its great hearing from somebody else expressing something similar to what i go through. for me personally i never even had the chance to talk to one and i always wondered how is it like having a gf? i'm 23yo and still never had/found one. i always think of how we humans are meant to complete each other females & males and how the whole idea that you can be single and happy is not true what so ever because there will always be that hole in our hearts that can't be filled with anything except love. for me waiting till marriage is slowly becoming harder and longer, even then i think finding the right one is so hard. this whole topic is so complex and i don't think there is enough people talking about it. we are humans in the end of the day and we need that love and it isn't weird nor cringe.
Yk. For me personally im 18. I found in life that as long as i am maintaining eye contact, smiling, having enthusiasm in my voice, dont overthink it, and have interesting things to talk about. While also going to the gym, having hobbies, a job, ect. "pulling" women or finding a gf is never too difficult. Like you said practice makes perfect. I dont have a car and women pay for my ubers n shit. Sometimes its less about what you can provide financially, and just having the confidence of knowing what you can provide romantically.
if you got girls payin for your uber n shit trust me they do not give a fuck about your confidence or hobbies or enthusiasm or w.e, u re prob just good lookin or tall or both
This is true, I make below average income right now but I have been with women who make a lot of money. Being good looking helps alot too if you don’t have money. If you are not handsome in the face you can work out and develop a muscular physique.
You're just attractive brother. If you're unattractive girls will find you creepy and not allow you to approach, be "confident" or speak about your hobbies. Everything you listed would be seen as a negative in an unattractive man, like eye contact, smiling, not having your own car etc. you live in a different world than a LOT of men.
I'm mid 20's, 6 pack, 6 figures, 6ft & never dated a chick. Every chick I come across is either super rude, egotistical, on onlyfans, or only offers used vagina. My older brother is a 6ft 1 light skin, in shape, tats, good job, and attracts a lot of women. Every chick he's dated wanted to "keep exploring options" or were divorcees.. I just had a conversation with a gentleman today in mid his 30's. He said he dealt with the same thing growing up and blames his generation for creating the degeneracy we have nowadays. The women he dealt with were girls who have been ran through or even has an onlyfans but expects to date a quality man.. We're screwed for anything serious with women nowadays
most people don't cold approach anymore. that method has shifted online, so you don't need to do that stuff anymore. you cant even solicit someone for cash in public anymore... you do it online
The same for me but it’s okay since I personally want to work abroad one day and I don’t want a girlfriend to tie me and force me to stay in my country
bro that's normal. Don't rush it. I regret most of my experience so far. But most girls at 20 already racked up relationships and body counts. Don't ever dare to take a girl serious until proven otherwise. Try to get an 18 year old who's not mentally damaged. If she's in college she's prob double digits already. You'd be surprised the cute innocent girl is actually a freak. I've seen too much deception and I'm 24. Stay focused on yourself. The girls will know you're on your sh*t and come to you
There are still people who will like you brother if you begin to travel around the world you will be grateful for life if you see how other people live and still be happy
Honestly bro you just need to look max grow your hair longer in the front, trim eyebrows, look into getting minoxidill for beard growth and start working out
No of course not. Everyone else is constantly in relationships just because they're stupid and like their lives to be difficult. It's actually good to be alone and unwanted.
Idk, I’ve never been in a “relationship” pursay, but I have had sex with about 20 girls in my life (24 years old) what I can say is no one is interested in building relationships nowadays. It’s all just sex. And honestly, im done with this life,
Patchy beard, fix your eyebrows, do you use a good cologne (versache eros, bleu de chanel). Do you work out? work out consistantly and actually look like you workout. Nails groomed? Skin care routine? Fix the way you dress. After doing all that. Gaurenteed you will be more confident and get a girl. Most people dont put in the effort.
It’s weird to me how people think if a guy just looks better he’ll be able to get a girl. Men don’t base their self worth off of their looks, and women aren’t attracted to men based on looks. It only helps a very little bit
Why does it bother you so much? Why do you care? If he wants to express his feelings on here, let him. No need to ridicule him for doing so. You aren’t being forced to watch
@@davidl9155 the question is why are you allowing me to trigger you? I’m giving homeboy some serious advice. By making this video, he signed his own death warrant. And that’s what’s wrong with people like you. You people got no morals and standards.
its great hearing from somebody else expressing something similar to what i go through. for me personally i never even had the chance to talk to one and i always wondered how is it like having a gf? i'm 23yo and still never had/found one. i always think of how we humans are meant to complete each other females & males and how the whole idea that you can be single and happy is not true what so ever because there will always be that hole in our hearts that can't be filled with anything except love. for me waiting till marriage is slowly becoming harder and longer, even then i think finding the right one is so hard. this whole topic is so complex and i don't think there is enough people talking about it. we are humans in the end of the day and we need that love and it isn't weird nor cringe.
Lol ikr the people who say that stuff are cringe
I had girls go up to me and say they like me and call me handsome then when i try to make a move on them they dont really mean it its really confusing
Yk. For me personally im 18. I found in life that as long as i am maintaining eye contact, smiling, having enthusiasm in my voice, dont overthink it, and have interesting things to talk about. While also going to the gym, having hobbies, a job, ect. "pulling" women or finding a gf is never too difficult. Like you said practice makes perfect. I dont have a car and women pay for my ubers n shit. Sometimes its less about what you can provide financially, and just having the confidence of knowing what you can provide romantically.
being confident is the single biggest cope, imagine tellin a bald, short indian dude to just have hobbies and be confident bahahah
if you got girls payin for your uber n shit trust me they do not give a fuck about your confidence or hobbies or enthusiasm or w.e, u re prob just good lookin or tall or both
fair point. im 6'4 and i would say 7/10 in the face. But regardless you can always try to max out your stats. @@user-dx9qi7cj8y
This is true, I make below average income right now but I have been with women who make a lot of money. Being good looking helps alot too if you don’t have money. If you are not handsome in the face you can work out and develop a muscular physique.
You're just attractive brother. If you're unattractive girls will find you creepy and not allow you to approach, be "confident" or speak about your hobbies. Everything you listed would be seen as a negative in an unattractive man, like eye contact, smiling, not having your own car etc. you live in a different world than a LOT of men.
Yes iv'e felt that rejection too it sucks i know girls can be brutal.
I'm mid 20's, 6 pack, 6 figures, 6ft & never dated a chick. Every chick I come across is either super rude, egotistical, on onlyfans, or only offers used vagina. My older brother is a 6ft 1 light skin, in shape, tats, good job, and attracts a lot of women. Every chick he's dated wanted to "keep exploring options" or were divorcees.. I just had a conversation with a gentleman today in mid his 30's. He said he dealt with the same thing growing up and blames his generation for creating the degeneracy we have nowadays. The women he dealt with were girls who have been ran through or even has an onlyfans but expects to date a quality man.. We're screwed for anything serious with women nowadays
You're probably the only one screwed
No respectable man wants sloppy 23rds@@spammer5530
most people don't cold approach anymore. that method has shifted online, so you don't need to do that stuff anymore. you cant even solicit someone for cash in public anymore... you do it online
How did u put urself out there I feel like it’s really a tough mental task it’s easier said then done sometimes
I wouldn’t even consider showing my face
Never had a relationship and I’m a virgin at 20 years old 😂
The same for me but it’s okay since I personally want to work abroad one day and I don’t want a girlfriend to tie me and force me to stay in my country
bro that's normal. Don't rush it. I regret most of my experience so far. But most girls at 20 already racked up relationships and body counts. Don't ever dare to take a girl serious until proven otherwise. Try to get an 18 year old who's not mentally damaged. If she's in college she's prob double digits already. You'd be surprised the cute innocent girl is actually a freak. I've seen too much deception and I'm 24. Stay focused on yourself. The girls will know you're on your sh*t and come to you
Same but 21
I isolate because I feel ugly and uninteresting.
There are still people who will like you brother if you begin to travel around the world you will be grateful for life if you see how other people live and still be happy
Honestly bro you just need to look max grow your hair longer in the front, trim eyebrows, look into getting minoxidill for beard growth and start working out
Believe me your not missing out on anything bro
No of course not. Everyone else is constantly in relationships just because they're stupid and like their lives to be difficult. It's actually good to be alone and unwanted.
lovew is the best thing ever, but losing your relationship is worse than never having had it, so not having it does have a plus to it
Yep got to have confidence and personality cause looks and money got zero to do with getting a good woman
Cope
You are so nice person.
it all starts with a fresh cut. because if u think ur ugly ur not just need a clean look
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just get a haircut bro.🤣
You aint about that life be real
Idk, I’ve never been in a “relationship” pursay, but I have had sex with about 20 girls in my life (24 years old) what I can say is no one is interested in building relationships nowadays. It’s all just sex. And honestly, im done with this life,
Bingo bro
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❤❤❤❤
lost mine at 25 doesn’t really matter
It sucks because hes kinda hot
Grow your beard and hair
You’re a handsome guy and very well spoken.
A woman calling a man handsome means nothing. She's just being polite. She has no interest in dating him.
You gonna date him? Women call gorlock beautiful . Never listen to women
@@suicidality2744you're just sad lol
@@Rollacoastertycoonyes please never listen to them so you can keep yourself in the pit you're in lol.
It might be a dude behind that profile
there's nothing wrong with you baby
Bro wtf you’re a good looking guy like objectively, weird
Looks don’t matter to women. If you don’t have the emotional strength and personality then your good looks are meaningless to women.
Be realistic there's something that can be approve upon 😅
@@itsDjjayy that's for everyone, goofy
Patchy beard, fix your eyebrows, do you use a good cologne (versache eros, bleu de chanel). Do you work out? work out consistantly and actually look like you workout. Nails groomed? Skin care routine? Fix the way you dress. After doing all that. Gaurenteed you will be more confident and get a girl. Most people dont put in the effort.
It’s weird to me how people think if a guy just looks better he’ll be able to get a girl. Men don’t base their self worth off of their looks, and women aren’t attracted to men based on looks. It only helps a very little bit
Exactly bro just means look maxing😅
@@nwobhm8914I mean if you say so but that's your opinion
@@nwobhm8914 i agree with you in the grand scheme of things but a good looking man is a door opener for most women.
@@nwobhm8914women definitely are attracted to looks but yea its probably not the main factor
Why is everyone and their mother crying about their life on UA-cam now.
because everyone strugglng nowadays lifes bullshit
@@dsz8 ok so cry about it 😂
@@TheLoneLanderso what's ur deal
@@improover113 nothing, but if you need to cry on UA-cam by all means you do you.
Cause we aren't alone.
Don’t cry about it on YT, go bout your business and stay busy with your life and learn how to talk to people.
That wont change a single thing man.
@@P..770 you haven’t even tried.
Why does it bother you so much? Why do you care? If he wants to express his feelings on here, let him. No need to ridicule him for doing so. You aren’t being forced to watch
@@davidl9155 the question is why are you allowing me to trigger you? I’m giving homeboy some serious advice. By making this video, he signed his own death warrant. And that’s what’s wrong with people like you. You people got no morals and standards.
Actually your wrong it won’t help with anything but having a better mindset & having shit ton of money, you won’t get a girlfriend by doing so.
Hey same