As an extravert, being in quarantine is such a pain in the ass Hahaahhha but thanks to this, I discovered some things of me that really helped to love me myself ❤️ so, for a certain view, I'm rlly grateful to quarantine😂❤️
Yeh, I am an introvert person, but lot of people around me are that kind of extroverts that think introvert people are shy, sad and needs to change, so most part of my life, I thought don't like short conversations, like to stay with my self, think before act was a bad thing, now I can see that this is actualy very good.
Introverts during a group conversation: "Hey, I have something to say", start analyzing what's the best way to say it so that's it's concise and well understood without talking too much. When you're about to say it, you realize it's no more relevant or they moved on to something else. 2 hours later, you haven't said a word and some extrovert will tell you how you didn't participate and how quiet you are. 😢
@@meh3722 But why do people sometimes just ignore me.When I'm in a group they say to me say something then I say something and no one hears me or interruppts me?Can you help
I love being an introvert... I can go months without seeing people and feeling alright and watching my extroverted peers talk about how they want to go outside.
Summary- 1) active listening 2) keeping secrets 3) introspection 4) reading emotions 5) careful observations 6) deep conversations 7) strategic thinking 8) problem solving 9) compassionate leadership :) Have a good day! 💚 Edit- why are there people copying the exact same thing I wrote but w/ spaces? 👁👄👁
@@Psych2go It was five months ago and not even directed to me but I just don't talk and pass the year at the border of repeating. Teachers don't even try to help with it by saying something like "you haven't talked, why don't you say your opinion?" like they did in my primary school. It's hell.
@Psych2Go , I put on a mask, it's that simple for me. Unfortunately it does get very tiring and it leaves me emotionally exhausted. I just have to endure it with one end goals, the grades. Because that's pretty much what I care about so it doesn't bother me that my activeness is not genuine (as long as that's how my superiors view me as). (Note: my answer kinda makes me sound like a cold jerk lol, I am emotionally disconnected but I don't always use this method on my classmates, I put on the mask just to efficiently go through the conversation so I have no I'll intent over this :v)
Opinions about this channel: 1. Their artstyles are so unique 2. Their channel is underrated 3. They give some signs about important problems Ok explanation for the second opinion. I think theyre underrated because they are very professional. And they give some REAL signs if someone has depression, suicide thoughts, and other important things. Please dont attack me. People always attack me because I give MY OPINION. You guys keep attacking me for saying my opinion. What did I ever do to you?
Signs You Might Be an Introvert👍 Need quiet to concentrate. Are reflective. Are self-aware. Take time making decisions. Feel comfortable being alone. Don't like group work. Prefer to write rather than talk. Feel tired after being in a crowd
Best places are home, bath and bed. Best moment is when go to bed and sleep. Best moment to go out : the night to see the calm and observe the nature and the animals'life during the night. During quarantine : I felt good to see no human outside, only nature and more animals.
Idk if you guys too, but as an introvert am everytime the quiet of the group, and the guy who only waits that the work is finished and the guy who waits they say him what to do rather than participate
I am an Introvert but the fact that my mom wants me to go interact with people and attend social gatherings makes me sad. I mean it's my life and social gatherings and socializing isn't my type of jam ;-;
Hey if it's just introversion and you just love being on your own don't listen to them, but getting panic attacks around people and extremely loud heart beating is not normal, please don't ignore those symptoms (if you have any)...also you can't be friends with anyone you know how fake some people can be, just have one or two true friends and hang out with them.
@@xermita I get super nervous around people (unless they’re people I’m close with) and I always kind of just shut down and don’t say anything cuz I’m super tense but then my parents complain that I’m “being a snob”, even when I’m trying to make small talk as much as I can. Once my parents forced me to read a speech in front of like fifty people and I had a panic attack and felt like I had to throw up but my parents just think that I’m too sensitive.
@@theysaycleanmyroomisaynott3358 i had the same experience i gave speech at college, stuttered and got laughed at... and i'm also get called arrogant for bad communication skills, i genuienly want to ask questions but feel scared, and when i try to get to know people and initiate conversation i end up saying dumb things and i feel more ashamed of myself. We need practice, i think i've changed a little after a few uncomfortable situations at college and oral exams, trust me it gets better, you just keep believing in yourself and know that you're lucky enough to have peaceful life, everything will be alright as long as you give 100% of your power.
To my fellow introverts. This is a sign that it's okay to be you. You are amazing & have incredible talents. You have permission to protect your boundaries. Stretch the corners of your mouth up. You are enough. You are worthy. You are loved. Smile. 💗 #DrLizListens
Yaas! Some times ago I just wanted to be an extroverted person but as time passes I realised I'm good what I am and there's no need to be like someone else, everyone is best in their own ways and that makes them unique.
I am an introvert. But I would like to say that, we should not compare introverts with extroverts and vice versa. I think both types of people are good in their own. No need to compare. Love You All 💕
I'm an introvert! Sometimes I become talkative but only when am not okay and that is my way of figuring out that there's something wrong within. Am so analytical and cool with my quiet personality.
Being an introvert has its perks as well as being an extrovert, maybe having the ability to shift between those two states can give you the benefits of both worlds :)
Yeah, I feel like I sort of have that ability. It's nice. It just takes a lot of concentration to be the introvert and a lot of energy to be the extrovert.
See, I'm not either. I have the ability to shift between the two. In some ways, I'm introverted, but in others, I'm extroverted. But with conversations, I also prefer the deeper and meaningful ones. But I can also small talk, if I have to.
as a a semi extrovert i really enjoy introverts, they’re always very wise people who are always willing to listen to your problems. it’s definitely not a bad thing to be quiet and as someone who enjoys talking a lot it feels nice when someone is listening to you. so never feel bad about being an introvert (not extrovert) we all have our strengths and weaknesses :)
One thing I like about being an introvert is because one time in school one teacher said “I love how much you excel at your work yet you can make others happy”
As an introvert, I've always seen it as my own downfall (of course, my social anxiety and depression don't help). Why can't I be better at conversation or be making friends on the daily like my brother (who's an extrovert)? I honestly wish I had seen this video a long time ago. I feel better knowing that there are advantages to being an introvert and maybe I can learn to embrace who I am as one.
Yeah i got overwhelmed how my little brother and sister still keeping up thier happy go luck at young age i embrace myself as an introvert since i got anxiety and overthinking at young age extroversion makes it more overwhelmed because people around me always gives me those stuff but i guess having a big social life is a big no no to me i always got mental breakdown whenever my anxiety from people starts kicking especially when playing games when i lessen my people in my community its feeling good now even rn i feel good having a silent time rather than communicating with many people again
I remember my late brother always used to tell me not to say how I really felt when people asked the question 'how are you' because it was just a script they ran through, and they weren't really interested. My stance on the question was (and still is): if you don't want me to answer that question truthfully, don't ask it in the first place.
well I'm kinda an introvert. I relate to problem solving, listening, getting lost in my own world, knowing someone's emotions, keeping secrets, strategic thinking, deep conversations, etc.
Introvert here 🙋and I kinda think I'm proud of being one tho it's so hard for me to socialize and even walk in the mall,,, (Btw a "how to stop daydreaming" vid will be great but that's just a suggestion tho😁)
Thank you for this video, it made me think of being an introvert in a different and more positive way. I must admit that I had a bad day and this just made me think that I don’t need to be extroverted. This made my day and I hope you have great one too.
As a total introvert, I completely agree with everything mentioned in this video. Another thing about introverts is that, in written or typed word, we seem like extroverts. So, a lot of people we talk to online or through letters/cards whom we've never met face to face before probably mistake us for extroverts. I love having conversations with people online but dread having face to face conversations (or, really, having to say anything other than “Hi”) with people.
I never comment, but I want to say how grateful I am for this channel. I’ve felt like there was something wrong with me and I needed to change. Now I feel acknowledged and understood. I feel like a more valued part of society and I am going to focus on things I am good at instead of getting down about things I could do better. Thank you🤗
Probably because that is what society expects from us. Like when homosexuals "have" to come out of a closet because people asume they are heterosexual by default.
I'm Introverted & my family want me to be more socializing. But it exhaust me so much! This channel helped me grow my self confidence. So, I'm thankful to this channel. Keep spreading :-)
You’re voice is so calm, it’s honestly quite refreshing. 😅 I hate it when some you tubers are just shouting down your ear, but you have a better approach, and it works
I'm an introvert at a very young age. They think that I spend too much time by myself...too shy then to talk... always listening to others. I was always thinking of something that I don't talk about it to others. Your video has hit the right marks about us... thank you. I now understand myself more...🙏☺️🙏
Thank you so much for this video!!! I always see what introverts should change about themselves, how to be more sociable, etc. and honestly I've had enough! Why can't they just accept introverts the way they are and appreciate their things?? It really makes me sad. But seeing vids, post like this gives me hope! Fellow introvert who reads this, you are loved and there is nothing wrong with you!!!
Yup, folks have even said this about the sort of leadership I lead with: more compassionate. However, having my sister over has made me realize a lot of these differences about both of us, because she is much more extraverted (thus also fearless) than me! Lol I take time to think DEEPLY very often, especially when listening to others or dealing with conflict and I appreciate simply being in the shadows, as I let others take the spotlight!
this truly made me feel better about myself. Ive been in an depressive episode for weeks now and thinking bad of myself and feeling like an awful person but this made me feel much better
Okay but somehow the intro made me feel better 💓 I always thought extroverts dominates the world (There is nothing wrong being extrovert just do you) so I used to think being introvert is a sickness but thinking 40% of the world makes of intriverts made me feel better 💓 I actually love being introvert and I won't trade being another type in the world 💓
*When you don't know which one you are* But seriously😂, I am _extremely chatty_ and active, but also really perceptive (my friends told me they like opening up to me because, I quote, I'm _"a great listener and knows more about their present emotions than they do themselves"_ ). Likes to keep to myself, yet enjoys the company of others very much. Really loves❤ classical old style stuff, and even old gestures and quiet moments and all that, but also enjoy loud and fun parties. I can't say about music, I love all the genres, from classical to jazz to rock, etc. (I have atleast 5 of every kind in my playlist, noshit I got 800 songs in my phone😂). Lastly, I overthink [future scenarios... *every possible outcome* ] a lot and even though I thoroughly think of what my next move should be, no matter how discreet and quiet or expressive and confident, it always ends up the opposite😂 So *ambivert* then?
I'm not an expert on this but I would say you're an ambivert! I'm like you but just the more introverted parts. I get crazy around my super close friends but parties aren't my thing 😂
All of this videos had helped me to understand myself more and i thank you for that. I even understood the reason why i felt so hurt the last year with a friend. He's extrovert, he loves to be around people and he also likes the attention he gets, i knew that, so i looked for opportunities for him to meet more people in a new circle of friends for both of us...so we usually meet with this friends once a week the fridays, but even if i enjoyed it i and i love them i don't like to stay out so late, i usually said that i wanted to sleep after being with them like 3 or 4 hours and then i just wanted to go, but tbh i went to my home and maybe watch tv or sit in my living room in the living room and think. Also, he started to "advice me" that maybe sometimes because of that i look too serious or grumpy and even that i didn't care as much as him for our friendship because i didn't make the effort to go out more with him to places that i don't really enjoy, or that i wasn't treasuring his feelings because when he said something really nice to me i didn't extend as him with my feelings put into words, etc...Now what i see is that even if we meet each other for a really long time ago in that time i started to show more of me, i trusted in that he knew me enough so that i don't have to lie about the real reasons why i wanted to go earlier (i was just tired), and like we were close, finally i didn't have to invent excuses to go to some places and with people i don't know! so i could be honest and say: "i don't really want to go, thanks", right? and also i didn't have to force myself in answers about my feelings that in that moment i didn't feel like to talk about it...because i'm completely sure that i had show my love and feelings in other ways and even with words...just not all the time...so, what hurt me is that i was feeling comfty to show myself like i really am and what i receive was "advices" to be different. Why do i always think about the well being of my extroverts friends and i try that they don't feel uncomfortable but they can't do the same thing with me?
1. Active listening 2. Keeping Secrets 3. Introspection (understanding of emotions) 4. Reading emotions of others 5. Careful Observations 6. Deep/Meaningful Conversations 7. Strategical Thinking 8. Problem Solving 9. Compassionate Leadership Hope you all have an amazing and wonderful day/night :’) 🤍
People used to tell me I'm too energetic or talkative and I use to think it was a terrible thing, now its more of something I'm grateful of, reading people is my specialty
When collaborating or doing a group project, I tend to let my members bring out each of their opinions and ideas, and discuss about them. After a considerable amount of thoughts, we polished them and agree altogether. So many times where I see a group work where one is the leader and they pressured the others to follow their commands (it's not even considered bad, it's standard in my school to have the leader being dominant) and seeing them being so overwhelmed made me felt upset. Glad I've got to show my teachers and friends that being a leadership is not about having control, but rather being free in expressing their thoughts and opinions. Thanks Psych2Go, 💓. Sometimes the roles are switched, therefore, different work ethic.
I 100% agree with this, and everyone around me tells me that I have to be an extrovert, so I hide that I am an introvert. but I just realized that I can do things that others can't, thank you so much for this video. thank you.
I have a problem: I think I am an introvert, and i am extremely self-conscious every time that I am in public, I tend to overthink, and I am constantly trying to be nice and good-looking. I don't do it on purpose. Any advice?
I think u have a trouble accepting yourself as it is. That's why u try so hard to fit in somewhere. It won't happen until u become comfortable in your skin and accept yourself without feeling ashamed.
Think of things you're good at and capitalize on them, look for things you're bad at and look for ways to fix/minimize them, takes effort but it can be done.
Is anyone else both an introvert and extrovert? I’m introvert around people I don’t know (but as I get to know them I’m an extreme extrovert, and I still be a good listener), my crushes, and people I don’t feel comfortable being around. I’m an extrovert around my friends, family, people I’m extremely comfortable with, and MOST teachers (because they are fun to talk to, well some of them and sometimes). People see me as the “shy” kid at school and they are right and wrong, I am actually quiet at school and shy around others (mostly my crushes) but I have my reasons of being quiet which is because 1. I’m trying to focus on something 2. I don’t feel like talking (not in the mood) 3. I don’t know what to say 4. I’m tired, those are the 4 main reasons so just don’t assume someone is quiet or shy because they don’t talk but yes I am quiet and quite fun (funny too) when you get to know me.
Spot.On. The only one I do not excel at as an introvert is deep conversation. I loathe small talk, but I struggle with deep conversation because I tend to get lost in my own head, and can’t find the right words because I overthink everything I want to say.
I tend to listen more often than say anything. I feel I can barely get a word in anyway. As far as secrets go, I keep them pretty secured. I guess I really am introspective, being known for music. I'm not always able to see things from an emotional standpoint. I always take in as much info as I can. Not one for small talk, I can only go deep with a select few people. I tend think more than anything. I can solve a few issues given all the details.
But I don't know why extroverts are made feel down during lockdown though I am an ambrivert but the extroverts are the most depressed persons during lockdown still every one are just portraying the introverts good qualities
I hate how long it takes me to text/think of what to say, but i'm glad in the end. It's a good feeling knowing someone has taken the time to text me, and I want to be able to respond 100% the best I can back ^w^
Not trying to play favorites, but any extroverts in the house? Comment below if you are. :)
Idk
im introvert aaaa
And also idk if I'mma introvert or an extrovert
Nah, I am an introvert
Well I'm an introvertis ambivert
As an introvert I'm enjoying quarantine... And being alone for a while has taught me so much!
ngl, i’ve learned more by myself without school. now that school started, i feel really dumb.
As an extravert, being in quarantine is such a pain in the ass Hahaahhha but thanks to this, I discovered some things of me that really helped to love me myself ❤️ so, for a certain view, I'm rlly grateful to quarantine😂❤️
@@lauracuomo7717 haha! Yeah!
YAAAS GIRL!!! me too but in finland here is not quarantine anymore 😓
Same same
My brain when someone starts a small talk:
0.1% trying to answer
99.99% planning my escape
0.01%
@@onlyhuman5669 yaa..lol
Lol! Curious, but what if they are very attractive?
@@Psych2go damn you got me... if that person is very attractive i think can endure the small talk(for the greater good)
I often get mind blocked and just go on auto pilot when I know that I "can't" leave in that moment.
I get so tired so quickly.
Yeh, I am an introvert person, but lot of people around me are that kind of extroverts that think introvert people are shy, sad and needs to change, so most part of my life, I thought don't like short conversations, like to stay with my self, think before act was a bad thing, now I can see that this is actualy very good.
Byh
Did you use Doraemon’s Time Machine to comment?!
Sanjib Karali right lol.
Sanjib Karali it saysb5 days ago.
Sanjib Karali they are a member
0:55. Active listening
1:20. Keeping secrets
1:50. Introspection
2:22. Reading emotions
2:54. Careful observation
3:24. Deep conversation
3:50. Strategic thinking
4:25. Careful consideration
4:55. Compassion leaders
Such a calming voice keep it up 👍👍👍
ikr
luv her voice
and i juz found out that im an introvert
^^
Introverts during a group conversation:
"Hey, I have something to say", start analyzing what's the best way to say it so that's it's concise and well understood without talking too much. When you're about to say it, you realize it's no more relevant or they moved on to something else.
2 hours later, you haven't said a word and some extrovert will tell you how you didn't participate and how quiet you are. 😢
YAAAS
Or you get interrupted and ignored when you're trying to say something
My life.
I do that when I talk to my family. I usually throw out what I'm going to say because I don't want to waste time.
it always happens 😔
I was told by people being an introvert was bad, but now seeing this, I feel pretty great about being an introvert.
@@meh3722 Pls tell me How do you keep an conversation going?
@@meh3722 But why do people sometimes just ignore me.When I'm in a group they say to me say something then I say something and no one hears me or interruppts me?Can you help
Yeah. I'm an introvert too. My family is trying to make me talk to people but it makes me really uncomfortable.
@@kerimvvm4812 People also ignore me too
@@jianawilliams724 Me too, I'm an ambivert, sometimes extrovert, but mostly introverts. It makes me uncomfortable trying to speak with other people.
I love being an introvert... I can go months without seeing people and feeling alright and watching my extroverted peers talk about how they want to go outside.
Same
Haha yeah same
Me too haha
Same
Same. Quarantine allowed me to stay in the house for over a month and I felt no need to go outside. It feels like a superpower :).
Summary-
1) active listening
2) keeping secrets
3) introspection
4) reading emotions
5) careful observations
6) deep conversations
7) strategic thinking
8) problem solving
9) compassionate leadership
:)
Have a good day! 💚
Edit- why are there people copying the exact same thing I wrote but w/ spaces? 👁👄👁
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have a ince day too lol
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Look at all these amazing gifts! More power to us introverts 💪
The worst thing about being an introvert is that my school has a participation grade
Thanks for sharing. How do you cope with that?
@@Psych2go It was five months ago and not even directed to me but I just don't talk and pass the year at the border of repeating. Teachers don't even try to help with it by saying something like "you haven't talked, why don't you say your opinion?" like they did in my primary school. It's hell.
@@chemicallycalm5878 sad me too I hate my school
@Psych2Go , I put on a mask, it's that simple for me. Unfortunately it does get very tiring and it leaves me emotionally exhausted. I just have to endure it with one end goals, the grades. Because that's pretty much what I care about so it doesn't bother me that my activeness is not genuine (as long as that's how my superiors view me as).
(Note: my answer kinda makes me sound like a cold jerk lol, I am emotionally disconnected but I don't always use this method on my classmates, I put on the mask just to efficiently go through the conversation so I have no I'll intent over this :v)
@@Psych2go I just answer enough questions so that i get a good enough participation grade
Extrovert: how’s the weather
Me: *nervously sweats*
Introvert: ever thought about how we are moving through a black hole?
Me: yes ;-;
everytime when this happen to me, I speak quiet and acting weird. I hate it.
Opinions about this channel:
1. Their artstyles are so unique
2. Their channel is underrated
3. They give some signs about important problems
Ok explanation for the second opinion.
I think theyre underrated because they are very professional.
And they give some REAL signs if someone has depression, suicide thoughts, and other important things.
Please dont attack me.
People always attack me because I give MY OPINION. You guys keep attacking me for saying my opinion. What did I ever do to you?
Hehehe
True
@@Psych2go teehee
But they hav3 4mil+ subs..🤔
"Underrated" *if 4M isn't enough for you then what is* 🤠
Signs You Might Be an Introvert👍
Need quiet to concentrate.
Are reflective.
Are self-aware.
Take time making decisions.
Feel comfortable being alone.
Don't like group work.
Prefer to write rather than talk.
Feel tired after being in a crowd
Yep, I agree to all of those. I am clearly an introvert.
"Feel tired after being in a crowd" .
Before I could leave the crowd , I start feeling tired and after coming home I take rest .
Best places are home, bath and bed. Best moment is when go to bed and sleep. Best moment to go out : the night to see the calm and observe the nature and the animals'life during the night.
During quarantine : I felt good to see no human outside, only nature and more animals.
Not me I'm afraid
Idk if you guys too, but as an introvert am everytime the quiet of the group, and the guy who only waits that the work is finished and the guy who waits they say him what to do rather than participate
I love the narrator’s voice so calming
same
I am an Introvert but the fact that my mom wants me to go interact with people and attend social gatherings makes me sad. I mean it's my life and social gatherings and socializing isn't my type of jam ;-;
Exactly my case🙂💥
Soo true!😭 my mom is littering like that!
Hey if it's just introversion and you just love being on your own don't listen to them, but getting panic attacks around people and extremely loud heart beating is not normal, please don't ignore those symptoms (if you have any)...also you can't be friends with anyone you know how fake some people can be, just have one or two true friends and hang out with them.
@@xermita I get super nervous around people (unless they’re people I’m close with) and I always kind of just shut down and don’t say anything cuz I’m super tense but then my parents complain that I’m “being a snob”, even when I’m trying to make small talk as much as I can. Once my parents forced me to read a speech in front of like fifty people and I had a panic attack and felt like I had to throw up but my parents just think that I’m too sensitive.
@@theysaycleanmyroomisaynott3358 i had the same experience i gave speech at college, stuttered and got laughed at... and i'm also get called arrogant for bad communication skills, i genuienly want to ask questions but feel scared, and when i try to get to know people and initiate conversation i end up saying dumb things and i feel more ashamed of myself. We need practice, i think i've changed a little after a few uncomfortable situations at college and oral exams, trust me it gets better, you just keep believing in yourself and know that you're lucky enough to have peaceful life, everything will be alright as long as you give 100% of your power.
Can we talk about how calming her voice is OMG :")
yes
I love her voice the day I heard it
She has the right voice for these videos.
Introvert squad here!!
#introvertsquad
It goes like this #introvertsquad
Introvert squad here!!
@@Psych2go Oh right my mistake😅
Hell yeah
Yes
To my fellow introverts.
This is a sign that it's okay to be you. You are amazing & have incredible talents. You have permission to protect your boundaries. Stretch the corners of your mouth up. You are enough. You are worthy. You are loved. Smile.
💗 #DrLizListens
Yaas! Some times ago I just wanted to be an extroverted person but as time passes I realised I'm good what I am and there's no need to be like someone else, everyone is best in their own ways and that makes them unique.
True💜
I am an introvert.
But I would like to say that, we should not compare introverts with extroverts and vice versa. I think both types of people are good in their own. No need to compare.
Love You All 💕
I'm an introvert!
Sometimes I become talkative but only when am not okay and that is my way of figuring out that there's something wrong within. Am so analytical and cool with my quiet personality.
Same here 👍
Me too!
Being an introvert has its perks as well as being an extrovert, maybe having the ability to shift between those two states can give you the benefits of both worlds :)
Intelligent and balanced ambivert
Yeah, I feel like I sort of have that ability. It's nice. It just takes a lot of concentration to be the introvert and a lot of energy to be the extrovert.
It's was INFJ personality
See, I'm not either. I have the ability to shift between the two. In some ways, I'm introverted, but in others, I'm extroverted. But with conversations, I also prefer the deeper and meaningful ones. But I can also small talk, if I have to.
Fathan I don't believe I'm an INFJ. INFJ is the rarest personality from what I've heard.
Im an introvert i get tired of talking so easily i love listening to so many stories gosh wow wow wow this channel knows us all
Me too! I hate to talk 😭
as a a semi extrovert i really enjoy introverts, they’re always very wise people who are always willing to listen to your problems. it’s definitely not a bad thing to be quiet and as someone who enjoys talking a lot it feels nice when someone is listening to you. so never feel bad about being an introvert (not extrovert) we all have our strengths and weaknesses :)
As an introvert I relate to almost all of these! And it feels so good.
Psych2go talking about introverts and extroverts:
Ambiverts: 👁💧👄💧👁
😂
Ambiverts: Is it too much to ask for both?
You're valid!
Meee✌😿
same :D
Tbh, I am 'introverted' to new people but I am 'extroverted' to my friends.
But I hope this is true.
same
Kinda
@k i n d - b l x z z i n g s Same
Same here
i talk alotta stuff to my family but im introverted to the outside world-
Raise your hands if you're an introvert ✋
*curl into a ball*
*in the tiniest sound* I don't feel comfortable raising my hand
*nuts*
*raises a finger while hiding under my sheets*
*stares at comment and raises hand slowly not to high im shy*
*Cuts off half of hand and raises it*
One thing I like about being an introvert is because one time in school one teacher said “I love how much you excel at your work yet you can make others happy”
As an introvert, I've always seen it as my own downfall (of course, my social anxiety and depression don't help). Why can't I be better at conversation or be making friends on the daily like my brother (who's an extrovert)? I honestly wish I had seen this video a long time ago. I feel better knowing that there are advantages to being an introvert and maybe I can learn to embrace who I am as one.
Exactly what I thought my whole school life. But now, I like who I am and I'm trying to fully embrace myself. I wish you best on your journey💜
Yeah i got overwhelmed how my little brother and sister still keeping up thier happy go luck at young age i embrace myself as an introvert since i got anxiety and overthinking at young age extroversion makes it more overwhelmed because people around me always gives me those stuff but i guess having a big social life is a big no no to me i always got mental breakdown whenever my anxiety from people starts kicking especially when playing games when i lessen my people in my community its feeling good now even rn i feel good having a silent time rather than communicating with many people again
I ruin my sleep schedule *better* than them.
*Nah dude I'm extraverted yet I don't sleep until like 3am*
@@venomase5572 Same
Venomase I go to sleep at 4
True facts my friend
@@venomase5572 weak try 6 am instead
I’m mostly an introvert, I don’t mind being by myself, but I do like having people around occasionally.
@Akira Davey I can see a point to that. It's funny how after about an hour or two, I get to the point where I'm like, I need to be alone now
too Me
_The artsyle is more valuable than me-_
Me too
Of course ;)
Hmm idk
Me:If I don’t do art I die
Me:Ehh I am kinda lazy
Me:I shall do it even though I am uninspired
My brain:hmmm which one now?
Im sure you're valuable :) But, the art style is really cute
Nothing’s more valuable than you
As an introvert, this makes me feel better about myself lol!
I've actually gotten way smarter in lock down too so I feel like I'm a smart person xD
I remember my late brother always used to tell me not to say how I really felt when people asked the question 'how are you' because it was just a script they ran through, and they weren't really interested.
My stance on the question was (and still is): if you don't want me to answer that question truthfully, don't ask it in the first place.
Me being both introvert and extrovert
*Anyways*
ambivert then?
best of both worlds then 👀
@@lobaloxrajobs9354 *slowing release myself from the ball I've curled into for hours* was that- a Hannah Montana reference
You're and ambivert
Are you an ambivert?
im anambivert..but more inclined towards introvert..but i hae some extrovert things too
I’m a introvert but I also like being social like extroverts but after so long I need time to myself to recharge by being alone in the quiet
According to previous videos, it seems to be a thing.
you're a social introvert like me
That means you are an ambivert...
That means you're either a social introvert or an ambivert .
This video is really interesting
6 days ago that's illegal
Oml
@@youwantmyname9208 he is member
Truee
Which part did you find interesting?
Its also good to be Extrovert, i love being in the spot light because it is what makes me feel motivated
well I'm kinda an introvert. I relate to problem solving, listening, getting lost in my own world, knowing someone's emotions, keeping secrets, strategic thinking, deep conversations, etc.
i always feel like this channel is the soulmate i've never had. and i loved it. i feel like im understood in a whole different level, thanks for that!
Introvert here 🙋and I kinda think I'm proud of being one tho it's so hard for me to socialize and even walk in the mall,,,
(Btw a "how to stop daydreaming" vid will be great but that's just a suggestion tho😁)
I also would really like to see video about that
@@Kondr129 yeahhh it will really help
❤️ your voice is really calming
Thank you!
"Introverts, that's you-"
Me: *Silence*
Lol, same
"Keeping secrets"
My introverted butt: *Because I always forget them*
After awhile , yes. Relatable ✊
Thing 1: Playing Minecraft Singleplayer
And when you actually get someone to play with you in that single player world, you keep a close distance with them so they don't mess anything up.
Thing 2: Playing roblox in private server
Thing 1: Playing Minecraft Singleplayer
I do that all the time
I excel at singleplayer minecraft but the nanosecond a person joins. There goes all my luck, resources,and literally everything else I own.
Thank you for this video, it made me think of being an introvert in a different and more positive way. I must admit that I had a bad day and this just made me think that I don’t need to be extroverted. This made my day and I hope you have great one too.
Introverts also hide bodies better than extroverts. I can tell from personal experience. The police still didn’t find the body LOL
I beg your pardon?
@@mayominx shhh
They aren't supposed to know about that one.
Dont say it someone might find it out.
Its supposed to be secret
Hold up-
As a total introvert, I completely agree with everything mentioned in this video. Another thing about introverts is that, in written or typed word, we seem like extroverts. So, a lot of people we talk to online or through letters/cards whom we've never met face to face before probably mistake us for extroverts. I love having conversations with people online but dread having face to face conversations (or, really, having to say anything other than “Hi”) with people.
I never comment, but I want to say how grateful I am for this channel. I’ve felt like there was something wrong with me and I needed to change. Now I feel acknowledged and understood. I feel like a more valued part of society and I am going to focus on things I am good at instead of getting down about things I could do better. Thank you🤗
Why are Extroverts never asked "Why are You so Loud?" as in Always Talking?
Probably because that is what society expects from us.
Like when homosexuals "have" to come out of a closet because people asume they are heterosexual by default.
Uh you introverts just don’t realize it we are asked like that all the time it is just as bad as telling you introverts to speak up
That would be an excellent comeback line.
Extrovert: [to Introvert] Why are you so quiet?
Introvert: I dunno. Why are you so loud?
I'm Introverted & my family want me to be more socializing. But it exhaust me so much!
This channel helped me grow my self confidence. So, I'm thankful to this channel. Keep spreading :-)
I have to agree. But I feel like I want to just remove myself from their lives in that extent. :CC
@@oochipchoogi But it's not worth it. I always try to be myself ignoring everyone. And you got to admit that you need people in your life.
Sukanta Sen
I guess that’s true... I currently am struggling on my own so I may be narrow-minded...
It's the small talk that holds introverts back
Is it, though?, being able to small talk isn't an innate gift like being tall, it can be learned, and it has its uses.
You’re voice is so calm, it’s honestly quite refreshing. 😅 I hate it when some you tubers are just shouting down your ear, but you have a better approach, and it works
I'm an introvert at a very young age. They think that I spend too much time by myself...too shy then to talk... always listening to others. I was always thinking of something that I don't talk about it to others. Your video has hit the right marks about us... thank you. I now understand myself more...🙏☺️🙏
Thank you so much for this video!!! I always see what introverts should change about themselves, how to be more sociable, etc. and honestly I've had enough! Why can't they just accept introverts the way they are and appreciate their things?? It really makes me sad. But seeing vids, post like this gives me hope! Fellow introvert who reads this, you are loved and there is nothing wrong with you!!!
Awww I felt so loved now after you've been praising me for the whole video, one thing for sure we do social distancing better than they
Yep
Summary Timelines
1. Active listening----00:55
2. Keeping secrets----1:21
3. Introspection----1:49
4. Reading emotion----2:21
5. Careful observation----2:52
6. Deep conversations-----3:23
7. Strategic thinking----3:49
8. Problem solving-----4:23
9. Compassionate leadership----4:56
Happy watching🎉🎉🎉🎉
#psych2go🎉🎉🎉🎉
lmao
Yup, folks have even said this about the sort of leadership I lead with: more compassionate. However, having my sister over has made me realize a lot of these differences about both of us, because she is much more extraverted (thus also fearless) than me! Lol I take time to think DEEPLY very often, especially when listening to others or dealing with conflict and I appreciate simply being in the shadows, as I let others take the spotlight!
as a life long introvert, this made me feel very good about myself & my abilities. thank you 😌☺️
This channel really makes me love myself and accept it, and It makes me feel comfortable that I don't need to change ☺
This makes me happy about being Introvert :D
Me too.
I keep a whole lot of secrets being an introvert
this truly made me feel better about myself. Ive been in an depressive episode for weeks now and thinking bad of myself and feeling like an awful person but this made me feel much better
Me at the beginning of quarantine: "Yes I can be alone!"
Realizing I live with my family: *"Well Crap :`)"*
The guy there is so good at keeping secrets, that even we didn't see it.
Okay but somehow the intro made me feel better 💓 I always thought extroverts dominates the world (There is nothing wrong being extrovert just do you) so I used to think being introvert is a sickness but thinking 40% of the world makes of intriverts made me feel better 💓 I actually love being introvert and I won't trade being another type in the world 💓
*When you don't know which one you are*
But seriously😂, I am _extremely chatty_ and active, but also really perceptive (my friends told me they like opening up to me because, I quote, I'm _"a great listener and knows more about their present emotions than they do themselves"_ ). Likes to keep to myself, yet enjoys the company of others very much. Really loves❤ classical old style stuff, and even old gestures and quiet moments and all that, but also enjoy loud and fun parties. I can't say about music, I love all the genres, from classical to jazz to rock, etc. (I have atleast 5 of every kind in my playlist, noshit I got 800 songs in my phone😂). Lastly, I overthink [future scenarios... *every possible outcome* ] a lot and even though I thoroughly think of what my next move should be, no matter how discreet and quiet or expressive and confident, it always ends up the opposite😂
So *ambivert* then?
Is that even a thing ambivert?
L .Lawliet yes it is a thing.
I'm not an expert on this but I would say you're an ambivert! I'm like you but just the more introverted parts. I get crazy around my super close friends but parties aren't my thing 😂
This video was so beautiful, and the video topic is also one i adore because im Introvert myself. This is by far my fav vid of yours!
All of this videos had helped me to understand myself more and i thank you for that. I even understood the reason why i felt so hurt the last year with a friend. He's extrovert, he loves to be around people and he also likes the attention he gets, i knew that, so i looked for opportunities for him to meet more people in a new circle of friends for both of us...so we usually meet with this friends once a week the fridays, but even if i enjoyed it i and i love them i don't like to stay out so late, i usually said that i wanted to sleep after being with them like 3 or 4 hours and then i just wanted to go, but tbh i went to my home and maybe watch tv or sit in my living room in the living room and think. Also, he started to "advice me" that maybe sometimes because of that i look too serious or grumpy and even that i didn't care as much as him for our friendship because i didn't make the effort to go out more with him to places that i don't really enjoy, or that i wasn't treasuring his feelings because when he said something really nice to me i didn't extend as him with my feelings put into words, etc...Now what i see is that even if we meet each other for a really long time ago in that time i started to show more of me, i trusted in that he knew me enough so that i don't have to lie about the real reasons why i wanted to go earlier (i was just tired), and like we were close, finally i didn't have to invent excuses to go to some places and with people i don't know! so i could be honest and say: "i don't really want to go, thanks", right? and also i didn't have to force myself in answers about my feelings that in that moment i didn't feel like to talk about it...because i'm completely sure that i had show my love and feelings in other ways and even with words...just not all the time...so, what hurt me is that i was feeling comfty to show myself like i really am and what i receive was "advices" to be different. Why do i always think about the well being of my extroverts friends and i try that they don't feel uncomfortable but they can't do the same thing with me?
1. Active listening
2. Keeping Secrets
3. Introspection (understanding of emotions)
4. Reading emotions of others
5. Careful Observations
6. Deep/Meaningful Conversations
7. Strategical Thinking
8. Problem Solving
9. Compassionate Leadership
Hope you all have an amazing and wonderful day/night :’) 🤍
Thanks!
Being an Introvert, I honestly feel that I have some kind of superpower over others.
this made me feel better about myself, thank you
Atleast I know I am not the only one, I also can hear multiple conversations at once. And I can also understand what is being said during them.
OMG your voice is so peaceful! ♡♡♡
When someone asks me about my life imma send them this video and call it my lifes trailer
I'm An Introvert, and All of these are Completely Accurate 100%
Wow this is the first time i've ever feel so confident as an introvert.
People used to tell me I'm too energetic or talkative and I use to think it was a terrible thing, now its more of something I'm grateful of, reading people is my specialty
When collaborating or doing a group project, I tend to let my members bring out each of their opinions and ideas, and discuss about them.
After a considerable amount of thoughts, we polished them and agree altogether.
So many times where I see a group work where one is the leader and they pressured the others to follow their commands (it's not even considered bad, it's standard in my school to have the leader being dominant) and seeing them being so overwhelmed made me felt upset.
Glad I've got to show my teachers and friends that being a leadership is not about having control, but rather being free in expressing their thoughts and opinions.
Thanks Psych2Go, 💓.
Sometimes the roles are switched, therefore, different work ethic.
As an introvert, I enjoy quarantine and online schools way more than being in a public schools.
Yeah true because in public schools you can talk to other people but in online schools you can just mute.
0w0, so I'm not the only one who feels like that
This makes me happy to be an introvert ❣️🎉
Ah yes I have found my place, A place where introverts can understand eachother 😌✌🏻
i agree with all of it. we introverts do need some recovery time after being "on" though. i'm in tech sales, and have learned to accommodate that.
I 100% agree with this, and everyone around me tells me that I have to be an extrovert, so I hide that I am an introvert. but I just realized that I can do things that others can't, thank you so much for this video. thank you.
I hope no one says " im an extrovert i do that better than my introvert friend" m8 that may be true but we just tryna feel better about ourselves cmon
I have a problem: I think I am an introvert, and i am extremely self-conscious every time that I am in public, I tend to overthink, and I am constantly trying to be nice and good-looking. I don't do it on purpose.
Any advice?
I think u have a trouble accepting yourself as it is. That's why u try so hard to fit in somewhere. It won't happen until u become comfortable in your skin and accept yourself without feeling ashamed.
Thank you so much for the answers!
Think of things you're good at and capitalize on them, look for things you're bad at and look for ways to fix/minimize them, takes effort but it can be done.
" Introspection"
Me: you got me 👁👄👁
Is anyone else both an introvert and extrovert?
I’m introvert around people I don’t know (but as I get to know them I’m an extreme extrovert, and I still be a good listener), my crushes, and people I don’t feel comfortable being around.
I’m an extrovert around my friends, family, people I’m extremely comfortable with, and MOST teachers (because they are fun to talk to, well some of them and sometimes).
People see me as the “shy” kid at school and they are right and wrong, I am actually quiet at school and shy around others (mostly my crushes) but I have my reasons of being quiet which is because 1. I’m trying to focus on something 2. I don’t feel like talking (not in the mood) 3. I don’t know what to say 4. I’m tired, those are the 4 main reasons so just don’t assume someone is quiet or shy because they don’t talk but yes I am quiet and quite fun (funny too) when you get to know me.
Spot.On.
The only one I do not excel at as an introvert is deep conversation. I loathe small talk, but I struggle with deep conversation because I tend to get lost in my own head, and can’t find the right words because I overthink everything I want to say.
I came here to see whether am I an introvert or extrovert
And I knew it....
I am an introvert 😅
*happy time traveler noises*
Ana Paula Mendoza Díaz .........
Wtf? How are you six days? Wh..... What the-
Hello? Am I going crazy😂
Patreon members making me jealous again 😤
when u time travel take me with u!!!
Hi!
Finally a completely relatable video.
Yes!
I tend to listen more often than say anything. I feel I can barely get a word in anyway. As far as secrets go, I keep them pretty secured. I guess I really am introspective, being known for music. I'm not always able to see things from an emotional standpoint. I always take in as much info as I can. Not one for small talk, I can only go deep with a select few people. I tend think more than anything. I can solve a few issues given all the details.
Thank you for adding the percentage of introverts in the beginning. Helps me feel less alone 💜
Let's just take a moment to appreciate the animation in this video!! Awesome hey!? 😍
But I don't know why extroverts are made feel down during lockdown though I am an ambrivert but the extroverts are the most depressed persons during lockdown still every one are just portraying the introverts good qualities
When you used yo be an extrovert but so much happened that you can't extrovert aymore
At 2:16, when it says the hobbies, I do painting, photography, playing piano, and Baking! This one definitely hits deep for me.
I hate how long it takes me to text/think of what to say, but i'm glad in the end. It's a good feeling knowing someone has taken the time to text me, and I want to be able to respond 100% the best I can back ^w^