TRAUMA AND MARRIAGE

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  • Опубліковано 26 лис 2024

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  • @abimbolaokunjobi-adetona4102
    @abimbolaokunjobi-adetona4102 10 місяців тому +150

    Today is my first time listening to Pastor Femi Lazarus Sermon. Ayaaaaaa this is fire. My marriage will work in Jesus name

    • @BlessingAgomoh-mn7hb
      @BlessingAgomoh-mn7hb 10 місяців тому +5

      Amen

    • @abrahamodusina
      @abrahamodusina 10 місяців тому +2

      Welcome to the geng

    • @junekanini8626
      @junekanini8626 10 місяців тому +4

      He is anointed to bring healing to many. He is a gift to the body of Christ

    • @martinsaide2634
      @martinsaide2634 10 місяців тому +2

      Just got to listen to this man for the first time
      Thank you for coming through.
      True teacher ❤

    • @ifeyinwamuoghalu4167
      @ifeyinwamuoghalu4167 10 місяців тому +3

      Your marriage will work who wants their marriage to fail sha dont die cuse of ma if its toxic

  • @Vickybelle92
    @Vickybelle92 10 місяців тому +86

    I will be a praying wife.
    i shall be a good thing to my husband.
    I will pray!!!! My marriage will work.
    My marriage will stand.
    I put the thoughts of my marriage under the captivity of Jesus

  • @joypwaspo5008
    @joypwaspo5008 10 місяців тому +165

    My dad always apologises to us whenever he does something he feels we weren't happy about and he'll read the Bible in ephesians that parents too shouldn't make their children angry..i miss him.

    • @Ruthypurpose
      @Ruthypurpose 10 місяців тому +3

      Wowwww....
      So beautiful

    • @joypwaspo5008
      @joypwaspo5008 10 місяців тому

      @@Ruthypurpose thank you...

    • @joypwaspo5008
      @joypwaspo5008 10 місяців тому +1

      it was indeed beautiful and something to emulate..

    • @frankogbeche5214
      @frankogbeche5214 9 місяців тому +3

      Ur Dad is a great man

    • @joypwaspo5008
      @joypwaspo5008 9 місяців тому +1

      @@frankogbeche5214 yes he was thank you...😊

  • @omoribakeikumoluyi9111
    @omoribakeikumoluyi9111 9 місяців тому +7

    I am glad to hear a male Nigeria Pastor address the pandemic of the attack against men in out society. May I add that we "already" have women who have been over prepared for family life and have left our men behind. We have a long way to go, but thank God for male voices like this with elevated platforms. I pray that God's grace upon you will continue to increase, sir. My home shall be heaven on earth in Jesus name.

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 10 місяців тому +36

    Understand when times are changing
    Understand change in seasons
    Understand verbal and nonverbal communication.
    Build friendship.

    • @folukemamudu2239
      @folukemamudu2239 10 місяців тому +1

      This your comment spoke to me. (Note this is came before I watched the video)

  • @sandraodighi8018
    @sandraodighi8018 10 місяців тому +17

    I will marry well!
    I will be a praying wife!!
    I will be a praying mother!!!
    I will build my home on the word of God!!!

  • @olowookerekunle7936
    @olowookerekunle7936 10 місяців тому +31

    My marriage is heaven on earth, now and forever more in Jesus Mighty Name

  • @ikeabakavivian5197
    @ikeabakavivian5197 9 місяців тому +23

    This sermon made me realize that I have a lot of anger and grudge against my father,and made me realize that I need to heal

  • @niffy002
    @niffy002 10 місяців тому +38

    This message ended every fear in marriage, I now see now that my marriage will work and and it will be heaven on earth... Lord 🙏 I praise You in advance for this miracle 🙏❤️

  • @Purityadvocate
    @Purityadvocate 10 місяців тому +9

    I’ll build my home strictly on the Word of God ❤🤲🧎🏻‍♀️
    My husband will be well enlightened about the female gender and marriage the-same way I will.
    We will walk with God…even when it gets tough, The Presence will be out help 🙇‍♀️🧎🏻‍♀️🤲

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 10 місяців тому +23

    PRAY O.
    Rebuild your family prayer altar and stop fighting yourselves.Fight the enemy.

  • @amaechimirabel5538
    @amaechimirabel5538 10 місяців тому +8

    I'm healed, my family is healed of every disfunctionality !!!

  • @oyattemi6172
    @oyattemi6172 9 місяців тому +3

    It’s amazing how I realised I have not completely healed from past Traumas and popping in on UA-cam I came across this message.

  • @sandraosawe8718
    @sandraosawe8718 10 місяців тому +23

    God bless you sir
    My marriage will win over every dis-functionality of our backgrounds
    My home will be heaven on earth
    I will not cause pain to my spouse
    I receive healing in my life, I am a love being
    Thank you sir for this series
    You have been a blessing to me
    More grace daddy

  • @kansiimesarah5043
    @kansiimesarah5043 10 місяців тому +25

    Please let's not forget to stand in and partner with the expanding of the church if we have been really blessed

  • @cynthiaobianuju1966
    @cynthiaobianuju1966 10 місяців тому +18

    A woman honors you when she can look up to you..I wish to follow the continuation of this message.
    Powerful bullet points !!!

  • @agnesowo5099
    @agnesowo5099 10 місяців тому +3

    When you're listening to an interesting sermon, an hour never seem to be enough.
    The message got to the end but I was still expecting more.
    Bless you plenty Apostle, and may we all flourish when we find our true calling. Amen.

  • @abiolaoluwanifemi1654
    @abiolaoluwanifemi1654 10 місяців тому +7

    Heavenly Father, I receive the man, the man who’s always in your presence, the man you’ve breathed in, and the man you have given an assignment to and am a suitable help to🙏🏾 amen

  • @rajistephen9020
    @rajistephen9020 10 місяців тому +41

    "Find purpose before you propose"

  • @ekpanrichard225
    @ekpanrichard225 9 місяців тому +6

    I'm a home builder, I'm a priest, I'm a living husband 🎉

  • @ogwetejoshua3114
    @ogwetejoshua3114 9 місяців тому +2

    Am from Uganda I love the wisdom and knowledge of the spirit you have that came out of the price you paid for your anointing am blessed coz of you

  • @ourdigitalprofessor
    @ourdigitalprofessor 10 місяців тому +17

    *Pastor Lazarus* is confirming what I've been yarning for -there's an imbalance in the _"train the girl child"_ movement.

  • @eshedania4375
    @eshedania4375 10 місяців тому +13

    The quality of marriage depends on the quality of people in it and the quality of the people in the marriage depends on what they have learnt💥💥

  • @MamcyDee
    @MamcyDee 8 місяців тому

    Hallelujah my cup is overflowing in Grace. My marriage is corrected in Jesus name.

  • @jokegold4951
    @jokegold4951 8 місяців тому

    My own Apostle ❤ you are a blessing ❤, nothing will ever bring you down 👇..
    More of God's wisdom.,this is 💯.
    I covet all

  • @kingbmgable
    @kingbmgable 10 місяців тому +9

    Friend zone is scary! It’s a legion empire cos we are manyyyy 😂😂😂😂 My G!!!!!! Bro Timothy 😂😂😂

  • @Chioma3288-c4o
    @Chioma3288-c4o 10 місяців тому +2

    Louder Sir!!!!! It doesn't make you less of a man to go far for your home. Omo! Pastor Lazarus you are preparing me for my husband. God bless you.

  • @obadanmary5791
    @obadanmary5791 10 місяців тому +12

    This is my first time listening to pastor Femi and im stuck now 😊
    This message was timely

    • @Ogunsijit
      @Ogunsijit 10 місяців тому +1

      Welcome to the family. I found him last month and I no dey commot. We die here!!

    • @obadanmary5791
      @obadanmary5791 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Ogunsijit you get it!!

    • @beccadesignagency
      @beccadesignagency 10 місяців тому

      Same here
      We die here😂😂

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 10 місяців тому +25

    I will marry well in Jesus name. God will help me and I will help myself 🙏🏻

  • @SamtheHealerofhiddenwounds
    @SamtheHealerofhiddenwounds 10 місяців тому +1

    Apostle Femi Lazarus sir, I just respect and honour you so much . I respect your ministry so much. I don't even know why particularly but my heart is your compelled to honour you sir. Your ministry will continue to flourish and your heart is continually preserved. God bless you sir for all you do!
    You're truly a great blessing! A great blessing. It's not about this message sef, it's every message 🔥🔥🔥

  • @shaneilerussell5295
    @shaneilerussell5295 10 місяців тому +10

    I can and I will keep a home. My home will be Heaven on Earth. Thank You Jesus for healing and wholeness

  • @oluwamuyiwaoreoluwa757
    @oluwamuyiwaoreoluwa757 9 місяців тому +2

    I go to youtube, I was moved to search for Apostle Femi Lazarus, then I stumbled on trauma and marriage ....15mins after I started listening, Apostle said something that is my exact reality

  • @mercychinwob
    @mercychinwob 10 місяців тому +2

    Wow,I love your message Daddy, it give me life,and sound mind, holy ghost instruct me to follow your message during my end of last year personal retreat,and since then,wooow,it has been a blessing, I obey the holy ghost and no room to regret following you at all

  • @tolutoye02
    @tolutoye02 10 місяців тому +8

    A Jesus Boy with a touch of Jarule😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.God bless You Apostle for being a Blessing.

  • @victorenyo1070
    @victorenyo1070 10 місяців тому +13

    What a time to be alive. I feel so blessed to have access all of the godly knowledge available on marriage now while I'm still single.

  • @jumokealao5066
    @jumokealao5066 10 місяців тому +3

    Yesterday was my first time of listening to Apostle Femi Lazarus. I enjoy his teachings. More grace and anointing sir.

  • @estherukamaka3625
    @estherukamaka3625 10 місяців тому +4

    I can keep a home and I will. The Holy Spirit is my strength

  • @GraceAdeyemi-tf4sh
    @GraceAdeyemi-tf4sh 10 місяців тому +8

    Wonderful, how I am just listening to this on Spotify and came to view the part where couples were speaking words over each other, even though I'm single 😊

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 10 місяців тому +5

    “Get finance right. You can carry a cross Christ has not given you… There’s a way that you can just believe that it was Christ’s ordination for you to suffer.
    Once you believe that the devils says, ‘Fantastic, let’s bring the yokes.’
    And as long as the yokes are coming you’ll be saying thank You Jesus. I suffer for You.
    And Jesus is saying, ‘You are not taking all that I have for you.’ You are concluding wrongly.”

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 10 місяців тому +9

    "Singles we are praying for you"😂😂😂😂😂 Thank you for praying for us sir 🙏

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 10 місяців тому +11

    “Be careful of importing other people’s pain into your own life. Leave them with their experience. Let them learn their lesson. You follow God.”

  • @onojighofiaelvis
    @onojighofiaelvis 7 місяців тому

    This is my first time of listening to his massages and I was blessed

  • @doreenpearlbee2866
    @doreenpearlbee2866 10 місяців тому +13

    it was an amazing time in GOD's presence yesterday with the wise words of Apostle Femi. God bless you more sir. Although i am single to stupor lol....... but i learnt a lot yesterday, i believe marriage is a beautiful institution and i am looking forward to mine.

    • @Shanediego443
      @Shanediego443 10 місяців тому

      You are blessed my sister, can we be friends?

    • @doctor.chioma
      @doctor.chioma 10 місяців тому +1

      Amen!
      I always say single women who have found Christ should praise God that they have the Spiritual maturity to seek a God fearing husband. Those who married without knowing Christ are stuck. By the mercy of God, you have escaped this problem because you know better. Praise God!

    • @QUICKENINGSPIRIT
      @QUICKENINGSPIRIT 10 місяців тому +1

      Please is Apostle Femi in Abuja or Ibadan?

    • @mfoninyang4018
      @mfoninyang4018 10 місяців тому

      @@QUICKENINGSPIRITabuja

  • @eunicenshenda6341
    @eunicenshenda6341 10 місяців тому +3

    Indeed entrance of the word brings light, thank you so much for this Apostle 🙌🏾

  • @PaulOlaleru
    @PaulOlaleru 10 місяців тому +4

    I appreciate the realness of this message... such a sensitive subject which needs practicalities as being expressed by Apostle Femi Lazarus.

  • @trini2dboneluv
    @trini2dboneluv 10 місяців тому +1

    Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly.

  • @damyfeyi1928
    @damyfeyi1928 10 місяців тому +1

    This is so beautiful, I thank God for your lives...Mine is coming ijn...congratulations!

  • @IyanuoluwaAdeyeye
    @IyanuoluwaAdeyeye 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Apostle for this timely message. God bless you

  • @DominicEzekielSopuruchukwu
    @DominicEzekielSopuruchukwu 10 місяців тому +5

    THIS MAN IS A MAN GOD with a great experience.

  • @AmeduMaryjaneChiedozie
    @AmeduMaryjaneChiedozie 8 місяців тому

    God bless you apostle for this timely message. I learnt a lot.

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 10 місяців тому +8

    The investment of prayer gives you an Aura ❤❤

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 10 місяців тому +49

    A woman HONOURS you when she sees she can look up to you.

    • @inspiringgirl1821
      @inspiringgirl1821 9 місяців тому

      Omg ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thats a gem.

    • @keneo4920
      @keneo4920 8 місяців тому +1

      The bible says honour all men (1 Peter 2:16). Admiration should not be a basis for honour.
      Honour and respect should not be conditional at all. This weird ideology was created by social media.

    • @keneo4920
      @keneo4920 8 місяців тому +1

      The bible says honour all men (1 Peter 2:16). Admiration should not be a basis for honour.
      Honour and respect should not be conditional at all. This weird ideology was created by social media.

    • @SobanjoAjibola
      @SobanjoAjibola 4 місяці тому

      @@keneo4920 ‘Men’ here doesn’t mean the male gender, it means be respectful to all persons.

    • @obaduyitemitayo7804
      @obaduyitemitayo7804 Місяць тому

      It is more easier to honour a man that walks as a leader indeed. Same way it is for a man to love his wife that is submissive.
      He is not saying it should be the conditional.

  • @chiomanonyelum9409
    @chiomanonyelum9409 10 місяців тому

    Thank you sir, the Spirit is one "Outsource".... I mentioned or rather thought about this fews days ago.... Because of issues that arises with omugwo things... Especially when parent don't consent to the marriage in the first instance. I'm glad to hear you say it here... Outsource!

  • @SEUNNY2306
    @SEUNNY2306 10 місяців тому +3

    Thank you so much sir for this powerful message. I pray that the oil on your head will not run dry in Jesus name.

  • @IdongesitOkokokn
    @IdongesitOkokokn 2 місяці тому

    Listening to this message give me hope and power to believe that I will marry right and Marry once at the right time someone son will treat me right as a choice not an option

  • @AkingbemijoBoluwatife
    @AkingbemijoBoluwatife 10 місяців тому

    God bless you so much Apostle 🙏
    More anointing on you sir
    I really love this preaching especially the introduction.....you sheld more light to marriage processes and say the fact!!
    It is not all about female gender because that's what the society talk more about, it is always about the female whereas the teaching and the nurturing the society ( elders in the church) gives suppose to be on both sides.
    God bless you for the preaching sir🙏

  • @Ionie_B
    @Ionie_B 10 місяців тому +7

    Be careful of importing other people’s pain into your life,leave them with their experience,let them learn their lessons.YOU follow God ok 👌 your mum’s pain was unique to her marriage,leave it there ok…👏👏👏👏Shield your Home 🙏

  • @na_naesi
    @na_naesi 5 місяців тому

    👏🏾Dont build your home on other people's marriages🙏🏾🔥 Build it on the word of God.

  • @nwoyeesther3866
    @nwoyeesther3866 5 місяців тому

    My marriage will work ijn Amen. I wish my husband will listen to this message too.

  • @seipatiolisa741
    @seipatiolisa741 10 місяців тому

    Femi Lazarus is blessed I am in shock with what I am learning. This manner of wisdom can only come from God.

  • @opeyemiadeosun8552
    @opeyemiadeosun8552 10 місяців тому +1

    Apostle femi Lazarus, this has answered a long time questions in my life

  • @chetachisike3220
    @chetachisike3220 10 місяців тому +1

    OMG!!!!!!! I love this mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn of God!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much for yielding to the call of God. God bless you so much Sir

  • @ngwahyvonne3608
    @ngwahyvonne3608 10 місяців тому +7

    These words are worth more than a thousand paid sessions from a counselor. Be blessed sir.

  • @Sandy_ra
    @Sandy_ra 10 місяців тому +2

    My marriage will work, my marriage is heaven on earth forever amen 🙏

  • @adedejiracheal541
    @adedejiracheal541 10 місяців тому +4

    Always anticipating for your notification 😊 I'm addicted to your message, I can't wait to relocate to Abuja

  • @Ionie_B
    @Ionie_B 10 місяців тому +28

    Don’t build your home on other people’s marriage,build it on the word 📖

  • @helenakpan2057
    @helenakpan2057 10 місяців тому +14

    I’m going through a trauma. I thank God for this message

  • @ngwahyvonne3608
    @ngwahyvonne3608 10 місяців тому

    Great pastor with great wisdom! More grace Sir.

  • @salamiazeezat5203
    @salamiazeezat5203 10 місяців тому +9

    My marriage will work in Jesus mighty name.Amen

  • @serahmasafwa9492
    @serahmasafwa9492 9 місяців тому

    Thank you Lord for your timely word 🙌🙌

  • @missmiranda3579
    @missmiranda3579 8 місяців тому

    God bless you Apostle and I celebrate Grace over your life 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Memo-ij6oe
    @Memo-ij6oe 10 місяців тому +5

    This message is timely thank you Apostle

  • @IdiabanaGodswill-xb1sv
    @IdiabanaGodswill-xb1sv 10 місяців тому

    There’s always something to learn from every of your teachings.Thank you sir and God bless you.

  • @OtitoyomiAfolajinmi
    @OtitoyomiAfolajinmi 10 місяців тому

    More Grace sir, you will not run dry of Christ unction in Jesus name. Am refresh

  • @harrietvico-korda2420
    @harrietvico-korda2420 10 місяців тому

    You're such a blessing Apostle Femi Lazarus ❤

  • @iseghehiblessing-e5d
    @iseghehiblessing-e5d 10 місяців тому

    Pastor you are a blessing to our world. God bless u sir

  • @mukkiejesusbaby7511
    @mukkiejesusbaby7511 10 місяців тому +6

    This subject needs Q&A session. Hope this will be seen.

  • @FlyChicTv
    @FlyChicTv 10 місяців тому

    Great message first time watching , blessed this afternoon 🙏🏾

  • @zainabekiye4078
    @zainabekiye4078 10 місяців тому

    Apostle Femi is God sent!😭 Thank you sir🙏🏽❤️🙇🏻‍♀️

  • @joyayobami8831
    @joyayobami8831 10 місяців тому +2

    Please pastor, talk about the deal breakers in marriage. Lot of people are going through alot. Just like the stories you said

  • @mummyt5297
    @mummyt5297 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for this wonderful message. May God continue to refill you with wisdom ijn Amen 🙏 🙌

  • @favourotusanya
    @favourotusanya 10 місяців тому

    Thank you very much it was as if you knew my pain and im really grateful

  • @onojighofiaelvis
    @onojighofiaelvis 7 місяців тому

    This is my time of listening to his massage and I was blessed

  • @rachelfamous4055
    @rachelfamous4055 10 місяців тому +3

    This message is highly spiritual. Thank you sir

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 10 місяців тому +3

    Check the person
    Don't rush.
    How does this person see life.
    How does this person process people.

  • @trini2dboneluv
    @trini2dboneluv 10 місяців тому

    No it does not make you less it makes you righteous Alleluia.

  • @EmmanuellaIkechukwurah
    @EmmanuellaIkechukwurah 10 місяців тому

    Pastor, Thank you so much. Every word blessed me

  • @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan
    @OyakhiromeOnosenigbuan 10 місяців тому +4

    Dont build your home on other people's Marriage.Build it on the word ❤

    • @kamsmax3645
      @kamsmax3645 10 місяців тому +1

      Onosen so you are here!!!!

  • @ifeoluwafola7726
    @ifeoluwafola7726 10 місяців тому +1

    @Pastor Femi Lazarus, following your analysis and the analogy of the man being in the garden first, does this also translate to a woman not marrying a younger guy? I would love you to shed more light on marrying younger guys/older ladies. Thank youuuuu.

  • @nnolimfavour7194
    @nnolimfavour7194 9 місяців тому

    Favour will keep a home❤. I am healed from the fear of a broken home

  • @successfuljagaban193
    @successfuljagaban193 8 місяців тому

    Nice teaching sir
    God bless you sir 😊🙏🏻

  • @IceBambee
    @IceBambee 10 місяців тому +4

    Where can one sign up for family and couple counselling with Pastor Femi Lazarus?!!

  • @mwesigebrian718
    @mwesigebrian718 10 місяців тому

    Am following right but the message is superbly so interesting thank you so much

  • @PsalmuelNino
    @PsalmuelNino 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much sir for the message,sir
    It's pointing to me directly....

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 10 місяців тому +13

    “Marriage is actually the oldest institution on earth.”
    “Marriage is older than sin.”
    “Marriage is even older than the church.”
    “The quality of a marriage is determined by the quality of the individuals coming into it.”

  • @uwumaobodogulo1414
    @uwumaobodogulo1414 10 місяців тому +3

    It is green because someone is watering the plant.❤

  • @ofureadive
    @ofureadive 10 місяців тому

    This message is such a blessing

  • @JanetAkor-o4g
    @JanetAkor-o4g 9 місяців тому +1

    My marriage will work I pray we understand each other’s feelings and pain one day

  • @harrietadjoa2
    @harrietadjoa2 5 місяців тому

    Fear will bring what is not existing...
    Fear is creative.

  • @eunicenshenda6341
    @eunicenshenda6341 10 місяців тому +7

    I will do marriage well, my Marriage will work in Jesus Name🙌🏾