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  • @sandrasonline
    @sandrasonline 2 роки тому +1357

    Timestamps (like so others can see it or if u just wanna like it 🥰)
    1:38 Med school
    3:18 STEM Majors
    11:41 Posting of where you live
    15:59 Gifted Adults 🌟
    21:30 Misogyny on stan Twitter
    22:58 Misogyny on TikTok (Amber Heard)
    25:00 Homophobia (Bisexual Men)
    32:40 Annabeth from Percy Jackson casting
    35:50 Is the clapback worth it? (Liam Payne)
    36:50 Boy Moms
    39:10 Hairstylists
    44:15 Day in my life vlog
    51:36 BREAK MY SOUL
    52:10 This Hell by Rina Sawayama
    53:10 FLO
    54:09 living single & degrassi (potential video on season 11)
    55:14 The Bear oHululu

  • @dojakitty6842
    @dojakitty6842 2 роки тому +1704

    I've prayed for this series to come back so much...God is good

    • @biancadesousa
      @biancadesousa 2 роки тому +78

      she does them like every week on her patreon… us brokies just don’t get to see it 🥺

    • @tionnajohnson8430
      @tionnajohnson8430 2 роки тому +84

      @@biancadesousa now why you got to call us brokies...I mean it's accurate but still :(

    • @jamelreynolds4673
      @jamelreynolds4673 2 роки тому +28

      @@tionnajohnson8430 no deadass lmaoo

    • @nailinthefashion
      @nailinthefashion 2 роки тому +25

      People like to say magic isn't real, you can't manifest things. Oh really? Can't wait to show them this completely unrelated video and be right. Factually correct.

    • @KringleCakes55
      @KringleCakes55 2 роки тому

      @@biancadesousa you can't afford $5 a month?

  • @travisboothe7847
    @travisboothe7847 2 роки тому +509

    The concept of “realism” in a series surrounding Greek MYTHology is LAUGHABLE to me 🤣

    • @piscesonpluto
      @piscesonpluto 2 роки тому +45

      not to mention if ppl think a white blonde girl is more realistic/common in ancient greece than a black girl then they… have read very little abt ancient greece outside of pjo

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 Рік тому +1

      Apparently realism= white
      Love how that plays out

  • @cocolee1957
    @cocolee1957 2 роки тому +1002

    As someone who was miserable in a STEM field (CS) and moved to History, now much happier and surrounded by far lovelier people, I can say you are 100% correct. There are so many STEM people who think they're smart but cannot think for the life of them. I've seen first hand them flail in philosophy and history classes, confused by every single reading, because these classes require thought and reflection, not memorizing a formula. If that's not their strong suit that's fine! But these people will be the first ones to tell me I made a mistake and am getting a useless degree lmao. Intelligence exists in many ways but damn girl you are absolutely correct saying that these people are annoying af

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 2 роки тому +17

      THIS!

    • @squinklings
      @squinklings 2 роки тому +69

      They aren't likely good at stem either bc stem also requires thought and reflection and analysis of what information you have obtained.

    • @jigsawpiece8690
      @jigsawpiece8690 2 роки тому +40

      @@squinklings literally ones like that never get far especially not passed undergrad cause writing and analysis skills are very much needed

    • @squinklings
      @squinklings 2 роки тому +1

      @@jigsawpiece8690 exactly. They are some of the most 2 dimensional people. So full of arrogance but can't fully practice the subjects they claim make them better than others. Everything requires reading, writing, analysis and history. And as someone who does have a degree in stem, it was so nice to have other subjects that were stimulating in a different way

    • @soraya131
      @soraya131 2 роки тому +26

      never agreed with something more like THANK U FOR SPEAKING THE TRUTH i wish i could share this to all the stuck-up STEM students who think intellect is more relevant that analyzing

  • @abadira
    @abadira 2 роки тому +492

    As someone who majored in engineering and minored in sociology... the STEM major slander is completely justified and we should do more of it actually

    • @darkartsninja
      @darkartsninja Рік тому +8

      Nice, I was a Biomed Sci major w/ Psychology minor. :) I may not like how expensive my university was, but I thank god every day that my school required everyone to take an ethics, psychology, and phys ed class.

    • @AndreaFMS100
      @AndreaFMS100 Рік тому +6

      If it's true it's not slander

  • @dominick4194
    @dominick4194 2 роки тому +98

    The Annabeth outrage was so stupid like she was chosen by THE AUTHOR she beat out all those other little actresses for a reason!

  • @RamenzillaX
    @RamenzillaX 2 роки тому +642

    Standing ovation for the ROAST of biphobia/homophobia. 🤣🤣🤣 don’t come to gay clubs if you’re biphobic/homophobic. Stay in your damn lane.

    • @ciabattabuns9328
      @ciabattabuns9328 2 роки тому +17

      👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma Рік тому +4

      🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐

    • @SahloFolina2161
      @SahloFolina2161 Рік тому +5

      SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK.

  • @hottieschicken
    @hottieschicken 2 роки тому +95

    Everytime a new entry in the EIBMCU (Everyone is Bothering Me Cinematic Universe) premieres I bust out the popcorn and pull it up on the flatscreen tv and have a full movie screening

  • @victorias1227
    @victorias1227 2 роки тому +422

    They need that sociology gen ed to learn that the "intelligence" they base their self-worth on has its definition based in eugenics 💅 thank u for bringing this series back, im surprised u dislike writing because your scripts always have such strong claims backed by great evidence presented in a captivating way (and humor without undermining the seriousness of subject matter!) Relieved someone like you is in med school tbh.

  • @ksandsszz
    @ksandsszz 2 роки тому +342

    As a sociology major that constantly gets shit on bc ppl think I won’t get a job/my major is easy, I really appreciate this rant

    • @jnicole.
      @jnicole. 2 роки тому +41

      I love sociology

    • @isadorachatelain5215
      @isadorachatelain5215 2 роки тому +58

      Sociology is so important 😭 don’t listen to those ppl

    • @SahloFolina2161
      @SahloFolina2161 Рік тому +2

      Can someone explain what you guys study in class? It sounds interesting as a subject. :)

    • @5555.Star.
      @5555.Star. Рік тому +2

      @@SahloFolina2161 I love taking soc classes, I've only had the pleasure of taking basic ones but they're mostly about society and how we interact with each other! If you like Amanda's rants I think you'll enjoy sociology!

  • @em_the_gem
    @em_the_gem 2 роки тому +830

    I’m sorry that people have been bothering you, but I’m glad you’re back stating facts while ranting because I haven’t been watching your recent videos because I don’t watch shows that you’re talking about😩. All in all I’m glad you’re back with this series because it seems to be a good release for all of us lol

    • @trini2DBone134
      @trini2DBone134 2 роки тому +6

      Same

    • @daanitheestallion
      @daanitheestallion 2 роки тому +76

      even if you don't watch the shows you should still watch them, i haven't seen the last 3 shows shes talked about but the videos are even funnier without context

    • @skeletonizer9529
      @skeletonizer9529 2 роки тому +1

      I was about to say exactly this lol

    • @opinionatednobody5631
      @opinionatednobody5631 2 роки тому +4

      @@daanitheestallion oh I should try that !

    • @jaidaa
      @jaidaa 2 роки тому +13

      Same here! The last video I watched of hers was Euphoria and I truly missed her content. But I thought maybe I should try to watch one of the other shows but I'm too lazy lmao

  • @victorias1227
    @victorias1227 2 роки тому +568

    THANK YOU FOR THE HOMOPHOBIC DISCOURSE IN PARTICULAR!!!! Like THANK you!!!! and I don't know if u did this on purpose, but bringing this up right after calling out the amorality of mocking a BI WOMAN's abuse testimony (because they think her homophobic abuser is hot) is such perfect structuring.

    • @trini2DBone134
      @trini2DBone134 2 роки тому +3

      Who are you talking about if I might ask?

    • @brendas8
      @brendas8 2 роки тому +40

      @@trini2DBone134 i think its about the heard and depp
      i could be wrong but it seems like that was it

    • @nailinthefashion
      @nailinthefashion 2 роки тому +52

      The bi/pan and monogamous erasure .... I'm just like ??? We literally can use our words, condoms, etc and be fine

    • @victorias1227
      @victorias1227 2 роки тому +12

      It was, thank you for clarifying for me, I'm on mobile and didn't get a notification.

    • @itsniquenique45
      @itsniquenique45 2 роки тому +42

      Yessss! You can tell Amanda thinks things through. And I am sooo ready for us to dissect this biphobia. It’s exhausting for bi/pan people to be attacked from every side damn near

  • @emmess6419
    @emmess6419 2 роки тому +272

    Nobody hates STEM majors as much as other STEM majors

    • @AM-vk7qx
      @AM-vk7qx 2 роки тому +42

      fr they can’t go a sentence without mentioning every good grade, internship, and research lab they got into like..

  • @angelfahlife6000
    @angelfahlife6000 2 роки тому +51

    People saw celebrities do home/apartment tours and forgot that not only do those celebrities have serious security but they STILL get stalkers and creeps breaking into their home all the time.

  • @chelsea_sarfo6388
    @chelsea_sarfo6388 2 роки тому +141

    So glad you mentioned rina and doechii. They are the next IT girls!

    • @nailinthefashion
      @nailinthefashion 2 роки тому +19

      This hell is better with you btw 🌈💕✨️

    • @Therealsoso10
      @Therealsoso10 2 роки тому +9

      Catch me in the air 🌫🦋💛

  • @j.r.765
    @j.r.765 2 роки тому +50

    The generation that swears they have learned from the story of Britney Spears are repeating history with this defamation suit

  • @owatson7648
    @owatson7648 2 роки тому +62

    Thank you for defending Heard. As someone who grew up in a household w domestic abuse and is bisexual, it was terrifying watching the social media response to her testimony. It’s awful

  • @nyoomsie
    @nyoomsie 2 роки тому +217

    Thank you for bringing up the biphobia. They will say it’s for their health like??? You think these straight men are CLEAN? They’re just repurposing stereotypes.

    • @-cocoa
      @-cocoa 2 роки тому +25

      Exactly it was a much needed conversation

    • @SahloFolina2161
      @SahloFolina2161 Рік тому

      Aren’t there het men who don’t wash themselves cuz they think it’s gay???? Y’ALL REALLY THINK THE GAYS ARE THE DIRTY ONES??

    • @ivyrainbitch
      @ivyrainbitch Рік тому +1

      Yet people still date straight men

    • @prismaticparhelion1767
      @prismaticparhelion1767 Рік тому +1

      NO LITERALLYYYYY. Even if they're worried about HIV, most promiscuous guys who sleep with men are on PrEP, and actually contract it at a lower rate than promiscuous straight people who are mostly not on PrEP

  • @harlowe8691
    @harlowe8691 2 роки тому +84

    That pivot from "get a job" to "no, just go find something better to do bc fuck capitalism" was beautiful

  • @yourannoyinggoose
    @yourannoyinggoose 2 роки тому +118

    To the people who want to see a great video on anti blackness in movie adaptation watch Yhara Zayd’s video about the day Rue turned “black”.

  • @gm.8805
    @gm.8805 Рік тому +107

    it’s horrible how a woman speaking up about getting abused and sexually assaulted is getting mocked and made memes of.

  • @foreverlazy552
    @foreverlazy552 2 роки тому +136

    I've always felt so guilty for wanting to tell off the med students in my own family (there are a lot of them) for treating my field of study as a waste of money or "not a real degree" because even though they piss me off, I kept telling myself that they're literally going to be saving lives one day so just grin and bear it. But somewhere along the middle of the pandemic, I lost my shit. I'm a full-time teacher now, but before the pandemic, while I was still in school, I worked at a daycare - a job that I, and many of my co-workers, lost once the pandemic hit because they couldn't afford to keep us on. That experience of losing a job coupled with watching fellow teachers start working during a pandemic and now being in that situation myself, my tolerance level for hearing a comment like - "Governments don't need to put that much funding in schools, how many teachers do we really need?" - was incredibly low. And the thing is, I don't think my cousin was joking when she said that. Imagine having the knowledge to save someone's life, yet not having a single clue as to what the world around you is like. I may have gotten a teaching degree, but it was still through an Intercultural Relations program. Honestly, it's like you said - just take the damn sociology course as an upper liberal and go beyond your little bubbles.

    • @gerhardsmith7892
      @gerhardsmith7892 2 роки тому +1

      You know what's funny? If you scroll the comments you can literally see people doing the opposite, pretending like sciences/medicine are just memorizing a bunch of stuff that you could very well just google up, that bubble that you mention at the end exists for every field because people don't really understand what other people do, because they have never been in another field

    • @5555.Star.
      @5555.Star. Рік тому +9

      @@gerhardsmith7892 Gerhard, I know I'm late but I'm seriously concerned for you. This is possibly the 6th comment that I've seen from you and it's obvious you don't agree with many of the opinions in this video and the chats in the comments. Understanding the "other side" is crucial for critical thinking skills, but arguing your way to the top will not and is not making you seem any more logical than it is making you seem opinionated.

    • @gerhardsmith7892
      @gerhardsmith7892 Рік тому

      @@5555.Star. You are literally say that I should either agree with everyone or not comment at all, and that makes you look like an absolute brainlet, and in fact, you are one

  • @kamthaman9129
    @kamthaman9129 2 роки тому +31

    SO glad you said that about ppl making fun of an abusive situation on fucking tiktok.. she was recounting the abuse and terrible things this damn pirate did to her and all people cared about was her dog stepping on a bee..

  • @Wendigirl11
    @Wendigirl11 2 роки тому +118

    This series is back. Beyoncé is on the horizon. The world is healing

    • @Mariamox
      @Mariamox 2 роки тому +2

      Haha

    • @piratesswoop725
      @piratesswoop725 Рік тому +6

      Black Panther 2 trailer just dropped too. July is giving what it needed to give!

  • @mysticwater9056
    @mysticwater9056 2 роки тому +232

    My sister is in residency and she definitely had a lot of the same complaints you had about med school and stem kids. I hung out with stem kids too and it really wrecked my confidence. I was so sure I wanted to be a doctor and it wasn’t until I had a mental health breakdown and had to be hospitalized for most of my junior year that I realized that path wasn’t for me. I’m very glad I’m getting my degree in psychology/sociology and not trying to become a doctor because honestly, stem kids are exhausting.

    • @ivana9742
      @ivana9742 2 роки тому +37

      They are! I remember speaking to some in high school and they bragged about going into engineering and told me I couldn’t do any ting with a degree in psychology 🧍🏽‍♀️

    • @jigsawpiece8690
      @jigsawpiece8690 2 роки тому +16

      @@ivana9742 when psychology is counted as a science 🧍🏾‍♀️ those kind of stem kids suck!!!! When i was doing my chemistry degree I was made fun of cause I said I wanted to go down the green/sustainable chemistry sector (more geography based) and was told geography was just colouring in maps

    • @gerhardsmith7892
      @gerhardsmith7892 2 роки тому +1

      If by "doctor" you mean a medic, then let me tell you that medicine isn't even a stem

  • @user-ry1yf5sm8q
    @user-ry1yf5sm8q 2 роки тому +144

    The stan twitter thing is so true, so many gay men (however still a small minority of a great community)will come at women so negatively and say the most sexist things but excuse it by them being gay.
    In case anyone wants to try and call me homophobic I myself am LGBT+, I'm simply pointing out an observation

    • @SahloFolina2161
      @SahloFolina2161 Рік тому +7

      Yeah, your 1000% right. Being gay doesn’t excuse sexism.

  • @BeautyIsMyLife
    @BeautyIsMyLife 2 роки тому +89

    Thank you for emphasizing that the humanities are necessary for being a well rounded human being. I worked in higher education for 20 years and towards the end of that time, basically the last couple of years starting maybe 2017, Administrators were focusing on stem careers and saying that the other classes, meaning humanities, were not important and we shouldn't make students take these courses. I was appalled. I am an English major myself. I had to take science courses to complete my degree too. I hate this trend of focusing only on technical courses for technical careers. Thank you for helping me feel validated!

    • @soraya131
      @soraya131 2 роки тому +6

      i felt so seen and heard from that segment but as someone who is also an english major and also worked in higher edu i totally felt this and the frustrations/biases i’ve received and heard about humanities and the schools wanting to cut those courses off will truly rue the day

  • @scorpiosadnesss
    @scorpiosadnesss 2 роки тому +58

    We back in business with the iconic series!!!

  • @juniuchis
    @juniuchis 2 роки тому +71

    THE SERIES IS BACK! I USED TO PRAY FOR TIMES LIKE THIS

  • @kimberlyj1112
    @kimberlyj1112 2 роки тому +22

    “i’m gonna keep my thoughts to myself bc i have a brand to uphold” my sister GET UP!!!

  • @LavenderHV
    @LavenderHV 2 роки тому +30

    Thank you for speaking up for amber, the misogyny is unreal 💔

  • @dojakitty6842
    @dojakitty6842 2 роки тому +107

    No because the Bi-weekly Biphobia is so tired, ENOUGH. PUT THE PHONES DOWN!

  • @cheribellosom530
    @cheribellosom530 2 роки тому +348

    THE GIFTED KID PROGRAM
    Ask anyone who was a gifted kid, it’s not just the extra books, it’s the constant telling of kids their better than their peers, treating them differently, I literally got on a bus to a go to a different school when I was 9 (4th) for a block of time to learn from the gifted teacher with a small group of peers, and then we’d come back outta nowhere to regular class. I’m 19 turning 20 this month, so this is like 2011 for reference.
    It only gets worse from here, you’re the smart one in your class and that’s becomes your whole identity since you’re very young and don’t know yourself that well/have a fleshed out personality and then you have to compete with the other smart kids to be number one.
    High school is worst of all, there are now tonssssss of other smart kids, so there’s definitely someone smarter/better than you, do you break your neck to be the best? Or do you now have to learn to deal with failure?
    The expectations of your parents to get straight As and be perfect is also a looming issue and you’re expected to be naturally great at everything so failure is basically a crippling fear. Your future is now at stake, being valedictorian, and tons of other higher level classes/or extracurriculars you’re expected to be in and if you can’t handle it, then what kinda of gifted kid are you?
    You also rarely have to study since early intelligence is usually memory based, so college can be a veryyyy rude awakening.
    EDIT: This experience becomes significantly harder if you are black, because you will be placed in classes that are completely full of white people or non black people and will be the ONLY one or one of very FEW in the room, and will be looked down upon or treated differently subconsciously OR consciously.

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390 2 роки тому +10

      Idk about the "Gifted Kid Program" but speaking as someone who had the highest grades in every class since kindergarten(despite significant family trauma and upheaval at that)...I'm fine. lololol And I LOVED school. :)

    • @cheribellosom530
      @cheribellosom530 2 роки тому +45

      @@jenme2390 that’s great! I’m glad you enjoyed it❤️ I on the other hand, hated going to school even though I did really well😭 and many people around my age agree it gave them lots of anxiety and left them with other issues.

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390 2 роки тому +3

      @@cheribellosom530 K. Well, I'm sorry to hear that it was so rough for you all. Just wanted to chime in because that's not everyone's experience or even necessarily the majority for "gifted" kids or "smart" kids and people who had experiences to the contrary do exist. Obviously I went to school with a bunch of kids who were also in my AP and Honors courses, and I can't say that too many of us(if I could even think of one who particularly stands out as stressed out)were running on anxiety fortunately. Actually in high school most of us were balancing our courses, being officers in organizations AND sports. And that was just how we all operated most efficiently. Busy busy. :)

    • @FellDownTheCornHole
      @FellDownTheCornHole 2 роки тому +33

      Yes, and a majority of the time the way these programs would raise confidence in these gifted students would be implementing a superiority complex in their heads.

    • @jenme2390
      @jenme2390 2 роки тому +2

      @@FellDownTheCornHole 🤔Hmmmm. Idk. I don’t think it’s the program creating a superiority complex as much as it is a self-imposed inferiority complex for those who aren’t in the program.🤷🏾‍♀️
      If anyone believes they are superior than the next person because they are more successful at school work, they have a lot of growing to do as a human being. And anyone who feels less than because school is not their thing can be assured that there is more to life than school. It will all be okay.💁🏾‍♀️

  • @dfurtado18
    @dfurtado18 2 роки тому +173

    um YES. you are a whole queen for the bi men making cis-het women uncomfortable part. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 AMEN

    • @biancadesousa
      @biancadesousa 2 роки тому +24

      it’s not only cis women who can be biphobia. Look at nikita dragun lol

    • @chocolatitac9365
      @chocolatitac9365 2 роки тому +13

      A lot of gay men are biphobia too , I don’t understand why everyone worried about what straight women or bi women prefer when it comes to partners.

    • @jamangel
      @jamangel 2 роки тому +1

      !!

    • @hope3290
      @hope3290 2 роки тому +9

      @@chocolatitac9365 Because the current discourse is coming from straight women right now, not gay men. No one said gay men can't also be biphobic. But we are talking about straight women right now.

  • @jifij89
    @jifij89 2 роки тому +220

    yesssssss thank you for speaking out on the misogyny around amber heard. this whole thing is terrifying. we will never be believed 💔 especially those of us with mental illnesses. i’m so scared for where this is heading

    • @lynnkb8793
      @lynnkb8793 2 роки тому

      The difference between her and 97% of victims of DV is she was lying. Watch. The. Trial.

    • @gerhardsmith7892
      @gerhardsmith7892 2 роки тому +8

      People would believe other people more if people like Amber stopped telling lies

    • @janelle.c0re
      @janelle.c0re 2 роки тому

      @@gerhardsmith7892 I don’t believe that Amber Heard is lying. No woman has ever gained anything good from having abuse/assault allegations against a powerful man. Also, if Amber Heard has a dent in wether you believe victims, then you probably never believed victims in the first place.

    • @gerhardsmith7892
      @gerhardsmith7892 2 роки тому +4

      @@janelle.c0re Except that:
      1.- She has been proven to also victimize the other guy
      2.- Women (and people in general) have lied despite not winning anything from it, and that's also proven
      3.- She is also a powerful woman, don't try to pretend like she was swimming against current
      4.- What you call "victims" are not victims unless they are telling the truth, and like I just said, "victims" have lied before
      5.- I never said that Amber in particular has a dent in believing "victims" or not, I said women who have lied about such cases do

    • @janelle.c0re
      @janelle.c0re 2 роки тому +44

      @@gerhardsmith7892 1. Amber hasn’t victimized any other guy, otherwise you would’ve named them.
      2.I am specifically talking about women in Amber’s situation. Women in that situation are harassed, interrogated, and subjected to victim-blaming. They know they won’t win anything out of exposing their abuser -especially one that is loved by the public- but they do it anyway because they are telling the truth.
      3. Amber is a powerful white woman in some form but if we put her against Depp- a white, powerful, famous, rich 59 year old man- then she is considerably less powerful.
      4. Your basis for someone being a victim is not based on IF they are telling the truth, but whether YOU believe they are telling the truth.
      5. You specifically said, “People would believe other people more if people like Amber stopped telling lies”. You based your belief on Amber “lying” as a connection and fault as to why other people didn’t believe abuse allegations by victims/survivors. Therefore, you stated that Amber is somehow “damaged” the credibility of other victims to be believed, you literally blamed her for how other people responded to her trustworthiness.

  • @notthatcreativewithnames
    @notthatcreativewithnames 2 роки тому +81

    If you believe that your field is superior or "smarter" than other fields, please grow the hell up. STEM is not superior to, say, liberal arts or vocational schools. My young self used to believe that shit until I realised that it is utterly nonsense. Every field, every honest occupation is important, and we will need them one day. Just because two fields are different, it does NOT mean that one has to be superior to another.
    I think I am quite lucky to be in a friendly and supportive atmosphere while I do postgrad abroad in my STEM field, as someone who is Asian (born and raised in SE Asia), transgender, and neurodiversed. This is in the UK, so I would have totally no idea how terrible racism and misogyny issues are in the US. I am also clueless about STEM studies in the US.

  • @aliteralfairy3925
    @aliteralfairy3925 2 роки тому +54

    Thank you for everything you said about stem majors! I’m a history major and Im so tired of people saying it’s useless. Learning, recording, and knowing history is very important to peoples survival and just basic knowledge of the world we live in. We need it!

  • @rockdiva67
    @rockdiva67 2 роки тому +52

    With the gifted programme discourse, I think it's important to recognise the link between being "gifted" and neurodivergence and the fact that it tends to slip through the cracks, leading to late diagnosis. From personal experience, this is something that happened to me and I have friends and family members that experienced the same. At 21, I've come to terms with that I won't pick up things as easily as a child and I did "fall behind" (tbh I'm still doing well enough, just not at the ridiculously high standards expected of me as a child). However, I don't think I would've been able to without the knowledge of my ADHD and realising that is why I struggle with studying, university etc. Since then, I have been able to adapt and let go of the "gifted" label.

    • @deen8100
      @deen8100 2 роки тому +1

      the same thing happened to me!!

  • @dylpickled
    @dylpickled 2 роки тому +62

    I’m in liberal arts/humanities and I still cry when I need to write

  • @tae.923
    @tae.923 2 роки тому +60

    I will say, I can understand the frustration of watching people in these comfy "tech" jobs (I wouldn't personally call it that, lmao) do basically nothing for most of the day making more money than essential workers/people who actually work throughout their workday. Still, its no reason to harrass the girls, thats more of a societal issue.

  • @elijahwagner9881
    @elijahwagner9881 2 роки тому +122

    I (just graduated hs) was a soon-to-be st*m major. my hs was super focused on it and I was the BIGGEST nerd. took all the math and science aps and competed with all the other nerds to get the highest grades possible. literally was my whole life. my identity was being "smart." had a mental breakdown, switched schools, and dropped all my aps and now im not going to college lol! but at least im not gonna be a st*m major.

    • @trini2DBone134
      @trini2DBone134 2 роки тому +14

      Hello fellow graduate of 2022 💕 how are u

    • @karalynspeaks4267
      @karalynspeaks4267 2 роки тому +4

      @@trini2DBone134 hey fellow graduates 🎓

  • @bryyyyy
    @bryyyyy 2 роки тому +84

    Thank you for talking about the biphobia !! I hate when straight women say dumb shit about std’s and bi men bc straight men literally never get tested and they’re totally fine w it so how is it different w a bi man?💀 you can get the same STD/STI from the straight man sooooo

    • @-cocoa
      @-cocoa 2 роки тому +18

      Exactly I was watching a UA-camrs video and it just dawned on me how Bi-phobic she sounded when she said there are more health risks with dating men that are bi

  • @Tasty_Tango45
    @Tasty_Tango45 2 роки тому +89

    This has been a long time coming and I’m here for it 😤😤😤

  • @praisespeaks
    @praisespeaks 2 роки тому +24

    40:37 is so true!! kinkier textures are able to hold so many styles but the black community is unfortunately plagued with texturism and antiblackness. i haven't been to a salon in years but this is terrifying

  • @signofthecrabs
    @signofthecrabs 2 роки тому +15

    The bias some have towards the humanities/social science majors are rooted in misogyny/patriarchy as well. “Hard” sciences such as chemistry, biology, engineering, etc are usually seen in society as being “factual”, “active” & “real”, characteristics typically given to men. Non-stem majors are looked at as “passive”, feminine, “soft”, “unreal” & “easy” (stereotypes forced onto women) because it is deals with the nature of things/people. Even within the social sciences there are some who discredit qualitative methods because there’s no “math” or “science” involved. It’s f*ked up because college in general is not easy and everyone should focus on what they need to do to be happy.
    -from a fellow Sociology major💓

  • @isaacroot5459
    @isaacroot5459 2 роки тому +244

    I’m in nursing school and the transphobia and racism are horrendous

    • @sasha-fj4ex
      @sasha-fj4ex 2 роки тому +23

      if u don’t mind me asking but in what way?

    • @ralv511
      @ralv511 2 роки тому

      @@sasha-fj4ex my mom’s a nurse, a black one at that, and the amount of times she’s told me stories where the patients call her “exotic” or request a different nurse (a white one) or the amount of times doctors have called her “sweetie” or “hun.” Doctors have a superiority complex and seeing how most of them are white men they will be racist or misogynistic whether unintentional or not.

    • @incognitoincognito7500
      @incognitoincognito7500 2 роки тому +25

      not surprised heard lots of former "popular" bullies, going into that field

    • @talyaw6637
      @talyaw6637 2 роки тому +25

      @@incognitoincognito7500 omggg yesss alotta high school mean girls/ bullies are nurses now

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma Рік тому +2

      @@talyaw6637 yesss same here!! One was even black and suffered from self-hate and would try to put that onto me

  • @choijisul
    @choijisul 2 роки тому +54

    Literally everything she says is complete facts, gifted programs need to be gone I only put up with it because of my friends who I am desperate to be with because of the crippling anxiety and other issues the school system plagued me with. If it wasn’t for the only people keeping me alive being there too, I would’ve left that place the week I forced into it.

  • @trini2DBone134
    @trini2DBone134 2 роки тому +24

    Netflix removing/canceling good shows yet keep trash ones

    • @nailinthefashion
      @nailinthefashion 2 роки тому +7

      Is this a Santa Clarita Diet stan safe space? It died for literal trash.....

  • @jasminebarnes108
    @jasminebarnes108 2 роки тому +26

    Unrelated to the video, but it’s absolutely sending me how you have a bottle of ketchup sitting behind your sunscreen 😭

    • @antiitokyo
      @antiitokyo 2 роки тому +10

      i didnt even notice it till you said and now its all i can focus on!!

    • @SoapRadioEdits
      @SoapRadioEdits 2 роки тому +1

      😅

    • @jasminebarnes108
      @jasminebarnes108 2 роки тому

      @@antiitokyo her dresser is so chaotic

  • @roshni7122
    @roshni7122 2 роки тому +19

    Thank God someone with a spine ! Itskeisha and so many other UA-camrs cashing off that case disappointed me so much !

  • @deadpandrummer
    @deadpandrummer 2 роки тому +18

    God I was literally thinking the other day about how much I missed this series. Now I'm sitting here chanting "GET THEM" at my tiny little screen and living my best life.

  • @WebkinzCheekyFawn
    @WebkinzCheekyFawn 2 роки тому +29

    An hour long everyone is bothering me I have never been more blessed than this day

  • @gostmax125
    @gostmax125 2 роки тому +32

    I really respect you for the first time I see someone talking about what happened with Amber with conscience and humanity. I really respect you, new subscriber You made me believe that there are remnants of humanity in this damned universe, i love you ♥️

  • @macaih4296
    @macaih4296 2 роки тому +39

    My comfort UA-camr fs fs Amanda is always a mood 😌😭

  • @jifij89
    @jifij89 2 роки тому +13

    doechii on jimmy fallon was one of the best live performances i’ve ever seen, she is gunna be HUGE

  • @trini2DBone134
    @trini2DBone134 2 роки тому +50

    THANK YOU so much for mentioning the misogyny on tiktok and twitter ! It's too much sometimes I almost deleted tiktok just for that alone 🤦‍♀️

  • @raindancemaggie1290
    @raindancemaggie1290 2 роки тому +24

    i got so tired of my ex husbands mother and 3 OLDER SISTERS trying to play sister wives with me CONSTANTLY it was one of the main reasons i finally divorced him after 15 years, oh and he was a mentally/ emotionally abusive cheating narc 🙃🙃🙃

  • @BR4INR0T_
    @BR4INR0T_ 2 роки тому +54

    also idk why doja's ass decided tht making fun of ambers SA was funny? its crazy to me, bc she literally got a song called woman? what happened to "they wanna put us against each other" "like were regina gorge on mean girls"💀

    • @BeautyIsMyLife
      @BeautyIsMyLife 2 роки тому +8

      Where is the outrage for a man that gets physically abused by a woman? Anybody who gets physically abused deserves to be defended and if they are telling the truth they need to be believed; man or woman. Also, lying about being abused and wrongfully accusing others is despicable.

    • @KassandraQuiseng
      @KassandraQuiseng 2 роки тому +20

      Literally everyone was like “We learned from FreeBrittany. We won’t let this happen again. Protect women!” and then they all turned right around for this 💀 like girlies… what did we just say?

    • @thisnigerianlovesdrinkingg4522
      @thisnigerianlovesdrinkingg4522 2 роки тому +20

      @@BeautyIsMyLife Thank goodness amber heard never did any of that so your comment makes no sense ❤️

    • @emilybeach238
      @emilybeach238 2 роки тому +15

      @@BeautyIsMyLife There WAS support for Johnny Depp - overwhelming support. The amount of mockery directed at Amber was proof of that. So were the crowds of people outside the courthouse cheering for him and handing him gifts.

    • @BeautyIsMyLife
      @BeautyIsMyLife 2 роки тому +3

      @@emilybeach238 I meant where is the support for it on this video and this comment section. I'm a woman and believe me I like many women have dealt with sexual assault and I've also dealt with just everyday petty sexist crap from men. I'm 50. I lived through a lot of women not being believed and not being taken seriously. So I was not quick to believe that Amber was lying. However if you look into this case you'll see that she is the abuser and he is the victim. She lied about abuse in a very public way that will set back people believing women that were really abused. She is not somebody to be supported.

  • @ivo8312
    @ivo8312 2 роки тому +16

    ok but seriously with medicine being racist/sexist etc like is that just like all fields in university and all universities themselves??? like i keep learning about every field being problematic, like i thought i would be safe in env sci but NOOOO
    like what even is the point of going to uni if ur not a cishet white man...i hate giving so much fucking money to people that dont care about like my and my friends rights
    seriously what the fuck is the solution

  • @Sibunamember101
    @Sibunamember101 2 роки тому +10

    privacy is forgotten now. i have a lot of internet friends but despite how close we are they will never know my true name. seeing full on minors have carrds on twitter scares me so much.

  • @biancadesousa
    @biancadesousa 2 роки тому +28

    As someone who was a “gifted kid” it did mess me up although I don’t make it my entire personality or talk about it because it happened forever ago. But being told at such a young age that you are so extraordinary and special and then growing up and realizing you’re either and you’re just average makes a person really bitter I think. Also schools tend to really glorify certain careers and going to college so if you’re told by every teacher yeah you’re going to be a doctor/lawyer/scientist etc and then you realize what is necessary for this careers it makes sense why most people aren’t those. And schools need to tell us it’s okay if you don’t want go go college.

    • @soniaiboyako4023
      @soniaiboyako4023 2 роки тому +7

      it's setting children up for failure imo bc it seems to be hard to completely come back from without getting crippling doubts about yourself or others? like it doesn't just make one bitter but also lost and it can really have devastating results, the whole thing is weird to begin with idk

  • @gee159
    @gee159 2 роки тому +17

    Oh my god I’m so glad Amanda brought up being concerned about people posting so much of where they live on tiktok it really makes me nervous!!
    There’s like teachers on there filming in their classrooms and outside their schools and stuff?? like the idea that their followers could work out where they work when they work with kids is so scary

  • @joanne0
    @joanne0 2 роки тому +23

    deleted social media lately so these vids help me keep up with what’s going on ty🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @nailinthefashion
    @nailinthefashion 2 роки тому +23

    The chill down my spine when she said "who's next" made me actually say brrrr out loud, that's wild

  • @niamhl6964
    @niamhl6964 2 роки тому +77

    And, ONCE AGAIN, you have come with the facts, the information, and the RIGHT OPINIONS to my subscription box, I feel blessed

  • @LowKalx
    @LowKalx 2 роки тому +17

    I love the stem slander as a senior psychology major that started with bases in stem and moved more to philosophy by the end of my undergraduate studies.

  • @elboriloco
    @elboriloco 2 роки тому +52

    BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE !!!!! you never miss

  • @believeinbuffalo
    @believeinbuffalo Рік тому +7

    The push for women in STEM has always bothered me too. Yes, it's good to get more representation for women in fields that they were underrepresented in previously BUT if women are excelling in the humanities and social sciences, why not highlight, value and pay them more? Maybe I'm crazy but there's a subtle misogyny behind this a la "you have to be masculine to be taken seriously"

  • @sarahgabonay7082
    @sarahgabonay7082 2 роки тому +14

    I'm not a doctor nor do I play one on TV. But I was with my ex all throughout med school and part of residency. Some of them are the best and the brightest but a lot of them had zero idea how to chart. Or communicate with their peers.

  • @chelsea_sarfo6388
    @chelsea_sarfo6388 2 роки тому +56

    Amanda posting another everyone is bothering me video is literally what I've been needing. The past month has been...yeah😬

    • @Truth_teller724
      @Truth_teller724 2 роки тому +1

      Ik this is underrated but are u Ghanaian l? Ur last name is making me think u are bc it’s similar to mine (Osafo)

    • @chelsea_sarfo6388
      @chelsea_sarfo6388 2 роки тому +2

      @@Truth_teller724 Yes, I am ; )

  • @victorias1227
    @victorias1227 2 роки тому +32

    re: the daily vlogs, I think the reason why white women in particular react that way to them is because a lot of us get this warped perspective in our heads where we both deflect facing our own responsibility/culpability/complacency in white supremacy by tearing down other white women who we perceive as "worse"/ "more" privileged (that way we can feel like we've done something to "fight" against oppression without ACTUALLY doing anything). I think there's some internalized misogyny:brainrot about what "representation" means there, too; if we decide xyz perceived personal flaw is because of The Patriarchy TM, but then we see someone as equally white woman as us with (we assume, based on a 60 second clip)her shit more together despite having less years on earth, our justification for our flaw crumbles, & suddenly high school jogger "makes" us feel bad. & then the default entitlement our whiteness gives us provides the brainrot to think its ok to DECIDE OFF A TIKTOK THAT A MINOR IS LESS OPPRESSED THAN US & THAT MAKES IT OK TO BLAME THEM FOR OUR OWN INSECURITIES, instead of just scrolling away from a video that makes us sad lmao.

  • @BlueJayy
    @BlueJayy 2 роки тому +20

    I’m so happy this series is back omg. Lord knows I do not wish for you to be stressed, but listening to you chat while I grab a snack is like such friendly healing energy that I just cannot explain

  • @spaceygemini
    @spaceygemini 2 роки тому +10

    i'm glad i have affordable, quality hairstylists near me. i agree that i have no problem paying a licensed, professional, and courteous hair dresser $$$ for a good job. no one deserves to be exploited in their work.

  • @olamideoladapo8496
    @olamideoladapo8496 2 роки тому +2

    Lmaooo Degrassi is a trip! I remember when I used to watch it on The N and the tag line was “It Goes There” and it really did haha!

  • @kimnamjoonismypresident4441
    @kimnamjoonismypresident4441 2 роки тому +49

    So excited, and her skin is always so flawless 🥹

  • @aryelynet228
    @aryelynet228 2 роки тому +22

    I had to get up unnaturally early today for a trip and let me tell you I NEEDED this! Especially the gifted kid/burnout stuff which... very me.
    (also love your takes on biphobia and the Amber Heard discourse) ⭐

  • @Bakiana
    @Bakiana 2 роки тому +9

    About the Day in the Life hatred, maybe part of it is because some people take the title of these videos to heart. They truly think that this is how each day of their lives go, sipping lemonade and doing no work while getting paid. It’s a part of another topic of how people only show the best moments of their life which makes them seem interesting to strangers, even though those moments only happen every now and then. We only see the highs, never the lows

  • @prismaticparhelion1767
    @prismaticparhelion1767 Рік тому +1

    "You guys are comfortable that? With *FREUD* being right?!?"
    AAAHAHAHAHHHHAH ICONIQUE

  • @mexicanho
    @mexicanho 2 роки тому +2

    “ANYA DID COKE” i just busted out laughing omfgg😭😭😭🤣🤣 degrassi is fucking hilarious

  • @teshaylablackston9190
    @teshaylablackston9190 2 роки тому +17

    "would you put something from middle school on your resume?"

  • @reatema9717
    @reatema9717 2 роки тому +20

    I have honestly never been more excited and surprised to get 2 videos in 2 days I literally love you so much. It's literally 5 in the morning here in South Africa but I honestly could not wait to watch another video they're just such a happy moment for me

  • @SignalHillHiker
    @SignalHillHiker 2 роки тому +1

    I learn so much from these. Can’t wait!

  • @micahlynx
    @micahlynx 2 роки тому +1

    am so happy to see this series back !!

  • @lissa_bea
    @lissa_bea 2 роки тому +7

    as someone whose starting college late august as a STEM major i am glad my school was making me write essays in almost every single subject to the point where the idea of an essay won’t scare me unless i procrastinate

  • @CallMeLevels
    @CallMeLevels 2 роки тому +8

    I definitely needed to hear the 10 year old achievements message. For a while I’ve been beating myself up over what I used to be good at, instead of what I’m good at and achieved now (going into the medical field is not something 10yr old me could understand 😂)

  • @moonprincessxoxo
    @moonprincessxoxo 2 роки тому +18

    the queen blessing us with an hour long video 🥰🥰

  • @moni6013
    @moni6013 2 роки тому +7

    the girl whose tiktok you talked about actually lived like down the hall from me in college and she is so sweet and smart and she's always been a really hard worker. i felt so bad seeing her get dragged :/

  • @womanlovercapitalismhater
    @womanlovercapitalismhater 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for bringing this series back I missed it 💕

  • @holland3106
    @holland3106 2 роки тому +1

    omg i’m so excited 😫 Thank you for this amanda

  • @tosinagbi8378
    @tosinagbi8378 2 роки тому +4

    This is the best "everyone is bothering me" in the entire series

  • @ranyaal3013
    @ranyaal3013 2 роки тому +6

    Omg im so glad this series is back time to rewatch it 50 times😫

  • @carrot-lime
    @carrot-lime 2 роки тому +3

    Amanda, you are incredible. I was actually feeling bad about myself after a long day at the lab, and this made me feel better.

  • @tatyana-fw8re
    @tatyana-fw8re 2 роки тому +26

    I live for this series, let's gooo!

  • @darkartsninja
    @darkartsninja 2 роки тому +7

    So happy for the return of the series!!!

  • @tshiamomkuchane2942
    @tshiamomkuchane2942 Рік тому +2

    I absolutely love this series 😭😭❤❤❤

  • @LiterallyMisty
    @LiterallyMisty 2 роки тому +4

    I am so excited to see Leah as annabeth Percy jackson was my entire childhood and i just know she gonna be superb

  • @lulucool45
    @lulucool45 2 роки тому +9

    this video series is like coming home. beautiful

  • @bentofagundes8596
    @bentofagundes8596 2 роки тому +1

    THE TIMING OF THIS, thanks amanda!!!!!

  • @tyarahernandez9291
    @tyarahernandez9291 2 роки тому +5

    Bless you Amanda I’ve missed this series!

  • @moon-vi8lz
    @moon-vi8lz 2 роки тому +18

    watching amanda to ease off my anxiety; hopefully it works🫶🏽