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  • Опубліковано 18 сер 2024
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  • @deborahadebiyi4830
    @deborahadebiyi4830 9 місяців тому +251

    The people going to Apostle Femi’s church are really enjoying God. Please always pray for your pastor. He’s a blessing to this generation. Don’t take him for granted. God bless you sir and I celebrate your Grace 🙏🧎‍♀️😊

    • @EjiroEnakirehrhi
      @EjiroEnakirehrhi 8 місяців тому +7

      You are so right. I am currently wishing I can have the experience to seat live under his preaching.

    • @godsblessingamaefule5329
      @godsblessingamaefule5329 7 місяців тому +2

      Honestly oh❤

    • @joeloludamilola8727
      @joeloludamilola8727 7 місяців тому

      You are not wrong❤

    • @ochee_
      @ochee_ 7 місяців тому +13

      Very true! But it's our responsibility as well to pray for Him whether we are members or not. If we are blessed by His teachings, we should as well intercede for Him. And other Ministers God is using.

    • @prissyquarcoo930
      @prissyquarcoo930 7 місяців тому +3

      I feel so too

  • @obinnachijindu
    @obinnachijindu 7 місяців тому +113

    Causes of Marriage Phobia
    1. Dysfunctional Background
    2. Environment
    3. Traumatic Experiences
    4. Experience with a wrong partner
    5. Wrong Counsel
    6. Wrong Exposure
    7. Spiritual Attack
    8. Past Mistakes
    9. Lack of Trust for yourself

  • @igrowingrace5548
    @igrowingrace5548 6 місяців тому +36

    “A man who lacks accountability will make a witch out of any woman” ❗️💥💥💥💥💥

  • @otekanonso7059
    @otekanonso7059 7 місяців тому +30

    The kind of informed and outspoken pastors God has raised this end times are just too fit for job. Many blessings sir you are doing well.

  • @fawariebi5650
    @fawariebi5650 6 місяців тому +19

    This message is for me...i literally run when I start hearing too much of "let's take this relationship to the next level ".. but i believe God healing has come for me. Thank you Apostle Femi, God continue to strengthen and bless you.

  • @EyramAfia
    @EyramAfia 5 місяців тому +9

    I will be married! I will marry right! My home will be heaven on earth! Than you Jesus🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @carineateh3278
    @carineateh3278 8 місяців тому +25

    I never knew I had a childhood trauma but 16mins into this massage I burst in tears noticing where my fear of marriage is coming from.

    • @evoemeraphael
      @evoemeraphael 5 місяців тому +2

      May God heal you from every scar

  • @EyramAfia
    @EyramAfia 5 місяців тому +5

    I am not alone! GOD HAS GONE AHEAD OF ME to make the crooked paths straight 🙌🏽🔥

  • @igrowingrace5548
    @igrowingrace5548 6 місяців тому +16

    Apostle Femi Lazarus is my new staple - his teachings are powerful and real. Very humane and liberating relatable and transforming! God bless you so much and You Tube for introducing your teachings to me 🙌🙌🙌✅✅✅

  • @florenceichipi2562
    @florenceichipi2562 6 місяців тому +6

    I am so scared of marriage but this teaching is really lifting my soul. God help me.

  • @QueenDesewa07
    @QueenDesewa07 8 місяців тому +13

    My stumbling to this teaching meet my current needs😢

  • @marvy2766
    @marvy2766 4 місяці тому +2

    Apostle thank you so much. You are healing me with God's word and I am really grateful. You are a blessing to our generation. Healing is not a light switch but I know I'll get there. My fear of Marriage is about 5 of the reasons mentioned. I know God is with me on this journey. Thank you Apostle!

  • @euniceekwere9653
    @euniceekwere9653 8 місяців тому +18

    We appreciate your presence in this our Genz Baddie generation. Cos Most of these genz have lost it(they’re totally lost).
    Thank you for your words of wisdom and appearance in this our generation🙏. I love you daddy but God loves and blessed you best🩶.

  • @peeandgeefriendshipchannel1664
    @peeandgeefriendshipchannel1664 5 місяців тому +4

    I’m so blessed with this teaching 👏👏👏

  • @preciousoluwayemisi6108
    @preciousoluwayemisi6108 9 місяців тому +25

    Thank you Pastor Lazarus for always taking us to the root of our problems. More anointing sir🙏

  • @PreshEhi
    @PreshEhi 21 день тому

    Omo this preaching is very important, it's filled with many truths

  • @danyocharles1949
    @danyocharles1949 6 місяців тому +4

    Preach on sir.
    We will love you to do teachings about the VOICE OF GOD.
    Amen and amen

  • @nma8678
    @nma8678 6 місяців тому +5

    Thanks 🙏🏾 I always scan through your messages. God bless you and keep you and cause his face to shine on you. May everything you lay your hands on be blessed, may your children never encounter hardship. Your generation is blessed. You will not miss heaven. No weapon formed against you will prosper. The ends of the earth will hear what God has deposited for you. Your going out and coming in is blessed. God richly bless you Sir for this teaching

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 7 місяців тому +14

    I will be married and i will marry well in jesus name amen 🙏

  • @soniajoe7698
    @soniajoe7698 5 місяців тому +1

    Finally i have been dealing with this for yrs i went online to search about it i have been studying about it , i just decided to listen to his teaching today' and I saw this 👏🙏.

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 6 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for the sincerity in your teachings sir and also the ability to relate with what the youth are passing through in this 21st century.

  • @aghoghoeze5546
    @aghoghoeze5546 5 місяців тому +1

    Apostle Femi Lazarus talks like Rev Areogun of Dream Centre, one of our Fathers in Osun State.God bless you sir for your messages.May God grant you and your family the grace to finish well and strong in Jesus name, Amen.

    • @Abishaiah
      @Abishaiah 3 місяці тому

      So true! I'm always deeply blessed by Rev Areogun. His wisdom is just unmatched & so vast. He is a hidden gem & treasure, in that God has chosen that his public profile be not as nationally known as say Bishop Oyedepo or Rev. Wale Oke, etc but he is truly one of the fathers in this generation and such a mighty blessing. Love him & his ministry.

  • @Olajumoke_Adeife
    @Olajumoke_Adeife 9 місяців тому +12

    A thought provoking sermon!!!
    God bless you sir.

  • @Pneuma_hair
    @Pneuma_hair 9 місяців тому +10

    Thank you sir for this timely message. I saw a short clip on IG I knew I had to come here🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @Helenteee
    @Helenteee 8 місяців тому +5

    Have not listened to this sermon yet but i know i will be blessed.
    May the Lord continue to strengthen you sir

  • @prudenceokagbue7103
    @prudenceokagbue7103 6 місяців тому +1

    The Lord bless you and keep you Sir. May He give you more wisdom and preserve you. Profound yet with a good dose of jokes

  • @marielouis5981
    @marielouis5981 6 місяців тому +2

    My future partner n I must go over this messages over n over till we digest it. Our marriage must b heavenly ❤❤❤

  • @ijeomanlemchukwu3732
    @ijeomanlemchukwu3732 7 місяців тому +1

    This apostle is an exceptional man if God. You are indeed God sent to our generation. Thank you sir and more anointing to function in Jesus name. Amen

  • @Excellence_Oz
    @Excellence_Oz 8 місяців тому +3

    Powerful insights and teaching, may God bless you Pastor!!! 😊

  • @jasmyncollins7294
    @jasmyncollins7294 7 місяців тому +2

    This was healing and insightful. Thank you for wise, and compassionate men of God.

  • @joanlubemba5905
    @joanlubemba5905 9 місяців тому +3

    Ayaaa👏👏👏👏I love what i am learning here. God bless you man of God

  • @basseyemmanuel
    @basseyemmanuel 7 місяців тому

    Am short of words is been blessing upon blessing ever since I come across your massage sir
    Thank you Jesus 🙌🙏
    Thank you apostle 🙏

  • @talkswiththe_blackybones6670
    @talkswiththe_blackybones6670 6 місяців тому +1

    I am more connected to Christ than to the family I was born into. Yes Lord 😊💃

  • @lindaasante4263
    @lindaasante4263 5 місяців тому

    is as if this preaching was made for me. May the Lord help me out of this mental order

  • @ConstancehappyIdaghe
    @ConstancehappyIdaghe 6 місяців тому

    O lord bless my marriage this is the reason why I listen to you everyday of my life 🙏

  • @EruvwuObuaya
    @EruvwuObuaya 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing these insights Pastor Femi. God bless you!

  • @virtuouzgirl8328
    @virtuouzgirl8328 5 місяців тому

    I've noticed that these sermons primarily talk to women when concerning marriage and I wonder why the men aren't addressed as much. But I love the wisdom in this sermon

  • @user-py2bo7qf1z
    @user-py2bo7qf1z 7 місяців тому +2

    I'm addicted. God bless you sir

  • @GideonInnocent
    @GideonInnocent 8 місяців тому +5

    I am listening to this message asking myself when last i attended a wedding, i missed my sister's wedding this month also 😶

  • @aliciacodesdesings
    @aliciacodesdesings 5 місяців тому +1

    My father was abusive to my mom all my life, i can remember when i was 4 years old he tied her to the bed and wasted water on her wiping her with his belt, i just hide all those memories she left him after 30 years but the fear of marriage is in me big time, im a single young mother and sometimes i say i rather have kids without marrying and comitting. My father side, all the women are single, my auntie is an ambassador and she has grown kids but still single, the list goes, my step sister also has one daughter and shes single, i pray i dont join them

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 7 місяців тому

    Am blessed beyond measures today 🙏 May God bless you richly sir 😘 you hit the bottom am speechless omg 😮

  • @edithashaju6512
    @edithashaju6512 5 місяців тому +1

    Aah God, this message is for me... Please God help me

  • @giftynifah3542
    @giftynifah3542 8 місяців тому +3

    Oh God this is so me 😭😭😭Am delivered in Jesus name

  • @johnsonkenigua4216
    @johnsonkenigua4216 7 місяців тому +2

    My home will be heaven on earth in Jesus name.....Amen

  • @The.PrettyBlessing
    @The.PrettyBlessing 7 місяців тому +2

    This message is exceptional ❤ thank you Apostle

  • @ConstancehappyIdaghe
    @ConstancehappyIdaghe 6 місяців тому +2

    My marriage is covered with the blood of Jesus

  • @glamlookbykem
    @glamlookbykem 6 місяців тому +1

    This message is deep!

  • @felsyquarcoo
    @felsyquarcoo 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm not alone,God has gone ahead of me to set it straight

  • @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240
    @uncommonwealthentrepreneur9240 9 місяців тому +21

    This issue of gamophobia is serious ooh...
    I think what my fear is in getting married is a lot. Ranging from sexual satisfaction, to been slowed down in terms of achieving my dream kind of lifestyle, to issues like being a burden to my spouse because of sickness and maybe financial uncertainties...
    I believe God for a positive outcome in my marriage when it finally Happens. But there are deep things I can't talk about just here in the comments section

  • @heavenlynelsons1379
    @heavenlynelsons1379 6 місяців тому

    This is deep❤. God bless you Sir

  • @Lex-World
    @Lex-World 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you man of God.. this was very inspiring

  • @brightsekoni
    @brightsekoni 8 місяців тому +2

    God bless you Apostle ❤

  • @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000
    @dan-jumbonengimarvy6000 6 місяців тому

    Lord this message is for me 😢😢😢. Thank you lord

  • @phennyongonga6056
    @phennyongonga6056 8 місяців тому

    This man reminds me of my late pastor daddy Adebayo 😢. I love your teachings more grace sir

  • @thesonofalion3544
    @thesonofalion3544 7 місяців тому

    God bless you for this enlightenment sir

  • @estherdamina7720
    @estherdamina7720 7 місяців тому

    😢🙌🙏 blessed message. God bless you sir.

  • @ritacareakum
    @ritacareakum 3 місяці тому +1

    Ohhh thank you Lord

  • @cecetaiwo3887
    @cecetaiwo3887 5 місяців тому +3

    My children shall marry well.

  • @TheresaBilonda-bf4fv
    @TheresaBilonda-bf4fv 2 місяці тому

    I will be married and I will marry well, my home will be heaven and earth in Jesus name amen 🙏

  • @EzinneOgwo-Ude
    @EzinneOgwo-Ude 7 місяців тому +5

    How can I get this pastor's official email. I can't believe how God is so intentional in helping and healing my mind with his messages. May God bless him.

  • @georginaagyapong8744
    @georginaagyapong8744 3 місяці тому +1

    I will be married, and I will marry well 🙏 My home will be heaven on earth🙏 in Jesus name. AMEN!!!

  • @wchappjumbo
    @wchappjumbo 9 місяців тому +2

    Preach Sir… deep and thought provoking message 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @opeyemisamuel5530
    @opeyemisamuel5530 6 місяців тому

    More Grace Sir

  • @chiemelielilian335
    @chiemelielilian335 4 місяці тому +1

    I will be married, and I will marry well
    My home will be heaven on earth.

  • @abiolaalice9611
    @abiolaalice9611 6 місяців тому

    No dey lie😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 in Apostle's voice

  • @AkinladeTobiloba
    @AkinladeTobiloba 8 місяців тому

    God bless you for this sir 🙏🙏🙏..

  • @beebeetea
    @beebeetea 8 місяців тому

    I know someone who left her highly-paid job to move in with her husband in another city after the wedding - he wasn't earning as much and wasn't getting paid consistently .... years later what did the man do? Do not abandon the wife of your youth!

  • @reubenchukwudobe2793
    @reubenchukwudobe2793 3 місяці тому

    God bless you sir

  • @lindaasante4263
    @lindaasante4263 5 місяців тому

    my parents marriage was disaster , dad was cheating, mum got beaten by dad, mum drunk,poor home,nobody cares, i fell wrongly in love out of lack of love from home, i got married to an abuser with two kids, mhmm life haven't been fair. Lord help me out of this,i am transfering this pains in every relationship.

    • @Tolulope_Olaosebikan
      @Tolulope_Olaosebikan 3 місяці тому

      I am so sorry, God will give you strength, he will flush out every pain with light and Joy
      God is with you through it, you will shine through Linda. You will shine through

  • @winfridahchibale5281
    @winfridahchibale5281 8 місяців тому

    Am blessed by this message

  • @obileyeprecious9394
    @obileyeprecious9394 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank God for grace, showing the graphics was too much

  • @dwise1StreamingJoy
    @dwise1StreamingJoy 9 місяців тому +4

    Deep truth ....please does he have a Bible school I can train in ?

  • @ihemekwelamdeborah7518
    @ihemekwelamdeborah7518 7 місяців тому

    Thank you Jesus for deliverance

  • @felsyquarcoo
    @felsyquarcoo 6 місяців тому +3

    I will marry and marry right

  • @miriamzange9474
    @miriamzange9474 7 місяців тому +1

    My elder sister got married and got infected
    Also lost her husband through same infection
    Since then, I developed Gamophobia🤦🏾

  • @user-pc2ho9cp9c
    @user-pc2ho9cp9c 8 місяців тому +1

    Timely message 😢

  • @maur7892
    @maur7892 8 місяців тому +4

    1:04:23 directly speaks to me, i always have to push him to apply for opportunities. No personal initiative whatsoever. What's the best way to approach this?

    • @akinolasamuel2693
      @akinolasamuel2693 5 місяців тому +2

      he will keep getting frustrated the more you push him, the best advice is to speak to a friend he trust to relate the opportunity with him.

  • @sylviaodhiambo1936
    @sylviaodhiambo1936 29 днів тому

    I shall marry well,my children shall marry well,my grandchildren shall marry well,my great grandchildren shall marry well

  • @Fabbonbagay23
    @Fabbonbagay23 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this message. Will there be a lesson on how to repair marriages that are failing?

  • @wema_merr
    @wema_merr 2 місяці тому

    I will be married and I will marry well. My home will be heaven on earth.

  • @akinrodoluemmanuelo.1273
    @akinrodoluemmanuelo.1273 7 місяців тому

    God bless you sir.

  • @desmondewemade4283
    @desmondewemade4283 7 місяців тому +3

    I will be married and I will marry well

  • @owarietablessing7101
    @owarietablessing7101 3 місяці тому +1

    I will marry and I will marry well

  • @AnthonyGloria
    @AnthonyGloria 8 місяців тому +3

    Please what is the name of pst Lazarus church and is there a branch at ota

  • @desmondewemade4283
    @desmondewemade4283 7 місяців тому +3

    I am exempted in Jesus name

  • @Aduxrealty
    @Aduxrealty 5 місяців тому

    Can we experience at least 50% of this culture shock in courtship ? Also, can we ask questions directly while courting ?

  • @BigTems
    @BigTems 9 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @OjoMichaelInspires
    @OjoMichaelInspires 9 місяців тому +2

  • @queenadekunle9635
    @queenadekunle9635 9 місяців тому +4

    Please how do I get the telegram link?

  • @sharonlelia1726
    @sharonlelia1726 9 місяців тому +1

    Ameeen

  • @perpetuadaniel8190
    @perpetuadaniel8190 20 днів тому

    i will marry right 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @mefolerekehinde6014
    @mefolerekehinde6014 7 місяців тому

    I am afraid

  • @cecilandibanbang361
    @cecilandibanbang361 8 місяців тому

    Thank you sir 🙏

  • @akinola-idowudeborah3503
    @akinola-idowudeborah3503 8 місяців тому

    My fear 😢

  • @ridjauhnryan6882
    @ridjauhnryan6882 7 місяців тому +1

    52:00 😭🔥

  • @BlesynYvonne
    @BlesynYvonne 6 місяців тому

    57:10 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @tosinoyegunsen
    @tosinoyegunsen 7 місяців тому

    1:21:15!!!!!

  • @nkemalexander
    @nkemalexander 9 місяців тому +2

    🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @kachollom503
    @kachollom503 4 місяці тому

    Ah God have mercy on us oh and help us. ❤❤❤❤

  • @EkopeneEsther-sk1vt
    @EkopeneEsther-sk1vt 7 місяців тому

    ❤️❤️❤️