While I agree with most of the information in this video, it only applies to situations in which the daughter has been reasonable and fair. Parents are waking up to mistreatment from their children, many of us are not feeling the need for a video on how we can do even more to try to appease those people who cannot be appeased. Respect to the creator of this video, she has made videos that discuss the responsibilities of the children as well. Imho, our culture is rapidly changing, the friends I have are not as concerned about trying to get along with anyone who is impossible to get along with. I'm not the professional, but I have life experience and business experience, may I suggest to this video creator a shift in thinking perhaps? If I'm correct, it's time to tell the children to grow up, tell the parents to accept that we probably spoiled our children and it's too late to fix it...just accept what is.
Our daughter cut herself off from not just her parents, but all her siblings and all her relatives. We have different guesses as to why, but what would a professional as yourself explain such behaviour. She obviously wants to start a new life without any previous relationships. And at this point , I won’t even try to reach out to her as it’s a waste of time and effort.
@ Yes, but she never cut anyone out. She always wanted to live without restrictions or boundaries. An example, she skipped most of high school and didn’t graduate. I believe her turning point is when she started doing drugs and I didn’t let her back in my house. She was an adult at the time and I told her it’s time she takes responsibility. To be honest, I feel a sense of relief that she’s not in our lives at all. But I don’t understand why she won’t talk to her siblings. She basically decided to start a new life without any from her family.
@@simchad613 Very sad. I like that you are accepting what is, many parents torture themselves over something like this. I tortured myself when my son was highly critical of me, especially my political beliefs, for years. I got the silent treatment for a few years while he love-bombed my wife. We went no contact with him and I found my peace of mind. My daughter then began the game-playing, I politely and lovingly told her I would not allow my boundaries to be crossed, I was told that I'm forbidden to have contact with her until I'm willing to do as she wants. I accept that completely.
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While I agree with most of the information in this video, it only applies to situations in which the daughter has been reasonable and fair. Parents are waking up to mistreatment from their children, many of us are not feeling the need for a video on how we can do even more to try to appease those people who cannot be appeased.
Respect to the creator of this video, she has made videos that discuss the responsibilities of the children as well. Imho, our culture is rapidly changing, the friends I have are not as concerned about trying to get along with anyone who is impossible to get along with. I'm not the professional, but I have life experience and business experience, may I suggest to this video creator a shift in thinking perhaps? If I'm correct, it's time to tell the children to grow up, tell the parents to accept that we probably spoiled our children and it's too late to fix it...just accept what is.
Sometimes people tell a lie so long they begin to believe it. Sad 😢
Thank you for the guidance!!!
You are so welcome
Our daughter cut herself off from not just her parents, but all her siblings and all her relatives. We have different guesses as to why, but what would a professional as yourself explain such behaviour. She obviously wants to start a new life without any previous relationships. And at this point , I won’t even try to reach out to her as it’s a waste of time and effort.
Was she doing similar behaviors as a teen? Not wanting to be around family?
@ Yes, but she never cut anyone out. She always wanted to live without restrictions or boundaries. An example, she skipped most of high school and didn’t graduate. I believe her turning point is when she started doing drugs and I didn’t let her back in my house. She was an adult at the time and I told her it’s time she takes responsibility. To be honest, I feel a sense of relief that she’s not in our lives at all. But I don’t understand why she won’t talk to her siblings. She basically decided to start a new life without any from her family.
@@simchad613 Very sad. I like that you are accepting what is, many parents torture themselves over something like this. I tortured myself when my son was highly critical of me, especially my political beliefs, for years. I got the silent treatment for a few years while he love-bombed my wife. We went no contact with him and I found my peace of mind. My daughter then began the game-playing, I politely and lovingly told her I would not allow my boundaries to be crossed, I was told that I'm forbidden to have contact with her until I'm willing to do as she wants. I accept that completely.