strings are still there."
I also found that older females, ( my being a female) in genuinely healthy marriages are of great help. Grandmothers are great and don't have to be your own.
This is so good! I’m listening from Washington.Thank you both for sharing these points on dating and marriage in the Lord!
Blessings from SLOVAKIA! And I agree that mission's trips are "dangerous"! Thanks for this video!
I love vlad and Isaiah so much they help me a lot ,ever since I started going to church I’ve been watching them and they helped me understand things so vividly the main thing I wanna focus on now is to stop getting overwhelmingly nervous before doing anything thank u vlad and Isaiah love from the Bahamas ❤️
Me too!
God lead me to this couple to help me make better choices and I'm so grateful I feel delivered... I listen your videos alot and it's been so peaceful ❤️🔥😌
I really admire Pastor Vlad and his wife. This was such a blessing to watch. I really like that you have biblical references to explain your arguments. Well done. May God continue to bless you and your ministry.
Beautiful, and your honesty and openness is so helpful and refreshing. Thank you so much for your wonderful talks.❤