I Don't Care About A Woman's Body Count!

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 388

  • @winning3329
    @winning3329 9 місяців тому +309

    I regret every s3xual encounter with every man in my past.
    If i knew everything i knew now i would have remained a virgin.

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp 9 місяців тому +56

      Same I slept with 7 and regret all 7. They were all races my 7. However, men will be men. I’m celibate for almost two years now. Next person I sleep with is my husband.

    • @christopherm202dcfinest2
      @christopherm202dcfinest2 9 місяців тому +15

      @@Bri-nc8ypyou got passed around by the UN lol shyt crazy

    • @lillady1770
      @lillady1770 9 місяців тому +4

      Say it louder 😂😂

    • @LetGoStressFree
      @LetGoStressFree 9 місяців тому +51

      ​@@christopherm202dcfinest2Shaming tactics smh

    • @christopherm202dcfinest2
      @christopherm202dcfinest2 9 місяців тому +2

      @@LetGoStressFree how that’s shaming lol I love ho3s but it’s just the truth

  • @K_M.G
    @K_M.G 9 місяців тому +237

    Agreed. A man's body count matters to me. I'm not trying to marry a man who slept with a bunch of women. That is just gross and I do not understand how any man can find that to be a "flex." It's embarrassing for both men and women.

    • @Bb-jm6wx
      @Bb-jm6wx 9 місяців тому +1

      And it’s a cause of why women have so many infection issues. Men won’t get treated or go to drs , and there actually aren’t many treatments or even diagnosis tools for them either . So they reinfect their wife/gf with the same yeast/bacteria over and over again because they thought it was cute to catch bacteria from women they claim they don’t care about just to make their wife sick later .

    • @clarkkent2005
      @clarkkent2005 9 місяців тому

      It’s often seen as a flex because men actually have to work and self improve to get sex, let alone attention from women. Women don’t

    • @cl8wnm5n
      @cl8wnm5n 7 місяців тому +10

      BINGO

    • @AmynChe
      @AmynChe 6 місяців тому +1

      AMEN!!! It’s trashy and capable of bringing me disease and embarrassment as well.

  • @indiewest7200
    @indiewest7200 9 місяців тому +117

    Guys who sleep around seem irresponsible.

  • @3mi3mi
    @3mi3mi 9 місяців тому +293

    Things are so out of proportion in our culture. Women are shamed too much for their past sexual history (even if their count is low, or they were young at the time and are now celibate) and men aren’t shamed enough.

    • @zenobiathedream3103
      @zenobiathedream3103 9 місяців тому +18

      💯

    • @leaellas8400
      @leaellas8400 9 місяців тому +9

      Wholeheartedly agree!

    • @adaliantsiki
      @adaliantsiki 9 місяців тому +60

      Men are not shamed at all

    • @Raphaeltheslayer
      @Raphaeltheslayer 9 місяців тому +7

      @@adaliantsikiwe are our society people talk about it like the population of people don’t make up society because nobody shames men about it they don’t get shamed and that becomes the social norm be the change you want to see

    • @3mi3mi
      @3mi3mi 9 місяців тому +6

      @@adaliantsiki Sadly yes, it’s a man’s world.

  • @4Waridi
    @4Waridi 9 місяців тому +249

    The same people talking of body count, such as the passport bros, are traveling the world to engage in relations with women in other countries. The irony and hypocrisy is mind boggling. There is also the issue of them demeaning black women and using that to justify their travels. When does this madness end?

    • @Wonderwoman79G
      @Wonderwoman79G 9 місяців тому

      What is even worse is that the majority of these women are s%x workers- smh.Yet these same paossport bros shame BW for their body count.

    • @tessw9744
      @tessw9744 9 місяців тому +28

      And nothing changes for them because they are still THEM in another country. They take the same mindset with them.....and women in other countries know it and don't want it ether.

    • @4Waridi
      @4Waridi 9 місяців тому +4

      @@tessw9744 true

    • @18QueenHearts
      @18QueenHearts 9 місяців тому +9

      This right here!!!! It's like them shaming women for being single mothers as if they became single mothers without a man who most times decided to abandon them being an active and willing participant. When does it end?? All I know is that wise women are exhausted and choosing peace and I guess to be single because the madness and degeneracy is too much and even that they're trying to attack lol...Lord alone can help at this stage.

    • @Ms9mmBeretta
      @Ms9mmBeretta 9 місяців тому

      Literally stamping their passports to knock foreign chicks down overseas, acting like their intentions are purely to "find a wife." FOH

  • @Emptytopfloor
    @Emptytopfloor 9 місяців тому +129

    And when it’s time to settle, they look for a virgin…smh.

    • @Bb-jm6wx
      @Bb-jm6wx 9 місяців тому

      To infect her with everything they’ve been catching all along.

    • @SweetPhantom
      @SweetPhantom 9 місяців тому +30

      I know a man that did this!
      He actually broke her virginity, got her pregnant, tried to convince her to get an abortion, but due to her religious beliefs didn’t want to do it, so he decided to marry her.
      He refers to her as “ol girl” not his girlfriend/fiancé/wife, but “ol girl”!! When I asked him how he feels about being a husband and having a baby soon, he said “like another day. Better now then later”. Homie really doesn’t care about the woman he is with, he is using her because she was a virgin. He still parties, drink, smoke, stay out all night, etc. She is going to wake up one day and all hell is going to break loose.

    • @Emptytopfloor
      @Emptytopfloor 9 місяців тому

      @@SweetPhantom wish all women were born aware of this. Women’s naivety is their biggest weakness.

  • @bd10232003
    @bd10232003 9 місяців тому +129

    Folks don’t realize that when you can’t say no to something, you’re a slave to it. Sex is such a serious thing. It really should be treated as sacred and only between a man and his wife. The breakdown in society were seeing in real time has a lot to do with this. I have a very low body count, but I regret each and every one of them, including my ex-husband. He didn’t deserve to be married. I was young, immature, and we were unevenly yoked. When you are free from the slavery of immorality it’s a much better feeling.

    • @Sky-yh3ml
      @Sky-yh3ml 7 місяців тому +2

      Agree w most of this tbt, relationships are lifelong just not the same person ppl change jobs and partners all the time!

    • @bd10232003
      @bd10232003 7 місяців тому +8

      @@Sky-yh3ml Breakdowns in relationships do happen. That’s why we have to be emotionally mature before we even enter into one, (romantic relationships) and we have to be honest when our feelings begin to change.

    • @sha-tiahsampson3074
      @sha-tiahsampson3074 7 місяців тому +5

      Agreed I don’t have a lot of bodies either but I don’t even want nobody to touch me atp. They were undeserving

  • @charlesolivierdorcent
    @charlesolivierdorcent 9 місяців тому +141

    😂😂😂 The crazy standards modern society puts on men to sleep around, yet if I don’t live by those standards, I’m foolish? It most definitely does matter, this is exactly why I’m proud of myself REMAINING a virgin until I get married to my wife, and if I get judged for doing the right thing, so be it. 😊

    • @leaellas8400
      @leaellas8400 9 місяців тому +15

      That's wonderful 😊🥰😇🙏 Hopefully that self control will carry over in many aspects of your life, and decent women adorn men of decent caliber, integrity , and honor.

    • @leaellas8400
      @leaellas8400 9 місяців тому +3

      It will definitely come into play if you and future spouse decide to have a family! Recovery from pregnancy is essential for healing and wellbeing.

    • @charlesolivierdorcent
      @charlesolivierdorcent 9 місяців тому +27

      @@leaellas8400 Absolutely, even before I found this channel, I always thought differently about sex than other young men did. I looked at sex as something with an incredible amount of responsibility, and being careful with who I do it with. While some of my former friends had sex in middle school and high school, I stayed out of it simply because my gut instinct told me “Don’t do it, you don’t know what you getting into, save yourself”. Even to this day, people still laugh about me being a virgin, and I’m not ashamed of it at all.

    • @leaellas8400
      @leaellas8400 9 місяців тому

      @@charlesolivierdorcent They may laugh fist but you get the last laugh. They are dealing with the hidden or potential consequence of various issues, including but not limited to STDs, pregnancy scares or unplanned children, aborted/miscarried fetuses, secret heartache, disappointment, drama, unnecessary expenses that could go towards something more fruitful, etc. It's temporary gratification which yields ultimate consequences that are still detrimental in both short and long term cases, for both men and women.
      A sense of responsibility and integrity distinguishes a boy from a man.
      The path of least resistance is often a trap, especially for those who don't desire accountability.
      Double standards may exist to appease men, but what appears as a benefit now will ultimately be a curse of future generations and haunt during old age. Men bear the burden of being leaders of households (family) and their wives during their adult and marriage, so they ought to act accordingly by leading by example 😊. You are not owed anything from anyone (especially not a woman), but you are doing exactly what you ought to according to God's design, so may you maintain your strength/shield and your blessings multiply with time, 🙏😇🥰🌻✨

    • @jarrodgoforth1257
      @jarrodgoforth1257 9 місяців тому +17

      Don’t let anyone shame you man it’s your life and how you live it

  • @arleneaugustahair8393
    @arleneaugustahair8393 9 місяців тому +80

    Yes it matters because it means you’re not disciplined. It doesn’t matter the gender. I don’t even like everybody and anybody. That’s just way too much touching.

    • @yourstruly1984
      @yourstruly1984 9 місяців тому +11

      Yes... this!!
      The idea of a whole bunch of ppl private area bumping against mine is just ridiculous🤮 I can't do it !

    • @cakesinthecity
      @cakesinthecity 7 місяців тому +2

      For real 😂

  • @BWynn-eb8qn
    @BWynn-eb8qn 9 місяців тому +94

    He's lying about over 100.... sorry.

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 9 місяців тому +13

      Definitely a drunk answer 😂

    • @johnconelly9139
      @johnconelly9139 9 місяців тому +5

      100 mammoths and brontosaurus

  • @Mariamk1995
    @Mariamk1995 9 місяців тому +96

    Thank you for always calling out men and speaking against the double standards. I actually just posted a video yesterday about reasons for waiting till marriage and shouted you out (as well as a couple of other brothers) and referred to you all as real men because y’all love your wives, children, and your communities. I hope more people will pursue abstinence. Your voice is really important in this hookup culture . Men like y’all are changing people’s lives for the better - I know these videos are aimed at growing men, but women (especially some of us who don’t have positive male role models in our own lives) benefit a lot from these messages. I thank God for channels like this.

    • @babyg7796
      @babyg7796 9 місяців тому +4

      I’m currently in my second abstinent journey after a 5 year monogamous(only on my part) relationship. It’s been 4 months. Last abstinent journey was 1.5years. It’s sooo much more peaceful & clear.

    • @moneyman8777
      @moneyman8777 5 місяців тому

      what double standards do you speak out against that women have? I already know the answer lol

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 9 місяців тому +89

    I’m disgusted. Men body count matter as well. I don’t want to be with no man that been with a whole lot of women. Then he’s a liar. He look drunk in the video lord help him.

    • @realtalk6720
      @realtalk6720 7 місяців тому +1

      Would you marry a virgin man, most women won't. However on the flip side most men would do anything to marry a virgin woman. 🤷‍♀️

    • @yhiontop
      @yhiontop 5 місяців тому

      why won't a woman marry a virgin man? Who told you that most wont? Men?@@realtalk6720

    • @Pomagranite167
      @Pomagranite167 3 місяці тому

      Lol @realtalk6720 HOES dont wanna marry virgin men. HOES. Traditional, good, faithful, loyal virgin women? They want to marry a man of the same caliber. You don't wanna share a good woman? A good woman don't wanna share a good man 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ a lot of men would do anything to MARRY a virgin. But that dont mean they wanna make her happy or be faithful to her. Don't mean shit.
      Good women are not looking to be with a man who has no self discipline when she saved the best parts of herself for her husband. Get a grip.
      Women who sleep around want a man who has been around.
      Find god.

  • @WWJD-MIA
    @WWJD-MIA 9 місяців тому +57

    It’s the “Get your hand off of me!” for me 😂😂😂 but I agree….you can tell he has absolutely no shame on who he sleeps with either…I mean no shame.

  • @nellywilliams2776
    @nellywilliams2776 9 місяців тому +69

    That’s over 100 soul ties 😷😷😷😱😱😱🙅🏿‍♀️🙅🏿‍♀️🙅🏿‍♀️🙅🏿‍♀️

    • @adaliantsiki
      @adaliantsiki 9 місяців тому +11

      There is no way he has no STDs and STIs

    • @VixxKong2
      @VixxKong2 9 місяців тому +3

      ​@@adaliantsiki
      If he used protection all the time then he's very possibly clean

    • @adaliantsiki
      @adaliantsiki 9 місяців тому +1

      @@VixxKong2 you can still contract STDs and STIs using condoms through skin contact on the genitalia area and oral sex, some like HPV can remain undetectable for years before symptoms show up. The only 100% protection against STDs and STIs is abstinence

    • @leaellas8400
      @leaellas8400 9 місяців тому +1

      ​​@@VixxKong2There are viruses that don't care about condoms. HPV & herpes are two such ones. Skin or other membranes are sufficient for transfer. And worse if he did oral; let's be real ... maybe less than 5% of sexually active people - whether or not they use condoms - are using a dental-dam ("oral-comdom") because they don't think they have to use a condom unless it's penetrative intercourse or they don't care to know these options exist.
      And males are the carriers of HPV virus due to the design of their anatomy, especially when not circumcized.

    • @ariaryayy7314
      @ariaryayy7314 9 місяців тому +1

      @@VixxKong2not likely. Condoms don’t protect against every infection. herpes, genital warts, syphilis and mpox aren’t protected against condoms.

  • @vanaphill2454
    @vanaphill2454 9 місяців тому +27

    High body counts mean infidelity.

    • @sha-tiahsampson3074
      @sha-tiahsampson3074 7 місяців тому +8

      So true , what you practice in single hood you carry into relationships

    • @lmn1516
      @lmn1516 2 місяці тому +2

      Or coercion

  • @shaep5599
    @shaep5599 9 місяців тому +24

    See this why I’m single 😭 whole generation has lost the plot

    • @90ejb
      @90ejb 6 місяців тому +2

      I agree. Dating and marriage seems so miserable. Especially the people talking about it.

  • @jackeebabi5074
    @jackeebabi5074 9 місяців тому +19

    It matters to me but not in the basic way most people think. If a man has a large body count it tells me he doesn't value having a connection with others. They are just a number to him. Men like that don't turn down nothing but their collar, they will sleep with ANYONE AT ANYTIME IF THEY GET THE OPPERTUNITY.

  • @eve3363
    @eve3363 9 місяців тому +46

    The only people who don't care about body count are those who has had a lot of sex with a lot of partners. If you are 28+ years old and had less than 5 sexual partners, why would you want someone of that same age range who has had 10+ sexual partners? People think that everyone is living a wild, sex filled life in their teens and 20s but that is not the case at all. There are quite a few men and women who choose to reserve their bodies for future spouses or people who they truly have an emotional connection with.

    • @Bb-jm6wx
      @Bb-jm6wx 9 місяців тому +2

      5-10 are similar numbers. The person at 5 is a few breakups, ghostings, away from being number 10. Cause if that relates doesn’t work out, she’s at 6 which rounds to 10 anyway and if that isn’t her soulmate she’s at 7 unless she gives up sex forever . Let’s tell the truth because in reality people are closer 50-100+. One girl said she had 2000.

    • @kuraikoitoe
      @kuraikoitoe 8 місяців тому +6

      There is no reserving anything for anyone when it is brutally taken from you by people that don't care. For a lot of people it is not a choice.

    • @eve3363
      @eve3363 8 місяців тому +4

      ​@@kuraikoitoeHow are you comparing sexual assault to someone voluntarily having sex?

    • @kuraikoitoe
      @kuraikoitoe 8 місяців тому

      @@eve3363 i am not. I am saying that not everyone has a bodycount that they chose and not everyone has the choice to wait until marriage. Still people are quick to judge. Bodycount and sleeping around are not the same.

    • @eve3363
      @eve3363 8 місяців тому +1

      @@kuraikoitoe Your comment does not relate anything impure talking about or the video is talking about. No one is discussing people who have been sexually abused so you need to stop with your New Age, demonic thinking.

  • @charmaineespeut4627
    @charmaineespeut4627 9 місяців тому +25

    People with high body counts must be real friendly. How can they connect to so many people in that way?

    • @Bb-jm6wx
      @Bb-jm6wx 9 місяців тому

      Connect? They aren’t doing any connecting lol girls give it up easy. Men told me all they have to do is be alone with most women and they will give it up immediately.

    • @mablem.9094
      @mablem.9094 9 місяців тому +1

      Clubs, strip clubs, and orgies

    • @djidjine5082
      @djidjine5082 8 місяців тому +13

      They don’t connect with them lol.

    • @cakesinthecity
      @cakesinthecity 7 місяців тому +10

      Alcohol and drugs

    • @mablem.9094
      @mablem.9094 7 місяців тому +7

      @@djidjine5082 People with high body counts doesn’t connect with anyone, to say the least.

  • @ForbsieLaLa
    @ForbsieLaLa 9 місяців тому +18

    There is nothing casual about sex, and we need to stop fooling ourselves. I knew I was not going to wait until marriage t have sex, because, I always knew that there was the likelihood that I would not marry, and even if I did I did want that awkward first night to be the beginning of what should be forever, but never was I interested in sex just to "scratch the itch" as the term says.

  • @Key-Key444
    @Key-Key444 9 місяців тому +12

    In our community, women are held to way too high standards and the men are held to way too low standards. Balance is God plz.

  • @TiffanyRayneOfficial
    @TiffanyRayneOfficial 9 місяців тому +51

    All this talk about body count, and no one talks about sexual health at all, and protecting yourself if you intend to do that. Yet the STI/STD rates are the highest in our community. Especially among black women. Everyone isn't necessarily sleeping around either. There are married women, men too, whom spouses were out there cheating and brought them something back. Aside from the spiritual soul ties, it's the dangers of the reckless behavior that scares me. Because all it takes is one person to mess it up for you.

    • @yourstruly1984
      @yourstruly1984 9 місяців тому +5

      Exactly 💯

    • @Bb-jm6wx
      @Bb-jm6wx 9 місяців тому +7

      The sad part is because stds aren’t why they care about body count. That’s when I realized they had ulterior motives. No stds are fine with them, they just don’t want the sexual competition

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 9 місяців тому +50

    I’m gone write a list when I get home, “The devils playground” and I’m gone write down the names of people and places where I need to stay away from! I have 3 bodies and I’m embarrassed and don’t want anymore until my husband honestly

    • @MR-cr7yc
      @MR-cr7yc 9 місяців тому +12

      I found my people! 4 and So embarrassed 😣 If I knew what I know now!

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 9 місяців тому +7

      @@MR-cr7ycI feel you!

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp 9 місяців тому +10

      I have 7 and regret them all.

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Bri-nc8ypyou live & you learn 🩷

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved 9 місяців тому +12

      Me too. I have only one and he was my high school sweetheart. We broke up almost two years ago. And awaiting marriage this time around. Why would I want a promiscuous man who likely won't be satisfied with anything? That's like mixing clean laundry with dirty laundry

  • @brookebenton8192
    @brookebenton8192 6 місяців тому +6

    If you love the person, body count won't matter. It's also none of anyone's business when first meeting.

  • @kamillabingham7718
    @kamillabingham7718 9 місяців тому +11

    It does matter and goes both ways; for women and men

  • @amartisrty
    @amartisrty 9 місяців тому +18

    Mannn I always love when you back your videos up with scripture 🙌🏽 praying that God continue to bless you & your channel! Keep going up for Jesus! I pray that more young people like myself run across your videos because we need the truth to set us free🗣️🙏🏽

  • @AlexaGoldSoul
    @AlexaGoldSoul 8 місяців тому +6

    This conversation is so exhausting 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @SadD3adGirl
    @SadD3adGirl 9 місяців тому +30

    Crazy how so many males have slept with so many women and it seems to not matter most of them women that are terrible at fishing for men start out real young no experience and proper guidence

  • @PrimeNPC
    @PrimeNPC 9 місяців тому +7

    First guy is chuffed about having 100+ body count but has likely never experienced true love, a strong connection and a long lasting, trusting relationship. Rich with no wealth

  • @nicholetaimi5331
    @nicholetaimi5331 9 місяців тому +35

    Not if she is a preference. Self-hate is real. What is required from his own women is not required of his preference.

    • @VixxKong2
      @VixxKong2 9 місяців тому +2

      These same men would get in Kim Kardashian's panties if they had access to her, but they'd shame an ordinary woman for having 3 ex-boyfriends

    • @justinebailey5333
      @justinebailey5333 9 місяців тому +5

      That part

  • @arewahaircaretv8718
    @arewahaircaretv8718 7 місяців тому +8

    Everyone deserves grace when they realize their mistake. God is most forgiving.❤

  • @conniemcmillian7010
    @conniemcmillian7010 9 місяців тому +11

    My God. People need to wake up. ⏰️

  • @vanaphill2454
    @vanaphill2454 9 місяців тому +8

    How can men pair bond with high body counts?

  • @WarriorPrincess615
    @WarriorPrincess615 9 місяців тому +16

    I don't have a high body count but I never really cared about anyone else's because we all have a past. Plus I'm older so the longer you live, I expect a man's number to be higher. PLUS just because we're dating doesn't mean I'm having sex with you. You may have 100, doesn't mean I'm about to be 101. But that was an interesting point about them being more likely to cheat. I may reconsider my stance lol

    • @RahYisrael99
      @RahYisrael99 7 місяців тому +4

      And the spiritual residue left behind from all the bad spirits will transfer to you.

  • @Seen_not_heard
    @Seen_not_heard 9 місяців тому +6

    "Conquered" is a crazy word to use for "slept with".

  • @Phoenixishot
    @Phoenixishot 9 місяців тому +6

    Did he said over 100??? WTF.
    A regular woman is not even close to a fraction of that.

  • @izdirty9117
    @izdirty9117 9 місяців тому +9

    Only niggas that care about the body count ain’t in the count..💎

    • @leaellas8400
      @leaellas8400 9 місяців тому +2

      Keep lying to yourself. Men who care are also in the count because of their double-minded view on women's standards.
      Men ought to practice the standards they expect in a partner, but that's the ideal, not the reality.

  • @BrianThaLion99
    @BrianThaLion99 6 місяців тому +3

    The pandering is off the charts. Ladies don't let men like this set you up for failure. MOST men care about bodycount. Run it up if you want.

  • @ec6621
    @ec6621 9 місяців тому +45

    This whole body count conversation that is being had online is sooo bad for relationships. Pitting women & men against each other. It's *_inherently adversarial_* . And then people wonder why dating is so difficult.

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 9 місяців тому +9

      Dating is difficult due to the fact majority of everybody doing everything backwards! It has nothing to do with body counts. But that’s just another thing that’s terrible

    • @ec6621
      @ec6621 9 місяців тому +11

      @@hellothere8347 yeah, the body count rhetoric is a symptom of an dysfunctional dating perspective

    • @K_M.G
      @K_M.G 9 місяців тому +12

      Dating is difficult because people today think it's okay to sleep with everyone. That is why he is covering this video. Body count matters for long term relationships. The stats even shows that relationships are much more successful between partners who have lower body counts.

    • @ec6621
      @ec6621 9 місяців тому +3

      @@K_M.G my issue with body count rhetoric is the slut shaming of women. Further the ho heartening of men. That's what is so *_inherently adversarial_* . But merely asking about one's sexual history isn't the problem. The problem is the snap judgment and write off of an individuals character and values. While statistics may say that (for both men & women), a _group_ will have higher or lower chances of success in relationships, it doesn't mean the _individual_ will have those same chances. The snap write off of an individuals character is itself something that could be judged.

    • @BrothaJohn-br2hd
      @BrothaJohn-br2hd 3 місяці тому

      Well its hard for men to find low bodycount women

  • @keahharrison4765
    @keahharrison4765 8 місяців тому +3

    I went to high school with the guy doing the interview (host) real cool guy very down to earth. I’m glad to see him doing something productive

  • @babyg7796
    @babyg7796 9 місяців тому +15

    I don’t care about body count. Yes it shows you lack sexual discipline BUT if you’ve changed, and started treating your body like a temple & recommitted yourself to a higher power then we can move forward. And without saying…you NEED to have a clean bill of health-PERIOD!! Like he said, I don’t care who came before, I’m the the next(and hopefully the last). I have no desire to know intricate details of your past sexcapades & please don’t ask me about mine b/c some of those men are major mistakes I wish I could take back.

    • @Bb-jm6wx
      @Bb-jm6wx 9 місяців тому +3

      Men can’t get tested for everything yet can still give it to a woman, so a “clean bill” means absolutely nothing for a man. For example yeast, bv, hpv are all infections men can give but can’t really be tested for .

  • @kandytomlinson9707
    @kandytomlinson9707 9 місяців тому +3

    ALL PRAISES TO THE MOST HIGH POWER YAH!!!! Great balanced video!!!! I love that ur doing the will of The MOST HIGH POWER YAH my he bless u & ur family!!!

  • @ChavisGreenard
    @ChavisGreenard 9 місяців тому +4

    Straight up facts, brother in Christ!
    Happy birthday to your son!

  • @trisha1989
    @trisha1989 9 місяців тому +17

    It doesn’t matter because people don’t tell the truth or don’t even really know the actual numbers! Real Talk

    • @K_M.G
      @K_M.G 9 місяців тому +6

      The marriage statistics disagrees with you.

    • @trisha1989
      @trisha1989 9 місяців тому +9

      @@K_M.G please tell me about what the marriage statistics are saying about men and women lying about body counts. Did you see how quickly the young man who was drunk af but was able to change from 100-50 sexual interactions without hesitation ? He switched because he wanted her to be the next conquest! That’s why STD/STI rates are high….too many lies!

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved 9 місяців тому

      People with a lot don't tell the truth. Virgins and people who can count how many people they've slept with on one hand will tell the truth. People lie because they are ashamed and know it's wrong.

    • @raecoleman-wf2cp
      @raecoleman-wf2cp 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@K_M.Gplease 🙄 I JUST left a dude over a year ago because he tried to keep his MARRIAGE a secret from me. Now he's dating another woman IN MY APARTMENT BUILDING., and he's not even from my City, let alone my building 😂 he ALSO slept with 2 of my friends, too. That man ain't SHIT.

    • @K_M.G
      @K_M.G 8 місяців тому +1

      @raecoleman-wf2cp What does that have to do with my comment? The marriage statistic shows that couples with a high body count are far more likely to divorce. Those are facts.

  • @monaealiyah
    @monaealiyah 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this perspective!

  • @LarennPBel
    @LarennPBel 9 місяців тому +15

    NO PAIR BONDING I GUESS

    • @PrimeNPC
      @PrimeNPC 9 місяців тому

      "What's bonding?"

  • @dorashelton1615
    @dorashelton1615 9 місяців тому +11

    He's A LIARS TOO.

  • @zenobiathedream3103
    @zenobiathedream3103 9 місяців тому +5

    This was gold!!!😂❤

  • @LoveAngel333
    @LoveAngel333 9 місяців тому +6

    Congratulations on 100,000 subscribers ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @gloriamathews6452
    @gloriamathews6452 9 місяців тому +3

    Well done, keep up the great work.❤❤

  • @truthisinfinite8
    @truthisinfinite8 2 місяці тому

    Great message here 👑 Just subbed!

  • @Thats_Sew_Shy
    @Thats_Sew_Shy 9 місяців тому +2

    LMAO when she said "Get your hand off of me" like damn

  • @VettaBoop
    @VettaBoop 7 місяців тому +3

    This whole interview was hilarious 😂

  • @MissJennifer8
    @MissJennifer8 9 місяців тому +10

    It only matters if it shows up in your character, responsibilities, empathy, and trauma (from a person's past). For a person's current, it does matter because you can't respect anybody, if you don't care about yourself.

  • @3DSuccess
    @3DSuccess Місяць тому

    Anddddd he sounds completely intoxicated while sharing this👀

  • @_.S.O.J._
    @_.S.O.J._ 9 місяців тому

    You didn’t lie one bit💯

  • @mgh174
    @mgh174 9 місяців тому +14

    I would not be interested in a man with that much sex history… no thanks… honestly it’s actually impressive when I met men that have never had sex outside of his race… even though I’ve been with men that have had this.

  • @MrsBrittanyGold
    @MrsBrittanyGold 8 місяців тому +3

    Love this conversation. I think it’s less of an addiction more so lack of love or self love from their upbringing. It takes fully loving yourself and being selective for your benefit. So I agree. Great video.

  • @survivorship4290
    @survivorship4290 9 місяців тому +3

    Amen...Amen...💕💕

  • @PrimeNPC
    @PrimeNPC 9 місяців тому +8

    This whole interview is wild man, it's like a perfectly acted comedy skit, just punchline after punchline. Someone needs to start overlaying these types of videos with audience laughter every time they drop a line

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 11 днів тому

    Sure it matters. It speaks to peoples character and morals.

  • @cookee888
    @cookee888 9 місяців тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is gold!!!!!

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq 9 місяців тому +6

    Thy Art loosed

  • @goddesst5405
    @goddesst5405 9 місяців тому +2

    Alcohol is a truth serum.

  • @abramlittle7102
    @abramlittle7102 6 місяців тому

    It matters

  • @itmebby
    @itmebby 14 днів тому

    1 Corinthians 6 … I feel that

  • @NGCoco
    @NGCoco 9 місяців тому +4

    He’s just looking for clout. He ain’t serious.

  • @3DSuccess
    @3DSuccess Місяць тому

    Wow. I did not know she was married.

  • @DivinePurpose838
    @DivinePurpose838 3 місяці тому +1

    30 year old female with a 5 body count. I was told my a few man that they were turned off by that because I didnt have supposely alot of sexual experience when these men I was in long term relationships. I guess everyone is different and has different preverances

    • @haahmayan9637
      @haahmayan9637 2 місяці тому

      He’s a fool he should’ve been grateful you could pair bond sexually with him what an absolute idiot 😂 don’t be ashamed by that you still have experience that’s a blessing to move differently now

  • @charmaineespeut4627
    @charmaineespeut4627 9 місяців тому +1

    I'm so glad I'm married

  • @GHO5tMod3
    @GHO5tMod3 8 місяців тому +3

    People can have spirit spouses and sex demons because of that

  • @arbitrarylib
    @arbitrarylib 9 місяців тому +2

    If someone loves you it doesn't matter if you had 0 or 100.

  • @anonymixx8106
    @anonymixx8106 9 місяців тому +8

    Plus I'm not saying this is the case for everyone, but some of us have a high body count due to early sexual abuse that influenced our choices until maturation. I'm DUMB picky now but HS/early 20s? Phew

    • @Bb-jm6wx
      @Bb-jm6wx 9 місяців тому +1

      70% of bw were abused, what you chose to do is your choice. Take accountability. That “phew” is really gross

  • @tplouis
    @tplouis 7 місяців тому +1

    It’s funny because I’m a firm believer that women set the tone in relationships and interactions. I’m happy she did that.
    S.n: the interviewer walking about interviewing drunk college kids is so predatory to me.

  • @alegnarolyart5133
    @alegnarolyart5133 6 місяців тому +1

    He really sounds intoxicated.

  • @sonderexpeditions
    @sonderexpeditions 2 місяці тому +1

    This is hilarious. A dude last year told me his number and I intantly lost interest.

  • @deemb5284
    @deemb5284 9 місяців тому

    Lessons

  • @r.walker7986
    @r.walker7986 9 місяців тому +44

    The whole conversation is a shaming tactic to keep women from gaining "experience" and figuring out what they like and don't like so when these guys who have been undesirables most of their life finally make enough money to buy a woman's attention, she will not(at least they think this is how it works...) be able to discern whether or not they are any good sexually or that they will be able to define pleasure for her around their capabilities. Its flawed logic...

    • @FightsRightsAlways
      @FightsRightsAlways 9 місяців тому +7

      Lol ALL OF THIS👏👏👏👏👏

    • @VixxKong2
      @VixxKong2 9 місяців тому +6

      I didn't think about all that. You're thinking 20 steps ahead 👀

    • @K_M.G
      @K_M.G 9 місяців тому +2

      You sound like one of those 1000 body count girls trying to justify being a thot. 🤣

    • @kayjeffs3741
      @kayjeffs3741 9 місяців тому +12

      Exactly! I've been saying this on a lot of posts...its about sexual competition...they don't want the woman to have possibly already experienced better than them...

    • @Ivan-xk4uy
      @Ivan-xk4uy 9 місяців тому +17

      I don’t think you need experience sexually either a man or woman to know what a healthy happy and kind relationship looks like. Sex outside of marriage is only for pleasure not for building connection and pleasure. Having sex with people you’re not a n a committed relationship with can lead to much pain and unnecessary suffering and stress, if you have a tendency to bond correctly with people. It’s a reason why majority of women fall for men they have sex with, and contrary to popular belief many Men also fall in love with sex it’s just not talked about because it makes Men seem “weak”.

  • @TheLeslieMichelle
    @TheLeslieMichelle 9 місяців тому +2

    Wow...just wow! Whatever happened to being selective?

  • @NaturalzSoul
    @NaturalzSoul 2 місяці тому

    A woman's past is her past. It has nothing to do with a new man or relationship.

  • @liz2044
    @liz2044 8 місяців тому

    Unberleaveable . Loose.
    😳👍😇🙏

  • @samantharcregan23
    @samantharcregan23 7 місяців тому

    Is it possible do you think to have a lasting positive relationship with somebody. If you have a past like that and have changed?

    • @90ejb
      @90ejb 6 місяців тому +3

      Yes. Trust in God and devote your mind and body to Him. He is the only one who can make you pure. Promiscuous/fornication is a major sin and we all know that. Jesus is the forgiver of all things if we come to Him. Don't let them guilt you into thinking you'll never be worthy of love. The truth is none of us are worthy. And Jesus Christ first loved us. 🙏🏾

  • @3DSuccess
    @3DSuccess Місяць тому

    So many double standards

  • @moniquem1873
    @moniquem1873 9 місяців тому

    ❤❤

  • @ognana23
    @ognana23 9 місяців тому

    The game he gave is son is common sense but you know common sense ain’t common ..

  • @mirandarebecca3646
    @mirandarebecca3646 9 місяців тому +19

    I don’t know. I had sex for the first time when I was 36. I went through college and have a career now and know who I am. I had some fun after that because I enjoyed sex with different men and even tried a woman. This is how I found my long term commitment I have now. We have been together for eight years now. Neither of us had sex with anyone else once we clicked and enjoyed each other. I agree you must use condoms.

  • @michaeljohnsonsr.8034
    @michaeljohnsonsr.8034 8 місяців тому +4

    Truth be told we all been passed around people are barely sexually pure nowdays if we all waited like the Bible says we wouldn’t have to worry about being someone’s placeholder someone’s backup plan someone’s rebound

  • @catharsismemory
    @catharsismemory 5 місяців тому +1

    I've only been with 2 guys, first guy we never went all the way but my husband is th one I lost my virginity to.

  • @DeematheFashionDesigner
    @DeematheFashionDesigner 9 місяців тому +5

    Don’t forget, you can’t have a high body count just maybe “1 or 2” for “experience” nobody likes clean virgins 😩

    • @K_M.G
      @K_M.G 9 місяців тому +7

      A lot of men like virgins though. I was a virgin when I first met my fiancé. It really just depends on the guy.

    • @DeematheFashionDesigner
      @DeematheFashionDesigner 9 місяців тому

      @@K_M.G yeah it’s hard out here.

    • @leaellas8400
      @leaellas8400 9 місяців тому +12

      ​@@K_M.G Men who "like virgins" should be virgins themselves. Any other way, and he is also a part of the problem.

    • @DeematheFashionDesigner
      @DeematheFashionDesigner 9 місяців тому +3

      @@leaellas8400 I think that is a 0.02 % of the population. It sucks that we are frowned upon!

    • @dennisg7709
      @dennisg7709 9 місяців тому

      Most women hate vigin men...

  • @vellman1128
    @vellman1128 7 місяців тому +1

    He's Blacky Chan the Sluring Drunken master of fornication 😂😂😂

  • @Mary-rp2re
    @Mary-rp2re 9 місяців тому +4

    As someone who’s waiting till marriage, men who aren’t doing the same are not an option, Allah swt doesn’t have double standards on this

    • @Kareena1988
      @Kareena1988 9 місяців тому +1

      As if they would tell you the truth

  • @kiranholt3296
    @kiranholt3296 5 місяців тому

    Women must respect our bodies and be very protective of our mental and physical health bc we do not want to be a walking mentally ill zombie and be a laboratory of stds.
    1 Corinthians 6:18.
    First and foremost God told us the proper use of our bodies.
    Romams 12:1

  • @mariebray5941
    @mariebray5941 7 місяців тому +1

    Sexually Immoral, point blank

  • @Nel164
    @Nel164 8 місяців тому +1

    It kinda gives sexual deviant but at the same time I actually don’t believe he was able to pull that many women. I especially don’t believe that if he was actually able to get that many women that all those experiences were consensual. Idk though thankfully I don’t get together with men like this

  • @briannaje5419
    @briannaje5419 9 місяців тому +1

    I pray he finds Jesus because…😳 🆘

  • @Yamalie
    @Yamalie Місяць тому

    this topic is getting severely old if I see one more video of any person that looks older than 25 doing interviews(past collage age) and asking annoying degenerate brain rot questions that is just sensationalized I’m blocking and deleting their content. These street interview just like podcast bro need to be fine $5k fee for public nuisance. Microphone and cam equipment need to me $3k a piece; it’s to accessible to these men that have nothing to tech, nothing to educate the public but spread at propaganda that keep the controversy speeding along.

  • @shellbeeforreal3915
    @shellbeeforreal3915 9 місяців тому +3

    Body count imo depends on several factors to be completely honest

  • @AnalysisAaron
    @AnalysisAaron 2 місяці тому

    No matter where Jesus finds you just start walking with him and you will be saved

  • @DerekScheel
    @DerekScheel 2 місяці тому

    All ima say is spiritually…that means you’ve had sex with all of those other ppl he or had as well. And you will take a piece of all those people with you. And people wonder why they are depressed, mental health crazy, and everything else. To me it almost feels disgusting. It’s scary. Folks say thats judgement but idc it’s gross.

  • @user-sl7ki4ip7v
    @user-sl7ki4ip7v 11 днів тому

    First off I think he’s lying about the 100 bodies. Average men don’t get laid as often as women think. Second the more bodies a woman has the bigger the chance she will leave. Not because she’s evil but she can no longer parabond and also probably has a lot of childhood drama. It’s known that promiscuous women have had some form of SA when they were younger (NOT ALL) but a lot. And also daddy issues. But I think it’s normal for men that have more bodies. If he’s attractive I already know he’s been around. It’s just different for men and women ..