PRACTICAL THINGS TO PUT IN PLACE BEFORE MARRIAGE 2

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  • PRACTICAL THINGS TO PUT IN PLACE BEFORE MARRIAGE 2

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  • @kamwegusa
    @kamwegusa 3 місяці тому +11

    Ladies
    Master the art of peace (am I a peaceful woman?)
    When a man is treated like a king at home, he excels wherever he works outside of home.
    Be hospitable (do you know how to cook for and treat guests?) What kind of home environment am I building?
    Know how to speak to your husband (calmly, & politely), never date a man I don't respect/admire
    Learn management (a woman is a multiplier, a wombman) I know how to chop money OK, but do I know how to make and manage it?
    Don't try to impress people with money I don't have. (Ideally I should BE richer than I look) be well read, be a good manager and a good advisor
    Have a good understanding of how to take care of children & what to say and not to say to children, they are not your confidantes
    Learn good relationship skills (learn to relate with everyone at home & outside, in-laws, husband, friends, when to say what, be willing to be a fool to save relationships, tap into ur soft power)

  • @boyowasamuel
    @boyowasamuel 9 місяців тому +236

    Thank you Pastor Lazarus. I'll be getting married in a few weeks. I'm glad I listened to this first. My home is changed forever. ❤

    • @Deborah_Okemgbo
      @Deborah_Okemgbo 9 місяців тому +9

      Congratulations. God bless your marriage.

    • @ovieharmonyking
      @ovieharmonyking 8 місяців тому +2

      Amen to you

    • @Goddibaba
      @Goddibaba 8 місяців тому +2

      Welldone bro

    • @omololaa5120
      @omololaa5120 8 місяців тому +1

      Congratulations!

    • @nnennaudeh9536
      @nnennaudeh9536 8 місяців тому +4

      Congratulations! Your marriage shall be your blessing.

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 9 місяців тому +100

    I will do my husband good all the days of his life. I will not stress him.
    So help me God( Amen)

  • @annetteabledu1076
    @annetteabledu1076 6 місяців тому +19

    “Make sure you treat your spouse in such a way that they can’t think of your replacement “ hit so hard!! Wow! God bless you Sir

  • @devathadiva8139
    @devathadiva8139 8 місяців тому +50

    I’m getting married next year… to someone’s son in Jesus name next year 2024 I speak it into existence so I came across this right on time bc I am coming out of my hidden season

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 10 місяців тому +100

    Hmm, powerful teaching. God please help me to be a peaceful woman. Help me to always overcome my mood swings, temperament...Help me to give my future husband peace 🙏🏻 Help me to always do him good 🙏🏻

  • @tamiausten873
    @tamiausten873 7 місяців тому +28

    Hmm, I'm not the type to ever cause trouble or provoke, but when I'm provoked sometimes I say bad things,at least used to. Those short moments of anger can cause damage. I'm happy I saw another girl go more angry than me and rant for hours, in 2022, I saw my uncle's wife rant for hours, despite everyone begging her. I've seen how it makes you look crazy. I now realize that anger except it's a just one is demonic. Any time I get mad like that, I look back and realize there's no way Jesus is pleased with my actions. I pray for Grace to be calm irrespective of how I feel 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @user-dc6no1fz3i
      @user-dc6no1fz3i 3 місяці тому

      Tnk u very much sir
      More grace

    • @momentswithdeee
      @momentswithdeee 3 місяці тому

      Amen, so help you God. You can also go for anger therapy

  • @brightsekoni
    @brightsekoni 10 місяців тому +48

    Instagram reels doesn’t do enough Justice
    I had to rush here ❤

  • @Lovelynesike
    @Lovelynesike 8 місяців тому +12

    The man I'll get married to is so blessed already. I just hope I'm going to be much more blessed🙏🏾

  • @user-bh5mz3vk1w
    @user-bh5mz3vk1w 7 місяців тому +12

    I'm lucky I stumbled unto this today, going through breakup now.. this message has lifted up my spirit.. thank you Jesus

  • @pkaykyalo3998
    @pkaykyalo3998 8 місяців тому +21

    "The right person will always bring perpetual continuity...
    You dont have to Restart or Troubleshoot."
    Pastor Femi Lazarus.

  • @anuoluwapodaniel2650
    @anuoluwapodaniel2650 8 місяців тому +30

    Sometimes as a sigle or married person is good to sometimes listen to this kind of preaching 🎉God bless you Apostles

  • @EremiEppe
    @EremiEppe 8 місяців тому +12

    I am glad I got to listen to this as a single and unique woman ❤

  • @joynafisa1500
    @joynafisa1500 8 місяців тому +14

    Apostle, all your messages are life transforming. I can literally feel my heart burn each time i listen to your message. God bless you richly and keep the oil flowing in Jesus name. Amen

  • @tekonjonjo
    @tekonjonjo 5 місяців тому +3

    I have learnt alot in this two series. Gotten a better understanding of my husband's behavior. Honesyly, people cant give what they dont have, and they don't know.

  • @Deborah_Okemgbo
    @Deborah_Okemgbo 9 місяців тому +19

    I will do my spouse good all his day, i will not stress him, i will not make his life miserable, i will not make his life difficult, i will be a peaceful woman by his side, i will be a supportive woman.

  • @NKAHMMESOMA-rb5gk
    @NKAHMMESOMA-rb5gk 9 місяців тому +16

    I'm not married yet but in few years time I will be,thank God a friend sent me this link, I'll enjoy my home

  • @lawalgabriel1174
    @lawalgabriel1174 9 місяців тому +31

    I am glad I started to listen to Pastor Femi....I am learning to be better in all forms

  • @Anty_vicky
    @Anty_vicky 7 місяців тому +5

    Wow, I’m just blown away, my God what manner of wisdom is this😩

  • @HannahAmabu
    @HannahAmabu 8 місяців тому +6

    wow i really love your message sir 🙏its makes to heal completey from my emotional trauma i always battle with fail relationships which makes me to think if i offend God so deeply that i cannot be forgiven 😥 but when i come across your message i was happy with my inner mind im heal pastor 🙏🙏thank you.God really use you to teach me his word and directions.

  • @Dradebowaleadebanjo
    @Dradebowaleadebanjo 7 місяців тому +2

    This is the most powerful message I have listened to in recent time. I literally cried. I will SUCCEED

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 13 днів тому

    Am speechless
    My God
    This is soo expository.
    I celebrate you pastor Femi Lazarus 🔥🔥
    God continually increase you sir.

  • @covenantwills
    @covenantwills 5 місяців тому +1

    Apostle sir, I'm always blessed by your messages. God bless the day I stumbled on your message 🙏🙏🙏

  • @byrnenoel6317
    @byrnenoel6317 Місяць тому +1

    1. Heal
    2.Financially mature
    3. ......
    4. Learn submission
    5. Home keeping knowledge
    6. The art of peace

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 7 місяців тому +2

    Hmmm you should be richer then you look this is just me this word is for me thank you sir 🙏 for this great message

  • @princessnana.
    @princessnana. 7 місяців тому +1

    Glad i listened to this..i was a peaceful human till i got manipulated,i questioned my worth....lost myself
    .glad i didnt marry him..i know better ..thank you sir..

  • @adebimpeayodele5813
    @adebimpeayodele5813 9 місяців тому +6

    God Bless You sir, this is so APT
    I will be getting married in few weeks. This is hitting so hard. I'm glad I listened

  • @peacebalogun6701
    @peacebalogun6701 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow!!! I just followed and saw the part two of this message and im happy.
    I have learnt alot.
    Just as my name connotes i will fo my husband good and i woll give him perfect peace, i will multiply for him.
    I will excactly be the prov 31 woman in Jesus name.
    2024 is my year of marital breakthrough and i will marry right and also enjoy my marriage so help me God.(Amen)

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 9 місяців тому +7

    I love this realistic and spiritual teachings ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Ella-uk2kv
    @Ella-uk2kv 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you pastor femi. God sent you to me. May the oil on your head never runs dry. Thank you for equipping me for the task ahead.

  • @sylviaaswani6976
    @sylviaaswani6976 7 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou apostle..am on healing process after break up n this teaching has really opened my eyes

  • @rachaelb.owurre1738
    @rachaelb.owurre1738 8 днів тому

    It's just so beautiful ...........
    Loved it 1&2
    God bless you sir 🙏

  • @user-dx6tp6vo8s
    @user-dx6tp6vo8s 8 місяців тому +6

    Thank you pastor,May God continue to increase you in wisdom and understanding in Jesus name Amen

  • @chineduumenwobi8359
    @chineduumenwobi8359 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for your teachings pastor. I am editing my values and I pray 🙏 the youth listen and apply this teachings to their life.

  • @ez5002
    @ez5002 8 місяців тому +2

    I appreciate this powerful sermon a lot sir. I feel a lot should have been said to the men and about the men. For instance, the place of homework or things pertaining to the child can also be shared or taken care of the dad. A lot of present fathers help with projects, homework, pickups, changing diapers. It’s beautiful to see and it helps with bonding. Being a shoulder to lean on or to fill in places where the woman has multiple roles is essential. Women are becoming sicker these days because of the weight they have to carry at home and in the workplace. Overall, I am very blessed by this sermon. God bless you Sir.

  • @ritacareakum
    @ritacareakum 4 місяці тому

    Amen
    Thank you Jesus
    I will not fail
    I will be a blessing to my husband 😊

  • @allanmunyika
    @allanmunyika 3 місяці тому +1

    Im glad am seeing this now. 🎉

  • @RubyAlisaFoday
    @RubyAlisaFoday 3 місяці тому

    Amen I'm choosing in the Lord Jesus christ name

  • @nkechinwachukwu5680
    @nkechinwachukwu5680 7 місяців тому +3

    My partner and I have this thing where we always look for a restaurant's menu before we even choose 😂 God no go shame us🙏😅

  • @BamideleOmolola-rb9cn
    @BamideleOmolola-rb9cn 9 місяців тому +3

    More grace sir, ministry prospers much more in your hands sir in Jesus Christ name... I was blessed beyond

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 8 місяців тому +3

    I admire your apostolic and teaching ministry.
    Absolutely Divine ❤
    I had promised myself and God that l must look wisely before I leap again.
    Afflictions will not rise up a second time.
    God saved me alive for a divine purpose, and I must get it right this time so God help me 🙏🙏😢

  • @Edithnjume
    @Edithnjume 5 місяців тому +1

    I will do my husband good always wether happy or annoyed, I will not stress him nor make him miserable . I will treat him like a king. All these I declare in Jesus name. Amen, Amen ,Amen.

  • @abigailojiabo7484
    @abigailojiabo7484 9 місяців тому +3

    This message is vital to all intending couples. God bless you sir.

  • @oluwaseunwusu3561
    @oluwaseunwusu3561 4 місяці тому

    You are too blessed sir. Thank you for this preaching.

  • @yanbeckford8493
    @yanbeckford8493 9 місяців тому +7

    I will not be a failure in JESUS NAME 🙏❤

  • @aderogbaayoola3427
    @aderogbaayoola3427 9 місяців тому +3

    Always a privilege to listen to your messages. Thank you Sir. You are indeed a blessing to this generation 🙏

  • @tsepangphebeni2020
    @tsepangphebeni2020 8 місяців тому +3

    Such a blessing! Thank you for this message. More grace sir.

  • @Jessica_Idibo
    @Jessica_Idibo 7 місяців тому

    God bless you Apostle for choosing to answer God's call. More of God's wisdom and strength in Jesus name. God bless also Mrs Femi Lazarus

  • @tildahmagoba6954
    @tildahmagoba6954 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for this. Indeed the Lord guides us in all of our ways.

  • @oluwadamilolaakinyokun4496
    @oluwadamilolaakinyokun4496 8 місяців тому +2

    God bless you Man of God for this great revelation.

  • @pkaykyalo3998
    @pkaykyalo3998 8 місяців тому +5

    I have watched part 1 and part 2 and for surged has spoken 👏 thank you pastor Femi . I am full. And I know my marriage won't fail .

  • @pricakebaabetswe6500
    @pricakebaabetswe6500 8 місяців тому +3

    Amen, make sure you treat your spouse well so that they can’t think of a replacement 😊

  • @olamideelijah
    @olamideelijah Місяць тому

    I learn a lot,
    May God help me, amen

  • @adeyhenrietta343
    @adeyhenrietta343 8 місяців тому +2

    Chaiii, Apostle may God bless you for being a timely intervention in our generation when it comes to relationships and marriage. May God Almighty continue to increase you 🙏

  • @JohnOwolabi-wo6xc
    @JohnOwolabi-wo6xc 8 місяців тому +2

    Great teaching, more of God's grace upon your life Sir.

  • @afolabiadeoluwamichael5316
    @afolabiadeoluwamichael5316 7 місяців тому

    A timely message for this generation... Thank you apostle Lazarus

  • @damyfeyi1928
    @damyfeyi1928 7 місяців тому

    Awesome teaching, I receive Grace to do him good all the days of my life in Jesus name

  • @MC_barak
    @MC_barak 8 місяців тому +1

    This message is a such a powerful word in season. It has been nothing short of liberating, refreshing & empowering.🔥🙌🏾🙇🏾‍♂️ God bless Apostle. Femi Lazarus

  • @zuugavictoria4173
    @zuugavictoria4173 7 місяців тому

    The whole world needs to hear this especially the youth. Please save us sir. God bless you sir.

  • @noraejevuvor5703
    @noraejevuvor5703 9 місяців тому +2

    I was blessed by this powerful message

  • @nazfav2757
    @nazfav2757 7 місяців тому

    This teaching will be a blessing for my marriage journey.

  • @igrowingrace5548
    @igrowingrace5548 8 місяців тому +1

    I just stumbled upon your teachings Sir- God abundantly bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @rufususiobaifo6462
    @rufususiobaifo6462 8 місяців тому +1

    All i can say is, thank you and remain blessed sir.
    I love you sir!

  • @olakunleoyenola7666
    @olakunleoyenola7666 5 місяців тому

    You're doing very well Sir.
    God bles you, your ministry and Family. Amen.

  • @shirley.Wealth.shirago
    @shirley.Wealth.shirago 8 місяців тому +1

    wow, very powerful, God bless you man of God.

  • @BilkisuAudu804
    @BilkisuAudu804 3 місяці тому

    God bless you Apostle

  • @user-ho6vt7pp9d
    @user-ho6vt7pp9d 4 місяці тому

    Pastor Lazarus you have just saved from destruction

  • @TimilehinOjo-be8gq
    @TimilehinOjo-be8gq 6 місяців тому

    God !! This message is one of a kind.

  • @SolapeAdewunmi-jp4bz
    @SolapeAdewunmi-jp4bz 6 місяців тому

    I will do my husband good all the day of my life.
    God bless you greatly sir for this truth.

  • @user-ko2qy6xf2z
    @user-ko2qy6xf2z 7 місяців тому

    God,Papa God bless you Sir
    I can feel the concern in his teaching,thank you Sir 🙏

  • @cynthiaibebuike9228
    @cynthiaibebuike9228 6 місяців тому

    I am glad that i come across now
    Thank you pastor sir

  • @joyologe8587
    @joyologe8587 8 місяців тому +6

    Hmmm, don't judge people according to their background.....but if after a while you notice there is no difference between them and their background......then you have to leave (paraphrased)

  • @NurseNenyeTV
    @NurseNenyeTV 7 місяців тому

    Thank you sir for these teachings.
    I won’t fail God

  • @igbolanguagemadeeasierwithchis
    @igbolanguagemadeeasierwithchis 3 місяці тому

    I can't believe that I listened to this message repeatedly!
    Thank you sir
    My husband you are blessed because I will do you good and great all the days of your life! Our home will portray kingdom marriage... I am blessed, we are blessed!
    I won't miss my spouse🎉

  • @FaithMbeyu
    @FaithMbeyu Місяць тому

    OH God 🙏 help me to be a peaceful woman All days of my life

  • @owolabifiyinfoluwa4550
    @owolabifiyinfoluwa4550 18 днів тому +1

    I will be a peaceful woman to my husband to be in Jesus name

  • @adedayoshittu9812
    @adedayoshittu9812 10 місяців тому +2

    Poweful teaching am blessed by this message. Spouse really needs to listen to such messages before entering into marriage

  • @PastorRachaelMinistry
    @PastorRachaelMinistry 8 місяців тому

    Thanks so much for this... I walk in peace with all men

  • @drimpact8473
    @drimpact8473 10 місяців тому +4

    Thank you apostle.
    Lessons learned 💯💯

  • @adejuyigbeadetutu2156
    @adejuyigbeadetutu2156 6 місяців тому

    GOD BLESS APOSTLE FEMI LAZARUS!! AMEN!!

  • @PhilominaAnthony-lw8of
    @PhilominaAnthony-lw8of 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Apostle.
    God bless you sir.

  • @cynthiaibebuike9228
    @cynthiaibebuike9228 6 місяців тому

    I will do my spouse good all his days, I will not stress him, I will not make his life difficult, i will be a peaceful woman and i will be supportive

  • @chiamakaenansofor4660
    @chiamakaenansofor4660 8 місяців тому

    Amazing teaching. Thank God I found this message

  • @aghatiseblessing9647
    @aghatiseblessing9647 7 місяців тому

    Powerful teaching. Thanks for educating us 🙏 i learnt a lot 🙏

  • @veeonkoli1236
    @veeonkoli1236 4 місяці тому +1

    I will make my husband happy all the days of his life ❣️i will do him good, i will not destroy him i will bring him joy and fulfilment
    So help me God

  • @taiwoeniola7691
    @taiwoeniola7691 8 місяців тому +3

    I will not destroy my husband. I will give him peace all his days 🎉🎉

  • @anysiajoy9056
    @anysiajoy9056 6 місяців тому +1

    I am God's type
    Somebody's Queen
    Somebody's Gift

  • @jacobblessing5910
    @jacobblessing5910 6 місяців тому

    I’ll do my husband good all the days of his life. So help me God🙏🏻

  • @user-cs4de5xx7y
    @user-cs4de5xx7y 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for the message and God bless you sir

  • @origbostanley1784
    @origbostanley1784 6 місяців тому

    Thank you sir
    I was really blessed with the message

  • @kiddiesaffairs8807
    @kiddiesaffairs8807 7 місяців тому

    I will be a peaceful woman to my husband.
    I will do you good all day.
    Amen.
    Speaking to my future as a single lady.

  • @ComfortNdifon
    @ComfortNdifon 7 місяців тому

    Powerful message ❤
    God bless you sir

  • @rosysamuel4102
    @rosysamuel4102 6 місяців тому

    Thank you very much, sir, its so enlightened. God bless you.

  • @An-cf6py
    @An-cf6py 6 місяців тому

    Be a good manager (of finances and time!)
    Be sensitive to the needs of your husband

  • @enoabasiekanem9035
    @enoabasiekanem9035 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Sir for the sermon,great sermon.

  • @ajamesidris655
    @ajamesidris655 7 місяців тому

    Am very blessed with this masterpiece. Thank you sir

  • @ijeomanlemchukwu3732
    @ijeomanlemchukwu3732 7 місяців тому

    Thank you , thank you , thank you sooooo much Apostle

  • @abigailobenewaahasiedu5505
    @abigailobenewaahasiedu5505 8 місяців тому

    Got here from tiktok, I promise to make a conscious effort to listen to you every week 🙏

  • @debbiequeen4785
    @debbiequeen4785 5 місяців тому

    God bless you Apostle 🙏

  • @ibukunelizabeth1186
    @ibukunelizabeth1186 7 місяців тому

    Just listened to this. God bless you Sir