She's Paranoid, I'm Not A Molester! | Steve Wilkos

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  • Alex failed to ever mention to his girlfriend that he had sexual abuse accusations against him. His girlfriend, Tiffany, is now questioning if he is even safe to be around their daughter! #SteveWilkos
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  • @UselessMagnet
    @UselessMagnet 3 роки тому +1061

    Knew he was telling the truth, especially after what happened to him. Poor guy.

    • @CROSSTATT
      @CROSSTATT 3 роки тому +3

      I wonder why they're beeping out his ages.

    • @UselessMagnet
      @UselessMagnet 3 роки тому +7

      @@CROSSTATT it's a privacy thing I believe, under a certain age you need consent to give certain info. And sometimes it's fine others it might have changed so they bleep in the edit.

    • @carlisytt
      @carlisytt 3 роки тому +18

      It makes me mad that shes coming for him when hes not comfortable for saying it and shes all of a sudden not believing him bc of a girl in his family that she doesn’t even talk to.

    • @breonnahogue5195
      @breonnahogue5195 3 роки тому +19

      Unfortunately sometimes people do commit the same crimes committed against them.

    • @carlisytt
      @carlisytt 3 роки тому +3

      @@breonnahogue5195 true

  • @furryhippie
    @furryhippie 3 роки тому +1657

    As soon as he corrected her saying "he's a good father" with "no, I'm a GREAT father," I knew this guy wasn't a molester.

    • @Laynenelson320
      @Laynenelson320 3 роки тому +60

      Idk I’ve seen more convincing wilkos guests turn out to be liars

    • @SqwishyCat
      @SqwishyCat 2 роки тому +36

      @@Laynenelson320 mhm definitely i had to re- read this comment bc usually its the other way round

    • @suenugent3595
      @suenugent3595 2 роки тому +7

      Same bro

    • @guccithunder6136
      @guccithunder6136 2 роки тому +42

      Y’all didn’t know nothing lmao. If he had failed, y’all would’ve been like, “I knew he did it from the start”

    • @stevenbarnes8422
      @stevenbarnes8422 2 роки тому +4

      The women is paranoid

  • @timojoke1
    @timojoke1 3 роки тому +594

    She: he is a good father
    He: i am a GREAT father
    Me: hell yeah tell them boy, be proud of youre self for becoming a wonderful person after so much trauma. Youre a great man

    • @Gaetano.94
      @Gaetano.94 Рік тому +3

      What a great father. So happy for him and his family.

  • @jitkadonnelly7844
    @jitkadonnelly7844 3 роки тому +482

    Steve is right about the dude's right to privacy. Every survivor is different. His family are continuing to victimise him now. I am frustrated that she wouldn't believe or appreciate the lengths dysfunctional families go to to hide/deny/deflect abuse. That is literally the core of how some families operate

    • @jannettsnow2856
      @jannettsnow2856 2 роки тому +10

      Yes our right to privacy, unless we decide to tell

    • @aliasno.4andover644
      @aliasno.4andover644 2 роки тому +2

      Most Families Rather.

    • @scarletamazon3455
      @scarletamazon3455 2 роки тому +9

      Oh come on. Wilkos is usually the first to shout that you protect the child first, no matter what, and THEN find out the truth about the accusations. Now all of a sudden she's a monster for not just taking him at his word?

    • @veronicathomas3099
      @veronicathomas3099 Рік тому

      @@aliasno.4andover644 0

    • @aliasno.4andover644
      @aliasno.4andover644 Рік тому +1

      @@veronicathomas3099 Make that make sense.

  • @australiaduelmasters
    @australiaduelmasters 3 роки тому +730

    You could tell straight away from his mannerisms and the way he carried himself that he did not do it. As a victim of sex abuse I sympathize with this guy he's clearly hurting. I hope he finds peace in his life to move past what happened to him.

    • @brucey1497
      @brucey1497 2 роки тому +16

      We can't simply get past it. But we can heal.

    • @justinterry7853
      @justinterry7853 Рік тому

      ​@@brucey1497 exactly, even when your past is vindicated, it can still hurt or harm you

  • @Good-Enough24
    @Good-Enough24 3 роки тому +478

    I’m glad he didn’t do anything wrong..

    • @gixerson8212
      @gixerson8212 3 роки тому +5

      Me to Nancy, me too.
      How’s life Nancy? You still go dancing on Friday night? Play bingo on an early Friday?
      Hit the gym every Sunday and Wednesday?
      How’s the grandkids hunny?

    • @user-vi9ut7rp3l
      @user-vi9ut7rp3l 3 роки тому +22

      @@gixerson8212 tf u weird

    • @hunchotk3058
      @hunchotk3058 3 роки тому +9

      @@gixerson8212 lol 😂

    • @m.c2398
      @m.c2398 3 роки тому +5

      @@gixerson8212 💀

    • @marcoredwood2648
      @marcoredwood2648 3 роки тому +21

      @@gixerson8212 nancy’s just trynna watch the steve wilkos show not be asked survey questions 😤

  • @SandiByrd
    @SandiByrd 2 роки тому +225

    Poor guy. I totally get that he feels embarrassed and to have to go on television and admit you were abused horribly to save your relationship and prove you're not a monster is really sad. :( I'm happy he had the opportunity to clear his name but man.....it just felt like he was being traumatized all over again by having to explain it :(

    • @YorkshireRose2987
      @YorkshireRose2987 2 роки тому +11

      I thought the same. Tbh, I would have left Tiffany if it was me. The fact that she won't take his word but she never has suspicions before the girl started checking was classic attention seeking drama queen. She keeps saying "I feel..." say a lot too, no proof, just a gossip merchant.
      Shame on her for having him re live this awful abuse.

    • @donnaroddy2771
      @donnaroddy2771 2 роки тому +8

      @@YorkshireRose2987 but it was her daughter. She had to make sure FOR HER DAUGHTER. Any good mother would protect their child even if it's a crazy most likely untrue accusation.

    • @lacie18
      @lacie18 Рік тому +1

      @@YorkshireRose2987 although it’s a touchy subject. If somebody’s accused of touching somebody or your child no matter who it is you better step up and find out touchy subject we all know but you rather be safe then sorry

    • @marissathomas9327
      @marissathomas9327 Рік тому +1

      @@YorkshireRose2987but that’s her daughter . Why on gods earth would she ignore that . Especially being a victim herself . Because she thinks he’s a good man . If there is accusations out there that he touched on children , she would be extremely paranoid because what if just what if it’s true . And she did nothing . She a mother first !

    • @justinterry7853
      @justinterry7853 Рік тому

      ​@Donna Roddy exactly, doesn't matter how good of a person accused was, the daughter said all this, of course you should go by what your kid says, as any mother/father anyone should

  • @anthonyguarino4242
    @anthonyguarino4242 3 роки тому +339

    Who the hell that so-called family member think she is to falsely accusing him of two sexual molestations of his own relative and his daughter?!

    • @strangerdanger3002
      @strangerdanger3002 3 роки тому +14

      and if she didn’t get a lie detector test, she would’ve gotten dragged for it because you never know 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @strangerdanger3002
      @strangerdanger3002 3 роки тому +8

      @Justin Mathis what i’m saying is either way the woman would’ve gotten dragged for whether or not she believed him.

    • @strangerdanger3002
      @strangerdanger3002 3 роки тому +5

      @Justin Mathis my point still stands

    • @generalzucc462
      @generalzucc462 3 роки тому +6

      He should sue her

    • @stevesteve6520
      @stevesteve6520 3 роки тому +3

      Most likely, the family member was molested by some adult and became confused on who molested her. She would probably pass the lie detector test because in her mind, this guy did it even though it may have been someone else.

  • @JohnnyPaisan
    @JohnnyPaisan 3 роки тому +811

    I totally understand him not telling his girlfriend about his family. I dont think he betrayed her trust in keeping it to himself. As a man, having a false accusation against you can destroy your life, even if its apparent that it's a lie.

    • @monicakhedoe7514
      @monicakhedoe7514 3 роки тому +24

      Leave her

    • @storyteller6418
      @storyteller6418 3 роки тому +9

      💯 agree

    • @crimson3sky
      @crimson3sky 3 роки тому +19

      Yeah, but the mother didn’t make the wrong choice. Cases like these happen all the time. The mother believes the partner and it turns out years later that her child had been abused for years and she never saw it happen. Because it’s almost never obvious. And the kid rarely actually says anything about it because they’re being pressured and gaslighted by the abuser to keep quiet. She prioritised her kid over her partner as any parent should have and it is an unfortunate situation for him, but this case would have turned out much differently if he was actually a molestor. I think we can all see the logic in that. I see that happen all the time on this show alone. It probably was the same thing for this man too that his family didn’t prioritize him.

    • @JohnnyPaisan
      @JohnnyPaisan 3 роки тому +12

      @@crimson3sky This is why false accusations can destroy people. If the mother broke up with him and kicked him out it would of been understandable because it's better to protect your child. However there was no big reason to believe he was hurting her child. The false accusation was from when he was a teenager. So as a mom it's always best to take things seriously and investigate but also understand everyone's side. Not an easy situation which is why it's great that we have people like Steve.

    • @CH-bs3xr
      @CH-bs3xr 2 роки тому +5

      @@JohnnyPaisan except false accusations are far less common than actual abuse

  • @itazuranakisu
    @itazuranakisu 3 роки тому +705

    This woman would’ve been dragged in the comments if she didn’t get the answers and ignored things that end up being true. Plenty of people trust their p*do partner, friend, sibling etc and ignore the whispers. Blind trust isn’t safe for children. Just like a man deserves to know that a child is his a mother (and fsther) deserves to know they’re not raising a child with a pervert.

    • @Luvarijae
      @Luvarijae 3 роки тому +68

      Exactly it’s better to find out ur wrong than to not find out ur right.

    • @ishy6875
      @ishy6875 3 роки тому +18

      You would not say the same thing if the genders were reversed.

    • @ketokween152
      @ketokween152 3 роки тому +50

      Yes but he was saying he didn’t wanna relive HIS TRAUMA she was upset he didn’t disclose that information sooner... the mother of that child should feel terrible she did this to him. Instead of trusting him she trusted some idiot she did t even know. His family SHAT on him and abused him and instead of trusting her partner of SIX YEARS she chose to believe his abusers!! I trusted my partner of 7 years with EVERYTHING in me and that ended badly but not everyone has that issue.

    • @chublin9227
      @chublin9227 3 роки тому +8

      @@ishy6875 what??

    • @Chargersanytime2016
      @Chargersanytime2016 3 роки тому +9

      @@chublin9227 he means that the male sex is never given the benifet of the doubt. But when it comes to a female everybody takes them on their words. Ever heard the phrase don't believe everything you hear

  • @desireyshante5077
    @desireyshante5077 3 роки тому +124

    When he corrected her saying IM A GREAT FATHER , the fact that he was able to speak up for himself after enduring such a traumatic experience was amazing . It takes a lot of growth, healing & acceptance to reach that pinnacle .

  • @mzedsbabyyy4111
    @mzedsbabyyy4111 3 роки тому +175

    i have a habit of screaming STEEEEEEEVEEEEE each time i get a notification for a new video

  • @armpitfuzz
    @armpitfuzz 3 роки тому +682

    Having to drag myself up as a kid, I learned how to read people. Even before the results came out I knew he's a good guy.

    • @ShiroMuch
      @ShiroMuch 3 роки тому +7

      Any tips you can give some of us in order to be better read people?

    • @jesseferal929
      @jesseferal929 3 роки тому +5

      Yep I seen same thing.

    • @JaySports644
      @JaySports644 3 роки тому +14

      Yeah I felt the same. You could tell it was rough for him to even bring up the past abuse he suffered when he was younger.

    • @stagename1031
      @stagename1031 3 роки тому +24

      Here is a tip. If you think you see it…. You see it.

    • @deadflowerspirit258
      @deadflowerspirit258 2 роки тому +15

      Lol this kind of attitude is how people end up getting hurt. You think you can read everyone, and you end up trusting the wrong person.

  • @314Juicy
    @314Juicy 3 роки тому +50

    I just wanna hug him. I feel so bad for this poor guy. I hope he finds peace. 😢

  • @roro1980
    @roro1980 3 роки тому +93

    Poor guy he’s been through it and then they try and break up his family .

    • @milk7274
      @milk7274 3 роки тому +11

      His family is toxic and evil . I wonder if that other relative was abused by the same family member that abused him . I bet all of his family knew that he was being abused smh .

  • @marixmoon9960
    @marixmoon9960 3 роки тому +198

    I understand her in the fact that she wanted to make sure that he wasn’t doing that to her daughter, because if she ignored it and he was, then she would feel terrible for keeping her daughter near him. But the way she handled it was terrible, with all the “ I’m done defending you” bullshit as soon as she got on stage. Just go out, and say that if the answers come back as truth, then she was very sorry she even had a doubt about him. He seems like a great guy, and an even better dad, and to me she just seemed like she has more issues with him behind this one. That’s just my take on it anyway. But of course this can’t be taken as fact, this is a chopped up series of clips, and the meaning of things said and done can be altered without context.

    • @DantesInferno96
      @DantesInferno96 3 роки тому +8

      She should be on her knees apologizing and begging for forgiveness for what she did to him.

    • @tanishamajor1785
      @tanishamajor1785 3 роки тому +6

      It's one thing if the guy was accused and she notice that her child was acting inappropriate but she never said my child is doing inappropriate things she never said my child behavior is starting to change she never even said that the father started to act suspicious with the daughter so she had no reason to think that the father was doing anything wrong she just went of of hear say by someone she knew was his abuser so no she was not right at all and no she had no reason not even a little reason to accuse or think that he was doing something with their child

    • @marixmoon9960
      @marixmoon9960 3 роки тому +2

      @@tanishamajor1785 the kids 2 years old though, the mom doesn't have much to go off of

    • @marixmoon9960
      @marixmoon9960 3 роки тому

      @Krioque of course, that's without saying

    • @pajamajam9702
      @pajamajam9702 3 роки тому +4

      @@tanishamajor1785 again why wait til the child is acting out? Why wait until it happens when that accusation is going around. Rather have my daughter safe than sorry than to wait til she “acts out”

  • @Sshhaannddaa
    @Sshhaannddaa 3 роки тому +42

    He stood there with his chin high when Steve read the results. I instantly knew he was innocent.

  • @urmamasmamasmama
    @urmamasmamasmama 2 роки тому +27

    Oh man this breaks my heart. He is the Dad he never had. I hope he is living a good life with his daughter 💜

  • @omgitsjackieeful
    @omgitsjackieeful 3 роки тому +84

    Unpopular opinion but had that woman NOT taken any action after someone claims something as serious as sexual abuse, Steve would’ve had a problem with the mother and how she chose to ignore it. I think she went about it wrong but her heart was in the right place. Her daughters safety should be before her boyfriends feelings 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m glad he didn’t do it.

    • @amiyahkristiana
      @amiyahkristiana 3 роки тому +19

      !! It’s better to be safe than sorry.

    • @omgitsjackieeful
      @omgitsjackieeful 3 роки тому +1

      @@amiyahkristiana I know that’s right!

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 3 роки тому +7

      she’s wrong for forcing him to be traumatized all over again AND on national television. She should’ve just left him and got an investigation started PRIVATELY. She has no empathy. Women never have sympathy or empathy when it comes to men. Sexism at its finest. No child was victimized or ever made an accusation.

    • @omgitsjackieeful
      @omgitsjackieeful 3 роки тому +9

      @@sakuraogami6885 I agree with the fact that she brought this to national television but he could’ve refused to do it. I’m sorry you feel women don’t take men’s traumas seriously. But, generalizing women like that is wrong. The way society in general treat men and boys who have been sexually abused is the problem. It’s not just women. I definitely think men and boys should be able to speak up about their trauma without judgment. We as a society need to protect boys just as much as we do girls. I think Steve handled it incorrectly. The mother was scared for her daughter and he made her feel wrong for it.

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 3 роки тому +2

      @@omgitsjackieeful she should feel wrong. no child of hers made an allegation, there was no victim except him. she slandered him and forced him to relive his trauma. if she was a guy you all would be destroying him. shows even more sexism, dont deny it.

  • @commanderalien
    @commanderalien 2 роки тому +11

    I like how the partner essentially says she's tired of having to defend him well then it sounds like you should break up with him and let him find a woman that's actually worth a damn who actually support him when he needs it. There's defending your daughter and then theres believing people that you shouldn't be believing first. If you don't want to defend your partner then you're already a shit partner.

  • @rewelldrums
    @rewelldrums 3 роки тому +78

    He as a traumatic past, he is entitled to share what he wants. She needs to get over that. Shes just paranoid. Tbh if it were me I'd have left her for that crap. Cause if it were vice versa i;d listen to her and believe her not doubt her at all.

  • @toosense
    @toosense 3 роки тому +35

    My heart goes out to this young man. He needs to keep on being a GREAT father, Im really proud of him. His lying family member is a worthless piece of shit, I hope they stay away from those toxic people and be happy.

  • @rev.dr.yvonneray2035
    @rev.dr.yvonneray2035 3 роки тому +18

    I knew he would pass. My childhood was horrible. My late mother literally let me die at four years old after I asked her for help leaving me with permanently damaged lungs and COPD. If I had ever smoked I would probably have died years ago. I'm an old woman and I am just recently able to speak of this. I understand this man!

  • @orangecrushprod7607
    @orangecrushprod7607 3 роки тому +20

    Easily knew he was being honest, Bc she said “none of his family likes him” then he shared his story with 0 thinking or stuttering and that explained why his family isn’t around and boom knew he was honest

  • @julinalilly7439
    @julinalilly7439 3 роки тому +235

    I love Steve Wilkos show reruns.

    • @Crow29803
      @Crow29803 3 роки тому +5

      Glad I found his channel on UA-cam. I haven’t seen him in ages.

    • @cookiecookiton6207
      @cookiecookiton6207 3 роки тому +5

      its not the same without the audience so i love the reruns

    • @cythefox7510
      @cythefox7510 3 роки тому +1

      I’ve been binging these shows about predators and found Steve Wilkos recently. Love it.

    • @annosullivan3783
      @annosullivan3783 3 роки тому +1

      Hurry back Steve Wilko's love your show.ann from Dublin, Ireland.

    • @darrensmith6317
      @darrensmith6317 3 роки тому +1

      It's addictive

  • @CuriousGoodsJessica
    @CuriousGoodsJessica 3 роки тому +32

    These poor sweet people, I hope they get counseling for their painful past & build a Wonderful life for them and their daughter! 🙏

  • @Crow29803
    @Crow29803 3 роки тому +138

    Guys are more ashamed to have been victims and not talk about it. Not saying women will talk about it but I do feel like they are taught not to talk about it more and to be ashamed because they are suppose to be tough and not be victimized. Just wow. Now his story is public. And a family member made him a victim again by whispering in his wife’s ear! Shame on HER (His family member).

    • @SunflowaaMusic
      @SunflowaaMusic 3 роки тому +14

      This is true . Men will hold it in their whole lives any form of abuse honestly... men emotionally aren’t protected

    • @amiyahkristiana
      @amiyahkristiana 3 роки тому +10

      I 100% agree. Society shames men and call them weak when they are touched/abused, and it’s terrible. When I have a kid, I’m gonna teach him/her/them to never be afraid to tell me anything.

    • @crimson3sky
      @crimson3sky 3 роки тому +3

      Shame on his entire family. They should be punished for not protecting him and doing this kind of thing. It’s unfortunate, but I don’t think the mother chose wrong to make sure she was raising her daughter in a safe environment.

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 3 роки тому +4

      @@crimson3sky she’s wrong for forcing him to be traumatized all over again AND on national television. She should’ve just left him and got an investigation started PRIVATELY.

    • @annamosier2396
      @annamosier2396 3 роки тому +4

      Agreed. 100%. So many times young boys are told by others that they should have enjoyed it or that they're lucky to "get laid". Its not sex. It's pure evil. Always believe the victim.

  • @h3llnite
    @h3llnite 2 роки тому +5

    His being a survivor of child abuse and child sexual abuse, impacts all of his behaviour.
    The fact that he doesn’t speak about his abuse, is a normal reaction. He deals with it in his own way.
    I think he is amazingly strong and resilient coming from such a traumatic childhood.

  • @jessicamarsh9779
    @jessicamarsh9779 2 роки тому +7

    I wouldn’t want to bring my SO &/or kid around my family like that either. I feel for that guy, he’s been through it & now he’s gotta deal with this.

  • @katrinahewittdavis
    @katrinahewittdavis 2 роки тому +10

    I feel bad he wanted to keep that to himself and now the world knows what happened to him 😢

  • @tangozworld8693
    @tangozworld8693 Рік тому +13

    I love it when he said he's a great father God bless you
    Tango 🙋🏾‍♀️💛

  • @vonzalecarson5101
    @vonzalecarson5101 3 роки тому +135

    Man that sucks when the one person who suppose to trust u can’t especially under the circumstances it’s not like his family is even good people

    • @vonzalecarson5101
      @vonzalecarson5101 3 роки тому +12

      @Marie Baker I get you it’s a shitty situation for both but man that shit must really hurt getting abused by your family and then them turning around and using your wife to get at you again and no one believes you

    • @crimson3sky
      @crimson3sky 3 роки тому +3

      She doesn’t know his family. From her pov he hid important things from her and is being accused by his family that he is a molestor. And she has a young child in the house. Any responsible parent would pick the child’s safety first. She just wants to know her partner is safe to raise her child with. If a man was a good father and found out his woman is being accused of being a molestor, he would make the same choice for his child’s well being. It’s what parents need to do. All bets are off and nobody is off limits when it comes to your child. As it should be. This situation is unfortunate but it would have turned out much differently if he was actually a molestor.

    • @vonzalecarson5101
      @vonzalecarson5101 3 роки тому

      @@crimson3sky but my thing is she was told what his family did to him if u know someone did something so crazy to they child like lock him in a room for weeks not feed him and molest him to turn around and then believe them over the man who’s obviously been victimized his whole life is kind of crazy

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 3 роки тому

      @@crimson3sky she’s wrong for forcing him to be traumatized all over again AND on national television. She should’ve just left him and got an investigation started PRIVATELY.

  • @southernhoodoobelle3099
    @southernhoodoobelle3099 3 роки тому +39

    Some of these men are more gracious than I could because I'd leave everyone who accused me and questioned tf alone. Bare minimum contact. She came out there all aggressive and what not is just silliness.

    • @ishy6875
      @ishy6875 3 роки тому +11

      Man gets accuse of anything, to everyone its guilty till proven innocent.

    • @miceltusav88
      @miceltusav88 3 роки тому +5

      @@ishy6875 even then they are guilty

    • @cantfindme5328
      @cantfindme5328 3 роки тому +11

      She was protecting her daughter. What did you want her to do? “Your an accused child molester oh yeah that’s ok you can stay under the same roof as our child” no tf.

    • @roro1980
      @roro1980 3 роки тому +3

      She’s obviously scarred by her own childhood .

    • @jessicamcgaughey8551
      @jessicamcgaughey8551 3 роки тому +4

      @@cantfindme5328 no but she didn't have to go on national television and retraumatize him either.

  • @ghosthunter0404
    @ghosthunter0404 3 роки тому +10

    I feel this man I was abused alot as a child but never got out of it until I got in the military and got a new family.

  • @AtTheEmeraldBar
    @AtTheEmeraldBar 3 роки тому +17

    They are such a cute couple. Glad they got the results they needed. Best wishes to them and their family

  • @tbaby60
    @tbaby60 3 роки тому +80

    Steve 90% of the time: “if someone even insinuates something happened to your child it’s YOUR DUTY TO FIND OUT and go through the proper channels and you carry some blame if you don’t.”
    Steve 10% of the time “Why would you think that just from hearsay? Do you have any PROOF that he did this?”
    🙄🙄🙄

    • @L7SCENES
      @L7SCENES 3 роки тому +20

      I was just gonna comment this!!! Steve threw me off a little bit because he usually stands for the suspected “victim” before we know the results! Thought it was odd for him to come at that woman

    • @tbaby60
      @tbaby60 3 роки тому +11

      @Justin Mathis I agree he’s the victim. The whole family kind of is. SHE didn’t make the accusation. When someone makes that kind of accusation you start to notice signs that probably aren’t really there. When someone says someone has molested their child and your dating the accused molester it is 100,000% your responsibility to find out the truth and/or leave. You can take ZERO chances when it comes to the safety of children. I’m sure as soon as she heard the accusations she defended tf outta him because of instinct and because she knows him. That tiny seed planted in her brain grows with time and she starts rethinking and over thinking everything leading her to believe it is possible that he did it. Therefor her initially defending him now seems wrong to her. It’s the way the brain works. She’s now convinced he’s done this so yes, she can no longer defend him. No one is disagreeing that he is absolutely a victim and the person who made the accusations should suffer punishment for the lie. As a parent tho, it’s NEVER wrong to be over protective if you don’t have the truth.🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @pajamajam9702
      @pajamajam9702 3 роки тому +8

      Yesssssssssssss I don’t understand bc then they’d be calling her a bad mother had she waited. Then Steve will be on the show asking “Why have this man around your kids if an accusation like that came out” telling her she let this happen. He was too harsh on her barely letting her speak.

    • @GoddessofMusicTv
      @GoddessofMusicTv 3 роки тому +2

      I think it’s because there was no child currently claiming to have been molested. It was just someone saying that he did it to her when they were kids, and with that, he was a victim of it himself and they were kids, so it would have been kids acting out due to the fact that he himself was molested. He wasn’t an adult doing anything to a child. Like it was no accusation of the child of the woman he was with..But ultimately I’m glad he’s innocent and that he can go on with his life happily.🌹I can tell he’s a good person n I wish him the best. Glad he passed.

    • @maggie_o5233
      @maggie_o5233 3 роки тому

      Right, I just commented the same thing. Cant take NO chances!!

  • @bubbak...7040
    @bubbak...7040 3 роки тому +39

    When people seem to whisper in your ear.. take note that.. it's all in past and nonsense.. love lys within

  • @robertsimmons7556
    @robertsimmons7556 3 роки тому +16

    this poor guy I cant imagine he's been through a lot when he was a kid but Im glad to hear that he passed knowing that he didn't touched her daughter now they can move on with their lives.

  • @amoramarie953
    @amoramarie953 3 роки тому +11

    "Who would go through that trouble of pushing away a family member" Has she never seen this show..?

  • @kaymindful4295
    @kaymindful4295 3 роки тому +11

    I haven’t watched the end but I already know he’s being truthful.

  • @justincase3296
    @justincase3296 3 роки тому +12

    It's ridiculous how many times couples will take someone's else's story and not Trust their partner. They'll lie, making up something. Trust is a big factor in any relationship.

  • @ProtoMario
    @ProtoMario 2 роки тому +73

    It is pretty disgusting that your partner would expose you on tv.

    • @boogie2.03
      @boogie2.03 2 роки тому

      well i think any child predator should be ?

    • @danyeldoyle9685
      @danyeldoyle9685 Рік тому +10

      It’s pretty disgusting that a family lied to her and accused him of sexually assaulting her. There I fixed it for u.

  • @meatymaggot
    @meatymaggot 3 роки тому +12

    I am so happy he is innocent. At least his children are safe same with the others.

  • @piratelady6467
    @piratelady6467 3 роки тому +8

    Amen Steve - my ex husband was the same - and his family tossed him on his butt - and he is a real man and takes care of his kids and does not care or involve his family his only family is us

  • @NoseyNuNu
    @NoseyNuNu Рік тому +2

    It sucks that he had to go thru all of that horrific stuff growing up. It also sucks he had to go thru this too it's like he can't get a break. It's awesome that he's a GREAT dad! I pray he's doing much better now and it's so sad he had to go through all this years later after his abuse. ❤️🙏🏿

  • @user-th3ky5zw9b
    @user-th3ky5zw9b 2 роки тому +3

    So glad he passed. So sad they went thru the drama of abuse as a child.. Hopefully they raise the baby happily and safely.

  • @tayonius
    @tayonius 3 роки тому +5

    Glad he was truthful but man, poor guy 😞

  • @lashandajordan6923
    @lashandajordan6923 Рік тому +2

    I really commend this woman for protecting her child even through a what if scenario because there are a lot of people who don't. I am still happy that things turned out the way that they did but I completely understand where she was coming from.

  • @Bellydaughter
    @Bellydaughter 2 роки тому +7

    he's such a great guy I hope he gets help and hope he gets good people in his life god bless him .

  • @Wouldyoujust_
    @Wouldyoujust_ 2 роки тому +5

    I knew the answer before he said it. She went and traumatized him more. Her and the shitty family member. How damned sad is that. I bet his is a GREAT dad, just like he said. Love to him and his kiddo ❤

  • @learntotakeajoke3100
    @learntotakeajoke3100 3 роки тому +4

    "who would go through the lengths to defend a lie"?!?! My father molested me for YEARS and my brother and poor excuse of a "grandma" went through great lengths to lie and defend that heartless monster!! I wouldn't doubt my brother or my "grandmother" walked in and seen what he was doing and turned right around and IGNORED IT! My life is beyond messed up and having a brother who was never there messed it up more! Thank gawd for the superwoman mother and my true superwoman grandma who believed me because I can't imagine how much more I would be broken without them!!!!

  • @kt1pl2
    @kt1pl2 2 роки тому +1

    I have never been so happy for the results. I'm so glad they came out like they did.

  • @GoddessofMusicTv
    @GoddessofMusicTv 3 роки тому +3

    🌹I knew he was telling the truth! Poor guy. Proud of him for standing up for himself!!

  • @CROSSTATT
    @CROSSTATT 3 роки тому +10

    It's good to get justice for children. However, we can't assume the accusations are true. This is one of the cases which the accused one clears his name.

  • @arazordraggedfromwristtoel5201
    @arazordraggedfromwristtoel5201 3 роки тому +3

    I used to wait for this show to come on TV before I realized I can just binge watch it on UA-cam.

  • @Chef_D931
    @Chef_D931 3 роки тому +6

    Mans have rights too
    And some of these ladies are taking it too far

  • @the-finn
    @the-finn Рік тому +2

    I had a feeling he was being honest. I'm glad for his daughter's sake he can be there to protect her. I hope this couple can work things out and stick together.

  • @kaykay3772
    @kaykay3772 3 роки тому +4

    I'm glad he passed his lie detector test! 👏🏻

  • @piperlenin3519
    @piperlenin3519 3 роки тому +9

    lord have mercy .

  • @lexesmith8937
    @lexesmith8937 3 роки тому +2

    I knew he was telling the truth

  • @Frosty0762
    @Frosty0762 2 роки тому +4

    She's just paranoid. He seems like a good dude with a past he just doesn't want to relive. I get it though, if someone came at me saying that I'd be worried but I don't think this bad. I hope they move on and stay happy

  • @lexiemuffett7610
    @lexiemuffett7610 2 роки тому +2

    This poor man. God bless him.

  • @tinadickerson4322
    @tinadickerson4322 3 роки тому +16

    My heart breaks for him after the trauma he suffered from his past. I can see him not wanting to talk about what happened to him. God bless him. I'd want to know the truth as well. As we see on Steve's show parents are molesting their own children daily. I'm really happy for them that they got the answers the needed.

  • @EverettNightshade
    @EverettNightshade 3 роки тому +1

    This guy is a good man. This goes to show that there are good people in this world.

  • @user-fj1bi7bs5b
    @user-fj1bi7bs5b 7 місяців тому +2

    "Thank you Steve for taking this opportunity to get rich off the backs of all those false allegations against me." You never miss a chance to pimp the suffering, discord and human anguish in this world.

  • @princesspanda12012
    @princesspanda12012 2 роки тому +1

    People need to start facing bigger consequences for lying about abuse

  • @storyteller6418
    @storyteller6418 2 роки тому +2

    Prayers many prayers
    Fir you sir an your wife..
    I really hope y'all have a fabulous future

  • @Mrszhersheyy
    @Mrszhersheyy Рік тому +1

    I just want to hug him and love him he is such a genuine sweetheart

  • @destinyosborn6890
    @destinyosborn6890 3 роки тому +6

    Wow. For the first time in my 15 years of watching Steve Wilkos, I can say I am disappointed in how he treated this mother. How dare he make her second guess her decision in protecting her daughter.

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 3 роки тому

      she’s wrong for forcing him to be traumatized all over again AND on national television. She should’ve just left him and got an investigation started PRIVATELY. She has no empathy. Women never have sympathy or empathy when it comes to men. Sexism at its finest. No child was victimized or ever made an accusation.

    • @destinyosborn6890
      @destinyosborn6890 3 роки тому +2

      @@sakuraogami6885 reread my statement. “How dare he make her second guess her decision in protecting her child.” Now process.
      This mother did the right thing. Maybe she couldn’t afford a private investigator? A lot of people rely on NATIONAL TELEVISION because it is paid for on somebody else’s dime.
      Sexism? Where do you see sexism in my statement? Get a grip.

    • @justinmathis4276
      @justinmathis4276 3 роки тому +1

      @@destinyosborn6890 she wasn’t protecting her child. Her child said nothing to her

    • @cruizewaaka2950
      @cruizewaaka2950 2 роки тому +1

      Bro she fully falsely accused him hes a great father who'd do anything to protect his daughter just as much but that's just it she went off what a family member had told her she's completely in the wrong and you're just blind sided cause he can't be accused of anything and you, well you KAREN just want something to be angry at the guy about

  • @clevestercrittenden2089
    @clevestercrittenden2089 Рік тому +1

    I can't believe, knowing what he had been through, that she would believe that toxic family member over him. I'm glad he has his child, I;m afraid he may find she's all he has . Good luck to him.

  • @ShannonShenanigans79
    @ShannonShenanigans79 3 роки тому +3

    I was molested by my grandfather, I told when I was around 9 years old. My mother was physically and emotionally abusive, so I think that's why she never turned it in. At the same time I always felt like a personal prostitute for her, she would send me down the street and have me ask pops to borrow money. She knew he wouldn't say no if she sent me. She also knew the things I would have to endure.
    She didn't care, and found out that he was molesting me they would also find out that she was beating me and mentally abusing me.
    No father, no one to turn to, I just wanted help. But there was no one to help me.

    • @ShannonShenanigans79
      @ShannonShenanigans79 3 роки тому +1

      I would love more than anything to tell my story, not only on my blog, but on a show like this.
      If anyone has ever read the book or seen a child called it, my life was not as bad as that, but what I had to endure as a child, no child should ever have to go through.
      The manipulation, the abuse, having a narcissistic mother that beat you and had you believe in that you were trash, that you should never have been born. At 15 I attempted suicide and I'm surprised I'm still here to this day.

    • @ShannonShenanigans79
      @ShannonShenanigans79 3 роки тому +1

      Steve, I am 42, my mental health is destroyed, I have the best kids ever but I still feel like a failure the mother. I cannot work not just because of my mental health but because I have physical disabilities, I do not get any help from the state, and I really wish there was something in place for children that were abused by parents. It never goes away. It leaves a permanent stain on your life.
      You can forgive but never forget

    • @bribear0030
      @bribear0030 2 роки тому

      I'm so sorry... :( I wish I could say more than and do more than that as a survivor as well. You're a very strong person for still going in life. I hope you've begun a healing process/she and that sick man aren't in your life anymore.

  • @chandra2911
    @chandra2911 3 роки тому +8

    This man is a keeper and deserves all the love and happiness in the world. It’s a horrible shame his wife seemed to believe the weirdo she never knew over the man she shares her life with😕. Best of luck to them 🙏🏻🌸

  • @amandagarcia4845
    @amandagarcia4845 2 роки тому +2

    She knew he didn't, she just wanted to get on the show. That's 🤢

  • @mxmmianaxo1160
    @mxmmianaxo1160 3 роки тому +3

    This poor guy 💔 I hope those who lied on him see this!

  • @aliciareneephillips956
    @aliciareneephillips956 2 роки тому +1

    As a victim of sexual abuse from my piece of 💩💩💩 grandpa I felt bad for this dad. I have respect for him and feel sympathy for him 🙏🙏❤️🙏🙏❤️

  • @kaymindful4295
    @kaymindful4295 3 роки тому +5

    He’s a lovely guy. And they are a good couple very nice to see

  • @lamiaalgeria4714
    @lamiaalgeria4714 3 роки тому +5

    Some people who came to the show. from the first sight and deep down you know and you wish they are telling the truth and this guy is one of them. And I love how he was confident when he said I'm great father and shut her up 😅

  • @claireclaire9635
    @claireclaire9635 Рік тому +2

    He blew the whistle on the family abuse. He broke ranks and was strong enough to break free. The rest of the family probably felt threatened when he contacted them and lashed out by projecting their guilt and shame onto him. The young man is impressive, strong, sensitive and intelligent but not fragile or emotional. He's done very well to become autonomous and independent and mature. I'm concerned that the mother is so ready to believe his bad family over him. If she continues a relationship with him I would hope she is more supportive and respectful of him. She came out viciously attacking him.

  • @jazminprice8069
    @jazminprice8069 2 роки тому +1

    Wow. He’s so strong and brave to even come on the show and share what he went through. I hope he finds peace.

  • @slaybish1756
    @slaybish1756 3 роки тому +2

    I always loved this one. It hits the heart.

  • @theuzumakikay8647
    @theuzumakikay8647 Рік тому +1

    This poor guy. He was treated like garbage as a child. Whoever was in charge of his care should be jailed immediately

  • @hm6134
    @hm6134 3 роки тому +3

    I’m very glad he passed the test and he didn’t do anything wrong , I truly feel bad for him having to go through that terrible experience.

  • @rosiesymington4253
    @rosiesymington4253 3 роки тому +5

    I'm not really sure how I feel about Steves attitude towards the mother. Like, no this guy is not guilty of the accusations, BUT like, usually he sides with the woman for going with her instincts and protecting her children. Yet, he's judging her for coming on the show for making sure her kid is safe....idk

  • @sweetpea9907
    @sweetpea9907 3 роки тому +3

    I’m not one for letting people putting bugs in your ear.. but SADLY Now adays.. when it comes to sexual abuse.. whether it’s someone putting a bug in ur ear about that.. u can’t take it lightly. Sadly

  • @taylorglover4416
    @taylorglover4416 3 роки тому +3

    7:43 Alex's Lie Detector Test

  • @mandigal13
    @mandigal13 3 роки тому +3

    I get where steves coming from but with the amount of people who have come on his show defending their accused partners and then being wrong about them, he should understand why this lady wanted to make sure that it was untrue. And like she said, yes its hard to talk about but they have a family and have been together for years.. Its better to address a situation before it becomes a problem down the road. Glad she got the answers she needed!

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 3 роки тому

      The women always have to be the victims don’t they?

    • @mandigal13
      @mandigal13 3 роки тому +1

      @@sakuraogami6885 What?! What are you talking about?!

  • @kkelsey8811
    @kkelsey8811 2 роки тому +1

    Shouldn't have hugged her. She came out all aggressive "I'm tired of defending you!"
    Seemed like she wanted it to be true.

  • @anthonybalista7421
    @anthonybalista7421 3 роки тому +3

    People here are missing the point. Even IF he did something to that family member, he was a child when it happened, and it was in response to what happened to him. He is the victim here, and Steve recognized that immediately, I’m amazed at how many of you didn’t.

    • @tanagunda1368
      @tanagunda1368 2 роки тому

      Actually many of us did, cause he clearly said even if it happened he was a kid, we just didn’t see reason to point out the obvious

  • @sawme7772
    @sawme7772 2 роки тому +1

    My heart bleaks for man !! NO ONE should be forced to RE LIVE their painful, traumatic & traumatizing past !! This was a painful story to watch !! I can relate to him 100%! I am also a survivor of being molested as a child & raped as a teenager !! It's MY DECISION WHEN, WHAT & HOW MUCH I DO OR DO NOT SHARE with others !! This poor guy had that robbed of him NATIONALLY !! My heart goes out to him !!

  • @janelle009
    @janelle009 2 роки тому +3

    If I ask about someone, I don't need to wait for an answer. I trust my gut. But anyone who falsely accuses is as gross as those who commit the crimes.

  • @mocarrington9102
    @mocarrington9102 2 роки тому +2

    Maybe the person who told Tiffany had something to do with him being touched as a child smh ......I'm glad he passed

  • @renegadereid84
    @renegadereid84 3 роки тому +4

    This lady waisting time smh she already knew he didn't do such a thing but 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @georginamercier1942
    @georginamercier1942 3 роки тому +2

    Steve I have always loved your advice and this was spot on. I hope they were able to heal and move on. That family member should be ashamed of herself and it’s to bad the ones that hurt him were not charged

    • @Allannah_Of_Rome
      @Allannah_Of_Rome 2 роки тому

      Def feel ashamed but I wonder how bad the fam members circumstances were to his and screwed up they are now. There really is no winners in these cases.......

  • @daniel_debo
    @daniel_debo 2 роки тому +1

    I feel for this guy he is one strong man to come through what he has and others who been through that kind of abuse as well he looks innocent can see it.

  • @michaelclark4043
    @michaelclark4043 Рік тому +1

    Anyone who'd accuse anyone of such a thing when in fact he's innocent of all wrong doings is as guilty of the act as the person who really did it.

  • @tripped6956
    @tripped6956 2 роки тому +2

    I have a feeling his abuser did this as a way to further torture him

  • @annabelgrace1267
    @annabelgrace1267 3 роки тому +5

    The thumbnail makes him look like a molester. However, this man went through so much and I am glad he is a great dad.

  • @filipinamango207
    @filipinamango207 Рік тому +1

    As a mother, she was right. The hell with “he proved it and you’re paranoid “. Call me paranoid- I’m gonna protect my children at all costs.

  • @whatupjack1019
    @whatupjack1019 3 роки тому +2

    I knew he was good cause he was calm and collected not a lot of fidgeting I feel bad that his girlfriend doubted him

  • @vanzandtVids
    @vanzandtVids 8 місяців тому +1

    9:20 into it 👏 preach it Steve!