How to Make My Kids Listen | How to Get Your Kids to Listen Without Yelling | The Mom Psychologist

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 57

  • @mramirez5239
    @mramirez5239 2 роки тому +2

    Oh my goodness yes with the laughing!! Ooo!!!

  • @DanielleOlsen-ng8ox
    @DanielleOlsen-ng8ox Рік тому +2

    Sorry about your child hood experience. I'll be praying for you.

  • @muratakcayigit220
    @muratakcayigit220 3 роки тому +4

    11:04 I stopped to give an applause, big smile on my face watching the video. Subscribed. Thanks for sharing the knowledge with such joy and happiness

  • @cassiedaley112
    @cassiedaley112 Місяць тому

    The way you were READY to show your book 🤣🙏🏼
    Seriously thank you for all you’ve said. I found you perfectly. I’ve been struggling with my strong willed toddlers 🤡

  • @caitlinm6162
    @caitlinm6162 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much for this video. Really struggling with my 2.5 year old...sometimes I feel like all I say to her all day is NO!

  • @krystleobrien7000
    @krystleobrien7000 4 роки тому +9

    The end😭.... I'm so proud of you! You're so amazing! 😊 I'm catching up with the videos, they are gold! Thank you!

  • @MissMuffet2005
    @MissMuffet2005 3 роки тому +1

    What about toddlers who take great pleasure in doing the wrong thing, so I have always tried to have a gentle approach. Explanations and instructions, tried redirecting. She laughs and does what you don’t want, at lightening speed no matter what I’ve tried... 😭 obviously the yelling no’s aren’t working, this came after the gentle approach as I was so fed up. I’m doing this all on my own. My mum keeps sending me Super Nanny videos as my toddler can be so “unruly”, she is nearly 2 1/2 and getting worse every day. I do my best to role model the behaviour I want and speak nicely , she is amazing with manners but not with listening, I get she is young but I just don’t know at what point I should be concerned or if there is another approach that may work.

  • @jess050
    @jess050 Рік тому +1

    Your so awesome girl! Thank you for sharing this info, it matters!!! 💜

  • @EdilySi
    @EdilySi 3 роки тому +4

    I love your personality and videos. Been bingewatching to help me with my kiddos. Thanks so much!
    Edit after watching the whole video: Thank you for sharing your personal experience! You are incredible!

  • @lydiatyrrell7273
    @lydiatyrrell7273 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing some of your own story too. it’s really incredible to hear that you’re out there helping people with parenting in such an insightful and accessible way even though you’ve been through so much yourself!! ❤❤❤

  • @jennyquezada9644
    @jennyquezada9644 3 роки тому +2

    Your channel is pure gold!👌🏼

  • @DezRaeVocal
    @DezRaeVocal 2 роки тому +1

    I absolutely love you and your personality! First time mom here with a 16 month old and your vids are blessing me and so encouraging ❤️ 💖 and WOW what a testimony. You are truly impacting the world with the gift of you ❤️

  • @amberpace2000
    @amberpace2000 2 роки тому

    . I love your videos I be sobbing over feeling like Ish after yelling. I love you seriously new subscriber.

  • @HazelNutz2
    @HazelNutz2 3 роки тому +3

    Yeah idk. I’ve repeated this about 500 times a day for.. years 😆. Since the kids could walk and talk. My 3 year old just keeps going. Only responds when I’ve finally snapped. I’ve tried it all it feels. Clear instructions. Taking a moment to respond so I’m not reacting. I’ve tried redirecting. Idk. 😏

    • @TheMomPsychologist
      @TheMomPsychologist  3 роки тому +1

      Ahh appreciate the feedback. There's definitely so much to discipline that's hard to cover in a short video. Have you had a chance to check out my discipline book?
      www.themompsychologist.com/discipline

  • @tamarpetrosian5331
    @tamarpetrosian5331 4 роки тому +3

    So happy I found you!

  • @maryp9664
    @maryp9664 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us in a way thats easy understand and follow.

  • @sharonl.rosenthal3991
    @sharonl.rosenthal3991 3 роки тому +3

    This video really put things in perspective- thank you!! The info in your videos & on IG is SO valuable. It is much appreciated! Congratulations on your book- you should be so proud of yourself! 💗

    • @TheMomPsychologist
      @TheMomPsychologist  3 роки тому

      Awww you're so sweet! Thanks so much for your sweet words and so glad my content is helpful, mama! Thanks for tuning in!

  • @Comaci97
    @Comaci97 4 роки тому +2

    I am an au pair and this is SO helpful. thank you!!!!! literally out here saving my life with your content.

  • @ashleybush4313
    @ashleybush4313 4 роки тому +3

    I am SO glad I found your Instagram and UA-cam! Absolutely loved this video. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us and being so helpful. :)

    • @TheMomPsychologist
      @TheMomPsychologist  4 роки тому +1

      Awwww 😭 I'm so found you found me too!! So honored to help you mama!! Thanks for watching!! ❤

  • @pennyhart609
    @pennyhart609 4 роки тому +3

    Please make a video on mealtimes. Have a young toddler who throws.

    • @TheMomPsychologist
      @TheMomPsychologist  4 роки тому

      Ok, I got ya mama!! ❤

    • @stephaniestreifel329
      @stephaniestreifel329 3 роки тому

      Ooh! Yes! And picky eating! My 2 year old won’t eat anything unless it’s something he knows, absolutely won’t try anything!

  • @monaalshami9213
    @monaalshami9213 3 роки тому +3

    I love your content and your personality is amazing .

  • @TheOutdoorsyMama
    @TheOutdoorsyMama 4 роки тому +2

    This video helped a lot. I think I do this often and I’m trying to be more mindful of my words towards my son.

    • @TheMomPsychologist
      @TheMomPsychologist  4 роки тому

      Yay! So glad this was helpful! Let me know if there’s anything specific you want to learn about next! 💙

    • @TheOutdoorsyMama
      @TheOutdoorsyMama 4 роки тому

      The Mom Psychologist Actually there is! I’m currently pregnant and have noticed my three year old being more defiant. He fights doing his morning routine and refuses to use the restroom throughout the day. How can I address these issues and help him through it?

  • @amberpace2000
    @amberpace2000 2 роки тому

    Definitely last story for when he needed a hug. Im definitely bought to get your book

  • @noeliaramirez3567
    @noeliaramirez3567 3 роки тому +2

    Would you describe what made you upset?
    For example: “I’m sorry my love for yelling at you, you got really scared. Mommy shouldn’t have yelled when you threw the phone on the floor”

  • @shaylasimms3467
    @shaylasimms3467 4 роки тому +1

    I need to grab your book! Your hitting all the topics 👌🏽 your story! And look at you now ❤️ glad to see you turn it around for not only your good but your community. 🥰

  • @larondacisneros2573
    @larondacisneros2573 11 місяців тому

    ❤ love all your videos so help and support.

  • @Coffee.with.Hemingway
    @Coffee.with.Hemingway 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your story. I had a similar situation as a child and reading was a good way to escape the reality. I was wondering if you can make a video on how a mom, who just left an abusive relationship and tries to heal, can find a connection with a 3 yo who continues an emotional Rollercoaster in the house. Medication and therapy doesn't help much, because it is an everyday issue. 😪

  • @quratulainuqaili4205
    @quratulainuqaili4205 3 роки тому +1

    I need ur book 📖

  • @pixieberries
    @pixieberries 3 роки тому

    This is really good for younger children, do you have content that's aimed at children that are more in the 7-8 year sphere?

  • @healthcoachingbykate5035
    @healthcoachingbykate5035 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this! I’ve been trying reeeally hard to give the instructions instead of just yelling no...and he still ignores me! What can I do to interrupt his attention so that he focuses on me?

    • @TheMomPsychologist
      @TheMomPsychologist  4 роки тому +2

      Start with establishing eye contact and getting down on his level. Hope that helps!

  • @shelleyreeves8845
    @shelleyreeves8845 3 роки тому +2

    I appreciate you!

  • @michellemagness5561
    @michellemagness5561 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you! You are amazing!

  • @stephaniestreifel329
    @stephaniestreifel329 3 роки тому

    My daughter is SASS incarnate! I’ll be reading that book… I feel like I’m very clear and concise about what we ask of her and her brother (5 and 2) and it’s in one ear and out the other! Worse with her (5) than him! She very possibly has ADHD, how can I cope with her assuming ADHD is a variable?

  • @rebeccabartlett6636
    @rebeccabartlett6636 4 роки тому

    Love you so much ❤️

  • @MissMuffet2005
    @MissMuffet2005 3 роки тому

    1:38 literally what I am doing just so I can watch this video 😭

  • @donnamorrison8716
    @donnamorrison8716 Рік тому

    Where’s the video that teaches us what to do when they don’t listen even when using gentle terms ??

  • @raeanahernandez1694
    @raeanahernandez1694 Рік тому

    How can i personally contact you ?

  • @marissareyes8974
    @marissareyes8974 3 роки тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤