5 Things To Look Out For In A Man | The Man Every Woman Wants | Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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  • @jessicagweh1027
    @jessicagweh1027 Рік тому +1096

    1. He has to be intentional. Sometimes it takes sacrifice
    2. Intelligence. Is he adding value to your life? Can he guide you through tough decisions
    3. He must be interesting.
    4. He must have a strong sense of identity.
    5. He must be a man who is invested in you (in bringing out the best in you).
    We marry for GOD, KINGDOM & DUTY

  • @NewBeginnings000
    @NewBeginnings000 Рік тому +190

    I just finished watching a video by you about 3 things to know/do before marriage: *be the right person, *choose the right person, and *do the right things. I loved it. Before now, i always thought i was a good person and would make a good wife. Lord have mercy. Today, i actually thank God i did not get married. Indeed i am a good person but, i wasn't the right person even for myself. I was such a damaged person but didn't realize how bad it was. When i look at me today, i give God the glory. I am in my early 30s and still single but i am grateful to be learning and growing as a single person instead of jumping into marriage and be a disaster. By the grace of God, today, i am proud to say i am not just a good person but i am the right person for myself and for my right man. I pray "doing the right things" is always a part of US.

  • @Gifted-qh6yi
    @Gifted-qh6yi Рік тому +145

    Marry a man whose vision is large enough to accommodate yours.
    Don't marry an insecure man.
    Marry someone who Pampers but not spoils you.
    In the hands of a wrong man, you won't fulfill your potentials.
    I was blessed❤

    • @Protocol-IG
      @Protocol-IG 7 місяців тому

      Why do i feel una go still take this thing out of context.

  • @delphineiracyadukunda4608
    @delphineiracyadukunda4608 Рік тому +321

    "Your relationship should change people's lives. Marriage is a ministry . We marry For God,for Kingdom &For ministry "🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @permdavid4378
    @permdavid4378 9 місяців тому +36

    I am a man but you have given me more reasons to focus on my criterion. You are a true woman of God. Hold on to what you have love is not blind but sensible.

  • @deboraholoaigbe7181
    @deboraholoaigbe7181 Рік тому +85

    Take 💵 & sex out off the table , you’ll know if there’s something in that relationship 🙌🙌🙌
    More Grace ma’am

  • @lolobatubo5750
    @lolobatubo5750 Рік тому +92

    Intentional
    Intelligent
    Interesting
    Strong sense of identity
    Invested in me
    God bless you Ma🙏🏻 I love you 😘❤️

    • @berniemcbgood7674
      @berniemcbgood7674 10 місяців тому

      18:07 1) intentional..2) intelligent..3) interesting..4) strong sense of identity..5) invested in you❤❤I'm learning from Pastor lady

  • @dededorothy1812
    @dededorothy1812 Рік тому +39

    😢😢😢 I resonate with the first point and explanation😢😢😢😢 I was so desperate to be with him that i did things I never thought of. I was just scared to loose him but now, I can't stand the sight of him.

  • @favourchildfavour5417
    @favourchildfavour5417 6 місяців тому +6

    my relationships have always been bad and i always knew i was not the problem but
    after listening to pastor kingsley he said to get a good marriage start by
    selesction then i quickly realise i have been the problem all this while i have been
    making wrong choices forcusing on materiels things which am never getting sef and
    the things in my head i thank God for that particular message because i accepted a
    marriage proporsal but was never happy about it i just wanted to get mary and
    i knew something was not right but after that massage i break up and i had peace and am happier now forcusing on what matters

  • @LucyOtaka
    @LucyOtaka Рік тому +44

    This video actually broke me into tears, blessing God for allowing me see this video in my single moment.
    Thank you, ma.

  • @IretiOsati
    @IretiOsati 11 місяців тому +13

    I was feeling bad and angry in my spirit but ur message healed me

  • @adeleketobi1
    @adeleketobi1 Рік тому +43

    It's important men/husbands read, watch materials they give/provide for women/their wives, as this benefits them both.
    In here, I just discovered a bit of how my woman would want to see me. What she looks for in a man, in her man. And learning makes me walk along a/the part to developing to being that person she is seeing from her view and praying for.
    Thanks so much for the blessing Pastor Mildred.
    God bless you, Pastor K. and fam.

    • @stellaekwubiri7577
      @stellaekwubiri7577 9 місяців тому +2

      Well said
      I'm glad you are learning and getting better.
      May you meet the woman meet for you.

  • @ngowari260
    @ngowari260 Рік тому +40

    I remember one time I went on a date with someone. And I he was a call with his mum.
    The way he spoke to her made me not only cringe but shiver 🥶 . Up until that time he had been a very gentle man/ godfearing brother. Then again a person that can speak to his in such manner it will only be a matter of time.
    Well said Mama❤

    • @lalasng8643
      @lalasng8643 Рік тому +3

      Infact....if he maltreats his mum, na to run oh

  • @ChinnyBlack_B
    @ChinnyBlack_B 3 місяці тому +21

    Pls someone should like my comment because am willing to come back and watch again when I finally this kinda man. In 2025.
    He must be ready to guide me, groom me to that woman God has made me.
    He should be
    Intentional
    Intelligent
    Interesting
    And invest in me
    Strong sense of identity.

  • @HappinessAiyemibo-c6k
    @HappinessAiyemibo-c6k 3 місяці тому +4

    I SHEGUN HOPE OYOKHORUVA I prophecy to myself "that I will marry Right" ijn AMEN

  • @lindamgbeanuri9375
    @lindamgbeanuri9375 Рік тому +63

    Dissecting the word of God is what you do best. Everytime I listen to you,I am reminded to study the word again and again and make it my compass for living.
    Your life is a proof that God is real.
    I love you ma 🥺🥺

    • @IBA01
      @IBA01 Рік тому +1

      Please where are from?

    • @mrsxber1916
      @mrsxber1916 Рік тому

      ​@@IBA01😂

  • @ifeomaaniagbaoso9826
    @ifeomaaniagbaoso9826 Рік тому +42

    Ma.. with and Pk as my mentor, I won't make a wrong decision again about relationship. I know I have not met you both physically but your teachings goes a very very long way for me and I'm sincerely grateful ❤

  • @delphineiracyadukunda4608
    @delphineiracyadukunda4608 Рік тому +66

    "Its only women who marry a dog and expect him to roar like a lion , dogs barks and lions roar" ............. 😮

  • @FavourChidinma1
    @FavourChidinma1 Рік тому +24

    I am really blessed through PM teachings, I pray for Longlife for our mama

  • @metsedmorokolo1636
    @metsedmorokolo1636 Рік тому +334

    If there's a person who can teach you so well about marriage is Pastor Mildred

  • @insidiarlimited3191
    @insidiarlimited3191 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much Pst M, by God's grace i will never forget this- That Marriage is for God, for Kingdom & for Duty. God reward you richly for all your labour ma.

  • @ChinecheremGodwin-jc4mf
    @ChinecheremGodwin-jc4mf Рік тому +15

    Pastor Mildred, I want to thank you for yielding to God. Indeed, the obedience of one has shaped all of our lives. Me especially

  • @nshisamba5150
    @nshisamba5150 Рік тому +14

    Pastor M you are a good teacher. You can teach very well. I like your jokes and the way you pass your message across. God continues to bless and use you.

  • @mildahmacharia443
    @mildahmacharia443 Рік тому +9

    I thank God for the day i landed in your UA-cam channel woman of God. God bless you u are such a blessing

  • @chidinmaprecious7475
    @chidinmaprecious7475 Рік тому +172

    I must marry right in Jesus name!

  • @babynaa3658
    @babynaa3658 Рік тому +14

    I knew the moment a guy prayer over my head that,this is the kind of man I want, he has to love God,among other things to love me

  • @kelbeautypro1686
    @kelbeautypro1686 11 місяців тому +5

    Thank you Ma 🙏🏻 I left a relationship that brought only money and sex to the table , full of insecurities… and they wanted to make it look like I was the bad person……Thank you for reminding me that the relationship wasn’t worth it

  • @joylamson329
    @joylamson329 Рік тому +13

    Marriage is for God,Kingdom & Purpose... Very insightful message Pastor Mildred.

  • @ambassadorforchristtv3354
    @ambassadorforchristtv3354 Рік тому +26

    Ma'am thank you very much.
    I have been thinking my Fiance is too strict and probably He doesn't love me too, but with your story I can see How much He really loves me and wants to invest in me. Thank you ma'am.

    • @jessicaodukwu7692
      @jessicaodukwu7692 Рік тому +13

      If there is no love and kindness with his rules, hes too strict. Please don't skip the part where she said your man should not be insecure

  • @onyiuzo
    @onyiuzo Рік тому +12

    My dear sister, I bless God for your life and family, you carry a verse in bible and teach it in a way your hearers will understand. May God replenish you greatly in Jesus Christ name,amen.

  • @Esthermchawa
    @Esthermchawa 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you mami l will change my prayer point l will be praying for God to give me the man that he wants me to marry for the kingdom

  • @mborongbrendajaibe2884
    @mborongbrendajaibe2884 Рік тому +89

    A man who doesn't know who he is can never recognize who you are

  • @couragenjeatih2520
    @couragenjeatih2520 Рік тому +9

    Thank you for this invaluable truth, PM.
    Question, please: How far into a relationship should you expect to see these attributes to know you've chosen right?

  • @dorahpretty8606
    @dorahpretty8606 7 місяців тому +2

    God bless this woman she is talking directly to me thank you I don't know how I got interested to see her she won my subscription and like

  • @victorialeonard683
    @victorialeonard683 Місяць тому +1

    This message came to me at the right time

  • @UchemnaEzeisi
    @UchemnaEzeisi 10 місяців тому +2

    I adore u so much.most of us has made the mistakes.

  • @SenjoeKosisochukwu
    @SenjoeKosisochukwu 11 місяців тому +9

    Wow! To be honest, I never had or devoted my time to listening to preaching because it's so boring to me, but yours seems to be so interesting . You are so super, ma ❤️ .

    • @Goldengirl639
      @Goldengirl639 8 місяців тому

      Really , you should listen to apostle selman , I assure you , you’d be hooked .

  • @reginagift5026
    @reginagift5026 3 місяці тому +2

    That's what I need, a man that will be praying in tongues over me, it makes you feel protected and secured and I will do so for him too. It feels heavenly . God pls I will marry right

  • @Inchrist611-k2q
    @Inchrist611-k2q Рік тому +4

    She is brilliant

  • @EsthysEmpire
    @EsthysEmpire Рік тому +16

    Marry for God, Kingdom & Duty 😮‍💨🤯

  • @JasmineAfrik
    @JasmineAfrik 3 місяці тому +4

    Truly love is not enough oh
    Don't do relationships and marriage with emotions
    You go enter one chance

  • @chiwenduanolue1040
    @chiwenduanolue1040 Рік тому +3

    Great mentor, we need the name of this movie actually. You are a blessing to this generation, ma.

  • @phebeifeoluwa1486
    @phebeifeoluwa1486 9 місяців тому +1

    This message is for me. I am blessed. God bless you ma

  • @peaceekeejee8711
    @peaceekeejee8711 11 місяців тому +2

    Your teachings always blesses me. I must marry right in Jesus mighty name.🙏

  • @herriethsteven8407
    @herriethsteven8407 Рік тому +7

    You are too powerful to stand behind..,This was my word for Today ❤

  • @EstherEkeocha
    @EstherEkeocha 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much ma’am, much need and very timely message. God bless your heart for not holding this back ❤️

  • @deborahspogter1846
    @deborahspogter1846 Рік тому +9

    Wooowuuu, what a woman who had walked the road which others have not walked. I salute you. God bless you.

  • @tojuzoe6135
    @tojuzoe6135 Рік тому +11

    Intelligence is sexy
    Very true 😊

  • @Nathaniel_MD
    @Nathaniel_MD 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for this message. God bless you. ✅️❤

  • @ugochinwaiwu3645
    @ugochinwaiwu3645 10 місяців тому +3

    I must marry right in Jesus name Amen. More grace, more anointing Pastor Mildred ❤

  • @chimdirepeace6970
    @chimdirepeace6970 26 днів тому

    Thank you jesus for speaking to my heart tonight again.
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @ijeomaiwunze6984
    @ijeomaiwunze6984 10 місяців тому +2

    My lady, you nailed it. God be praised!

  • @ifeyinwaobi3049
    @ifeyinwaobi3049 Рік тому +1

    I just needed to hear you...I think this is a sign for me to know I need to walk away from it now

  • @i_am_derbby
    @i_am_derbby Рік тому +30

    Mama, we're in the same WhatsApp group😅. I can't be watching a movie to be relaxed but end up being stressed😅😅😅

  • @amarachukwuchime7300
    @amarachukwuchime7300 2 місяці тому

    We marry for God, for Kingdom and for Duty!
    This hits!!!

  • @asikanonyalim1185
    @asikanonyalim1185 Рік тому +6

    Pastor M. The absolute best. Thank you for the knowledge you keep instilling in us. May God keep giving you wisdom and knowledge. We love youuuuu❤️❤️❤️

  • @marthaazubuike7366
    @marthaazubuike7366 Рік тому +3

    I feel elevated anytime I listen to your message ma'am. God Bless You Mama.

  • @preciousimo90
    @preciousimo90 Місяць тому

    I have learnt a lot from your teachings. God bless you Pastor M

  • @Portiahotella
    @Portiahotella Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much pastor Mildred .. with your thoughts and deserting the word of God with the reality… I”m able to understand what to look out for in a relationship.

  • @QueencyAbu-ip6qu
    @QueencyAbu-ip6qu 8 місяців тому +1

    I love you Pastor Mildred😍♥️

  • @ezoluogochukwu2394
    @ezoluogochukwu2394 11 місяців тому +2

    We marry for GOD, KINGDOM AND DUTY. I love to listen to you ma❤

  • @ogunnowodamilola786
    @ogunnowodamilola786 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much PM 🙏.
    We marry for God, Kingdom Advancement and Duty 🙌.

  • @Jesssuuusss_.
    @Jesssuuusss_. Рік тому +3

    God bless you Ma
    I'll marry right at all cost❤

  • @Ujuchinemelu01
    @Ujuchinemelu01 10 місяців тому

    I love how you speak facts and not sugar coat them to suite the modern day standards❤️

  • @BlessingNuitoneh
    @BlessingNuitoneh 11 місяців тому +1

    I am blessed, may God Almighty increase your wisdom❤

  • @SandraJohn-u5l
    @SandraJohn-u5l 11 місяців тому +11

    Lord Jesus help me to marry for you, for kingdom and for ministry 🙏🙌

  • @prudenceorji5457
    @prudenceorji5457 11 місяців тому +11

    A man who's vision is large enough to accommodate yours

  • @wacukawakaraya
    @wacukawakaraya 3 місяці тому

    I'm so blessed by this sermon. Thank you

  • @emefactorhonu5544
    @emefactorhonu5544 Рік тому +2

    GOD BLESS YOU MUMMY, I WISH TO SEE YOU ONE DAY. WE ARE BLESS TO HAVE YOU PLEASE

  • @3domreigns
    @3domreigns 11 місяців тому +2

    I now know what to look for. Husband no 2 and my last

  • @OziomaGoodnews-dd3wz
    @OziomaGoodnews-dd3wz 11 місяців тому +1

    Wow mama u just answered my questions.
    God bless u ma

  • @daphnienoel
    @daphnienoel Місяць тому

    Wow sooo good 👍🏾 👏🏾 I'm learning so much. Marry right ✅️

  • @chiomaneneh8506
    @chiomaneneh8506 10 місяців тому

    I feel blessed that I am listening to you and Pastor K’s teachings as a single 👌

  • @Pamela-yc1id
    @Pamela-yc1id 10 місяців тому

    Pastor Mildred at the end of your message I love how you say were you blessed

  • @theresayohanna-hh4kw
    @theresayohanna-hh4kw 8 місяців тому

    I'm really blessed to have seen this,God bless you ma'am

  • @luciaasukwo2168
    @luciaasukwo2168 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Mama, God bless you

  • @oluchukwuobioma1127
    @oluchukwuobioma1127 Рік тому +3

    God bless you more ma. I am blessed through this teaching

  • @joymeekodu7756
    @joymeekodu7756 8 місяців тому

    God bless you ma🙏🙏
    And more value to you and your family❤❤❤

  • @bestinamwila9165
    @bestinamwila9165 10 місяців тому

    Thank you ma may God bless you . I have being following you . And I will marry for God , kingdom and duty.

  • @rosekimbeng9365
    @rosekimbeng9365 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing the truth Sis God bless you ❤❤

  • @victoriaeniola6699
    @victoriaeniola6699 8 місяців тому

    Powerful message. God bless you richly IJN. More grace IJN

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 7 місяців тому

    Thank you Pastor Mildred for this great teaching❤❤❤

  • @Daz_Joy
    @Daz_Joy 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you ma for your powerful teachings.

  • @olafisoyetesy7793
    @olafisoyetesy7793 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Pastor Mildred 🙏 ❤

  • @aanuoluwamarcus657
    @aanuoluwamarcus657 10 місяців тому

    I was immensely blessed by this teaching. Thank you so much, Pastor M. God bless and increase you ma❤

  • @mildredgreen7572
    @mildredgreen7572 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much ma, I truly admire you and you strengthen me in so many ways.. God bless you immensely❤❤❤

  • @agbongozi3329
    @agbongozi3329 6 місяців тому

    I'm so much blessed for real 🥰 kaii message's so realistic and exciting

  • @yann-russelmouanga503
    @yann-russelmouanga503 11 місяців тому

    Love the way pastor Mildred insisted in the Importance of investing on your wife. Stay blessed!

  • @maryopemipo9372
    @maryopemipo9372 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much ma
    We marry for God, Kingdom and ministry

  • @chikaodiriexcellent
    @chikaodiriexcellent 9 місяців тому +1

    Ma @Mildred Thank You so much for answering this call God did to you. Your Teachings and of Pst K has really impacted my life. I have a Question Ma; please I'm about to leave a guy I just recently decided to be with, because I feel there's huge lack of communication. Please should I go ahead?

  • @JasmineAfrik
    @JasmineAfrik 3 місяці тому

    Intelligent
    Intentional
    Interesting
    Strong sense of identity 🎉

  • @brendalutterodt7777
    @brendalutterodt7777 11 місяців тому +1

    Wow! God bless you for this insight, Pastor M!❤

  • @princesshendrix-okogie290
    @princesshendrix-okogie290 9 місяців тому

    Heavily Blessed Ma 😊😊 Pastor M for life ❤

  • @VeronicaAreshla
    @VeronicaAreshla 9 місяців тому

    I'm touch and blessed, God bless you ma'am

  • @blessingosas5372
    @blessingosas5372 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much, Pastor Mildred.❤

  • @CeeOkenwa-lz8dy
    @CeeOkenwa-lz8dy 8 місяців тому

    God abeg oo grant such to my children

  • @essurita-xe5fu
    @essurita-xe5fu 2 місяці тому

    Pst M, you are well blessed. I did like to meet you in person someday soon.

  • @SheilaGibson-s9h
    @SheilaGibson-s9h 10 місяців тому

    That was beautiful and it was so happy to see that there were also men present❤

  • @rubyoyibo5851
    @rubyoyibo5851 9 місяців тому

    This preaching is really deep. ❤

  • @olleyannie371
    @olleyannie371 10 місяців тому

    Message well detailed n explanatory... God bless you ma❤