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КОМЕНТАРІ • 45

  • @nytekeeper6861
    @nytekeeper6861 3 місяці тому +65

    While I feel horrible for OP, what I feel for that poor, innocent baby is a hundredfold. That child is going to grow up being used as a pawn, an object, a tool... I can see this poor child doing whatever mommy wants - cuz maybe this will finally make mommy love me... I really hope that someone proves me wrong. This child is going to need someone in their corner, and I don't see it being their fantastic mother.

  • @erauprcwa
    @erauprcwa 2 місяці тому +25

    In 15+ years, next story "AITA for going NC with my mother after finding out I'm NOT the fault of her marriage ending".

  • @Wander85942
    @Wander85942 2 місяці тому +41

    What chance does that poor baby have with a mother like that. Baby will probably be blamed all his life because AP didn’t stick around and OP didn’t claim him. Not that OP was obligated, he deserved a clean break. Guess wedding and babies will reveal a person’s true self

  • @annikajacobsen5205
    @annikajacobsen5205 2 місяці тому +14

    When i was pregnant with our 3’rd son, i was in so much pain, i had to avoid People, i could not be thoughtfull or kind, i was just hurting and it was horrible. But even in that State, there is no way i would treat my hubby that Way.

  • @claravignaud8119
    @claravignaud8119 2 місяці тому +24

    Dusty you should have thrown the red flags right when you read "she slapped me"

    • @Vox-Multis
      @Vox-Multis 2 місяці тому +4

      That's more than a red flag. That's what red flags are supposed to warn you about.

    • @razredge07
      @razredge07 2 місяці тому +2

      Agreed. Domestic violence should never be tolerated, regardless of gender or hormone levels.

  • @nicoleparreira1024
    @nicoleparreira1024 2 місяці тому +21

    My first thought is that her behavior only sounds plausible if he’s not the father.
    It certainly makes me think of someone feeling absolutely trapped by the relationship and baby.
    Like… Well Before you started reading the update, I was thinking that her behavior sounded like a self-destructive panic/almost trauma response to be able to compartmentalize any and all positive thoughts of her husband like that(and exclude him from the birth preemptively instead of based on some specific anger, even if that reason would have been unreasonable/illogical). Her behavior is so severe.
    Wait first thought was right! She clearly has some real issues to address about herself though..

  • @Faelani38
    @Faelani38 2 місяці тому +5

    Poor baby poor Op. NTA OP Op needs to see a therapist to help him through this. That was so messed up.

  • @tryingtothrive157
    @tryingtothrive157 2 місяці тому +5

    Cheating is just terrible. No one is justified and never a good experience.

  • @nathanpond27
    @nathanpond27 2 місяці тому +4

    I’ve read this story before but never gotten the last updates and damn that makes so much more sense.

  • @ShootingStarStudio
    @ShootingStarStudio 2 місяці тому +4

    Not even a minute in, and I’m questioning whether or not it’s OP’s baby

  • @mangamegbe
    @mangamegbe 2 місяці тому +14

    Well at least OP can make a clean break. That poor kid is going to grow up in a terrible environment.

  • @bigal4101985
    @bigal4101985 2 місяці тому +5

    That 💩 is CRAZY! I'm so glad that dude is getting out of his marriage.

  • @user-wi2yc8qd4u
    @user-wi2yc8qd4u 2 місяці тому +3

    NTA. So sorry man, she’s a horrible person. You’ll probably be scarred for life but don’t let it make you shut future lovers out for forever. You deserve happiness OP. Good luck !

  • @frigid4real
    @frigid4real 2 місяці тому +6

    I still think this is crazy! My third time watching!

  • @LawahZdilawah
    @LawahZdilawah 2 місяці тому +9

    It's a fake story. People called him out and he deleted his account. He made a mistake when he said his wife is a SAHM then said in the last update she was cheating on him with a coworker of hers

    • @Emjay-ed2se
      @Emjay-ed2se 23 дні тому

      He didn’t call her a SAHM. He said he brings in most of the income(or that’s what she said). She was probably working then quit when pregnant. That’s what I did

  • @chellepeterson9719
    @chellepeterson9719 2 місяці тому +1

    What a minute! What coworker, according to OP, she's a SAHM.

  • @karri8998
    @karri8998 Місяць тому +1

    He dodged a bullet, thank god it is not his baby.

  • @ShootingStarStudio
    @ShootingStarStudio 21 день тому +1

    1:31 I’ve never been pregnant, but I’m pretty sure you can still do housework at 5 weeks…

  • @simplydowin3284
    @simplydowin3284 2 місяці тому +1

    So we not gonna call out how she was abusive to him? But no the poor baby😅 shit crazy

  • @cornwallcrafter8410
    @cornwallcrafter8410 2 місяці тому +1

    "Fair warning, it could all be fake" yes, yes it is

  • @silentlyjudgingyou
    @silentlyjudgingyou 2 місяці тому +3

    That poor guy, that poor baby yikes. Wife is ASCON1

  • @ivylovesrunning
    @ivylovesrunning 2 місяці тому

    Good luck, OP! You have a better day ahead. You are lucky to leave this trainwreck in your past.

  • @merlinathrawes746
    @merlinathrawes746 2 місяці тому +1

    The wife must have been monitoring herself pretty closely to know she was pregnant that early. Many home pregnancy tests aren't reliable that early in a pregnancy. But to have that severe of an attitude change, especially so quickly does tend to make me think something else is going on and I can't blame OP at all for looking at a divorce and demanding a paternity test.
    WOW!!! If the wife's story is even halfway true, I feel somewhat sorry for her. Only somewhat as she should have at the very least talked to her husband to ask if he was doing what her mother was saying.
    Okay, no sympathy for the wife here at all. She cheated and the baby is the affair partner's baby. She made up one hell of a story once the AP disappeared and left her in the cold and she got DESPERATE! Good on OP for thinking things thru and getting some real answers. I do however, feel sorry for the baby having a lunatic for a mother.

  • @bagasm
    @bagasm 2 місяці тому +2

    So she cheated with a coworker but she’s a SAHM? This smells fake

  • @eliseives9574
    @eliseives9574 2 місяці тому

    'I gotta hydrate here' 🤣

  • @herdmentality1894
    @herdmentality1894 2 місяці тому +2

    Karma in action

  • @monikaski5449
    @monikaski5449 12 днів тому

    Holy crap…

  • @DeidresStuff
    @DeidresStuff 25 днів тому

    I absolutely LOST MY MIND during and after pregnancy. I ended up in a mental hospital when my son was 6 months old. I tried to kill my sister. I love my sister. I'm not even 100% sure why I did that. I almost married a guy who was in prison that I met on the internet. It was all so bad that I eventually had myself surgically sterilized so it wouldn't happen again. It was absolutely the most bonkers thing I've ever experienced and it took YEARS to level back out again. This woman may have been a liar, but it's entirely possible for pregnancy to fuck you up badly.

  • @Goblue373
    @Goblue373 2 місяці тому +2

    I knew she was a cheating crazy person from the beginning

  • @user-yg4yw2bp2k
    @user-yg4yw2bp2k 2 місяці тому

    ❤not surprised you worrying about the child.

  • @ryanranga8484
    @ryanranga8484 2 місяці тому

    Self fulfilled prophecy

  • @NenaSinclair
    @NenaSinclair 2 місяці тому +2

    Are you sure it's your baby?

  • @lonestargal
    @lonestargal 2 місяці тому

    Wow she's terrible!

  • @yamairad1
    @yamairad1 2 місяці тому +1

    Sounds like she just wanted a baby.

  • @user-pz1tb1rn9z
    @user-pz1tb1rn9z 2 місяці тому +1

    Wife is cheating I bet.

  • @Rainbowofthefallen
    @Rainbowofthefallen 2 місяці тому

    🧡

  • @Jakebrand11208
    @Jakebrand11208 2 місяці тому

    I thought Dusty was still going to be on the women’s side