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i am formally diagnosed with aspd and please remember this disorder is a spectrum and not a cookie-cutter diagnosis. this video mainly highlights the traits of someone with aspd with less self-awareness. a lot of us do not completely lack morals and choose to be good people, even if we have little to no empathy in general.
i haven't been diagnosed (as my parents won't let me go to a psychologist), but i have suspected for a few years now that i have aspd (don't attack me for self-diagnosing though, i have never said i have aspd, just that i have symptoms of it and suspect that i do have it). anyway, i really hate it when people paint aspd is such a horrible light. it's either they romanticize or they demonize mental illnesses and neurological/personality disorders; we can't win.
I have some empathy but only to close family on friends. I normally feel like all my actions are justified and tend to get aggressive over disagreements, resulting in hostility. My therapist and teacher have noticed that I have antisocial behavior indicators but my parents refuse to believe it as I already have so many mental problems. I started acting different after I suffered a serious traumatic incident when I was 6. I am trying to work on empathy and putting myself in other people's shoes. I'm trying to work on planning ahead of things so I'm starting to think about my future, a sign of progress. However, I constantly feel like my relationship is empty for me and although I love her it feels like something is missing. I feel genuinely happier when she does something for me or talks about something I like. I don't want to sound selfish. I've been in legal trouble before. I have been hospitalized before. I am currently on a road to recovery for my trauma with flash therapy and EMDR but it's never enough and I've been permanently fractured mentally.
Hi fellow Time Travelers Here are the Time Stamps : 1.They misunderstand social interactions 0:53 2. They Are Prone to Hostility 1:13 3. They Can be Very Manipulative 1:40 4. They Have a Tendency to Lie 2:14 5. They are Very Impulsive 2:37 6. They Indulge in Repeated Risky Behavior 3:02 7. They Have little Remorse for Their Behavior and Actions 3:27 8. They Blame others 3:49 See you in the Future!
As someone like this, I lie compulsively not to exploit people, but just because I’m very poorly versed in social interaction, so I just lie around it to get through it. Personally, I only manipulate if I need to, just to get by. I just don’t care enough about most people to actually exploit them. To be honest, I’m just really lazy and I cut corners.
I have antisocial personality disorder and there is a lots of misunderstanding about the lack of empathy. It's not really a lack of empathy, but the ability to turn off any empathy and emotions easily, but when you are younger it is more difficult to turn it on and off whenever you want, to you tend to find yourself in situations where you should have empathy but doesn't have any, or in other situations where you might find a certain kind of empathy towards people who doesn't deserves empathy. But as you grow older and actually get some sort of help for you antisocial behaviours it is easier to turn on your empathy and actually be able to have empathy. BUT we don't experience empathy like someone who is "normal", we have our own kind of empathy. Ps: I don't usually speak English sorry if there is a lot of typos and mistakes
I got it too but im never sure about the empathy part because i cry while watching movies but feel nothing when i see people dying or my parents talk about how they hate life. But when i do see some sad stuff it just saps the energy out of me i dont feel sad but i just dont feel when that happens
This makes so much since to me never been to doc for it it’s getting worse on me tho I have emotions Somtimes but it’s mostly only for my grandma who raised me and it’s weird on and off like idk what wrong with me everyone telling me to go to doc before I get killed or locked up feel like I can’t control it Somtimes
there’s literally a girl at my school who once wore a shirt that said “antisocial club” like WHAT if you’re antisocial you shouldn’t be proud... you’re ASOCIAL
I had most of the symptoms for the dark triad when I was younger, turned out I have a severe dissociative disorder and when I turned 20 had a total breakdown of guilt, shame, and empathy.
@@floofygod oh that must be really tough! Ure so strong for going through such stuff, please remember that it's never too late to take control of things, U GOT THIS❤
@@rawenmedien7618 you wouldnt be able to do much xD re integration into society is what I need to do but that is very difficult with the current political climate and where I live.
I used this time stone "" to get this for you: 1. They misunderstand social interactions. 0:54 2. They are prone to hostility. 1:14 3. They can be very manipulative. 1:41 4. They have a tendency to lie. 2:14 5. They are very impulsive. 2:38 6. They indulge in repeated risky behavior. 3:03 7. They have little remorse for their behaviors and actions. 3:27 8. They blame others. 3:49
No dude, being awkward and socially anxious doesnt match with antisocial personality disorder...... Cluster b personality disorder contains some of the worst people on the planet, Psychopath, Sociopath, Narcisisstic, they dont have guilt, Manipulative, emotional abusive, and disregard people's feeling, they dont/or maybe the afraid of honesty, and empathy, carefully observe some people in your life, especially narcisist, they are more common than you think
Stigma. Stigma. Stigma. I suffer from ASPD and I'm not some horrible person. I struggle to make connections. I feel a lot emotions I just have low empathy. I know what's right and wrong. I can understand and heal. Stop painting people with trauma based disorders as abusive or automatically bad. We don't have low morals. I struggle with empathy. I lie to avoid conflict not to use people or blame people. I have to tell my friends to call me out so I can learn. Stigma stigma stigma.
@@cypher221that's like saying "you don't have autism, you don't look like my 7 year old." Or "you don't have depression, you don't look emo". Not everyone with a mental disorder or problem will look or sound the same. People are still different just cuz they have similar problems. Please remember that, it'll help a lot of people.
Antisocial personality disorder, sometimes called sociopathy, is a mental disorder in which a person consistently shows no regard for right and wrong and ignores the rights and feelings of others. People with antisocial personality disorder tend to antagonize, manipulate or treat others harshly or with callous indifference. They show no guilt or remorse for their behavior.
and it’s not a cool thing to be proud of 😬😬 Many romanticize the term without even understanding what it really means. Please seek help immediately if you align with most of the traits described in the video.
Sociopathy is one disorder that falls under the antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) umbrella, but it's there along with Psychopathy, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and Borderline Personality Disorder. ASPD tends to be more of an umbrella term that captures traits shared by the other disorders.
@@sonder7503 yes, actually depending on the discorder but for exemple psychopaths are searching for strong emotions so they take a lot of risks like consumming drugs, alchool ect
As someone who lives with someone with Antisocial Personality Disorder, this isn't accurate. The tone used makes it seem like its more often the case that people with the disorder are just evil and want to be the bad guy so to speak. I would like to mention that that is an extreme. Just because you have the disorder doesn't mean you're going to check every box. I wish they made that more clear in all of their videos but they don't really and it can be really harmful to the disorders they try to bring awareness to.
The impaired social interactions either sound like paranoia or autism/asperger's. The second sign is CLEARLY paranoid personality disorder or some other form of paranoia. Antisocials have good social skills, they just use it to manipulate others. If they had issues with social communication, they would not be very manipulative now would they?
@@zkme2734 it was actually really nice. I enjoyed living with them and don't regret it in the slightest. It was hard to get them to be open and willing to do things from time to time but other than that it wasn't much of an issue
@@owenlawson6369 aspd does not cause you to be abusive or harmful to other people and for the most part you can change your behaviour if you do have any concerns. you have just as much of a chance as anyone else has to be a shitty person, so just do good deeds and you'll be good. as for the symptoms, behavioural therapy can help to discourage most violent behaviours and medications can help with mood regulation (to treat impulsivity and violent outbursts if needed). with help, most behaviour dies down around 40 years old and whatever sticks is very mild
I have/had a friend of about 4 years who one day, a while ago, admitted he was diagnosed with anti-social personality disorder. We were/are online friends who mostly just play(ed) games together online. He would be callous, inconsiderate, frequently miss meet up times, disrespectful to everyone, seemingly amoral, would cheat, be rude, grotesque, etc. Then, when times would come where I had had enough, I would try to distance myself from him, and he would suddenly have all these feelings and sadness of oh woe is my life, everything is pain and all that, and It would play on my empathy and I would start hanging out with him again. When I finally realized that no matter how kind I was to him he wasn't going to reciprocate, I essentially started treating him the way he treated me(not caring about his feelings, missing agreed upon meeting times if I felt like it, not taking his bullshit, stopped caring if he showed up at all, calling him out for being a jerk, etc.). His attitude shifted very quickly. It was like once he realized he had no control over me he stopped paying any attention to me. No remorse, seemingly no value for our friendship, not a "hey, what's going on?" Nothing. We stopped talking in a week. P.S. This is a much better more in depth video that will help you glean insight on this disorder: ua-cam.com/video/gpjYtAB9i2w/v-deo.html
Read what you wrote you did the same back at whomever this person is that apparently you were prejudice against before he told you hey I'm an asshole ?
@@areuarealman7269 i don't know where you got this prejudice thing. If you treat someone like crap you don't deserve their kindness and love. Simple as.
I did this exact thing to my ex of five years that I cammed with 24/7. I hated when he started mirroring my behavior and calling me out. I'd bring up the guys who would message me so he decided to go on a three day vacation with some girl. I pretended to be nice for like, a week, and then ghosted him and then he couldn't believe I had actually left. 😂 I had left for a month without telling him at another point prior and he slept with some girl who told him she was les afterwards and he couldn't stop telling me about the guilt that was eating him alive, it was so pathetic. This guy was not innocent though. He's punched a cop, broken an ex's jaw from a bj, hit his mom, etc. Even went to visit him in Germany three times. Those five years were a complete waste of both of our time. Even though I look down on him, I'd still be with him again just to continue our "fun." It's very odd.
I've had my diagnosis switch between ASPD and Borderline Personality Disorder (Manic Depression). It's really frustrating being around others unless I am medicated or content. I don't wanna hurt anybody, and I can't help these intense feelings to deflect and lash out at others. I cope in most social situations by shutting down and ignoring everything around me. And I intentionally try to get lost in my own thoughts. I feel like I'm a huge burden on everyone and I just wish I never existed
Yeah I might have it too. I've found a couple things have helped my rage. One is a nootropic. Another is just walking around with good posture. Helps me collect myself and remain calm as at any moment somebody could be rude or an idiot. I've been in brawls etc. I scared someone into falling into traffic once. I think they're ok now. I've closed my eyes while driving to see what might happen. But I love animals. And I want to help the homeless and help with global warming. I just also can think of several people I wouldn't mind killing. Not slowly or anything just a bullet to the head. But I'm smart enough to know there are better things to do with my time then go too far down that negative path.
If you care that you're a burden to others enough to wish you didn't even exist, that doesn't sound very ASPD to me. But that's just my opinion. Hope you're doing ok 👍
@@babyb667 are you talking about my username? 💀 u typed that like it's a bad thing to like the same sex or either the opposite of someone, iam sorry if i misunderstood anything but that sounds homophobic ig lmao sorry if i offend you in my chosen words
I mean asocial is a symptom of ASPD 😂 I got diagnosed with CD after I set a giant forrest fire I was just playing fire fighter but really I was playing my first felony
I was diagnosed with ASPD about three years ago, and these are actually really good tells. I exhibit everything on the list, but I don’t like getting yelled at or doing things that put me under more surveillance than necessary. My sense of right and wrong is also very tiny. Bad is attacking the weak or scarring someone irreparably. I have the capacity to care for only my own life and people I like, cause I want to do stuff and I won’t be able to if I can’t even breathe. It’s easy to keep people around me cause I get along well with loud and hurt people, who need only physical affection and someone to listen. They don’t want to leave cause they feel like they owe me everything just from that little bit. We both get what we want, and it just works out nicely without any hassle or “toxicity”. It only heavily shows when someone annoys me and I have to take the sweet demeanor in favor of the “tear someone down so fast mentally that they can’t respond” mode. But I don’t understand any form of inequality so there’s that.
@@savana7390 my mom said that everyone should go to a psychologist once, so she took me and the psychologist I was working with said that I was showing a lot of symptoms openly so she ran a few tests. She said that I had ASPD, PTSD and Major Depressive Disorder. She said a few mean things about psychopaths before basically telling me I’m unfixable and doomed to be some horrible person. Yeah. Never went to therapy or anybody else after.
@@jaxon3365 For me no the way I see it is I'm normal and everyone else is weird.. For example since I was a kid I've never understood why people got so excited over gifts and stuff.. Moral of the story no it doesnt suck but for the people around you it does
I was targeted by a narcissist who used to be a friend & coworker of mine. They would tell me “the world isn’t fair, you just have to accept that” when I would vent to them how I felt that people were targeting me for no reason. They made me feel as if I were too sensitive and they would make it seem as if I thought the world revolves around me. After doing my own investigation, I found out that they have been spreading rumors about me that got my ex coworkers to hate me. I was pissed at my coworkers for a long time for doing what they did, but I later learned that they were scared of her, so I’m assuming they only did that so they wouldn’t become her next target. I’m just glad I got out of that mess.
As someone with Anti-Social Personality Disorder (or I heavily suspect so), it is possible to learn how to spot when your behaviours can lead to consequences and stop those behaviours before they become problems. It takes a long time and a lot of practice (and I suspect I'm on the higher spectrum for it so there's that going for me) but you can end up functioning as a slightly weird person without much issues. That being said, as a suggestion from me, if you actually do bump into someone with Anti-Social Personality Disorder, do yourself a favour and run. Unless you know what to look for and how to avoid issues and that person actively decides to not let the disorder control them, it will not end well for you
don’t say you have it until you’re diagnosed by a professional 😐this isn’t a light diagnosis that you can just throw around and say “yeah i have that lol🤪” bc you relate to a couple symptoms, you can have a the symptoms yet not have apsd at all.
@@cyb3rstalker Ah yes, hello year old comment, how've you been? I would like to mention that I am in my 20s and the reason for my lack of diagnosis is that I am in university and poor, but given the lack of surprise from my mother when I brought this up and knowing that she sent my sibling and I to therapy when we were younger makes me suspect that I got flared for potential Antisocial behaviours but knowing her she'll never confirm that. But yeah, not because "omg quirky" (it frustrates me as well dw) and I am fully aware of the true nature of that diagnosis 😁 Thanks for making sure regardless
ik this is a year ago but I can heavily relate, I'm going through therapy rn and they're suspecting I'm on the spectrum definitely and I have some dark traid stuff going on, used to just steal from people without even thinking that it was wrong, lash out blah blah. trying to work on myself real hard rn
aspd doesn't necessarily mean you have less attachments. it just affects your personal values. aspd doesn't automatically make you a bad person. you have the same capability of being a bad person as anyone else and it sucks that people don't understand that. I do get how aspd can cause less attachments but it isn't a prime sign of aspd nor is it in the diagnostic criteria
I'm actually early to this one, cool. I don't usually comment on your videos, but I really do apreciate them. They help me calm down, recognize bad habits, and stay away from more toxic relationships
Man, usually I'll just listen to these while doing something else. But when I watch them, the drawings and animations always make it so much better! You guys do great work, thanks for sharing so much!
Shown as a bad personality, few stay away from people cause they feel uncomfortable with them and bullying nature of others. They are innocent and dying inside doesn't blame others.
id like to note that doesn’t mean these people are inherently bad, some of us try and support helps. i dont think its possible to make one of us care per say but, even if making an effort to not be a horrible person would make life easier we might. if you feel ostracized for having APD just know you can do better and change, even if you have to try really hard right now, with enough practice things will come almost naturally i promise
I have it too, I’m working on it now but it’s hard. The stigma around it makes it hard to talk about yk? It’s not like I’m choosing to be this way. Thanks for that.
It's crazy that I just researched Antisocial Personality Disorder for a character I'm writing in my story. Anyways great video this helped me writing wise! ^^
Don't write a character with it. If you don't have it yourself or know someone diagnosed with it that talk to you. The reality vs the text book of that disorder is so freaking different.
I've dated this girl for like 2 months and a half and this video pretty much describes her personality, I did loved her and I didn't understand at the time why her behaviour was so all over the place. I hope your doing better Dan
wow the synchronicity! i was thinking about that someone who kept misunderstanding me and being so hostile almost all the time we talked. he barely understands jokes too. so its always serious and i felt like walking on eggshells. i think he got almost all of the signs this video mentioned. i gotta be careful with him 😬
Oooh interesting! I thought antisocial meant just not talking to others because they're nervous Btw I can say that I studied today...it night not be school textbooks but this is knowledge too!!!
I have recently told my dad that I felt depressed and that I want to see a therapist yet he said I had no reason to be depressed and he also made a joke about it. It really hurts me to know that now I feel so anxious with him because he saw me in my most Vulnerable moment
Omg I’m so sorry. When people minimize pain it’s so annoying. My dad does that sometimes too. I have OCD and he’s like “everyone is a little OCD sometimes” or “that’s irrational and there is nothing to worry about.” Like bruh you don’t know sh*t so stfu. (Excuse my language)
no wonder you feel depressed! cause if thats your dad's attitude toward something so serious, i can only imagine how he generally is as a person. im sorry, you deserve at least one good parent. i had no good parents. my mom didnt laugh at my depression as a teen but she also didnt ask why, or truly care. she just took me to the doctor and put me on a antidepressant pill ...that i later swallowed all of in a suicide attempt (: i wish i had a good parent, i wish you did too, this world is full of awful parents that raise children who end up being just like them and the cycle continues. except ya know ....people are multiplying at an exponential rate and this world is getting more and more messed up so literally everyone in a few years is going to have a mental illness or personality disorder.
Fun fact: This is the new term for psychopaths/sociopaths as according to modern psychologists, there is little difference between the two to keep them in their own descriptive terms
@@torturachina6452I mean it is relatively new but I find it fascinating how people with ASPD use alcohol to manage symptoms and seem relatively normal I just wish researchers would do a study it’s like being born to be reliant on alcohol like genes were offset
The way people with aspd interpret people’s motives is MORE accurate than their own assessment not less. It’s easier to see subconscious motives from the outside. You did insult them whether you are consciously aware of it or not is irrelevant. Sociopaths are at bottom just immune to emotional coercion. The thing about emotional coercion is it’s subconscious and intuitive so you don’t know your doing it even while it’s obvious to the people around you. In other words sociopaths just see through people’s bullshit. Most people being 90% bullshit really don’t like this.
me, someone w almost all symptoms for apd and then seeing this video: well lets see,,,, act on impulse: sometimes but most of the time im too lazy put blame on others: no i hate myself i blame myself for everything misunderstand social interaction: yes hostility: yes lying: YES little remorse: only if i dont care about the person manipulative: i could if i wanted to be long story short, im seeing a therapist in december
ASPD is not like this…. Often the internet dehumanises people who suffer from this. They may lack empathy but that does not mean they disregard others emotions, it just means they struggle to understand. It’s a neurodivergent mental issue and is always misunderstood by the internet. People with aspd can be kind, caring and selfless - they are human. Please know this.
I honestly hit all of them but was worse when I was a kid. I went through a self transformation and wrote down morals I should have and what I will and will not do. I walk a straighter line than I used to. I choose not to cheat. I choose not to steal, etc. I think I am a better person than I used to be.
I do pretty much all of these, thus giving a strong indication of likely ASPD? No remorse, no guilt/feel bad for what you. mild form of regret IF, and only IF got caught or facing consequences. Although I usually will display a sort of faux remorse, in the same way you’d fake empathy and sympathy
I clicked on this video thinking that I definitely dont have this disorder...then I start hearing the symptoms and now I'm starting to rethink that. I feel like I have most of these symptoms except for drug use and alcohol. But I do show some sympathy towards people.
Did you get a diagnosis of conduct disorder as a child if not probably just bipolar 2 I had 3 felonies by 13 got kicked out of every school for fighting as a child ASPD is uncontrollable until you find out about alcohol used like medicine and become normal or too much and become on the news 😂
I had a classmate with this disorder in 6th grade. She wasn't like this in our early school years but suddenly changed in 5th grade, and because of her I had to switch schools
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Wanna know something sad? My mom swears i had ASPD. She even tells family memeber and Coworks i have ASPD.She claims i act just like one. Its kinda hurtful she would say something. But i have gotten use to her saying i do now 🤷🏽♀️
Your mom is foolish. She is antagonizing the disorder for the sole purpose of just insulting you. And remember you don't have ASPD! You are a normal living being too! And you should be treated as such! Hope your doing well with your life!
Did you get diagnosed with conduct disorder as a child that’s your answer but sounds like your mom has NPD or HPD or BPD definitely something cluster 2 😂
Summary: cat 0:06 1. They misunderstand social interactions. 0:54 2. They are prone to hostility. 1:14 3. They can be very manipulative. 1:41 4. They have a tendency to lie. 2:14 5. They are very impulsive. 2:38 6. They indulge in repeated risky behavior. 3:03 7. They have little remorse for their behaviors and actions. 3:27 8. They blame others. 3:49 cat again 4:22
Hey Psych2Go! I found out new terms such as 'Sadist' and opposite of that 'Masochist' I wonder If you could possibly make a video explaining a bit about it. Your videos are what get me going and I would love to watch one on this theme. And also! I got to understand my self better and what I'm feeling, so tank you for that! Lots of love to everyone!! Stay safe❤
I am able to feel guilt and remorse like I can sympathise people but I feel like I can't empathise, like I like certain social situation ideas, like only once or twice tho, I have hurt ppl, not realising it could hurt, until it was done to myself
Disregard for right and wrong Persistent lying or deceit to exploit others Being callous, cynical and disrespectful of others Using charm or wit to manipulate others for personal gain or personal pleasure Arrogance, a sense of superiority and being extremely opinionated Recurring problems with the law, including criminal behavior👍
I'm...not sure if these signs are accurate. Misunderstanding social interactions could be either paranoia or autism spectrum disorder. In fact, the second sign points to paranoia, like paranoid personality disorder. People with antisocial personality disorder DO NOT have deficits in social interactions like autism spectrum disorder, they are HIGHLY skilled in socializing, or at least average.
Wait... I think I have a lot of these signs. I have been diagnosed with Autism, which for me affects a lot of my social life and my social learning/patterns. The biggest thing is that lately, I’ve really only thought of relationships as stepping stones, or things that help me get what I need. Especially my parents. I also have a SUPER hard time talking to people, knowing what to say, and keeping a conversation. I don’t mean to scare or bore people on purpose, I really can’t seem to fix it no matter how much I think I’ve learned about social cues and rules. I really want to be nice and nurturing to everyone because it’s what I want from others, but sometimes I get really unreasonably mad and it’s kinda scary. Maybe I’m just being paranoid, but I really hope I don’t have this and have been hurting people all this time.
Hey ik it's been three years but as someone who's diagnosed with autism and is suspecting of ASPD as well, I'm curious, have you thought about this any further? Did you ever talk to a therapist about it or anything?
@@fixitfelix0913 hi! Yes. I think I was straight up over analyzing lmao. I don’t watch videos like this anymore for that reason. A lot of the issues I talked about are not as bad as I explained them to be, especially now. I was also on a medication at the time that made me extremely apathetic, and I no longer feel this way. For example I’m still not great at holding conversations but that’s because I genuinely don’t have much to say; I love listening to others and I love talking to people. I’m just not as talkative as others.
@@lemonysnickers1777 Ah, I gotcha. So we're on very different boats then. :') I've been consistently accused of manipulation, deceit, using others for my own advantage and coldness/insensitivity by the people closest to me, so I'm thinking about all this. I like being around people and I'm good at listening, but 99% of the time I don't give a shit what they're talking about or how they feel. I just pretend to care so I'll be more likeable. And it is true that I see relationships as assets, like people are in my life because they benefit me. If they're useless, I cut them off. Obviously I can care about and love people, but it is conditional and easily fades away. I also don't feel any empathy at all really, cognitive or affective. I know cognitive empathy is something us autistics famously struggle with, but affective empathy is moreso an ASPD thing (along with other disorders, like NPD). I also have a history of harming myself, others, animals, and displaying that need/urge for the sake of grounding myself or feeling something more than numbness or seeking revenge against people. There's more, but these are all traits I recognize and so I'm just wondering if I have some sort of comorbidity between ASD and ASPD.
@@fixitfelix0913 ooooh okay yeah I see. Have you talked to a therapist about this in detail yet? If not I would suggest that. These all seem to be telling signs of a personality disorder but I don’t know, I’m just some guy on the internet lmao. I would also urge you to do your own research and talk to others who may experience the same stuff you do, which I see that you’re trying to. I wish you best of luck and I hope you find some relief in knowing what may be going on.
@@lemonysnickers1777 Yeahh I'm thinking of bringing it up in therapy or with a psychiatrist in the future, but as you've suggested I'm trying to do my own research and talk to ppl with diagnosed ASPD (and to other autistics to differentiate things) so I know I'm looking in the right direction at least hahah Thank you for the words of encouragement! I hope I manage to find answers eventually as well. :)
This video reminds me of my first GF in High School. She and her friends had Anti-Social Behaviour Disorder. They would spread rumours about me but go along with it like it was genuine. They were melodramatic and created drama in there lives as if they subconsciously enjoyed it. I didn't deal with it well but my grief was their amusement. Caused me a lot of problems, at the end of the year I had to leave.
That’s seems more like NPD which shares thing with ASPD. I know many ASPD including myself and we tend to be less dramatic if it isn’t in our favor. Except for outburst and stuff
@@jagmannenarbrand8373 When I learned about Sociopath's it described my Ex GF and nearly everyone else I went to High School with....needless to say I don't have fond, nostalgic memories of High School as most people. LOL I'd say you're right, I've not heard of NPD.
@@Monkey-Boy2006 NPD = narcissistic personality disorder. It is common among the type of bullies who usually don't get caught by teachers because they arent "technically" doing some thing wrong. Though this type of bullying is being used out recently. It's common for them to control the perception of you and ruin your reputation with little, remorse. They have empathy, it's just common for them to convince themselves hard enough they did nothing wrong so they don't have to feel it. ASPD don't have to convince themselves since we dont care, and it is common with physical bullies and more direct bullies. I was never much of a bully but some can be sadistic.
@@jagmannenarbrand8373 Thank you very much, that was very informative. Sure wish I had someone like you to tell me this when I was 16 though! Thank you! : - )
This video was very helpful 👍, I actually went and saw doctor about this type of stuff and the results said I have antisocial personality disorder and ADHD which was surprising to my mom ever since I entered high school I’ve been feeling very alone and secluded from any sort of social interaction and honestly I don’t why but it’s just hard for me to talk to people as well To get to the point I’m very shy and quiet.
It's interesting how I relate to all of this so much besides the crime and drugs. I just wonder if its because I have misanthropy and being nihilistic and if so that would most likely explain why im careless and have no empathy along with having impulses but I'll talk to this with my therapist for sure
ever since i was a teenager i always knew something was just … off…. like- i always wondered why i would lie about everything or never take responsibility and never really feel bad if i inconvenienced someone and made someone else take the blame for my mistakes. i’m now almost 23 and nothing has changed. i’ve never ruined relationships because of it though. relationships to me are crucial and a must but unfortunately, a lot of my relationships are built around refusing to end up a loner. i keep people around so that i can hopefully get help from them in the future. i’m trying really hard to not use the word “use” but honestly, it just sounds like that. i lie and i manipulate because i try my hardest to my life as easy as possible. i don’t WANT to hurt people. only when they’ve hurt me or like the video said, when i’ve “read in between the lines” then i will go above and beyond to make their lives a living hell. for so long i’ve always thought that maybe i’ve either had BPD or ASPD but either way, i know there is something off.
@@elle6398That's a myth. Ignorant Allistics perceive autistic people that way but it's not really similar to autism on the inside. Autistic people do empathize we just struggle with conveying empathy.
This soooo much describes my sister, she is very manipulative and always try’s to make others seem bad, somehow manages to feel insulted by the most simplest sentences, gets her way by victimising herself and if that doesn’t work she will resort to yelling angrily or being violent... I could go on. She hasn’t been diagnosed because she tends to change her ways around doctors or straight up refuse to see them but I feel like she is super similar with the disorder in this video
I love how the person in the thumbnail is doing the "It is what it is" meme. Shows the real side of modern mental disorders..using MEMES to deal with it
I had a 3 year relationship with someone with ASPD and it was a living hell. He tried to kill me and he really abused me in different ways. He had no empathy and could even sell his mom for money. It is on a spectrum, and unfortunately I had the most awful experience with someone with ASPD. A crazy person that needs to be locked up.
I’ll take things that never happened for $500 😂 as someone with extensive knowledge of narcissism that’s just a normal reaction to narcissistic abuse one of us would just use the police and voice and video recordings and possibly planting drugs and or pornography and play victim better and if we did have to use violence from need for control it would just be murder suicide in a crashout moment full control of everything until the end like the professionals we are 😂
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I think being the first reply to psych2Go’s comment is a great honor
Btw love ur vids
Is this similar to narcissists
please let us know who voices each video! i see that there are credits to the writer, producer, and animator in the description but i would love to see who does the voiceover
i know it's quite randomly asking but does anybody know of a good site to stream new tv shows online?
i am formally diagnosed with aspd and please remember this disorder is a spectrum and not a cookie-cutter diagnosis. this video mainly highlights the traits of someone with aspd with less self-awareness. a lot of us do not completely lack morals and choose to be good people, even if we have little to no empathy in general.
People forget what cognitive empathy is
I can confirm this
Im self diagnosed like u people dont understand us
i haven't been diagnosed (as my parents won't let me go to a psychologist), but i have suspected for a few years now that i have aspd (don't attack me for self-diagnosing though, i have never said i have aspd, just that i have symptoms of it and suspect that i do have it). anyway, i really hate it when people paint aspd is such a horrible light. it's either they romanticize or they demonize mental illnesses and neurological/personality disorders; we can't win.
I have some empathy but only to close family on friends. I normally feel like all my actions are justified and tend to get aggressive over disagreements, resulting in hostility. My therapist and teacher have noticed that I have antisocial behavior indicators but my parents refuse to believe it as I already have so many mental problems. I started acting different after I suffered a serious traumatic incident when I was 6. I am trying to work on empathy and putting myself in other people's shoes. I'm trying to work on planning ahead of things so I'm starting to think about my future, a sign of progress. However, I constantly feel like my relationship is empty for me and although I love her it feels like something is missing. I feel genuinely happier when she does something for me or talks about something I like. I don't want to sound selfish. I've been in legal trouble before. I have been hospitalized before. I am currently on a road to recovery for my trauma with flash therapy and EMDR but it's never enough and I've been permanently fractured mentally.
Hi fellow Time Travelers
Here are the Time Stamps :
1.They misunderstand social interactions 0:53
2. They Are Prone to Hostility 1:13
3. They Can be Very Manipulative 1:40
4. They Have a Tendency to Lie 2:14
5. They are Very Impulsive 2:37
6. They Indulge in Repeated Risky Behavior 3:02
7. They Have little Remorse for Their Behavior and Actions 3:27
8. They Blame others 3:49
See you in the Future!
thx
Thanks for putting this together :)
Oki c;
@@Psych2go hello how oter pepole ecome time traveler
@@Psych2go Hi
As someone like this, I lie compulsively not to exploit people, but just because I’m very poorly versed in social interaction, so I just lie around it to get through it. Personally, I only manipulate if I need to, just to get by. I just don’t care enough about most people to actually exploit them. To be honest, I’m just really lazy and I cut corners.
LMFAO MEE
same it's mostly just to cover up my shitty time management due to adhd. feels bad for u cus have aspd
Lazypaths confirmed
That’s not ASPD.
@@DonnaChambersonthen what is it
Me looking at the comments time traveling : 👁👁-
Edit : i- when did this comment get 555 likes? Anyway thanks and have a great day / night
yes like wtf
@@reginamp9122 fr fr
literally what is going on
@@snail5742 idk either like the comments are like months ago or weeks ago or something like that
They were/are probably members of the channel and had early access lmao.
I have antisocial personality disorder and there is a lots of misunderstanding about the lack of empathy. It's not really a lack of empathy, but the ability to turn off any empathy and emotions easily, but when you are younger it is more difficult to turn it on and off whenever you want, to you tend to find yourself in situations where you should have empathy but doesn't have any, or in other situations where you might find a certain kind of empathy towards people who doesn't deserves empathy. But as you grow older and actually get some sort of help for you antisocial behaviours it is easier to turn on your empathy and actually be able to have empathy.
BUT we don't experience empathy like someone who is "normal", we have our own kind of empathy.
Ps: I don't usually speak English sorry if there is a lot of typos and mistakes
I got it too but im never sure about the empathy part because i cry while watching movies but feel nothing when i see people dying or my parents talk about how they hate life. But when i do see some sad stuff it just saps the energy out of me i dont feel sad but i just dont feel when that happens
This makes so much since to me never been to doc for it it’s getting worse on me tho I have emotions Somtimes but it’s mostly only for my grandma who raised me and it’s weird on and off like idk what wrong with me everyone telling me to go to doc before I get killed or locked up feel like I can’t control it Somtimes
@@MoDzrFUNSUB😂
@@jamesygamesy5124that’s exactly how i feel
Don't mind me just time traveling
Ok c:
Wtf
WAIT WHAT
GJ!
TF
posted 30 seconds ago*
me seeing ppls comments from 1 month ago🧍🏻♀️
I know right
Ikr same Lollll
Huh😦 i just saw a comment saying "don't mind me just time traveling" and it was 1week ago how is that possible 🤨🤔
Bruh I can also time travel just not doing it :/
It's just the choice of STEINS GATE!
Everyone: Hehe I'm a Timetravler!
Me: Why are the comments months and weeks old when this video was just uploaded?! Mom pick me up, I'm scared.
Same- 👁👁- pick me up too
They're members ig
Can I join the scared circle?
their name has the • 5000 years ago in it
@@johannrupertmaneja2947
No they pay for membership
Not gonna lie, when I saw the thumbnail, all I could think of was
*"It really hurts, ang magmahal ng ganito-"*
i cannot escape the filipino love songs
Me: **thinking antisocial just means that you don’t like socialising**
Yea, you thought it right. Video call out for "antisocial DISORDER"
People with sociopathic tendencies = Antisocial.
someone once thought being introverted meant being antisocial, people are so uneducated on this
Not liking socialising means u r asocial. Antisocial is entirely different thing,it means dangerous levels of antipathy
there’s literally a girl at my school who once wore a shirt that said “antisocial club” like WHAT if you’re antisocial you shouldn’t be proud... you’re ASOCIAL
“Don’t ruin a good day by thinking about a bad yesterday. Let it go” 🙏🏽
What do I do about tomorrow though????
@@GiveFucks Make sure you don't ruin it with today
Holy crap. This helped me so much. I’m always thinking of bad things I’ve done in the past. I need to move on
@@GiveFucks think about it when tomorrow comes!
Nah, live in the moment and have fun. If you think it's fun to get people back then do it just be smart about it.
I had most of the symptoms for the dark triad when I was younger, turned out I have a severe dissociative disorder and when I turned 20 had a total breakdown of guilt, shame, and empathy.
And how are you now?
@@rawenmedien7618 well I live in a van, I have no friends or family, my body is broken from years of neglect and abuse. I have lots of problems.
@@floofygod oh that must be really tough!
Ure so strong for going through such stuff, please remember that it's never too late to take control of things, U GOT THIS❤
@@floofygod if I can help please tell me
@@rawenmedien7618 you wouldnt be able to do much xD re integration into society is what I need to do but that is very difficult with the current political climate and where I live.
I used this time stone "" to get this for you:
1. They misunderstand social interactions. 0:54
2. They are prone to hostility. 1:14
3. They can be very manipulative. 1:41
4. They have a tendency to lie. 2:14
5. They are very impulsive. 2:38
6. They indulge in repeated risky behavior. 3:03
7. They have little remorse for their behaviors and actions. 3:27
8. They blame others. 3:49
Thanks
What-
H-how?!
🌕 haha
@@Psych2go but how is this one month ago?
Tf I thought antisocial ppl were those who dont like talking. Like me. Lol I m not antisocial now that I know what it is.
Ye, apparently the word 'Asocial' is more apt.
That's a very old and common misconception. Antisocial basically means you disregard many things that are considered societal norms.
that s asocial
@@민준-g5k sorry I'm just dumb
No dude, being awkward and socially anxious doesnt match with antisocial personality disorder......
Cluster b personality disorder contains some of the worst people on the planet, Psychopath, Sociopath, Narcisisstic, they dont have guilt, Manipulative, emotional abusive, and disregard people's feeling, they dont/or maybe the afraid of honesty, and empathy, carefully observe some people in your life, especially narcisist, they are more common than you think
Stigma. Stigma. Stigma. I suffer from ASPD and I'm not some horrible person. I struggle to make connections. I feel a lot emotions I just have low empathy. I know what's right and wrong. I can understand and heal. Stop painting people with trauma based disorders as abusive or automatically bad. We don't have low morals. I struggle with empathy. I lie to avoid conflict not to use people or blame people. I have to tell my friends to call me out so I can learn. Stigma stigma stigma.
I can relate
I wish to meet someone with aspd
@@diveegenewonyoung228 it's a nightmare
@Cypherthat's because he's writing
@@cypher221that's like saying "you don't have autism, you don't look like my 7 year old." Or "you don't have depression, you don't look emo". Not everyone with a mental disorder or problem will look or sound the same. People are still different just cuz they have similar problems. Please remember that, it'll help a lot of people.
I think I'll go try to get a therapist soon, Psych2Go has showed me that some of the stuff that has happened to me isn't normal or healthy.
You never know another person’s background and what they could be going through.
Very true
Understand the pain but never excuse the abuse just because your hurting does not give you the right to hurt you or others
@@Demon-zk4jr had to learn that the hard way
@@dreamerboy3175 me to 13 years later that person is still unhealthy asf with or without People I got away
@@Demon-zk4jr exactly!!!
the way mimiyuuh is the thumbnail makes it more better
finally another Filipino xD
@@miccadelacruz2771 Oo nga HAHAHAHAHA Hi oncee
hahabbahaa
hello fellow Filipino
Haha the moment it dances like that I knew it then I saw the trademark room with the plastic cabinet...
Antisocial personality disorder, sometimes called sociopathy, is a mental disorder in which a person consistently shows no regard for right and wrong and ignores the rights and feelings of others. People with antisocial personality disorder tend to antagonize, manipulate or treat others harshly or with callous indifference. They show no guilt or remorse for their behavior.
sociopathy is a anti-social discorder, not a synonyme of it
and it’s not a cool thing to be proud of 😬😬 Many romanticize the term without even understanding what it really means. Please seek help immediately if you align with most of the traits described in the video.
Sociopathy is one disorder that falls under the antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) umbrella, but it's there along with Psychopathy, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and Borderline Personality Disorder. ASPD tends to be more of an umbrella term that captures traits shared by the other disorders.
Can people like EVER also add the fact that people with ASPD also have a no regard for their OWN safety, not just other people.
@@sonder7503 yes, actually depending on the discorder but for exemple psychopaths are searching for strong emotions so they take a lot of risks like consumming drugs, alchool ect
1:17 it really hurts ang magmahal ng ganito
👉😙👈
oo nga yung background kay mimiyuh din HAHAHA
As someone who lives with someone with Antisocial Personality Disorder, this isn't accurate. The tone used makes it seem like its more often the case that people with the disorder are just evil and want to be the bad guy so to speak. I would like to mention that that is an extreme. Just because you have the disorder doesn't mean you're going to check every box. I wish they made that more clear in all of their videos but they don't really and it can be really harmful to the disorders they try to bring awareness to.
The impaired social interactions either sound like paranoia or autism/asperger's. The second sign is CLEARLY paranoid personality disorder or some other form of paranoia. Antisocials have good social skills, they just use it to manipulate others. If they had issues with social communication, they would not be very manipulative now would they?
what it's like living with someone with ASPD? how do they act with you?
@@zkme2734 it was actually really nice. I enjoyed living with them and don't regret it in the slightest. It was hard to get them to be open and willing to do things from time to time but other than that it wasn't much of an issue
Hey! I have pretty bad anxiety about having aspd. Is there anything you could tell me about it that will not make me so scared of it?
@@owenlawson6369 aspd does not cause you to be abusive or harmful to other people and for the most part you can change your behaviour if you do have any concerns. you have just as much of a chance as anyone else has to be a shitty person, so just do good deeds and you'll be good. as for the symptoms, behavioural therapy can help to discourage most violent behaviours and medications can help with mood regulation (to treat impulsivity and violent outbursts if needed). with help, most behaviour dies down around 40 years old and whatever sticks is very mild
I have/had a friend of about 4 years who one day, a while ago, admitted he was diagnosed with anti-social personality disorder. We were/are online friends who mostly just play(ed) games together online. He would be callous, inconsiderate, frequently miss meet up times, disrespectful to everyone, seemingly amoral, would cheat, be rude, grotesque, etc. Then, when times would come where I had had enough, I would try to distance myself from him, and he would suddenly have all these feelings and sadness of oh woe is my life, everything is pain and all that, and It would play on my empathy and I would start hanging out with him again. When I finally realized that no matter how kind I was to him he wasn't going to reciprocate, I essentially started treating him the way he treated me(not caring about his feelings, missing agreed upon meeting times if I felt like it, not taking his bullshit, stopped caring if he showed up at all, calling him out for being a jerk, etc.). His attitude shifted very quickly. It was like once he realized he had no control over me he stopped paying any attention to me. No remorse, seemingly no value for our friendship, not a "hey, what's going on?" Nothing. We stopped talking in a week.
P.S. This is a much better more in depth video that will help you glean insight on this disorder: ua-cam.com/video/gpjYtAB9i2w/v-deo.html
Read what you wrote you did the same back at whomever this person is that apparently you were prejudice against before he told you hey I'm an asshole ?
@@areuarealman7269 i don't know where you got this prejudice thing. If you treat someone like crap you don't deserve their kindness and love. Simple as.
I did this exact thing to my ex of five years that I cammed with 24/7. I hated when he started mirroring my behavior and calling me out. I'd bring up the guys who would message me so he decided to go on a three day vacation with some girl. I pretended to be nice for like, a week, and then ghosted him and then he couldn't believe I had actually left. 😂 I had left for a month without telling him at another point prior and he slept with some girl who told him she was les afterwards and he couldn't stop telling me about the guilt that was eating him alive, it was so pathetic. This guy was not innocent though. He's punched a cop, broken an ex's jaw from a bj, hit his mom, etc. Even went to visit him in Germany three times. Those five years were a complete waste of both of our time. Even though I look down on him, I'd still be with him again just to continue our "fun." It's very odd.
I've had my diagnosis switch between ASPD and Borderline Personality Disorder (Manic Depression). It's really frustrating being around others unless I am medicated or content. I don't wanna hurt anybody, and I can't help these intense feelings to deflect and lash out at others.
I cope in most social situations by shutting down and ignoring everything around me. And I intentionally try to get lost in my own thoughts. I feel like I'm a huge burden on everyone and I just wish I never existed
Sounds like you have bpd as wel. You write like you do. Try Harding a victimhood narrative
Remember that your feelings are not facts. Please get therapy
bpd isn’t manic depression, your referring to bipolar
Yeah I might have it too. I've found a couple things have helped my rage. One is a nootropic. Another is just walking around with good posture. Helps me collect myself and remain calm as at any moment somebody could be rude or an idiot. I've been in brawls etc. I scared someone into falling into traffic once. I think they're ok now. I've closed my eyes while driving to see what might happen. But I love animals. And I want to help the homeless and help with global warming. I just also can think of several people I wouldn't mind killing. Not slowly or anything just a bullet to the head. But I'm smart enough to know there are better things to do with my time then go too far down that negative path.
If you care that you're a burden to others enough to wish you didn't even exist, that doesn't sound very ASPD to me. But that's just my opinion. Hope you're doing ok 👍
No one:
Literally no one:
Psych2Go be like: 1:19 it really hurtzzzz
MIMIYUUHHH
It really hurts pose 😂😂😂 Mimiyuuhh
that thumbnail is one big mood
Me: *sees thumbnail*
Me: Don't do it
My brain: "It really hurtz"
Holy fuck it really is that dance
@@len5630 I think so too OwO
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@@user-zp3bi2bd2v ew no
@@babyb667 are you talking about my username? 💀 u typed that like it's a bad thing to like the same sex or either the opposite of someone, iam sorry if i misunderstood anything but that sounds homophobic ig lmao sorry if i offend you in my chosen words
My mom: you’re being antisocial
no mom no i’m not. i’m asocial. i don’t go around going against social norms
Exactly!!!
I mean asocial is a symptom of ASPD 😂 I got diagnosed with CD after I set a giant forrest fire I was just playing fire fighter but really I was playing my first felony
I was diagnosed with ASPD about three years ago, and these are actually really good tells. I exhibit everything on the list, but I don’t like getting yelled at or doing things that put me under more surveillance than necessary. My sense of right and wrong is also very tiny. Bad is attacking the weak or scarring someone irreparably. I have the capacity to care for only my own life and people I like, cause I want to do stuff and I won’t be able to if I can’t even breathe. It’s easy to keep people around me cause I get along well with loud and hurt people, who need only physical affection and someone to listen. They don’t want to leave cause they feel like they owe me everything just from that little bit. We both get what we want, and it just works out nicely without any hassle or “toxicity”. It only heavily shows when someone annoys me and I have to take the sweet demeanor in favor of the “tear someone down so fast mentally that they can’t respond” mode. But I don’t understand any form of inequality so there’s that.
What if you excibit most of the tells
how did you get diagnosed?
@@savana7390 my mom said that everyone should go to a psychologist once, so she took me and the psychologist I was working with said that I was showing a lot of symptoms openly so she ran a few tests. She said that I had ASPD, PTSD and Major Depressive Disorder. She said a few mean things about psychopaths before basically telling me I’m unfixable and doomed to be some horrible person. Yeah. Never went to therapy or anybody else after.
@@physicsboy1234 maybe get it checked out? Could just be BPD if it’s some of the symptoms.
hai fellow antisocials.....
Psychopaths here, hahaha....
but well we can change our behaviour through kindness and compassion....
The irony of the timing... I legit just got diagnosed with aspd
Stay strong my friend
shucks
Oh God.
Does it suck as much as people say it does?
@@jaxon3365 For me no the way I see it is I'm normal and everyone else is weird.. For example since I was a kid I've never understood why people got so excited over gifts and stuff.. Moral of the story no it doesnt suck but for the people around you it does
I’ve never known this was the true meaning of antisocial. My mom always called me antisocial because I don’t really hang out with other people
Asocial and antisocial can look extremely similar
Being antisocial is what your mom meant and she is right. But having antisocial personality disorder is different.
I was targeted by a narcissist who used to be a friend & coworker of mine. They would tell me “the world isn’t fair, you just have to accept that” when I would vent to them how I felt that people were targeting me for no reason. They made me feel as if I were too sensitive and they would make it seem as if I thought the world revolves around me. After doing my own investigation, I found out that they have been spreading rumors about me that got my ex coworkers to hate me. I was pissed at my coworkers for a long time for doing what they did, but I later learned that they were scared of her, so I’m assuming they only did that so they wouldn’t become her next target. I’m just glad I got out of that mess.
58 secs ago
Me: *YEAH*
Aciddently presses another vid
Me: *NO*
Goes back to the vid
Me: *YEAH*
3 mins ago
Me: *WAIT WHAT*
As someone with Anti-Social Personality Disorder (or I heavily suspect so), it is possible to learn how to spot when your behaviours can lead to consequences and stop those behaviours before they become problems. It takes a long time and a lot of practice (and I suspect I'm on the higher spectrum for it so there's that going for me) but you can end up functioning as a slightly weird person without much issues.
That being said, as a suggestion from me, if you actually do bump into someone with Anti-Social Personality Disorder, do yourself a favour and run. Unless you know what to look for and how to avoid issues and that person actively decides to not let the disorder control them, it will not end well for you
don’t say you have it until you’re diagnosed by a professional 😐this isn’t a light diagnosis that you can just throw around and say “yeah i have that lol🤪” bc you relate to a couple symptoms, you can have a the symptoms yet not have apsd at all.
@@cyb3rstalker Ah yes, hello year old comment, how've you been?
I would like to mention that I am in my 20s and the reason for my lack of diagnosis is that I am in university and poor, but given the lack of surprise from my mother when I brought this up and knowing that she sent my sibling and I to therapy when we were younger makes me suspect that I got flared for potential Antisocial behaviours but knowing her she'll never confirm that.
But yeah, not because "omg quirky" (it frustrates me as well dw) and I am fully aware of the true nature of that diagnosis 😁
Thanks for making sure regardless
ik this is a year ago but I can heavily relate, I'm going through therapy rn and they're suspecting I'm on the spectrum definitely and I have some dark traid stuff going on, used to just steal from people without even thinking that it was wrong, lash out blah blah. trying to work on myself real hard rn
@@scrivenerdenograde7661 but still dont say you have it right off the bad 😭 tf
@@scrivenerdenograde7661 and if you care sm, get a job for a diagnosis most units offee free mental health stuff
We’re not bad people we just have less attachments
No you're bad. You enjoy abusing.
@@johnlovesbridge no, you enjoy judging :) do some research n come back when you're educated
aspd doesn't necessarily mean you have less attachments. it just affects your personal values. aspd doesn't automatically make you a bad person. you have the same capability of being a bad person as anyone else and it sucks that people don't understand that. I do get how aspd can cause less attachments but it isn't a prime sign of aspd nor is it in the diagnostic criteria
The media always makes people with ASPD sound like monsters, but ASPD doesn’t make you a monster it just means your brain works differently.
Lying and manipulating is a terrible trait to have. In my opinion that would make someone a bad person
Beginning:
"This video is made for educational purposes and is shouldn't be taken as professional diagnosis"
End:
🤡something's wrong i can feel it
Relatable
LITERALLY EVERY VIDEO (or at least most videos)
😂 really but I think I feel that thing after every video of Psych2go
omg I AM WHEEZING
The "it really hurts" action thumbnail got me 😁
I'm actually early to this one, cool. I don't usually comment on your videos, but I really do apreciate them. They help me calm down, recognize bad habits, and stay away from more toxic relationships
So you have actually learned nothing
@@ch33chmongo17 First of all, this comment is three years old... second of all, I don't even know what you mean by that.
THE THUMBNAILL!!! It really hurtss 👉😙👈
Man, usually I'll just listen to these while doing something else. But when I watch them, the drawings and animations always make it so much better! You guys do great work, thanks for sharing so much!
Thank you so much for your kind words and support. It means a lot :)
Shown as a bad personality, few stay away from people cause they feel uncomfortable with them and bullying nature of others. They are innocent and dying inside doesn't blame others.
Pov:you're wondering how we got here
*Achievement unlocked!*
How did we get here?
Nope
May I have access to your time machine please?
Yes please
WHY DOES YOUR COMMENT SAY 1 MONTH AGO
id like to note that doesn’t mean these people are inherently bad, some of us try and support helps. i dont think its possible to make one of us care per say but, even if making an effort to not be a horrible person would make life easier we might. if you feel ostracized for having APD just know you can do better and change, even if you have to try really hard right now, with enough practice things will come almost naturally i promise
I have it too, I’m working on it now but it’s hard. The stigma around it makes it hard to talk about yk? It’s not like I’m choosing to be this way. Thanks for that.
It appears to be that my ex has been recently diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder and this video fits him to a tea
Typical narcissistic comment 😂
It's crazy that I just researched Antisocial Personality Disorder for a character I'm writing in my story.
Anyways great video this helped me writing wise! ^^
Don't write a character with it. If you don't have it yourself or know someone diagnosed with it that talk to you.
The reality vs the text book of that disorder is so freaking different.
I've dated this girl for like 2 months and a half and this video pretty much describes her personality, I did loved her and I didn't understand at the time why her behaviour was so all over the place.
I hope your doing better Dan
wow the synchronicity!
i was thinking about that someone who kept misunderstanding me and being so hostile almost all the time we talked. he barely understands jokes too. so its always serious and i felt like walking on eggshells.
i think he got almost all of the signs this video mentioned. i gotta be careful with him 😬
Was the thumbnail inspired by "It's really hurtz" meme from the Philippines?
Yes. It's your "gHorlL" ~ 😁
yesh, drink your water bish
Yass
Oooh interesting! I thought antisocial meant just not talking to others because they're nervous
Btw I can say that I studied today...it night not be school textbooks but this is knowledge too!!!
And this video was made to clarify that!
@@Psych2go I thought the same but thank you for letting us know about this and other psychology things too also the animation
Hello time traveler
7 months ago?
The animation keeps getting better
Thanks :) Is this your favorite one so far?
@@Psych2go Definitely. Keep doing the nice work!
Not me accidentally stopping paying attention to the video and looking at all the time travelers over there--
You know what's crazy? I was trying to figure out if I have ASPD and whilst doing that, this video popped up. That's mental.
I have recently told my dad that I felt depressed and that I want to see a therapist yet he said I had no reason to be depressed and he also made a joke about it. It really hurts me to know that now I feel so anxious with him because he saw me in my most Vulnerable moment
I'm so glad my dad isn't like that
Omg I’m so sorry. When people minimize pain it’s so annoying. My dad does that sometimes too. I have OCD and he’s like “everyone is a little OCD sometimes” or “that’s irrational and there is nothing to worry about.” Like bruh you don’t know sh*t so stfu. (Excuse my language)
no wonder you feel depressed! cause if thats your dad's attitude toward something so serious, i can only imagine how he generally is as a person. im sorry, you deserve at least one good parent. i had no good parents. my mom didnt laugh at my depression as a teen but she also didnt ask why, or truly care. she just took me to the doctor and put me on a antidepressant pill ...that i later swallowed all of in a suicide attempt (: i wish i had a good parent, i wish you did too, this world is full of awful parents that raise children who end up being just like them and the cycle continues. except ya know ....people are multiplying at an exponential rate and this world is getting more and more messed up so literally everyone in a few years is going to have a mental illness or personality disorder.
Fun fact: This is the new term for psychopaths/sociopaths as according to modern psychologists, there is little difference between the two to keep them in their own descriptive terms
Thanks for the free stigma absolutely wonderful
ASPD ≠ Psychopathy and this term has been around for ages
@@torturachina6452I mean it is relatively new but I find it fascinating how people with ASPD use alcohol to manage symptoms and seem relatively normal I just wish researchers would do a study it’s like being born to be reliant on alcohol like genes were offset
The way people with aspd interpret people’s motives is MORE accurate than their own assessment not less. It’s easier to see subconscious motives from the outside. You did insult them whether you are consciously aware of it or not is irrelevant. Sociopaths are at bottom just immune to emotional coercion. The thing about emotional coercion is it’s subconscious and intuitive so you don’t know your doing it even while it’s obvious to the people around you. In other words sociopaths just see through people’s bullshit. Most people being 90% bullshit really don’t like this.
Facts
me, someone w almost all symptoms for apd and then seeing this video: well lets see,,,,
act on impulse: sometimes but most of the time im too lazy
put blame on others: no i hate myself i blame myself for everything
misunderstand social interaction: yes
hostility: yes
lying: YES
little remorse: only if i dont care about the person
manipulative: i could if i wanted to be
long story short, im seeing a therapist in december
ASPD is not like this…. Often the internet dehumanises people who suffer from this. They may lack empathy but that does not mean they disregard others emotions, it just means they struggle to understand. It’s a neurodivergent mental issue and is always misunderstood by the internet. People with aspd can be kind, caring and selfless - they are human. Please know this.
I'm a sociopath and I approve this message
😂
That term is outdated you’re an Antisocial 😂 do you drink alcohol to be normal tho is the question
the thumbnail reminds me of "it really hurts dance on tiktok"😂
1:18 - iT rEalLy hUrTs AnG mAgMaHaL nG gAnIto🎶
1:16 - "It really hurtsss, ang magmahal ng ganituu~🎶" 👉😔👈
That lucky star at the back thoo, Mimiyuuuuh reference 👀
I honestly hit all of them but was worse when I was a kid. I went through a self transformation and wrote down morals I should have and what I will and will not do. I walk a straighter line than I used to. I choose not to cheat. I choose not to steal, etc. I think I am a better person than I used to be.
I do pretty much all of these, thus giving a strong indication of likely ASPD?
No remorse, no guilt/feel bad for what you. mild form of regret IF, and only IF got caught or facing consequences.
Although I usually will display a sort of faux remorse, in the same way you’d fake empathy and sympathy
I clicked on this video thinking that I definitely dont have this disorder...then I start hearing the symptoms and now I'm starting to rethink that. I feel like I have most of these symptoms except for drug use and alcohol. But I do show some sympathy towards people.
Did you get a diagnosis of conduct disorder as a child if not probably just bipolar 2 I had 3 felonies by 13 got kicked out of every school for fighting as a child ASPD is uncontrollable until you find out about alcohol used like medicine and become normal or too much and become on the news 😂
I really can’t believe I’m this diagnosis, but when every symptom checks out, I can’t deny it
Yeay, I'm a time traveller 😂
HOW FROM NO
How?
How's this happening
Same lol
Unlisted vid
I’m already diagnosed but I just like watching these
r/sociopath
The Truth About Psychopathy, Sociopaths and ASPD
be aware of information quality. we don't have the thumbs down anymore.
I had a classmate with this disorder in 6th grade. She wasn't like this in our early school years but suddenly changed in 5th grade, and because of her I had to switch schools
She got diagnosed in 6th grade?
She probably had conduct disorder, o.d.d or possibly autism you have to be 18 to get a diagnosis.
You can’t have ASPD until you’re an adult that’s conduct disorder until you’re 18 then it can be ASPD generally speaking
Early but curse my notification for not notifying it earlier!!!
How tf are y'all time traveling! Also, nice to also hear another voice over from a different person, I wish I remembered your name. 😔😞😢😭 And wow this is something I didn't expect to exist. And one last thing:
UwU UwU UwU
¡Outro Dance!
UwU UwU UwU
Why is the thumbnail the "it really hurts" pose?!?!
It has mimiyuuuh's background too!
@@rmnmttjsphnst yes!!!!! i thought i was the only one haahahahah
Wanna know something sad? My mom swears i had ASPD. She even tells family memeber and Coworks i have ASPD.She claims i act just like one. Its kinda hurtful she would say something. But i have gotten use to her saying i do now 🤷🏽♀️
Your mom is foolish. She is antagonizing the disorder for the sole purpose of just insulting you. And remember you don't have ASPD! You are a normal living being too! And you should be treated as such! Hope your doing well with your life!
@Mic van ziol what do you mean
@Mic van ziol it does
Did you get diagnosed with conduct disorder as a child that’s your answer but sounds like your mom has NPD or HPD or BPD definitely something cluster 2 😂
The thumbnail looks like the "it really hurtz" meme lol
Edit: 1:34 it is HAHA I recognize that room
Summary:
cat 0:06
1. They misunderstand social interactions. 0:54
2. They are prone to hostility. 1:14
3. They can be very manipulative. 1:41
4. They have a tendency to lie. 2:14
5. They are very impulsive. 2:38
6. They indulge in repeated risky behavior. 3:03
7. They have little remorse for their behaviors and actions. 3:27
8. They blame others. 3:49
cat again 4:22
Wait a minute- 👁👄👁
Wait how-
How is this posted last mo-
Hey Psych2Go!
I found out new terms such as 'Sadist' and opposite of that 'Masochist'
I wonder If you could possibly make a video explaining a bit about it. Your videos are what get me going and I would love to watch one on this theme. And also! I got to understand my self better and what I'm feeling, so tank you for that!
Lots of love to everyone!! Stay safe❤
I am able to feel guilt and remorse like I can sympathise people but I feel like I can't empathise, like I like certain social situation ideas, like only once or twice tho, I have hurt ppl, not realising it could hurt, until it was done to myself
That feel when literally everything listed is accurate to you
Is this one of the time travel videos
YEP! We see that you've travelled quite far!
@@Psych2go I'm so confused 😂
Disregard for right and wrong
Persistent lying or deceit to exploit others
Being callous, cynical and disrespectful of others
Using charm or wit to manipulate others for personal gain or personal pleasure
Arrogance, a sense of superiority and being extremely opinionated
Recurring problems with the law, including criminal behavior👍
I COMPLETELY RELATE TO THIS
*Except for the crimes and drugs or something like that*
I love how this helps me understnd my best friend's disorder
I'm...not sure if these signs are accurate. Misunderstanding social interactions could be either paranoia or autism spectrum disorder. In fact, the second sign points to paranoia, like paranoid personality disorder. People with antisocial personality disorder DO NOT have deficits in social interactions like autism spectrum disorder, they are HIGHLY skilled in socializing, or at least average.
Out of all of my problems this one is my favorite
Am I the only one who is immediately soothed by the presence of the cartoon cat?
I really love that cat. It makes me smile.
Honestly, I think the thumbnail was inspired by Mimiyuh's background / the 'it really hurtsz' huhu. Btw, thank you for this video ♡
Wait... I think I have a lot of these signs. I have been diagnosed with Autism, which for me affects a lot of my social life and my social learning/patterns. The biggest thing is that lately, I’ve really only thought of relationships as stepping stones, or things that help me get what I need. Especially my parents. I also have a SUPER hard time talking to people, knowing what to say, and keeping a conversation. I don’t mean to scare or bore people on purpose, I really can’t seem to fix it no matter how much I think I’ve learned about social cues and rules. I really want to be nice and nurturing to everyone because it’s what I want from others, but sometimes I get really unreasonably mad and it’s kinda scary. Maybe I’m just being paranoid, but I really hope I don’t have this and have been hurting people all this time.
Hey ik it's been three years but as someone who's diagnosed with autism and is suspecting of ASPD as well, I'm curious, have you thought about this any further? Did you ever talk to a therapist about it or anything?
@@fixitfelix0913 hi! Yes. I think I was straight up over analyzing lmao. I don’t watch videos like this anymore for that reason. A lot of the issues I talked about are not as bad as I explained them to be, especially now. I was also on a medication at the time that made me extremely apathetic, and I no longer feel this way. For example I’m still not great at holding conversations but that’s because I genuinely don’t have much to say; I love listening to others and I love talking to people. I’m just not as talkative as others.
@@lemonysnickers1777 Ah, I gotcha. So we're on very different boats then. :') I've been consistently accused of manipulation, deceit, using others for my own advantage and coldness/insensitivity by the people closest to me, so I'm thinking about all this. I like being around people and I'm good at listening, but 99% of the time I don't give a shit what they're talking about or how they feel. I just pretend to care so I'll be more likeable. And it is true that I see relationships as assets, like people are in my life because they benefit me. If they're useless, I cut them off. Obviously I can care about and love people, but it is conditional and easily fades away. I also don't feel any empathy at all really, cognitive or affective. I know cognitive empathy is something us autistics famously struggle with, but affective empathy is moreso an ASPD thing (along with other disorders, like NPD). I also have a history of harming myself, others, animals, and displaying that need/urge for the sake of grounding myself or feeling something more than numbness or seeking revenge against people. There's more, but these are all traits I recognize and so I'm just wondering if I have some sort of comorbidity between ASD and ASPD.
@@fixitfelix0913 ooooh okay yeah I see. Have you talked to a therapist about this in detail yet? If not I would suggest that. These all seem to be telling signs of a personality disorder but I don’t know, I’m just some guy on the internet lmao. I would also urge you to do your own research and talk to others who may experience the same stuff you do, which I see that you’re trying to. I wish you best of luck and I hope you find some relief in knowing what may be going on.
@@lemonysnickers1777 Yeahh I'm thinking of bringing it up in therapy or with a psychiatrist in the future, but as you've suggested I'm trying to do my own research and talk to ppl with diagnosed ASPD (and to other autistics to differentiate things) so I know I'm looking in the right direction at least hahah
Thank you for the words of encouragement! I hope I manage to find answers eventually as well. :)
This video reminds me of my first GF in High School. She and her friends had Anti-Social Behaviour Disorder. They would spread rumours about me but go along with it like it was genuine. They were melodramatic and created drama in there lives as if they subconsciously enjoyed it. I didn't deal with it well but my grief was their amusement. Caused me a lot of problems, at the end of the year I had to leave.
That’s seems more like NPD which shares thing with ASPD. I know many ASPD including myself and we tend to be less dramatic if it isn’t in our favor. Except for outburst and stuff
@@jagmannenarbrand8373 When I learned about Sociopath's it described my Ex GF and nearly everyone else I went to High School with....needless to say I don't have fond, nostalgic memories of High School as most people. LOL I'd say you're right, I've not heard of NPD.
@@Monkey-Boy2006 NPD = narcissistic personality disorder.
It is common among the type of bullies who usually don't get caught by teachers because they arent "technically" doing some thing wrong. Though this type of bullying is being used out recently. It's common for them to control the perception of you and ruin your reputation with little, remorse. They have empathy, it's just common for them to convince themselves hard enough they did nothing wrong so they don't have to feel it. ASPD don't have to convince themselves since we dont care, and it is common with physical bullies and more direct bullies. I was never much of a bully but some can be sadistic.
@@jagmannenarbrand8373 Thank you very much, that was very informative. Sure wish I had someone like you to tell me this when I was 16 though! Thank you! : - )
This video was very helpful 👍, I actually went and saw doctor about this type of stuff and the results said I have antisocial personality disorder and ADHD which was surprising to my mom ever since I entered high school I’ve been feeling very alone and secluded from any sort of social interaction and honestly I don’t why but it’s just hard for me to talk to people as well To get to the point I’m very shy and quiet.
I understand it can be hard to talk to people. They just don’t understand all the way.
what really sucks is when you have all these but you crave to be social, its a heart wrenching torture type deal at times
Same
It's interesting how I relate to all of this so much besides the crime and drugs. I just wonder if its because I have misanthropy and being nihilistic and if so that would most likely explain why im careless and have no empathy along with having impulses but I'll talk to this with my therapist for sure
same im done with people
Same, misanthrope & agnostic here
Now I know another thing my previous toxic friend had. Lots of boxes were ticked and things make more sense now
I was diagnosed with this just trying to understand myself better
ever since i was a teenager i always knew something was just … off…. like- i always wondered why i would lie about everything or never take responsibility and never really feel bad if i inconvenienced someone and made someone else take the blame for my mistakes. i’m now almost 23 and nothing has changed. i’ve never ruined relationships because of it though. relationships to me are crucial and a must but unfortunately, a lot of my relationships are built around refusing to end up a loner. i keep people around so that i can hopefully get help from them in the future. i’m trying really hard to not use the word “use” but honestly, it just sounds like that. i lie and i manipulate because i try my hardest to my life as easy as possible. i don’t WANT to hurt people. only when they’ve hurt me or like the video said, when i’ve “read in between the lines” then i will go above and beyond to make their lives a living hell. for so long i’ve always thought that maybe i’ve either had BPD or ASPD but either way, i know there is something off.
So often confused with asocial.
Good we need that 😂 that’s what I tell people it means or they get weird and or hostile
Me seeing the thumbnail: *IT REALLY HURTS ANG MAGMAHAL NG GANITO*
It fits a lot with ADHD traits
Funny thing about that. Usually if you have ADHD, you have this as well.
aspd is similar to autism, which is also similar to adhd so they all fall under the same branch :)
@@Themetalwookie666 Bruh, No, Simply not true
@@hanni7136 it is I don’t know if u know the word Comorbidity autism and people with adhd have this a lot but not everyone but it’s not uncommon
@@elle6398That's a myth. Ignorant Allistics perceive autistic people that way but it's not really similar to autism on the inside. Autistic people do empathize we just struggle with conveying empathy.
This soooo much describes my sister, she is very manipulative and always try’s to make others seem bad, somehow manages to feel insulted by the most simplest sentences, gets her way by victimising herself and if that doesn’t work she will resort to yelling angrily or being violent... I could go on. She hasn’t been diagnosed because she tends to change her ways around doctors or straight up refuse to see them but I feel like she is super similar with the disorder in this video
I hope your sister is alright. But please take a official diagnosis to truly confirm the fact that they do actually have ASPD
@@MikoWhackingEi lol I wish we could but she straight up refuses to see any doctors or get any diagnosis ect
@@itookaquizanditsaidtheweas3266 Oh, crap-
I love how the person in the thumbnail is doing the "It is what it is" meme. Shows the real side of modern mental disorders..using MEMES to deal with it
I had a 3 year relationship with someone with ASPD and it was a living hell. He tried to kill me and he really abused me in different ways. He had no empathy and could even sell his mom for money. It is on a spectrum, and unfortunately I had the most awful experience with someone with ASPD. A crazy person that needs to be locked up.
It's wrong to write sociopaths off as "crazy"
I’ll take things that never happened for $500 😂 as someone with extensive knowledge of narcissism that’s just a normal reaction to narcissistic abuse one of us would just use the police and voice and video recordings and possibly planting drugs and or pornography and play victim better and if we did have to use violence from need for control it would just be murder suicide in a crashout moment full control of everything until the end like the professionals we are 😂
Ummm..... The comment section is 1 month ago 😳😬🤐
Liar
Hahahha I love it when people are confused
@@Layless 😂
@@n0body_lol uhm... I actually saw a lot of 1 month ago and 1 week ago comments
Someone with anti chipmunk personality disorder, or acp, is someone who goes around hurting chipmunks.