you're self-sabotaging by procrastinating...so don't put this video off

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @laikacons
    @laikacons Рік тому +98

    Y’all don’t procrastinate! Start that book. Start that UA-cam channel. Just start whatever you want to do and build on it

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Рік тому +1

      This comment is pure motivation.

    • @nickybeautyy
      @nickybeautyy Рік тому +1

      I just recently started taking my channel seriously.. I’ve put it off wayy too long, but I’m glad that I’m doing it. This video definitely came at the right time.

  • @glowllama
    @glowllama Рік тому +31

    I have problems with perfectionism, the overwhelm, and the lack of structure. I also get distracted very easily. Im trying to figure out how to make a Schedule and to do list and not be so anxious all the time. but because of things in my life, Its difficult.
    Tho, i know the reason why the walk pad helps you Concentrate! It gives you an outlet for extra energy, helping you relax so you can focus on what you are doing. Its how figet toys work and is why some people constantly click a pen or tap their leg when working at a desk.

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Рік тому +2

      that makes a ton of sense!

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Рік тому +1

      I appreciate your insights! You're absolutely right about the benefits of having an outlet for extra energy. Finding a way to manage perfectionism, overwhelm, and lack of structure can indeed be challenging, but taking small steps and experimenting with schedules and to-do lists is a great start. Thanks for sharing!

  • @irasjewelry
    @irasjewelry Рік тому +57

    Absolutely true, I tend to procrastinate so much because I worry I will fail. It's time to make that habit change and do better for my own life overall. ❤

    • @deedeesaidso5910
      @deedeesaidso5910 Рік тому +2

      You can do it!

    • @irasjewelry
      @irasjewelry Рік тому +2

      @@deedeesaidso5910 thank you

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Рік тому +1

      You've got this! The fear of failure can be paralysing, but it's also a natural part of growth. Embrace those moments as opportunities to learn and improve. Your determination to make positive changes is already a big step in the right direction. Keep pushing forward, and you'll achieve great things for your life! All the best to you! 💙✨

  • @jounerie_
    @jounerie_ Рік тому +28

    Bria , i just wanna let you know that you are like the big sister i don't have 😭. thank you so so much 💗

  • @vishakhasingh5295
    @vishakhasingh5295 Рік тому +7

    i am a compsci major and i feel like i will fail at everything, so i sleep, i watch yt/prime/Disney and just not do things. this video speaks to me

    • @deedeesaidso5910
      @deedeesaidso5910 Рік тому

      😥

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Рік тому +3

      you gotta believe in yourself before anyone. You're so capable. Get up and at it!

  • @monee04
    @monee04 Рік тому +2

    Wow! Same for me! Driving longest distances, more so on the freeway, freaks me out now. I’ve been driving forever & I hate this feeling 😢

  • @theluschmasterinc
    @theluschmasterinc Рік тому +4

    Procrastination can feel like a harmless delay, but it often turns into self-sabotage. Let's all take a step forward today, tackle those tasks, and start moving towards our goals!

  • @positivelypurposeful8522
    @positivelypurposeful8522 Рік тому +55

    I just want to say, thank you so much for these videos. I am an anxious girly and these videos help more than you know. Also, I am glad to know that you are feeling better. Have an awesome day!

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Рік тому +2

      I'm so happy these are helpful!

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Рік тому +2

      Remember, you're not alone in your feelings, and it's okay to have ups and downs. Wishing you a fantastic weekend 💙✨

  • @shmirjackson2323
    @shmirjackson2323 Рік тому +8

    Girllll your hair is giving what is supposed to give🔥it looks gorgeous❤️

  • @lightlawliet3526
    @lightlawliet3526 Рік тому +2

    i live in an extremely unhealthy environment. doing nothing even tho i made plans i just stay in bed all day. not get out of the room much. but it’s making things harder and harder instead as that defence mechanism is not really working. also having no energy doesn’t help either.

  • @deedeesaidso5910
    @deedeesaidso5910 Рік тому +5

    Yes come thru psychology major. Learning to enjoy the journey is my mindset. When it comes to youtube, I have the subscribers count but i don’t have the watch time, and i’m trying to give myself grace that my time will come when it’s my time. Time management skills i learned that when i planned out my weeks on Sundays the week went a little bit smoother opposed to me just going with the flow. I always say I wish I had a team, but I have to start with me, and the team will come.
    Side note: Look for plans to move to Texas to be Bria’s assistant lol. Hair and makeup is freaking awesome btw

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Рік тому +1

      yes! you will absolutely get there, no doubt about it!

  • @KayBassie
    @KayBassie Рік тому +5

    Appreciated this video. Yeah procrastination is my kryptonite. What gets me is I procrastinate a little bit and then when I get into the zone of getting work done something always happens that prolongs me getting into a productive state.. I live with family members so theres more distraction actions around me *sighs* constant battle. For example, today I had my set To Dos planned out, then all of that went out the window cause as soon as I woke up I had to tend to family stuff (not planned for today) that have to get done. But I'm learning to Just Do It when I I have the time, and not put things off. Cause other roadblockks will occur.

  • @faa1412
    @faa1412 Рік тому +1

    So glad this popped up on my feed! I need this reminder as the new week and new month start. I recently got into Anime (still can't believe it lol) and am watching a series called Demon Slayer (English voice-over version). In one episode, one of the slayers talked about how time will not patiently wait as you grieve, procrastinate, etc. because time waits for no one. Even if you feel scared, disappointed, or discouraged, keep going and "set your heart ablaze." That speech hit me, because just the other day, I said to myself "Whether I decide to do it or not, time will keep going." We can procrastinate out of fear, laziness, etc. all we want, but time will keep going. And then it really hit too when I came across a video about people in their 40s who feel like failures and I said to myself, I really don't want that to be mebut at the rate Im going, that could end up being me too.
    We have 4 months left to 2024, let's set our hearts ablaze!

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Рік тому

      Oh, I'm 30 already there smdh... and I'd be considered "successful" by others on the surface

  • @EmpressChanelle
    @EmpressChanelle Рік тому +8

    All I’m trying to do is being more committed to myself and my goals, I’m glad you made this video because I did need to hear this to show up better for myself ❤

  • @cee8226
    @cee8226 Рік тому

    It was a hack for me to list the task for tomorrow so I could get a good night sleep not to worry tomorrow and when I wake up, I am on autopilot with a checklist. All I need to do is breath and move my body without hesitating or second-guessing my actions. There was a study that I read about how time consuming it is to think what we need to do than actually doing it. It opened my mind and used this strategy. So far I am amazed that I have so much time in my hands with this hack :D This small habit helped me pass board exam

  • @DilCardyn
    @DilCardyn Рік тому

    Bria discusses procrastination, its underlying causes (such as fear of failure and perfectionism), and offers solutions like clear goal setting, time management, eliminating distractions, and rewarding progress to overcome it effectively.

  • @simplycolorfull
    @simplycolorfull Рік тому +4

    i hear you bria!!! im coming i promiseeee! tired of procrastinating 😢

  • @brittanyton2555
    @brittanyton2555 Рік тому

    Ah and a "tip" for procrastination I got is more of a mindset change, but I stopped relying on what I'm in the mood for or not, and started doing what would be benefit tomorrow's me. (also great practice for being kind to yourself and building a better relationship with yourself :). I basically started thinking, would it benefit future Britt to do this now? Yes? Okay then let's go because she deserves that and I want to be kind to her!❤
    Hope this helps someone :)

  • @Jahleesa400
    @Jahleesa400 Рік тому +1

    Every time I’m lacking on my college studies here come Bria with a targeted video

  • @TCTALKSTCFITNESS
    @TCTALKSTCFITNESS Рік тому +2

    Keep elevating and evolving ♾️💪🏾 we are all powerful beings fr fr ♾️♾️♾️🧘🏽‍♂️

  • @JordinSolis
    @JordinSolis Рік тому +2

    11:44 ur speaking to my soul 😅😅😅😅 I love this 🤍 keep dropping gems 💎 girly

  • @hallie7256
    @hallie7256 Рік тому

    the title fully called me out🤭, but
    so glad to have found you from tks pod, you’re so well spoken and this is type of content i need to be watching. you’re points about anxiety truly speak to me and make me realize how much i need to intentionally make changes in my life. i’m not sure you already have (and will definitely be watching all your videos), but would love to hear more about how you got over your medication anxiety🫶🏻

  • @simplyshen
    @simplyshen Рік тому +3

    Right on time. Happy Saturday!

  • @BMorgan143
    @BMorgan143 Рік тому +6

    Go off w the consistency B!! ❤ this content is so valuable thank you girl!!

  • @aishaabdulkarimu
    @aishaabdulkarimu Рік тому +2

    Thanks, Bria! Def needed this ♥

  • @calligraphyfairy6693
    @calligraphyfairy6693 Рік тому

    The vibes in the beginning already made me get my ass off the couch 😢 love this content. Slay!! ❤❤❤

  • @Autumnjanedougan
    @Autumnjanedougan Рік тому

    I’ve been struggling a lot with putting things off and this was super helpful! It’s hard when you get in your own way

  • @wonktootie
    @wonktootie 11 місяців тому

    I binged quite a few of your videos today. I just wanna say that a lot of things you discuss in your videos are things I have had to figure out for myself the fun way. It's refreshing to hear some of these things said in different ways than I've thought about them, as well as a bunch of the other things you have learned that I have never thought about. I really agree with your viewpoint on life and I have already managed to get some work done on a project that I've been feeling stuck on. Love your energy and your perspective on life. Thanks Bestie!

  • @kaitlyndenney7779
    @kaitlyndenney7779 Рік тому +1

    I just found this channel and have been binging these pillow talks. They are helping me get my life together!!! 👏

  • @anapoueriet3774
    @anapoueriet3774 Рік тому

    I listened to one of your other videos about making content and I am doing just that. Just putting it out there until I feel comfortable.

  • @naimahfaatin
    @naimahfaatin Рік тому +2

    Thank you, Bria. This is exactly what I needed today. You have a great approach to teaching others how to trust themselves.

  • @YanethGlitter
    @YanethGlitter Рік тому

    This is my number one problem that im working hard on. Ty for all the tips bestie😊

  • @SimplyNaturalCai
    @SimplyNaturalCai Рік тому

    The break down of procrastination is fascinating it’s definitely layered. Love the tips and will def use some!

  • @Varezenmanifests
    @Varezenmanifests Рік тому

    My big issue is ADHD. I've fought this since I was a kid. I won't have health insurance until 2024 so I can't get help for it yet. Right now I use a flourite on my wrist in the meantime and weirdly enough it sorta helps. But that is the underlying cause of my procrastination. I find literally a million other things my brain says it needs to do RIGHT NOW before I can do this other bigger task and sure the other stuff is done but the main thing never gets done. GGGAAAHHHHHHH

  • @simz1e
    @simz1e Рік тому

    Bria honestly you don't know how much I needed to hear this!! Omg your video was gold and I appreciate you

  • @HaiNanaTV
    @HaiNanaTV Рік тому

    I am loving these conversational topics.

  • @shootingstarshelle
    @shootingstarshelle Рік тому +2

    Perfect timing yet again💆🏽‍♀️Let’s get down to it. Thanx Bria❤️🙏🏽

  • @officiallymelvina
    @officiallymelvina Рік тому

    Wow Bria I really appreciate your videos. I was feeling blah before I pressed play but as I watch them you have a way of connecting with your audience no matter what the topic is 🥰

  • @CarolineIsahAlways
    @CarolineIsahAlways Рік тому +369

    I will leave this comment here so that whenever someone likes it.I can come back and watch it 🥴🤣🤣🤣

  • @a.personofficial
    @a.personofficial Рік тому +1

    For monitoring it helped my to make little „vlogs“. Sometimes i film everything i do and take one second of every activity and add it together. It’s no work and i can easily compare what a successful day was for me last month

    • @a.personofficial
      @a.personofficial Рік тому

      If u have apple i recommend the clips app its preinstalled

  • @sharonqui
    @sharonqui 8 місяців тому

    I needed this ! Perfect time . Thank you ❤❤

  • @EvaLi-d1x
    @EvaLi-d1x 8 місяців тому

    OMG Bria how can be so dead-on on so many things!!!! so helpful!

  • @StarAlchemy
    @StarAlchemy Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this. Your videos are always right on time for me. ✨

  • @leahbalman2351
    @leahbalman2351 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this video, I really needed it! It's now a video I watch over and over to give me a kick up the butt! Also your video about not being incompetent! LOVE LOVE LOVE your channel! Keep them comin' XXX

  • @IamTemiGold
    @IamTemiGold Рік тому +1

    I’m here for the scolding girl, you always call me out 😢😢

  • @zanehubbard
    @zanehubbard Рік тому +2

    I love your videos. It’s very inspiring.

  • @mrsaveabuck5969
    @mrsaveabuck5969 Рік тому

    As always you provided some great ideas and suggestions.Thank you!

  • @EMPRESSUDOKA
    @EMPRESSUDOKA Рік тому

    This was a blessing to watch. Thank you 🤍

  • @likeafruitmachine
    @likeafruitmachine Рік тому

    Thank you for this wonderful video! Really needed it 🫶🏼

  • @reina4657
    @reina4657 Рік тому

    I really appreciate your efforts ❤ you’re such a sweetheart

  • @supriyasharma241
    @supriyasharma241 8 місяців тому

    I listened to the title and I’m happy I did ❤

  • @Oneinamillionpod
    @Oneinamillionpod Рік тому

    Thank you for this

  • @misslongino
    @misslongino Рік тому

    love love love! You glow from inside out, my kind of person ❤ Please also tell us about your amazing skin and hair secrets too! Beautiful! Great advice! I am already more motivated by this video alone. ❤ Thank you.

  • @madeleinedawson8539
    @madeleinedawson8539 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this!! I love your videos. So relatable!

  • @Iamnassaya
    @Iamnassaya Рік тому

    We need a hair care routine video please!

  • @skylershanice6735
    @skylershanice6735 Рік тому

    Love you bestie 🫶🏽

  • @deenyables
    @deenyables Рік тому

    I find that making mental list of my list that I write down helps me. If I just keep my mental list I will procrastinate big time. lol😅 great video I never really thought about dealing with procrastination like this I think the things you mention will help me a lot to try and think about. Thank you bestie❤

  • @bethanysworld123
    @bethanysworld123 Рік тому

    Bria I seriously love you!!! I love how insightful you are, your videos have helped me a lot ! 💕💕💕

  • @Mariamox
    @Mariamox Рік тому +1

    this video has given me A LOT to think about haha

  • @deedeesaidso5910
    @deedeesaidso5910 Рік тому +1

    Happy Saturday Bestie B

  • @IseiGuzman
    @IseiGuzman Рік тому +1

    You're absolutely gorgeous! I'd love if you did a video of looking glam on a budget! 🩶

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Рік тому

      beauty/ hair deets will be on my IG:)

  • @f3042
    @f3042 Рік тому

    So helpful! ❤

  • @Danyelletaylor_
    @Danyelletaylor_ Рік тому

    I love this! Thank you so much for the tips🙌🏽

  • @jasabro
    @jasabro Рік тому

    YESSS I BEEN WAITING FOR DIS ONE WOOOO ❤🎉

  • @444.taybae
    @444.taybae Рік тому +2

    Calling me out this early in the morning lmfao

  • @MindsetwithMichelle
    @MindsetwithMichelle Рік тому

    You and your dowg are Pawfect ❤❤❤ loved this video and THANK YOU😍

  • @shykaislam3678
    @shykaislam3678 Рік тому +2

    great video but can we get into the hair 😍😍 amma need a tutorial

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Рік тому

      come over to Ig i got you:)

  • @Emya111
    @Emya111 Рік тому +1

    Another much needed video ! Thank you so much Bria ❤

  • @DivinitytheGenie
    @DivinitytheGenie Рік тому

    Right on time

  • @withlovecole
    @withlovecole Рік тому

    It’s the intro for meee🐶🐾

  • @Eduardo_Music8560
    @Eduardo_Music8560 Рік тому +1

    Hello Bria Jones, good morning 🌄! Good video, good topic. Congratulations for your work you have done on UA-cam. I like to hear your voice, it's very nice 🥰. Have a wonderful weekend, wherever you are! Greetings from Sonora, México 🇲🇽... 👍

  • @abigailflores7364
    @abigailflores7364 Рік тому

    I love this video

  • @TakishaSmith-h8k
    @TakishaSmith-h8k 9 місяців тому

    Bria💕Can you share the links to all the equipment you use to film this video🙏🏾💞

  • @saraittiche
    @saraittiche Рік тому

    thank you so so so much your video inspired me and helped me a lot because I am starting a UA-cam channel and I need to know how can I organize my tasks 💚

  • @DiskJockeyFernyyy
    @DiskJockeyFernyyy Рік тому

    Hair!!!😍

  • @athenapantazes
    @athenapantazes Рік тому +1

    Not me putting this in my watch later 😅 lol only cause I’ve got a big hike to do but best believe I’ll be back ❤ love your videos !

  • @10amxd39
    @10amxd39 Рік тому

    this video seems interesting...i'll watch it later!!😂😂

  • @SGlibra
    @SGlibra Рік тому

    Girlllll!! These chats are always on time! Btw I am in the finance department of a hospital but am such a creative person, so I totally get it.
    Every point of this video applies to me. I appreciate your channel so much. It reminds me, I’m not alone in all this.❤

  • @cherilvr
    @cherilvr Рік тому +1

    Me seeing this video after I said “just a two minute break” and ignoring the video I’m editing🥲😭

    • @BriaJones
      @BriaJones  Рік тому +1

      lmao, breaks are good tho!

  • @nzuzothwala9683
    @nzuzothwala9683 Рік тому

    Girl??? 😑 I heard you. Let's get this last 6 months 🕯️

  • @l3ui909
    @l3ui909 Рік тому

    I came here to comment “saves to watch later” but I guess we’re here now 😂

  • @FullyLovingYourself
    @FullyLovingYourself Рік тому

    Okay don’t yell at me Bria 😅

  • @Rejoicealexm
    @Rejoicealexm Рік тому

    I hate commenting lol but I'll comment on all your videos henceforth. Cause I love you ❤️ and that's the only way I can show my support. And your contents have really been helpful to me ❤❤

  • @BRIAN_VLOGS01
    @BRIAN_VLOGS01 Рік тому

    New subscriber from Africa Kenya 😊... I'm a younger creator leaning from creators videos though I'm into Vlogging ❤❤

  • @Itssimplyaisha
    @Itssimplyaisha Рік тому

    I love youuuu❤❤❤

  • @3RINN_06
    @3RINN_06 Рік тому

    ATTENTION! This is off topic and far more important than anything you could ever hear. That is the calling out of God right now, thru the gospel of Jesus Christ. Jesus died for your sins! Not just so you can forget about him and live life being your own god, but he lived a sinless life, died a brutal death that you deserved bc of ur sin, and raised from the dead to give you eternal life! He gave you the right to become children of GOD, if only you accepted him! John chp 1! If your reading this it’s bc Gods calling out to you. His voice is subtle and gentle thru small things like this. He is not mad at you. He is rich in grace and mercy. All you have to do is repent and give him your YES! seek relationship with him!

  • @JordinSolis
    @JordinSolis Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @susieqmakeup6083
    @susieqmakeup6083 Рік тому

    Prayer 🙏 😂 😘

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 Рік тому

    🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾

  • @1nicolethebest
    @1nicolethebest Рік тому +4

    Lol… Bria… you calling me out dude
    Btw your hair is hairing

  • @gamingwivmystdays
    @gamingwivmystdays Рік тому

    W video

  • @SoniaYasmine-g6y
    @SoniaYasmine-g6y 10 місяців тому

    :*

  • @toziamutambo1883
    @toziamutambo1883 Рік тому

    Go touch grass 🎉🎉 #felt

  • @yougetaspear7799
    @yougetaspear7799 Рік тому

    Hey can I 😝😛that🐟🐟boo

  • @borednow
    @borednow Рік тому

    the constant zooming in out is super annoying to watch and it is giving me motion sickness to watch you

  • @brittanyton2555
    @brittanyton2555 Рік тому

    "Go touch grass" - Bria Jones, 2023🤍

  • @britneyford
    @britneyford Рік тому

    Getting started back on UA-cam & new to Tiktok. Trying to stay patient and not procrastinate due to fear of failure 🩵 appreciate the advice

  • @rebeccagrace1509
    @rebeccagrace1509 Рік тому +1

    🙏🏾🤍🌌