you care way too much about what people think of you and it’s keeping you STUCK
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- Опубліковано 15 сер 2024
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caring about what people think of you will keep you STUCK
i almost committed suicide because i worried about what people will think about me... spent 5months indoors... after losing my Job last year...later i found someone who inspired me on UA-cam...later i started my own UA-cam channel and i forgot about my stresses... right now I'm doing fine, out and Vlogging and made new friends...God saved my life for sure... Depression almost ended my life
wishing you the best, and lighter days !
HALLELUJAH!!🙌 GOD IS GOOD! 💯👌🔥IM SO GRATEFUL THAT YOU'RE ALIVE TODAY! 🥰 ✨ in case nobody told you today: I believe in you. I'm so proud of you. You matter. I love you. You got this! 🥰😎😝😁👌💯💪
So so proud of you! Keep shining! 🥰❤️
@@mistypfitzer111 Thank you 🙏😊
@@PraiseAra Thank you 🙏
I’m a gay man who grew up with a lot of fucked up messaging about the nature of my character from damaged people. I internalized so much shit so early, suffered so much abuse and violence, and I struggle every day against thoughts in my head that were never even mine. Even as an adult who’s done a lot of work on myself, I worry about what Bria says here: that I’ll be one of those people who never gets to access their own light in this lifetime.
But thanks for the reminder to be empathetic. I know the people who put me through what they did were in pain too and that they didn’t deserve their suffering either. And recognizing that in them helps me step outside of my own negativity, get a bit closer to the light 💛
A gay man here too. I hear you
@@Damngoodcoffee_n_cherrypiethat’s such a Beautiful and kind thing to say. My love goes to all of you
@@Damngoodcoffee_n_cherrypie that was a very kind thing to say, and i needed to hear it. thanks, friend.
I love the book titled "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" by Mark Manson, it's really on point with what you said in the video, definitely worth adding to your Audible library too
I'm SOOO HAPPY we could partner with our besties at Audible! If you'd like to support my channel, be sure to click my Audible link in the description!!
I would love to listen an audible of you preaching. You got that fire, Tenacity, that sauce.
Your words are Powerful.
Thanks for making a difference.
Love Life ❤️ Spread Love
Girl, I needed this video! I want to grow my social media but I be worried about the wrong sh*t. This was definitely my wakeup call to do whatever I feel no matter what people think. And a book recommendation The subtle Art of Not Giving a Fu*k.😊
Thank you bestie❤
Trust me! Brias videos help! Btw if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine. Swing by, take a peek and stick around if you like. I’d be sooo grateful. 🙏
Same here. I want to start posting more but I keep worrying about all the little details.
The timing of this was so uncanny. Thanks Bria! I really look up to you and get so inspired.
Mum fight your own fight she’s able to say this because of pretty privilege!! These UA-camrs don’t believe the videos they make!! It’s just a mother video to push the algorithm to pay her next months rent!!
Hey Bestie, this is such a timely video ❤ you mention there is a minority of people that do spend time and energy hating on others. Unfortunately, my dad’s side of the family is like that. And i am one of those people that spend an inordinate amount of time ruminating on the incredibly cruel things people have said about me. I am no longer in their crosshairs, they’ve moved on to other targets. But the words have remained in my soul. I am trying to free up my mental real estate to build my own dreams. Thank you for work making these videos 😊😊
believe it or not it's most people not the minority. the world is a sick place, but not caring will keep you moving towards your goals.
I discovered I most likely have OCD, the constant ruminating thoughts. I never knew that was associated with ocd. Even outside of family but I am seeking help.
Plz help 🥺 I'm starting new ❤️
THIS!! I got so lost in the sauce to insecurity that I switch from streaming my actual face to using a PNG avatar 😢 it’s such a complex , learning to love myself through it- great video as usual Bestie B
I read that book and it changed my life. I feel like it was the reason I was so fearless when I first started my channel.
If your like me and it’s really hard. I’m not saying anyone is but for me I discovered I potentially have OCD which is also linked maybe back to my chronic illness/autoimmune. Anyways my main sign was ruminating thoughts over anything and eveything in my life and what those ppl thought of me. Or rumination of my inaction on things dating way back to 3rd grade and I’m 24 now. Anyways maybe look into it more if it seems more excessive than the average person.
Thanks for this video this is something the universe has been aligning me with to learn all summer. Your videos are a motivator 🙌🏾
I needed this. It's just that people give their unwanted, unwarranted opinions so freely. I be minding my business, doing me, loving life then BOOM here come every Tom, Frank, Harry, & Susan plus Tamika, Tasha & Tiffany with their opinions of me & whatever I do. It blows me because I don't be doing much. Like literally. Ima regular degular woman but here come the stares, stupid comments& even people giving their thoughts on me or my body. It's weird.
I feel like social media is the least of my worries. Those people literally don't matter but when it's your coworkers, fellow church members, family, etc. in real life , it hits different.
i really needed to hear this. i'm so sorry for what you went through, it's really disgusting. you used your voice and platform to speak out on a serious issue and people were absolutely rancid for no reason. it really makes me happy to see how you're bouncing back and still as positive as before and spreading positivity to others. trust me, your positivity matters
Trying to wrap my head around what the hell could you cancel Briana for😭 I don't know her personally but from what I've seen her content is so unproblematic??
I really appreciate you for this video.
I was thrown into depression for 3 years plus, being deformed as a Sickle Cell Warrior. My health waa deteriorating day by day, and I was loosing it. My mental health was in shambles.
All thanks to God, for bringing me out of that state. I have created my own channel to encourage people through my story.
God is helping me little by little, and am fulfilling my destiny gradually to the Glory of God.
Depression Is bad.
Good morning Bria happy Saturday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you
the way every video lately has been so so relevant to me 😭😍🙏🏾
I can definitely say that this use to have total control over my life. It’s a whole journey that’s fluctuated my mental. Now I’m in a place where it doesn’t torment me as much it use to. This video Bria, is definitely a satisfying booster and great reminder that just built another layer for my mental strength. Thank you❤️💕🙏🏽
This is so great. I never comment but I needed to just say this came at the exact right moment
Bria! Yes the concept of LIGHT 💡 absolutely well said, especially how people get uncomfortable when they are around light.
Thank you for this video Sis Bria...
Nobody cares so don't wate your time thinking of what people think...
The truth is,most of the time,they are not even thinking about you...
I have started my UA-cam channel,tho still trying to figure a lot of things out,but i will do my best life anyways and this is me encouraging you too❤❤❤❤
Much love here
LOVE THIS CONTENT!! These talks have honestly been so freeing, keep doing you girl and sharing that light!!
I know I'm 52 and Bria is probably a baby under me but honey I've been so much being raised by a narcissistic mom who often taught us to worry about other people's thoughts about us. I'm JUST getting free from this madness and young beautiful ladies like Bria is so very inspiring to so many because she's transparent and raw. Love this young lady!!!
Keep making transparent content you're helping soooo many people baby girl. And you're so pretty too! God bless your life more and more Luv.❤
I swear your videos are always right on time in my life! So funny, I have a profile picture for all social media except UA-cam, ha! But I can say I usually only say crazy stuff about cooking videos.
I am someone who has dealt with feeling invisible by my family but feeling too seen by my peers for most of my life. So the way I have viewed myself has always been this funky Rollercoaster of wanting tons of attention but not wanting it. It's a weird at odds personality issue. And I have had haters in my life and they were haters to my face, pre social media days. It took me a long time to see they were the ones with the problem and it wasn't me, that they felt the need to project and bring me down because of my light that showed up, even in my darkest of days.
I gotta get that light back again for sure.
Thank you Bria! And I definitely send the haters love because I feel they need it and I move along.
Morning motivation ❤ really needed this ! Thanks
And I just loveeee how your comment section is a safe place full of support and kind people just trying to figure out their place in this lifetime.
I'm watching your video and jotting down some notes while I'm at it. I learn so much from you. Keep up the great work Bria, you're incredible, happy to have found your channel ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for this video , I started an online boutique & I don’t want to share it with anyone because am afraid how people would view me because I literally left my previous business for this & maybe people will view me as a failure 😞.. but this video really uplifted me ❤and I would proudly tell the world that this is my new business
I have so many things I want to express after watching your video but I’m kinda overwhelmed with emotion. All I’ll say is thank you, your content has been really helping me through some of my not so bright days 🩷
Thanks for showing up. Much appreciated.
The first app ever came across your channel listening to you you have motivated and I am 53 and I must tell you your future is so bright we going to have two Sun in the universe
I literally just did a 360 in my life and even though it still seem scary I’m really loving this “don’t care what they think era”
Sis, when I say you left no crumbs‼️ I needed this‼️ 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Hi Bria! I'm working hard on my UA-cam journey, and I couldn't agree more with what you said about people who leave horrible comments. Thank you for this video and I'm so glad I've found your channel!
It’s so true! Bria has taught me so much about UA-cam! Btw if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine. Swing by, take a peek and stick around if you like. I’d be sooo grateful. 🙏
OMG HOW DOES SHE KNOW WHAT IM GOING THROUGH RIGHT KNOW.
Bria you must be some sort of mystical witch because the timing of this was 💥I love what you said about reframing the interaction / their energy into the context of are they someone you admire or strive to be like?
I experienced a really salty interaction with a stranger today after speaking my truth and the version of me that they created in their reality was so far from who I am in my heart or how I was actually communicating with them. At the end of the day, the people fully in our corner, like your family and friends who rallied around you during your challenging ass experience, will always embrace us and know us for our true intentions. Thank you for sharing exactly who you are, that's why we are all here bestie!! 💖✨
14:12 I need to hear this as a reminder bc, I (have to be) respectful in my situation. Yet, it’s hard AF not to pop off when I hear negativity 24/7 for years.
BRIA! I love your thought processes. The part of this video where you talk about how everyone is literally in their own reality was amazing. Their reality is true to them but when you think about the grand scheme of the universe, their reality is subjective. Your own reality is subjective. So play with reality a bit to get life to serve you.
Whew…I struggle with this a lot. Especially while trying to grow online and it makes me inconsistent and anxious
Oh my gosh! Finding your channel while going through rebranding my own UA-cam channel, I find this and a lot of your other videos to be so inspiring! I haven’t posted a UA-cam video in a year and my channel is almost at 30k 🤦🏼♀️ it’s like I can’t even get past the channel art. I made 6 different ones, ended up, not liking any of them, but it was honestly me worried what everyone would think.
I so much needed this! I want to start on Instagram but I'm afraid of what people will say, especially my friends. This video is what i needed to hear. Thank you so much.
PREACH!! Omg I needed to hear this! I swear this message was like a gift from God. You have no idea how helpful this was for me!!!! Thank you so much!
3:00, so what do you do when it isn't anxiety or paranoia and people really do say nasty things about you behind your back. I'm not even egotistical, i didn't think i was noticed at all until i repeatedly overhear people having entire hour long discussions about me. it's crazy. it's like I'm a cancelled celebrity or something and they're all gossiping about me and i have to sit and hear it and it hurts. i don't know what it is about me, but people are obsessed with talking about me, my appearance, my personality, little insignificant things i say and do. they spend more time watching and chatting shit about me that acc speaking to me and being open minded to accepting me and giving me a chance or the benefit of the doubt.
Wowww I need this so much, perfect timing 🫶🏼
I can officially say I’ve over come this and it feels great to move past a certain area in your life you’ve been working on for a long time.
PERFECT timing, needed this reminder to keep creating :) thank you Bria
Book reccos that have helped me realize that i matter most in my reality:
For beginners: jen sincero you are a badass, mark manson the subtle art of not giving a fk,
Medium: michael singers untethered soul, eckhart tolle a new earth, ichiro kishimi/fumitake koga the courage to be disliked
Advanced: carolyn elliot existential kink, david cameron gikandi a happy pocket full of money
A book I’ve started reading that I think definitely fits this topic “The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson”
Thank you, Bria. As someone who's setting up my very first UA-cam, it's a nice reminder. Right now, I'm so caught up in the content that I want to post that the fear of being hated on is not even a thought in my mind so I definitely need to revisit this over and over when I do start posting and gaining feedback lol.
You and that pillow 🤣😂🥰😊 I love it. I look forward to the pillow walk/talk lolololol
Please make a video on how to keep your energy going when you see and feel people tapping into your energy. Because I see you have that energy even tho I am tapping into it .
Bria, you are one powerful motherf*cker and I couldn’t be more of a fan of you. rock on girl. 💗
you always show up in time. I am the sauce! Thanks for the reminder
Also can you do a hair tutorial: like the care of it, the treatments
I have been dealing with this so much lately and I finally have just stepped back and took alone time and I honestly feel so much happier and confident!!! Your channel has changed my life ❤
Very relatable. Thanks!
I needed this
thanks bria! also suggest any mel robbins "let them" content. it aligns with these tips as well
You are very wise! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience, i needed to hear this. Your videos have helped me get out of a funk and stay on track with manifesting my dream reality 🙏💜
I’m so glad I came across your channel while trying to grow mine. This is so motivating for me. I’m always too worried about what other people think, more so family and friends from my childhood. I know I shouldn’t care, but I do! Im going to block all of em, and keep it moving! 😂
Honestly, I love her so much @BriaJones. Thank you for being a part of my growth journey, as I embrace the present, let go of the past, and be grateful for the future. #onelifetolive
A video needed to be heard days after days 🔥 thank you so much
Bestie B dropping the freaking gold in this one 💜💙💜
Such an amazing person! Thank you for your inspiring videos and understanding the small things that no one talks about 💜 another day, another positively mentally reprogramming video x keep going!
All you need is love Bria - thanks for the reminder! Please drop a link to your recommended book in a pinned comment or description too and congrats on your audible partnership. Love your channel! ❤
Thank you for this video Bria!! I needed to hear this. For me it’s part of self sabotage which I’m working on stopping it because I got things to create ❤
Thank you Bria😢🥺❤️
I need this at this moment.Thank u so much
To God be the Glory, who God bless no man curse
just discoverd your channel last week
I really needed to hear this, thank you so much
Thank you
When I tell u this was so needed
Thank you for sharing your amazing loving energy with us 💖 will you continue your podcast?
Thanks for coming on here speaking truth ! Yes yes yes ❤
that “unlimited baby!” has sound potential 😂
I love the title! Tuning in.
Cool video, very well explained. Must of us struggle with this topic.
Thank you Bria ❤ it’s been hard to upload this week , this is encouraging ❤
Girl you need to stop making these videos just for me 😅.. I’m watching all this tomorrow! This one looks like another gem 💎
I need to binge watch all your videos! 🥰👊
I love this. It aligns with my Christian values
Your videos have reallyyy been resonating with me lately. Thank you!
I needed this. Why do I care😭 it’s killing my blog and my want to do my UA-cam channel 😭 thank you for this video 🤍
Girl, I needed this. You are so right in many ways! Thanks girl! 🤍
Very well presented Bria 👍😉
Much love 💕
Matthias👋
Wise words.
I needed to hear this ❤thank you
I truly needed this 💜😮💨
Bestie b always giving the best ❤❤
Thank you for this video 🤍
Thank youuu I needed to see this!
All I can say is.... I love you!💕
never been this early to ANY video lol hey Bria!
Bria thank you sooo much! I really needed to hear this.❤
amazing video. needed this
No lies told💯🎯Does anybody know why she got cancelled❓👀
Yesss babe ! Love this!!!!!🎉
Real talk
The pep talk i needed ❤
wow ure so real i love all ur vids
Uuuuuuuummmmmm YOUR SKIN IS FLAWLESS BESTIEE
Thank you, needed this!💖