I really need some advice for this coming weekend. My ex and I had a really tumultuous relationship for 2 years and we are finally starting to get back on good terms. We've done a few activities together as friends that went well. He's coming on a trip to the coast (that I invited him to) on Saturday. It's a huge step and I'm honestly shocked he agreed to come. He seems to only want friendship, and I'm nervous about accidentally overstepping or messing something up this weekend. I can't afford to pay for official coaching right now 😢 my car recently broke down and I'm finishing college. But any advice would be appreciated
After a very romantic, passionate, fun, connected year together, he said I was the most wonderful women he'd ever been with-- the most beautiful, the best chemistry, the most feeling he'd ever felt for anyone, the most special (and I sincerely believe him, because you can't fake the connection we had).... and then he said it was over between us. A month prior, he'd found someone to partner with for a business venture. She's everything I'm not-- and everything he said he never wanted-- bossy, controlling, non-feminine. I saw him at a social event for the first time in a few months. I was cool, cordial, and even a little indifferent because my heart was racing. He's still with her. He wanted that, not me.
Then ladies value yourselves. If hes found someone else thats a deal breaker he chose some else over you. Didnt want to stay. Game over. If i were you both you need to love yourself and not let him think you will always be there because no.
@@vEnUs.06Value yourself, dont contact and go about your life. If hes chosen someone else over you then value you and walk away. Its hard but you cant let him think you will always be there. Its like hell at times the sadness, thoughts but surely you should respect yourself.
This video is what I was looking for. My mans lost feelings for me last year n now we're back being friends. Then not sure what happened but he did call me special
I’m leaving this here because I am very hurt by my situation. I date this guy for 3 years. Then he broke up with me and we went into no contact. However he kept coming back reaching out to me. And finally got me to move back into his place and gave me a promise ring three weeks in he told me he didn’t have feelings for me. And that he know he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me. At the momment I am in the process of moving away. From him and this is the second time we are doing this. And I have gave up all hope that things between me and him are going to work out. I really do love him. And I can no longer believe that he’s coming back. I am deeply hurt. In reality I just want him back , I’ve never meet anyone like him. And will miss all the moments we had together. It is officially over.
I feel very sorry for your pain. Reading this, I understand that this is not your fault. I think he still loves you but he has buried his feelings. It sounds like your ex has a severe dismissive avoidant attachment style. Research this topic ad it will give you many answers to your situation. He has commitment phobia. This is more prevalent than ever on our society today unfortunately.
can you please make a video if ex goes into rebound & then rebound breaks up with ex & now ex is heartbroken. this dynamic is not really talked about, its always when the ex breaks up with the new person. i’m also still blocked so not sure what to do.
We live together and she is being mean to me but sometimes she is nice and her rebound is much older then me and he is the opposite of me but it feel like she is trying to hurt me and idk what to do
Hi clay, my ex finished with me 18 months ago after 6 years together and been with his new partner 16 months, he actually wanted us to stay friends but I couldn’t do that as we was in or out so I decided we was done… when I see them he always stares WHY 😊
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I really need some advice for this coming weekend. My ex and I had a really tumultuous relationship for 2 years and we are finally starting to get back on good terms. We've done a few activities together as friends that went well. He's coming on a trip to the coast (that I invited him to) on Saturday. It's a huge step and I'm honestly shocked he agreed to come. He seems to only want friendship, and I'm nervous about accidentally overstepping or messing something up this weekend. I can't afford to pay for official coaching right now 😢 my car recently broke down and I'm finishing college. But any advice would be appreciated
Should probably also mention this is a group/overnight trip with 6 people (all friends of mine)
Your channel is crimially under-rated.
After a very romantic, passionate, fun, connected year together, he said I was the most wonderful women he'd ever been with-- the most beautiful, the best chemistry, the most feeling he'd ever felt for anyone, the most special (and I sincerely believe him, because you can't fake the connection we had).... and then he said it was over between us. A month prior, he'd found someone to partner with for a business venture. She's everything I'm not-- and everything he said he never wanted-- bossy, controlling, non-feminine. I saw him at a social event for the first time in a few months. I was cool, cordial, and even a little indifferent because my heart was racing. He's still with her. He wanted that, not me.
I feel you..same situation happened with me..
Then ladies value yourselves. If hes found someone else thats a deal breaker he chose some else over you. Didnt want to stay. Game over. If i were you both you need to love yourself and not let him think you will always be there because no.
@@vEnUs.06Value yourself, dont contact and go about your life. If hes chosen someone else over you then value you and walk away. Its hard but you cant let him think you will always be there. Its like hell at times the sadness, thoughts but surely you should respect yourself.
This video is what I was looking for. My mans lost feelings for me last year n now we're back being friends. Then not sure what happened but he did call me special
I’m leaving this here because I am very hurt by my situation. I date this guy for 3 years. Then he broke up with me and we went into no contact. However he kept coming back reaching out to me. And finally got me to move back into his place and gave me a promise ring three weeks in he told me he didn’t have feelings for me. And that he know he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me. At the momment I am in the process of moving away. From him and this is the second time we are doing this. And I have gave up all hope that things between me and him are going to work out. I really do love him. And I can no longer believe that he’s coming back. I am deeply hurt. In reality I just want him back , I’ve never meet anyone like him. And will miss all the moments we had together. It is officially over.
I feel very sorry for your pain. Reading this, I understand that this is not your fault. I think he still loves you but he has buried his feelings. It sounds like your ex has a severe dismissive avoidant attachment style. Research this topic ad it will give you many answers to your situation. He has commitment phobia. This is more prevalent than ever on our society today unfortunately.
❤ thank you for your amazing videos and advice
This is very weak advice. If the person is not attracted anymore, they dont give a single shit if you change or if the issues will be fixed
can you please make a video if ex goes into rebound & then rebound breaks up with ex & now ex is heartbroken. this dynamic is not really talked about, its always when the ex breaks up with the new person. i’m also still blocked so not sure what to do.
Spot on...😊
Their feelings are gone, not they're
What
I don’t think they loved you of they supposedly just lost feelings
Excellent…thank you Clay!
All that I need right now
We live together and she is being mean to me but sometimes she is nice and her rebound is much older then me and he is the opposite of me but it feel like she is trying to hurt me and idk what to do
I hope you kicked her out by now.
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Hi clay, my ex finished with me 18 months ago after 6 years together and been with his new partner 16 months, he actually wanted us to stay friends but I couldn’t do that as we was in or out so I decided we was done… when I see them he always stares WHY 😊
You do nothing, move on
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They don't care