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For the sister that wants to get married with the dude that won't pray, girl if he doesn't commit to his lord how do you expect him to commit into a relationship with you? Like I understand the fact that sometimes we might experience lower imaan, but not praying is not a solution cuz at the end of the day, it's all a test from Allah swt. If you rly are into him and feel like he is the one pray for his soul and try to advise him on how to reconnect with his lord and become a better muslim, but at at the end of the day, he should be the one stepping for himself for his own sake. If he persists on sinning then that's up to him, and don't worry, because Allah has better plans for you. Hope it helped ❤
Hello Luv, I’m currently engaged and I’d love to have a personal or private conversation with you if you don’t mind.
@@fatimasanuwo97 sure ^^
You couldn't have said it better! I have the same thought about this question.
My husband said he praid when we got married but a few months into marriage he stopped 😢It’s been very hard to understand and accept and we’ve had many arguments about it. But I’ve come to realise I can’t tell him to pray. I can’t control him. If I try he will step away further. So I patiently persevere and hope things will change- it’s not easy. Pray for us
@@kay65x the only thing I can advise you is to continue to patient and pray for him, for his soul to be rightly guided, but if things persist and he doesn't change, you know that he will no longer be considered muslim since prayer is the only thing that distinguishes us from the disbelievers. But Allah knows best, sister don't despair from his mercy. May Allah guide him and make it easy for both of you 🤲🏾
In Malaysia, it's obligatory to get an STD test before before marrying someone, and you must get married within 3 months of the test or you will have to do the test all over again. And about the guy who doesn't pray, no, it's not okay. He will have to want to pray or you'll ended up mothering him. Trust me, living under the roof with someone who is brought up differently, will definitely require some time in order to adjust your lifestyle entirely; hygiene, house chores etc etc etc
What is a STD TEST ?
@@diyideasmore2514 Sexually transmitted diseases. It's an infections that are passed from one person to another person through sexual contact
@@diyideasmore2514 sexually transmitted disease
@@diyideasmore2514sexually transmitted disease, sometimes abbreviated STI (infection). You might also see it referred to as a screening instead of a test.
I've found that having a discussion early on in the relationship about how we will argue or "fight" is important. For example, I asked him "When you get upset with something I might say or do, or when we eventually disagree on something big and get into an argument, how do you usually react and respond during conflict?" He liked this discussion a lot because we all have different reactions and responses, so knowing these as soon as possible in a relationship is huge, that way we're both respecting each other and not triggering something too deep. Kinda like rules-of-engagement for an argument. We also practiced some mindfulness meditation together for fun and it helped, we used the book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels because we were both struggling with certain stresses. Or even going through a workbook together can be interesting. It's so important to know each other upfront as much as possible. I say have the difficult convos within the first couple months if possible.
nice idea. I just got into an argument with my husband because he couldn't understand why I isolate myself when I'm feeling overwhelmed and touched out.
@@Als1822 maybe share with him the different ways people respond in conflicts...some isolate to ease anxiety, some go immediately to fight mode out of fear, others want to talk a lot to gain understanding...I forget the others but they're online I'm sure...show him that none are wrong or right just how we individually react to arguments, and we evolve and change. Also, boundaries are huge, knowing what personal boundaries not to cross.
What a good advice. Thx❤
For the wudu one I don’t advise anyone to hold their wudu for 12 hours. I’ve held my wudu for 12 hours in the masjid before bc I didn’t want to renew my wudu but that’s not GOOD. It can cause a infection, I would advise someone to already have their wudu on prior to wearing makeup and if they break their wudu i recommend wearing simple makeup like (mascara, blush, highlighter etc) so it can be easy to remove and reapply. Great video keep it up👍🏽
this!! its dangerous to keep it too long
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In Dubai, we had to do medical tests and submit to the govt . They call us in and tell us about each other’s medical condition. They give us the green signal and only then can we proceed to marry 😊
Is checking fertility a part of this too?
people with health issues are not allowed to marry or what?
That's amazing! Birgit, no it sounds like it's too protect people from spreading STIs. Also sounds really useful so people don't lie or cheat about it
"Holding it" is very bad advice, in terms of pee and other things... Just not healthy. And asking for an STD test is completely valid!! Some of the diseases can be life changing
I struggle with this and what works for me is to not wear much makeup or not wearing makeup at all. I find myself making wudu for every prayer and it is what it is.
Its quite literally makruh.
“The Messenger of Allah forbade a man to perform prayer when he was suppressing (the urge to urinate or defecate).” As a conclusion, the prayer of someone praying while holding the bladder and bowel movement is valid but it is makruh (undesirable).
Girl you know we missed these girl talks 🤣♥️😊
YES!!!! I LOVE these kind of videos of you omg im so happyyyy
Love that rio deodorant! It makes you not smell but you’ll still sweat
After a very long time, finally 🥺 LOOOOOOVED IT 🌸🤍
you should do more of these its fun to watch
Please please please make more videos like this . Some boy talks with Dawoud and some with both of you would be amazing .
ياسمين جمالك مو عااااادي!! يعني جمال وجه وجمال اخلاق وجمال اسلوب!! حرفياً كاملة والكامل الله❤❤❤ احبك
We need a skin care routine 🥰🥰
When you have the same life goals and you match together
Money or something else is not an issue at all
My kids don’t know which dad or mom are buying stuff or paying bills
You make it secondary in your life
Bottom line is the understanding honesty and generosity
It was so helpful . Thank you so much ❤
I love this video and I like hearing how well I resonate with your responses x 💞☺️
I was waiting for this video it finally came yay
About STD and genetic disorders I think it's better to test them before marriage, just to make sure
As a medical I know STDs can come by many ways so it's better to be safe than sorry
But if he is not virgin that's a big no for me, I know different people have different opinions about this but it's one of the sins I can't accept in my future husband
I don't care that most of them are not, I'm just going to search until I found someone who is
Not praying is a big no too
Girls you need to put some standards and stick with them, you don't want to regret it after marriage
I agree 100% especially about him being a virgin, it’s very important for me.
Don't settle on this especially if it's a deal breaker (the regret is real). It's very important to me too. I pray that Allah grants us chaste spouses
About STDs. The thing is they are not only sexually transmitted. So also eg via blood. I’m a medical student, so I would not wonder if I got asked that question (of course in a honoured/ respectful way you know what I mean). A little cut I’m the finger (even tho wearing glothes, it happens so fast). So it’s just protection and keeping both healthy. So I think it is okay. It truly depends on the situation. And if you wonder to ask that question, there is a reason :)❤
Is it really possible for a doctor to get HBV from his/her patient?and can he/she recovers fully by treatment if its in early stages?
Really I love these girl talk videos
11:50 i think its good if both do a checkup before, it doesnt state wether they had past expiriences but if both do it feels equal and not intrusive in the past
I would definitely ask for STD tests. I think that as long as you see it as a way of protecting yourself and your health instead of using it as a weapon against your partner it's fine. Obviously if you're asking for the STD tests is because you know/suspect they have been with other people and you're kind of OK with it if you're continuing the relationship. Just let them know that it's not because you want to expose them or their past (only God can judge). I would just have a calm and mature conversation explaining why I am asking for the tests and if my partner is mature enough, he should be understanding and willing to take the tests. It also works both ways, both partners need to check themselves, STDs can be transmitted (rarely) through other means than intercourse.
For the girl who asked about wudo and make-up..prayer is your priority- so you have to make your decisions based on it. Additionally, maybe it's good to start thinking about not using make-up at all😊❤
Much love!
could you do a perfume haul? especially for long lasting but low projection perfumes:)
Im not a perfume girls but u talk about it so "enjoyfully" I wanna a full video about ur perfumes
Yeah I think it’s important to ask about STI. Some of them you can contract without even sexual interactions . AIDS and HIV are important to be mindful of
Specially that it will not only affects you but your kids too
Only just recently learned that all those vaccinations I've been getting for Hep B, C and A are all STIs 😭😭
I loved the topics
Thank you ❤
Been waaaiting for iiit ♥️♥️🥰
Assalamou alykoum jasmine I really love your content baarakallahou fiki for this amazing video
first :) followed you since I was in lebanon.. and now I am full-time in Toronto, Canada :)
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Vanilla 28 is my favourite too 🥰🥰
I love your fit✨❤️
I just make wudu and then redo some light makeup in the bathroom. Just carry a small bag of wipes and light makeup with you :)
How much is the perfume price??
Would like to know your fav type of shows and movies / fav genre
I'm not sure if this question will get answered but here it is. I always wonder how my wudu will hold up on the day that I get married? In our culture, weddings are usually held at night and the bride usually spends the whole day getting ready (hair/makeup/dress). I like to think that I'd make my wudu before starting to get ready but then I'd have to break it at some point? And then how would I make my wudu again for say, magrib prayers?
Same in my culture. I guess you’ll have to get your makeup and hair done, and afterwards try your best to not break your wudhu😅. And that should hold up for zuhar, asar and maghrib. Isha, you can pray after you get back home from your wedding
can you make a skin care routine???❤
I love perfumes and smelling good but then i also remember the hadith by the Prophet (pbuh) considering it not acceptable for women to be smelled by non mahram men when they pass them by... I do liberally spritz at home but in the hospital (i am doctor), i select perfumes with less projection and i do one spritz or two max on my neck on which the hijab scarf goes so only i get whiffs of my perfume or so i hope... May Allah forgive me ❤
you need to try the burberry goddess perfume, smells like vanilla and sugar with wood accents
I’ve been trying to find it!!!! 😢
Amazing and thankyou for sharing
love youuuuuuuuuuuu
Have you covered the topic of LGBTQ+ folx? I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic.
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Take wudu never hold it in
If by holding it in you are more susceptible to yeast infection etc. Its not healthy to hold it in. Also you are not suppsed to have the urge to use the bathroom whilst in prayer. Hth😊
In Asia there are mostly arrange marriage and have no chance to meet our partner ...I mean we know that what's our partner priorities and stuff like that but the person we meet face to face and the person we just came to know by our parents are totally different then what we can do?
Educate people on the difference between culture and religion.
God bless you and your husband
The person with Std themselves declare and admit he will start a new life is diff than you asking and probably you see red flag in the relationship. Most people will not tell the truth even if they have it.
I think its good practice for both people to get an std test prior to marriage. Just “hey this is one of my requirements for this marriage to proceed. I will also provide you with my std results.” If they aren’t willing to do it, then its probably for a reason. Better to just move on to someone more reasonable.
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Yasmine you have a very beautiful eyes mashaallah 😍❤
Holding it messes ur body system and its not good advice, each to their own!! I like wearing make up fr special occasions otherwise i dont wear it as I cant be bothered to take it off and mascara makes ur eyes go black LMAO 🤣. It is so cool in Dubai how u have prayer rooms everywhere, now that is life changing!!!!
NGL i struggle praying but I guess everyone has their own journey with prayer. Inshallah mine will start soon, I wish I wasnt a lazy person when it comes to prayer.
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How can someone really hold from not peeing or farting for 12hrs ? 😲 I am impressed !! But what i would recommend is go on light/simple makeup look. Try not to put too much on your face that would make you feel such a big task to remove and put it on again before next prayers kicks in. Hope this helps ☺
I'm not sure what is with the UA-cam algorithm to recommend your channel and this video in particular. I am a male Belorussian that is part of the orthodox Christian church and I am based in North America atm after fleeing Ukraine.
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It is proven that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Any woman who puts on perfume and passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance is a zaaniyah.”
Narrated by Imam Ahmad (19212) and al-Nasaa’i (5126); classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami‘.
U can put certain types of perfumes and one or 2 spritz so that no one can smell it except u and the ones that get 1cm distance close to u
And why do you have to hold Wudu?
I always skip the sponsored parts
SubhannAllah smelling yummy for chef aka Dawood
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What is Wudu?
purifying before prayer:)
Can you get married without having sexual intercourse
Re-watching, coz I miss the girl talks.
Hi
akhi aw akhti ana aelam mumkin an taqulu la hadha ghalat walakina durufana akthur min qasih w ajbaratni ealaa hadha
arjukum an tusamihni 🙏💔
ana ya'aakhaa wallah thuma wallah ani ma bidi aitlub ahid bas alzuruf hikamat ealayh w khalaynaa autlub minkum wabaed wabued ma mat allah yarhamuh ma 'ahad waqf maeana wallah ya akhi waeindi aitifal nahmad allah ealaa kuli hal 💔
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any dakhalt ealaa allah thuma ealaykum ana aikhtakam atusl alyakum lujat allah... akhwani ana eindaa sighar wala yujad eindaa shi alakil alhamdalalah ana airmilat min filastin aiqsam biallah laywjd shi. eindi wamaei sighar warju minkum an mayami maei likay aein alsighar wana w asirati baytuna ayjar alshahr watarkumat ealayna alduyun min ajar baytina alaa eidat shuhur wasahib albayt yurid an yukhrijuna bisabab eadam dafe altaathirat alsaabiqat wayurid yatruduna min albayt ala alshaarie la ma qadarna ealaa dafeih limaweid al'ash jar bidun rahmat w ani asalk biallah aleazim ya akhi law ant tuhibu alkhayr 00970592511969 'arjuk an ya akhi al'amr lilah wahdah rabuna yuetikum alsihat waleafia waeindi saghir marid wayahtaj ala eamalayh lilquranih faa aleayn waqal laa alduktur yajib an aiemal aleamalih faa aisrae waqt mumkin hatan la yakun khatar ealaa alnazar faa almustaqbal ealaa alsaghir allah yahfazukum min kuli su' yarba. wamin almumkin rawiat binafsik alhal aladhi ana fiatan w yujad kathir kathir faa hayaataa min almashakil waduyun albiqalat walkahraba' walma' wathaman aleilaj waghayr dhalik kathir min alduyun wana daqiyat abwab nas kathir walakin aintum taelamun kayf naeish fi biladina bisabab alhisar alzulmi. ghayr qadirat aitakalam hatana alyawm qararat auktub eali alyutyub washarakakum qisati wana faa amas alhajat lakum faa hadhih alayam aunzuruu lana faa eanin alrahimih walshafaqat wakunuu lana akhwan samihuni ealaa hadha alaizeaj lakum faa mawqie alyutyub walakum hadha hi altariq alwahid aladhi mumkin an tushrikuni faa hadhih alhayaat wan yasil lakum hayaati💔💔
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you can not wear those necklaces in the shower or restroom/bathroom!!! also should not be wearing Allah's name period.. this is an innovation. just sharing to help my bros/sis..
From Turkey💕💕💕💕
By the way you are not supposed to wear make up outside the home
Is a man allowed to ask about your virginity ?
No dear
oh girls common...lets make a deal that the next girl talk video wont include any questions related to marriage/men. Thats kinda boring, we have so much more to discuss 😂
Definitely!
why not start with salam instead of hi.
besides is it really good to take an alhamdulillah necklace to the rest/bath(room)? anything with Allahs name in such places feels ...disrespectful
I can comment whatever I want Lol
Also she stated you can shower with the necklace Sooooo..
please dont use the word divine if its not in regard to god
I’m moslim and hoping and asking allah to find a good hasband.
أخرج الألباني في صحيح النسائي، عن أبي موسى الأشعري رضي الله عنه، عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم أنه قال: (أيما امرأةٍ استعطرتْ فمرتْ على قومٍ ليجدوا من ريحِها فهي زانيةٌ
JASMINE رضي الله عنها
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I'm a girl,,can I talk too?,,I won't tell,,,,,
Man shouldn’t be wearing necklaces what hell 🤨
Here’s an unfortunate thing no matter what nationality or religion you are: when it comes to heterosexual partnering, a female’s YOUTH is her most valuable commodity. It SHOULD be that a girl can focus on her self development, her education, her friendships etc. in her 20’s, however, if she becomes the best version of herself and starts searching for a husband in her 30’s, she’s already probably reduced her eligible partner pool to second rate choices. Marriage isn’t for everyone, but if you are a woman and it’s important to you, you have to prioritize it when you are in your 20’s.
You Know koran
Lol smell like a snack 😂😊
Women shouldn't wear perfume infront of non mahram men.
Muslim girl talk 'manage STDs '😱😱??
It’s reality
Homemaker is the word. There’s nothing wrong with being a homemaker. Why are you acting like you cant think of the word.
But your health is not the governments business.
Especially if thers double standards
Parents should raise the kids well and people should behave with moral compass
The system and society putting such tabus along with been so sexist only cossing the oposite
Wait are you pregnant I just got a feeling that you are 😂❤
with marriage what she said is correct but when u are in that stage find someone who is CLOSE to his deen not the dunya! 🤍