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  • Опубліковано 23 кві 2021
  • i just wanna LIIIVVEEEEEEEE
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  • @yvannab.1260
    @yvannab.1260 3 роки тому +4067

    People: protect black women!
    * When it's time to protect black women *
    People: *silence and cricket noises*

  • @synnergyy
    @synnergyy 3 роки тому +4863

    As a college student, I can attest to the idiocy of professors overloading us with multiple projects, papers, and exams during finals.

    • @synnergyy
      @synnergyy 3 роки тому +136

      @@chidibagha3050 I couldn’t even imagine the stress of being a nursing major rn. But you’re gonna get thru ❤️

    • @jimjimjimmy7793
      @jimjimjimmy7793 3 роки тому +35

      @@chidibagha3050 ik you have tons of work. Keep pushing if you can.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @c2swag
      @c2swag 3 роки тому +78

      DURING A PANEMONIUM TOO

    • @ellax325
      @ellax325 3 роки тому +90

      My professor really assigned us a book review, a final paper and a final project and thought that was acceptable. As if I don't have other classes and finals to prep for.

    • @ElizabethAxoxo
      @ElizabethAxoxo 3 роки тому +30

      that time is approaching and I simply want it to end.

  • @fernandorueda8086
    @fernandorueda8086 3 роки тому +3151

    "A group project DURING a pandemic" LITERALLY WHAT I'VE BEEN SAYING. I ended up having to fly solo and just provided evidence that I did the whole damn thing myself. Some teachers are losing their MINDS.

    • @kennedyjojackson1202
      @kennedyjojackson1202 3 роки тому +282

      Teachers: I know this is such a hard time for you guys
      Also Teachers: If you want to do the materials for this class you HAVE to go up to the library, even tho this is an online class

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +266

      Group projects during pandemics are insane to me. Where did you get that idea? They shove the kids into a breakout room and tell them to put on cameras and talk. Its radio silence in those breakout rooms. Teachers are out of their minds.

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +43

      @@kennedyjojackson1202 EXACTLY. I hate that sm.

    • @boredasf4856
      @boredasf4856 3 роки тому +12

      Ikr

    • @cuzumakemyearfquake
      @cuzumakemyearfquake 3 роки тому +73

      I cry at the mention of group work

  • @yvannab.1260
    @yvannab.1260 3 роки тому +3201

    UA-camrs/influencers casually admitting to crimes on camera (and facing little/no consequences) is so...... disturbing

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +172

      and terrifying. Why arent these people facing consequences?

    • @v1eur
      @v1eur 3 роки тому +153

      @@peiithos white priviledge

    • @FellDownTheCornHole
      @FellDownTheCornHole 3 роки тому +146

      Police need to get a job cause clearly the “job” they supposedly committed too, they aren’t doing.

    • @qj9673
      @qj9673 3 роки тому +121

      "I was desperate "...sir? Sir ..?

    • @mytoebeans4196
      @mytoebeans4196 3 роки тому +18

      @@FellDownTheCornHole thiss omg

  • @wemdoto4201
    @wemdoto4201 3 роки тому +2697

    These teachers have lost they damn mind asking me how I’m doing in a pandemic and then piling the homework and tests

    • @mayac2071
      @mayac2071 3 роки тому +220

      having to do group projects over zoom is hell on earth

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 роки тому +31

      Fr tho

    • @nicoleonlysometimes824
      @nicoleonlysometimes824 3 роки тому +160

      they’re counting participation points in online school like the children in our poor community don’t have spotty wifi

    • @prettiepaw1614
      @prettiepaw1614 3 роки тому +58

      like are they in a different universe or something? like i have things to do too

    • @pippin3168
      @pippin3168 3 роки тому +138

      @@nicoleonlysometimes824 or also some students don’t want to turn their cameras on because they’re embarrassed about their home being on camera. Not everyone has home offices or setups conducive for online learning 😕

  • @chelsea_sarfo6388
    @chelsea_sarfo6388 3 роки тому +1961

    James Charles Dickinson saying he was "desperate" is the most dumbest thing I've ever heard in my life.

    • @jimjimjimmy7793
      @jimjimjimmy7793 3 роки тому +132

      This man is young and rich idk what else he wants. He needs to be sued and in jail by now

    • @bimess1071
      @bimess1071 3 роки тому +153

      @@jimjimjimmy7793 Not just jail, he needs to go to PRISON 😬

    • @tlowery2074
      @tlowery2074 3 роки тому +154

      Plenty of single people desperate and they ain’t out here talking to kids.

    • @weeabooper
      @weeabooper 3 роки тому +71

      That's literally what creeps on to catch a predator used to always say it's so fucked up

    • @irongirltoni
      @irongirltoni 3 роки тому +18

      I deadass though he was gonna say he was a pedophile.

  • @seeyoucu
    @seeyoucu 3 роки тому +3550

    The fact that James Charles has faced so few consequences bothers me, too, Amanda.

    • @chelsea_sarfo6388
      @chelsea_sarfo6388 3 роки тому +271

      He really said he was "desperate". Honey the only minors you should be focusing on are the ones you sing horribly. Get some voice lessons!

    • @iioreo7015
      @iioreo7015 3 роки тому +68

      it disgusts me 🤢

    • @rand1735
      @rand1735 3 роки тому +112

      why is there an entire predator on this fucking platform? why has he been demonetized?? sick!!

    • @ayannabranchcomb7535
      @ayannabranchcomb7535 3 роки тому +156

      @@rand1735 and his audience is mostly teens and kids!!! Like helloooooo where is all the smoke and outrage from “concerned parents”? The ones up in arms about cardi b and WAP and now lil nas x? Its quiet

    • @umniya3076
      @umniya3076 3 роки тому +16

      @@rand1735 he's been demonitized I think, indefinitely. Last I heard he was pressing charges against 'tea' channels though, so we’ll have to see where that goes.

  • @starliee
    @starliee 3 роки тому +3293

    Just another 40 minutes of listening to Amanda saying nothing but the truth

    • @AmanirenaII
      @AmanirenaII 3 роки тому +45

      Sign is such a good manhwa :))

    • @alxandro5504
      @alxandro5504 3 роки тому +4

      no she’s just bitching about nothing

    • @jungjaehyuns
      @jungjaehyuns 3 роки тому +4

      omg the sign pfp

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 роки тому +67

      @@alxandro5504 oh right so child predators, racism, police brutality and a broken education system is nothing?? Ok sis

    • @Chickenleg-hl4le
      @Chickenleg-hl4le 3 роки тому +40

      @@alxandro5504 If you are obsessed with her, just say that. Cause it seems that you are stalking on her page when you can literally leave 👉🏾🚪

  • @_Chlorophyllis
    @_Chlorophyllis 3 роки тому +1757

    As a tutor who has listened to students damn near break down over the stress of school in a pandemic, I want to fight some professors who *still* haven't adapted their classes for online and just add to stress.

    • @JoeyRoo
      @JoeyRoo 3 роки тому +7

      I think she’s in med school, I think she has to be there in person

    • @imdone8430
      @imdone8430 3 роки тому +60

      @@JoeyRoo shes pre-med

    • @jiuel1
      @jiuel1 3 роки тому +88

      Yeah, as a TA it is really surprising the amount of emails we get about people having panic attacks and depressive episodes. Thankfully they don’t get points deducted for late submissions.

    • @samanthavos5079
      @samanthavos5079 3 роки тому +25

      Where I work they actually do get 10% reduction for submissions 24 hrs after the deadline.... I feel for them but I’m just a TA trying to keep my job during a financial crisis as well

    • @emilyau8023
      @emilyau8023 3 роки тому +13

      @@samanthavos5079 my CS prof won't even look at it if it's late.

  • @ohitsclemenTIME
    @ohitsclemenTIME 3 роки тому +1515

    As a white person, I didn't realize how voicing my disappointment in white people comes off as trying to separate myself from the while priviledge I have. I'm glad I know this now and will change the way I talk about these issues.

    • @ayannabranchcomb7535
      @ayannabranchcomb7535 3 роки тому +384

      I get the urge, I have the instinct to do the same when I see the cishets acting a fool 😒 but unless I’m saying that to a friend on their personal page, I take that energy and direct to the people participating in the bigotry. Its like when people tell me that their parents don’t want them to date black people and I’m like.......okay? What you want me to do with that info? Now I’m side eyeing you, you know? But listening to black women will set you straight you on the right path 💖

    • @alxandro5504
      @alxandro5504 3 роки тому +25

      amanda’s comment sometimes set off red flags but ya...

    • @malum9478
      @malum9478 3 роки тому +339

      it aint that serious, but it's kind of the case. basically what ayanna said, though i'd add: it's fine to voice disappointment in people of your group to that group, and if you do it when you're just riffing with a black friend or w/e that's between ya'll there's nothing wrong with that. it's more when you come up to black people and are like 'oh MAN don't white people suck so much haha' that it gets old. just treat us like normal, and when we wanna shittalk racist white people then by all means that's the time to do your thing.
      also wanna add: you should also still try to actively use your whiteness to directly fight racism with other white people. a lot of baby progressives talk in such a way that can seem paralyzing to white people, but you need to not do that. fight and reform racist white people and work with black and brown people to make better futures. that's the way homie.

    • @ahuman5772
      @ahuman5772 3 роки тому +119

      Unfortunately I genuinely distrust white people even though I'm white, but that's because I'm an immigrant and before I learned to speak English I had white people calling me dumb and making fun of me and being xenophobic in general (telling me to go back to my own country etc) so I feel a bit weird now that they're all nice to me now that I can speak English with almost no accent lol. It feels really creepy to me, like it's a fake acceptance. Obviously I can tell that I have white privilege still even though in an immigrant (otherwise they wouldn't treat me so nicely now) but I do worry how it might come off if I complain since some people might think it's more performative. I tend to just not voice my feelings around people I don't know too well since they wouldn't know the context. :)

    • @ohitsclemenTIME
      @ohitsclemenTIME 3 роки тому +32

      @@ayannabranchcomb7535 @Malum thank you both for your insight! ❤ I will continue to use my whiteness to speak out against injustice. I always want to listen and figure out how to be the best type of support system. Even just being in roller skating groups has really opened my eyes to how much racism is still alive and well in the US and it's heartbreaking.

  • @fizzycat3506
    @fizzycat3506 3 роки тому +957

    It was strange how the girl who made the renagade wasn't in the interview or even credited. I don't think she was mentioned either which is a pretty rude thing to do since her dance was THE MOST popular dance on TikTok. Give black people the credit they deserve

    • @morg2040
      @morg2040 2 роки тому

      Her revenge is how damn badly and wooden the white folk who got all the attention repeat the dance

  • @vericvoidal
    @vericvoidal 3 роки тому +1042

    its so weird how april 2020 lasted forever and april 2021 was barely even a thing.

  • @gswaggerist
    @gswaggerist 3 роки тому +508

    I HATE that attendance is mandatory in a pandemic. And teachers have no compassion about it. Most of us are depressed, burnt out, have family members and friends dying but they taking a whole letter grade off for not attending. Also having to turn on your camera or else they don’t count you in attendance is stupid.

    • @alxandro5504
      @alxandro5504 3 роки тому +14

      plus turning on ur camera contributes to global warming

    • @chelscara
      @chelscara 3 роки тому +44

      I had the wildest experience with a teacher where she was threatening a grade for not putting on cameras. But then she ACTUALLY looked it up and saw a bunch of studies on how it doesn’t matter, and can encourage participation through privacy and she finally shut up about it. I was shocked she could make herself aware life that

    • @christinem8799
      @christinem8799 3 роки тому +31

      There should be a private policy to not enforce your camera on unless they so desperately need it for an exam 🙄

    • @reylime2991
      @reylime2991 3 роки тому +11

      Facts. I could’ve had a whole hour extra to sleep if they didn’t force me to turn my camera on. I was getting fully dressed to never even leave my house.

    • @brenda.sanchez3050
      @brenda.sanchez3050 3 роки тому +1

      In my school my physics teacher be making it a bit extra because if we don’t turn our cameras on he would tell us he’ll call our parents during the class or would change our grade because cameras are severely important one time it was a bit different and he called the principal into the zoom and we had to sit through a 15 minute lecture of why turning our cameras on is part of learning and getting good grades.

  • @kamronwashington
    @kamronwashington 3 роки тому +611

    I'll never forget the amount of people who said that Jaliah didn't deserve credit for her dance...

    • @siobhanmcshanehill895
      @siobhanmcshanehill895 3 роки тому +27

      With tiktok though I couldn’t tell you who made pretty much any dance or trend on there. I think that is an issue, because the basis of the app is trends and ‘copying’

    • @ayannabranchcomb7535
      @ayannabranchcomb7535 3 роки тому +94

      @@siobhanmcshanehill895 i feel like its an issue easily remedied by tagging who you got it from. If everyones tagging the OC then it’ll be common knowledge. Or at least easier to find. None of this really became an issue until people started profiting and making whole ass careers off this app tho. When it was just musical.ly nobody worried about credit bc nobody was getting paid so it was just fun to hop on trends and mess around. But once money and opportunities come into play then yeah, houston we got a problem

    • @jaliaj2244
      @jaliaj2244 3 роки тому +17

      The disrespect is real they really tried it 🥴

    • @inactiveaccount2703
      @inactiveaccount2703 3 роки тому

      what? people said that??? wtf man

    • @kamronwashington
      @kamronwashington 3 роки тому

      @@inactiveaccount2703 yes it was in the comments section on Ellen's tik tok I believe

  • @theneedlessopinion
    @theneedlessopinion 3 роки тому +570

    as a black dude, i really enjoyed your breakdown of how black men perpetuate anti-black women sentiments, very well said!

  • @JT-gb2lj
    @JT-gb2lj 3 роки тому +768

    For my psychology final my professor is making us have a group discussion about how we feel about George Floyd's case. She wants me to sit in a group with the product of known pro-cop trumpies as a black man and talk about George Floyd. Pray for me.

  • @jazmineomg
    @jazmineomg 3 роки тому +437

    My bestie just had a baby 4 days ago on 4/21 and is begging her profs for sympathy as she adjusts her body from pushing out an actual human! Protecting black women is the bare minimum. She deserves better.

    • @-cocoa
      @-cocoa 3 роки тому +59

      Agh i dont like to hear this . She does deserve better . The fact she even needs to beg is a problem

    • @mewmew6158
      @mewmew6158 3 роки тому +43

      💀what the actual hell is going on? I feel so bad for your friend, it's unacceptable.

    • @aquariussolaris2492
      @aquariussolaris2492 3 роки тому +42

      Do college professors just lack empathy in general

    • @saintnicole3209
      @saintnicole3209 3 роки тому +26

      @@aquariussolaris2492 the answer is yes

    • @yassine8935
      @yassine8935 3 роки тому +14

      Tell her so contract the school board and threaten to get lawyers involved if she doesn’t receive a break for her child birth

  • @pierrenelson8199
    @pierrenelson8199 3 роки тому +842

    And the Fact that Jaliah til this day still hasn't reaped even half the benefits that her dance gave all those white creators

    • @honeysana672
      @honeysana672 3 роки тому +184

      right she was literally forgotten ??? and the white people who took her dance are still fine with their profits from it.

    • @qj9673
      @qj9673 3 роки тому +99

      Exactly. It's sad tbh. Plus she's such a good dancer too . Unlike many other tiktokers on top , BRYCE HALL , TONY LOPEZ 💀 . Why are they famous again?

    • @MeganAllen1738
      @MeganAllen1738 3 роки тому +26

      I looked up the Renegade dance on UA-cam & the first few videos are white faces & then there's her with Ellen

    • @siobhanmcshanehill895
      @siobhanmcshanehill895 3 роки тому +1

      But honestly Charli blew up before that

    • @444barbie
      @444barbie 3 роки тому +85

      @@siobhanmcshanehill895 she was somewhat relevant but it’s the renegade dance that made her sky rocket. let’s not lie now...

  • @hellopixxie
    @hellopixxie 3 роки тому +308

    I remember my mom telling me I almost gotten held back in kindergarten because I didn’t talk in class. I had the grades but since I wasn’t social they were willing to hold me back a whole grade. Thankfully my mom wasn’t for the bs.

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +84

      wow what the fuck. but seriously though? holding back a KINDERGARTENER for not being social???

    • @nickiodayum5802
      @nickiodayum5802 3 роки тому +24

      @@peiithos my sister got held back in kindergarten for this exact thing 😭

    • @blueisblue599
      @blueisblue599 3 роки тому +29

      These people must have worms for brains.

    • @astoldbynickgerr
      @astoldbynickgerr 3 роки тому

      💙💙💙💙 to all of you

    • @kkuudandere
      @kkuudandere 3 роки тому +6

      I feel lucky they didn't try the same mess with me, I basically didn't speak in class from 1st grade to 12th...but I also got straight A's so I'm sure my mom woulda straight up bullied them if they tried anything 💀

  • @aurorachanel4502
    @aurorachanel4502 3 роки тому +700

    Thank God I grew up getting braids for special events. My mom and I had them at her wedding and I always get them before vacation and might be wearing them at my graduation. Not sure why anyone wouldn’t think they’re classy they can be worn to fit any style

    • @ayannabranchcomb7535
      @ayannabranchcomb7535 3 роки тому +158

      Braids are my summertime treat and I love ittttt. It gives me freedom, it gives me versatility for looks with minimal effort, it gives me beach in the am club in the pm. I’m so excited for my braids this year

    • @bibbidi4616
      @bibbidi4616 3 роки тому +50

      I got braids for my new vaca and usually always get them summertime or anytime I go on vacations as well. I’ll probably even wear them for my graduation as well-or at least this ‘prom’ I’m having. Love them and easy way to not permanently get colors that would otherwise kill my hair 😂

    • @lavender1653
      @lavender1653 3 роки тому +49

      Samee, geting braids were a really special thing for me omg esp with the beads

    • @irongirltoni
      @irongirltoni 3 роки тому +24

      I get braids especially for special occasions. It's formal and dressy

    • @allygale3487
      @allygale3487 3 роки тому +26

      congratulations on graduating!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @laurensuty2760
    @laurensuty2760 3 роки тому +540

    Also can we talk about how ableist participation points are... like 1. for mental health i have anxiety and i don't always wanna talk in class, 2. I have several chronic illnesses that make it so sometimes i can't go to class or it just makes it 10x harder. CMON PEOPLE WHY ARE THEY STILL A THING

    • @chelsea_sarfo6388
      @chelsea_sarfo6388 3 роки тому +183

      Or the fact that teachers take points off when a student is fidgeting during a presentation. It's honestly stupid.

    • @kerri6011
      @kerri6011 3 роки тому +105

      @@chelsea_sarfo6388 stuttering and mumbling too

    • @ayannabranchcomb7535
      @ayannabranchcomb7535 3 роки тому +131

      I hate that shit. It bothers me as an able bodied woman because sometimes I simply have nothing to say. Can’t imagine how difficult it is for people who already struggle with social interactions. ESPECIALLY in college like bro grade my tests and assignments and move around

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 роки тому +80

      They really be saying: we care about mental health take a break, whilst simultaneously telling us to "try harder" and "your just being lazy". They dont care about anyone, especially not black people's mental health because mine is in the fucking gutter

    • @blueisblue599
      @blueisblue599 3 роки тому +31

      This is so true! I also have bad anxiety and schools really don't care about our mental health.

  • @bubs3995
    @bubs3995 3 роки тому +254

    Rest in peace Ma'Khia, Adam, Daunte who were all gone too young. Within the span of 2 weeks by the hands of the supposed "protection" we got going on in this country.

  • @lesbiangoddess290
    @lesbiangoddess290 3 роки тому +703

    I literally told my teacher I have been developing an eating disorder mid exams, already suffering from another mental illness and they did what??? NOTHING, just more homework and revision to do.

    • @lavender1653
      @lavender1653 3 роки тому +134

      Smh teachers talk about importance of mental health but will go ahead and give ten million assignments

    • @ryxnmxrie
      @ryxnmxrie 3 роки тому +58

      bro i had my cousin and dog die in a semester and my professor still screwed me over

    • @ch3rryst3m55
      @ch3rryst3m55 3 роки тому +7

      I feel like at the same time the world doesn’t stop just for you 🤷

    • @campsplosion
      @campsplosion 3 роки тому +84

      @@ch3rryst3m55 i feel like maybe they arent asking the world to stop for them, just for their teachers to try and actually help their students succeed 🤷

    • @kiaral.o9722
      @kiaral.o9722 3 роки тому +53

      @@ch3rryst3m55 I feel like they aren't asking that. And schools should take action to look for the wellbeing of their students so that these type of situations don't happened and students can preform well academically, dumbass 🤷

  • @grapesyrop
    @grapesyrop 3 роки тому +469

    « the pretending to care thing » 😭😭😭its so truee

  • @itsPaulLucas
    @itsPaulLucas 3 роки тому +323

    i missed these videos so much

    • @ve2767
      @ve2767 3 роки тому +25

      Same. Also wow I can’t believe it’s you

    • @eurekamreum5458
      @eurekamreum5458 3 роки тому +15

      A man of culture

    • @likewow2197
      @likewow2197 3 роки тому +10

      A true legend

    • @trahadbad
      @trahadbad 3 роки тому +12

      hey bestie

    • @NeroMai
      @NeroMai 3 роки тому +7

      An icon is here! ✨

  • @nazarisreyes6037
    @nazarisreyes6037 3 роки тому +433

    The Addison Rae/Jimmy thing would've been better if at least they had the original creator vs her, to see if she actually could do the dance, the answer is not but if they still wanted to bank on her name it would be more entertaining and the black creators would get their credit

    • @pixieinx
      @pixieinx 3 роки тому +1

      You that could mean em actually believing that BLM

    • @sohnitis
      @sohnitis 3 роки тому +1

      @@ninainezaca159 shut up

  • @izzymmendez
    @izzymmendez 3 роки тому +851

    the way i had a spidey sense amanda was gonna make an “everything bothering me” bc this world is a MESS

  • @neilwritesstuff
    @neilwritesstuff 3 роки тому +400

    i looked at the "done" section of my google classroom to-do list after the semester ended and when i saw it was over 250 i was like "there's no FUCKING way i did THAT many tasks in one semester in face-to-face classes"

    • @madelynbrock6623
      @madelynbrock6623 3 роки тому +77

      wait i just went and checked and in a semester and a half i did 460+ assignments😳 there is NO WAY we did that many assignments in person

    • @AnaGarcia-kd9ez
      @AnaGarcia-kd9ez 3 роки тому +55

      This is so true! My friend and I took the same class but I took it precovid and the amount of work they assigned her was waaaay too much compared to what I was assigned

    • @neilwritesstuff
      @neilwritesstuff 3 роки тому +41

      @@madelynbrock6623 this is inhumane honestly

    • @madelynbrock6623
      @madelynbrock6623 3 роки тому +21

      @@neilwritesstuff it really is

    • @ayannabranchcomb7535
      @ayannabranchcomb7535 3 роки тому +12

      I’m so glad I’m not in school for this, because I had AT MOST 1 assignment a week per class. Most classes were mid terms and finals and a damn research paper

  • @paige2166
    @paige2166 3 роки тому +248

    or when white girls be like
    "omg box braids look so cute I wish I can get them, but ppl will hate on me :("
    like ok? Am I suppose to feel bad?

    • @blueisblue599
      @blueisblue599 3 роки тому +33

      Lol your pfp makes this comment funnier🤣

    • @lavender1653
      @lavender1653 3 роки тому +43

      Fax like okayayyyy??

    • @lavender1653
      @lavender1653 3 роки тому +9

      @@blueisblue599 yess lol

    • @toni9890
      @toni9890 3 роки тому +49

      They really want us to be like “nooo get them”

    • @lavender1653
      @lavender1653 3 роки тому +28

      @@toni9890 frrr like no.

  • @quinroseman7233
    @quinroseman7233 3 роки тому +150

    The participation point thing is literally ableist, there are people who deal with different social anxieties and autisms that don’t allow you to be outspoken.

    • @dani-888
      @dani-888 3 роки тому +1

      YUP!!!

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +12

      Like I dont know if its neurodivergency, anxiety, or both but I struggle with talking due to not wanting to and feeling like I have to force it then getting anxious about how I sound so having to talk in class is hell on earth for me

    • @nevynervine
      @nevynervine 3 роки тому +3

      @@peiithos same. I get so anxious having to talk and a lot of times I don't want to. It's so exhausting forcing myself to speak.

    • @emmaatkinson7379
      @emmaatkinson7379 3 роки тому +22

      Yup. Plus, what if the topic under discussion itself is trauma-related. You think I'm going to freely and happily participate in a class chat about whether sexual assault is real or not? Pass, it's hard enough to just sit there and listen to people spout bigotry for an hour for points. AND, who gets the opportunity to speak (and be listened to) is down to the lecturer's own biases. Broken, broken system.

    • @alxandro5504
      @alxandro5504 3 роки тому +1

      you’re literally gonna have to suck it up. the world doesn’t cater to your needs so sorry not sorry 😕

  • @luizadelpoz9444
    @luizadelpoz9444 3 роки тому +534

    I feel like professors now that we're having online classes just assume we have so much more time and that their class is the only we take.. I try to be comprehensive cause I'm studying to be a teacher myself but jfc my mental health has gone on a nose dive bc of that.. Of course, this coming from Brazil, so my experience may be different from yours.. Just tired tbh

    • @pippin3168
      @pippin3168 3 роки тому +53

      I am studying to be a teacher here in the US and it’s the same thing! The whole pandemic the professors have acted like we had nothing better to do except work for their classes

    • @AikiraBeats
      @AikiraBeats 3 роки тому +19

      especially with these groups projects they should just stop giving those cause thats so stressful especially when you get people that won't work at all

    • @pippin3168
      @pippin3168 3 роки тому +8

      @@AikiraBeats especially since I’m studying to be a teacher, it sticks out to me how lazy the professors are being when it comes to lesson planning online. They place us in breakout rooms and have us discuss the textbook pages and then just assign projects. There’s no instruction, no teacher provided notes or lectures, nothing. They’re basically just facilitating us doing all of the work and not doing any teaching and it’s so frustrating because we pay so much in tuition

  • @Cannsanity-
    @Cannsanity- 3 роки тому +172

    As someone with autism and selective mutism, this class discussion participation grade is really harmful. Especially for those who aren't diagnosed yet, or have other social disabilities unaccounted for.

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +25

      I'm not diagnosed but I do struggle with communication and socialization sometimes that seems rlly similar to autism or anxiety and stuff like that is hell on earth bc I have to force myself thru it. I only feel like talking when it's out of my own will and under certain conditions, group discussions aren't included in that

    • @eurekamreum5458
      @eurekamreum5458 3 роки тому +14

      I have ADHD and the struggle is real. I have to sit in front of the entire class (preferably facing the teacher's desk - that's the only way I can remain focused and not fidget a lot) and would rather have little discussions with them about the topics casually, than to raise my hand and voice whatever crap I'm trying to explain in front of the rest of my classmates. That method worked wonderfully for years and years until we got stuck with online classes, where I've just failed miserably.

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 роки тому +13

      That rule is just incredibly ableist. Actually the entire education system is ableist but that's another conversation

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +7

      @@lesbiangoddess290 I feel that this can also be put in the "bad accomodations or no accomodations at all" in the discussion about how the school system is ableist. they don't even try to provide alternate ways for students to communicate. like so many kids would have perfect participation grades if there were alternate ways to communicate, like typing, text to speech, or even just writing down on a white board. Like I feel the problem isn't the participation grade in of itself (as in the idea) but the fact that it forces students to speak and to speak vocally. (by this I mean the execution is absolutely horrible in most circumstances).

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 роки тому +2

      @@peiithos there are some cases where I dont or feel like i cant speak (not a selective mute) and they still force me to speak and pick people at random. 🙄

  • @rand1735
    @rand1735 3 роки тому +1010

    random, but halle has come such a long way since grown-ish....amazing. truly a Woman.

    • @tochiiii
      @tochiiii 3 роки тому +80

      Perioddddd she’s so stunning

    • @chrisgotit5151
      @chrisgotit5151 3 роки тому +76

      Y’all should watch “Zero” on Netflix it’s about Black Italian teenagers!!

    • @aishambengue3024
      @aishambengue3024 3 роки тому +9

      Ikr ,she’s a QUEEN!!!

    • @Justice_knight
      @Justice_knight 3 роки тому +7

      Period😌

    • @vericvoidal
      @vericvoidal 3 роки тому +17

      we love to see it

  • @Hispaniola.
    @Hispaniola. 3 роки тому +94

    What really hurt me the most is the pick me black women and how people are literally saying that baby girl deserved to die, this is so sad and very upsetting.

  • @michelle-zy5mo
    @michelle-zy5mo 3 роки тому +259

    “FINALLY, SOME GOOD FUCKING FOOD” - in my Gordon Ramsay voice
    I've been scrolling for bricks trying to find something to watch

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 роки тому +4

      Honestly tho

    • @sweetnmoody5895
      @sweetnmoody5895 3 роки тому +12

      Same! UA-cam now lacks entertaining channel so much that I have to wait for the inconsistent good ones and see all the consistent boring ones in my trending or recommended page

    • @faiali2895
      @faiali2895 3 роки тому +6

      lol same i got tired of watching super serious video essays. i missed the entertaining commentary videos

  • @michelle-zy5mo
    @michelle-zy5mo 3 роки тому +416

    As someone who just finished being a Teachers Assistant, I realized that zoom was helping ALOT of shy students participate. More students were open to using the chat feature of zoom. But my university is opening up this coming fall, so I know participation is gonna drop so hard and it's gonna affect ppls grades. Plus, who's tryna walk across a huge campus to get to class...with zoom u can get up 2 minutes before class n just be there.

    • @maggie-xu8ho
      @maggie-xu8ho 3 роки тому +65

      that’s really interesting, as a student i feel exactly the opposite! i talk plenty in in-person classes, but in zoom classes i find myself overthinking everything.

    • @dannyrivera2733
      @dannyrivera2733 3 роки тому +33

      @@maggie-xu8ho Same, honestly everyone is silent on a Google Meet but like in class there’s usually lots of people talking

    • @ratboygirl
      @ratboygirl 3 роки тому +36

      for me personally i don't participate much in class either way, but i do think i perform better when i'm at school because there are less distractions. it's way too hard for me to do work at home so the pandemic really fucked me over lol

    • @darkwriter_xx94
      @darkwriter_xx94 3 роки тому +19

      Also a TA here and I made it a point to tell students using chat counts as participating and they used it so much more than talking. This works especially well in large lectures. They also had great discussions related to class.

    • @alxandro5504
      @alxandro5504 3 роки тому +4

      @@dannyrivera2733 that’s probably because everyone can hear what you’re saying and it’s like a spotlight is on you when you’re talking during zoom

  • @whychandler
    @whychandler 3 роки тому +91

    tiktok is a disgusting app. it’s the fact that when i follow my favorite black creators i rarely see them on my fyp again. ridiculous. i follow only a few white creators and you best believe they flood my fyp. i’ve had to resort to strictly using the filter that allows me to only watch creators i follow which really sucks because i’m always looking for new creators to watch

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +11

      it's also the fact that when they do show up it's usually a video with a heavy topic, like black trauma. I had to get off the app because everytime I'd get variety in my fyp I'd get loads of just different kinds of videos that went from heavy and heart crushing to lighthearted and fun and the transition was way too much for me to handle.

  • @siobhan5214
    @siobhan5214 3 роки тому +281

    I was addicted to the Amanda show as a child, I’m addicted to the revamped Amanda show at 29.

  • @AE-nf8nz
    @AE-nf8nz 3 роки тому +48

    vogue interviewed addison rae and she quite literally admitted to being silent and apolitical bc it was better for her career like she is fully just weaponizing her privilege and white girl ness

  • @sanaibrowning1005
    @sanaibrowning1005 3 роки тому +439

    I love how I get bothered by everything at the same time Amanda does

  • @SRLovesPandas1
    @SRLovesPandas1 3 роки тому +311

    as an education major, ONE summative assessment with clear guidelines/directions is plenty for a final.
    idk who said it was ok for there to be multiple final projects, for a single class, due on the same day
    we are tired

    • @jadynbonewitz
      @jadynbonewitz 3 роки тому +19

      Omg i knew it i actually hate it here cuz im taking 3 collage classes this semester but in only a junior in hs and usually its fine but the collage professors ramped up the work sm 😭 lmao a lil rant

    • @whogreen992
      @whogreen992 3 роки тому

      @@jadynbonewitz wow 3 college classes as junior in hs. I will cold heartedly said that u signed up for it knowing the risks of paper and exams and due date colliding

    • @jadynbonewitz
      @jadynbonewitz 3 роки тому +13

      @@whogreen992 to be fair i see your piont its REQUIRED because i go to an independent study hs and we have to take collage classes lmao

    • @whogreen992
      @whogreen992 3 роки тому

      @@jadynbonewitz ahh okay. Good luck with school work. Almost there

    • @shelbyc6919
      @shelbyc6919 3 роки тому +4

      the way i am a music education major and they have always told us how many people drop out because the workload is too much, i’m like why can’t we just assign less stuff??? like my teachers know what it’s like so it really makes no sense to me, all of my classes have multiple final assignments and i don’t understand why it has to be a test AND multiple page essay AND presentation/teaching/performing for EVERY CLASS

  • @senah5523
    @senah5523 3 роки тому +171

    The braids one saddened me,like theres more to it than box braids I-

    • @ayannabranchcomb7535
      @ayannabranchcomb7535 3 роки тому +49

      Right? Like fulani braids don’t give ethereal goddess queen of everything energy?

    • @MeganAllen1738
      @MeganAllen1738 3 роки тому +38

      The girl who made that tweet is an antiblack clown. In what world are wigs better than braids

    • @queenholland1227
      @queenholland1227 3 роки тому +9

      right there are soooo many different african braiding styles to choose from.

  • @animaniac6180
    @animaniac6180 3 роки тому +389

    the makiyah case had everybody on the internet showing their true colors and the thing that irritated me ever more watch watching fellow black people defend the cops

    • @CC-rm9uq
      @CC-rm9uq 3 роки тому +11

      Exactly

    • @FrenchieSIX
      @FrenchieSIX 3 роки тому +4

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @enyonamdzathor2298
      @enyonamdzathor2298 3 роки тому +31

      Can somebody actually explain the case bc i’ve seen two different narratives. One is that she was being jumped and was defending herself, called the police and then the cops killed her and the other is that she got into a disagreement with someone in her family and was trying to assault them. Every news source i’ve seen seems to say something slightly different than the last 💀

    • @jakeylla
      @jakeylla 3 роки тому +22

      Her name is spelled Ma´Khia, agreed with everything you said tho

    • @ayannabranchcomb7535
      @ayannabranchcomb7535 3 роки тому +33

      You know black girls are expendable to everyone including black people

  • @christinem8799
    @christinem8799 3 роки тому +79

    who started this braids are not elegant enough for special occasions??? i just wanna talk. shit like this holds back the Black community. So if ppl believe this shit take, will Afro-styles and other Black hairstyles ever be seen just as beautiful as other textures of hair?????

    • @sseraphim2818
      @sseraphim2818 3 роки тому +11

      The answer is no. Our hair will never be seen as normal.

  • @user-yi5qp6ht4b
    @user-yi5qp6ht4b 3 роки тому +26

    0:01 - 0:55 intro
    0:56 - 1:12 doesn't feel like april
    1:13 - 6:03 school stress/professors and schools are neglecting students
    6:05 - 12:51 not giving credit to Black creators/white privilege on social media
    12:53 - 19:21 banning Black creators on tiktok/issues with tiktok
    19:26 - 22:24 racism towards Black hair styles and braids
    22:25 - 33:23 police murdering Black women and girls/the hatred of Black women and girls (talking about Ma'Khia Bryant's death, rest in peace)
    33:25 - 33:29 nany peliso should never speak
    33:30 - 36:37 anti-vaxers/misconceptions in health and medicine
    36:38 - 39:26 james charles is a predator and needs to be de platformed
    39:29 - 41:11 new section: "who is Amanda judging this week?" this week theres 3 kinds of people:
    1) people who watch the show "them" on amazon prime
    2) 41:11 - 42:09 using humor as coping for someone else's traumas
    3) 42:10 - 42:41 sam from falcon & winter soldier
    42:44 - 43:27 positive thing! talking about the book "Cinderella Is Dead" and why its so good
    43:28 - 46:33 outro/ending the video

  • @Wura18
    @Wura18 3 роки тому +42

    Exactly.. Amanda.. they love to hate watch and complain about black trauma and slave movies but never brag or tune into shows that have black people just living life and facing other issues that aren’t racism or oppression

  • @lenispereira-ortiz4084
    @lenispereira-ortiz4084 3 роки тому +61

    college literally BROKE my confidence in learning especially since my peers are super smart and it’s harder for me to pick up and process things in class... and on top of that i’m not an independent learner so i’m just constantly lost :(
    like i genuinely thought college was gonna be a time for me to grow academically and build a future for myself... since I JUST started to feel confident in learning again but sheesh now i just feel super super super dumb

    • @JovaniaGeorge
      @JovaniaGeorge 3 роки тому +6

      I feel you on that but you are competent and it's okay. We will be better next time.

    • @Truth_teller724
      @Truth_teller724 3 роки тому +2

      its literally the same thing for me except for the fact that im in high school and taking advanced classes.

    • @lenispereira-ortiz4084
      @lenispereira-ortiz4084 3 роки тому +1

      @@JovaniaGeorge
      I’m literally just seeing this but oml... the way i sorta just winged the last few assignments for the semester... finals is approaching and honestly whatever happens... happens... i did try looking into another career path cuz medical is way too stressful and my school doesn’t really understand neurodisabilities all that well for me to keep pushing for a difficult career path

    • @lenispereira-ortiz4084
      @lenispereira-ortiz4084 3 роки тому

      @@Truth_teller724 omg high school advanced classes are NOT fun... all of a sudden teachers think everyone can answer questions like siri or some shit-
      like students are still trying to learn things and take in information like um-

    • @JovaniaGeorge
      @JovaniaGeorge 3 роки тому

      @@lenispereira-ortiz4084 good luck on your finals and definitely do what’s best for you. It’s your education and career. Medical is intense for sure. I hope you get the help you need.
      At my school for whatever reason medicine and music are the most stressful majors and I’m in music🙃
      But seriously, This is the Home stretch! good luck!!! you’ve got this and like you said whatever happens, happens. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

  • @christinem8799
    @christinem8799 3 роки тому +343

    I keep telling y’all, Tiktok is not it. Never was. Especially for us. Legit trash app.

    • @Jessica.Shawnte
      @Jessica.Shawnte 3 роки тому +29

      exactly they should've just stuck with dubsmash than tiktok wouldn't have blew up

    • @MeganAllen1738
      @MeganAllen1738 3 роки тому +14

      Agreed. Never use it

    • @normaxoxo7048
      @normaxoxo7048 3 роки тому +8

      Right on my tiptoe account I have 470+ followers but 13.k likes and 69.k views in total

    • @OOOO0OOOO0001___
      @OOOO0OOOO0001___ 3 роки тому +26

      don't worry in a decade or so tiktok wont be relevant

    • @sugarapple7288
      @sugarapple7288 3 роки тому +34

      I really wish Donald trump banned the app 😭

  • @grapesyrop
    @grapesyrop 3 роки тому +188

    tiktok is a mess im taking a break like i cantt anymore. social media in general is a mess plus racismm

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 роки тому +6

      Speak. On. It

    • @blueisblue599
      @blueisblue599 3 роки тому +20

      I deleted tiktok months ago

    • @sezzyridge
      @sezzyridge 3 роки тому +12

      I used to get on tiktok coooooonstantly but I get on every couple weeks now. If at all. Like, it's not fun anymore. 😕

    • @beautyandfashion1563
      @beautyandfashion1563 3 роки тому

      yeah i haven’t been on the app in 2 weeks, i needed a break😭

    • @nataliewalker9682
      @nataliewalker9682 3 роки тому +3

      girl i stopped using all social media besides youtube and i’ve felt so much better. the racism, colorism, double standards, misogyny, ignorance, negativity, etc is bothersome and gives me headaches.

  • @Nia-or1yk
    @Nia-or1yk 3 роки тому +162

    I remember back in middle school my health teacher gave me 50 because I didn’t participate. This is the same teacher who yelled at me for getting up to sharpen a pencil the year before 🙃

    • @colors4vana293
      @colors4vana293 3 роки тому +18

      I had an uppity art teacher in middle school who dropped my grade from an A to a B because I refused to socialize with my bullies. He literally watched them bully me daily and told my mom during a parent teacher conference that I lost points for being anti social 🙃

    • @blueisblue599
      @blueisblue599 3 роки тому +11

      @@colors4vana293 That teacher is a clown who shouldn't have a job

    • @colors4vana293
      @colors4vana293 3 роки тому +1

      @@blueisblue599 you're absolutely correct. They kept him around but he was a jackass who believed he deserved to be teaching college students not middle school. I couldn't stand his arrogant ass

  • @pippin3168
    @pippin3168 3 роки тому +182

    MY PROFESSORS HAVE BEEN DOING THE SAME OMG 3 finals for ONE class due at the same time and don’t tell me they’re seriously reading thru all of that work when the grades are due by the following week?!?!

    • @darkartsninja
      @darkartsninja 3 роки тому +5

      The professors won't because they are making the underpaid, just-as-burnt-out grad TAs do the hard work
      Source: I'm an underpaid, very burnt-out grad TA

  • @chelscara
    @chelscara 3 роки тому +43

    Schools keep thinking “well if we’re harder, they’ll be better” and then everyone fails but the 3 people who can run on fumes or have someone else do it for them. Online options changed my life this year but I feel lucky I don’t have your teachers.

  • @someonerandom3441
    @someonerandom3441 3 роки тому +69

    School during the pandemic has gone to hell. It’s like the teachers are actively trying to make students lives worse and then they have the gall to ask how we are. In the UK we usually have a final exam paper or two for each subject that ends up equalling our grades. The government however, thought it would be better to give students a multitude of exams that pan the whole year that end up being students final grades. Some of us took part of the exams for our final grades in the first month of being back. So instead of kids taking six, seven or however many exams usually, they’ll have to take twenty or thirty. I dropped out because of how bad my mental health got and all they told me was I’d have no chance of a future.

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +11

      twenty to thirty exams during a pandemic? that's fucking inhumane.

    • @unfazedjae2645
      @unfazedjae2645 3 роки тому +8

      Sis! I’m getting the final exams in the next two weeks from now! When I just did one last week! Kmt UK schools

    • @n3limaa
      @n3limaa 3 роки тому +6

      ughhhh yes😭 like at first having our exams cancelled seemed nice but the overload on exams is really messing with my mental health

  • @kairanakune
    @kairanakune 3 роки тому +94

    The way TikTok is showing me Black trauma instead of the Black people I've been following and shows me videos of a specific creator crying instead of him opening cute animal plushies... like :/

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +14

      even as a white person when I followed more black ppl to make my fyp less white, I kept getting black trauma instead of their actual content and it was too much for me so I've stopped using the app. Like I'd get a happy, light hearted video then a video of just black trauma and the transition between that was so harsh. It was too much for me so I can't even imagine how others feel with their fyp doing that

    • @josss_ie8083
      @josss_ie8083 3 роки тому +5

      That's why I stopped using tik tok it was too depressing

    • @darkvioletskull
      @darkvioletskull 3 роки тому +4

      @@josss_ie8083 exactly. i’m tired of the performative activism, racism, incels, etc.

    • @alkaidc9862
      @alkaidc9862 3 роки тому +1

      if you dont mind what's the creator bc i definitely want to see someone open cute animal plushies right now

    • @kairanakune
      @kairanakune 3 роки тому +1

      @@alkaidc9862 super late but I’m up like at 3am watching his vids @/thebeesdaddy on Tiktok, you’ve probably seen his popular chaotic tiktoks but the unboxing videos are the best!

  • @Sam-oe4ir
    @Sam-oe4ir 3 роки тому +108

    i think a larger conversation could be had on how youtube does the bare minimum/nothing to protect children, both creators and viewers on their platform

    • @christinem8799
      @christinem8799 3 роки тому +4

      absolutely!!!

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +23

      Especially on youtube kids. There is so much creepy shit on there and predators just waiting there to prey on kids.

    • @christinem8799
      @christinem8799 3 роки тому +3

      @@peiithos omg no way??? on the app itself??? i gotta go through the app, my niece uses that

    • @unfazedjae2645
      @unfazedjae2645 3 роки тому +7

      @@peiithos there are some really messed up among us cartoons on there. Blood, sexualised and all, how is this for kids

  • @peiithos
    @peiithos 3 роки тому +97

    Participation points make me so mad. Im a person who's recently learned how much I despise speaking vocally. I will write, type, text to speech, anything else. Yet it has to be my voice. Every time a teacher thinks shutting off the chat for no reason is a good idea to boost student participation, I take a deep breath in my head and pray to my inner self that I have the patience to sit through every grueling second of silence as the teacher wonders why no one unmutes. One time a teacher sat for FIFTEEN WHOLE MINUTES, waiting for students to unmute with the chat completely off. Fifteen whole ass minutes. Waiting for 8th graders to unmute and talk vocally. Just turn on the damn chat.
    Participation points make me want to punch holes in walls. I dont want to raise my hand. More than half this class has some form of social anxiety and the teacher wants us to take a chance to embarass ourselves? Are teachers just stupid? How the hell do they get jobs working with kids then not make any effort to understand how kids think. And then they randomly call people. Ever consider people have reasons they dont want to talk? Want to call on them just to have them not know and get embarassed in front of more than 20 people? Ive met 2 teachers with at least 0.1 braincell and they still pulled this bs.
    Group projects. On zoom/during a pandemic. No one wants to be around people god damnit, online or not. The breakout rooms, complete silence. Chat almost completely dead and all the work is on one maybe two people. We are exhausted. Yes, teachers are tired too, it's like when they say "sorry ive been in class all day" ...what do you think we were doing? Crying in the bathroom stall? because thats what I feel like doing. I get migraines and headaches. I dont want to do group projects with a damn migraine. I want to SLEEP. I am EXHAUSTED. I am TIRED of school. NONE of these kids want to work together if its with STRANGERS. These kids dont even want to BE HERE. Ive cried with my camera off. Ive CRIED in class because I was so stressed. I felt fucking stupid because I didnt understand ONE problem. When I asked the teacher for help? Complete silence. "Check your resource notebook" MISS I WAS ABSENT? I DONT UNDERSTAND THAT EITHER?? These teachers are losing their damn minds.

    • @DanielleP0314
      @DanielleP0314 3 роки тому +9

      This felt like a mental breakdown. I sincerely hope you are doing okay and if not hopefully this nightmare will be over soon. ❤️❤️

    • @alxandro5504
      @alxandro5504 3 роки тому +3

      sorry but you’re gonna have to get over it.

    • @alxandro5504
      @alxandro5504 3 роки тому +1

      you’ll eventually realize that most people don’t care what your voice sounds like

    • @justjoannak
      @justjoannak 3 роки тому +7

      I can't even imagine doing 8th grade online. I'm so sorry you're going through this

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +21

      @@alxandro5504 can you not tell me to basically suck it up? you probably read my whole comment right? I mentioned being in 8th grade. That means I'm a child. Not even in highschool yet. And I've already cried in class. I've already gotten migraines and headaches. I've been sucking it up all this time, what else can I do? Cry in class more? Complain about being in constant fucking agony to my teachers? Fail my classes and have my situation get worse? And my struggles aren't scarce either. My issues are common. Most people I know have had similar or sometimes even worse experiences. I don't want to get over it. I'm fucking suffering in complete silence and the school knows this because I am not alone in that. I can't just 'get over' the shit school has done to my mental wellbeing

  • @bryyy4088
    @bryyy4088 3 роки тому +157

    2:33 killed me 😭😭 “ group project w/ all white ppl i’m losing my mind “

    • @CassieTranthesuperfitbabe
      @CassieTranthesuperfitbabe 3 роки тому +18

      LOL one of her most iconic moments XD I swear to God, group projects are THE WORST

  • @imagineit204
    @imagineit204 3 роки тому +99

    It just baffles me how so many organizations and companies think that black people, or people of color in general, are not marketable or shouldn't be "the face" of a brand. They always push the same types of people and it's just plain sad because I want the opportunity to see people with actual talent get the overpush of media and that half of these famous tiktokers have gotten.

  • @girlsthesedays
    @girlsthesedays 3 роки тому +111

    Not wanting to talk as the only black person at a PWI is SO real

  • @chrisdjoseph
    @chrisdjoseph 3 роки тому +27

    I’m amazed how Amanda can be a full time student at one of the best schools in California, a STEM major, UA-camr/content creator and still have time to complete a book in 2 days for fun! And is about to successfully graduate!!! 👏🏾👏🏾 wow it’s the way Black woman make everything look so easy 😅 I’m in my senior year and about to drop out because I can’t pass any of my classes. Y’all pray for me lmaooo

  • @irongirltoni
    @irongirltoni 3 роки тому +30

    I specifically get box braids or cornrows for school dances, graduations, school concerts, sweet sixteens, etc. I think braids are formal as hell, since I get extra length and I can do extra styles with it. Braids = formal in my head. It's a shame that people feel otherwise

  • @jakeylla
    @jakeylla 3 роки тому +192

    The fact that I have been seeing people DEFEND the police officers when Ma´Ḱhia was murdered is really making me question all human beings at this point.

    • @nav7819
      @nav7819 3 роки тому +65

      @@SpyderT22 theres so many different ways to de-escalate a situation without murdering someone. search up almost any active shooter case and the perp always lives

    • @lovemypitty4lyfe
      @lovemypitty4lyfe 3 роки тому +72

      @@SpyderT22 She was defending herself. Cop put others in danger discharging weapon in close proximity is others. No deescalating. No commands. Didn't try to talk her down. Again, she was going to be jumped. She was in defense mode. If she wanted to stab she would have. She didn't have any intention to stab the girl. She pushed one girl to the ground. If she had any actual intentions of stabbing, first girl would have been first victims. Stop defending this trash cop by villianizing this 16 year old girl. A baby. If I ran up on you with 4 of my friends, you'd want to protect yourself too. Adults don't know what to do in that situation, stop bashing a baby who didn't know what to do either.

    • @OOOO0OOOO0001___
      @OOOO0OOOO0001___ 3 роки тому +7

      she tried to stab someone who was defenseless and ignore cops orders. but believe everything that you see on the media

    • @PortraitofAsha
      @PortraitofAsha 3 роки тому +21

      @@OOOO0OOOO0001___ Which media did you get your info from?

    • @blueisblue599
      @blueisblue599 3 роки тому +21

      @@OOOO0OOOO0001___ They could've tased her. Yet people literally shoot up churches and schools and don't get shot

  • @samirag7515
    @samirag7515 3 роки тому +68

    They’re now getting a Netflix show for being untalented

    • @lesbiangoddess290
      @lesbiangoddess290 3 роки тому +13

      I cant with this world anymore.

    • @bratzbabe187
      @bratzbabe187 3 роки тому +8

      Good shows with actual representation get canceled but racist get a show

  • @zariaat3939
    @zariaat3939 3 роки тому +64

    Lmfaoo Tb everyone is bothering me , “nothing NEW”😂 you are so funny Amanda.

    • @SRLovesPandas1
      @SRLovesPandas1 3 роки тому +6

      title gave me Jasmine Masters vibes from her "nothing new, nothing changed" meme lol

  • @TuesdaysArt
    @TuesdaysArt 3 роки тому +32

    I really relate with the participation points. Verbal communication is hell for me and being able to type in the chat has been a godsend. It's annoying (and lowkey ableist) when professors turn the text chat off.

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +4

      YES EXACTLY! Like I recently found out I dont like speaking vocally unless its under certain conditions, plus I get really anxious around how I sound which makes it even harder to talk. When the chat is turned off I get so genuinely mad because they took away the only form of communication Im comfortable with especially on zoom. I completely agree on the fact that it is annoying and kinda ableist, that communication option should be available.

    • @christinem8799
      @christinem8799 3 роки тому +2

      they can turn off text chat?? wtf??? also i hate break out sessions. utter waste of class time

    • @TuesdaysArt
      @TuesdaysArt 3 роки тому +2

      @@christinem8799 Yeah, I had a professor turn it off once and it got on my nerves so much.

  • @frozencheeks
    @frozencheeks 3 роки тому +84

    Amanda saying people who have periods cleared my skin 😌 everything being said is pure facts

  • @shhd2105
    @shhd2105 3 роки тому +41

    That's because people have made it cool to not be empathic. They think its funny to make fun of peoples trauma and pass it off as dark humor. Like no your a bully, if your the only one laughing your a bully.

    • @emilyau8023
      @emilyau8023 3 роки тому +4

      Would add onto that cause multiple people can laugh and it would still be bullying that person

    • @danic2514
      @danic2514 3 роки тому +1

      It’s so true because a lot of these people you don’t even know that well so when they joke about something traumatic to you it only comes off as mean. I don’t understand how we have forgotten about that kind of thing tbh?

  • @draagonlavndr5829
    @draagonlavndr5829 3 роки тому +49

    nah bc these university administrators/professors going straight to hell!!! graded attendance is among the most demonic behavior i've seen throughout the pandemic

  • @Chloe-pk7xv
    @Chloe-pk7xv 3 роки тому +33

    yeah that braid thing is messed up. whenever there was an event or holiday when i was a kid i would normally get my hair straightened reinforcing the idea that it’s more professional or better? pretty damaging

  • @TheeMademoiselle
    @TheeMademoiselle 3 роки тому +130

    Awww man im late 😩😩😩

  • @22gggggggg22
    @22gggggggg22 3 роки тому +65

    the word participation on the first day of any class is now anxiety inducing fs

  • @jazzzmynnn6302
    @jazzzmynnn6302 3 роки тому +59

    No one:
    Me: Nodding aggressively while listening and agreeing with Amanda while laying playing Animal Crossing. 👁👄👁

    • @arieaesthetic
      @arieaesthetic 3 роки тому +4

      Bruhhh this is literally me rnnnn!!!

  • @emmajacquelynne
    @emmajacquelynne 3 роки тому +33

    When you said after hearing about Ma'Khia you wanted to die, I felt that. Take some time for self care, gorgeous.

  • @crushfansite6455
    @crushfansite6455 3 роки тому +27

    the participation points thing at the beginning really struck a nerve with me because i have a stutter (it’s a neurological thing i’ve probably had since i was born) and i would NEVER talk in class because i didn’t want to make myself a target to assholes and my teachers would make a big fuss about it.
    i’m doing all the work, i have an A in the class, and i don’t cheat on tests and quizzes but ME, a singular person in a class full of like 25 people, not answering questions to protect MYSELF is a problem?

  • @honeysana672
    @honeysana672 3 роки тому +219

    can i just say....black people created basically everything and get no credit 😭😭😭 y’all are literally the blueprint for SO many things and i almost NEVER see any of the credit ever given, and it’s getting worse because of social media.

    • @emilyau8023
      @emilyau8023 3 роки тому +19

      It happens to Asians as well. We need to ban together against the oppressors.

    • @meepmoop2308
      @meepmoop2308 3 роки тому +3

      black people basically created american art but you get called an sjw for acknowledging this fact

    • @honeysana672
      @honeysana672 3 роки тому +18

      @@emilyau8023 yeah i think colonization and imperialism has taken things from all minorities and made it mainstream. black america is unique in that their entire identities are marketed and commodified for consumption of non black people. being a black person existing is “ghetto”, but when non black people emulate that it’s a ticket to fame. this isn’t to discredit any experiences as i myself am latine, but to highlight the difference in the black experience across westernized nations.

    • @emilyau8023
      @emilyau8023 3 роки тому +4

      @@honeysana672 I understand what you're saying. I just want to spread the Asian experience as well because there was an Exclusion Act and Japanese Internment Camps and now Asian hate is increasing. We were portrayed as racist cartoon characters like other POC and called slurs and we lack representation in the media. But, even worse is that we are used by the Whites to set an example to the POC community saying nonsensical things like POC should be more like the Asians. I want us all to come together and realize we need each other, so that the supremacists don't win.

    • @likewow2197
      @likewow2197 3 роки тому +7

      @@honeysana672 I'm a mixed mexican who passes as white. I bought some hoop earrings online were bigger than I expected. I wear them anyway and my mom calls them "ghetto fabulous" and I told her calling anything ghetto with our skin tones is dubious. She picked a fight with me but it's true. She then pointed out how big my butt looks in my leggings and how that makes the look even more ghetto. I was like holy yikes even a suggestion of being latina or black causes this reaction of "ghetto".

  • @itsnotrightbutitsokay1154
    @itsnotrightbutitsokay1154 3 роки тому +41

    Unrelated but I love the part in Amanda’s videos when she makes her point and the wii music just plays in the background 😭 it just makes the point hit harder for me

  • @samirag7515
    @samirag7515 3 роки тому +110

    Thank god you posted UA-cam has been dry asl

  • @peacethrumuzic
    @peacethrumuzic 3 роки тому +33

    As someone who has seriously burnt out 3 times from school in my life time (so far) I cannot stand teachers throwing students a bunch of extra assignments at the end of the semester. Don’t you have enough grades from us that we have been doing all semester??

  • @memilia1026
    @memilia1026 3 роки тому +41

    i notice for the poc creators I follow - tik tok removes my likes from them. It pisses me off. Like, I want to show support. Why are you removing my likes tik tok. (I just end up following them on IG to show more support)Oh and Amanda, i feel the pain with projects and exams for each class. I am stressed.

  • @octaviahuff5094
    @octaviahuff5094 3 роки тому +14

    what bothered me this week...well, the fact some men thought making a national rape day would be a cute idea, the boyz protesting the super league, but not the racism in the European leagues, and finding out about the Amhara genocide, sterilization of Romani women that occurred in Czechoslovakia and lastly two words, Aafia Siddiqui.

  • @AL3XlS_
    @AL3XlS_ 3 роки тому +8

    Ugh, that damn "double homicide" shit has bothered me since I first saw it. And people were in the comments like "well she did it to herself" and "why is she crying? She killed it" like wtf if wrong with y'all. Like knowing her storyline is heartbreaking, but even if we didn't it's still not a joking matter. People lack morals nowadays.

  • @mojojojo3212
    @mojojojo3212 3 роки тому +73

    On the topic of exams our school insists that we have to come into school full time during exams in Ramadan disgusting. No study leave or anything

    • @mojojojo3212
      @mojojojo3212 3 роки тому +16

      Also as a Brit, participation points sounds stupid

    • @mojojojo3212
      @mojojojo3212 3 роки тому +9

      Furthmore, our teachers are marking these exams so even if you don’t come in they still know idk I hate it

    • @mojojojo3212
      @mojojojo3212 3 роки тому +9

      I hate the fact that in terms of exams we were in the exact same situation last year and the government had NO contingency or backup plan. Disgusting I hate it they should’ve have a plan

    • @omarmekni7418
      @omarmekni7418 3 роки тому +11

      They legit havent even acknowledged the existence of ramadan

    • @alxandro5504
      @alxandro5504 3 роки тому

      i mean you could talk to your teachers about it...

  • @Tayl0rLea
    @Tayl0rLea 3 роки тому +49

    I thought Jimmy Fallon in your thumbnail was holding a sword 😂💀🤦‍♀️

  • @BlackGothGirl1
    @BlackGothGirl1 3 роки тому +53

    One of my teachers is doing a 3 part final project. We didn’t have a spring break. He even said “I know you have finals in your other classes.”

    • @peiithos
      @peiithos 3 роки тому +8

      What the actual fuck.

    • @justjoannak
      @justjoannak 3 роки тому +7

      That's just cruel. I'm so sorry you are going through this 😭

    • @brittneyamiya
      @brittneyamiya 3 роки тому +5

      And then they complain about how much work they have to grade 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @bbypinkcherry
    @bbypinkcherry 3 роки тому +49

    THE PROJECT ONE HIT DIFFERENT bc i just finished a chem project that was literally an individual project but you just had unnecessary group members. we legit all did our own analysis but for some reason had to be in a “group”. it was a hot mess, difficult and pointless bc we didn’t even work together but were so lost and stressed on what to do since the instructions were unclear by the professor. that was ghetto 😭

  • @gab2997
    @gab2997 3 роки тому +59

    this week i read “hood feminism” by Mikki Kendall and i encourage all the white people in the comments to do the same! it touched on so many of the things amanda is speaking about, and was such an essential read

    • @Kevin-rg3yc
      @Kevin-rg3yc 3 роки тому +1

      Omg I’m currently reading hood feminism and I love it, I’m getting into the fourth chapter

    • @quirkyblackenby
      @quirkyblackenby 3 роки тому

      Omg yes! It’s so good

  • @t.w.7872
    @t.w.7872 3 роки тому +73

    I think it’s safe to say that I’ve learned little to nothing this semester and I’m just getting credits just to have them

  • @EmeraldB94
    @EmeraldB94 3 роки тому +45

    I heard the words "group project" and shuddered

  • @takijahrichardson8752
    @takijahrichardson8752 3 роки тому +69

    Professors are SICK why do I have two papers AND a final- IM A FRESHMAN✋🏾😭

  • @leahesemuede2514
    @leahesemuede2514 3 роки тому +78

    no cause i have finals right now...a week before finals period... i just wrote an 8 page essay on a poem literally a week after writing an 8 page essay on a poem. why am i having tests and essays for every final...im literally about to take a final now...help amanda please this is so much😭
    edit: about the dance and tiktok thing. beyoncé’s choreographer jaquel knight is now working on a way to copyright dance moves now so let’s see how things change. dances as a whole can have copyright but i’ve never seen it with an individual move so it will be interesting to see what happens.
    edit 2: oh regarding what you were saying about black male privilege i just listened to a podcast by karen korra where one of her black male friends came on and said something along the lines of “black male privilege is people finding out and protesting for you after you were killed by the police and black women don’t even get that.” it makes me sick that what he said is true.

  • @imagineit204
    @imagineit204 3 роки тому +28

    I felt so heard when you talked about school. My sister and I decided to go on a drive and listen to music to make us happy, but nothing was hitting... and we listened to the whole Let it Shine soundtrack. Something is wrong when Don't Run Away isn't making me happy.

    • @JovaniaGeorge
      @JovaniaGeorge 3 роки тому +3

      Dag not even don't run awaaayayy frromm the truuth, cuz I'm not giving up on you

  • @samirag7515
    @samirag7515 3 роки тому +46

    Yt ppl try to absolve themselves from their ytness with the lil intersectionality they get

    • @ayannabranchcomb7535
      @ayannabranchcomb7535 3 роки тому +9

      And its so annoying because race is usually the first thing people register when they see you. Most other intersections are things you can’t see

  • @rituparikh2255
    @rituparikh2255 3 роки тому +23

    I had a whole surgery and couldn’t get an extension on assignment. My classmate had a whole BABY and couldn’t turn in late work. The professors have lost their damn minds!

  • @strudelh
    @strudelh 3 роки тому +34

    I can confidently say that Amanda is one of my top favorite UA-camrs, not only in beauty/commentary, just in general

    • @tochiiii
      @tochiiii 3 роки тому +5

      Amanda and tee noir>>>>>>>>>>

    • @strudelh
      @strudelh 3 роки тому +1

      @@tochiiii YESS HER TOO!

    • @blueisblue599
      @blueisblue599 3 роки тому

      @@tochiiii I love Khadija as well

  • @beemax2014
    @beemax2014 3 роки тому +30

    AMANDA OMG SAAAAAME!!!! I think professors did that this semester because of “school being online” I literally had a final paper, group project, presentation, and a final exam for EVERY class. Only one more week until this hell of a semester is OVER.

  • @olwetunorolela5266
    @olwetunorolela5266 3 роки тому +30

    "a group project ✌🏾👁" Amanda 🤣❤

  • @LouLou-vk5xm
    @LouLou-vk5xm 3 роки тому +15

    As a black woman, I can protect MYSELF! I'm not begging nobody for protection.

  • @nerianeria4555
    @nerianeria4555 3 роки тому +15

    Cornrows on my wedding day sounds beautiful

  • @katelinburch446
    @katelinburch446 3 роки тому +20

    I know how you feel! I wrote a final paper and now have to turn that paper into a final PowerPoint like can’t you just read the paper???

  • @Jenninka
    @Jenninka 3 роки тому +17

    Thanks for talking about Breonna being made into a meme. I’m white and something about it felt off to me but I couldn’t put my finger on why