32 year old virgin here. It gets worse and worse with age. Not only do your dating options decrease, the options available will be harder to attain. Even if you do somehow ascend. All you are left with are bitter and resentful women/divorcees/widows/single mothers who have gone through multiple failed relationships and couldn't pin down Chad. Doesn't matter that you're "fresh", it works against you. It's over.
Idt it has to be that way. If you haven't already, you should try searching videos of women who are in there 30s or so and never dated. There seems to be a large pool of men and women out there that have what's considered traditional values and have saved themselves and still are for the right person. I just don't know how we keep missing each other or how to bring us together.
@@vonnyeaallen There certainly are pools of men and women in their 30s who haven't dated but I daresay that the male pool is far larger than the female counterpart. Even virgin females will prefer males with experience over those with none. I know this from my mother who was a 32 year old virgin until she met my father. My father had already been married before with 3 children then divorced and had multiple long term relationships. I highly doubt my mother would have gotten together with him if he were a 40 year inexperienced virgin. I'll ask her one day about it.
@@dancooper4443 That's not necessarily true, at least for me it isn't. The other day, on another video I was watching with a similar topic, a virgin male mention how he found a girl he liked and things started getting serious but he ended things because he couldn't get over the fact that she wasn't a virgin. It made me think how I'd probably suffer with the idea of being with a guy who didn't wait and had someone else to compare me to, and I don't mean that just sexually.
@@vonnyeaallen I used to think the same way too due to my conservative beliefs but even I realised that I cannot expect virginity from my female counterpart. It isn't realistic at all because the pool is miniscule and without being pragmatic I would deny myself a relationship. All I expect is understanding but even that is something I never got from my oneitis.
Damn man. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and planning to study MBA next and there I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23. She does sometimes try to initiate conversations with me or just say me hi with a smile daily but I just answer what she asks or just say her hi back and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations with her. 3 weeks ago she did say she finds me cute and that made me blush hard and my friends too teased me about it hehe and last week I also gave her a chocolate and she smiled and thanked me and we did a handshake but I feel worried as I see her having 3-4 male friends so I feel scared that what if she goes for either of them. I am really expecting to get a long hug from her soon too. Also next Saturday, me and this girl who is 19 year old did plan to meet up in Mcdonalds. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days. We had been chatting on Instagram for several months and finally decided to meet but I am nervous whether she is serious about the meet up or not because I got rejected by 4 girls previously. I am excited but also afraid as I have never really hanged out with a girl before. I am hoping that I get my first kiss that day or at least get to hug her or hold hands. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 next month and she did agree to meet up one day but I still don't know when exactly we will meet because she isn't really active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages.
I'm 31 as well and can't get a boyfriend. I've been watching a lot of videos about this lately and Idk where the problem lies but there are a lot of lonely people out there men and women. I wonder how we can get us talking. It doesn't look like many if any have tried connecting with each other in the comment section.
I'm genuinely starting to think it's over at 20 now. You're done developing very early. Your experience in highschool will reflect ih the rest of your prime years
I’ve had a girlfriend but still couldn’t accept her for not being a virgin, my life is a Rubik’s cube of misfortune. I live alone with my cat, as the years go by the solitude is slowly tearing me apart . May god have mercy on my soul.
I hear that I thought I was literally the only person that cared about stuff like that. I've always wondered how I would feel if I got with a guy and he wasn't a virgin/had an ex to compare me to.
I’m 28 and never had a gf. As a fat kid being told it’s personality get the good job be nice. Sold lies that never worked so i never gained experience I was invisible but after I hit the gym women give me choosing signals, flirt, be extra nice, start conversations but it feels weird cause I never experienced that before. Being alone is my normal having a gf is abnormal. Due to my physique I can easily attract women but 😅being black pilled it’s not about love but lust. Seeing the world through black pill you can’t go back. I think logically about situations and care less now 😢
Am 28...I never had any relationship experience and family pretty much gave up on me, once I pass away the family line will die. Also living alone is as I thought in high school extremely hard to get by, am grateful for my younger life tho hate my current situation
Just subscribed man I feel you I’m 26 still haven’t had no girlfriend I had hook ups and last time I went on a date was a year ago but since no luck from woman I wish it was easy to talk to em approach them and on the weekends I be lonely seeing couples makes me sad god bless to everyone of you men struggling with this area of life
i never really had a girldfriend and i am 22 years old, yet i have a great life, a job payed well, friends who are real, and all that without caring about woman at all.
I’ve never had a girl at 26, not even one date but I’m not ashamed of it. People have a hard time believing it because according to them I’m too “good looking” to be single. I take ownership over my experience as a man and if that means dying alone so be it.
Loneliness is bad for your mental health i can attest to this because ive experienced loneliness all my life. There's a reason why solitary confinment is used as punishment in prisons. Im 31 and never had a girlfriend,i never even had a girls number in my contacts lists. Personality is an excuse that women use to turn down ugly men,looks is all that matters to women. If you have an ugly face like me,its over.
Damn man not even a girls number? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I have been on my first ever date and got my first ever hug almost 8 months ago at the age of 22 but didn't work out. Then got ignored or rejected by several of my crushes. My current crush is in my University where are both MBA 1st year students and graduated college 10 months ago and She is also within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like. She is in a different classroom so our conversations were mostly brief but I managed to get her number and over a week ago, I even hugged her for the first time as it was our last exams and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to complete an internship within May to July and our next semester classes will start in August. She did give an awkward smile when I hugged her. I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't really wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok i have to study for exam so bye. I also said her bye. It was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and I was so happy but I was worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but I called her on phone 3 days ago and she picked the call and we had a normal conversation in phone. I still don't whether she likes me back or not.
I understand that you might feel behind but understand you arent the only 1 there is also a video about girls who are in the same boat some of them cry about it and wish someone would ask them out 1. are you working ? 2. are you working out ? 3. what are your hobbies ? dont put all you eggs in the relationship basket enjoy ALL OF LIFE
Guys, I just turned 52 and haven't been with many women in my lifetime. I've spent more years alone than I have with someone. Trust me, I ain't no normie by any stretch. In fact my last relationship ended almost 4 years ago, when she dumped me. She said I was her childhood crush, yeah right. So why she left, you know what I'm saying? It's been over for me since I was 12, that's four decades of LDAR. I gave up all hope for another woman. I'm just gonna do me and see if I can improve myself for myself. It's not like I ever get female validation, not even from female relatives. While you say about yourself that you should be on your 5th woman, it's taken me a lifetime to have that many and I don't see anymore coming my way.
Damn man thats sad. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college last week and wanna study MBA next. There in the classes, I got a massive crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class and introduced ourselves and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more she does say me hi but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate further talks with her. I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I don't really feel the confidence to initiate any conversation with her unless she initiates one with me. But yesterday she actually said I am cute as I keep smiling(like a shy smile) almost all the time in class and I blushed hard after she said I am cute and my friends too teased me about it hehe. I also had been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon. My childhood friend did agree to meet up but she is so inactive on Instagram that I still don't know when we will meet as she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me whereas I chat with the 19 year old daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs daily. We used to be in the same school but now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho. I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I get rejected by 4 girls recently and it looks like she still sees me as just a friend.
@@manosijroy8282 it's intimidating for sure. I'd see how far I can get with the one classmate who said you're cute. I usually almost never get that far. That would really boost my confidence if a woman told me that. The worst thing she can do is put you in the friend zone. If she does, ok, bye Felicia and keep it moving. I'm sure you already have plenty of female friends who insist on keeping it that way. You just hold on to your self respect my young bro and get that damn MBA. You're a high value man under construction. Best wishes
just focus on the next thing - everything else is a distraction you actually never stop believing and having hope, you are just lazy and you were never forced to take responsibility for your actions - if you would actually suffer from not having a girlfriend you would do something about it, like people stop being NEETs when their parents stop supporting them and get a job Lets be honest there is some part of you that enjoys this life... you dont understand just how much people care about their relationship with other people, it is literally their life to please other people and they dedicate their careers and their free time only to maintain their position... do you think you are somebody special? Do you really think you are so unattractive that you cannot get a girlfriend with some effort? It is the most natural and most rewarding thing you can do... Just think about your life and think about what you can do to change where you at now, and dont expect things to be easy and be patient... just try one more last time and make sure that if you fail that there is only yourself to blame and then if you have some honor and self-respect leave this world
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32 year old virgin here. It gets worse and worse with age. Not only do your dating options decrease, the options available will be harder to attain. Even if you do somehow ascend. All you are left with are bitter and resentful women/divorcees/widows/single mothers who have gone through multiple failed relationships and couldn't pin down Chad. Doesn't matter that you're "fresh", it works against you. It's over.
Idt it has to be that way.
If you haven't already, you should try searching videos of women who are in there 30s or so and never dated.
There seems to be a large pool of men and women out there that have what's considered traditional values and have saved themselves and still are for the right person.
I just don't know how we keep missing each other or how to bring us together.
@@vonnyeaallen There certainly are pools of men and women in their 30s who haven't dated but I daresay that the male pool is far larger than the female counterpart. Even virgin females will prefer males with experience over those with none. I know this from my mother who was a 32 year old virgin until she met my father. My father had already been married before with 3 children then divorced and had multiple long term relationships. I highly doubt my mother would have gotten together with him if he were a 40 year inexperienced virgin. I'll ask her one day about it.
@@dancooper4443 That's not necessarily true, at least for me it isn't.
The other day, on another video I was watching with a similar topic, a virgin male mention how he found a girl he liked and things started getting serious but he ended things because he couldn't get over the fact that she wasn't a virgin.
It made me think how I'd probably suffer with the idea of being with a guy who didn't wait and had someone else to compare me to, and I don't mean that just sexually.
@@vonnyeaallen I used to think the same way too due to my conservative beliefs but even I realised that I cannot expect virginity from my female counterpart. It isn't realistic at all because the pool is miniscule and without being pragmatic I would deny myself a relationship. All I expect is understanding but even that is something I never got from my oneitis.
Damn man. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and planning to study MBA next and there I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23. She does sometimes try to initiate conversations with me or just say me hi with a smile daily but I just answer what she asks or just say her hi back and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations with her. 3 weeks ago she did say she finds me cute and that made me blush hard and my friends too teased me about it hehe and last week I also gave her a chocolate and she smiled and thanked me and we did a handshake but I feel worried as I see her having 3-4 male friends so I feel scared that what if she goes for either of them. I am really expecting to get a long hug from her soon too.
Also next Saturday, me and this girl who is 19 year old did plan to meet up in Mcdonalds. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days. We had been chatting on Instagram for several months and finally decided to meet but I am nervous whether she is serious about the meet up or not because I got rejected by 4 girls previously. I am excited but also afraid as I have never really hanged out with a girl before. I am hoping that I get my first kiss that day or at least get to hug her or hold hands. I hope the plan doesn't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 next month and she did agree to meet up one day but I still don't know when exactly we will meet because she isn't really active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages.
Turning 31 this Saturday and still can’t get a girlfriend.
I'm 31 as well and can't get a boyfriend.
I've been watching a lot of videos about this lately and Idk where the problem lies but there are a lot of lonely people out there men and women.
I wonder how we can get us talking.
It doesn't look like many if any have tried connecting with each other in the comment section.
@@vonnyeaallen you re so out of touch
@@Home.Lander.69 You're of time
just give up
I turn 30 next month no gf
I'm genuinely starting to think it's over at 20 now. You're done developing very early. Your experience in highschool will reflect ih the rest of your prime years
not true
Nah 20-24 is pretty much the last window to experience it.
@@FailedChadLite You're done developing very early. Once you hit 20 you're starting to get old
@@FailedChadLite b.s.
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I’ve never had a relationship longer than 2 months. It’s like women instinctually know we ain’t it.
get in the gym then
Bro same too lmao
@FailedChadLite: At least you had a relationship.😢
I’ve had a girlfriend but still couldn’t accept her for not being a virgin, my life is a Rubik’s cube of misfortune. I live alone with my cat, as the years go by the solitude is slowly tearing me apart . May god have mercy on my soul.
@nobody how exactly am I a troll
I hear that I thought I was literally the only person that cared about stuff like that.
I've always wondered how I would feel if I got with a guy and he wasn't a virgin/had an ex to compare me to.
@@vonnyeaallen they actually warn about this in church
Same here man, 25 and never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl or held a girls hand
But I've realized that most women find a lot of guys unattractive and its only getting worse in the dating market place
I’m 28 and never had a gf. As a fat kid being told it’s personality get the good job be nice. Sold lies that never worked so i never gained experience I was invisible but after I hit the gym women give me choosing signals, flirt, be extra nice, start conversations but it feels weird cause I never experienced that before. Being alone is my normal having a gf is abnormal. Due to my physique I can easily attract women but 😅being black pilled it’s not about love but lust. Seeing the world through black pill you can’t go back. I think logically about situations and care less now 😢
Don’t worry bro I just like u but don’t go back to the blue pill it’ll destroy hopefully ur doing well
@@strawhat9179 facts I am thank you, I can see it as well when I see couples. Men buy women stuff to keep the economy up. If men stop it’ll crash
Am 28...I never had any relationship experience and family pretty much gave up on me, once I pass away the family line will die. Also living alone is as I thought in high school extremely hard to get by, am grateful for my younger life tho hate my current situation
the biological drive is the strongest. You can not overide.
I am 25 and no gf ever. Not even a kiss from a girl 😂😭
I said f**k it. And I f**ked an escort 🙃
Escorts don't kiss.
@@johnmilius3031 some do
Would you say that it was worth it or do you regret that decision? I am 22 yo and in a similar situation.
@@johnmilius3031 why would I kiss an escort, gross. Just put the 🎈an enjoy the ride
They Bite! 😂
Just subscribed man I feel you I’m 26 still haven’t had no girlfriend I had hook ups and last time I went on a date was a year ago but since no luck from woman I wish it was easy to talk to em approach them and on the weekends I be lonely seeing couples makes me sad god bless to everyone of you men struggling with this area of life
Have you tried online dating? I know it's a nightmare but you might get lucky and conversations can be easier via online/text initially.
Love you bro
Yeah bro I mean I’m almost 19 and I’ve never kissed a girl now I can’t even a imagine getting any women to do anything intimate with me
Definitely given up on God due to this. What loving God would want us single and virgin till death?
There is no GOD… common sense is your friend.
i never really had a girldfriend and i am 22 years old, yet i have a great life, a job payed well, friends who are real, and all that without caring about woman at all.
That’s fucked bro that your sister tells you that. Also I’m 30 and never had a gf either, it’s fuckin brutal, I almost don’t even bother anymore
I’ve never had a girl at 26, not even one date but I’m not ashamed of it. People have a hard time believing it because according to them I’m too “good looking” to be single. I take ownership over my experience as a man and if that means dying alone so be it.
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@@DoomerTejana we need a date after 8pm est
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Loneliness is bad for your mental health i can attest to this because ive experienced loneliness all my life. There's a reason why solitary confinment is used as punishment in prisons.
Im 31 and never had a girlfriend,i never even had a girls number in my contacts lists.
Personality is an excuse that women use to turn down ugly men,looks is all that matters to women.
If you have an ugly face like me,its over.
Damn man not even a girls number? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend but I have been on my first ever date and got my first ever hug almost 8 months ago at the age of 22 but didn't work out. Then got ignored or rejected by several of my crushes. My current crush is in my University where are both MBA 1st year students and graduated college 10 months ago and She is also within 21-23 age range and she is very pretty almost model like. She is in a different classroom so our conversations were mostly brief but I managed to get her number and over a week ago, I even hugged her for the first time as it was our last exams and we won't be able to meet for 3 months as we have to complete an internship within May to July and our next semester classes will start in August. She did give an awkward smile when I hugged her. I literally wrapped her in my arms whereas she didn't really wrap me in her arms but she pat my back once and said ok i have to study for exam so bye. I also said her bye. It was my 2nd time I hugged a girl in person and I was so happy but I was worried whether she was comfortable enough or not but I called her on phone 3 days ago and she picked the call and we had a normal conversation in phone. I still don't whether she likes me back or not.
37 year old here dude
I understand that you might feel behind but understand you arent the only 1 there is also a video about girls who are in the same boat some of them cry about it and wish someone would ask them out
1. are you working ?
2. are you working out ?
3. what are your hobbies ?
dont put all you eggs in the relationship basket enjoy ALL OF LIFE
Guys, I just turned 52 and haven't been with many women in my lifetime. I've spent more years alone than I have with someone. Trust me, I ain't no normie by any stretch. In fact my last relationship ended almost 4 years ago, when she dumped me. She said I was her childhood crush, yeah right. So why she left, you know what I'm saying? It's been over for me since I was 12, that's four decades of LDAR. I gave up all hope for another woman. I'm just gonna do me and see if I can improve myself for myself. It's not like I ever get female validation, not even from female relatives.
While you say about yourself that you should be on your 5th woman, it's taken me a lifetime to have that many and I don't see anymore coming my way.
Damn man thats sad. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Since 13th July 2023, I started going for some classes to prepare for exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college last week and wanna study MBA next. There in the classes, I got a massive crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class and introduced ourselves and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and some more she does say me hi but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate further talks with her. I am still kinda shy near girls in person so I don't really feel the confidence to initiate any conversation with her unless she initiates one with me. But yesterday she actually said I am cute as I keep smiling(like a shy smile) almost all the time in class and I blushed hard after she said I am cute and my friends too teased me about it hehe.
I also had been chatting with this another girl who is 19 on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 now turning 22 soon. My childhood friend did agree to meet up but she is so inactive on Instagram that I still don't know when we will meet as she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me whereas I chat with the 19 year old daily about everything and send each other virtual hugs daily. We used to be in the same school but now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho. I wanna ask her out too but I am nervous as I get rejected by 4 girls recently and it looks like she still sees me as just a friend.
@@manosijroy8282 it's intimidating for sure. I'd see how far I can get with the one classmate who said you're cute. I usually almost never get that far. That would really boost my confidence if a woman told me that. The worst thing she can do is put you in the friend zone. If she does, ok, bye Felicia and keep it moving. I'm sure you already have plenty of female friends who insist on keeping it that way. You just hold on to your self respect my young bro and get that damn MBA. You're a high value man under construction. Best wishes
@@manosijroy8282 dont wait too long man. That childhood friend doesn't want you, or she would put in effort for you. Best of luck bro
Did you ever try to get a gf in Mexico?
just focus on the next thing - everything else is a distraction
you actually never stop believing and having hope, you are just lazy and you were never forced to take responsibility for your actions - if you would actually suffer from not having a girlfriend you would do something about it, like people stop being NEETs when their parents stop supporting them and get a job
Lets be honest there is some part of you that enjoys this life... you dont understand just how much people care about their relationship with other people, it is literally their life to please other people and they dedicate their careers and their free time only to maintain their position... do you think you are somebody special? Do you really think you are so unattractive that you cannot get a girlfriend with some effort? It is the most natural and most rewarding thing you can do...
Just think about your life and think about what you can do to change where you at now, and dont expect things to be easy and be patient... just try one more last time and make sure that if you fail that there is only yourself to blame and then if you have some honor and self-respect leave this world