GIRL I needed to hear this 😂 as a type A controlling gal I’m currently learning to let go and let God. It’s not easy, but like you mentioned..when you accept that everything will work out and actually have faith in that, it’s easier to have some fun and open up to opportunity. Thank you for your content 🧡
After watching your video, I came across a monologue by an author and speaker named Alan Watts, and I found a really cool quote of his after reading some of his work: "Now, if you breathe in and hold it, you lose your breath. But if you breathe out, it comes back to you." I find this to be another useful analogy, like your Drive-Thru example. I think it really captures how letting things unfold as they should is the way to go in order to thrive and become your best self. What you want really will find you in perfect timing!
When I tell you, I HEAR you when you say there are people who try to project their stuff on to you. I deal with that on the daily and it is a struggle! But I am so here to thank you for this awesome message, and hopefully, I can help uplift others as well!
Absolutely love this message. I just watched my church sermon, Decisions, Decisions, Decisions. All I can say is that message and your message intertwined. 😊 Thank you for your message.
Hi! I love when you say ‘none of us is going to make it out of here alive, lets have fun!’ Is such a spot on point for me who’s struggling with pressuring myself too hard lately😂 Thank you!❤
So true! Sometimes, we get so caught up in doing everything and anything to reach our goals that we end up overwhelming ourselves. It's essential to find that balance between taking action and allowing things to flow naturally.
I'm so glad I found your channel because I'm at a low low point right now. I'm 3 months post-partum and I targeted that I will have a job by this time. It's been 1 year I've been looking for a job after I finished my MBA. I have 7 years of experience in Sales & Marketing but no company wants me even an initial interview. I knew the law of attraction for a decade already but it's very easy to forget and sometimes reminders like this is all we need. ❤
It's really no coincidence that you do what you do Bria thank you soo much for sharing all of this you're literally helping us break generational curses and struggles. A true Heaven Sent❤
I have a fun example of this from my friend. She really wanted a serious relationship, and she kept having her heart broken. So she said "f- it, I'm gonna just sleep around and have fun." Literally the first guy she met was The One. Her sleep around era ended on guy one, because he was Mr. Right. A few years later, they are now happily married. Honestly, good for her, I am so proud of her! 💙 But it just goes to show what can happen when you let go of expectations
"We are friends now" You said and I quote. With a big smile on your face feeling graceful after been interviewed by Steven at the recent UA-cam event. Your down to earth lifestyle is a thing of admiration. I am a new subscriber. 🎉
It was less than month ago I realized that I was carrying this story - that everything needed to be hard, or I did not deserve it )) Of course you need to act, you don't just sit around and wait, but it really shouldn't be as hard as we are taught to believe. This is exactly what I'm working on now and I don't think this video popped up for no good reason. I hear you, Universe! And thank you, girl, I just subscribed ^^
Thanks for sharing this. The struggle part is soo true.I’ve felt it myself too , some people I’d share my experiences would take it in the wrong way , and I was too naive to realize that they are just jealous
Letting go of forcing things or a specific kind of process truly helped me open up about the idea that things can come easily. When the process feels easy, you are more likely to move towards the believe that things can come easy to you. Cause you are already experiencing ease
This touched me! On my own creator journey now, and things are just starting to… happen. Ya girl been listening to The Daily Stoic on Audible and watching yours and other successful creators’ vids, and… dare I say… my vibes are soooo freakin high right now! 💪🏾💖 My husband and I legit looked at one another like, “Babe! Did we MAKE this happen?? Did we just say it, and got what we said??? 👀 👀” I don’t why it feels like such a wild concept, but I’m looking forward to meditating and praying that ish away, because I’m here for all the things. All 👏🏾 of 👏🏾 them! 👏🏾 Thank you so much for your consistency and your spirit. 🤗💖
Gurl!!! You are helpin me break patterns every week. Thank you for really doing the work for yourself and sharing all you tips and encouragement! You are amazing boo. Lately every Saturday has been my favorite day of the week because of the jewels you’ve been droppin. Again thank you!!! I’ve needed to talk about this for a very long time.
I really needed to hear this fr!!!! I tapped into the whole positive energy and it’s totally okay to want the soft life. Henceforth I’ll let go and let God!!! Love youuuu❤❤
Exactly and also all the motivation videos that are glorifying isolating yourself completely to work on yourself and invest in yourself aka ghost mode for at least 6 months First i found it really interesting and tried my best to do it in my exam year. Turned out it made me very antisocial and i sabotaged my own self by trying to fit in people’s definition of success. It made me mentally miserable and unsuccessful. I think BALANCE is the key word. Like you said no need to be that dramatic in real life.
This. All of this. Every single bit of this. In my 30s, im leaving atruggle behind. People judge me for it, but there are so many possibilities out there.
❤Wow I really needed this video I often times step in my own way and “wear my struggle like a badge of honor” lol 😂I am going to have fun starting now thx Bria❤
Bria Bestie! I literally needed this video in this exact moment. Everything you said is 💯! I have a decision to make and am stressed…perfectionist/A-type right here🙋🏽♀️. But because of your video, I’m going to just relax, have some fun and faith. THANK YOU❣️.
Omg thank you so much for this video, I definitely needed to hear this. I was just telling myself I’m turning 30 next year & im ready to step into my new reality with a new mindset ✨
Bria, will you ever upload your stuff on Spotify like a podcast cause its this cool feature on my phone that allows you to link to your Spotify and use it as an alarm. If i could here you yell at me in the morning, it would help me get out of the bed 😭
How do you believe you're worthy of a life of ease? I've tried affirming and it's helped, but I still have a hard time letting go of that thought that says I'm not worthy
Thankyou Thankyou thankyou for this video ! I was scared to start my UA-cam channel, scared of people not liking my videos 🥹and I’ve been delaying it for months now Tomorrow I’m recording my first video fuck it 😂🫶🏽
As I was sitting here biting my nails desperate for something I want to happen… this is exactly what I needed to see. Living in FLOW! Yessss you ate that 😂👏🏽
Walk by faith not by sight. God created us to lean on his own understanding not ours, once you do that the blessings will automatically flow. Also there’s power in the tongue so whatever you speak on yourself and your life it is bound to happen, this is why Jesus tells us to be careful with what we say.
As a Black woman with an adult ADHD diagnosis, I've been using the time to understand my neurodivergence. If I'm too receptive to what's out there, I get overwhelmed & suffer sensory overload/ get burned out. But I'm a very interested person _(compared to most people)_ & have servant leader/ stewardship tendencies. So it's been a hard battle. I'm OK with working 40 hrs if that's it & I'm paid for the value I'm bringing. I've tried many jobs. After my startup experience & years of contractor work, I'm absolutely not trying to be an entrepreneur. Tried out the office environment & I do okay until it eventually burns me out. Might be toxic lol but I have to have a job with direct benefit (eg. essential workers)._ So teaching during lockdown showed me that I have to work a career whereby the world gets more chaotic/ stops if my job doesn't exist. World runs on worker labor & I loved being a worker _(currently in grad school but I'm hoping to return)._ What I hated most were the entitlement & unfair expectations though.
Everything you’re saying is literally what I’ve just done. Gave up making it so difficult for myself, asked the universe for what I want and left it. Just wanting to have fun now! Thanks B!!
I've somehow been hearing this a lot lately, that that we don't HAVE to struggle to get what we want, and I'm trying my best to teach myself that it's not simply some kind of 'escapism' because of what I was taught my whole life, but simply a different way of life. I'm gonna try and have fun while trying my best because that's all we can really do, and not guilt myself over it! Been on a bit of an action paralysis lately and I feel this video was a sign to get a move on. Thank you so much for sharing this, only recently discovered you but I love your videos and how real and simple you keep it!
GIRL YESSSS!! I am in the same boat! I just turned 29 and made a whole ass list of how I am closing out my 20's with a bang and focusing on prioritizing fun for the first time in my life!!! So if this aint a sign I don't know what is! The grind aint for me anymore, no thank youuuuu!!!
Hey Bria, I’ve been watching your content since I had a few hundred subscribers on my channel and I’ve recently grown to 23k+. ✨ Having bestie B in my ear mentoring me through the wild ride of UA-cam has been a huge factor in getting me to where I am now. And this is just the beginning. Thanks for your content / wisdom / badass vibes. 🙏✨ excited to keep snacking on allll your content
I turn 20 next month and I was feeling some anxiety around it, but the other day I was thinking of how to reframe the narrative around it. Your videos have been a big help to me Bria! This year I’ve been trying to lean more into ease and flow, the journey has been up down right left and center. My biggest takeaway so far has been to be unserious and enjoy myself because… why shouldn’t I enjoy myself? Thanks for reaffirming this for me, it can be rough out here when everyone around you is an advocate for the struggle/hustle/bustle when really I don’t believe that I (or anyone) was put on this Earth to be in a constant state of stress and forcefulness (been there, done that). You’re a really great mentor, I feel like I can relate to you a lot and I love seeing your success. Congrats on 300k girlie :)) 🎉
I'm really having a hard time believing in my worth/deservingness, even though I know everything I want to do is good. I'm a homeless student and help with first aid and medical resource navigation for my unhoused peers, and I finally got a fundraiser going recently so that I'm not always trying to carry it all by myself, but it's still hard to keep pushing and asking and feeling worthy-of-receiving after my initial "WHOO I MADE THE FUNDRAISER" burst. Maintaining this kind of faith in the universe is really hard when you're always struggling to make it from day to day. Idk where I'm going with this, just venting I guess since this feels audience like a safe environment with people who understand that struggles don't go away overnight just because you hone your mindset. Growth out of discouragement isn't a straight line. Keep hanging in there everyone 💚
Honestly, I've been the one to think out my entire 50-year plan 😂 but I restricted myself to the point I had to ignore that plan and just go where my inner response wanted me to go and I'm still not there yet but the more I listen to my body than my mind, I feel really really good. Now, the goal is to maintain it consistently 😅😅
300k up next! Goals af 💕💕💕🫶🏽✨
This was the comment that made me realize I wasn’t subscribed. Thanks y’all!
Right! I need to get on her level lol. I’m trying
@@Bloom2Grow me too girl!! ✨
Congrats on 300k!!!💕🥳🥂
Loved this video! I was literally going through this rn.
GIRL I needed to hear this 😂 as a type A controlling gal I’m currently learning to let go and let God. It’s not easy, but like you mentioned..when you accept that everything will work out and actually have faith in that, it’s easier to have some fun and open up to opportunity. Thank you for your content 🧡
You got this!
After watching your video, I came across a monologue by an author and speaker named Alan Watts, and I found a really cool quote of his after reading some of his work: "Now, if you breathe in and hold it, you lose your breath. But if you breathe out, it comes back to you." I find this to be another useful analogy, like your Drive-Thru example. I think it really captures how letting things unfold as they should is the way to go in order to thrive and become your best self. What you want really will find you in perfect timing!
When I tell you, I HEAR you when you say there are people who try to project their stuff on to you. I deal with that on the daily and it is a struggle! But I am so here to thank you for this awesome message, and hopefully, I can help uplift others as well!
Absolutely love this message. I just watched my church sermon, Decisions, Decisions, Decisions. All I can say is that message and your message intertwined. 😊 Thank you for your message.
Such a great message! I’ve been trying to live and let God. This was a needed reminder today
Hi! I love when you say ‘none of us is going to make it out of here alive, lets have fun!’ Is such a spot on point for me who’s struggling with pressuring myself too hard lately😂 Thank you!❤
Dittoo
So true! Sometimes, we get so caught up in doing everything and anything to reach our goals that we end up overwhelming ourselves. It's essential to find that balance between taking action and allowing things to flow naturally.
I'm so glad I found your channel because I'm at a low low point right now. I'm 3 months post-partum and I targeted that I will have a job by this time. It's been 1 year I've been looking for a job after I finished my MBA. I have 7 years of experience in Sales & Marketing but no company wants me even an initial interview. I knew the law of attraction for a decade already but it's very easy to forget and sometimes reminders like this is all we need. ❤
It's really no coincidence that you do what you do Bria thank you soo much for sharing all of this you're literally helping us break generational curses and struggles. A true Heaven Sent❤
I have a fun example of this from my friend.
She really wanted a serious relationship, and she kept having her heart broken. So she said "f- it, I'm gonna just sleep around and have fun."
Literally the first guy she met was The One. Her sleep around era ended on guy one, because he was Mr. Right. A few years later, they are now happily married.
Honestly, good for her, I am so proud of her! 💙 But it just goes to show what can happen when you let go of expectations
"We are friends now" You said and I quote. With a big smile on your face feeling graceful after been interviewed by Steven at the recent UA-cam event. Your down to earth lifestyle is a thing of admiration. I am a new subscriber. 🎉
Bria is such a good speaker. Love your confidence ❤️🥺
It was less than month ago I realized that I was carrying this story - that everything needed to be hard, or I did not deserve it ))
Of course you need to act, you don't just sit around and wait, but it really shouldn't be as hard as we are taught to believe.
This is exactly what I'm working on now and I don't think this video popped up for no good reason. I hear you, Universe!
And thank you, girl, I just subscribed ^^
Thanks for sharing this. The struggle part is soo true.I’ve felt it myself too , some people I’d share my experiences would take it in the wrong way , and I was too naive to realize that they are just jealous
the drive thru analogy is SO good! wow!
Letting go of forcing things or a specific kind of process truly helped me open up about the idea that things can come easily.
When the process feels easy, you are more likely to move towards the believe that things can come easy to you.
Cause you are already experiencing ease
I started finally! Thanks to all the influencers that say just do it! Love you guys. It’s not perfect, but it’s a start. ❤
This touched me! On my own creator journey now, and things are just starting to… happen. Ya girl been listening to The Daily Stoic on Audible and watching yours and other successful creators’ vids, and… dare I say… my vibes are soooo freakin high right now! 💪🏾💖 My husband and I legit looked at one another like, “Babe! Did we MAKE this happen?? Did we just say it, and got what we said??? 👀 👀”
I don’t why it feels like such a wild concept, but I’m looking forward to meditating and praying that ish away, because I’m here for all the things. All 👏🏾 of 👏🏾 them! 👏🏾
Thank you so much for your consistency and your spirit. 🤗💖
This is exactly what I needed to hear! Thank You Bria 🤍
Gurl!!! You are helpin me break patterns every week.
Thank you for really doing the work for yourself and sharing all you tips and encouragement! You are amazing boo. Lately every Saturday has been my favorite day of the week because of the jewels you’ve been droppin. Again thank you!!! I’ve needed to talk about this for a very long time.
I LOVED the way you explained things and the amazing vibe you have 💖
this video was SIMPLY life changing for me !! Thank you bestie
I really needed to hear this fr!!!! I tapped into the whole positive energy and it’s totally okay to want the soft life. Henceforth I’ll let go and let God!!! Love youuuu❤❤
wow EXACTLY what i needed to hear today! and you say it so well.
Girl.. I am from pittsburgh and the fact you did this in a Jerome Jersey just made you my absolute fav of all time 😂❤❤❤
Exactly and also all the motivation videos that are glorifying isolating yourself completely to work on yourself and invest in yourself aka ghost mode for at least 6 months First i found it really interesting and tried my best to do it in my exam year. Turned out it made me very antisocial and i sabotaged my own self by trying to fit in people’s definition of success. It made me mentally miserable and unsuccessful. I think BALANCE is the key word. Like you said no need to be that dramatic in real life.
Exactly unless you have a toxic group of friends that’s is never necessary!
Hearing this really helped me, thank you so much Bria ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you, much needed.Definitely needed to hear this and i loved the Drive thru!
This. All of this. Every single bit of this. In my 30s, im leaving atruggle behind. People judge me for it, but there are so many possibilities out there.
The God dialogues cracked me up 🤣👏👏
Really needed to hear this💙 thank you so much !
Yesss sis! 👏🏾💕🌻 going with the flow is always a go.
Yes! Gems were dropped in this video!
OMG I just found your account and am OBSESSED with your videos now!!!
Thank you for this message so needed! And that story from that creator I was amazed when she told it ❤ keeping the energy high.
Such a cool story!!
Thank you! I needed to hear this🧡💛❤
Girl your videos are amazing and super helpful but I think this is your best video
When she said she ate this video. And she did!!!! ❤ I LOVE U B💓💓💓
❤Wow I really needed this video I often times step in my own way and “wear my struggle like a badge of honor” lol 😂I am going to have fun starting now thx Bria❤
thank you bria
Love your advice Bria! 🩷
Bria Bestie! I literally needed this video in this exact moment. Everything you said is 💯!
I have a decision to make and am stressed…perfectionist/A-type right here🙋🏽♀️. But because of your video, I’m going to just relax, have some fun and faith. THANK YOU❣️.
I neededdd to hear thiss !! Thank you bria 💖💜
As a self proclaimed type A personality type, this was the medicine I needed. No need to glorify the struggle anymore. Thank you!!
You always say what I need to hear, Bria! Thank you!
You look so cute in this jersey! 🤍
oh thank you bb!
This came at the right time ❤
I loved your drive-through analogy!
Omg thank you so much for this video, I definitely needed to hear this. I was just telling myself I’m turning 30 next year & im ready to step into my new reality with a new mindset ✨
Let go let it flowww 🌊
Thank you so much 😊
Thanks for the reminder babe. Love the Steelers jersey! 😊😊❤
I feel like, aside from UA-cam, you should have been a preacher!!! 😂🤣😂🤣 girl that was a WORD!!! I needed that! Thank you so much ❤
Thanks Bria
The video that I needed to hear!
you’re a DREAM !!! thank you for this amazing video :)
Loveee and needed this 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🥳!!
Best Bestie Ever!☺ Never disappoints💕
Great video.... respectfully 😂 thank you for this!
Amazingly said ❤
Bria, will you ever upload your stuff on Spotify like a podcast cause its this cool feature on my phone that allows you to link to your Spotify and use it as an alarm. If i could here you yell at me in the morning, it would help me get out of the bed 😭
True ❤
Needed this sm ❤❤
How do you believe you're worthy of a life of ease? I've tried affirming and it's helped, but I still have a hard time letting go of that thought that says I'm not worthy
Hay universe, placing my order in the drive-thruuuuu ✨
Facts 💯
Gurrrrl ur amazing where were u when i was lookin for such content
I love this💜💜💜💜💜💜 I hear all this. Thank you
Mannn ima panthers fan we have to have a talk about the steelers! And love the content! Keep going🙌🏼💫
Facts
Word...
Loveeee the consistency 😍😍😍🥳🥳🥳 great video love you so much 🎉❤
Can you do something about loneliness ? How to get out of it ? I’m struggling really hard
Thankyou Thankyou thankyou for this video ! I was scared to start my UA-cam channel, scared of people not liking my videos 🥹and I’ve been delaying it for months now Tomorrow I’m recording my first video fuck it 😂🫶🏽
BRIA🎉🎉🎉 You are Dynamite 💖 Thank you for your influence. My Fav🎉❤
Thank you sharing
Stillers jersey >>>>
Bria, what microphone do you use?
Thank you for this 🥹🫶🏾
Oof! Needed to hear this! God can handle my order, I don't need to second-guess what I asked for! 🙏🏾
Looooovvvee this video!!! Totally thought you were my age tho
As I was sitting here biting my nails desperate for something I want to happen… this is exactly what I needed to see. Living in FLOW! Yessss you ate that 😂👏🏽
I clicked because you have on a steeler jersey and i’m from pittsburgh hey girl!
Walk by faith not by sight. God created us to lean on his own understanding not ours, once you do that the blessings will automatically flow. Also there’s power in the tongue so whatever you speak on yourself and your life it is bound to happen, this is why Jesus tells us to be careful with what we say.
I loved this video🎉🎉🎉
So glad you did this! I needed to hear it!
You just gave us an early 🍠🍛THANKSGIVING🥬🦃 forget the plate you put your foot into this one lol💙💜💙 your videos are always on time 27:32
This was super lit. Do people still say that xD. Bria youre the best energy girl.
As a Black woman with an adult ADHD diagnosis, I've been using the time to understand my neurodivergence. If I'm too receptive to what's out there, I get overwhelmed & suffer sensory overload/ get burned out. But I'm a very interested person _(compared to most people)_ & have servant leader/ stewardship tendencies. So it's been a hard battle.
I'm OK with working 40 hrs if that's it & I'm paid for the value I'm bringing. I've tried many jobs. After my startup experience & years of contractor work, I'm absolutely not trying to be an entrepreneur. Tried out the office environment & I do okay until it eventually burns me out. Might be toxic lol but I have to have a job with direct benefit (eg. essential workers)._
So teaching during lockdown showed me that I have to work a career whereby the world gets more chaotic/ stops if my job doesn't exist. World runs on worker labor & I loved being a worker _(currently in grad school but I'm hoping to return)._ What I hated most were the entitlement & unfair expectations though.
Everything you’re saying is literally what I’ve just done. Gave up making it so difficult for myself, asked the universe for what I want and left it. Just wanting to have fun now! Thanks B!!
🙌🏻
I've somehow been hearing this a lot lately, that that we don't HAVE to struggle to get what we want, and I'm trying my best to teach myself that it's not simply some kind of 'escapism' because of what I was taught my whole life, but simply a different way of life. I'm gonna try and have fun while trying my best because that's all we can really do, and not guilt myself over it! Been on a bit of an action paralysis lately and I feel this video was a sign to get a move on. Thank you so much for sharing this, only recently discovered you but I love your videos and how real and simple you keep it!
GIRL YESSSS!! I am in the same boat! I just turned 29 and made a whole ass list of how I am closing out my 20's with a bang and focusing on prioritizing fun for the first time in my life!!! So if this aint a sign I don't know what is! The grind aint for me anymore, no thank youuuuu!!!
Hey Bria, I’ve been watching your content since I had a few hundred subscribers on my channel and I’ve recently grown to 23k+. ✨ Having bestie B in my ear mentoring me through the wild ride of UA-cam has been a huge factor in getting me to where I am now. And this is just the beginning.
Thanks for your content / wisdom / badass vibes. 🙏✨ excited to keep snacking on allll your content
I turn 20 next month and I was feeling some anxiety around it, but the other day I was thinking of how to reframe the narrative around it. Your videos have been a big help to me Bria! This year I’ve been trying to lean more into ease and flow, the journey has been up down right left and center. My biggest takeaway so far has been to be unserious and enjoy myself because… why shouldn’t I enjoy myself? Thanks for reaffirming this for me, it can be rough out here when everyone around you is an advocate for the struggle/hustle/bustle when really I don’t believe that I (or anyone) was put on this Earth to be in a constant state of stress and forcefulness (been there, done that). You’re a really great mentor, I feel like I can relate to you a lot and I love seeing your success. Congrats on 300k girlie :)) 🎉
Thanks Bria! You’re awesome 😊🫶🏽
Loved this one Bria!! Perfect timing 🦋
I'm really having a hard time believing in my worth/deservingness, even though I know everything I want to do is good. I'm a homeless student and help with first aid and medical resource navigation for my unhoused peers, and I finally got a fundraiser going recently so that I'm not always trying to carry it all by myself, but it's still hard to keep pushing and asking and feeling worthy-of-receiving after my initial "WHOO I MADE THE FUNDRAISER" burst. Maintaining this kind of faith in the universe is really hard when you're always struggling to make it from day to day. Idk where I'm going with this, just venting I guess since this feels audience like a safe environment with people who understand that struggles don't go away overnight just because you hone your mindset. Growth out of discouragement isn't a straight line. Keep hanging in there everyone 💚
Good morning Bria happy Saturday morning and happy weekend and happy fall day vlogs and I enjoy your channel because you are amazing
Honestly, I've been the one to think out my entire 50-year plan 😂 but I restricted myself to the point I had to ignore that plan and just go where my inner response wanted me to go and I'm still not there yet but the more I listen to my body than my mind, I feel really really good.
Now, the goal is to maintain it consistently 😅😅