Woman Ruins The First Date Because She's Too Beautiful For The Cheesecake Factory
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I TRULY appreciate you for pointing out that this is NOT a black woman thing. A lot of us Black woman do not condone this behavior or character.
True dat!❤
Yes I agree, she was ridiculous. Cheese cake factory on smack, accept for the fish and chips it has no seasoning. Other then that it’s real good, then macaroni balls 😜
Amen
Indeed. I like how the brother comes. Now on this issue, my issue with this more than anything is that if this is real, she has the unmitigated audacity to be recording someone for this without his consent? That is so disrespectful to him as a person and just a total disregard of his boundaries.
I wouldn’t have blamed the man if he would have kept it cool, let them get in a fancy restaurant, and smooth ask her if she had enough money to Uber her ride back home because with that foolishness, I definitely wouldn’t blame him for not ordering her even a side salad and for not having her in his car for even her way back home. Video that, Homegirl! 🙌🏾
Hey, it would still be nice for him to leave the amount for her ride home just in case she didn’t have it. Nothing else after that though. Blocked and lesson about who she is learned!
@@oceanlover2426 I agree and I’m glad that you pointed of the aspect of this even being real. I’m starting to believe that some of these “incidents” are staged to cause further division.
I'm glad that she recorded it so people can see how awful she was. No matter how pretty she thinks she is, entitlement is ugly.
More importantly, she can see how awful she is. Finger cross.
facts
It's a skit
she's a 6. at best. with makeup and hair done.
@@Megan6772 a 6? You are being too kind, I give her a 4 ... she looks cheap, like she just got off a street corner!!
This is the type of guy that’s looking to court and find a wife. She screwed this up in the worst way and made herself look super corny in the process. 🤦🏾♀️
She was just there to use him for a free meal she didn’t like him anyway
She did him a favor everybody about it to be in his dms
@@asiamwithraenetteleepodcast for real ! us women would love to find a nice guy with manners like that!
She's for the streets!
@@humbleheart2650 That is so right.
Cheesecake Factory is not cheap. He had reservations at a certain time. She was an hour late which made him miss the reservation so he took her to Cheesecake. Had she respected the time he made the reservation for, she would be eating at a 5 star restaurant like she originally wanted. He seems to be a nice man who really did like her and wanted to do something nice for her but she was very disrespectful the whole time to him.
At least he sees her true self and can take a pass
Exactly
A lot of women feel entitlement from her useful days of their father doing whatever it took to feed their mothers ego let alone the daughters appetite for entitlement
NOT Cheap at all, a piece of cheesecake is like $11.00 w/o tax🤦🏾♀️, but it be so good 😋😆
The “poison pill” he gave her when she was acting out over TCF, “I had a reservation for Aria, but you blew it”
Honestly I don’t believe she wanted to go out with him in the first place. She wanted the meal and it wasn’t what she expected. Look at the dynamic!
I agree 👍🏽
I thought the very same‼️
Agreed!
💯you can tell by her interaction with him
That's not always true!
I've gone out on several dinner dates where I was actually interested in the men but when they opened their big mouths, I got immediately turned off and some accused me of only wanting a free meal when that was not true.
We don't know the whole story because these are clips?
Her behavior is despicable.
I love the Cheesecake Factory!! Her character is disgusting! 😒 he seems sweet. Glad she’s exposing herself to the world how nasty she is. It’s ok to have expectations but she didn’t have to record it.
This man should have taken her home after he saw her recording him.
Her expectations went out the window when she had this man waiting a whole hour. She should have been happy he still took her out.
Like you said her character was terrible
@@donnamcintosh2109 this video seems staged to me. Something about it is off. It’s like at some parts it looks like acting or they know what they’re about to say. Especially that moment when he got out of the care. This video was very strange to me.
Nothing wrong with Cheesecake Factory. Be happy for someone kindness go take you out!!
@@Quinn_M97 If you watch the entire video it’s definitely not fake she’s just a whole weirdo
It's unfortunate she made herself an arrogant princess in her own mind. If she got banned from the cheesecake factory, she should just say it lol😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Great point. I think u are the first person to bring that up
That's what it's giving tbh lmao I'm done!
As a woman I love the cheescake factory definitely not cheap!
Yes it is cheap. Stop lying. You’re pandering to dusty guys that can only afford Cheesecake Factory at the highest. There are different types of ppl that can afford and are used to different types of things, and it’s OKAY!! I live in NYC and it’s in your face. I can be on the train with a homeless person, a working class person, a middle class, and a 1% percent earning person. If a super model or an incredibly successful business executive woman walks into the same train on the next stop and all of those guys from the class/money background I just mentioned are attracted to these high caliber women….the homeless, the working class man, and even the middle class dude knows to stay in his lane and not even try. That’s life.
Buuuut the one great thing about America is that if you work hard and smart you can always upgrade your situation and get better. So a lot of guys on here know they want the best on a budget or for free. That’s not gonna happen. Also, why would these women be interested in you? You can’t hang. While all of her friends and family are traveling to Venice, Italy and then to Marbella, Spain in 5 days to celebrate her birthday…these broke or regular guys cannot even afford to buy a one way trip plane ticket FOR THEMSELVES, let alone a ticket for her. They are just going to continually embarrass themselves dating high caliber women. The women that are chiming in to say, “I’m fine with a Cheesecake Factory date.” Okay, that’s great!! And that’s YOU!! You’re clearly not on the same page as those other girls/women. That also means that guys like the Cheesecake Factory guy doesn’t want a girl like you. Do you think he doesn’t know that down to earth regular girls like you that exist? He does. He wants more. If I were you, I would be grateful for stories like this so you cannot date a guy like this. A guy like this won’t listen to you, will cheat or leave you as soon as he levels up, is manipulative, and will disrespect you because he wants the best for his ego and appearances. Are you that desperate enough to announce that you’re available for an asshole that knew he couldn’t have this girl but most likely tried to “wear her down” and convince her that a chain restaurant is what she should have because that’s what he can afford….that dude is showing all women that he’s no good, and never wanted a regular girl that he probably is best suited for 😂. Now you know who this asshole is. Don’t date him. He is literally showing you who he is by crying that he couldn’t manipulate a girl into staying with him. 🤣🤣
I miss their apple Dutch cheese cake 😂
I was about to say. That place is not cheap lmao
It is definitely not me and my mom used to go every week for lunch because I love their beet salad 🥗 and mom loves the pasta 🍝 but we have ran up a tab in there before a few times
this was challenging to watch cause no one’s son should be treated like this, especially when he’s been kind 😢
“No one’s son”? LOL. You act like the man was traumatized, it was only a bad date. Lol! Omg you’re doing too much with the crying Emoji. 😂.
Anyways, he handled himself very well.
I looked at it from the perspective of a mom too, but also she just lacks manners & has bad character. 🤢
@@atlantalady5592 You sound like the woman in the video at the end. Is that you? It's ok, you were stunning and very brave.
Right makes me happy I never had a son
@@0verride881She called it a bad date which what it was but the comment acted like something very dramatic just happened it was a bad date a lot of people have gone on bad dates. Nothing to cry about just dismiss that person and move on.
Women like that are an embarrassment
I think this and the oyster lady are click baits. Either way, it makes women look bad. However, the diplomatic guy diffusing the situation by taking her home probably is in DM overload. lol Social media is slowing making dating into gender war. Geeze.
I agree
There were a few concerning signs that stood out during the date. Firstly, being an hour late to a date that we both agreed upon was a red flag. Secondly, expressing a lack of interest in going to the Cheesecake Factory raised another concern. Lastly, noticing that she had her phone in her hand and was secretly recording me without my knowledge or consent was completely inappropriate. In that situation, I would have promptly driven her back home. No explanation.
He was overly patient, her behavior is stank.
Uber back because gas ain't cheap. He deserves better.
Exactly!!!
That purple lipstick was the first red flag. Don’t ever trust a woman that thinks purple lipstick is glamorous
💯 she was aweful!!! Late, entitled, stroking her hair. To be truthful she wasn't a bad looking woman but she wasn't gorgeous, pretty , and all that.
She was average. Being gorgeous and beautiful isn't a ticket for selfishness & entitlement$$.
I wonder if dude appreciates how lucky he is that she showed her true colors on the first date?
Purple and green
@@JodyMay05😳😅
She cannot be serious. The fact that she was looking only at the camera the whole time instead of him. I hope he cut his losses
She dropped the ball, and couldn't even say, Sorry or see her faults. She is too old to be like this and she is not that attractive to be this entitled.
Too old! Sis on the other side of 40 for sure ...get it together 😒
Exactly!!!
How old is she about?
That broad probably 28.
@@Dreama68 That's a HARD 28
As a black woman, this is so distasteful. I hope she didn’t ruin this man and turned him into a red pill’er lol
Exactly cause the brothers already speak horribly of us already
Dude just wanted to sleep with her anyways lol 😂
She absolutely did.😊
@@marlenahawkins7098😂How exactly did the “Brothers “ already speak horribly of black women? Without women dating them enough that they came to that conclusion towards this is an example of it
He needs to become a red piller! Then he will be prepared for gold diggers like her.
What does it cost to have manners and be courteous? She made such a fool of herself, thinking that she would embarrass him online only embarrassing herself instead. The sense of entitlement is incredible‼️
Her demeanor changed when he said I'm taking you home that stomach started growling😂
He's such a sweet man. She doesn't deserve him
Sweet is not what a woman needs she needs a leader that stands up for himself and it took him too long to do that also in an interview said he would give her another chance. He is a pushover.
I like Cheesecake Factory and have had several great dates there. She acted like the man pulled up to a Dennys or something. He didn’t deserve to be treated that way.
right rofl she acted like he took her to a back alleyway
@@ariannam.9360
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Right! Like he pulled up at Golden Corral or some. Girrrllll...
Shit.... I'll take Denny's 😂
Shoot I be living my best life at Golden Corral😂. She was just plain cruel and ungrateful.
Now she realized that she is losing out on a free meal, she wants to compromise. Nahhh.....all talk over.....she exposed herself. Wanted to go to a fancy restaurant so that she could post it on social media. She wanted to take pictures of the food and brag to her people. She played herself.
The lack of self-awareness, emotional intelligence and immaturity is a problem, as well copying dating advice from social media.
Exactly!
Definitely took all her notes from these hypergamy yt channels 😏
So true. Has the EI of a 10 year old. So embarrassing.
She was soooo out of line 😂😂😂
I appreciate you for highlighting it's not a "Black Women Thing", this can be any Women. Guy's choose wisely!!!
Cases like these make us (latinos) not take you black women serious at all. I have a cousin. Cousin A who married 2 black women and divorced 2 black women. 1 cuban and 1 american black woman. The American Black woman, had her younger brother live in with them after their marriage. The wife treated her younger brother better than my cousin. He still cooked his own meals and cleaned his own clothes. She cooked her younger brother meals, cleaned his clothes and made sure he was taken care off. She didn't attend our family functions. When invited to his place we went and hung out. She would travel and help her sister with moving to hawaii and staying more than a month with her aunt in a different state while she recovered. My cousin, filed for divorce and got himself her replacement. A white woman who cooks, cleans and treats him well. My cousin wanted to start a family with his black "queen" but didn't see his value until months after the divorce.
Cousin A had setup his wife's younger sister with Cousin B. Cousin B said "Bro, She showed up 20 minutes late with no excuse. Showed up and went straight to the cashier ordered her food and stared at me. I paid for both our meals. She ate her meal quick and then looked at her phone and took off." While her version was "He was an awesome guy and def feel like we vibed an would want to go out again"
Us Latinos cousins had our issues with ladies trying to finess us but we can see them and not as arrogant as ladies in the video. But it def deters us or reconsider having to go out with y'all.
@ralph4370 that's your opinion. Your long drawn out emotional comment tells me, nobody wants to deal with your attitude either. You take one black woman and put us all in the same box, when you see women in here saying the Cheesecake Factory is fine and in fact not cheap. You just took this opportunity to be racist. Seeing how there are afro Latinas smfh so you don't like the black Latinas either?
@ralph4370 I highly doubt anyone is losing sleep over you not wanting to date them
@@AngelicaAngel888_ they always have audacity smh it's compensation for something else.
Right like the white lady who left a date because she wanted cheese and didn't get it
Imagine building up your confidence as a man to present yourself well enough to take a stranger on a date, and she pulls this. He handled it perfectly and it's actually incredible that she landed a man like that in the first place, women spend years looking for a guy like that and she wasn't willing to put her pride aside for it...hold the L lady.
Building up confidence? 😂 women are not that special bro stop putting them on a pedestal
THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN PROVEN TO BE FAKE. SHE IS AN ACTRESS, HIRED BY THE MANOSPHERE TO MAKE BLACK WOMEN LOOK BAD. SHE ADMITTED IT HERSELF. SHE ALSO FILMED THE MAKING OF THE SKIT. THE UA-camR CHRISSIE JUST POSTED 2 VIDEOS WITH RECEIPTS. I'M GONNA NEED YOU ALL TO STOP, AND WAIT BEFORE YOU POST ANY SKITS. STOP CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAKE BASHING OF BLACK WOMEN. BOTH GOT PAID TO MAKE THIS MESS. THEY FILMED SEVERAL TAKES UNTIL THE FINAL SKIT WAS READY. STOP BEING GULLIBLE!!!!!!!
I like him. Respectful, Controlled, Thoughtful and understands his Worth! I would’ve enjoyed being out with him and enjoyed the Cheesecake Factory!
I totally agree! He already got me in the beginning when he was willing to talk about the situation. I hope he finds who and what he’s looking for and more.
His DM's...His inbox is probably hot 🔥 as fish grease LOL
I like how he communicated with her about the situation (no harsh words, no cursing).
I’m a woman and I’ve worked hard to afford a nice lifestyle. I am not dating and I am not married but when I go out with my friends or my family members, we go to nice-ish restaurants and have no problem, dropping a few hundred dollars on dinner. If I met a guy that I genuinely liked and he wanted to go somewhere like Cheesecake Factory or not super fancy I really wouldn’t care because it’s more about the person and I think it’s so weird to want to date someone and go somewhere ultra fancy. The point of going for dinner or conversing over a meal is just to genuinely talk and get to each other. I’m sorry, but I’m just gonna say it girls that grew up with parents with means or even just having a normal upbringing don’t care about going to a very expensive place on a first date, only broke people. These broke women have a weird mentality. Probably the tape, her order sparkling water just to try and act bougie. This woman was acting all high-value, but she is masculine as hell.
She doesn't like him. She wanted to run his pockets and use him up.
Amen 👏🏼 if I really liked the guy, it wouldn’t matter where we went (as long as the food is good!) We could even go to a food truck and find a nice bench by a lake to eat and I’d be happy. If I really wanted to go to a nice, fancy restaurant, I could’ve done it myself or do it with my friends or my sister. I could afford it and it would probably be more fun to experience that with them than someone I’m getting to know.
@@BeautifulDreamerK oh yes, totally. “The only way you can impress me with your vehicle is if it’s a food truck” 🤭
When you aren't used to nice things (especially what you afford yourself), you act like this woman in the video.
I agree with everything you said until you called this girl masculine. BW been dealing with that label since slavery. Stop using that white supremacy talking points against BW. She is ridiculous yes! But learn history before you start calling BW that.
I have never been to Cheesecake Factory. However, that lady was very rude to her date. Smh
Try it I love the food the cheesecake is on point lots of calories.
It's a nice place for a backup date. She was an hour late so they missed the reservations for the first eating place.
@@Southern.NappinessConsidering it’s a first date it’s a good first date as well. I would never take a woman on an expensive first date.
Whew lawd! She making it hard for us ladies who want to actually get to know a man.
I’m 33 years old. I met a woman who told me, “I’m too pretty to be with a man like you.” Women think they’re entitled to go to high class restaurants because they got a pretty face. A pretty face is temporary, but a nice and caring personality goes a long way. Enough said.
Well men made her feel that way
Amen
American women are not all that
I tell my daughter to go for the cute nerds😂😂 In my experience. More loyal, successful and tend to want to build romantic relationships, rather than hook up culture.
@@mommabear887 I stopped looking at a pretty face a long time ago.
While we are praying for such qualities in men, someone is out here playing around with them😮
Girllll
So embarrassing. "Look at me." Ok, yeah, let's take a look...Shein dress, dollar store hoops and cheap braids. Yeah right. Girl bye. He did the right thing. 😅
And live in an apartment
Yikes 🥴
😆😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😮😅🤣🥲
Not the Shien dress lol😂
hey what's with all these low blows. You guys are so funny. Thank You@@fashionwithoutlabels
Karma is real…she looks to be in her late 40s still dressing young looking. One day soon she’ll be over 50, still single and “courting”. Which she needs to lookup the definition of courting. 🙄
Some lonely 60 year old guy somewhere will be interested in her at that time. There's no wall.
@@natashadickson4819 …and she’s not going to want him as well 🤣.
There’s no pleasing miserable women like her. She needs therapy.
True, the wall is wherever you want to see it. She is not scared at all, otherwise she would have been more cooperative. It is not about wall nonsense it’s about behaving in a decent manner, she has put it out there! Horrid!
Nothing was wrong with her outfit it’s her attitude and rude behavior that was the problem
THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN PROVEN TO BE FAKE. SHE IS AN ACTRESS, HIRED BY THE MANOSPHERE TO MAKE BLACK WOMEN LOOK BAD. SHE ADMITTED IT HERSELF. SHE ALSO FILMED THE MAKING OF THE SKIT. THE UA-camR CHRISSIE JUST POSTED 2 VIDEOS WITH RECEIPTS. I'M GONNA NEED YOU ALL TO STOP, AND WAIT BEFORE YOU POST ANY SKITS. STOP CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAKE BASHING OF BLACK WOMEN. BOTH GOT PAID TO MAKE THIS MESS. THEY FILMED SEVERAL TAKES UNTIL THE FINAL SKIT WAS READY. STOP BEING GULLIBLE!!!!!!!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 proud of that MAN!!! And yes that is a MAN!
I absolutely love the Cheesecake Factory. She will NEVER EVER get a date ever again. She exposed herself. The next man is going to dog walk her and she will deserve every single bit of it. He’s going to find someone who is “fit, friendly and feminine”. She seriously ruined that for herself and women are going to go after him. She doesn’t deserve a good man whatsoever.
Beauty is who you are on the inside...apparently she's not very beautiful.
I’m broke because ain’t nun cheap about the Cheesecake Factory.
Oh my gosh, I am embarrassed for her! Whatever beauty she possesses externally has been ruined by such a horrible attitude. He did not deserve that and it does not make sense to spends hundreds of dollars on every date. All I can say is wow!
I wish I can go out with this guy. He is handsome and respectful. I would love that.
She just advertised HIM as a great catch!!! His DMs are gonna blow up 🙌🏾🙌🏾. He’ll probably be engaged to a sweetheart next year
First dates are about getting to know each other and to see if there is some chemistry between you two. A drink or a free event is good enough for a first time date. Why does she have him on live? This is so disrespectful.
I personally like to do activities on first dates. Going to the bowling alley, the skating rink, ice skating, arcade, go karting, mini golf, etc. Something that’s light and fun and takes the pressure off.
I don't agree with the free date idea. You could mess around and attract a dusty with that mindset. The type of guy that can only pay the light bill, or just mooches off you completely. That's setting the bar much too low.
What happens when you wanna get married but he can't afford the ring? Or you wanna have babies but he can't afford diapers, etc?
You have to hold a man to some sort of financial standards so he can prove he can provide or at the very least hold his own weight financially speaking.
@@nonya8193if a dusty is the case on the first date; case closed and time is up for him. This is what the daters are supposed to find out on the date. Although the entry may be free almost always a purchase is made (at minimum) to eat or drink. Observe his/her body language to find out if he/she is worth a second date. On the other hand, first impressions is key.
She's making a video. She's not on a date.
I know a 63 year old woman still looking for the right man to pay her bills, and she's single 😂 she's just like this woman😂
Dang 🤣
@@kiaj.d.5855 💀💀💀
She definitely was ungrateful, but even more so, I felt like this was self sabotage. It seems as if she tried to get out of it by behaving this way. SMH, she messed up big time tho.
She made herself look real bad 😂😂
When people think being classy is being boujee.
I am not thirsty in my singleness by ANY stretch, however - it's always baffled me how women like this get majority of decent men's attention all the time.
You can't be a woman who cares about other ppl's feelings, not believe you're the center of the universe, and quasi-attractive and get a dude to ask you out.
You gotta be like this: rude AF and quasi attractive to get nice men to notice you.
Whatever that magic mix is, I ain't got it.
Same here.
I absolutely 💯 agree! The same way people say good men get overlooked, the less problematic women get overlooked all the time
@@elsfyes we do I guess cause we not crazy as hell
I wonder that too. It's plenty of good women, so how do they always end up with these rude entitled women? Then, they use their behavior as an excuse to bash all women and mistreat the good ones.
Aint this the truth
He made me so proud and I almost cried 😢. We rockin with you
THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN PROVEN TO BE FAKE. SHE IS AN ACTRESS, HIRED BY THE MANOSPHERE TO MAKE BLACK WOMEN LOOK BAD. SHE ADMITTED IT HERSELF. SHE ALSO FILMED THE MAKING OF THE SKIT. THE UA-camR CHRISSIE JUST POSTED 2 VIDEOS WITH RECEIPTS. I'M GONNA NEED YOU ALL TO STOP, AND WAIT BEFORE YOU POST ANY SKITS. STOP CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAKE BASHING OF BLACK WOMEN. BOTH GOT PAID TO MAKE THIS MESS. THEY FILMED SEVERAL TAKES UNTIL THE FINAL SKIT WAS READY. STOP BEING GULLIBLE!!!!!!!
She's not trying to have a long-lasting relationship. The spirit of vanity is among us for real
I gather she just wasn’t into him 🤷🏽♀️
~Cheesecake Factory is not cheap, it is moderately priced and nor is it distasteful.. 🙄
~What is wrong 😑 with her?
~Forget about her looks, she has a nasty disposition.. 🤦🏽♀️
right is a regular chain restaurant it’s not Michelin but it’s also not mcdonald’s she has some issues
Cheesecake Factory is the bomb first date!
She was an hour late so they missed their reservation.
Some people don't know or understand what it means to date. They are just out here looking for a free meal or doing things like this. Getting coffee or ice cream or a drink is a date, you still trying to figure out if you are even compatible with this person, do you even like them? And here you are expecting a super expensive dinner which HE will have to pay for, some can't even afford to pay for themselves. People like this ruining dating for everyone else. It's already tough out here. For her to even record it is disgusting.
She probably never had a decent guy take her out or she would have noticed that he is a stand up guy🔹She will not get a decent guy asking her out for awhile
She can court herself if she thinks The Cheesecake Factory is beneath her.
SHE was late. She chose NOT to call him because she was running late. She should be happy that he was still interested in spending time with her.
I’m glad he told her how she messed up. Someone needed to tell her the truth.
I’ve been to The Cheesecake Factory a few times. I’ve never had any of their cheesecake. I have had the Godiva chocolate brownie sundae. OMG! It’s amazing!
It wasn’t the best but it was good.
Thank you so much for specifying this is not an opportunity to bash black women.
It doesn't matter folks will take this video and make it a teaching moment for us brothers
I'm staying far away from black women and i hope the guy in the video does the same.
Yep she’s in this alone I couldn’t even be friends with a woman that shallow and conceited!
THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN PROVEN TO BE FAKE. SHE IS AN ACTRESS, HIRED BY THE MANOSPHERE TO MAKE BLACK WOMEN LOOK BAD. SHE ADMITTED IT HERSELF. SHE ALSO FILMED THE MAKING OF THE SKIT. THE UA-camR CHRISSIE JUST POSTED 2 VIDEOS WITH RECEIPTS. I'M GONNA NEED YOU ALL TO STOP, AND WAIT BEFORE YOU POST ANY SKITS. STOP CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAKE BASHING OF BLACK WOMEN. BOTH GOT PAID TO MAKE THIS MESS. THEY FILMED SEVERAL TAKES UNTIL THE FINAL SKIT WAS READY. STOP BEING GULLIBLE!!!!!!!
that man knows his worth ! & as a woman i am so very proud of him he dodged a bullet 😂
My man offered dinner on the first date and i said we can go for coffee and have a quiet conversation after the gym, so he took me to a protein place to get protein shakes and waffles to get my protein in after working out and we had the best time connecting over our stories. The next day he took me to dinner and has been going out of his way to take me to places i like without me having to ask. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with coffee dates or a quick bite for the first date, just sit down and get to know one another before spending your hard earned money on someone you don’t know, imagine spending $100+ every time you want to meet someone new you’ll go broke soon, especially if they’re not wealthy.
Well said. Very practical advice. Cannot spend that money on everyone you go out with. The other thing too is that will be the standard going forward in that relationship.
Slow to hire, quick to fire. This woman think she is God gift to men. That brother deserves a life partner who is going to love and respect him, with substance and standards.
THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN PROVEN TO BE FAKE. SHE IS AN ACTRESS, HIRED BY THE MANOSPHERE TO MAKE BLACK WOMEN LOOK BAD. SHE ADMITTED IT HERSELF. SHE ALSO FILMED THE MAKING OF THE SKIT. THE UA-camR CHRISSIE JUST POSTED 2 VIDEOS WITH RECEIPTS. I'M GONNA NEED YOU ALL TO STOP, AND WAIT BEFORE YOU POST ANY SKITS. STOP CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAKE BASHING OF BLACK WOMEN. BOTH GOT PAID TO MAKE THIS MESS. THEY FILMED SEVERAL TAKES UNTIL THE FINAL SKIT WAS READY. STOP BEING GULLIBLE!!!!!!!
My heart broke for him, she’s so mean 😭 He seems like the sweetest guy. He’ll find his Queen🙌
Where do these women be wanting to go? 😂 Bahamas immediately huh?!smh silly girl
He handled it like a gentleman.i hope you will find someone who appreciate all of ur qualities.
This is weird behavior for sure. Recording someone unknowingly on the first date is insanity, no🤔 kudos to him for even having a conversation with her after that alone.
I don’t care if me and my man goto Olive Garden, chic fil a, IHOP, Cheesecake Factory 😂 I been married going on 10 years- if you really like a man it don’t really matter; it’s his company you enjoy as a “companion” this is what God thought of when he made “woman” a companion; otherwise we would have animals here for men only?? She think she is too beautiful to have a man; she love herself way too much to be a companion or keep a man company 🙏🏾
After she rolled down the window and said yes. Would have been a good time to be like...This isnt going to work out. Let me take you home.
She clearly thinks she's above this man, that's why she lacks respect for him.
Me over here seriously thinking earlier this week what I'm going to get myself for Christmas is like 5 slices of cheesecake from Cheesecake Factory and freeze the ones I don't eat right away. Nearest one to me is like 74 miles away. I think it's expensive. Idk what's wrong with people.
@@ThePBAwakening919I'll have to try that one. 😁 I've only had 3 flavors so far.
You is me, and I am you. That is where I want to go for my bday. It's an hour away from me, so I don't go often.
It is expensive my first time going was with my friend and I was thinking to myself like omg but we enjoyed ourselves we were about to pay somebody paid the bill for us anonymously we didn’t even get to say thank you to the person! 😂 that was my first and last time going tho a good experience for me
@@hellothere8347 That's a really nice first experience. I had someone do that for me and my boy at Olive Garden once.
RIIIIGHT! I buy quite a few cakes when we do run into one which is not off and we definitely don't have any in Mississippi lol. They definitely are high tho lol
A man should show restraint and respect and a woman should understand that. This lady is disrespectful to begin with so I wouldn’t date her again.
Run forest, run. Save yourself. No one deserves to endure this madness. Good thing you find out so soon. And she looks waaay older than him, so maybe she’s delusional to not take a date with real possibility (a serious person) seriously. Maybe he would have taken her to the 5 star if she was more modestly dressed. She has no respect. Good job sir, you generously spent the time educating her, then you returned her better than you found her. Awesome guy. Selfrespect for the win.
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THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN PROVEN TO BE FAKE. SHE IS AN ACTRESS, HIRED BY THE MANOSPHERE TO MAKE BLACK WOMEN LOOK BAD. SHE ADMITTED IT HERSELF. SHE ALSO FILMED THE MAKING OF THE SKIT. THE UA-camR CHRISSIE JUST POSTED 2 VIDEOS WITH RECEIPTS. I'M GONNA NEED YOU ALL TO STOP, AND WAIT BEFORE YOU POST ANY SKITS. STOP CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAKE BASHING OF BLACK WOMEN. BOTH GOT PAID TO MAKE THIS MESS. THEY FILMED SEVERAL TAKES UNTIL THE FINAL SKIT WAS READY. STOP BEING GULLIBLE!!!!!!!
I just am truly appalled by her behavior. She's too good for the cheesecake factory, and she is recording him to expose him of wrong doing? First off beauty is skin deep the character of her soul is in need of some serious work. I just can't with her actions! Wow I hope this interaction doesn’t discourage him from trying to find an companion.
If a man can buy you, he's not going to respect you. I agree with you. Great video much love ❤️
Good on him that he called it off. She went from proud to sad 😂😂😂It’s not all about beauty & money. She’s surely not wife material, she’s just looking for someone to treat her and it seems like he’s looking for a wife.
The fact that she made him wait an hour when he already made reservations to a high end restaurant I hope she will never get another date after exposing herself she’s trifling
She knows good and well that she eats at Applebee's all the time. At least that's what she's dressed for
Lmao 😂
Here I am,homely alone at home, and she's blessed to be attractive and have a gentleman take you out, behaving so stake and stale.( Innerly)
awwww this girl is for the streets and he’s a real sweetheart i hope he finds a great woman soon.
Don’t people discuss where they are going on a date before hand?
Nothing at allll wrong with the cheesecake factory!! Cheesecake factory and then go to the movies,is a great date!!👍🍿
I would've asked her respectfully to get out my car! The disrespect she caused, his time was wasted, being put online without his permission, crossing the line being late, than expecting him to give her 5 star experience because of her looks the girl is a clown
What’s wrong with people nowadays? Do people not know how to just be or have common manners when interacting with others? She was rude and inconsiderate
The fact that she said she wouldn't allow him into her place because she didn't know him like that, yet she gets in his car with him. Why didn't you just meet him if that was the case? The hypocrisy and double standard of it all, smh. Good job, sir.
I've had at least 2 different guys ask if they can comeif over to my place for the first date. 😂😂😂 Nope. Not to mention how many women were asked to come "Netflix and chill" at men's places back in the day. Men have really been THAT entitled all this time. The way I see it, this woman's video gave men a little taste of their own medicine (entitlement). Someone said she'll end up alone. Nope. She can always tone it down a bit and find another one.
There are many other ladies that ready to stand in line for him! He found out early that she isn't the one for him. Btw, I'm down with the cheesecake factory--many selections to choose from, I'll wear elastic waist slacks so I can indulge! She shouldn't have uploaded that video to Tok Tik and she not only she dropped the ball, she all the way fumbled the ball.
this guy really thought it through he made the reservation for 5pm and picked her up at 4 and she still messed it up he did leave her some leeway but she used it all and then had the nerve to complain
This has to be a skit! There is no way this is real. There is not that much delusion in the world. And this young man should have left during that hour she made him wait.
If she’s not ok with the Cheesecake Factory why wouldn’t she say that before the date ??? that was absolutely ridiculous and embarrassing behavior. Poor guy !!
I believe he made reservations at a different restaurant, but she was an hour late and lost the spot. He had come up with another dining experience because of her tardiness
Honestly, I don't think a first date should be over dinner. A nice walk in the park or meeting for coffee, maybe. First date should be more preliminary than anything, just for talking, feeling each other out, seeing if y'all even vibe & if that person will even make it to the next step, lol. No need to 'love bomb' or jump through any hoops for the company of someone you may not even enjoy while doing something simple. After that, if y'all still feeling good about it, then move on to a dinner date... but JUST dinner. And y'all EACH need to be prepared to drive your OWN cars, & PAY for your OWN meal & drinks for just in case you realize y'all don't really like each other. Just talk... Find out who the heck you're even dealing with. Keep things light & find reasons to just laugh & enjoy each other's company without the pressure of impressing or being impressed. See can y'all connect well on THAT level before moving forward, because if you're not feeling it, at least you're not that invested. Do fun, light meet-ups a few times, changing it up a bit each time, & as you both become more comfortable with each other, talk about your relationship goals, your deal breakers, your expectations for a partner, etc. Be honest & LISTEN, too. You'll either find that your courtship with each other is something worth pursuing OR that y'all simply aren't compatible for anything more than friendship or as acquaintances, which is still cool because you haven't lost anything yet... Not your money or your dignity.
People don't realize how important these seemingly mundane, old-fashioned steps are, but the first meet-ups should either set the pace for everything else OR reveal something unpleasant in the mix & weed out the nutcases BEFORE either of you get too invested🤷🏾♂️ Ladies, you shouldn't be demanding the royal treatment from men who haven't yet made you HIS queen🙄 I'm not saying you should accept a dude treating you poorly; I'm saying don't act like the entitled 🤡 in this video with your dates.
Fellas, you are not entitled to 'use' HER body just because you paid for a durn dinner😒 If that's all you're after, stop wasting her time & hire yourself a professional.
Nah, she knows what she's doing. She taking full advantage of this guy. 😏
How do you get showed up in your own video? 😂😂 you went from going somewhere you wanted, going somewhere else to going nowhere fast. I appreciate his self respect. me and my husband love going to the Cheesecake Factory. We don’t even always have to sit down. We will travel almost 30 mins to go pick up our food from there and hang out at home. And longhorn is our #1 spot😂😂
She is just ridiculous. First date is just a meet-up, it’s great to know a man has put an effort because he wants to put his best foot forward, but that can be achieved at any restaurant, event or wherever he decides. Cheesecake factory doesn’t have the best food, but ain’t nothing wrong with it…..She does not speak for us real woman with that “I feel like I’m doing what I’m supposed to as a woman.”
If this was real and not a skit as ppl say, then sis fumbled a whole husband.
He’s a cutie patootie, he had the whole date planned and was patient, efficient and proactive AFTER she messed up the first plan; not only that but was so calm and collected when she was being being unreasonable. I love a man with calm energy.
He’ll find a good woman that deserves him, his DM’s must be flooded rn.
THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN PROVEN TO BE FAKE. SHE IS AN ACTRESS, HIRED BY THE MANOSPHERE TO MAKE BLACK WOMEN LOOK BAD. SHE ADMITTED IT HERSELF. SHE ALSO FILMED THE MAKING OF THE SKIT. THE UA-camR CHRISSIE JUST POSTED 2 VIDEOS WITH RECEIPTS. I'M GONNA NEED YOU ALL TO STOP, AND WAIT BEFORE YOU POST ANY SKITS. STOP CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAKE BASHING OF BLACK WOMEN. BOTH GOT PAID TO MAKE THIS MESS. THEY FILMED SEVERAL TAKES UNTIL THE FINAL SKIT WAS READY. STOP BEING GULLIBLE!!!!!!!
The man in this video seems like a gentleman. Listen to how he speaks and is trying to get an understanding of the expectations how respectful he is. He is showing leadership by planning a date, yes this man is intentional. I hope he read the comments and finds a woman who will be appreciative of the type of man he is. KUDOS on how you handled this situation Mr. First Date! GREAT POST SHUMAKE!!
THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN PROVEN TO BE FAKE. SHE IS AN ACTRESS, HIRED BY THE MANOSPHERE TO MAKE BLACK WOMEN LOOK BAD. SHE ADMITTED IT HERSELF. SHE ALSO FILMED THE MAKING OF THE SKIT. THE UA-camR CHRISSIE JUST POSTED 2 VIDEOS WITH RECEIPTS. I'M GONNA NEED YOU ALL TO STOP, AND WAIT BEFORE YOU POST ANY SKITS. STOP CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAKE BASHING OF BLACK WOMEN. BOTH GOT PAID TO MAKE THIS MESS. THEY FILMED SEVERAL TAKES UNTIL THE FINAL SKIT WAS READY. STOP BEING GULLIBLE!!!!!!!
I would love to go to the Cheese Cake Factory. I want a man like this.
This was actually a skit. They admitted to it on Tiktok.
1st red flag: She was late and she did not have the decency to communicate or let him know she would be late
2nd red flag: An hour! That is way too long
3rd red flag: they way she dressed + cleavage. And who wears purple lipstick?
4th red flag: turning on tik tok live during a date
5th red flag: she locked the door as he tried to open the door + her tone when she put the window down and said, “yes?”
It went ALL downhill from there. That poor man. I hope he finds a good woman who would appreciate him. I admire how calm he was the whole time. I would’ve lost it.
Cheesecake factory got some darned good free advertising 😂 Delusional woman, he handled this situation well but he should have left after waiting for her for 15minutes. Could have saved himself from the rest of the mess…❤
I read a couple comments where some women called cheescake factory low budget instead of looking at their NO budget character!!! Gonna be lonely!! Even buying your own food is expensive now. PLEASE!!! ALSO, she look like she got caught when he called her out. She didn’t expect that!!
This particular scenario is a huge red flag! I am so so sorry for this gentleman. As a woman myself, this is not the way a woman is to act or respond on a first date. As for this gentleman, he handled this situation wonderfully! No compromises on your safety, mental, or boundaries. I say this all the time. Don't compromise those things.
On the other hand, some women aren't looking for love, they are looking for a baller or a simp for free meals and shopping sprees.
She ruined all her chances in finding Mr Hubby at this point. 🤦🏽♀️
This was a great video and I agree that this lady was out of line and she may have missed out on her blessing due to her behavior.
I think the issue we are seeing now with both women and men is the end result of many people not being taught much of anything when they are kids growing up. I can remember my parents telling me long before I was a teenager that whenever I start dating guys that I should never order anything that I can’t buy for myself and to make sure I have enough money on hand to reimburse the guy in case he feels like I owe him something just because he paid for dinner. I was also taught to drive myself to meet a guy in public for at least the first few dates until I get to know him and to not let him come back to my place or go over to his place before I really get to know him. I was also taught not to ask men for money or expensive gifts and not to accept money or gifts if he offers it because a lot of men will think they are entitled to sex if they spend a certain amount of money on you.
Ironically, as I began dating, I ran across a lot of men who still felt like they were entitled to something even if they had only bought me a $5 cup of hot chocolate from Starbucks or had not taken me out at all and many of them would show up to my place asking what did I cook. The same way women don’t want to be used, men also don’t want to be used, but yet both men and women are often in a rush to just get what they want right now without being considerate of the fact that neither of them want to get played. That’s why the dating scene is trash these days. If I wasn’t married now, I would just be content being a single female at this point and I would not care about what people think of it
She making BW look bad. He was a good dude. There was absolutely nothing wrong with Cheesecake Factory. She is way too mid to be demanding high end dining on the first date. Ugh
THIS VIDEO HAS BEEN PROVEN TO BE FAKE. SHE IS AN ACTRESS, HIRED BY THE MANOSPHERE TO MAKE BLACK WOMEN LOOK BAD. SHE ADMITTED IT HERSELF. SHE ALSO FILMED THE MAKING OF THE SKIT. THE UA-camR CHRISSIE JUST POSTED 2 VIDEOS WITH RECEIPTS. I'M GONNA NEED YOU ALL TO STOP, AND WAIT BEFORE YOU POST ANY SKITS. STOP CONTRIBUTING TO THE FAKE BASHING OF BLACK WOMEN. BOTH GOT PAID TO MAKE THIS MESS. THEY FILMED SEVERAL TAKES UNTIL THE FINAL SKIT WAS READY. STOP BEING GULLIBLE!!!!!!!
It's not even about the restaurant of choice It's about her attitude. Women are allowed to have high standards but don't be a jerk about it! She's ridiculous 🙄
She though she was embarrassing him while she ended up embarrassing herself. Now I'm sure he has a lot of women checking for him. He has the most patience I've seen in a long time.