5 Signs You Have Emotional Trauma (And How To Heal)

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  • Опубліковано 8 чер 2024
  • There are many causes of trauma. Examples of things that could cause trauma include childhood trauma, sexual abuse, gang violence, war, terrorist events, and physical abuse. The list of what can cause trauma goes on. In this video, we talk about emotional trauma healing, mental health, and how to heal from emotional trauma.
    We encourage that if you recognize some of these signs, that you consider professional help.
    Are you emotionally wounded and don't even know it? Here are a few signs to look out for: • Do You Have Emotional ...
    Writer: Maysara Salah
    Script Editor: Denise Ding
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
    Animator: Lesly
    UA-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong

КОМЕНТАРІ • 3,8 тис.

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  2 роки тому +2244

    May is Mental Health Awareness month. What are some songs that inspire you and your emotional health?

  • @Yormsane
    @Yormsane 2 роки тому +10147

    "Being alive, but not living..." is so many of us, for these last four years.

    • @ninstarjose
      @ninstarjose 2 роки тому +260

      I approve this, i thought i was like trapped in just 4 walls, just doing my tasks and that's all, i didn't even have the opportunity to do something that gives me enough motivation to live, just home tasks and that's that. Honestly, it was boring and so repetitive, i thought i was just there: trying to keep myself alive, but i wasn't alive at all.

    • @ladylove8209
      @ladylove8209 2 роки тому +27

      I agree 👍

    • @hellbyshortcake1321
      @hellbyshortcake1321 2 роки тому +98

      a lifetime for me and still can’t heal from it.

    • @sonjakrsmanovic4470
      @sonjakrsmanovic4470 2 роки тому +16

      That was me

    • @Rich-wi7dn
      @Rich-wi7dn 2 роки тому +77

      It’s been a lot longer than two years for me.

  • @lauraburns3572
    @lauraburns3572 2 роки тому +592

    It's so strange that the most kindness comes from strangers, instead of loved ones

    • @VworksArt
      @VworksArt Рік тому +40

      Funny how that works. It bugged me for a while until I accepted that "Family" Are just people. Just like any other stranger.
      The word "Family" doesn't have anything to do with blood, but everything to do with the relationships you have with others.

    • @Scoupe400
      @Scoupe400 Рік тому +9

      Yup. Can feel empty. But I guess it can be whatever you make of it - choose who to intersect with rather than feel duty bound.
      I’ve so often misjudged people because I assume they have the same inner core beliefs.

    • @lexione14
      @lexione14 Рік тому +8

      Truest statement in life

    • @jeonvkq3999
      @jeonvkq3999 Рік тому

      Frfr

    • @d.l.l.6578
      @d.l.l.6578 Рік тому +2

      If they’re not kind, why are they loved ones? We need to reconsider who we deem worthy of being a loved one.

  • @darkhero2114
    @darkhero2114 Рік тому +1640

    To anyone who's emotionally hurting, I'm sorry. We'll find a way to get through it. I know it's exhausting, but no matter what, we must keep fighting!

    • @rosemaryclarke2348
      @rosemaryclarke2348 Рік тому +24

      YOU'RE SO RIGHT! THANK YOU ON BEHALF OF EVERYONE!

    • @darkhero2114
      @darkhero2114 Рік тому +3

      @@rosemaryclarke2348 YOU'RE WELCOME!

    • @christopherlarson3401
      @christopherlarson3401 Рік тому +3

      Thank you ❤

    • @darkhero2114
      @darkhero2114 Рік тому +2

      @@christopherlarson3401 You're welcome, it's what needs to be said.

    • @christopherlarson3401
      @christopherlarson3401 Рік тому +8

      @bell I am going through HELL…I understand what you are saying. Hang in there, because Jesus loves you and won’t give up on you.

  • @Nola5427
    @Nola5427 Рік тому +487

    I believe another sign that you still have emotional trauma and need to heal is that if you still get triggered, I have been on a spiritual journey for the last year and it hasn' t always been easy, i' ve learned some really hard lessons, i' ve cried, i' ve awoken and i' ve healed alot, sometimes I think i' ve completly healed then something will trigger me bringing me back to all those bad feelings, anger, hurt, rage, resentment and then I think wow I guess i' m not totally healed yet, it' s a process and it won' t happen over night! I send out lots of Love to those going through this, it' s not easy 💗❤️💗

    • @TammyMacMac
      @TammyMacMac Рік тому +8

      This is me exactly!

    • @annebarboza
      @annebarboza Рік тому +3

      Thank you for speaking out 🥺 I thought I was alone. What do you do when you were triggered?

    • @1CandyGirl
      @1CandyGirl Рік тому +2

      Thank you, Nola. May we all soon reach that place of healing.

    • @Marciav12
      @Marciav12 Рік тому +2

      Couldn't have said it better. That's where I am too

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 Рік тому +1

      @@annebarboza hi, that is a very good question ! I myself find videos help, I have Bianuraul beat ones, Reiki videos and subliminal ones in my playlist, I pick ones that apply and listen to them when i' m napping and throughout the night, they' ve really helped me and time! 🩷🩷🩷

  • @seraph7498
    @seraph7498 2 роки тому +5005

    1. Being alive but not living 0:42
    2. Being disproportionatly sad or emotional or angry or more 1:44
    3. You can't stop replaying the situation over and over 2:41
    4. Self growth stunted by fear 3:25
    5. Sleep schedule? What sleep schedule? 4:38
    have a wonderful dayyy

    • @thefishinggamekeeper5713
      @thefishinggamekeeper5713 2 роки тому +47

      Thanks for keeping all the topics talked here in order.

    • @MEUCHELM0RDER
      @MEUCHELM0RDER 2 роки тому +17

      Ok 1-5
      What do I win?

    • @SillySamWho
      @SillySamWho 2 роки тому +13

      I Mean.. Welp, Shit. I Guess I Was A Bit Traumatized When My Dad Do That.

    • @dinglebord
      @dinglebord 2 роки тому +7

      I'm 2 of these number 2 and number 5 but with number 2 it's just the getting angry than saying why did I do that

    • @scarasbf
      @scarasbf 2 роки тому +6

      1-4 is me

  • @KHAMMIE
    @KHAMMIE 2 роки тому +2092

    “Wanting to forget and mentally escape what or who hurt you but can’t” is another one☝️

    • @starwalk3r
      @starwalk3r 2 роки тому +71

      This is one I struggle with all the time. Thanks for writing it down for me.

    • @wungtang1409
      @wungtang1409 2 роки тому +42

      Same brethren I wished I could go back in time to stop myself from fallen in love 💔💔

    • @wungtang1409
      @wungtang1409 2 роки тому +49

      Even though wounds heal as we move on in life. It's always leave a scar behind

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +64

      Yes!!

    • @cathyduggar6545
      @cathyduggar6545 2 роки тому +11

      The domestic violence shelter had therapists who knew how to help. For free. I wasnt in danger anymore, I was 5 yrs out and physically safe while he stays incarcerated, they still helped me no cost no problem. Regular state M.H. therapists that require insurance or payment arent equipped in my experiences.

  • @blessedsoul949
    @blessedsoul949 Рік тому +770

    I thank God I survived the emotional and physical trauma I went through end of 2021 and part of 2022. Twas the hardest and most painful time of my life. I have never cried so much or been that suicidal. Now at the acceptance/healing phase. For all of us who have been through emotional trauma,we will get through this. Stay strong!

    • @KaterinaPieroua
      @KaterinaPieroua Рік тому +5

      Exactly the same 😔

    • @kameronflewellen5790
      @kameronflewellen5790 Рік тому +5

      Same dude we can do it and it okay too cry👍👍👍💙💙💙💙💙

    • @Afrocreolebombshell
      @Afrocreolebombshell Рік тому +2

      💯💯

    • @ModArtist
      @ModArtist Рік тому +2

      Having being so 'Blessed" and having received permanent physical injuries, my additional advice is; "Do not do what Jesus Did!" One: Crucification is a very bad ideal as are other tortures. Two: Suicide is not a good solution! Three; Although Jesus may have had intentions, it did not resolve the problem with all the terrorists and criminals in the world! Four: ... HOLD ON PLEASE! See 1) 2) 3) regarding crucifixions and other tortures & what else mentioned in case you couldn't comprehend the rest on what "Crucification" is ! To Luvjes and whomever else might need clarification, I'll give another hint real this whole passage again as the HOLD On... Part was because of an important phone call & did not have return to this until Just now... Meaning not only is it unfinished, nor even close to being fully edited yet, nonetheless I'm keeping both words ( Crucifixion (s) and Crucification (s) because why? ) See movie, Big Daddy and court scenes there in, then see some real court scenes pertaining to same and relevant and sorry you won't my best foster parents who served in WWII or my brother from Vietnam Era, why because they are not on planet earth any more, and seeing how other living brother, I was recently informed and after 30~40 minute talk with him and several calls to others regarding his health and a few other things. Which have me occupied since this post up to the HOLD ON part. And I would not recommend you to attempt to correct on grammar, punctuation or quite a few other things, because he is probably still in the hospital and that is all you need to know about that, and for what's it's worth, I have survived no less than 4 strokes and quite a many other things, including terrorists with their knives to my throat and guns in my face, along with same battle scars of quite a few types. Now if you would like additional information in braille, or other form, let me know! 🐕‍🦺🐾🐾🚥🚦🚥😎☕😎
      p.s . Google spell hex xor is real helpful too, ha ha!
      שָׁלוֹם עָלֵיכֶם!

    • @Licoricebean
      @Licoricebean Рік тому +1

      @@ModArtist I’m sorry for asking but what’s Crucification?

  • @therodentcollective
    @therodentcollective Рік тому +251

    3:40 the worst is when you push through the fear and get into a new relationship with someone completely different and they treat you exactly the same as the last person and say the same things to you, which just makes it feel so much more true, all the horrible things they say about you

    • @OneBiasedOpinion
      @OneBiasedOpinion Рік тому +27

      I’ve never understood why people insist you “need to try again.”
      If I was burned and wish to not go near the flame again, why keep pushing me towards it? And don’t say “you just need to give it a second chance,” because I’ve seen that story play out badly one too many times. Some of us can live without certain experiences, and quite happily. Don’t shove us towards them just because someone else got a happier ending.

    • @ChickenSDS
      @ChickenSDS Рік тому +6

      It may not be your fault people you come in contact are rude to you but it is always your responsibility to figure out why they're like that. People are rude, people can backstab and betray you all they want but are you going to let it happen or are you going to stand up for yourself and stop letting these snakes into your life?

    • @paulaw9764
      @paulaw9764 Рік тому +15

      I disclose to much to soon, that way they know your weaknesses etc, in future I plan to stop talking so much, if there is a next time. Try and be mysterious my friend used to say to me, I wear my heart on my sleeve though.

    • @yousmakhan9
      @yousmakhan9 Рік тому +7

      Happens to the best of us. We have to discern properly and even if it happens again. We should always give ourselves time and space to learn and heal more.
      Yes, every person is different. But we can sometimes be attracted towards the same energy again because there’s something more our subconscious wants to heal from that isn’t in our awareness.
      Love and respect yourself properly before you seek it from others. It will all come to you at the right place, right time and from right person.
      Most often, we mistreat ourselves a lot and expect good treatment from others (I can understand growing up in an abusive and narcissistic household - it happened to me as well).

    • @damion4463
      @damion4463 Рік тому +4

      ​@@paulaw9764 hi stranger...this is my problem as well hopefully soon we can find someone that doesn't ruin it or take advantage of it😔💯

  • @johanmeijer1341
    @johanmeijer1341 2 роки тому +866

    I'm still dealing with my wife's passing two years ago. We were married for 35 years and life is just not the same without her. It's not easy, but I'm trying to move on and find my way in this new life.

  • @chaidailene1382
    @chaidailene1382 2 роки тому +1341

    i swear every time i watch one of your guy’s videos i literally just end up sobbing bc it feels so nice to know that someone finally understands how things really do get. thank you for making these types of videos :)

    • @hazukichanx408
      @hazukichanx408 2 роки тому +38

      I can't help thinking this stuff should be taught in schools. It's a heck of a lot more useful than obscure, obsolete mathematical methods or handwriting, because it's completely universal - everyone wants to feel good, understood, happy. Most people will at some point face largely the same challenges, at varying levels of severity. Sure, the douchebag(s) in class would of course go "Ha ha, lame! Who the crap cares about _emotions_ and _mental health_ ...I think teacher's the one who's got _issues!"_ and generally propagate the same moronic cycle of unhealthy mentalities breeding more unhealthy mentalities... But perhaps those kids could then be verbally reprimanded using a set of pre-prepared phrases that eloquently and pithily illuminate the pitiful and unhelpful nature of their dignity-parasitizing interjection.^^

    • @bussy_eyelashes
      @bussy_eyelashes 2 роки тому +9

      @@hazukichanx408 true, life skill is more important than some practical number counting or science experiments. But science knowledge is important though.

    • @luck8805
      @luck8805 2 роки тому +2

      Sameeee

    • @geanbean1305
      @geanbean1305 2 роки тому +2

      Same my friend 💕

    • @lg5221
      @lg5221 2 роки тому

      Made by computer

  • @fanta2180
    @fanta2180 Рік тому +142

    “Living in a surviving mode” 💔
    Nothing is more painful than having someone you love the most, hurt you. When you’re still in this emotion trauma,

    • @fanta2180
      @fanta2180 Рік тому +17

      yet they’re moving on in real time before your eyes.
      It’s true that emotional pains cut you deeply than the physical ones.

    • @OllieFoxyYt
      @OllieFoxyYt Рік тому +2

      I shall switch to creative mode sorry about that I forgot i was in survival

    • @simpleperson3517
      @simpleperson3517 Рік тому

      Love and respect should be mutual. The person, who you should love the most, is you. If your emotions are being played with, you should take a stand. If things turn out for the worse, you should move on. In a relationship, it is more of 'us' than one. You both should be complementing each other. If this does not happen, there is no point in prolonging.

    • @fanta2180
      @fanta2180 Рік тому +3

      @@simpleperson3517 agreed, thank you for the response though. I’m done being broken, thanks God. It’s been two years soon, should be long enough to live in sorrow. Now I’m enjoying my own company more than ever, I wouldn’t have believed if someone have told me then… that I will get better. I do, I got better 😁

    • @simpleperson3517
      @simpleperson3517 Рік тому +1

      That is wonderful to know. Happy for you :) We should shift our focus to other important things in life and find happiness in all the little things we do. You will eventually get the right person in life and you need not go looking for that person. It will happen when it has to happen :) Love yourself and do take good care of yourself.

  • @Babarakrimbel4884
    @Babarakrimbel4884 27 днів тому +39

    Psychedelics are just an amazing discovery. It's quite fascinating how effective they are for depression and stress..saved my life.

    • @JordanRike
      @JordanRike 27 днів тому +18

      Psychedelics definitely have potential to deal with health issues like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them but it's just hard to source out here.

    • @Heisenberg-35
      @Heisenberg-35 27 днів тому +9

      I'm feeling the same way too. I put so much on my plate and it definitelv affects mv stress and anxietv levels

    • @okayfg
      @okayfg 27 днів тому +5

      I was having this constant and unbearable anxiety because of university stress. Not until I came across Ted Winston, a very intelligent mycologist, He saved my life honestly.

    • @JoelMathew-qk1qh
      @JoelMathew-qk1qh 27 днів тому +6

      Is he on insta?

    • @phillipXx
      @phillipXx 27 днів тому +9

      HE'S MOSTLY ON INSTAGRAMS, USING THE USERNAME

  • @Jason_Maier
    @Jason_Maier 2 роки тому +527

    I'm glad I found this channel.
    And nearly 4 years later, still trying to heal from trauma (grandfather's death).

    • @kayy_ann
      @kayy_ann 2 роки тому +13

      my grandpa died last month

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +44

      Grief is a process... What are some things that you are proud of about your grandfather? Do you want to share it with the world?

    • @_mptx_
      @_mptx_ 2 роки тому +4

      My grandad passed yesterday 😭

    • @kayy_ann
      @kayy_ann 2 роки тому +4

      @@_mptx_ im sorry

    • @rayoonab9970
      @rayoonab9970 2 роки тому +5

      @@_mptx_ Im so sorry for your loss

  • @Raghav-tx6ym
    @Raghav-tx6ym 2 роки тому +247

    0:45 Being alive but not living.
    1:48 Being disproportionately emotional.
    2:45 Not able to stop the situation from replaying over and over again.
    3:28 Self growth stunted by fear.
    4:45 No sleep schedule.

  • @steceymorgan814
    @steceymorgan814 4 місяці тому +254

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 4 місяці тому +2

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes, dr.sporesss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @patriaciasmith3499
      @patriaciasmith3499 4 місяці тому +1

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 4 місяці тому

      Is he on instagram?

    • @elizabethwilliams6651
      @elizabethwilliams6651 4 місяці тому

      Yes he is. dr.sporesss

  • @KGnome06
    @KGnome06 Рік тому +109

    The biggest challenge I bet many of us face, not just me, is having a really rough night, where maybe you cried or many other things, but then the next day…the world keeps moving and you need to too. I personally have an issue of waking up in the morning for school, picking up my feelings of the floor where I slept, and going to school. Pretending you don’t feel like shit.

    • @laurensrandomthoughts
      @laurensrandomthoughts Рік тому +4

      I feel this soo much

    • @klara7655
      @klara7655 Рік тому +3

      same here, often feeling like a loser

    • @tylerbutterfras3421
      @tylerbutterfras3421 10 місяців тому +6

      Absolutely agreed. These days at work when I’m just so mentally fatigued with my personally life but I have to show up and go through the motions while my mind is completely elsewhere.

    • @almondmilksoda
      @almondmilksoda 8 місяців тому +5

      Yup. As a child I learned to suppress my emotions because I was forced to "get on with it" (whether it be school, work, or whatever else). This system (society?) is not set up to support emotional healing, let alone humanity, whatsoever. Our systems alone are oppressing us. We don't have space - time - to even be human. To feel our feelings and live from an authentic place. This needs to change. As a species, we will not survive without some sort of shift out of these oppressive, inhumane systems.

    • @janineflores4416
      @janineflores4416 Місяць тому

      ❤😂❤ you made me laugh. Best of Luck to you!

  • @gmoney1061
    @gmoney1061 2 роки тому +502

    I’m still going through this even as a grown man! It’s not easy to talk about without feeling you are “weak.” 😔😡

    • @dongsondoantran2233
      @dongsondoantran2233 2 роки тому +65

      You know, I’m a student at a military college, and a lot of the people here struggle with that a lot. But I think what really helped me is framing the definition of weak a bit differently. Think of the emotional wound as a challenge to overcome. Is it weak to avoid the challenge, or stand and face it head on? Choosing to talk about stuff and be emotional to somebody feels weak because it makes us vulnerable. Hell, I felt it too when I talked to my therapist for the first time. But by choosing to talk about the issue, you are challenging your demon head on. That is honorable. That is admirable. And that is hella strong.

    • @gmoney1061
      @gmoney1061 2 роки тому +14

      @@dongsondoantran2233 Thanks man! I appreciate! 😎👍🏾

    • @luckyduchesse8924
      @luckyduchesse8924 2 роки тому +16

      @@dongsondoantran2233 Indeed, it takes a lot of courage to face something hurtful to you. It's something to be proud of. It sure isn't weak !

    • @serenity9756
      @serenity9756 2 роки тому +9

      @@dongsondoantran2233 I absolutely love your perspective on this

    • @dongsondoantran2233
      @dongsondoantran2233 2 роки тому +3

      @@gmoney1061 No problem! I'm always happy to help.

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +556

    Stunted self growth is my biggest issue when it comes to emotional wounds and definitely something I’m still working toward overcoming 💛

    • @TooLooze
      @TooLooze 2 роки тому +17

      It took me 60 years to even get that far. But once your growth starts it is very enlightening.
      Namaste and love to all who read.

    • @gnarthdarkanen7464
      @gnarthdarkanen7464 2 роки тому +10

      Sometimes you sit in awe and realize just how BIG the question "What do YOU want?" really is... ;o)

    • @astalavista5328
      @astalavista5328 2 роки тому +2

      @@TooLooze 60 never you look late 30s

    • @TooLooze
      @TooLooze 2 роки тому +3

      @@astalavista5328 72 actually. Thanks!!

    • @astalavista5328
      @astalavista5328 2 роки тому +2

      @@TooLooze you look amazing 💜

  • @ChrisEastwoodComedy
    @ChrisEastwoodComedy Рік тому +189

    Reading the comments, it’s actually reassuring to know that so many others are going through a lot of the same emotions. Thank you for making these videos. They’re very eye-opening when it comes to pinpointing specific things that maybe weren’t as obvious before.

  • @fitp74
    @fitp74 Рік тому +141

    She explained my situation perfect. Me being an empath and highly compassionate. I just don’t want to deal with anyone anymore. I want to be alone

    • @JustMe-oj5zq
      @JustMe-oj5zq Рік тому +26

      I’m at that stage now…just told someone the other day that I don’t want to be involved with anyone…people hurt you n let you down so I’d rather be alone

    • @OyJaPinoy
      @OyJaPinoy Рік тому +6

      same here

    • @chaosdream21
      @chaosdream21 Рік тому +19

      Sending love to my fellow empaths.

    • @noreengrantham3093
      @noreengrantham3093 Рік тому +16

      We need to have a little village for people like us who do without so others can have. We can take care of each other and to hell with the rest of the world.

    • @mickael2501
      @mickael2501 Рік тому +6

      ​@@noreengrantham3093 i'm in only if we allow dogs in 😊

  • @GaryGeat28
    @GaryGeat28 2 роки тому +361

    One of my biggest emotional wounds was caused by shutting myself off of falling in love. 15 years ago, I experienced one of the hardest breakups in my life. Since then I have held on to that emotional damage, which ended up causing more damage to my confidence. What helped me heal that wound was telling myself that it wasn't my fault and that I'm worth much more.

    • @af98
      @af98 2 роки тому +13

      I just went through my worst breakup on friday. I'm still trying to process what happened. I realised I really need to change. I was so close going into survival mode until i watched this video.

    • @lovemusicnatureartsfoods...
      @lovemusicnatureartsfoods... 2 роки тому +9

      Get up and move on I had experienced of being cheated many times but I never give up coz my motto If the leaves falling when the autumn time but the tree still standing and the leaves grow again as more better so why not me grow again as a better person after falling and there's saying too when you have lost accept it coz it has replace of more better coz the God removed a wrong person in your life...

    • @charn.3891
      @charn.3891 2 роки тому +12

      Its 3 months now.. the person i ws engaged to and had planned my life with dumped me because his parents no longer liked me.. i am not able to process this.. the person i had so much trust in.. i am shattered.. disapointed.. not able to move on..

    • @joser_1295
      @joser_1295 2 роки тому +9

      @@af98 Broke up back in January. The hardest thing I’ve ever had to experience. I’ve gotten better, but something is still lingering in my system. I’m trying my best to focus on myself and know that I’ll find someone better.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 роки тому +4

      Marital Breakdown crushed all my hopes and dreams. Still living day to day or rather surviving each day instead of living it. Oh yeah I have BPD/EUPD, childhood trauma and possible autistic traits. I get freaked out if people come too close to my personal space. I'm 40 now...I can't really see it getting better to a functional level ever. I just avoid as much of the dysfunction as I possibly can.

  • @bplionel2
    @bplionel2 Рік тому +71

    Amanda Silvera has a fantastically calming voice.

  • @daisys.tulips0408
    @daisys.tulips0408 Рік тому +144

    I cried along the whole video and it breaks to realise that even though how much I'm trying to get better it's coming to ground 0 with every passing awful incident, I've got serious trauma issues, thanks for verifying ❤️

    • @simranlawrence7994
      @simranlawrence7994 Рік тому +10

      Me too stay strong "the light is coming to give back everything the darkness stole"🎉

    • @lizardomariana7514
      @lizardomariana7514 Рік тому +4

      Your not alone same here 😔💔

    • @Markerrr701
      @Markerrr701 Рік тому +1

      same 🫨🫨🫨

    • @peytonheraldo6769
      @peytonheraldo6769 Рік тому +1

      Same

    • @kruzworks
      @kruzworks 10 місяців тому +1

      I want to cry, but cant for some reason, idk if that's concerning

  • @ceejaneeeeeee07
    @ceejaneeeeeee07 Рік тому +309

    I was mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally drained for almost two years. Heartbreak from a boy i never even had and stress from work led me to neglect myself. I was very aware that I was not the normal me anymore. I tried a lot of things to move on and tried my hardest with work, but it wasn’t working. It wasn’t until April of this year that everything started to change. I realized how my boss manipulated and gaslighted me. So, I quit my work and I started standing up for myself. I found another job and now I wake up happy and excited with life. The boy who broke my heart cut me off from his life and I can’t thank him enough for doing that since I couldn’t do it ughh. I am now learning to be at peace with myself and the things that happened. And even though sometimes I still feel sadness, i embrace it and let it go after writing about it in my journal.

    • @anthonyuwa7427
      @anthonyuwa7427 Рік тому +10

      Thank you for telling ya story, dis exactly wat happening to me,I'm happy to see dis ya write up.. please if possible can I know ya I.g name, I need someone to encourage me

    • @toleratingme
      @toleratingme Рік тому +7

      thank you for sharing, i'm proud of you

    • @uttari57
      @uttari57 Рік тому +4

      I need this. Thank you.

    • @shanti888
      @shanti888 Рік тому +4

      Cjane…Nicely done. I’m inspired by your strength and courage. You’ll for sure find true reciprocated love as you learn to love yourself fully. All the best.

    • @Xomyaa
      @Xomyaa Рік тому +4

      Thank you for this comment I’m currently dealing with the same situation

  • @maryshort8488
    @maryshort8488 2 роки тому +210

    I think that emotional wounds take their own time to heal, just like physical wounds do. Once the emotional pain subsides enough, you can use what you’ve been through as motivation for growth. I’m trying to look objectively at what I’ve been through and see how I can better protect myself in the future without shutting the whole world out.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +16

      Yes, using your experiences to help others is indeed powerful.

    • @cathyduggar6545
      @cathyduggar6545 2 роки тому +2

      I've found I have to be insanely selective, as someone who trusts too easily. So many ppl have robbed me in the last few years. I've gotten 1 true friend out of all of it. 1st of all, they have to help u back. I always help and ppl see that and take advantage. Its seemingly impossible to not offer help when I feel the spirit. Sometimes I am not fooled and can see thru ruses easily. Anyone worth having long term in your life will not rush u into meeting them, especially not refuse to meet in public, or threaten to stop talking to u or worse if u wont GET IN THEIR CAR AND GO OUT OF STATE COME FRIDAY. Anyways, they will never make u feel that u talk too much, too little, never make u uncomfortable and if they do they should become apologetic and never do the same thing. Xoxo

    • @edwardmcdermott6701
      @edwardmcdermott6701 Рік тому +1

      I understand what you're saying but it's been hard for me to do what you're saying because I'm a lot older and broker and I'm having a hard time meeting someone new witch has left me alone for the past 7 yrs and that's been hell.

    • @edwardmcdermott6701
      @edwardmcdermott6701 Рік тому

      @@cathyduggar6545 I wish I could meet you in person. That's all I'm looking for is someone that will truly love me and accept me for who I am. At the age of 47, divorced and singal, it's been hard at best.

  • @Ohkeh640
    @Ohkeh640 Рік тому +57

    Nice to know we’re not alone going through life with so much pain and trauma is so hard ❤❤

  • @seashorelineone
    @seashorelineone Рік тому +48

    Hurts walking away from someone who thinks I’m a creep. Never in my long life has anyone thought I was creepy. It hurts but for my own survival I have to walk away from ex friend who I have shared so much time with. No use spending precious time with someone who thinks you’re a creepy person

    • @curiousmind404
      @curiousmind404 Рік тому

      ?

    • @jebb56
      @jebb56 Рік тому +4

      this hit home for me on a whole new level had a friend do that to me too said i was a creep yet manuplated me to change to something i was not

  • @TheSMILive-fk3sp
    @TheSMILive-fk3sp Рік тому +168

    I'm glad you mentioned sleep. Sleep is more important to our physical, spiritual, mental and emotional health than we think.

    • @longlongshadows392
      @longlongshadows392 Рік тому +9

      I have had insomnia for over a decade. Lack of sleep and broken sleep has brought me NOTHING but misery. I have terrible anxiety and am just so tired. No strength to cope with ANYTHING....just so tired.😔😕

    • @bozhestveniposlaniq
      @bozhestveniposlaniq 4 місяці тому

      Sorry to hear that, but I get you, I've been struggling with sleep issues for 10 years or more and still haven't completely cured. Have you had any therapy or smth else that helps?

    • @rosemariemann1719
      @rosemariemann1719 Місяць тому

      @@longlongshadows392Hello ! 😊
      Please find self hypnosis recordings
      , anti insomnia, and many
      more.
      Michael Sealey is my favourite :
      All hypnosis is self- hypnosis.
      It is pefectly o. k.
      Very telaxing and beneficisl
      🇬🇧😊🦉🌹💙😢😉
      Give it a try, please ! 😊.

  • @PleaseViewMyChannel
    @PleaseViewMyChannel 2 роки тому +53

    To anyone reading this, you deserve to be healed. You deserved to be fully well. ❤️ Go on and let yourself heal. You'll heal whenever youre ready.

  • @zarkos2313
    @zarkos2313 7 місяців тому +27

    Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to heroin for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in November. I have zero cravings.
    This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.

    • @carsonelias4594
      @carsonelias4594 7 місяців тому

      Psychedelic’s definitely have potential to deal with mental health symptoms like anxiety and depression, I would like to try them again again but it’s just so hard to source out of there.

    • @mirabelwatson7863
      @mirabelwatson7863 7 місяців тому +4

      I was having this constant, unbearable anxiety because of university stress. Not until I came across bergwilly11_, a very intelligent mycologist.He saved my life honestly

    • @gergbernes2817
      @gergbernes2817 7 місяців тому

      A lot of people have testified about this and I really want to give it a shot. I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels

    • @Armus187
      @Armus187 7 місяців тому

      The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well

    • @VictoriaReese-ch1xz
      @VictoriaReese-ch1xz 7 місяців тому

      @@mirabelwatson7863Is he on instagram?

  • @maggieo1683
    @maggieo1683 Рік тому +143

    For me, what was really difficult was I went through a TON in the COVID years. Not just the isolation of a global pandemic, but I was stuck with my mom who was deep in addiction, my sister started visiting home from college every so often and throwing raging fits where she would scream at me for literally hours over small things, my dad went missing and still hasn't been found, and I was in a very unhealthy and negative relationship. For a while I felt so out of it and so horrible that I thought I was losing my mind, I would have these sobbing spells and moments when I thought life felt surreal, plus my sleep schedule was completely backwards, and I could not stop replaying everything that happened over and over again in my mind. It wasn't until I got a therapist that I realized I had trauma, which I hadn't realized until then because I'd always been told trauma was from sexual assault or going to war. I'd never had the traditional forms of trauma that are most commonly heard about, so I thought I didn't have it. But I've since learned trauma can come from anything that is extremely stressful, disturbing,or scary. After being diagnosed with depression, PTSD and dissociation, I've done a lot of work on myself and I'm still not perfect, but I'm much better now. Anyways this was a long comment, but great video.

    • @user-bd5md5cm2j
      @user-bd5md5cm2j Рік тому +8

      Good job Maggie. Don't quit. I've been destroyed since 08'. My wife and my business partner absolutely destroyed me. I ended up with rheumatoid arthritis...it's destroyed me physically and emotionally. I'm still working on things, but my health is almost gone now. No body feels bad it is sorry. I feel for you being alone. I hope your doing well. I love your story, thankyou for posting ❤

    • @yvesmorrison670
      @yvesmorrison670 10 місяців тому +4

      I also went through a lot during covid years. I was in high school so I was stuck doing online school for a while which already made me have bad panic attacks and depression. Then I had issues with my sister who would constantly hurt me over and over again mostly verbally but sometimes she would lash out physically and I lost her emotionally. I depended on my best friend to help me through this difficult time but she left me for other people. I still hurt so bad for losing my two best friends and for all the emotional trauma I endured these past few years. I feel like i need a therapist to sort through my problems but I'm heading off to college soon and think it's too late. I just felt like I should share this since you shared your story.

    • @maggieo1683
      @maggieo1683 10 місяців тому

      @@user-bd5md5cm2j I'm late replying, but thanks to you too for sharing. It's so important to know we are not alone. Thankfully I am doing a lot better now, I'm still not quite 100% but I've improved a lot. How about you? Are you doing better, worse, or about the same?

    • @user-bd5md5cm2j
      @user-bd5md5cm2j 10 місяців тому +3

      @@yvesmorrison670 your awesome weather you think you are or not. New friends are coming. New things in life to bring a new type of joy. Your young and just beginning. Life is so full of good things coming your way. Have faith. And be happy to meet new people. Your gunna be ok.❤️😊

    • @yvesmorrison670
      @yvesmorrison670 10 місяців тому

      @@user-bd5md5cm2j Thank you, I appreciate that :)

  • @merediththomas501
    @merediththomas501 2 роки тому +36

    My God. I have suppressed emotional wounds. Nothing interests me. I'm scared of people. Feels good saying all this.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 роки тому +4

      I'm definitely scared of people. I'm freaking 40 and I just want them to go away.

    • @subotai358
      @subotai358 Рік тому +1

      @@marleyhill34 I'm 52 and scared to get close to people, but also feel the pull of people. Lots of family history behind this

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
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    • @moniclare4214
      @moniclare4214 Місяць тому +1

      😊T s elliot wrote he didn't 😊realised that grief felt so much like fear...

    • @nicoled5062
      @nicoled5062 Місяць тому

      Sending a hug

  • @GetYourLifeBetter
    @GetYourLifeBetter 2 роки тому +112

    Emotional wounds or issues of the mind and heart are harder to detect. Therefore, they are easier to hide from the outside world. As a result, we fool ourselves into dismissing, ignoring, or avoiding them in an effort to convince ourselves that we are okay and should just “move on”. But just like any physical wound, a broken heart requires attention, care, love, and healing. We must go through an emotional healing process.

    • @milybzz539
      @milybzz539 2 роки тому +2

      I can confirm it, I used to ignore or dismiss any negative feeling I didn't understand or know how to process but thankfully I'm in that process of growth and I'm so grateful for my supportive husband, he has helped me get through it. I'm owning up to my feelings and overcoming them. 🌻

    • @ncz7
      @ncz7 2 роки тому

      .

    • @carmenaddy5437
      @carmenaddy5437 2 роки тому +1

      I wish I had even just one person in my life who cares enough to ask if I'm ok or how I'm dealing with the brokenest broken heart of all time alone with what sure seems like the world against me. Every second of every minute of every day is a full on war between my head and my heart and the sheer desire to end it all!! I used to want to live for so many reasons but now I have only 2 reasons to live and sooo many reasons why this world is just better off without me. Some days it feels like even my two reasons to live look at me and think.."I wish mom would just go away,let us live happy without her."

    • @thomasbeardslee734
      @thomasbeardslee734 Рік тому

      Great point I can learn from this thank u Thomas p beardslee Cleveland Ohio

    • @marcolinux
      @marcolinux Рік тому

      Questo pensiero è ciò che mi risuona di più, ha centrato il punto! È solo con l’amore che si possono curare questo tipo di ferite, tanto amore, imparando a volersi bene!
      Grazie per il tuo contributo di valore

  • @Mat_Gomez23
    @Mat_Gomez23 Рік тому +99

    This video has helped me a lot, 2022 was the worst year of my life because I went through my first breakup from a girl who I really loved deep inside and then left me and accused me of things that I did to her that were untrue and basically made me hated by most of the people at school. After that period, I went through a period of severe depression as I would lay down on my bed and I had suicidal thoughts because of how hurt I was and that maybe it’s better this way. I saw her recently with another guy and they cuddled and kiss and it hurts. However I can’t let something like this ruin the life I deserve to live, I’ll keep doing what I love to do because I know God has something special for me down the road and that there’s gonna be a great career for me. For those who are suffering, dont torture yourself like this. You are all brave warriors and God loves each and one of you all more than you’ll ever know! Face each day with a smile and work and walk hard and bold! You’ll be rewarded later! God Bless to you all!☮️

    • @Lanascherrycola
      @Lanascherrycola Рік тому +1

      Thank you😊 you're also special, and I hope you feel better now, you will get through this don't worry:)

    • @Mat_Gomez23
      @Mat_Gomez23 Рік тому +2

      @@Lanascherrycola thank you so much for your sweet reply! I’m feeling a whole lot better now! Doing the things that make you happy helps a lot! God Bless ✝️☮️

    • @paulmilwee9940
      @paulmilwee9940 Рік тому +2

      See, in the long run you will eventually thank that person for letting you go so you can find someone better. In addition, if you're suffering heartbreak, that's good too. Get the experience early. You will be wiser for it... I'm a 5 time marathoner. It's about pain management, not talent. Great pain is a liberator of the spirit. "What doesn't kill me makes me stronger. " Fredrick Nietzsche. (P.S. ignore Nietzsche at your peril) hope it helps. With love, paul

    • @kathrynmackenzie1844
      @kathrynmackenzie1844 Рік тому +2

      Thank you❤

    • @nancykaczmarz8874
      @nancykaczmarz8874 11 місяців тому +2

      Remember you deserve a love from some one and it takes time for the real thing to come along! Don't underestimate your self just because one person didn't value you! It happened to me and the love I had was unbelievable, a wonderful caring person, unfortunately he died but the love goes on!🥰🥰🥰

  • @kakarot7714
    @kakarot7714 Рік тому +29

    What about those who don't have anyone

    • @troysandoval2731
      @troysandoval2731 Місяць тому +5

      I will be there for you cause you are beautiful and I love you

    • @littlelight2826
      @littlelight2826 Місяць тому +1

      Do you have anyone now? If not , adopt a cat .It work wonders 🤍

    • @kakarot7714
      @kakarot7714 Місяць тому +1

      @@troysandoval2731 😢 thank you

    • @kakarot7714
      @kakarot7714 Місяць тому +4

      @@littlelight2826 it's been a year since I posted than comment and no i still don't have anyone yet. I had a cute cat but she died unfortunately.

    • @phitelomere
      @phitelomere Місяць тому +4

      You do have God! He works miracles for people like us! Pray every day my friend for your protection and well being, be grateful for what you have, and stand your grounds when you are right! You are never alone, you do have a guardian angel who is more happy to help you if you ask!

  • @Yoshikarter1
    @Yoshikarter1 Рік тому +166

    I grew up with abusive parents and am still dealing with PTSD from it. This video is pretty relevant.

    • @Markerrr701
      @Markerrr701 Рік тому +8

      dang i feel sorry bro 🥲

    • @Kelseaeff7436
      @Kelseaeff7436 Рік тому +10

      Same. It ruined me.

    • @jraxgaming5254
      @jraxgaming5254 11 місяців тому +6

      Same. It also ruined me.

    • @tucky2297
      @tucky2297 10 місяців тому +10

      Add me to the list. Parents argued and fought physically and PTSD was the result. At their 50 year anniversary my dad said My wife and I have only had ONE FIGHT IN OUR MARRIAGE AND ITS ON GOING. People cheered and laughed. Truth is Dad was telling the TRUTH

  • @DarkFabled14731
    @DarkFabled14731 2 роки тому +130

    I've definitely gotten my fair share of emotional wounds and scars. And I have been seeing a therapist. After nearly 2 years of therapy, both him and his assistant agree that it's almost time for me to leave the nest and use what I've learned

    • @serenity9756
      @serenity9756 2 роки тому +7

      I'm so proud of you

    • @hazukichanx408
      @hazukichanx408 2 роки тому +5

      Congratulations! It sounds like you've faced great difficulties and worked hard to overcome them. Best of luck going forward. =)

    • @DarkFabled14731
      @DarkFabled14731 2 роки тому +8

      Thank you both! I still have some more room to grow if I'm being honest.

    • @serenity9756
      @serenity9756 2 роки тому +3

      @@DarkFabled14731 you're very welcome! It's good you're being honest. I've got no doubt that you'll continue to grow even more but for now, take a moment to look back and see how much progress you've already made. Appreciate yourself for being open to change and having worked so much on it and being willing to continue to do so. Have a beautiful day!

    • @VanessaR1313
      @VanessaR1313 Рік тому +2

      Did therapist really help you? I was told to speak to one but I can’t motivate myself to get to it.

  • @k0bsessed
    @k0bsessed Рік тому +28

    gosh u got me crying as yes I've got emotional trauma that still haunts me n it's difficult to heal if I'm denying it

    • @rosemariemann1719
      @rosemariemann1719 Місяць тому

      @kObsessed,
      Yes, it still stays, even if you
      try to put behind you...
      Try Michael Sealey's effective
      recordings : self hypnosis.
      So relaxing !
      I'm a great fan !
      He helps you " switch off", for
      when you are desperate
      for a rest...🦉😉
      🇬🇧😢🦉😉🌹💙🇬🇧.

  • @victor7021
    @victor7021 Рік тому +43

    Persistence and Courage only put me into more traumatic experiences. Life's not worth it these days, people are not worth it...

    • @TheMissDiva0001
      @TheMissDiva0001 Рік тому +3

      You’re going to get through this, stay strong

    • @domo201
      @domo201 Рік тому +1

      You have to stay positive for it to work . the people who care about you, are they not worth it?

    • @OneBiasedOpinion
      @OneBiasedOpinion Рік тому +1

      Same. Humans suck. I find animals to be far more reasonable and more reliable to boot.
      Everyone else can keep their friendships and relationships. It ain’t for me.

    • @juliepage9758
      @juliepage9758 Рік тому

      It's not worth it can someone check up on them to see it they are ok?

  • @Yashuop
    @Yashuop 2 роки тому +520

    Your consistency and quality of content never disappoints!

    • @MrBruh-yb9qi
      @MrBruh-yb9qi 2 роки тому +10

      Yes, consistency on recycling. They posted the same topic 7 days ago.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +32

      Thank you! How did you feel about the previous videos? And story based format?

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +45

      @@MrBruh-yb9qi It's hard to innovate when you have over 1500 videos.. and you still want to be helpful. Any tips on how we can elevate?

    • @Ashley_St4rl1ght
      @Ashley_St4rl1ght 2 роки тому +18

      @@MrBruh-yb9qi stop keep hating on them, why are you even hating, jealousy i suppose?

    • @MrBruh-yb9qi
      @MrBruh-yb9qi 2 роки тому +3

      @@Ashley_St4rl1ght because why not?

  • @JinroHz
    @JinroHz Рік тому +27

    Easiest to do in all of these is to get proper sleep. You might have difficulties that exacerbate your sleeplessness, but striving to solve it will give you a better path to healing. Sleep is the most important thing a human body needs. If you deplete your body of recharging time it'll make your mind weaker and bad thoughts will resurface far easier than with a healthy sleep schedule.
    Couldn't get any proper sleep these past few months and it feels like you're drowning day by day. I better get some sleep now.

  • @Brandon-bh7pj
    @Brandon-bh7pj Рік тому +68

    I'm 23 and I can't really remember the last time i truly felt complete peace or happiness. I've been with depression for along time now. I feel some of my stresses and worries I've brought on myself thru catastrophizing. I've been alittle open about my issues and mental problems but I'm still holding on past feelings and regret. I'm still feeling and thinking negatively and careless of myself. I feel so lost I don't even know who I am at times and it's scary. I'm just terrified of really opening up about things and certain things in particular. I'm afraid of change and the unknown. Sometimes I think I might get over this but mostly I feel I won't and I'm afraid I'll eventually just end it all.

    • @mrchubmuffins8773
      @mrchubmuffins8773 Рік тому +8

      23 and feel the same man. We got this

    • @909montana5
      @909montana5 Рік тому +2

      I’m 17 and I already feel like this I need to figure myself out before I do something stupid that will leave a permanent mark on my loved ones

    • @Kajpaje
      @Kajpaje Рік тому +4

      Hang in there friend. I like the quote from Yung, when you can't solve insoluable problems, the only way to solve them is by growth. Lennon, John, said that it you are suffering you haven't reached the end.
      Have faith in yourself, there is that magical world out there Just waiting for us. Might not be clear how to get there, but tale your time looking for joy. Patting a cat, admiring some leaves, a laugh, a smile, a childs voice. Those golden rays that are there to notice.
      Don't give up.

    • @princesslightning5447
      @princesslightning5447 Рік тому +3

      I’m 24… I literally tried to end it all last month n I’m actually close to doing it again….

    • @Kajpaje
      @Kajpaje Рік тому +1

      @@princesslightning5447 There's so much pain, so much lonliness. But take heart, because there is so much potential love too. Finding a plače in someones arms where you are completely loved and completely safe.
      I'm not saying you need saving, but there is beauty out there in others, and in service to others. But to get to that plače requires real darling, and real vulnerability.
      Just hold on because you are still writing the story.

  • @emmanuelakalusi3690
    @emmanuelakalusi3690 Рік тому +33

    There are 2 things you absolutely have to accept to exponentially increase your emotional well being. Things that took me a long time to accept as well so don’t beat yourself over it.
    1) You CANNOT change the past. No amount of overthinking it will ever change the events that have occurred in a million years. What’s done is done. On the bright side whatever was is over so you can completely move on.
    2) do not fear people letting you down. Accept that people WILL let you down. Make it the rule not the exception. People are just as broken and sometimes significantly more so than you are. You’re not perfect and neither are they, far from it.
    Put yourself first and love yourself the most. You can trust others but trust yourself even more to not falter when they inevitability let you down.

  • @anwzdewan6969
    @anwzdewan6969 2 роки тому +38

    I don't know what is wrong with me, I feel my heart being heavy most of the times. I can't concentrate on anything. It feels like everyone is doing well with their life except me.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +5

      YOU GOT THIS! Hope may seem bleak, but it exists and change will come!

    • @anwzdewan6969
      @anwzdewan6969 2 роки тому +5

      @@Psych2go thank you so much. I've been doing well lately❤

    • @NeroMai
      @NeroMai Рік тому +6

      I feel you man, it's an unpleasant constant feeling

    • @anwzdewan6969
      @anwzdewan6969 Рік тому +4

      @@NeroMai yup the worst feeling ever

    • @samanthacollins5702
      @samanthacollins5702 Рік тому +1

      the worst feeling ever

  • @mrgibbons9995
    @mrgibbons9995 Рік тому +18

    30 and been stuck like this for over ten years. At the point I've just accepted it and survive through life. Therapy doesn't work meds don't work, self help hasn't worked. But to anyone struggling with it. Fight fight like your life depends on it. Don't become what I have.

    • @Justins-handle
      @Justins-handle Рік тому +1

      Same but I’m 35

    • @hyrumhanson3390
      @hyrumhanson3390 6 місяців тому

      I've found what I eat has a profound impact on this.

    • @johnnyskulls33
      @johnnyskulls33 4 місяці тому

      I'm 32 and it's been almost a year. Meds don't work for me either. I'm with you tho and fight every day even tho it's a constant struggle. Don't give up.

    • @uncnem
      @uncnem 4 місяці тому

      Ayahuasca is an incredible plant medicine for the mind, body, and soul.

  • @melissakwdishman
    @melissakwdishman Місяць тому +7

    My trauma will never heal. Does anyone else feel this way too

  • @ItzYoGyalCuTiE
    @ItzYoGyalCuTiE 2 роки тому +130

    I'm here for this, to learn. I'm usually depressed since I was a kid. I felt like I was never enough for my folks. Then, growing up, getting into relationships, getting cheated on, used for a green card, used for money, etc. It happened so many times even when I try to love again and care for others. I felt not wanted and only someone's beneficiary. I had an amazing job until my relative had passed away. I was so hurt because it was the man that stepped up and raised me and one of the only people that I know that truly loved me from the very beginning. Sleep and self care was one of the stuffs that helped me feel better. 💖 Knowing I can only give myself the most love and care.

    • @GilgaMax305
      @GilgaMax305 2 роки тому +12

      I'm sure that man is watching you and is very proud of you, for being so strong in this world of ours. No matter what happens, please keep moving forward. The light is always in front of you, regardless of how dark it may seem. I believe in you. God bless you. ❤

    • @xmasx
      @xmasx Рік тому +4

      You are amazing, the world is beautiful because of people like you ❣🙏🏼

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      True peace and comfort can only be found in Jesus Christ. I'm sharing my best friend's story with you to show you how you can find this peace. God bless you.
      Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a gospel tract. If you or your Church would be interested in passing them out or if you would like to send a word of encouragement to the family, please go to:
      facebook.com/GITM-Foundation-113997824650357/

  • @Blueeyesinthesky
    @Blueeyesinthesky Рік тому +71

    I lost my boyfriend to an accident when things were finally going amazingly in the right direction. We were about to get our first apartment, our jobs were going great, our relationship was in a good place, I was killin it in college again but then the accident happened and I’ve had to rebuild all of that from scratch. It’s been hard but I have a lot of emotional healing to do and growing and learning. I don’t want to be stuck or stunted. I’m more afraid now of making commitments but I’m going to try to not be

    • @sparkstudies1675
      @sparkstudies1675 Рік тому +1

      Wow, that's tragically unfair. What are you doing to cope with that loss?

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      True peace and comfort can only be found in Jesus Christ. I'm sharing my best friend's story with you to show you how you can find this peace. God bless you.
      Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a gospel tract. If you or your Church would be interested in passing them out or if you would like to send a word of encouragement to the family, please go to:
      facebook.com/GITM-Foundation-113997824650357/

    • @shanti888
      @shanti888 Рік тому +3

      May you heal from all those very difficult times. You are strong, I can tell. You will heal and make it a great life after all.

    • @samantha14843
      @samantha14843 Рік тому +4

      I'm so sorry for your loss!, I hope you heal better soon❤❤

  • @laramoraes6593
    @laramoraes6593 Рік тому +6

    there's something i've been doing recently that's kind of silly but it helps, i kind of talk to myself and say little words of encouragement, like i'm talking to a kid, it makes me feel a little better

  • @Valorvengeance516
    @Valorvengeance516 Рік тому +5

    I’ll never get over or heal from my son Axl passing away .. .. ever..

    • @Nihon1892
      @Nihon1892 Місяць тому

      ❤❤ sending love and care. I lost my son Byron in 2020, Hodgkins lymphoma he was 18. Everyday is hard it feels like one long day since he closed his eyes, but one thing that gets me through the heartache is the hope of the resurrection Acts 24:15 and Psalms 37vs29 where it says that the righteous will possess the earth 🌍 and live forever on it. My faith and trust in Jehovah God the Creator of life will and can fulfill all these soon to be promises. ❤❤❤❤ Sending you big hugs ❤❤❤

  • @6amamisery769
    @6amamisery769 2 роки тому +35

    My problems always been loneliness. Ever since a kid I’ve been lonely not just physically but more mentally. No, I don’t know what life brings but I always tell myself I should expect dying alone

    • @zahm_gb
      @zahm_gb Рік тому +4

      Jesus is always there. Even when there’s nobody else:) I pray your loneliness is replaced with comfort and peace

    • @CertifiedSped94
      @CertifiedSped94 Рік тому

      Same. What is ironic, is it is 5:59am while writing this.

    • @tejaswanave4229
      @tejaswanave4229 Рік тому

      Sameeee, alone since birth.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
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      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
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    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      @@tejaswanave4229 Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us even across the continents.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

  • @romanikkoralph1553
    @romanikkoralph1553 2 роки тому +86

    I've lost the love of my life to covid19 last year and it has been really hard for me to bounce back. This video really helped.

  • @user-ro6gq5yw1c
    @user-ro6gq5yw1c Місяць тому +10

    I'm always hurt

    • @takiclintonharness1449
      @takiclintonharness1449 Місяць тому +1

      I wish you get healed from the depth of my heart ❤️

    • @robinparr88
      @robinparr88 26 днів тому

      You're worth feeling better and I hope you do

  • @_.V01D._
    @_.V01D._ Рік тому +7

    Is it bad that I’m so tried even watching UA-cam and ticktock feels like a task?

    • @Manaliikk
      @Manaliikk Місяць тому +1

      Why do i relate?

    • @surabarakat9844
      @surabarakat9844 Місяць тому +1

      Take your time to process your feelings
      Dont push yourself
      Do the things that you really love and feel you want to do
      And believe me there are so many people you mean the world to them could be a family or friends
      Stay safe ❤❤

    • @_.V01D._
      @_.V01D._ Місяць тому +1

      @@surabarakat9844 lol, I posted that sht about a year ago, I’m doing way better thanks for caring so much.

  • @Turtleduck_Life
    @Turtleduck_Life 2 роки тому +65

    This channel is such a big help to learn about yourselves! I honestly think not many people know about their selves, I can't wait till this channel hits 10 million, it'll be a huge milestone!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much! Let us know how you felt about previous videos.

    • @victorsmith4975
      @victorsmith4975 2 роки тому

      They have over 9 million..did you mistake it for 9k?

  • @somethingelse7225
    @somethingelse7225 Рік тому +7

    I keep getting hurt by people who claim they love me more than life. It seems fake. I can't let go of the betrayal and am just stuck in the loop of my emotions. Even more so, when they don't seem to understand or feel guilty about any of it. Makes me feel unimportant and overly dramatic. Like I am overreacting to the situation. But maybe the reason why I am still stuck on this is because nobody has stood up for me other than myself. And now all that is left in me is bitterness and contempt. Everything is fake. People only care about themselves and they only pretend to empathize or care about you. It's just a sick world.
    I am sorry for this. I am just still trying to heal and not to spiral. Whenever I feel stable, that person just brings me back to the start. Maybe I will be okay when I am at distance from them. Doesn't seem possible right now. Three cheers for sanity.

  • @alwaysfirst81
    @alwaysfirst81 3 місяці тому +1

    I literally cried. I'm still stuck in 2018. I can't move on i lost everything. hoping and trying failed to this day. Addiction got me, too. I needed this. Thanks.

  • @dejavu0580
    @dejavu0580 10 місяців тому +7

    After my dad passed away a few years ago, I've noticed a significant change in my emotional responses. Even when my grandmother died, I didn't experience any intense emotions like I used to

  • @DosieDelMilo
    @DosieDelMilo 2 роки тому +31

    To hear all of this, I’m having emotional trauma from bullying and backstabbers. It traumaticed me much like I want to not talk to any human out there. I’ve been suffering trauma from bullying for at least 4 years of trying to heal it, but nothing has worked. When I talked to an adult about this, I didn’t feel anything but more fear. And about the backstabbers, I wanted to stop all of the relationships I have with anyone, and never had any one either.

    • @Lonesea
      @Lonesea 2 роки тому +1

      Ussss🙂🙂

    • @Unlike230
      @Unlike230 Рік тому +2

      This is exactly what is going on with me including the timing. I stuck and can't move on

    • @DosieDelMilo
      @DosieDelMilo Рік тому +1

      @@Unlike230 mhm, we all deserve better in some way..

    • @musicmamma
      @musicmamma Рік тому +3

      I was bullied all throughout grade school and high school. Know that the bullies will get their karma back one day.

    • @nyahjones3340
      @nyahjones3340 Рік тому +2

      Same. It’s been really hard and it’s really hurtful.

  • @anne16.
    @anne16. 2 роки тому +26

    You never know how much you're suffering all these years until you see this video.

  • @keanuroque8353
    @keanuroque8353 Рік тому +13

    You know what she says is true, when you start tearing up from something she explains so well.... thank you for helping me✊🏼❤

  • @meganlee8794
    @meganlee8794 Рік тому +3

    Since getting a divorce, realizing all the things he did and all the lies, then losing my best friend… the person who was my rock… who just walked away without another thought, and have 2 failed relationships that just walked away as well… my parents in the moments of my husband leaving saying not to call I’m just annoying….
    And then going back to teaching where you are, basically by everyone, treated like you’re not good enough….
    It’s been so hard. And having RSD… so all these things have just helped to solidify it all.
    I am alone… I have noticed I have just filled my life with soooo many projects I just don’t leave a moment to think. I zone out into the phone anytime I start thinking.

  • @randomedits36
    @randomedits36 2 роки тому +34

    One of my pets just passed away yesterday so I watched this video and it really helps, it always does

    • @lindy4justice
      @lindy4justice 2 роки тому +3

      So sorry

    • @deyonnapattie8973
      @deyonnapattie8973 2 роки тому +1

      I’m so very sorry for your loss . 🥺🙁 much love and kind thoughts for you in future days ahead .💙🧡

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +1

      Love you!

    • @Unlike230
      @Unlike230 Рік тому

      🙏❤️

    • @rosemaryclarke2348
      @rosemaryclarke2348 Рік тому

      I find it helps to visit the places they were and see pictures of them, then you know that whatever has happened they are always with you.🥰🥰

  • @jasminevargas1221
    @jasminevargas1221 2 роки тому +54

    Honestly I literally love watching u guys videos. I myself have suffered from mental health issues. Like BPD, bipolar disorder, suicidal thoughts, cutting, depression and especially anxiety. I’ve been battling with anxiety for years and when I first got to high school it got really bad to the point where I’m having anxiety attacks. I’m still learning how to cope with my anxiety and it’s hard but it’s not impossible bc ik It will all be worth it in the end bc God has a plan for me. For those who are facing challenges, ur not alone and there is ppl out there who care and is willing to help u bc u wanna live ur life and not let ur problems take over ur life plus life is short so we all want to make it worth living and I promise whatever ur going thru will pass and better days are ahead. Y’all are more stronger than y’all think and u will win in life and eventually u will learn how to handle ur issues. All love to y’all and this channel. God Bless💙💙💙💙

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +3

      Love you!

    • @RethabileMatete
      @RethabileMatete Рік тому

      I really wish we could have a forum and discuss these matters in a safer space.

    • @RethabileMatete
      @RethabileMatete Рік тому

      I really wish we could have a forum and discuss these matters in a safer space.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us even across the continents.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

    • @jennytupper2861
      @jennytupper2861 Рік тому +1

      Is guilt also a part of this aswell. I havent so much lost the drive to do stuff I enjoyed but I feel immense guilt while doing so. I keep trying as I know deep down that I need to try and do these things to get better but I feel guilty every time I do

  • @whoishayleyjanesmith
    @whoishayleyjanesmith 8 місяців тому +2

    this video made my chest hurt but also comforted me in a way, i think i still have some healing to do but i am so proud of myself for accepting the heartache and being brave enough to come out happier on the other side. i am so sorry to those who are in pain but i promise, step by step, you will find happiness and feel like your own self again

  • @Sceletiumhealth
    @Sceletiumhealth Рік тому +6

    Been feeling like this for a while now, don't feel like doing anything. I have 4 kids. Only them that's keeping me here.

  • @anishaam
    @anishaam 2 роки тому +4

    I'm going through a tough time ....2 days before I was scrolling my youtube.... suddenly I came across a short video of this channel...the voice was so soothing...and when I checked this channel the videos were so inspiring.....and now I am feeling peace of mind....

  • @PREPPY4LIFE94
    @PREPPY4LIFE94 Рік тому +5

    I love how you said “don’t eat or watch anything a hour before your going to sleep” when I’m watching this an hour before I go to sleep

  • @YourFavTessa
    @YourFavTessa 11 місяців тому +3

    "You are worth the time and effort."
    Ouch... not in a bad way, but that hit extremely close to home. I am incapable of admitting that to myself. I didn't feel loved because despite growing up in a home that sheltered me with plenty of money, I can't recall even once on one hand that I was told "I love you."
    Looking back, it... hurts, a lot.

  • @lindsaywoelbing7196
    @lindsaywoelbing7196 3 місяці тому

    These videos have been so helpful. They don’t replace professional help, but they certainly give you something to think about, or talk about with your therapist. Like a piece of the puzzle.

  • @kianawebb5761
    @kianawebb5761 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you for saying “you are worth the time and effort” at the end 🥺

  • @lucasgachalife0
    @lucasgachalife0 2 роки тому +33

    The first one hit me like a truck. And so did the second and third one.
    I am someone who does not live for myself, to the point that I know the moment people who care about me disappear. I will be free to finally be gone.
    I never put myself first, because to me that's selfish, and selfishness... I dislike selfish people, maybe because of my suffering or maybe because of something else. But I just cannot be selfish, I love to help people as long as it doesn't hurt others, I try my absolute best to always be what you would call "the perfect support character" my story is not mine. Is in everyone else's hands where my path will go. I follow, just like an NPC. Because emotions are unknown to me when I am alone. With people around I can feel happiness, the smile of someone reflects on me, and I smile with them.
    But even at those points. After that "happiness" is gone, I look at myself once more. Knowing that I am dependent on others to feel, and to live. Whenever I react on instinct everything goes wrong, I contain those negative feelings. I prefer feeling nothing and been the NPC in my loved one's life than ending up alone. I have tried ("Sui") but always backed up because I know people care about me. I want to be normal and I want to be able to feel on my own. But even those words... Is it really how I think? Or am I just looking at others knowing they want me to be normal? . . . Complete Selflessness is awful and is something I will never recommend to anyone. Not even the people I despise with all my hear. This feeling of just knowing you are nothing without others consumes me. And the more I think and talk about it, it only gets worse. More and more people will worry about me, meanwhile I just want to be gone for good. But if they care, I won't be able to do so. In a way, maybe there's a part of me searching for something or someone that would get out of this mess. And that's why I keep telling people. Maybe it will help... . . . I hope it does.
    I completely forgot what I was talking about, well I'll go to sleep. It's 0:03am and I want to reset my brain to forget or at least try to forget I even wrote this.
    I do hope everyone who read it doesn't get too sad... please have a nice day/night or whatever time zone it is there where you live. Thank you for reading all of this. I'm sorry.

    • @taehyungsabandonedshoes7625
      @taehyungsabandonedshoes7625 2 роки тому +6

      I genuinely pray that you find peace and be happy someday and want to live longer and life becomes kind to you...hang in there even if it's hard (ik it's cruel but all we can do is just keep on going)

    • @caseycampbell4787
      @caseycampbell4787 2 роки тому +2

      That’s so sad. I hope you can find your own happiness one day.

    • @ncz7
      @ncz7 2 роки тому

      .

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for sharing this. We support and love you

    • @wishfulthinking8699
      @wishfulthinking8699 Рік тому +2

      Don’t t ever be sorry for these encouraging words! You have deserve to say them! I think you deserve to take a vacation and go wherever you want just for you! The beach?! I think so! You deserve it and so much more! Thank you! I am grateful!🙏🤗

  • @sharonjones7138
    @sharonjones7138 Рік тому +2

    December 2021, I stumbled on a video about narcissistic mothers. I dove into it, and all of 2022, was a year for me of learning. It helped solidify the fact that it wasn’t me…it was her. Them…my parents. Learned about the dynamics in my family and just how deep the damage was to the family, and most importantly…me. As I learned, I grew…and now I’m thriving. As I learned, I was working with a professional….probably my 8th in my lifetime (I’m 64). Now, I’m thriving!!! YAY YAY!!! Thank you for this video. It validates allot. ❤

  • @user-oi9uz8sk7z
    @user-oi9uz8sk7z Місяць тому

    The narrator has the most calming voice Ive ever heard. I have all the signs and absolutely want to heal. This is advice I can definitely listen to and follow. I’m so glad I found you.
    Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @amandah2876
    @amandah2876 2 роки тому +27

    Thank you so much for this video. I've experienced quite a lot of emotional trauma in my life from my childhood, in my teen years to my young adult years (18-20s). I'm 31 now and just last Sunday I broke down to tears to both my sister and my fiance about everything I've felt and experienced through my eyes. I felt like I was lost and unworthy of living the life of my dreams. I got so bad to the point I stopped doing the two things that I enjoyed doing the most in the world. Drawing and writing. I'm done living like that anymore. Knowing this now and the fact I'm willing to let the painful emotions and thoughts surface, I'm having myself go through shadow work. As uncomfortable as I am with going through with it I know to be patient, express love and compassion for myself through every step and exercise I do. One day I know I will get through this and I'll be an artist and an author just as I dreamed I'd be since I was a kid.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us even across the continents.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

    • @rosemaryclarke2348
      @rosemaryclarke2348 Рік тому

      GO FOR IT!🥰

    • @amandah2876
      @amandah2876 Рік тому

      @@rosemaryclarke2348 Thanks for the support. Have a wonderful day!

    • @rosemaryclarke2348
      @rosemaryclarke2348 Рік тому +1

      I really hope you do! We all need to survive this!🥰

  • @richy9185
    @richy9185 2 роки тому +12

    For me, Things hurt more when I try to heal. Trying and then hitting rock bottom is always worse than just staying there. I don't want things to get better. All I want is for things not to get worse.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +2

      You got this!

    • @PdZ2012
      @PdZ2012 Рік тому

      I've experienced this too. Things needed to get worse for me in order to get better. I did EMDR therapy. It helped me get rid of years and years of horrible depression.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us even across the continents.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

  • @CJ-cb4gj
    @CJ-cb4gj Рік тому +4

    Sometimes when I think about what happened I wanna get so high my brain shuts down from the over stimulation.

    • @teegutta4689
      @teegutta4689 Рік тому +1

      I KNOW How YOU FEEL, I FEEL THE SAME WAY.TEE, GOD BLESS. STAY 💪 💯🙏

  • @donaldcuck8973
    @donaldcuck8973 11 місяців тому

    Seriously appreciate all of the stuff you’ve done and put out. Been one of the biggest mental helps in my life along with music and driving. Finally feel rather astonishing mental clarity, a lot of your videos help to feel a lot more heard and understood than I’d ever been throughout my entire life. Means more than words could ever express🫡🤘

  • @Garrietamana
    @Garrietamana Рік тому +32

    I swear I learn more from Psych2go than psychology class, therapist, friends and family all combined. This is so practical and relatable.

  • @deltashortz4479
    @deltashortz4479 2 роки тому +3

    You seriously don't know how much these videos mean to people who are going through all this stuff... I can't thank u enough for this... Most of day times I feel alone while I m still surrounded by people my family but i don't feel their love. I feel I am not worth loving and your videos are my escape...

  • @strawberrypancakes2438
    @strawberrypancakes2438 Рік тому +2

    I was bullied and everyone laughed at me. I still picture their smiles everyday. And they don't feel bad at all. I will never forgive my bully. I still traumatized 2 years later. People are cruel.

  • @DERRICKLEONIDAS365
    @DERRICKLEONIDAS365 Місяць тому

    THE VOICE ON THIS CHANNEL REACHES MY SOUL, I NEED THIS. THANK YOU MORE AND MORE.

  • @undeadstormblade9337
    @undeadstormblade9337 2 роки тому +9

    With relationships, after having bad so often, it's not easy getting over it. Hell, once you realise how awful people are you stop being attracted to anyone, you stop wanting to try talking to someone new and you just end up so jaded that the idea of a relationship makes you sick to your stomach.
    I'm never getting over it. It feels impossible. And with how girls have treated me or keep on treating me, I'd rather be on my own. And when someone does show interest they switch up and do the opposite.

    • @markmasterson7361
      @markmasterson7361 2 роки тому

      Female abuse of men is overlooked and rampant. Many of them try to bring you down for their own ego.

    • @marleyhill34
      @marleyhill34 2 роки тому +2

      I'm 40 and a woman. I can't say it gets better with age. All I can do now is prevent people from getting close enough to treat me badly. I'm certain some of us just have certain signs on our backs saying kick me. Just found out that I might be autistic so that explains a lot. Relationships and dating are just a game for some people. They literally do not care about other people's emotions as long as they have their fun. Male or female or LGBTQIA. They are not classed as sociopaths because they don't behave like this with their family members or work colleagues or even friends but put them in a romantic or sexual relationship and they become the worse people ever.

  • @XD-uu1hj
    @XD-uu1hj 2 роки тому +10

    This channel is a blessing.

  • @noahg6746
    @noahg6746 3 місяці тому

    Don’t know where I’d be without this channel I love and appreciate you for making these and anyone else who’s hurting

  • @Prosercunus
    @Prosercunus Місяць тому +1

    I lost my 7 year old Corgi and best friend, 3 weeks ago, unexpectedly, after routine dental cleaning and small incisor removal, he died 4 days later due to sepsis, which was unknown to me until it was too late, and I have definitely been reliving the trauma, Only in the last 2 days have I felt like maybe I don't want to die. I am 40 years old and it's the first time I ever had this strong of an emotion. I definitely can now relate and appreciate depression of this degree first hand.

  • @WeirdoDudo88
    @WeirdoDudo88 2 роки тому +31

    I express my gratitude for how this content was a huge win for my day today! Been in low survival mode and this was just the ticket for awareness. Best of wishes to all!

  • @RuseGuise
    @RuseGuise 2 роки тому +23

    How can you tell the difference between being scared of doing something or just not wanting to do that thing? I'm glad people are bringing awareness to mental health awareness month

    • @zhannalacey9292
      @zhannalacey9292 2 роки тому +2

      From what I've experienced, if I'm afraid to do something I can feel it. I compare it to standing at the edge of a cliff and looking over water. You know it's safe to jump but something's holding you back. Not wanting to do something is simply that; you just don't feel like doing it 😕

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us even across the continents.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      @@zhannalacey9292 True peace and comfort can only be found in Jesus Christ. I'm sharing my best friend's story with you to show you how you can find this peace. God bless you.
      Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a gospel tract. If you or your Church would be interested in passing them out or if you would like to send a word of encouragement to the family, please go to:
      facebook.com/GITM-Foundation-113997824650357/

  • @ResidentEvilReVerseUniverse
    @ResidentEvilReVerseUniverse Рік тому +1

    Thanks for being there for me and everyone else out there

  • @NoNameCherry
    @NoNameCherry Рік тому +1

    I'm glad I found this channel. It's a ray of light and helps explain a ton of the inner turmoil I've been feeling for years. Thank you. Thank you very much.

  • @karenjstokes
    @karenjstokes Рік тому +8

    This is exactly how I feel. I am trying to get help, but it’s so difficult to find the right people or person to talk to. I am hurting so much emotionally from things and situations I have suffered both past and present. I really can’t move on because I just keep getting hurt through disappointment from family and friends. It scares me to be honest and I feel like I’m going mad.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us even across the continents.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

    • @nancykaczmarz8874
      @nancykaczmarz8874 11 місяців тому

      Find a good therapist, I call them secret keepers! You will realize that it's not worth keeping friends or family that tear you down! You have worth!🥰🥰🥰

  • @yvetteihemesinwa2981
    @yvetteihemesinwa2981 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you. I suffer from a lot of emotional trauma and I'm working on healing through forgiving all of my abusive family members

  • @NicoleGVictory
    @NicoleGVictory Місяць тому

    I absolutely love your compassion for people and I also love your voice It is so soothing. Keep doing what you love to do. You are impacting many lives. So thanks for being you Amanda!🙏🏼💗

  • @Oskar_Scott
    @Oskar_Scott Рік тому +2

    This video really made me feel better. I had a very rough childhood, which gave me many emotional wounds. But watching this video made me realise that ive been able to move on from those issues, and that feels really heartwarming ☺️ right now i have a problem with solitude, and that can make you think alot about past problems. But now i realise that those problems i had is not hurting me anymore. So im verk happy that i fond this video in my feed ❤

  • @tobeseve4020
    @tobeseve4020 2 роки тому +8

    For most of 2020 and 2021 my only social life was in an online community. I completely shut down when the pandemic started and couldn't talk to anyone I knew irl because recognizing real life was too painful. So I spent all my time in one online space, where I got really close with a lot of people. Then one of them dmed me with the longest message I've ever seen, about how I was a horrible person, and that I need to "take accountability" or they'll "expose" me. I had panic attack after panic attack trying to ask what they wanted, what I was supposed to do, how I was supposed to fix it, but they kept saying over and over that I was toxic, and not listening, and that this is why everyone hates me. And that everyone else feels this way too, and they're the only one who was "brave enough" to stand up to me. I left the community a few days later as I saw people I'd been close to for over a year block me, one after the other. They were talking shit about me, harassing anyone who still would talk to me, and kicked my sister out because she dared to stand up for me.
    I still have nightmares about it, a lot. I'm terrified they're going to find where I work and try to get me fired. One of them was my ex boyfriend, so he knows my full name and where I live, and everyday I'm scared he's going to dox me. I feel so stupid, because it's "just twitter drama." But to me it wasn't. It was my entire world crumbling apart, me losing my only coping mechanism, and people I trusted purposefully using my worst insecurities against me.
    I think that time of my life was traumatic. I have a lot of symptoms pointing to the fact that it was. But it's so difficult to talk about it because almost no one takes it seriously because it happened online.

    • @lemurpotatoes7988
      @lemurpotatoes7988 Рік тому +1

      I've been there. I'm sorry that happened to you. Spending time in nature helps me, it might work for you too.

  • @shelbystacey2628
    @shelbystacey2628 2 роки тому +8

    Replaying and reliving it over and over is how I struggle

    • @shiningstar2903
      @shiningstar2903 2 роки тому +1

      Recurrent dreams of the person being aloof and leaving are the hardest

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us even across the continents.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

  • @RecorBruv
    @RecorBruv 3 дні тому +1

    I came to this video now cause, even if it's been a lot since it came, it still helps
    I'm currently going through a emotional crisis due to being way to attached to my school teachers and my classroom, and knowing I'm every day closer to saying bye forever to them (just 2 months from that final goodbye) it pains me to know, as all I made with them, I don't wanna lose them, I don't wanna see them go and leave without anything to remember them, almost like I...was not caring for myself anymore...

  • @reemabouchech
    @reemabouchech 6 місяців тому +1

    I resonated with many signs mentioned in the video. The truth is, some traumas haven’t healed even though it’s been 10 years, mainly due to not discussing and lacking awareness about our emotions + lack of our parents support. I touched by the signs on ‘Being alive and not living’ and ‘Self growth stunted by fear.’ These two signs have touched me, and I think it’s time for me to start working on them. Thank you for shedding light on mental health in your videos. 🧚🏻🧘‍♀️🙏

  • @RighteousRy
    @RighteousRy 2 роки тому +64

    Your content helped me through most of my mental illnesses thank you 💙❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 роки тому +7

      Glad that the content could be helpful. How did you feel about the previously posted videos?

    • @heavyflow2513
      @heavyflow2513 2 роки тому

      @@Psych2go they was litty as always

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Рік тому

      Please understand that Jesus loves you more than you can possibly know. He longs to have fellowship with you. The most important decision you will ever make is where you will spend eternity. The Bible says that you can know that you have eternal life in heaven, but If you are putting your trust in anything other than the finished work of Jesus on the cross to get you to heaven, you do not understand God's way. Please let me share with you how you can know you have a home in heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Your sin separates you from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned (yes, you too) and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved you so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in your place so that you could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever (that means you) believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Friend, Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to you if you will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must repent of your sins and call on God for mercy to save you from hell and give you eternal life in heaven with Him.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you friend, that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait! Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will! I would love to meet you in heaven someday. Get your name written down in the Lambs Book of Life. God bless you!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us even across the continents.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us