12. When a group of people are laughing, people instinctively look at the one’s they like. 11. Chew gum or eat sth when nervous to reduce feelings of anxiety. 10. Staring can help get any info you need 9. Imagine your interviewer is a friend you haven’t seen in a long time or consider that they are as nervous as you are. 8. If you have to work with a lot of people, put a mirror behind you. 7. If you think sb is looking at you, yawn. If they are staring at you, they’ll yawn. 6. If you wanna break up a fight, get sth to eat and stand in between the two parties. 5. If you wanna get rid of sth, hand it to sb while talking to them (hack for moving things around your house😉) 4. If you want to easily become friends with sb, as them for a favor. 3. Schedule important meetings for the beginning or end of the day because everything in between is a blur. 2. Pay attention to the direction of feet while talking to people. It shows their interest in you and what you’re talking about. 1. Copying other people’s body language, can help you win their trust
I used this information to fix my life. I was at Kmart and was putting some rings in my pocket. This girl behind counter was looking at me , I think she likes me. But I noticed one foot was facing away from me and the other foot was constantly pressing some button on the floor. So , I asked her if she got hurt, cause angels as heavy as she was can't fly to far before they fall. She kinda laughed and muttered something about 5150 into the store speaker. Security was coming so I asked her a personal question; Just how much do you weigh? And it worked. she just stared at me , so i handed those rings to her. When security got there I yawned at them and got pepper sprayed. Everybody started laughing as I rolled on floor rubbing my eyes. But I noticed that counter girl looking at me as she laughed. So, when i get out in six months, I think I will ask her out. Not sure what it means, but everybody feet are facing me when i go to the showers. ahhh good times. Thanks, for info. I am using it as a road map to success.
So if a group of people are laughing, and they are all looking around to see who likes them, everyone who sees you looking at them will think you like them lol
Oh no inhuman intelligence, which makes you superior to everyone else...nooooo. What do you think, how many sociopaths talk about being sociopaths and how many even know about it? The number is incredibly low, so the probability tells me you are most likely just a poser.
Milan Henke To be fair, you have to have a Rick and Morty IQ to have known that I was posing without even saying anything that they are what you claim You sure got me
Thank you for posting these tips. May I just add one comment from my own experience: For job interviews or interviews in general, I have observed that it is advantageous to make an appointment early in the morning (as you stated), OR just after lunch. Immediately after a meal, the interviewer is more relaxed. If he/she suffers from an acid stomach, this will not manifest until about 1-2 hours after the meal. If you make an appointment BEFORE lunch, the person may want to get it over with quickly, as he/she is feeling hungry. Just a piece of advice that does work. Kind regards.
For job interviews, I took the attitude that I was interviewing the company, to evaluate if I wanted to work there, if I wanted to work for this person. Made me feel more confident and in charge rather than felling like I'm hat-in-hand, looking for approval or acceptance. Worked! got the job I wanted, in the company I wanted and worked there for 28 years!
12.) When a group of people are laughing, each individual looks at the person they like the most 11.) Chew on something (gum etc.) when you’re nervous since no one eats when in danger 10.) Staring can give you any answer you need; the silence can be so unbearable they’ll tell you anything 9.) imagine that your future employer is an old BestF and they’re just as nervous as you 8.) if you have to work with people a lot, put a mirror behind you since no one likes to see themselves angry or annoyed 7.) if you think someone’s looking at you, yawn 6.) to break up a fight, get something to eat and stand between them since eating is associated with relaxation 5.) if you want to rid of something, just hand it to them while talking to them (while they’re talking, their brain switches to autopilot) 4.) to become friends with someone, ask them for a favor 3.) Schedule important meetings for the BEGINNING or END of the day; try to be the first or last interview candidate 2.) pay attention to direction of the feet while talking to you; if their body is facing you but their feet are facing outwards they’re likely trying to get away ASAP 1.) repeating someone’s facial expression or gestures, can help them trust you since they’ll be like you
If you don’t want a teacher to call on you in class! Do not make eye contact with her and pretend you are writing. She will think your “busy” so she will not call on you
Tr4p MaZe It works the other way around too - if you want to get called by the teacher, just make eye contact - sometimes I do this when I don't want to raise my hand (because I don't want to make the impression I'm a show-off)
Tr4p MaZe You can also always have the right answer and willingly give it in the early weeks and then the teacher will stop calling on you because they think that the rest of the class will just rely on you. Also, always do your homework in the first quarter and do well on tests, then by the end half of the year you will get the benefit of the doubt if you are being graded on essays (they might just skip reading it because it's an auto A+ anyway). I suppose if you aren't a good student anyway then my advice won't help much, but I was an A+ student across the board and let me tell you it was easy as pie to get away with whatever I wanted by the end of the year, I even convinced a biology teacher to give me a 100 on a test where I had one answer wrong because of an English technicality on the phrases many vs a lot. The question was about the use of the scientific method, and in the question it was something like "brad pitt starred in many movies, true or false?" The correct answer was false because "many" is subjective and science requires more accuracy. I argued that "many" in English is used for a number greater than 1 and is able to be counted (a lot is used instead for things that are uncountable, like laundry), and I argued that brad pitt starred in more than 1 movie and the number of movies is countable. I not only got the 100, but every student got that question right since I argued for true because of my argument and false because many can be considered objective when used colloquially. Because I pointed that out we all benefited from it.
This video is what junk food is to health, short term it makes you feel good, but long term it fails. If you truly want to get ahead in life, begin with yourself first. Spend 30 min. a day in front of a word processor asking yourself questions, "Why do you do what you do?, What mistakes have you made today? Is there anything you could've done better? If someone criticized you could some or all part of there criticism be true?, etc." In addition to that exercise, you need to think about your values. What is honesty, courage, kindness, forgiveness, humility, eating healthy about? Can they be beneficial in my life? Should I experiment with one of these values at a time to see how they can possibly change my life? That type of change is real, and for the long term. These "psychological tricks" are not lasting. If you're a cheat and liar eventually you'll get found out no matter how many "psychological tricks" you know. If you're mean and angry people won't like you. BTW - I'm still working on what I just said, I'm just giving my opinion. ; - )
Ali Rafatjah I disagree. While you are definitely right about the importance of evaluating your values, these psychological tricks are best utilized once you have figured yourself out. A more appropriate statement would be: This video is what cheat codes are to video games. Is life a video game? GASP!
But..but when I laugh I don't look at anyone but my feet or prefer to close my eyes. Does that mean, I don't like anyone? Am I gonna die alone? (Grasping air..panting)
Perky143247 No you are not going to die alone. sometimes I don't even look at people's face when I laugh because I get scared if they would see my whole mouth open like this😁 ...😂😂😂
A common trick I pulled with my friends while in high school and college is to own a taken table by simply joining people already there and politely saying, may we share this table. You and your buddies start a conversation that the other person or persons can't relate to. They will be so uncomfortable about it that they will rush to leave. Works all the time.
i used to have a therapist who'd stare at me for a few minutes straight and it was seriously scary. and super annoying, plus it didnt work on me cause i never told her more than i already said.
loved me too..n i knew this is what she was doing...to see if i would say more..n i already told her everything...so it was really uncomfortable..ugh drove me nuts..had to ditch her
when asking someone to do something for you always say "will you" NOT "can you", and that will persuade them to do as you would like themvto because anyone CAN do something, but the question is WILL they...
oh trust i know my grammar, stop tryin to police people.we all understand that your a know it all and we really dont care! pure ignorance. i wasnt even trying to show my comprehension in anything so mrs.know it all, you know nothing because the real meaning went right over your head!!! lol
Along with mimicking a person's body movement, I also find it helps to get someone interested in you by 'using' open body language that unconsciously suggests one likes someone. The idea is that people don't usually know they're into someone until they find out that someone is into them; Given this knowledge, one can assume that although they may not exhibit these cues, they can also unconsciously pick up on them and feel liked. So if you want to get someone's interest, raise your eyebrows when they speak, occasionally glance at their lips, play shy, keep open body language, and keep your feet pointed to them. Hopefully they'll pick up on it unconsciously, and start to return these cues since you're making them feel special.
Man I'm in highschool and I'm a loner man u have no idea how many people are fake it happens way more than u think that's why I have a thing for genuine people lol but I have only 2 friends I would call friends
These tips don't have anything to do with how fake or genuine you are. Can be an honest, genuine person, and still look at someone in a laughing group of people, or look at the direction of a persons feet? I think what upsets you is that you don't like the idea of being analyzed like that - and most people don't.
You can like a video only by sign in into your account so it can be verfied easily and youtube will show the count without time lag but views will take more time to count. if u watch a video for 10 sec at first it will add that to "real time view" (you can't see this) and then filter it out to show you the verified view that's why likes are more than views 😑
Remember to get them talking about themselves, or what interests them, and listen. To show them you are listening, ask them a question related to something they have said. People like to be heard; so gain their interest, and maybe trust by doing this.
It is so true, when you ask someone for a (reasonable) favor they do start to like you. I've always did it, it shows you need them and you value them. Makes them feel needed.
Marie Juana Was anyone else looking for the first comment about someone anticipating the first comment about the yawning gag making them actually yawn IRL?
Yay, we've all learned how to manipulate other people. What if we didn't focus on getting what we want in life, but tried to be kind and helpful to other people? Life is better when we serve others.
When ever I am in an exam and want to cheat but I feel like the teacher is looking at me I yown then look at the teacher from the corner of my eye and check if he/she will yown back
When someone asks to borrow money from me I don’t think it makes me like them more. It’s usually the opposite. People smiling or randomly giving me money makes me like them though. Haha.
It actually does. It's called the Benjamin Franklin effect, as he was one of the first to notice it. It's subtle and subconscious, but it works in most cases. However, this video doesn't explain WHY it works very well. The reason it works is mainly because of cognitive dissonance. If you do a favor for a person while getting nothing in return, your brain (subconsciously) figures that the reason must be that you like that person. Lending them money is probably the worst example they could use, as money is one of the few things that this doesn't work as well with. Regards a psychologist.
This video taught me that I have to use my mind to remember all these things while I talks to other person. And It will never give me a chance to think those thing that the person says to me.I can't live like this. I want to stay as I am.
I have a 100% rate of getting the job after a job interview. 1. My friend told me to always sit on the edge of the seat. It shows you are anxious and ready to begin the job. If you sit back you will give off a feeling of a lazy person. 2. If you feel uncomfortable about looking at someone in the eye just look at them right in between the eyes. They cannot tell the difference and you will come off as a good listener. 3. When asked for my weakness I do not give text book answers. I say I am a nail biter. 4. When asked where do you see yourself in 5 years. I say I see myself as happy in my life and career.
The video is alright and all but don't smile to gain someones trust, or to make someone happy, smile only if you actually feel like smiling, or you end up being fake to yourself and the person infront. Sure these things is good to know so that you can SPOT these people around you, but not applying those behaviors, i don't believe it's a real behavior if you THINK how to be against someone so you can satisfy their feelings and beliefs about you. Someone understand what I mean? :)
Yup. I think some of these behaviours, when done on purpose just sets up a bad foundation for relationships. When you do this, you're not really looking for a genuine relationship anyway. However, some of these can be very helpful. The main one out of these would be the staring one, to combat disingenuousness and halftruths
I think people do these things subconsciously anyway. We’re all “fake” to an extent in that we might smile even when we’re in a bad mood so that our friends or family won’t be put off. I think if it’s well-intentioned and for the purpose of building good relationships, then there’s no problem.
Mmm, I guess I'm thinking that behavior is "fake" insofar as it's consciously calculated and for some personal benefit (a benefit being, for example, that the people near you like you). This seemed to be the kind of behavior that Xetralon4life was against. Some people's personalities just tend to make them very aware of the way they present themselves to others and they can't help being aware of the calculations that others might make subconsciously. For example, when we meet someone new, we tend to smile almost automatically to make them feel more comfortable. I don't think being aware of what that smile is doing for the relationship makes it ingenuine.
I've noticed a psychological trick that works for me is how I wake up. I put my phone on the floor next to my bed, so that when I want to turn off my alarm, it force me to get out of bed. Also, when I hear my alarm, I've developed the habit of immediately throwing the covers and sheet off of me. These first few moments of the day help me to be less stressed, less anxious, and more awake in the morning when I'm at School.
The point is not the staring, its the not talking back during a conversation. As long as its a conversation situation silence will just feel wrong and the pressure rises to say something. Not necessarily the truth but maybe that too.
When I need to calm down for an interview, I just smile before and in the interview. Even though I’m really nervous. Kid of a 2 in 1 relieve stress and make them more interested since they’d think I’d be a good employee. That’s how I got a good job, even though other people had way higher skill than me. It works out. Thanks. Edit: Period. Gotta have good grammar kids.
I've used the foot direction and mirroring tricks for a long time to what appears to be personal gain, but which may actually just be a confirmation bias or simply the effects of the focus and confidence such considerations offer. In which case, it is still helpful.
the mirroring is a good way to get people's guard down. like when you are talking to someone with crossing arms means they are in defense mode, mirror that, and casually put your arms down during conversation, see if they follow your movement. if they follow, that means they are in same page with you and more trusty now. but these mind tricks only work if people dont realize been manipulate, so dont go tell people you know these stuff.
I always copy gestures and facial expressions of the people i talk to and it really works. Not in long terms of course, but i really have the feeling that employers, teachers and parents of girls, who will not be spending too much time with me but are trying to see wether i'm trustworthy or not always seem to conclude that i am.
I gave the video a thumbs down to bring to your attention the audio drops 3 separate times for multiple minutes. The first time is in the first few moments of the video, and then returns. Other than that the information seemed like it could have been useful.
Hey guys! Have you ever tried that yawning trick? 3:58
Btw, these tricks are also cool! ua-cam.com/video/l4tWdTmYZoM/v-deo.html&
BRIGHT SIDE you ask that question wayy to late.
Awesome !!!!!!
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Yessss 😂
Don't think so
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12. When a group of people are laughing, people instinctively look at the one’s they like.
11. Chew gum or eat sth when nervous to reduce feelings of anxiety.
10. Staring can help get any info you need
9. Imagine your interviewer is a friend you haven’t seen in a long time or consider that they are as nervous as you are.
8. If you have to work with a lot of people, put a mirror behind you.
7. If you think sb is looking at you, yawn. If they are staring at you, they’ll yawn.
6. If you wanna break up a fight, get sth to eat and stand in between the two parties.
5. If you wanna get rid of sth, hand it to sb while talking to them (hack for moving things around your house😉)
4. If you want to easily become friends with sb, as them for a favor.
3. Schedule important meetings for the beginning or end of the day because everything in between is a blur.
2. Pay attention to the direction of feet while talking to people. It shows their interest in you and what you’re talking about.
1. Copying other people’s body language, can help you win their trust
Why did I see this after the video ended? 😭
@@prathagautam9872 ikr same XD
@@MattTMFG I just subbed you and watched scooter fail/trick 😂
@@prathagautam9872 thanks bro XD
June Kilatya yes
Love the comic book theme animation ❤️
vJamahh what are you doing here?
vJamahh ikr it gives me life
Who is the animator?
vJamahh I know you vjammah, upload man it's been soooo long
Btw I got ur Snapchat
And the music is pretty cool too
The best way to see someone dissappear is by lending them money 🤣🙄
I used this information to fix my life. I was at Kmart and was putting some rings in my pocket. This girl behind counter was looking at me , I think she likes me. But I noticed one foot was facing away from me and the other foot was constantly pressing some button on the floor. So , I asked her if she got hurt, cause angels as heavy as she was can't fly to far before they fall. She kinda laughed and muttered something about 5150 into the store speaker. Security was coming so I asked her a personal question; Just how much do you weigh? And it worked. she just stared at me , so i handed those rings to her. When security got there I yawned at them and got pepper sprayed. Everybody started laughing as I rolled on floor rubbing my eyes. But I noticed that counter girl looking at me as she laughed. So, when i get out in six months, I think I will ask her out. Not sure what it means, but everybody feet are facing me when i go to the showers. ahhh good times. Thanks, for info. I am using it as a road map to success.
Trevor Miles epic answer. Glad your life got fixed
rgerber. lol hope it made you smile.
🤣
Trevor Miles lol! Thanks for the laugh, I needed that today x
Just don’t drop the soap man
Stranger invades my home.
*Chews gum
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hahah
I actually yawned.
Me too
Me too 😂
Me too
Needless Skeleton me too😂
nope. not me. they were informative.
If someone asks me for money I immediately hate them.
marimo chan even if he's ur friend?
Hahaha 😂😂
Jeez
Not only do I hate them, but I would like to beat them as well.
Or when someone ask you for a ride... Low key.. Your kinda mad.
From now on i will never focus on the actual conversations anymore. THANK YOU!
Hahahahaha
lol
90% of the conversation is non-verbals
Hahahaha
@@John-vi2st more like 60%
*Me imagining that my employer is an old friend of mine*
- Sup mate, it's been a while; what's shakin'?
- Get out of my office now.
AskillZ I hope you found a new job. I talk to my boss casually every day.
Well I’m putting mirrors in the house, keep the wife at bay.
Challenger King great strategy
So if a group of people are laughing, and they are all looking around to see who likes them, everyone who sees you looking at them will think you like them lol
Mike D I guess just look straight at the person you like. Maybe. Lol. But good point hehe
i think you would look at the person you like the most to see if he/she also likes you =)
Vu Tran Ngoc Definitely
Right. Lol. Tis what I thought.
You would watch people, they all would naturally look at the person they like the most!
These psychology methods won't apply or work against sociopaths.
Thanks for the tip ! Reigo Shir... only a sociopath would know that. Just saying .... 😂😂😂
Reigo Shir tell me about it im friends with one
Reigo Shir or people that aren't easily manipulated. I never liked someone because they asked me something.
Oh no inhuman intelligence, which makes you superior to everyone else...nooooo.
What do you think, how many sociopaths talk about being sociopaths and how many even know about it? The number is incredibly low, so the probability tells me you are most likely just a poser.
Milan Henke To be fair, you have to have a Rick and Morty IQ to have known that I was posing without even saying anything that they are what you claim You sure got me
I want more psychologist tricks. This video is awesome
Rahul Gupta me too, make a second one pls
There are SOOOOO many. I want to be a psychologist so I’ve been studying it for 3 years in my free time.
Read the Tao of badass thank me later 👌
Rahul Gupta now bioshock is awesome
I can see why by your look
Thank you for posting these tips. May I just add one comment from my own experience: For job interviews or interviews in general, I have observed that it is advantageous to make an appointment early in the morning (as you stated), OR just after lunch. Immediately after a meal, the interviewer is more relaxed. If he/she suffers from an acid stomach, this will not manifest until about 1-2 hours after the meal. If you make an appointment BEFORE lunch, the person may want to get it over with quickly, as he/she is feeling hungry. Just a piece of advice that does work. Kind regards.
For job interviews, I took the attitude that I was interviewing the company, to evaluate if I wanted to work there, if I wanted to work for this person. Made me feel more confident and in charge rather than felling like I'm hat-in-hand, looking for approval or acceptance. Worked! got the job I wanted, in the company I wanted and worked there for 28 years!
12.) When a group of people are laughing, each individual looks at the person they like the most
11.) Chew on something (gum etc.) when you’re nervous since no one eats when in danger
10.) Staring can give you any answer you need; the silence can be so unbearable they’ll tell you anything
9.) imagine that your future employer is an old BestF and they’re just as nervous as you
8.) if you have to work with people a lot, put a mirror behind you since no one likes to see themselves angry or annoyed
7.) if you think someone’s looking at you, yawn
6.) to break up a fight, get something to eat and stand between them since eating is associated with relaxation
5.) if you want to rid of something, just hand it to them while talking to them (while they’re talking, their brain switches to autopilot)
4.) to become friends with someone, ask them for a favor
3.) Schedule important meetings for the BEGINNING or END of the day; try to be the first or last interview candidate
2.) pay attention to direction of the feet while talking to you; if their body is facing you but their feet are facing outwards they’re likely trying to get away ASAP
1.) repeating someone’s facial expression or gestures, can help them trust you since they’ll be like you
Why is this not at the top?
I like the comic look :3
Regina Mills i like profile pic
Regina Mills now bioshock your look
Regina Mills yeah I love comics :)
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I yawned...
I yawned too..
me too!
Zenyatta me too
sushma tiwari And I yawned again reading these replies...
same
If you don’t want a teacher to call on you in class! Do not make eye contact with her and pretend you are writing. She will think your “busy” so she will not call on you
Tr4p MaZe It works the other way around too - if you want to get called by the teacher, just make eye contact - sometimes I do this when I don't want to raise my hand (because I don't want to make the impression I'm a show-off)
Tr4p MaZe You can also always have the right answer and willingly give it in the early weeks and then the teacher will stop calling on you because they think that the rest of the class will just rely on you. Also, always do your homework in the first quarter and do well on tests, then by the end half of the year you will get the benefit of the doubt if you are being graded on essays (they might just skip reading it because it's an auto A+ anyway). I suppose if you aren't a good student anyway then my advice won't help much, but I was an A+ student across the board and let me tell you it was easy as pie to get away with whatever I wanted by the end of the year, I even convinced a biology teacher to give me a 100 on a test where I had one answer wrong because of an English technicality on the phrases many vs a lot. The question was about the use of the scientific method, and in the question it was something like "brad pitt starred in many movies, true or false?" The correct answer was false because "many" is subjective and science requires more accuracy. I argued that "many" in English is used for a number greater than 1 and is able to be counted (a lot is used instead for things that are uncountable, like laundry), and I argued that brad pitt starred in more than 1 movie and the number of movies is countable. I not only got the 100, but every student got that question right since I argued for true because of my argument and false because many can be considered objective when used colloquially. Because I pointed that out we all benefited from it.
show off, i was a F student and got a GED...
Tr4p MaZe worked every time lol
Tr4p MaZe true when I looked at her she told me to read when I starred at the book when she was picking some ppl and I hot away with it.
This video is what junk food is to health, short term it makes you feel good, but long term it fails. If you truly want to get ahead in life, begin with yourself first. Spend 30 min. a day in front of a word processor asking yourself questions, "Why do you do what you do?, What mistakes have you made today? Is there anything you could've done better? If someone criticized you could some or all part of there criticism be true?, etc." In addition to that exercise, you need to think about your values. What is honesty, courage, kindness, forgiveness, humility, eating healthy about? Can they be beneficial in my life? Should I experiment with one of these values at a time to see how they can possibly change my life? That type of change is real, and for the long term. These "psychological tricks" are not lasting. If you're a cheat and liar eventually you'll get found out no matter how many "psychological tricks" you know. If you're mean and angry people won't like you. BTW - I'm still working on what I just said, I'm just giving my opinion. ; - )
Ali Rafatjah makes a lot of sense
Ali Rafatjah I disagree. While you are definitely right about the importance of evaluating your values, these psychological tricks are best utilized once you have figured yourself out. A more appropriate statement would be: This video is what cheat codes are to video games. Is life a video game? GASP!
Word processor?
I really like your perspective on reflecting yourself as a person. Is there any interesting books you have read that made you think this way?
Ali Rafatjah I’m not reading this...
where i live if u stare at someone u usually get stabbed. but im going to trust this video and try it today
Hi-tech Lomachenko noo 😂😂😂😂😂
thoughts n prayers**
thats horible
he got stabbed
Made me laugh LOL :)
No wonder Michael Jordan was always clutch... He was chewing gum !!!
I was just thinkin about that hahahahaahha.
And curry with the rubber thing for ur mouth
Rayi Rashad Your right lol
Rayi Rashad its called mouthguard
Home r yeah, thanks for reminding me. Has been streesing me out but to lazy to search it out
Okay, who yawned? 😂😂
Justyna Rogala yup 😂
I just yawned reading who yawned
Justyna Rogala I did
Justyna Rogala hhhh me
Richard Post same though xD
But..but when I laugh I don't look at anyone but my feet or prefer to close my eyes. Does that mean, I don't like anyone? Am I gonna die alone? (Grasping air..panting)
Perky143247 No you are not going to die alone. sometimes I don't even look at people's face when I laugh because I get scared if they would see my whole mouth open like this😁 ...😂😂😂
why, u got teeth like meelina?
A common trick I pulled with my friends while in high school and college is to own a taken table by simply joining people already there and politely saying, may we share this table. You and your buddies start a conversation that the other person or persons can't relate to. They will be so uncomfortable about it that they will rush to leave. Works all the time.
Or sometimes they start trying to talk to you about the days they spent knitting on the farm...
About half the video is missing audio. I've seen others post this, but it has not been fixed.
i used to have a therapist who'd stare at me for a few minutes straight and it was seriously scary. and super annoying, plus it didnt work on me cause i never told her more than i already said.
galaxies Yeah, staring also has the opposite effect on me. It just annoys me.
+Thomas More well i was in a clinic so there were more therapists who talked to me, but she was really annoying
Maybe she watched too much In Treatment.
loved me too..n i knew this is what she was doing...to see if i would say more..n i already told her everything...so it was really uncomfortable..ugh drove me nuts..had to ditch her
She can't help you unless you're honest and open - complete transparency.
Who is hosting the video???
That guy is really good in keeping people watch the video till the end
Who else yawned?
i yawned at the end of the video.
btw it 3:36am now
XO God XO'TWOD ❤
Debbie absolutely!!! Yes!!
Yawned after reading your comment lol😂😂
Say "Me, too." It works. Try it.
when asking someone to do something for you always say "will you" NOT "can you", and that will persuade them to do as you would like themvto because anyone CAN do something, but the question is WILL they...
oh trust i know my grammar, stop tryin to police people.we all understand that your a know it all and we really dont care! pure ignorance. i wasnt even trying to show my comprehension in anything so mrs.know it all, you know nothing because the real meaning went right over your head!!! lol
@@dabz7588 probably they think it is not a request but a demand?
I love the mirror behind the chair thing. Genius
When u watched the whole thing but realize your using ur data.
Zexity Playz 😂ROFL
I guess that's what happened to you whilst waching this video.
Zexity Playz that is too true that it hurts 😂
Zexity Playz HATE THAT
Joke's on you tough guy. I can't read.
Hate people who constantly beg for likes instead of letting the video talk for themselves.
saisanzi i agree. If you appreciate me agreeing with you, like this comment
...cant stare at the person if the person walks away.
When I stare at them they walk away :(
Thanks for the tip. You really help me to think more mindfully and rationally👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾YOU ROCK!
No wonder when I’m with my group of friend no one looks at me when they laugh...
:(
I'm not even gonna like your comment. That's just plain sad.
Sean's Piano that's f*cked
Owie....
wouldnt call it a group of friends then ,....
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My wife already knows these 😂
Continual Improvement who do you think taught your wife these tricks ?
Continual Improvement nice try mate ....
My French wife knew that I knew so much so that she knew and so she packed her bags and flew out of the country back to France....
Edward Celtic Bear are you two still together?
Nicole Newsome no she left me over 1/1/2 years ago and never came back.
Along with mimicking a person's body movement, I also find it helps to get someone interested in you by 'using' open body language that unconsciously suggests one likes someone. The idea is that people don't usually know they're into someone until they find out that someone is into them; Given this knowledge, one can assume that although they may not exhibit these cues, they can also unconsciously pick up on them and feel liked. So if you want to get someone's interest, raise your eyebrows when they speak, occasionally glance at their lips, play shy, keep open body language, and keep your feet pointed to them. Hopefully they'll pick up on it unconsciously, and start to return these cues since you're making them feel special.
Very enjoyable ... No objections anywhere ... The drawings are certainly professional (takes a lot of practice to draw like this) totally appreciated.
The title of this video should be "How to take advantage of people by being fake"
you both have a point
Man I'm in highschool and I'm a loner man u have no idea how many people are fake it happens way more than u think that's why I have a thing for genuine people lol but I have only 2 friends I would call friends
Bad way of looking at it. Everyone is playing the game, it's all about how well you play it.
These tips don't have anything to do with how fake or genuine you are. Can be an honest, genuine person, and still look at someone in a laughing group of people, or look at the direction of a persons feet? I think what upsets you is that you don't like the idea of being analyzed like that - and most people don't.
Cezar Arvelo Nope. Not everyone is playing these petty, immature games.
50 views and 142 likes....THAT'S BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE
Tushar Gupta how is that even possible?
PICKLE RICKSTER a bug.
Tushar Gupta ohh 😂
You can like a video only by sign in into your account so it can be verfied easily and youtube will show the count without time lag but views will take more time to count. if u watch a video for 10 sec at first it will add that to "real time view" (you can't see this) and then filter it out to show you the verified view that's why likes are more than views 😑
How????
Remember to get them talking about themselves, or what interests them, and listen. To show them you are listening, ask them a question related to something they have said. People like to be heard; so gain their interest, and maybe trust by doing this.
It is so true, when you ask someone for a (reasonable) favor they do start to like you. I've always did it, it shows you need them and you value them. Makes them feel needed.
Really liked the cool animation on this video + the music!
Who yawned during the yawning part??
Marilyn Razo me
Marilyn Razo I did!!!
I did too.
Marilyn Razo me
Not me cause I have straight Iv running through me
I've tried the trick of asking small favors. It actually works..👍🏻👌🏻
Simulation inside a simulation inside a simulation....
TheYoshinator 64 Rick and morty fan?
Yup
Oh my god, Rick ... how dumb are you!?
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The illustrations in this video are super duper!
Who else was looking for that comment saying something like "Who else yawned when he spoke about yawning"
Marie Juana Was anyone else looking for the first comment about someone anticipating the first comment about the yawning gag making them actually yawn IRL?
Ìt was your name that I found more hilarious than your comment
Yay, we've all learned how to manipulate other people. What if we didn't focus on getting what we want in life, but tried to be kind and helpful to other people? Life is better when we serve others.
I actually did not yawn. I don't like being told what I'm going to do next.
I just wanna say these visuals are amazing and really creative, props to whomever created them
Nice resolution. This is high quality content. The illustration is superb.
which software did you use for the pop art styling? thank youuu :)
why did you mute the most important place of this video ?
Thanks I’m now lowkey a sociopath
Umeh Habiba hey to break it to you but this is not how one can be a “sociopath” sorry
Stephen Katterman LOL true, meaning they were already sociopaths.
@@alexanderkatterman5170 yeah you'd be a victim
Stephen Katterman
Lol chill its a joke
My cousins best friends friend ex was a sociopath and I take offense to that
Thank you Bright Side for sharing
So glad I watched this!! I start my new job Monday, these tips will come in handy!
*Who else yawned*
Jamaican Dragon ™ lol...I did
Not me because my brain isn't dense.
I'm dat Guy cool...
yes, and then my cat yawned too.
Jamaican Dragon ™ I did before reading this
When ever I am in an exam and want to cheat but I feel like the teacher is looking at me I yown then look at the teacher from the corner of my eye and check if he/she will yown back
SlowMotionFight99, thnks for giving the idea😊
When someone asks to borrow money from me I don’t think it makes me like them more. It’s usually the opposite. People smiling or randomly giving me money makes me like them though. Haha.
JengoFilm
Spot on loll
How about asking you what time is it? Or getting into their van?
It actually does. It's called the Benjamin Franklin effect, as he was one of the first to notice it. It's subtle and subconscious, but it works in most cases. However, this video doesn't explain WHY it works very well. The reason it works is mainly because of cognitive dissonance. If you do a favor for a person while getting nothing in return, your brain (subconsciously) figures that the reason must be that you like that person. Lending them money is probably the worst example they could use, as money is one of the few things that this doesn't work as well with.
Regards a psychologist.
that moment that when you're in a group of people and you share a joke and you laugh but you look at scenery
This video taught me that I have to use my mind to remember all these things while I talks to other person. And It will never give me a chance to think those thing that the person says to me.I can't live like this. I want to stay as I am.
If the yawning doesn't work or you want more confirmation, try also looking at your watch or phone. See if the person mirrors it.
the aesthetic of this video is just perfect!
Love the comic look
I'm definitely a person who always smiles.. It's always been my way to cheer myself up when I'm feeling the blues.
I have a 100% rate of getting the job after a job interview.
1. My friend told me to always sit on the edge of the seat. It shows you are anxious and ready to begin the job. If you sit back you will give off a feeling of a lazy person.
2. If you feel uncomfortable about looking at someone in the eye just look at them right in between the eyes. They cannot tell the difference and you will come off as a good listener.
3. When asked for my weakness I do not give text book answers. I say I am a nail biter.
4. When asked where do you see yourself in 5 years. I say I see myself as happy in my life and career.
Then why is there fighting around the dinner table?
oof
Because women!
Only disfuncional families will do that.
Eat pringles for dinner
Doesn’t come to hands
The video is alright and all but don't smile to gain someones trust, or to make someone happy, smile only if you actually feel like smiling, or you end up being fake to yourself and the person infront. Sure these things is good to know so that you can SPOT these people around you, but not applying those behaviors, i don't believe it's a real behavior if you THINK how to be against someone so you can satisfy their feelings and beliefs about you. Someone understand what I mean? :)
Yup. I think some of these behaviours, when done on purpose just sets up a bad foundation for relationships. When you do this, you're not really looking for a genuine relationship anyway.
However, some of these can be very helpful. The main one out of these would be the staring one, to combat disingenuousness and halftruths
Ya most people fake smile often tho w/o thinking about it, real talk, sad truth but, learned trait, survival etc
I think people do these things subconsciously anyway. We’re all “fake” to an extent in that we might smile even when we’re in a bad mood so that our friends or family won’t be put off. I think if it’s well-intentioned and for the purpose of building good relationships, then there’s no problem.
how you define ‘fake’?
Mmm, I guess I'm thinking that behavior is "fake" insofar as it's consciously calculated and for some personal benefit (a benefit being, for example, that the people near you like you). This seemed to be the kind of behavior that Xetralon4life was against. Some people's personalities just tend to make them very aware of the way they present themselves to others and they can't help being aware of the calculations that others might make subconsciously. For example, when we meet someone new, we tend to smile almost automatically to make them feel more comfortable. I don't think being aware of what that smile is doing for the relationship makes it ingenuine.
I have a issue where I grind my teeth real bad all the time. Doesn't matter what I'm doing. It's obvious that my subconscious knows something I do not
I suggest chewing gum to aid in not destroying your teeth.
Very good, I enjoyed them all and I found that smiling is the best way to get the door open.
The best thing to pass the job interview is to always smile and eye contact.
no wonder everytime i rage on fortnite ... then i grab a bite of something to eat ...im less likely to break my keyboard XD nice
The yawning staff really works
I yawned before it was even mentioned
WOW GREAT BACKGROUND MUSIC
RAPHAZARD it's too loud
Mute the video. Your welcome.
thank u everyone
Planning on testing out Number 5! Changing rubbish bins will never be easier! :D
I've noticed a psychological trick that works for me is how I wake up. I put my phone on the floor next to my bed, so that when I want to turn off my alarm, it force me to get out of bed. Also, when I hear my alarm, I've developed the habit of immediately throwing the covers and sheet off of me. These first few moments of the day help me to be less stressed, less anxious, and more awake in the morning when I'm at School.
I know these tips because i am student of psychology.
By the way Nice video 👍
Hira as
Hira Arshad idk you but you are a narcissists
Hira Arshad dvsfdftf
4:40 who yawned? 😏
Mel Joy yupp
Meeeee
Mel Joy I yawned reading ur comment
Sachin Johri same as I read the comments I yawned
In some cultures staring at someone is considered rude 😀just let letting u know 💂
4 example?
The point is not the staring, its the not talking back during a conversation. As long as its a conversation situation silence will just feel wrong and the pressure rises to say something. Not necessarily the truth but maybe that too.
then how you talk to someone?
Ricky Nano
Most African Countries.
Nigeria.
olivia seed u get me bro no lie 👌
Love the pop art! Brilliant video.
When I need to calm down for an interview, I just smile before and in the interview. Even though I’m really nervous. Kid of a 2 in 1 relieve stress and make them more interested since they’d think I’d be a good employee. That’s how I got a good job, even though other people had way higher skill than me. It works out. Thanks.
Edit: Period. Gotta have good grammar kids.
I tried handing someone something while asking a question. They took out without even realizing it works like a charm.
This video was so useful THANKS！
8:33 LOL.. "..use common sense!".. Best part 🤣🤣🤣
Fully understanding and working conversational intricacies helps our rapport.
Wonderful video as it explains the human psychology in a comic way. Thumbs up!!
Your jedi tricks won't work on me boy!!
Yes my Jedi mind tricks will work on you ... Did it work ? Lol...
Best pick up line I have ever heard “can I borrow $20” lol
Music is so disturbing here!
Since this is a psychological video cool n calm music works more better, even it should be at low sound!👍👌
Yess, I totally agree
Thankyou Noninska!
I've used the foot direction and mirroring tricks for a long time to what appears to be personal gain, but which may actually just be a confirmation bias or simply the effects of the focus and confidence such considerations offer. In which case, it is still helpful.
the mirroring is a good way to get people's guard down. like when you are talking to someone with crossing arms means they are in defense mode, mirror that, and casually put your arms down during conversation, see if they follow your movement. if they follow, that means they are in same page with you and more trusty now.
but these mind tricks only work if people dont realize been manipulate, so dont go tell people you know these stuff.
Hey bright side. Can you make a video on how to stand while waiting for someone in public?
Thank you. It was always sort of awkward standing and waiting for someone in public.
Try to act like you are waiting for someone. You are welcome
C food is always the answer😂
Halina Amani wow you're beautiful
Halina Amani yup lol. And bacon is the ultimate answer.
Chooong7 ❤️
is this based zeus?
Wayne Doo swear I thought the same thing
I always copy gestures and facial expressions of the people i talk to and it really works. Not in long terms of course, but i really have the feeling that employers, teachers and parents of girls, who will not be spending too much time with me but are trying to see wether i'm trustworthy or not always seem to conclude that i am.
The artwork is amazing. Nice work.
I gave the video a thumbs down to bring to your attention the audio drops 3 separate times for multiple minutes. The first time is in the first few moments of the video, and then returns. Other than that the information seemed like it could have been useful.