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Sexually Abused as a Child and He Doesn't Believe Her! | Steve Wilkos

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  • Beth endured years of sexual abuse as a child. No one believed her back then, and now her own boyfriend, Howard, doubts her story. Beth wants to prove to him and her family she's telling the truth. Furthermore, Howard says he's leaving if it turns out she's lying.
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  • @Pandulse123
    @Pandulse123 4 роки тому +1911

    "hey babe I know you had a suuper traumatic experience, your family is calling you a liar, and now I'm calling you a liar, but could you like stop? It's very inconvenient to my life." What a jerk.

    • @viperdemonz-jenkins
      @viperdemonz-jenkins 4 роки тому +9

      honestly she needs to get her shit in order and stop playing bullshit games. I could care less about some lie detector test, they lie.

    • @featuringsan
      @featuringsan 4 роки тому +70

      @@viperdemonz-jenkins get therapy

    • @amandabolton522
      @amandabolton522 4 роки тому +40

      viperdemonz jenkins youre also disgusting lmfao . i cannot . get help dude .

    • @arcroseary964
      @arcroseary964 4 роки тому +29

      @@viperdemonz-jenkins bruh you really need help

    • @v.e.-772
      @v.e.-772 4 роки тому +16

      he has the emotional intelligence of a bread crumb and doesn’t love her. girl, you need to run.

  • @FaithfulMama25
    @FaithfulMama25 4 роки тому +1485

    “Get over it” as a survivor... that grinds my gears to the bone. She needs therapy and to leave that family and boyfriend in the crusty dust!

    • @shadowpickle8169
      @shadowpickle8169 4 роки тому +13

      PREACH

    • @anthonyleon7867
      @anthonyleon7867 4 роки тому +23

      Right, you can’t really get over it. It’s a life long healing process.

    • @calebpittman7444
      @calebpittman7444 4 роки тому +1

      Get over it

    • @rae_cosplays1624
      @rae_cosplays1624 4 роки тому +11

      @@calebpittman7444 you get over your bullshit

    • @elainepavek3156
      @elainepavek3156 4 роки тому +16

      I didn't open up to ANYone, not even a therapist, until I was almost FORTY!!! Get over it??? Go away ASShole!!!

  • @niyahhbabyy
    @niyahhbabyy 4 роки тому +270

    "She said she was sexually assaulted... I think she's lying" My boyfriend could NEVVAAAA

    • @magicquinn1849
      @magicquinn1849 3 роки тому +17

      Honey no REAL MAN would EVER say that bumb S@^#

  • @cathymyha
    @cathymyha 4 роки тому +742

    He does not deserve you. He’s selfish and only thinks about himself.

    • @120mmsmoothbore2
      @120mmsmoothbore2 4 роки тому +10

      How is that selfishness? He even said it would change a lot of things if he did actually happen, he even got on his knees to apologize and said he'd give it time to heal over before asking to marry her again. I don't know about you, but that doesn't seem like a selfish man to me.

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 4 роки тому +18

      120mm Smoothbore what? His fake ass apology? Your naive ass believes that? What a joke lmao. He’s a selfish & repulsive human being.

    • @120mmsmoothbore2
      @120mmsmoothbore2 4 роки тому +3

      @@sakuraogami6885 I don't know many people who'd get on their knees to "fake ass apologize" - especially if it's not meant. I don't believe it, and frankly I don't care. I just wanted yo respond to the dumbass op who only got likes being the entire comment section is so effeminate.

    • @thisidiotgotfoodnom-6166
      @thisidiotgotfoodnom-6166 4 роки тому +2

      Argent Knight: Artemis how do you know if it was fake or not I’m just saying I’m not tryna start a fight

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 4 роки тому +7

      Sofiahype 101 because look at it? It’s half-assed, there’s 0 emotion, he literally acts like he doesn’t care. Because he doesn’t.

  • @CaitlinQuinlan
    @CaitlinQuinlan 4 роки тому +466

    I didn't tell anyone until I was 50 and I am 64 now and I have PTSD and it is a constant struggle everyday. I wish people would understand.

    • @Hinatachan360
      @Hinatachan360 4 роки тому +12

      I've been through it myself, so I understand. I think only people who have been through it themselves understand.

    • @patriciaprendergast5166
      @patriciaprendergast5166 4 роки тому +4

      Kathleen Quinian...I totally understand stay strong.

    • @rhondacook4302
      @rhondacook4302 3 роки тому

      Im so sorry you struggle.

    • @rocknroll20024
      @rocknroll20024 3 роки тому +2

      Stay strong. As someone who is also been abused I’m so sorry that happen to you. I’m saying a prayer to you and I wish I could give you a hug

    • @theresafikany5892
      @theresafikany5892 3 роки тому +2

      Ma'am we're here for you, you deserved help, and you deserve our love.

  • @staceyboyd3218
    @staceyboyd3218 4 роки тому +171

    You don't get over something like that. I was a victim of rape from my own father. I'm 34...I still have nightmares and it's been 24 years and years of therapy.

    • @isaacmettle
      @isaacmettle 4 роки тому +5

      Stacey Boyd me 2. it was my uncle.

    • @staceyboyd3218
      @staceyboyd3218 4 роки тому +2

      @@isaacmettle I'm sorry that happened to you love.

    • @isaacmettle
      @isaacmettle 4 роки тому +3

      Stacey Boyd im sorry 2. ATLEAST I DID NOT END UP LIKE R.KELLY!! he was molested by his sister. LOOK HOW HE ENDED UP!!

    • @johnathanpatrick6118
      @johnathanpatrick6118 4 роки тому +1

      @@isaacmettle Damn!! Is that true about R. Kelly??!! 😰😰

    • @isaacmettle
      @isaacmettle 4 роки тому

      Johnathan Patrick yep

  • @homework1992
    @homework1992 4 роки тому +125

    I’ve never wanted to punch the hell out of anybody more than her boyfriend. Sis, you deserve better.

  • @janelleancira3739
    @janelleancira3739 2 роки тому +8

    I literally went to a therapist for 5 years, never told them once about my abuse

  • @justinbruce1154
    @justinbruce1154 4 роки тому +776

    Beating a dead horse it's called PTSD Post Traumatic Stress Disorder people with that it's hard to get over tragic stuff like that men like this don't understand though

    • @rosiesymington4253
      @rosiesymington4253 4 роки тому +7

      THANK YOU!!!!!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼💯💯

    • @mummyofafurbaby9237
      @mummyofafurbaby9237 4 роки тому +19

      She should walk away from him he is a selfish prick you can not just get over being sexually abused it happened to me from the ages of 6 till I was 16 I'm now 40 and still have trouble dealing with it

    • @justinbruce1154
      @justinbruce1154 4 роки тому

      @Yorkshire Tea Yeah me too

    • @justinbruce1154
      @justinbruce1154 4 роки тому +2

      @@mummyofafurbaby9237 I'm sorry and I agree

    • @Hinatachan360
      @Hinatachan360 3 роки тому +2

      @@mummyofafurbaby9237 It happened to me from age 3-13 and it still affects me too. I have a really hard time trusting men and get terrified if I'm alone with a man.

  • @RhiannaBarr
    @RhiannaBarr 4 роки тому +169

    She needs an apology from her family and fiancee....Victim blaming at its worst.
    I had a similar thing happen to me

  • @theonebrittney7770
    @theonebrittney7770 4 роки тому +172

    I think the color of the boyfriend's teeth is called "buttered popcorn." That's just disgusting.

    • @nalyiaballou5768
      @nalyiaballou5768 4 роки тому +3

      😭🚪🏃🏾‍♀️ I just commented something like this

    • @mel4615
      @mel4615 4 роки тому +5

      Omg! 😂😂butter popcorn😂 cause he jus "Extra"Gud1

    • @TrinaBinaBaby
      @TrinaBinaBaby 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂🤣🤣😂

    • @Shakaylaa12
      @Shakaylaa12 3 роки тому +2

      He needs this 🪥🧼

    • @lorilaurent1043
      @lorilaurent1043 2 місяці тому

      Is he the only one with teeth?😢

  • @katiegenreau
    @katiegenreau 4 роки тому +77

    She deserves better. Honestly.
    He's not worth you. He's beneath you.

  • @laurenaxel1633
    @laurenaxel1633 4 роки тому +653

    She’s doesn’t need to get over it but she does need to get help. There’s no way she can be happy thinking about it everyday.

    • @cashouttdan
      @cashouttdan 4 роки тому +3

      Ashlee A I like turtles

    • @bonniejohnson760
      @bonniejohnson760 4 роки тому +15

      What she has is Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and alot of people who have been abused in many ways suffers from this.
      You do not have to be a Military Veteran to suffer from this, you can suffer through this with all kinds of abuse and bullying can bring this on.
      Yes. She needs Therapy from a Professional who has training in this and it will be very difficult for someone to just stop the thoughts. Asking someone to stop traumatic thoughts is just like demanding someone to eat soup with a fork.
      The only way she can control the thoughts is through individual therapy and group therapy.

    • @perthaputton1203
      @perthaputton1203 4 роки тому +1

      Agree.

    • @christy812
      @christy812 4 роки тому +1

      I think she needs to forgive the person that’s did that to her. Forgive her self for letting that person get that much power over her.

    • @Shalyn-ln9tu
      @Shalyn-ln9tu 4 роки тому +9

      @@christy812 I wouldn't forgive, that isn't something that can be forgiven. Forgetting about that person and living your life the way you want, is what lets you be free.

  • @rapidcherry308
    @rapidcherry308 4 роки тому +644

    The guy getting pissed off about having to comfort his wife is disgusting. People who don't go through this stuff don't realize how hard it is to deal with

    • @REXae86
      @REXae86 4 роки тому +4

      True but im still trying to figure out why it took her so long to mention it??

    • @amandaenrique7723
      @amandaenrique7723 4 роки тому +26

      It's not always easy.. I told on my rapist when I was 6 and he tried to rape my sister he was never arrested .. we were taken to foster homes and they never made him face his actions.. if it was as easy as just speaking up alot more rapists would be in jail ..

    • @rapidcherry308
      @rapidcherry308 4 роки тому +20

      @@REXae86 some people are scared to speak up about it. And once they finally have the courage they need to be heard

    • @luffyduffy7817
      @luffyduffy7817 4 роки тому +9

      R.E.X so we’re still doing this?

    • @Totalchaos0228
      @Totalchaos0228 4 роки тому +10

      @@REXae86 it's scary. Things like this happen when people speak up...they dont believe you. That's the #1 reason victims stay silent. Some people never bring it up.

  • @autumn06gamez
    @autumn06gamez 4 роки тому +9

    him: will u marry me
    steve: *actually lemme jus-*

  • @lousunny5682
    @lousunny5682 4 роки тому +12

    When he’s down there begging, she should have been like, I don’t believe you and slapped the ring out of his hand 🤚

  • @luffyduffy7817
    @luffyduffy7817 4 роки тому +174

    Hooooo boy I had so many thoughts when this episode ended. This man actually resents her for being abused as a child, and make no mistake, he’s going to keep throwing it in her face if she keeps him around. She couldn’t even say a good thing about him but said he was her best friend. If he resents her so much he needs to leave her so that someone who loves her and will be there to help her get through the trauma not whine about how he wants to go “have fun”. There’s a reason he’s keeping her around and it’s not good. What he’s doing is emotionally abusive. She needs to leave him, he is a sad, little boy with a cold soul.

    • @xofrnkk9209
      @xofrnkk9209 4 роки тому +2

      EdgarAllenHoe omg hello fellow crimson ghost pfp!! i love ur username lmao

  • @jazzelynnhernandez426
    @jazzelynnhernandez426 4 роки тому +1936

    Why is he making everything about him? He’s disgusting.

    • @phi1105
      @phi1105 4 роки тому +55

      That's what abusers do

    • @cashouttdan
      @cashouttdan 4 роки тому +4

      Jazzelynn Gayle I like turtles

    • @notyourgrammascrafts
      @notyourgrammascrafts 4 роки тому +19

      He's a horrid human

    • @augustmoon9973
      @augustmoon9973 4 роки тому +30

      If I were her, I would tell him and all of the non-supporting family members to kick rocks! I'm glad Steve stood up for her at the end though.😉

    • @NinoNation
      @NinoNation 4 роки тому +5

      Because she is making everything about her. If he smart he would just leave her be... she obviously needs to heal.

  • @weirdohero2723
    @weirdohero2723 3 роки тому +3

    Im sooooo glad Steve stepped in for that input. Damn coward didn't have the courage to believe for himself, had to take someone else's word for it. Good for her!

  • @misslovercssa
    @misslovercssa 4 роки тому +15

    Hes a jerk and she deserves so much better. Im glad steve interrupted the proposal to say something

  • @babyygirllmsp4310
    @babyygirllmsp4310 4 роки тому +202

    She annoys you?! Oml- He has to go.

  • @Mamalaki22
    @Mamalaki22 4 роки тому +137

    For real he says get over it! You don’t get over something like that you learn to cope and move on but you never really get over it. I think she needs to seek some counseling where they teach her to move on.

    • @jazzelynnhernandez426
      @jazzelynnhernandez426 4 роки тому

      Fr!

    • @phi1105
      @phi1105 4 роки тому +7

      @Johnny Atkins getting help is really hard for victims. That means no longer ignoring those traumatic memories and reliving everything.

    • @gloriajholloway5616
      @gloriajholloway5616 4 роки тому +1

      She needs to dump him

    • @mabziewashere
      @mabziewashere 4 роки тому +3

      @Johnny Atkins You never get over it. It follows you to your grave. No amount of learning how to cope and getting therapy will fix what has happened to you.
      And sure, it doesn't define you, you can go on to live a happy normal life, you can even 'move on', I completely agree with that statement. But it is a part of you forever. And when you least expect it, it will come back to haunt you. Whether it's in your nightmares, or in a flashback many years from now.
      No one is in any position to dictate how a victim deals with their trauma. Just because it inconveniences them in some way? Really? Sure chief.

    • @Mamalaki22
      @Mamalaki22 4 роки тому

      Hard to not wallow in it when no one believes you.

  • @damienkirksey7026
    @damienkirksey7026 4 роки тому +28

    She doesn't need to get married, she needs therapy

  • @Obeox
    @Obeox 4 роки тому +8

    6:52 that’s not the face of someone who regrets something. He wants to laugh so hard but tried his best to hold it in. He doesn’t care about her at all, he enjoys watching her breaking down.

  • @StaticShockNene
    @StaticShockNene 4 роки тому +165

    Girl! 😑 Leave him! He does not believe you. Go get a man who will stand by you through all the hard times.

    • @mildredcapellan3450
      @mildredcapellan3450 4 роки тому +6

      Ms_nibri28 he sounded so weak saying sorry ....

    • @johnathanpatrick6118
      @johnathanpatrick6118 4 роки тому +6

      @@mildredcapellan3450 Because it was half-assed. Inside he's still not believing her, and it's infuriating. Like nibri said, Beth needs a man who will stand by her side through the calm waters and the rough seas. Howard needs to find another woman, he's Mr. Wrong.

    • @mildredcapellan3450
      @mildredcapellan3450 4 роки тому +2

      Johnathan Patrick i would of left him ASAP .. f*ck the history between them , if my man didnt believe me i would leave and pray it dont eat my alive

  • @jadiquaify
    @jadiquaify 4 роки тому +740

    U can’t tell her how to get over things wtf is wrong wit him .

    • @shaniafoster8367
      @shaniafoster8367 4 роки тому +5

      Get fucked this girls brain damaged I've been in the same place as she has n I wouldn't treat my boyfriend like that. Can't blame him for not believing her if her own family don't, girl needs to grow tf up

    • @shaniafoster8367
      @shaniafoster8367 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah you eventually realise it makes you a bigger n stronger person,, yeah a lil crazy but damn this bitch is a maniac😂

    • @omariramsey1154
      @omariramsey1154 4 роки тому +14

      @@shaniafoster8367 i dont think her mental damage has anything to do with it. Just cause you had to get over it, and did, that doesnt mean everyone will or should at the same pace. Especially with her whole family constantly doubting her. Hell, she said someone SAW that shit happening and ignored it. Ignored her. She was 8 years old, naked, violated, and nobody did shit. You can't blame her for her reaction. Everyone she told in that family should face charges for child abuse.

    • @janicehewitt8787
      @janicehewitt8787 4 роки тому +2

      @@shaniafoster8367 Lets start a #me too here. Same happened to me too for real and I didn't spend my whole life whining about it even had counselling but at the end of the day you have a choice move on or let it destroy your life and that's fine but you will end up sounding like a broken record where no one wants to be around you. As for humiliating your boyfriend like that was way out of order. She is choosing to stay in victim mode. That's her problem not his.

    • @shaniafoster8367
      @shaniafoster8367 4 роки тому +1

      @@omariramsey1154 I feel child abuse is abit exaggerated I get it yeah child neglect but I dknow she just proper brought out the victim card every minute but I guess that's what makes good live tv

  • @TheHorseluvngirl
    @TheHorseluvngirl 4 роки тому +16

    If this guy finds it so exhausting to help his broken girlfriend, then leave her so she can find someone who will put in that energy, love, and support. She deserves better

    • @Probablydeservesit
      @Probablydeservesit 11 місяців тому

      It’s no one job to fix something they didn’t break that’s her job to get the help she needs not his

  • @helenoftroy6265
    @helenoftroy6265 3 роки тому +5

    The lady at 10:24 , her facial expressions says it all for me. I would be side eyeing the hell out of this relationship.

    • @Ewinter88
      @Ewinter88 3 роки тому

      Lol 10:24 is end of video also how r you I'm that girl and side eye it all y want we aren't together n y also don't know the INS and outs of the show b how extra they tell you to ve

  • @jrewing1512
    @jrewing1512 4 роки тому +76

    You can never get over sex abuse. Those scars will carry on.

    • @tinadickerson4322
      @tinadickerson4322 3 роки тому +3

      Yes I agree. My Aunt's husband molested me when I was nine. I'm now 51 and I just finally forgave him about seven years ago. It definitely took alot off of me. I of course have not forgave him face to face because I can't see him. If I see his pic on FB I just have to scroll on. I had to forgive in order to be forgiven. It beverages leaves your mind.

    • @jrewing1512
      @jrewing1512 3 роки тому +1

      @@tinadickerson4322 I'm sorry for your tramua.

  • @Jumpingjackflash70
    @Jumpingjackflash70 4 роки тому +76

    Girl needs to leave him, get therapy, get strong and find a real man that supports and loves her. This dude clearly does not!

  • @TheOnlyreezybeezy30
    @TheOnlyreezybeezy30 4 роки тому +5

    How do you tell someone to just get over sexual abuse. Childhood abuse has the potential to ruin someone's life. You don't just get over it. She needs to ditch him.

  • @hollyobaby6949
    @hollyobaby6949 3 роки тому +4

    You know what sucks? This is why I never came foreword in boarding school when terrible things happened to me. I knew all the guys would look at me like damaged goods. I knew there was no way to prove anything. I knew people would get tired of me being the girl who had some sort of trauma that might “ruin the party” so to speak. You don’t get over it. This man is trash. He is garbage, Mary! Get your CDs and leave!

  • @skylasullivan4387
    @skylasullivan4387 4 роки тому +76

    This is disgusting. People who haven't gone threw this would never know how it feel. It takes so much away from you. You struggle with yourself, you struggle with having ANY sexual contact with ANYONE, and it constantly replays in your head. I would know...

  • @briaisaweirdooo
    @briaisaweirdooo 4 роки тому +445

    I’m sorry but if he questions his gf about if she was a victim of sexual abuse then hes not a good boyfriend

    • @johnathanpatrick6118
      @johnathanpatrick6118 4 роки тому +23

      And he certainly ain't husband material. All throughout the story, I, I, me, I, me. Very little about trying to comfort Beth. 😡😠

    • @strawberrylillis1197
      @strawberrylillis1197 4 роки тому +3

      FOREAL
      THIS BEAUTIFUL GIRL IS GOING THROUGH IT AND HE DOESNT BELIEVE HER

    • @bonniejohnson760
      @bonniejohnson760 4 роки тому +5

      She needs to loose that Zero and find herself a Hero.
      The last thing she really needs right now is not to be in a relationship. She needs to work on herself through Therapy. Both individual and group. The Therapist needs to have clear cut training on Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder in order for this young lady can have a positive, successful breakthrough.
      She would be alot more happier if she lives alone with a goldfish and puppy than having a juvenile jerk as a boyfriend who doesn't have a clue and in his own way can become abusive. A man doesn't have to beat a woman black and blue to abuse her, he can become, verbally, mentally and emotionally abusive and that to can become very traumatic in itself.
      She should put herself and recovery first and not look for a man. When the timing is right then the right man will come along and treat her like the Beautiful Queen that she is and will be patient and understanding

    • @anthonypayne2035
      @anthonypayne2035 4 роки тому +9

      All you girls bashing the guy yet you didn't listen to his side at all. The man wants to lead a normal life and is tired of having to suffer because she is mentally unstable. She says it herself he treats her well outside of not believing in her and is the one that helps her calm down when she has a mental break. Even though he doesn't believe her he still goes out of his way to comfort her and make her feel better, yet he is such a horrible human being for wanting to be happy. It is okay for the woman to be selfish and think solely about herself and not think about the strain she puts on him and his life, but as soon as he decides that he wants to know the truth for his own mental well being and happiness, then he turns into a greedy pig of a man. Just plain disgusting how you all can act like you are benevolent beings who are trying to virtue signal and yet ignore the feelings of everyone else. Get off your high horse and try putting yourself in his shoes, his entire life is limited because of her and he sticks with her because he loves her. Yet it is so easy for all you who are so perfect to stand up on your pedestal and talk down to people who you have absolutely no understanding of. The saddest thing of all is the thing you are giving this man shit for is what you are all doing yourselves. Hypocrites.

    • @DarkHold_User13
      @DarkHold_User13 4 роки тому +7

      Anthony Payne lmao, imagine complaining about something you could help. He could of tried to give her that shoulder to lean on and help her instead of whining and complaining about the restrictions they BOTH share.

  • @taylors.23
    @taylors.23 4 роки тому +37

    I’m sorry, I just can’t get over his teeth 🤢

  • @akramirez6338
    @akramirez6338 4 роки тому +3

    When he smiled I almost threw up🤢🤢
    She really signalled Steve to step in damn

  • @sd_justice_duty9564
    @sd_justice_duty9564 4 роки тому +77

    I feel sorry for Beth, I hope she gets justice. As for her family, it’s going to be too late to apologize to her unless they want to make things right for her.

    • @sd_justice_duty9564
      @sd_justice_duty9564 4 роки тому +1

      Her family and the people (who did not believe her) are going to wish that they believed her from the beginning. If I was her friend, I would have wanted to help her out. The person who ruined her is going to pay the ultimate price and can rot for eternity.

  • @erikalentz2927
    @erikalentz2927 4 роки тому +83

    This guy is an absolute tool. Girl, drop him!

    • @sarahdixon6011
      @sarahdixon6011 4 роки тому

      A tool! He is, a giant one.
      I love that expression fits him exactly

  • @AirWindFire
    @AirWindFire 4 роки тому +2

    I’m still in shock, I’d expect better treatment from my enemies. An abusive family have obviously set her up to believe this is as good as it gets! She needs to find a whole new life!

  • @triplex1369
    @triplex1369 4 роки тому +3

    Steve really just shut that man down💀what a legend

  • @ingridnineteen5566
    @ingridnineteen5566 4 роки тому +157

    I don't get her with how she wants to stay with him. Him not believing her is a deal breaker to me. Her horrible family and what happened to her has obviously caused her to have no self worth.

  • @myraclez7612
    @myraclez7612 4 роки тому +66

    She deserves to be healed and anyone who was a victim and not believed.

  • @bathingapes112
    @bathingapes112 4 роки тому +2

    Everyone is talking about that scumbag but can we take a moment to acknowledge how well spoken this woman is? In the end she said “no” and told him what she expects from him in the meantime and gave him a deadline. Most adults are not capable of communicating that way. She is very smart and eloquent despite her experiences. Shout out to her!

  • @emmalively9353
    @emmalively9353 4 роки тому +3

    I was in therapy for 4 years before I came out about my sexual abuse, things take time. I hate ignorant people.

  • @shadowpickle8169
    @shadowpickle8169 4 роки тому +160

    What in the living heck is wrong with her family

    • @gloriajholloway5616
      @gloriajholloway5616 4 роки тому +3

      She should day no.....period

    • @bobbilapdog8023
      @bobbilapdog8023 4 роки тому +1

      kayla acaedmy shut up you dont get it you werent hot enough

    • @auttysifuentez2841
      @auttysifuentez2841 4 роки тому +7

      Bobbi Lapdog fucking sicko

    • @johnathanpatrick6118
      @johnathanpatrick6118 4 роки тому +4

      @@bobbilapdog8023 Just stop before you look even more stupid... 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️😡😠

    • @johnathanpatrick6118
      @johnathanpatrick6118 4 роки тому +2

      @GodBotherer1 They hound you for not giving them grandchildren...?? WTF??!! 😡😠 I swear, sometimes I ask myself why do many kids have to be born by horrible parents...

  • @nevaehgross9034
    @nevaehgross9034 4 роки тому +142

    I’m so happy this show is on UA-cam 🥰🥰🥰😇😇

    • @Isa-uh1ft
      @Isa-uh1ft 4 роки тому +4

      Charles Kloss if you download the app nosey you can get the full episodes !!

    • @cashouttdan
      @cashouttdan 4 роки тому +5

      I like turtles

    • @gem4294
      @gem4294 4 роки тому +3

      @@cashouttdan so do i

    • @destinylassalle1170
      @destinylassalle1170 4 роки тому +1

      Me too

    • @taecampus
      @taecampus 4 роки тому +1

      @@cashouttdan ditto

  • @flowergirl4612
    @flowergirl4612 2 роки тому +3

    He don't love her, she needs to leave him, the way he talked about her and to her was sickening. Steve really makes people think about what's going on.

  • @AK94913
    @AK94913 3 роки тому +8

    "She should be over this by now." Spoken like someone who never had to deal with any kind of trauma.

  • @jemina781
    @jemina781 4 роки тому +44

    “I gotta step in before you answer it.” He jus made my day . 🤣💀

  • @bladefire5857
    @bladefire5857 4 роки тому +20

    Steve: takes 1 step
    Crowd: STEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVEEEEEEEEEEE

    • @wildblug
      @wildblug 3 роки тому +1

      So true tho-

  • @arabelllaxo
    @arabelllaxo 4 роки тому +14

    Come ON, girls! *Please* have some more self respect for yourselves! Do not EVER accept treatment like this woman does. This is not normal, this isn't a respectful, caring relationship with a man that truly loves you.
    This is settling. Settling for something less than you deserve. Nobody, man or woman, deserves to be treated with such disregard and callousness. If you truly love someone, you always believe them and trust in their word. You don't need a lie detector test to tell you they're telling the truth that they were sexually assaulted. You don't need their family to believe that it happened, you don't need anyone else to believe that it happened. When you love and *trust* someone, their word is enough.
    If this woman stays with him and marries him, she will be miserable forever. This is a person, (not a man, a person), that is too much of a coward to stand up and fight for and believe in his woman. When you're with people like him, you'll never be truly happy. There will always be another reason why he doesn't trust her completely or believe her word alone. He puts her down and tells her to just get over it. As if the pain is a switch that can be turned off. He's a pathetic scumbag.

  • @RossiiiChan
    @RossiiiChan Рік тому +3

    As someone who was in the mœlested when they was younger. I have not "got over" my molestation been like five years. No matter what everyone has some kind of trauma, and with that no matter how long it's been. There's not a set time for you to heal. someone who is 105 may still not a fully healed because there's no set limit for healing! And this upsets me because I hate when people what always say oh "you should get over this" or like "you should get over a breakup." It could be that or you should get over your breakup or your childhood trauma urbanex your family because they 99% of the time have never been through. Whatever cause you that pain!

  • @ravenunderwood7805
    @ravenunderwood7805 4 роки тому +51

    It's hard to talk about because people dont believe it

  • @zekeekrkrkr__2320
    @zekeekrkrkr__2320 4 роки тому +30

    He should have believed her until the results and then if it says she lied he could leave her but he was just doubting her from the gate she deserves better

  • @DJrosevalentine
    @DJrosevalentine 2 роки тому +3

    As a survivor as well, this man is absolutely vile, disgusting and so inconsiderate. She needs to leave him!

  • @cabahab2996
    @cabahab2996 4 роки тому +3

    1 min of her speaking and you know she's not lying..x x

    • @Ewinter88
      @Ewinter88 3 роки тому

      Thank you I am her and I appreciate your comment sad tho that a complete stranger can see the truth but my own family still cannot

  • @pokefan213
    @pokefan213 4 роки тому +47

    "at some point you gotta get over it" he says. how easily/quickly would HE get over sexual touching against his will at a young age hmm?!?!
    he doesn't deserve her

  • @thejazzyb123
    @thejazzyb123 4 роки тому +17

    I wanna hug this girl so bad 🙁 I feel so bad for her

  • @wolvesgirl1565
    @wolvesgirl1565 2 роки тому +3

    Him: "If she's telling the truth, I wanna marry her."
    Me: "Why would she say yes to you after you just bitched about how much it controls your relationship, and how it pisses you off when she has flash backs?"

  • @GoldRangerFanGirl35
    @GoldRangerFanGirl35 Рік тому +2

    This is exactly why abuse survivors are afraid to speak up because they are afraid that they won’t be believed

  • @lovedrugger2715
    @lovedrugger2715 4 роки тому +28

    Throw the whole man away ffs 😥 all I hear from him is "me me me". She deserves so much better than that.

  • @mahniyahs5146
    @mahniyahs5146 4 роки тому +26

    He’s not good for her

  • @emilywallace50
    @emilywallace50 4 місяці тому +1

    the number of times I have been told that I'm beating a dead horse when I spoke about my past with assault literally makes me grind my gears hearing him say that to her...

  • @demonictelevision9427
    @demonictelevision9427 4 роки тому +1

    I was shaking mad, watching his video in the beginning. He's the WORST. How dare he say he trauma is annoying, she should be moving on. I hope she leaves such a disgusting man. If he abandoned her during times like this, how can she depend on him when she needs him other times?

  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks 4 роки тому +48

    You don’t get over it, but you learn how to cope in a healthy way. He’s right, you can’t let it define you. It sounds like she needs serious therapy. She needs help living her life.

    • @charlenemorris4166
      @charlenemorris4166 4 роки тому +16

      I'm a victim of being raped and for him saying that bullcrap and he's saying that she needs to get over it and his stupid behind needs to shut up seriously and she can't just get over it

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 4 роки тому +4

      @@charlenemorris4166 it is possible to learn how to live our best life, with good quality therapy and a solid determination to help ourselves.
      It doesn't define who we are, it shapes how we see the world, and we can change that.
      What defines us is our character, and how we respond to life's experiences.
      I am speaking from rock solid experience myself here and I love my life now.
      I experienced multiple abuses, all three - physical, sexual and emotional. None of those defines who I am now.
      I have grown into a strong woman with courage, perseverance and determination. ❤️

    • @thatsonyou6093
      @thatsonyou6093 4 роки тому +4

      @@GypsyGirl317 first of all i'm so glad you survived, recoverd and found joy in your life you deserve all of it and i'm so sorry you had to go trough that it's terrible. But everybody is different, everybody copes different, recovers different and deal with it differently.

  • @mccgraphics4449
    @mccgraphics4449 4 роки тому +6

    Haven't seen the whole video but I am a survivor of horrifi abuse from a neighbor let me be clear there is NO time line for healing even with therapy

  • @shawndajones7346
    @shawndajones7346 Рік тому +2

    It’s heartbreaking that she went to everyone she felt she could trust and no one even listened to her… she had to suffer that trauma alone and even those who are supposed to love and care for her, didn’t even support her.

  • @aprilyeo5636
    @aprilyeo5636 Рік тому +3

    Don't ever be with anyone who doesn't support you.

  • @phillipw6374
    @phillipw6374 4 роки тому +3

    Steve: *breathes*
    Crowd:
    STEEEEEEEEVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEEEE

  • @russellbaldwin2949
    @russellbaldwin2949 4 роки тому +24

    Now that's really sad when your own family doesn't believe you she was only a child why would a child lie about something like that

  • @leeanamaria9055
    @leeanamaria9055 4 роки тому +2

    Why would someone lie about being sexually abused ?

    • @Ewinter88
      @Ewinter88 3 роки тому

      Exactly. I'm her n it pissed me off and still does that some ppl think I ever would.

  • @Firece_Lioness
    @Firece_Lioness 4 роки тому +1

    Its been 16 yrs. since I was violently attacked in my home & I still deal with PTSD...I'm so thankful for my family & my love of my life...He has been understanding & changed things to support me.

  • @JRoGo
    @JRoGo 4 роки тому +33

    She should run from him cause he’s the freaking worst.

  • @Nedula007
    @Nedula007 4 роки тому +21

    Sounds like the dude needs to move on, be single and enjoy life. Chick needs therapy and needs help before she dates anybody. Black and white.

    • @she_sings_delightful_things
      @she_sings_delightful_things 4 роки тому +4

      You nailed it. 💯

    • @ningbronsin9826
      @ningbronsin9826 4 роки тому +4

      The Maverick Mind ummm she should leave him he’s insensitive and a asshole u dont believe someone over ur spouse

    • @Mhel2023
      @Mhel2023 4 роки тому +3

      Exactly. It's a 2 way street. Yes, he needs to be supportive and stop taking her issue lightly. AND... she needs to get help to deal with her trauma . Her having been abused does not give her the right to drag him down to hostage land. She needs to stand up for herself, seek theraputic assistance and begin to rebuild her own foundation.

    • @she_sings_delightful_things
      @she_sings_delightful_things 4 роки тому +1

      @@Mhel2023 Spot on!!

    • @mouldysushi
      @mouldysushi 4 роки тому +3

      Mhel 2023 You don’t get to tell a victim how to deal with their abuse. Who the hell do you think you are ? You sound like him telling her to get over it and blaming her for not seeking help.

  • @chadhelm3611
    @chadhelm3611 4 роки тому +1

    Steve I’m addicted to your show it’s too good and your doing good locking up these bad people

  • @TiffWaffles
    @TiffWaffles 4 роки тому +2

    When I was in counselling as a child to talk about what had happened to me when I was younger, I didn't talk about what had happened to me. Whenever the counselor asked me a question, I would tense and talk about something else. I think I started talking about the stories I had been reading about in the Haunted Canada series. The counselor told my teacher, my teacher got angry with me, and when I had to go back to the counselor because I had a mental breakdown in the fucking classroom, I refused to go. My mother had to come get me because I locked myself in the girl's washroom and would not unlock the door. My teacher couldn't talk to me, my favourite teacher couldn't talk me out. By the time my mother showed up, the police were outside the washroom door trying to get me out.
    This idiot doesn't know what he's talking about. A victim of abuse isn't always going to speak to a counselor, and as a matter of fact due to my experience with my school counselor as an eleven year old schoolgirl, I don't trust a counselor even today. This boyfriend is a lousy piece of shit. That is all I've got to say.

  • @jessicaibe970
    @jessicaibe970 4 роки тому +24

    A family is meant to protect their own🙏🏽

  • @suzannedebolt5135
    @suzannedebolt5135 4 роки тому +15

    She needs to find a more understanding living boyfriend

  • @Uveraeth
    @Uveraeth 4 роки тому +5

    She needs a special kind of man to help her heal and to take care of her and he is definitely not it.

  • @kimharper3075
    @kimharper3075 4 роки тому +1

    I’m a survivor. And yes, you can get past it. And no, you don’t need to be believed by others in order to heal. This boyfriend has some growing up to do before he marries anyone. And she needs help. I understand she needed validation, but being victimized doesn’t give you permission to act like a fool. These two need to grow up!

  • @kayruffin520
    @kayruffin520 4 роки тому +8

    I pray GOD heals you. Sending love and prayers 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @kamilledaniels8919
    @kamilledaniels8919 4 роки тому +30

    The highlight of my quarantine

  • @JanoyCresvaZero
    @JanoyCresvaZero 4 роки тому +1

    Imma let you finish, but Steve Wilkos has the best, “imma let you finish, but...” of all time! OF ALL TIME!

  • @kuroh31
    @kuroh31 4 роки тому +1

    I’ve never seen someone so cold towards the person they’re supposed to love & care about. Jesus

  • @auttysifuentez2841
    @auttysifuentez2841 4 роки тому +8

    Wtf she needs to leave him and her family alone smh

  • @audreyreid3969
    @audreyreid3969 4 роки тому +8

    My family don’t believe me either, this man is disgusting. It hurts so bad being told to get over something that ruined your life. I pray this woman is okay and she deserves way better.

    • @shyaninalissaint2577
      @shyaninalissaint2577 4 роки тому +1

      Audrey Reid you deserve better too .

    • @audreyreid3969
      @audreyreid3969 4 роки тому

      Shyanina Lissaint God bless you sweetheart. Thank you 🙏🏻

    • @shyaninalissaint2577
      @shyaninalissaint2577 4 роки тому

      Audrey Reid God bless you too ,your welcome ❤️

    • @thatsonyou6093
      @thatsonyou6093 4 роки тому

      I'm so sorry that you had to go trough such trauma you did NOT deserve at all and your family is causing even more trauma and are noot believing you!!! I hope that you can find closure one day and perhaps someone (wheter it's a love interest or a good friend) who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, with love and affection! Keep your head up you are a incredibly strong survivor!!! 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @takato0524
    @takato0524 6 місяців тому +1

    Who the f is he to tell a victim of a sexual assault to "get over it"? To say she should be moved on by now? He's no prize. It shouldn't even be a second thought to leave him and find someone who actually loves her. Sadly I don't think she's going to take any of Steve's advice and as soon as they get home tell her friends she's getting married

  • @abby4174
    @abby4174 Рік тому +2

    After he got on his knees & apologized I would’ve said “ ok bye “ and leave

  • @jrewing1512
    @jrewing1512 4 роки тому +5

    My heart goes out to her. I hope she gets help.

  • @staceyboyd3218
    @staceyboyd3218 4 роки тому +7

    I love Steve. His shows are so good. He is better than Maury and Jerry combined.

  • @brooke8401
    @brooke8401 4 роки тому +1

    What a shame. Beautiful girl and she’s with a literal shit stain. People who have gone through such abuse need someone who is patient, caring and sensitive.

  • @autumnh62000
    @autumnh62000 4 роки тому +3

    Damn Steve should also be a relationship counselor 😂❤️

  • @Tammygak
    @Tammygak 4 роки тому +13

    She needs to get rid of him

  • @keniku
    @keniku 4 роки тому +7

    Am I the only one cringing at the proposal? Even if he did promise that he’d propose if she passed, why do it there? Attention? Wrong move buddy :/

  • @lavieestbelle6530
    @lavieestbelle6530 4 роки тому +1

    wait, why are people suprised the guy wants to leave her if she lies about being sexually harrassed? If a man gets accused of it that could ruin his life, people who lie about being raped should get 20 years in prison.

  • @MonsieurLePig
    @MonsieurLePig 3 роки тому

    When I told my boyfriend that I was sexually abused by my own grandfather at 18 - I finally told him earlier this year and he felt like it was his fault and now when he's around, my boyfriend doesn't even let me out with or around my grandfather anymore. Not that I want to either. He's on my side and provides me protection when I need it. I couldn't ask for a better man. I love him so much.

  • @amberm4884
    @amberm4884 4 роки тому +3

    Now shes vindicated i hope she finds the strength and self worth to leave this self-centred idiot. As they say, the truth wil set u free. ❤️

  • @de_bofde_bof7524
    @de_bofde_bof7524 4 роки тому +11

    I really don‘t like him. He seems selfish

  • @JaimantiQ
    @JaimantiQ 4 роки тому +3

    I KNEW SHE WAS TELLING THE TRUTH, WHICH IS WHY SHE SHOULD NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP; SHE NEEDS HELP AND NEEDS TO HEAL :)

    • @Ewinter88
      @Ewinter88 3 роки тому

      Thank you that means a lot

  • @Saturn08
    @Saturn08 2 роки тому +1

    I was raped by my father. It was ignored by people. Its been 15 years and I still can't "get over" it. It haunts you even with therapy.