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My biggest guilt is knowing I might have damaged my son's sense of self or self esteem by getting angry at him or projecting at him. I hate the idea of any angry words I said forming his identity. Even if I apologize I can't stop feeling guilty and worried about the permanent damage.
Thank you for this video .. I am that mom who yells and feels terrible and then search for videos and material to focus on how to be a better parent .. Your video is so relatable .. I don’t get the gentle parenting but this is so what I needed to get back on track and focus on my thoughts .. thanks .. will be following for more videos:. Thank you
Thank you Dr Jazmine for another great and needed video in this parenting journey! You said something towards the end (8:42) about not feeling guilty for our parenting mistakes and having self compassion because guilt doesn't make us change, compassion does. I think it's important to recognize the difference between guilt and shame. When we have negative self talk that sounds like "I'm such a bad mom my kid is going to hate me" I think that comes from a place of shame. Whereas guilt is more along the lines of I made a bad decision in that moment and I feel guilty for yelling at my child so I need to do x, y, z, in the future to prevent this from happening. I know that is essentially what you were trying to convey but I feel that word choice is important. That's what I appreciate so much about your work is you giving me the vocabulary to be able to give my child instructions instead of saying "no" or "stop that."
Just discovered your channel and loving it! I'd love to see a video on how to transition your child to no dummy (pacifier) in a way that doesn't traumatise them (our current challenge with our 20-month old)
Your videos have helped me more than you can imagine. I'm a single dad with a 3 year old girl and we are trying to potty train. Thanks for all the tips.
Great video. I really like letting child share how they felt to help them feel validated. Creating a plan as well cause the triggers will definitely come up again!
Thank you for your video it really made me feel better and most importantly helped validate my own feelings about parenting / We did have a long talk and reflect , your content saved me from thinking I was the worst mom ever ! I know we can be our own worst critic 😒
Hi, I am new to your channel. Your videos are so well explained and structured, I love it. I felt really lost on how to get my anger under control but now I could finally pinpoint what exactly was preventing me from changing and I am very grateful. Can't wait to check out your other videos. Also, you look like such a lovely person, you have a very positive aura that speaks to me. Many gretings from Germany!
Don't forget to download my FREE positive parenting checklist bundle! It comes with 13 printable checklists to help you through the most difficult moments, including tantrums, defiance, and risk taking. themompsychologist.mykajabi.com/pl/195178
My biggest guilt is knowing I might have damaged my son's sense of self or self esteem by getting angry at him or projecting at him. I hate the idea of any angry words I said forming his identity. Even if I apologize I can't stop feeling guilty and worried about the permanent damage.
We will always feel guilt but we can’t dwell on it. Repair and recover it works
Thank you for this video .. I am that mom who yells and feels terrible and then search for videos and material to focus on how to be a better parent ..
Your video is so relatable .. I don’t get the gentle parenting but this is so what I needed to get back on track and focus on my thoughts .. thanks .. will be following for more videos:. Thank you
Thank you so much. I hope this works for me and my 5 year old daughter. I have a son who is 1 next month.
Keep me posted!
Thank you Dr Jazmine for another great and needed video in this parenting journey! You said something towards the end (8:42) about not feeling guilty for our parenting mistakes and having self compassion because guilt doesn't make us change, compassion does. I think it's important to recognize the difference between guilt and shame. When we have negative self talk that sounds like "I'm such a bad mom my kid is going to hate me" I think that comes from a place of shame. Whereas guilt is more along the lines of I made a bad decision in that moment and I feel guilty for yelling at my child so I need to do x, y, z, in the future to prevent this from happening. I know that is essentially what you were trying to convey but I feel that word choice is important. That's what I appreciate so much about your work is you giving me the vocabulary to be able to give my child instructions instead of saying "no" or "stop that."
Thanks so much for watching, Elissa!
Just happy to see someone who is from my community, educated and sharing all that knowledge on youtube!
Much needed thank you for this!!!
Aww so glad this was helpful! Thanks for watching!
Just discovered your channel and loving it! I'd love to see a video on how to transition your child to no dummy (pacifier) in a way that doesn't traumatise them (our current challenge with our 20-month old)
Such a great suggestion! I'll add it to my list! 💛
This was great, Dr. Jazmine! Also you are positively glowing, such flawless beautiful skin!!
Aww stop it! You are so sweet! Thank you!
You’re so WELCOME 😍🥰😘
Great job Dr
Ahh thank you so much!
Your videos have helped me more than you can imagine. I'm a single dad with a 3 year old girl and we are trying to potty train. Thanks for all the tips.
Aww, this makes me so happy to hear! Thanks for watching, Charles!
Seriously, your videos is what i needed thank you.
Thank you needed this
So glad to help!
Great video. I really like letting child share how they felt to help them feel validated. Creating a plan as well cause the triggers will definitely come up again!
Thank you for your video it really made me feel better and most importantly helped validate my own feelings about parenting /
We did have a long talk and reflect , your content saved me from thinking I was the worst mom ever ! I know we can be our own worst critic 😒
Awww, I'm so glad this video was helpful. You're not alone mama. Big hugs!!
Hi, I am new to your channel. Your videos are so well explained and structured, I love it. I felt really lost on how to get my anger under control but now I could finally pinpoint what exactly was preventing me from changing and I am very grateful. Can't wait to check out your other videos. Also, you look like such a lovely person, you have a very positive aura that speaks to me. Many gretings from Germany!
Aww wow. This means so much. So glad my videos have been helpful. 😭🤎 Rooting for you mama
This is GOLD... Subbed!
I need this thank u
Tell something positive to purse 👍
Thank you so much for this video. Much needed
Aww so good to hear! Thanks for watching!
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