The Prophet ﷺ said, “Perhaps a man will say what he did in his house? Perhaps a woman will tell what she did with her husband?” The people sat in embarrassed silence, so I said, “By Allah, the women say so and the men do so.” The Prophet said, “Do not do so. Verily, that is like a male devil and female devil fornicating in the street while people watch.” Source: Musnad Aḥmad 27036 Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
@@SunShine-iy4ik How's that nasty? Some people don't feel the need to wash their hair everyday or shower/bathe everyday. Most people shower/bathe when they're sweaty or smelly. Everyone's body is different. I take showers/baths twice a week and wash my hair after every 3 days cause it becomes very oily.
especially if we want to do it at night.. i wont shower before fajr 😂 But its okay if its not more than once a day and sometimes a day or two break, i think the struggle is more if you have to shower at night times or before fajr
@@Smiley-yk7vw This is such a silly comment and belief. Angels don’t curse you if you have a valid reason to refuse (which, valid reason = simple not feeling like it). 😑
@@SooBeautyFull That’s not a valid reason. Idk what you talking about 🤣 valid reason is feeling sick, being on your period etc. Refusing to sleep with your hubby because you don’t want to wash your hair over and over again is not a valid reason sis.
As a student midwife i can tell you that you won’t even smell it or know because we are so fast at cleaning it trust me you won’t even know😊. And for the second part, you guy’s communication is so good mashallah i feel like the baby will be so loved and that inshallah you will be able to communicate your needs because you understand each other❤. I was scared too and still am but i just think about Allah’s timing now and i’m like if it happens it’s fine because i’ve got a supporting ass husband so we can get through it. It will be tough but your relationship is what will make it worth it inshallah😊
Ngl, sometimes I find ways to avoid "doing the deed" just because I don't want to do ghusl. ^^; It's so much easier for guys because their hair dries so fast.
12:20 Don't worry he won't even know cas it gets messy (fluid blood etc) but midwives clean so fast like you won't even know. Honestly like they keep moving the disposable sheets after each contraction push and that's probably the time when someone would have a mistake n they don't tell you either so 💁🏻♀️ 13:10 I think it brought more reason to love each other.... like a new chapter of love ❤️ It's Our little person.. with abit of both characteristics 🤣🤣 We have to plan some things around her nap (like sitting out in the pouch watching the rain with hot chai ) she runs out in the garden or even putting her earlier to nap or skips the nap so we can spend more time in the evening/night.. lots of munchies 🍿🍫🍬🥤and buddy time الحمدلله for gifting us offspring
Jasmine I feel you about giving birth I had the same fear... Honestly I was thinking prior to falling pregnant that the last trimester I'll be having a liquid diet just so I don't poop while pushing baby... That didn't happen. Thank God I had diarrhoea when I stated getting contractions and by the time I gave birth I was all cleared up.. maybe it was because I had Nando's literally 2 days in a row prior.
@@momnahyasin3126 yeah I read about that but I heard so many stories that and how common it is so I was petrified of the possibility my hubby and midwives would see it...
Watch doulas giving tips on laboring at home before you decide to go to a hospital. There are different stages of labor. Active labor is when you need a midwife or to go to a hospital. As women we are designed to birth children naturally, the hospitals make pregnancy like a sickness because they are in the business of making money. The longer they keep you in the hospital the more money they make. Btw, don’t watch any documentary on this topic with your spouse, there might be unnecessary graphic exposure in them. I regret having my husband in the room every time, doulas are more helpful, especially if the husband can’t understand how to help with pain relief or not to freak out himself.
I know that my country is not advance but highly recommend to visit Bangladesh. Especially in my city Chittagong. Our city has largest Sea beach in the world Cox's Bazzar and some hill in east part.
Yes about the fard- ghusal, the women hair, you only need to wash the whole head- hanafhi school of thought, you can live the rest of hair plaited. Option
You well get over the pooping. You forget everything when you are about to deliver the baby. Haya will go out the window and you will be greatfull for the nurses because without them you cant move
Jasmine, Jasmine, Jasmine do you think he will actually be on the side of you where he can see everything that's going on down there??? ABSOLUTELY NOT LOL he'll be right next to you supporting you but the gore? No thank you. So he also won't see the poop. And even if he knows of it happening he will be so scared for you (even if you're doing relatively okay because he will never have seen you in so much pain) that he absolutely won't hold it against you. He's a decent guy alhamdulillah
the worst thing u can do is let ur husband in the room while giving birth, he wont be able to unsee what he will see or smell so my advice is not to let him in the room. TRUST ME
I truly truly pray that Allah keeps u guys in a healthy relationship and may Allah protect you guys from evil eyes.. the way you guys communicate and understand each other's point is very healthy Allhamdulillah... May Allah bless you with success of both worlds ameen
@@coconat5359 if you are giving birth either in excruciating pain or high on pain relief there is a very high change you won't know if you pooped 🤷🏻♀️ they are very quick to take it away as well. The midwife in my prenatal classes said they always tell mothers they didn't pooped even if they did.
Y’all are so cute mashaAllah tabarakallah! Also I’ll tell you something about having children - they come with their own barakah InshaAllah khair and just like Allah SWT built women to birth, Allah also doesn’t give u what u cannot bear so u too will be able to parent them when they come in to the world ❤ oh also the fact that you’re so worried about it just shows how much you care - I think you’ll be better parents because of this. It is hard and it is a test but again every hardship comes with ease and the reward is always better the harder it is ❤
Jasmine when you’re in labor pooping is not even on your mind! Trust me you’ll poop thousand times just to have that baby out and healthy! I have no idea if I pooped when I gave birth and I honestly don’t care 😅 it’s so common anyway
Lol so true. I remember telling the nurses while pushing, that I might poop and they were like it doesn't matter. It's definitely so common and the nurses and doctors have seen it a million times. And the most important thing at that time is to get that baby OUT!!! LOL
The thing that scares me the most about having a baby is pregnancy weight gain and visible changes in my body. I really think it should be the wife's decision on when to have a baby cuz she's the one who's body is going through changes. If a woman wants to wait a few years before having a kid or doesn't want kids at all, her husband has zero rights to pressure her into having a kid sooner or having one at all.
@@linaa4076 that’s me. I don’t think i want kids bc i’m very scared of pregnancy. I just want kids without getting pregnant. My periods make me want to kill myself, and each time it hurts so much that even medication cannot help me. So I always think, since my periods hurts so much what will pregnancy look like? I’m scared that i’ll be pressured to make kids although i deep down don’t want to do it.
@@user-bv1qt6cd4g make dua that the pain is eased, Allah answers all duas so ask him sincerely for help and he will help, trust Allah and know he is always there in your times of hardship
The scariest thing about having a child is the possibility of failing as a parent. It’s a commitment and a responsibility. Elon Musk says “your children owe you nothing whilst you owe your children everything.” If having kids is a deliberate choice we make, we owe them the right of safety, security and freedom. Most criminals and those suffering in many ways are proof results of their parents’ actions and how they were raised. I don’t know if I’m getting my point across but it’s scary thinking your child could grow up to be a dangerous person with intentions of violence and revenge and it’s even more terrifying knowing you, as a parent, are responsible. If your biggest concern is the visible changes in your body, I suggest you start thinking carefully. Your body will change in time regardless of having kids or not.
I just randomly came across this video on UA-cam and since I am a Muslim I was intrigued to watch it. I must say that the annoying habits segment was adorable! Also, I understand your plight over having a baby. I had it too. But trust me, you won’t even realise or remember if you pooped while having contractions 😂😂… I don’t remember it at all and honestly I didn’t care a damn about it then 😊 Good luck to you with it ❤
Jasmin,do you know that fear of pooping during the delivery easily could be resolved😅In many countries they doing enema before delivery so you can demand one😊
@@momnahyasin3126 not True at all. My laborpain started and it was so painful, like a hard wooden kubus trying to pass my birth canal ans it want go down but it cant, because of the pain I couldnt lay down, walk, move side while laying down
I feel like if the baby comes, a couples relationship becomes stronger if they pass it like you said , if you love each other you’ll do just fine , the fact that I’m not even married or with children, it’s just absurd lol 😂 ❤ may allah bless
I love you Jasmine. You are so beautiful. Its the first time l see your veideo and you take place in my heart. Perfect couple. Lots of love frome Afghanistan🇦🇫
What she's says at 8:19. I HATE BARE FEET. especially like floors are always dirty. No matter how many times you sweep, vacuum, mop ect there's always some type the of dust on the floor that accumulates under over some time under your feet. like, why would anybody like that feeling?
You can't poop on the baby as your baby comes from the middle part. Poop comes from the lowest hole.... another thing, you can have a clysma so you don't have that. But it is very normal that you poop... don't worry about that... if you are in labor they may lay you in the middle of the street you don't care at that moment... 😂
The Prophet ﷺ said,
“Perhaps a man will say what he did in his house? Perhaps a woman will tell what she did with her husband?”
The people sat in embarrassed silence, so I said, “By Allah, the women say so and the men do so.”
The Prophet said, “Do not do so. Verily, that is like a male devil and female devil fornicating in the street while people watch.”
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 27036
Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
Thank you for always being honest and open about your relationship, it's so refreshing to see and feels so real
I think the most scared couple of having a baby ends up being the greatest parents 😂
Exactly!!
I agree. They understand very well what a big deal it is. So they make amazing parents.
I thinks it’s kinda gross to jot wash your hair everyday
@@SunShine-iy4ik its nasty to wash your hair everyday ? Huh ? Lol that doesnt even make sense lol
@@SunShine-iy4ik How's that nasty? Some people don't feel the need to wash their hair everyday or shower/bathe everyday. Most people shower/bathe when they're sweaty or smelly. Everyone's body is different.
I take showers/baths twice a week and wash my hair after every 3 days cause it becomes very oily.
I am with you Jasmine on the 💩thing. Like why on top of everything happening at that day we need to deal with this embarrassing moment too…why! 😅
Hahah I could relate on the ghusul being annoying when you JUST did your hair 😂😂
It’s the worst and the angels curse you if you refuse for such silly reason. The struggle is real 🤦🏾♀️
especially if we want to do it at night.. i wont shower before fajr 😂 But its okay if its not more than once a day and sometimes a day or two break, i think the struggle is more if you have to shower at night times or before fajr
As a curly girl, I feel this at my core 😂
@@Smiley-yk7vw This is such a silly comment and belief. Angels don’t curse you if you have a valid reason to refuse (which, valid reason = simple not feeling like it). 😑
@@SooBeautyFull That’s not a valid reason. Idk what you talking about 🤣 valid reason is feeling sick, being on your period etc. Refusing to sleep with your hubby because you don’t want to wash your hair over and over again is not a valid reason sis.
As a student midwife i can tell you that you won’t even smell it or know because we are so fast at cleaning it trust me you won’t even know😊. And for the second part, you guy’s communication is so good mashallah i feel like the baby will be so loved and that inshallah you will be able to communicate your needs because you understand each other❤. I was scared too and still am but i just think about Allah’s timing now and i’m like if it happens it’s fine because i’ve got a supporting ass husband so we can get through it. It will be tough but your relationship is what will make it worth it inshallah😊
„Chance the diaper. Change the diaper“ took me out 😂😂😂😂😂
Ngl, sometimes I find ways to avoid "doing the deed" just because I don't want to do ghusl. ^^; It's so much easier for guys because their hair dries so fast.
Just say no lol
@@Theoneandonlybish Right? 😅 Inshallah all girls will find men that understand consent without the woman having to make things up 🥴
Instead of lying to your husband, you could just get rid of that silly ghusl rule❤ and enjoy a happy union
It helps to get engaged and learn about the person but at the same time for a woman it’s awkward because it’s hard for her to open up in that way
Thanks for this straightforward and priceless conversation god bless you
Awesome. Some bits were too funny😆🤣
12:20 Don't worry he won't even know cas it gets messy (fluid blood etc) but midwives clean so fast like you won't even know.
Honestly like they keep moving the disposable sheets after each contraction push and that's probably the time when someone would have a mistake n they don't tell you either so 💁🏻♀️
13:10 I think it brought more reason to love each other.... like a new chapter of love ❤️
It's Our little person.. with abit of both characteristics 🤣🤣
We have to plan some things around her nap (like sitting out in the pouch watching the rain with hot chai ) she runs out in the garden or even putting her earlier to nap or skips the nap so we can spend more time in the evening/night.. lots of munchies 🍿🍫🍬🥤and buddy time
الحمدلله for gifting us offspring
I wish his sense of humor was kinder.
I think me and my wife fell in love MORE when we got our first kid than before.
Aw ❣
Jasmine I feel you about giving birth I had the same fear... Honestly I was thinking prior to falling pregnant that the last trimester I'll be having a liquid diet just so I don't poop while pushing baby... That didn't happen. Thank God I had diarrhoea when I stated getting contractions and by the time I gave birth I was all cleared up.. maybe it was because I had Nando's literally 2 days in a row prior.
naturally you empty your bowls when labour begins ive forgotten what the name is of the process
@@momnahyasin3126 yeah I read about that but I heard so many stories that and how common it is so I was petrified of the possibility my hubby and midwives would see it...
Watch doulas giving tips on laboring at home before you decide to go to a hospital. There are different stages of labor. Active labor is when you need a midwife or to go to a hospital. As women we are designed to birth children naturally, the hospitals make pregnancy like a sickness because they are in the business of making money. The longer they keep you in the hospital the more money they make. Btw, don’t watch any documentary on this topic with your spouse, there might be unnecessary graphic exposure in them. I regret having my husband in the room every time, doulas are more helpful, especially if the husband can’t understand how to help with pain relief or not to freak out himself.
“She loves me more than I love her” whaaaat???
I know that my country is not advance but highly recommend to visit Bangladesh. Especially in my city Chittagong. Our city has largest Sea beach in the world Cox's Bazzar and some hill in east part.
I loved this video!
mashallah i wish i had a happy mariage like you gays but inshallah one day it will be love you
Yes about the fard- ghusal, the women hair, you only need to wash the whole head- hanafhi school of thought, you can live the rest of hair plaited. Option
ياسمين فيكي تحضري كورس ولادة ناعمة على الانتسقرام بتولدي بطريقة ناعمة فعلا❤
So educational
LITERALLY ❤️ 😂
Have you guys ever considered doing a podcast?
Omg I would loveeee that too!
I feel you about the feet and the pooping during birth. I was happy that I had to have a c-section to avoid pooping during birth
Not everyone 💩 during childbirth 😂😂😂i got 4 boys,n it never happened to me
Beautiful couple mashaAllah
I can relate abt the pooping thing 😂😂😂😂
I was waiting for the wawawuwawawuwa part 😂
Masallah you both are so authentic and sweet together. May Allah put you together in Jannah so you can be together forever❤
heyy jasmine and dawouddd we love these vidss
Why dont you guys use the "hawawawwawawawawawa" audio at the end anymore 😢
Washing and drying your hair as a girl is just a difficult chore 😩
I’m guilty, I also like to take naps a few hours after I wake up…
I am not looking forward to do ghusl every single day. My hair is too sensitive to wash every single day 😭💀
Married people don’t usually “do the deed” every single day of their lives 😂
Prayers???.
You guys are sooo funny !! Mashallah
Lolll I am always barefoot around my house too 😂
ghusl literally only means shower in my language i was so confused lol
You guys are cute❤ btw what happened to you aua ua ua intro😅
So you’re telling me I’ll go bald after getting married 🥲🥲
OK WE NEED PART II
After Intimacy 😂😂😂😂
الانجليزية عندي ماش ولا كان تابعتكم يالحلوين🌹✨✨✨✨
Apparently 3 hand cups of water is enough for women to wash their hair in ghusel
Hand cup? What does that mean
You are so cute together 🥰
Trust me pooh is the lest u should worry about. The main Omg
Hey there 👋 Soo happy to meet u this early
Missed you guys❤❤
Dawood looks like that lebanese actor Nicolas mouawad
u guys are so cute pls
You well get over the pooping. You forget everything when you are about to deliver the baby. Haya will go out the window and you will be greatfull for the nurses because without them you cant move
Jasmine, Jasmine, Jasmine do you think he will actually be on the side of you where he can see everything that's going on down there??? ABSOLUTELY NOT LOL he'll be right next to you supporting you but the gore? No thank you. So he also won't see the poop. And even if he knows of it happening he will be so scared for you (even if you're doing relatively okay because he will never have seen you in so much pain) that he absolutely won't hold it against you. He's a decent guy alhamdulillah
😂😂😂 i used to see you at nights 😂😂😂
the worst thing u can do is let ur husband in the room while giving birth, he wont be able to unsee what he will see or smell so my advice is not to let him in the room. TRUST ME
❤❤
Is nap a female thing
I thought you already had a baby?
hubbbb❣
Why are you washing your laundry in public
It would be better if you post the the IG account of whoever asked the question 😉😉😉😉
When is my man Dawood going for his second wife?
DAWOUDS BEARD IS LOOKING BETTER THAN JASMINE'S MASHALLAH
Your sense of humor is another level you managed to answer very intimate questions in a respectful and yet funny manner.
❤❤❤❤
I truly truly pray that Allah keeps u guys in a healthy relationship and may Allah protect you guys from evil eyes.. the way you guys communicate and understand each other's point is very healthy Allhamdulillah... May Allah bless you with success of both worlds ameen
Jasmine, I had the same fear!! That was my biggest fear about childbirth. And guess what? I didn’t poop! 😂😂 it freaked me out for months.
Same here! I have 4 kids and never pooped during labour haha
Sometimes you poop and no one tells you! Lol I don't think I did, but I'm unsure until today 🤣
@@anapaixao4044 but poop smells even if no one tells u can’t u smell it if u did ?!😂
@@coconat5359 if you are giving birth either in excruciating pain or high on pain relief there is a very high change you won't know if you pooped 🤷🏻♀️ they are very quick to take it away as well. The midwife in my prenatal classes said they always tell mothers they didn't pooped even if they did.
They wipe it away while it’s happening
Y’all have the best Q&A videos! Always so honest 🙌
Y’all are so cute mashaAllah tabarakallah! Also I’ll tell you something about having children - they come with their own barakah InshaAllah khair and just like Allah SWT built women to birth, Allah also doesn’t give u what u cannot bear so u too will be able to parent them when they come in to the world ❤ oh also the fact that you’re so worried about it just shows how much you care - I think you’ll be better parents because of this. It is hard and it is a test but again every hardship comes with ease and the reward is always better the harder it is ❤
Yes yes yes! Thats how it is, thank you ☺️
The energy you attract makes all the difference. Think positive & let good vibes flow!
11:30-11:37 I’m dyingggggg you guys are the cutest!! 😂🥰
Dat was qyuuuut 😁😁😁😁😁
Yes
Jasmine when you’re in labor pooping is not even on your mind! Trust me you’ll poop thousand times just to have that baby out and healthy! I have no idea if I pooped when I gave birth and I honestly don’t care 😅 it’s so common anyway
Lol so true. I remember telling the nurses while pushing, that I might poop and they were like it doesn't matter. It's definitely so common and the nurses and doctors have seen it a million times. And the most important thing at that time is to get that baby OUT!!! LOL
The thing that scares me the most about having a baby is pregnancy weight gain and visible changes in my body. I really think it should be the wife's decision on when to have a baby cuz she's the one who's body is going through changes. If a woman wants to wait a few years before having a kid or doesn't want kids at all, her husband has zero rights to pressure her into having a kid sooner or having one at all.
I feel sorry for any man that wants kids and his wife does not
@@linaa4076 that’s me. I don’t think i want kids bc i’m very scared of pregnancy. I just want kids without getting pregnant. My periods make me want to kill myself, and each time it hurts so much that even medication cannot help me. So I always think, since my periods hurts so much what will pregnancy look like?
I’m scared that i’ll be pressured to make kids although i deep down don’t want to do it.
@@user-bv1qt6cd4g make dua that the pain is eased, Allah answers all duas so ask him sincerely for help and he will help, trust Allah and know he is always there in your times of hardship
The scariest thing about having a child is the possibility of failing as a parent. It’s a commitment and a responsibility. Elon Musk says “your children owe you nothing whilst you owe your children everything.”
If having kids is a deliberate choice we make, we owe them the right of safety, security and freedom. Most criminals and those suffering in many ways are proof results of their parents’ actions and how they were raised. I don’t know if I’m getting my point across but it’s scary thinking your child could grow up to be a dangerous person with intentions of violence and revenge and it’s even more terrifying knowing you, as a parent, are responsible.
If your biggest concern is the visible changes in your body, I suggest you start thinking carefully. Your body will change in time regardless of having kids or not.
Actually Islamically it is his right to have children.
You know exactly what colors and tones look good on you, MASHALLAH!!!!
The worst ghusl is in Ramadan, in winter night 🫠
12:22: FINALLY someone who shares my fear! 😤😅
I just randomly came across this video on UA-cam and since I am a Muslim I was intrigued to watch it.
I must say that the annoying habits segment was adorable!
Also, I understand your plight over having a baby. I had it too. But trust me, you won’t even realise or remember if you pooped while having contractions 😂😂… I don’t remember it at all and honestly I didn’t care a damn about it then 😊
Good luck to you with it ❤
Guhsl struggle is so real
Omg ma sha Allah guys your so cute and funny I be smiling from beginning of video till the end 😅❤
Jasmin,do you know that fear of pooping during the delivery easily could be resolved😅In many countries they doing enema before delivery so you can demand one😊
naturally you empty your bowls when labour begins. its one of the signs of labour beggining
@@momnahyasin3126 like I said above in many countries when women admitted to the hospital, she would be getting enema.
@@momnahyasin3126 not True at all. My laborpain started and it was so painful, like a hard wooden kubus trying to pass my birth canal ans it want go down but it cant, because of the pain I couldnt lay down, walk, move side while laying down
Napping after dhuhr is a good habit i heard
فديو حلو غير مزاجي والله .ربي يحفظكم .اتمنى تستمرون بتنزيل الفديوات .بالتوفيق يارب
What if after this video Jasmine missed her periods and she was pregnant 😂💗...
May Allah bless you guys ..love ya ♥️
Don’t worry allah will protect you Jasmine during birth don’t be scared
That air kiss 👀😂😂
May Allah bless you guys more
He isn't the only one when it comes to walking barefoot on tiles😂
I feel like if the baby comes, a couples relationship becomes stronger if they pass it like you said , if you love each other you’ll do just fine , the fact that I’m not even married or with children, it’s just absurd lol 😂 ❤ may allah bless
Yay y’all are back, I love your vids, especially these types 😂❤
“No wonder your hair always stinks, and your hijabs.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
We want the hawawawwa outrooooo
and this was so entertaining to watch i was smiling through out
Asalam alaikum Jasmine and Dawood,🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 buy Dawood some sea salt feet scrub.
These youtube couples really must be broke to make these type of videos
I love you Jasmine.
You are so beautiful.
Its the first time l see your veideo and you take place in my heart.
Perfect couple.
Lots of love frome Afghanistan🇦🇫
What she's says at 8:19. I HATE BARE FEET. especially like floors are always dirty. No matter how many times you sweep, vacuum, mop ect there's always some type the of dust on the floor that accumulates under over some time under your feet. like, why would anybody like that feeling?
You can't poop on the baby as your baby comes from the middle part. Poop comes from the lowest hole.... another thing, you can have a clysma so you don't have that. But it is very normal that you poop... don't worry about that... if you are in labor they may lay you in the middle of the street you don't care at that moment... 😂
When looking for a spouse, what questions should you ask potential spouse for Islamic marriage any advice or tips
Keep intimacy private😑😑😑
Omg that was to short!!! Loved it
She loves me more than I love her? Just a little confused here 😕 isn't love supposed to be reciprocated evenly for the marriage to remain leveled?
I’m pretty sure they were joking
he said just to respect her Love
Youre not supposed to tell people that lol