Can You Get Your Ex Back When They Don't Have Feelings For You?

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  • Опубліковано 25 кві 2023
  • Can you get your ex back when they don't have feelings for you? In this video, Coach Craig Kenneth and Victoria discuss breakup situations where your ex tells you they don't love you or have feelings for you anymore.
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  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  Рік тому +4

    If you’d like help with your breakup go to my website AskCraig.net

  • @bennyblanco6704
    @bennyblanco6704 3 місяці тому +6

    The best way I’ve learned to get an ex back and see if she truly has feelings for you is to totally disappear out of her life and also no contact let her see how life is without u around and trust me you’ll be surprised how she pursues u more than she ever did it works !

    • @juanyanez755
      @juanyanez755 2 місяці тому

      Thank u currently day 29 if she doesnt contact within the 60 days im moving on

    • @King_Baldwin2
      @King_Baldwin2 Місяць тому

      ​@@juanyanez755Well You're Going to Disappoint your feelings

  • @deronnewman
    @deronnewman Рік тому +4

    Love the line: "The most anxious guys in the world writing sad songs together...."

  • @midking8841
    @midking8841 Рік тому +18

    You Guys have helped me through my darkest Times. Its been 4 Months since she Broke Up with me and since then I have Hit the Gym 6 Times a week and picked up playing the Piano and boxing. My confidence is Back and Im on my way to fullfil my Potential and I also managed to be Happy by myself again. I thank you two. Much Love

  • @Lanes8930
    @Lanes8930 Рік тому +14

    Your support and advice is appreciated guys 🌟 This channel is where I come when my separation anxiety becomes overwhelming.

  • @arr204
    @arr204 11 місяців тому +4

    Mine is “High Enough” by Damn Yankees. If your ex moved on from you, please move on from them.

  • @minhthifresh
    @minhthifresh Рік тому +13

    I’m glad that you’re still making new content frequently. My heart still yearns for my ex even though I know I need to focus on myself :(

  • @assedio3631
    @assedio3631 Рік тому +6

    Today I thought for the tenth millionth times to send a message but I didn't. Sometimes I just want her to reach back to prove it wasabi all an illusion

  • @PrSp00
    @PrSp00 10 місяців тому

    Awsome content.
    Thank you Craig and Victoria 😊

  • @OS253
    @OS253 Рік тому +27

    After my ex cheated on me, I've lost feelings for them permanently.

    • @natesearfoss881
      @natesearfoss881 Рік тому +16

      Then why you here then

    • @profound369
      @profound369 Рік тому +5

      ​@@natesearfoss881 because they still have feelings just like i do

    • @nathantrujillo471
      @nathantrujillo471 Рік тому +3

      @@natesearfoss881 lmao

    • @TheM0B11
      @TheM0B11 6 місяців тому

      ill never know if she didi or didnt. always imagine theres someone else when they break up

  • @renegadecalamari239
    @renegadecalamari239 Рік тому +4

    "Crying" by Roy Orbison (feat. KD Lang) hits all the right notes for me.

  • @rrboss3721
    @rrboss3721 Рік тому +7

    What if they don't have feelings for you and instead of communicating/breaking up, they cheated on you and when they got caught cheating, they got angry and break up with you?

  • @Jam7pi
    @Jam7pi Рік тому +2

    As Sir Elton John put it: "Sad songs say so much."

  • @omkzion1353
    @omkzion1353 3 місяці тому

    My baby momma lost feelings for me in November n she still feel the same n we in march, I just hope god give me the chance with my family again.. it was my fault tho I pushed her away n wasn’t loving her how she wanted, hopefully I can fix it 🙏🏾💐

  • @user-xf2dn2oi2d
    @user-xf2dn2oi2d 3 місяці тому

    If you leave me now, your take away the biggest part of me

  • @brodywooddell1904
    @brodywooddell1904 Рік тому +17

    Would love to see you guys cover how to handle seeing your ex out and about. Or like at a hangout with mutual friends or party. Despite not speaking for 4 months my ex came to a friends birthday party that I introduced her to… I played it cool but inside I was flooded with all the old emotions.

    • @northerncaliking1772
      @northerncaliking1772 Рік тому +6

      They have. They say be kind but not excited be respectful but pursuing. Play it cool.

    • @nathantrujillo471
      @nathantrujillo471 Рік тому +1

      Damn brody

    • @Bugglesgoo
      @Bugglesgoo 5 місяців тому

      I'm with you! I'll be running into my ex alot as we have many common friends. Dont know how to handle this without messing with NC and my healing process.

  • @zepherreload
    @zepherreload 5 місяців тому

    I admitted i was stressed and should never have snaped at her, id work on it and change, i pished too much and she pulled away a lot, now i feel i have lost her forever!

  • @norabalogh8310
    @norabalogh8310 Рік тому +6

    Thank you coaches, I really appreciate your work! 😊 Can you please do a video about multiple breakups? I'm really interested in your point of view on that topic. (My avoidant ex broke up with me 3 times before, he always came back😅. I just would like to know what the chances are after so many breakups)

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  Рік тому +1

      Search the channel. I’m pretty sure we already did

    • @shereefindon1137
      @shereefindon1137 Рік тому +5

      As someone else who's been through multiple break ups, always initiated by the other person, I can tell you each time they come back there is less respect there. You'd be best to move on and find someone who is certain about being with you. There's a saying"don't let anyone tell you more than once that you're not good enough". But I'm not the expert here!!!

  • @wizardofoc
    @wizardofoc Рік тому +1

    Circles by Post Malone 💯

  • @shanthelgaray3501
    @shanthelgaray3501 Рік тому +1

    I like the fact that y'all are wearing plaid in recent videos 😅

  • @JoeBidenSucks42069
    @JoeBidenSucks42069 Рік тому +2

    its important to say that you have to also see if they have made any positive changes themselves.

  • @Lanes8930
    @Lanes8930 Рік тому

    Craig, what if they still love you but think you are better off without them? He knows I love him and i want us to be together. 😢

  • @josuevarona2152
    @josuevarona2152 Рік тому

    Craig can you do a video about a break up with kids involved having kids with them?

  • @surfkat59
    @surfkat59 6 місяців тому +2

    Listen: THE SADDEST song you must NEVER listen to after a breakup and during "no contact" is, "Long, Long Time" sung by Linda Ronstadt! !YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED! 😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  6 місяців тому +1

      I don’t think theres anything sadder than Black by Pearl Jam

    • @surfkat59
      @surfkat59 6 місяців тому +1

      You think? That's a tough call. Yet again I'm 64. A different generation of broken hearts. That song KILLED me everytime I heard it after a breakup when I was younger. I have not heard it since my ex brokeup w me 7 months ago. Ours is a really weird dynamic of no contact? Semi contact? Can't figure it out. Anyway, no Linda Ronstadt! Sticking to it Coach Ken!😉👍🎅

    • @abp311
      @abp311 25 днів тому

      Gloria Estefan Don't Wanna Lose You

  • @paulmackenzie4752
    @paulmackenzie4752 Рік тому

    Doesn't make me sad it's actually the opposite but I've noticed myself listening to back to December by Taylor Swift alot more than I would like to admit being that I'm a guy, but it's literally because it feels good just picturing if my ex would come back like that

  • @Lanes8930
    @Lanes8930 Рік тому +7

    Needing some reassurance 😢 it's been about 3 weeks since I saw him last and the urge to reach out is strong. I miss him so much. The pain is unbearable. I'm in limbo not knowing if you are on a break still or if he's gotten used to life without me 😞 he suffers from ptsd and said he needs to heal before he can be a healthy part of my life, but I fear he will get used to life without me. He text me 5 days ago ( a picture of his cat he knows I love). I replied but now it's radio silence. Do I just need to calm the hell down and have faith?? He said he hasn't just stopped loving me or caring about me after we parted ways . Can't believe I'm back to being this pathetic anxious mess 😞💔

    • @mint_soup9743
      @mint_soup9743 3 місяці тому +1

      Hoping you got some closure here

  • @MusicRenos
    @MusicRenos Рік тому

    funny you mention anxious guys and songwriting since I‘ve written and released some music myself about a breakup I‘ve had years ago 🤣🤣🤣 I feel attacked (joke 😜)

  • @aeb1492
    @aeb1492 Рік тому +1

    Drop your break up songs! Mines cemetery by Brutus (unplugged when sad, album version when angry)

  • @Croy617
    @Croy617 3 місяці тому

    Celine Dion- my heart will go on 😭 lol

  • @HaloHuntress
    @HaloHuntress 2 місяці тому

    Yeah I can't change into the guy he's seeing.

  • @thierryngoyi3188
    @thierryngoyi3188 Рік тому

    Sad song => "if i could turn back the head of time"...
    Erm....R.Kelly might not be the perfect reference point 😅

  • @ZeroCTRLX
    @ZeroCTRLX Рік тому +2

    So... My ex cheated on me & dumped me and blocked me on every channel. Somehow, I still love her cause I realized after this event that I have been avoidant in the relationship & ignored many of her requests. How can I move on from her? I never so guilty and inlove

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  Рік тому +2

      You should focus on healing your avoidant attachment style!

  • @solodad001
    @solodad001 Рік тому +1

    Billy Vera

    • @mint_soup9743
      @mint_soup9743 3 місяці тому

      Ohhhh 💔 "you just dont love me no more" what did you think?? 😢

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 5 місяців тому

    This is me i lost the best thing in my life a lovely girl. All my own fault..Shes changed , sonethings died i can tell...Shes said to me she dont have feelings for me anymore due to my behaviour over time...She listed all my faults etc...She was right literslly somethings chamged..

    • @samxt4389
      @samxt4389 3 місяці тому

      did she come back

  • @user-xf2dn2oi2d
    @user-xf2dn2oi2d 3 місяці тому

    I don't know were we went wrong
    but the feelings gone an I just can't get it back
    Gordon Lightfoot 😢

  • @Vehvilainen_Lundqvist
    @Vehvilainen_Lundqvist Рік тому

    What does it mean when she suggest let’s not meet for 1-2 months cause of tension

    • @benjaminnielsen4288
      @benjaminnielsen4288 4 місяці тому

      She's seeing someone else. That is what it means. I know that sucks.

  • @paperplane00
    @paperplane00 5 місяців тому

    or she says, "I don't want you!" over and over when triggered.

  • @johnnycalderon9951
    @johnnycalderon9951 Місяць тому

    How are break ups not easy for the dumper? Lol one week after the break up shes already dating someone... yup she took it reallyyyy hard

  • @godzilla7147
    @godzilla7147 Рік тому +4

    If there is one topic i havent seen on here is can you get your ex back if they are now going out with the same sex gender?

    • @Cali1414
      @Cali1414 Рік тому +2

      😂😂😂 Now, that’s deep

    • @johnrevelation37
      @johnrevelation37 10 місяців тому

      ​@@Cali1414I'd like to know too 😅. I obviously have my own attachment issues 😅

  • @innox9142
    @innox9142 Рік тому +1

    Tomorrow is my 19th Birthday. I'm in No Contact for about 31 Days. She broke up with me on the 14. of march. IF she reaches out and wishes me a happy birthday. Should I respond with a " Thank you :)" ?

    • @estera6001
      @estera6001 Рік тому +2

      Yes! Craig has a lots video about: “what if your ex reaches out”

    • @mariotibbrine1
      @mariotibbrine1 Рік тому +3

      Just treat her like a friend don't pry or push and keep the conversation short remember it's your birthday you have things to do places to go and other people to talk too don't seek closure I wouldn't discuss anything that has to do with the relationship or it ending or your feelings just treat her like a person you know very little if there is long pauses or dead air ie silence end the conversation politely you know "thanks for the call and the birthday wishes and all hit me up again sometime for conversation"
      Do not express your feelings and desires.
      Do not apologize for anything especially if she's guilting you just stay cool don't let her abuse you playing the blame game putting it all on you personally I'd just let her call go to voice-mail and see what the message says if its significant remember you've been in no contact up till the call she's probably been busy doing her it's ok to let her sweat and let her mind wonder while you have your fun it's your day she's not your girlfriend you get back to her when you're available do not prioritize her you put yourself first she doesn't get rewards cause it's your birthday it's not her birthday she could have been with you but she's not so yeah don't be easy it looks desperate and un attractive matter of fact I hope you erased her contact info if not do it now save yourself the trouble of knowing if she's calling if she calls you on your birthday after a break up that's kinda rude and manipulative that's why I said to let it go to voice-mail I wouldn't even call her back to be honest let her chase you be busy and stay busy you are the prize she left you in friggen limbo without a concern you're 19 there's other fish in the sea too see good luck to you and have an awsome birthday you deserve to be happy and with people who care about you and your feelings tomorrow is your special day don't let anyone ruin it especially an ex.

    • @innox9142
      @innox9142 Рік тому

      @@mariotibbrine1 Thank you for your kind words :D

  • @edwardperez7665
    @edwardperez7665 Місяць тому

    Hearts by Balin

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  Місяць тому +1

      Great song! One of my favorite songs is Miracles which he composed and sings in Jefferson Starship.

    • @edwardperez7665
      @edwardperez7665 Місяць тому

      @@CoachCraigKenneth absolutely a beautiful song. Miracle. 1975 thank you.

  • @MM-gp9mb
    @MM-gp9mb Рік тому +1

    Where is margret at? I haven't seen her in a while

    • @lorip4087
      @lorip4087 Рік тому +2

      Sadly she passed away.

    • @MM-gp9mb
      @MM-gp9mb Рік тому +1

      @@lorip4087 Nooooooooo. How?

    • @lorip4087
      @lorip4087 Рік тому +3

      There is a video called A Difficult Announcement or something like that, which tells the story. Basically she suddenly got sick and went to the hospital but they couldn't save her. Very sad.

    • @arr204
      @arr204 11 місяців тому

      She passed away last fall.

  • @sharonmann4030
    @sharonmann4030 7 місяців тому +1

    He is engaged to his ex gf from high school. Guess 35 yrs was a lie heroes everything different. He's lost his kids the6 don't like her at all bur he don't care not the man I knew my heart is broken over him getting married it hur6s so bad. I just can't believe it

    • @davemaurer7341
      @davemaurer7341 7 місяців тому

      Accept reality, or you will have to accept the reality of not accepting reality....

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 6 місяців тому

      I am so sorry that has happened to you. Heartbreaking for both you and your children.

  • @BiefBinkDVS
    @BiefBinkDVS Рік тому +4

    Where can i submit my succes story?

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  Рік тому +2

      There’s an email on the home page of my website. Please write Success Story in the subject!

  • @TimStJohn-xp8rv
    @TimStJohn-xp8rv 8 місяців тому

    This was a depressing video!

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 5 місяців тому

    Get on with it who cares about sad songs ffs

  • @ryancox5097
    @ryancox5097 Рік тому +1

    I Can't Make You Love Me, by Bonnie Raitt:
    ua-cam.com/video/nW9Cu6GYqxo/v-deo.html