How to show a guy you LIKE HIM while keeping his RESPECT
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2022
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How to show a guy you’re interested while keeping his respect
Women always ask me about how to show interest without losing a guy’s respect and maintaining their dignity. Too often we are taught to mask our interest in people to save face. Women learn to play hard yo get to maintain respect instead of just requiring respect through sensible but firm boundaries. Pretending mot to like a guy or pretending to not be available does nothing if once a man gets you alone you are easy to bang and rule over physically. Women don’t lose respect by showing interest. They lose respect by allowing men to decide what happens physically and the pace things progress unilaterally. Your boundaries dictate your respect levels not your interest.
How to get respect from guys while showing interest
How to get guys to respect you.
How to let a guy know you like him while maintaining your dignity.
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If a guy thinks he’s entitled to sex, because he paid for my meal, he has some healing to do. Wrong guy. Next in line. 💞
Or because he's fine!!
Yeah no shit. If these guys only knew how much money we drop to look presentable, they'd pick up the bill and LIKE it!
He needs to go on an actual site for that stuff and stop being so cheap, smh
Modern day prostitution is running rampant and has been integrated into our society so fully that if a man/wan doesn't engage in such behavior they're looked at as strange or told they can't make it/no one would want them. Funny thing is so many people are blinded they don't get it and God in most cases has to give you the insight so everything just clicks.
Prostitution is exchanging your body s*x/s*xual favors/acts in exchange for monetary gain or gain in the form of goods or favors
Obvious forma
Adult sites
Conventional standing on the street corner offering s*x for money
Not so obvious
Sleeping with boyfriend and girlfriend and you're not married
Girl sleeps with guy on first date he buys her dinner/they are dating so he pays her bills
Guy sleeps with girl on first date so he know has the privilege of having a trophy 'wife'
Looking like a family man etc
Same M.O goods/services being exchanged for s*x.
Most people are either too blind to see it, want to justify under the guise of being a feminist or saying you have to get with the times and some people just don't give a damn
I had a married man message me saying how come I never talk to him first, that I seem disinterested in him. Chile you’re married! Go repair your marriage and let me focus my energy on a FULLY single man.
Imagine yourself being that wife! I'd block him. We Women need to stick together and have compassion for each other.
Wisdom, creating boundaries way before any thing happens!
@@a.w.3772 i was just talking about this to a friend. If woman stuck together in support and not competition, we could collectively stop these raggedy men in their tracks. They only do do what they do because it worked on someone
My Compliments!! Married Men want just to USE you!
A whole married man🙄smh…….. I also hopes he gets a life or carries on with his marriage life
Patience is so important. I find the more serious guys take their time. The guys in it for short term gratification only, give you that microwave love. Heats up fast cools down even faster.
I never realized that. I thought they were playing games. Interesting perspective and I’m sure a lot of truth in it. Thanks! ❤
Yup. Easy come and easy go.
Exactly!! The secret. No SEX until he commits!!
@@CrystalDatingCoach even that is not a guarantee he would stay
@@m.s9018 It's a guarantee you don't have SEX with someone whose using you!!
Men don't understand they are asking us for the most valuable thing we have in exchange for a chicken dinner....cause let's be honest they aren't buying steak lol.
LOL! 😆 I better be getting lobster & steak!
When I put up my boundaries regarding no sex on the first date and that I don’t answer late night calls or dates, a man once told me, “you are pushing me away with these demands.”
I said,”good! That’s what I want. The right man will respect my boundaries. Be gone!”😂😂😂😂
I had to assert myself a few times and it felt so empowering to have standards and boundaries for myself.
I got HUGE RESPECT from men when I told a guy after a few dates, "No sex before 1. Love 2. Long term commitment and 3. A full STI exam with results that I review. HUGE RESPECT!!!
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Love it
Don't pay a MAN on Monday thinking he's going to work till Friday. Love it!! 😍
This man kept fawning over me but he wouldn’t be straightforward so I asked him if he was romantically interested in me. He acted like he wasn’t. I told him “well that sucks cause I was interested in you” 😂 then he back tracked and said that he was very interested . He feared rejection deeply. Long story short though things didn’t work out cause he was so darn insecure . I wish people would stop being so insecure.
Imagine if we were very secure about it core values and growth, and awareness, there would be greater relationships out here on earth
I wish men would stop dragging around their emotional baggage from past relationships with them, automatically expecting that I'll be just like all those other women that didn't work out for him. Well why should I even have to put up with that? If you can't move on & be open & positive to somebody new, then you shouldn't even be trying until you have your shit together, ya'no? I never go into a new dating situation thinking that a new man is gonna be just like how the last ones treated me. How stupid & unfair.
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Enthusiasm+boundaries=showing interest while keeping respect
I agree you can't be the only one doing the texting or calling. If he doesn't get back to you or reach out to make plans to see you then move on.
"Men will ONLY work for what REQUIRES work"-! Amazing insight in that quote!!! ❤ Mr. Hick I have to take notes on your wisdom!
Keep your power. Make him show you his intentions first.
Patience 100%. Don’t fill in the gaps. I realised that because I rarely meet guys I like, when I do (every couple years), I would dive in. I would “win” short-term but I never “won” long term. They never fell in love with me. I realised I didn’t even understand the process. My understanding of love was immature.
There’s another element to this though. In my early twenties, the men that would actually court me, when the time came to fool around, they weren’t packing at all. Like the results were consistent. I’ve come to find that men that are good looking and endowed are often VERY impatient. This is a catch 22 that male coaches rarely touch on - sexual compatibility. What if you take your time but it’s not a good match?
Currently doing everything mentioned in this video… I’m starting to think maybe my choices are trash. Because none of these men seem to like my standards… but I will say, they definitely respect me for standing firm 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Guys today don't like women with standards unfortunately. They want the thots and Instagram models. It's sad.
Yup. Same. Man after man disappears when boundaries are set! BYE!!
If a man drops off because of your standards it’s a blessing. His intentions weren’t pure or he is incapable of living up to your expectations.
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I made my ex have a connection with me, he wanted sex but didn't pressure me..and within 6 months he was in love with me and we hadn't even kissed lol...I used my personally and emotional love to get him to fall in love with me.. I made him respect my boundaries and wait..it didn't work out bcos of his mother & we never had sex...I walked way without feeling destroyed but intact
Your self esteem has no dependence on anything outside of you say again so the people over yonder can hear you!!!!!
I'm too grown, to be making physical based choices anymore. No matter how attracted I am to you. When I was younger, I didn't allow a whole lot of effort to be made because I was equally lustful. But now that I'm grown, and more seasoned....my self esteem matters way too much now. Thanks for bringing this up
Like my father told me "stop giving away your power"
Matt Shaffer says the same things. I appreciate y'all expertise. Thank you divine masculines 🙏🏾
Steve Harvey said the same thing, in his book
you went hard on the self-esteem section! I'm never going to forget that "If I believe you when you say I"m great, I'm going to believe you when you say I ain't ish" powerful stuff! thank you as always!
I’m the same way. I don’t validate opinions of me. I live for myself. ❤
Exactly
Time, effort, contact, communication . We are worth all of that ladies. Thanks Kev!
It's never acceptable for women to trade their vagina for a bit of food. That's disgusting! Some pig made that up, and some stupid women believed it. Don't ever prostitute yourself going out. Dating is to see if two people are compatible long term to get engaged eventually. ( Dating is not meant for having sex!)
"Pinned her up against some car seats" 😂😂 I don't mean to laugh, but the way Kev said it made me bust out laughing. I like listening to how you deliver things!!! 😂 Str8 raw and uncut! I love it bc you tell it like it is and no sugarcoating. Lol, I needed this laugh...and the "matter of fact" body language I laughed waaay too hard!! 😂😂😂😂
Totally agree! I was cracking up at that pinned up against some car seats 🤣
@@cwilliams8856 😂😂 Just thinking about it again makes me laugh 😆
🤣🤣🤣I spit out my coke...I laughed so hard...he does have a special way of getting things across!
Kev, you are the loving brother figure I never had. 🥺🙏🏻❤️ Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I wish I had your words decades ago.
Thank you 😊
You have grown in your channel, delivery and have become more open and a gentleness- I used to love the wry, ironic deadpan delivery but THIS- you are in some real grown ish and I am all the way here for it.
Much love to you and your family Kev.
Don't pay a guy on monday!!! love your analogies! truth
*Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.*
The payday analogy is perfect!!!
Thank you, Kev! This dating scene is crazy- I appreciate you encouraging us, to continue to value and recognize our worth. 💪🏾
Enthusiasm usually turns men off. I tell these men if picking up random women and having one night stands is the norm for you then I’m out
No it doesn’t. Lack of boundaries and a big mouth does.
Go head Pastor Hicks.....PREACH 💯💯💯
Talk about guys treating women in a humiliating and degrading way. What does it say about that man or the woman allowing that mess.
Love your explanation of self-esteem! 💙🙌🏾
Great points, thank you 🙏🏾
Preach 👏🏽. I needed this .
I needed this right now.
Great video Kev, thank you! 🥰
Awesome video Kev. Thank you!
Amen to truth! Thank you for this video
Wow, this was spot on. Thanks Kev.
Great message ❤
Another great video. Thank you Kev 💯💯
Thank you for all you do Kevin. You’re so awesome. Us women need that brother love advice.
Excellent breakdown
This was really good!! Thank you! 🙌🏾💯
Thank you for this one 🙏💖
Love & Light to you Kev! 💫❤🙏🏾 your videos are so helpful thank you!
Great advice, as always. Thank you.
Thank you Kevin!
❤🎉❤❤this is factual and fire 🔥 thanks Kev
Totally love the message!!! It's working because I'm doing just this. Thanks for my assignment 🙂
Hiiiiii Kev!
Thank you for posting this. You are helping young transform their lives most important building their mental strength up.
We love you and be safe! 💛❤️
Thanks Kev, you help all the time. Lots of grateful love. Cheers.
Exactly-Boundaries is empowering shows self love. Awesome video Kev!
All Facts bro
This one of my favorites Kevin!!! You knocked the ball out the park, baby!!!
Thanks just the right timing ❤👍🏼
Thank you for being so level headed and for being a real person with sound, grounded advice that is REAL!
I’m appreciating your content. Thank you for spreading great and much needed knowledge.
My pleasure!
Thank you ❤️ I became a Patron today!!! Appreciate your content so much!!
Thank you! 😁
I always enjoy your words
Thank you for this great information
Amen ,, it's hard to move on when you are so deeply in love and was giving it your all say what God is in control for me, Thanks Kev. stay bless always.
Thank you this is the fact 🙏🙏
True truth!!!
Luv it cousin Kev❣
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"You're welcome to my ENERGY ". Yes!
Kiev you are such a lovely young man thank you for educating the ladies to myself on some points but you are correct sensing hugs to you and hope your financial business services have took off and you are successful 🤗
Thank you needed this. Interested in someone but don't know how to show it. I'm sure I'm not on his level financial wise but other areas I feel good and confident in. 🙏💯
Why would you need to be on his level financially? Since when did that matter to a man?
Just... thank you 🙏🙏🙏
men usually have less patience then women and will lose interest if their advance is not reciprocated but im guessing in that event he was only interested in knowing the cat
Thank you for a great video and sharing appreciate you. Sending Love and Positive Vibes to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 💜💥💙💥❤️💥
Brilliant video to empower women and the advice I fully take on board this time round dating. Thank you so much
My pleasure 😇
Thank you 💜
Oh man you made me laugh when you said you don't pay a man on Monday and expect him to work until Friday. I have high respect for your dedication in educating women when it comes to dating. Keep up with the work, and definitely you should not give a dime about those who say negative things about your advices.
9:00 I love that work analogy
I like will in the background there. Legendary
I’ll never throw that away
Self Control is Self Respect
I say enthusiasm yes but be genuine because if you’re not really interested in what he’s interested in how long can fake enthusiasm last. Live your life be enthusiastic about your own wife as well and not just wait for the other person to invite you out be enthusiastic about your life and what you’re doing enthusiastic about who you see or who your friends are and if you concentrate on a friendship instead of a love interest, you’re building a good foundation because you’re gonna have fun with that person and you’re gonna go out and be silly and that is what life is about being happy, and helpful! I’m 55 and married but I love listening to this young man.
Smart man
Yeah...but sometimes people's "insults" are true. You should always examine the feedback people give you. Ultimately it'll make you better. Keep up great work Kevin!! 😘
“ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness” … f*ck them insults. God makes me better. A hater can kiss my a**. I feel you though. Love
Yessssssss. These days definitely not letting some random man lead me. Only my husband will be trusted to lead and that's because I will know where he is trying to go by then. When you sit back and watch for the direction...it's so easy to spot where they going. Usually they are looking for a quick trip to sex store so they can be home for dinner. 🤣😆 😆
Periodt point blank
Its that time that we talk again Kev.
Looking forward to it😁
A man needs to step up to the plate and show he's a qualified, trustworthy man before he gets accolades and earned respect. That's just the facts. Women need to keep their legs closed until they are in a committed marriage.
Seriously ur advice is awesome...i find it so difficult to find any men that match my energy and values....they dissapper when they dnt get sex....im secure and want better for myself so ive stayed single!!! Much love and thanks❤🙏🙏🙏
God bless In Jesus's Mighty and Wonderful Name! Thank you for sharing
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Love you Kev is there anyway to work on the audio? Maybe some insulation or something?
New office. Still getting the acoustic foam ordered and installed.
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Your advice on our coaching call really helped me get a reality check and clarity. I even have a date on Friday probably the best option I have ever had in my life and I have been very relaxed still 😂.
Thanks to your advice and help from all your videos I feel like I finally attracted someone who is high value, a gentleman, and extremely attractive as well. We shall see what happens.
Have been applying this too.
@@Juicylock261 that’s very nice to hear. Good luck on your date😉
Hope it goes well Sandy!
I’ve been watching you for years!!
I’ve been to that website and have been trying to book a chat with you!! I clicked on those things but they aren’t working.
Seen all your videos 😎
If you can shoot me a link to have a chat that’d be awesome!!
I hope to hear from you!
@@tushiefenton7721 the website has been changed. www.kevhick.com is the new site. Also, thanks for watching 😁
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Can one recover after letting their urges get the best of them on their first date? How does one set boundaries after recognizing the mistake they made after ?
Hi Kev, correct me if I'm wrong. I think, if a man is interested in having a relationship with the woman he's going out with, it doesn't really matter if they have sex "too early" or not. Because his initial intentions won't change, right? I mean, if a man only wants sex, then yeah, having sex "too early" will make him pull away. But that's fine, you didn't want that man anyway as he doesn't want the same thing. But, I have difficulty understanding how a man that initially wants to have a relationship, will stop making the efforts or even changing his mind if you have sex "too early". I hope my question makes sense. I'm an independent woman, I live alone, pay my bills and I think sex is good but I don't put a lot of thought on it because to me is a very simple thing. I don't need to have sex only with a man that I'm hoping to have a relationship with, despite my main goal is to have a relationship. I think we ladies are being too judged (not by you obviously) if we have sex early or not. I mean, that's not a thing among the guys. Why should be a thing amoung the girls? Any thoughts? Thank you
Hey Kev I have a question, I met a worker as he was cashing me out for my stay at an airport parking garage. It was clear that he was interested in me. He told me that he is working all week if I was coming back up that way. Feel free to stop by that he will be here for me. ha Anyways, I wanted to ask his name and his working hours. As I'm open to dating at the moment. However, there was a car behind me so I just smiled and drove away. Without excanging numbers or anything. I know I'm not going to be there for a while as I don't live in that area. The thing is I am intested in getting to know him. But the only way to contact him is to call the work place. But I don't want to come off as some crazy lady. How should I proceed without looking like a nut? Or should I just leave it alone? Thank you in advance for any assistance.
do you have a brother? 😭😭😭
That's really good advice. Though with me being older now, some things are different. It's really strange, how things have changed, &, honestly, Idk what to do with it. I'm middleaged, so my dating pool has gotten very shallow. (Take that any way you want.) And, not sure if others have noticed this, but, from my own personal experience, black & white men approach me differently. Nowadays, white men rarely approach me, if ever, but black men....Idk why, but, they have no interest in conversation. They cut right to the chase. Very direct & forward. It's all I need to know that, I have zero interest in them, because I have nothing coming from them. First, it's men I didn't show any interest to in the first place. Second, they seem to be completely clueless...as if I'm some sort of whore. Like, who just keeps going at a total stranger, going straight into 'relationship' talk? "Hey, baby...I KNOW YOU got a boyfriend, huh?" If I say no, he takes that as an invite to press into it more. "Oh really? A pretty thing like you has no man? What-why's THAT? Can I be your man?" GEEZUS-GO AWAY! WTF?! No white guy has ever approached me like that. It's so creepy. Instead of telling women what to do, how about educating some of these playas out there that have nothing going for them. Seriously, that's a rude way to appraoch a woman, esp when she hasn't even shown interest. I can't have a decent conversation with men that go from zero to eighty in two seconds. All it says to me is, "I'd do you, &, you'll love it, because I do it so well!" Um, if THAT was true, these dumb asses would be married & not bothering me. Idk why the white guys don't even try anymore. They really don't. They leave everything up to me, &..I'm so over it. I want a relationship, but, I've yet to see anyone worthy of my time & effort, to be honest. Anybody I do take interest in, no matter his race, age, etc, they friend zone me, & nothing more ever comes from it.
❤❤❤u cute 🥰 I won’t lie
If a man asks to see a woman, but he's in a different city, Should he offer to pay for her travel costs? It is clear that we both like each other. What is the right way to handle this situation?
He should be traveling to see her. Or meet in the middle
He asked to see you, he should make it happen. Red flag that this is being questioned or discussed between you two. Fall back a bit.....Seem like he on BS
He should travel to your town out of his own pocket and tear you to some nice date out of his pocket
He needs to come see you or meet each other in the middle.
What’s his angle
Can you plz talk about how to approach a on Fb or IG you never met and think he is cute! I hate this uhh
Check out my videos about online dating. I’ve talked about that a few times. The videos get really low views so maybe you missed them because UA-cam doesn’t promote each one the same.
@@KevHick I think I seen all of the old ones but I will check them out again to refresh! Thanks so much!
My ex broke up with me for another girl that coo not what I'm hurt about what I'm hurt about he won't leave me alone he claims he happy why he just won't go n be happy
I know I don’t have the authority to speak on your situation but since it’s posted here, I will comment.
From what I can see you’re too available to your ex. He won’t leave you alone because you make yourself available to take his calls and respond to his efforts to contact you. Be honest, you love the attention he gives you and it validates you to think you’re still on his mind etc. He won’t go away until you enforce proper boundaries.
That’s what “block” is for. No face no case lol.