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Giving you friendship kisses, cheating, and cancelled weddings | Episode 49 | Give It To Me Straight
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- Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
- Kissing your friends is fine…until it turns into a make-out session. In this weeks episode, Alex and Jon discuss friendship kisses, cancelled weddings, and friendships that have gone south. You know, not all friendships have to last forever. Alex’s friendships usually last awhile, whereas Jon’s only last 2-3 business days…or a year if you play Call of Duty.
0:00 - Intro
30:51 - Risky Towel Business
33:21 - How Long Should You Wait To Remarry?
36:45 - Is Playful Kissing Cheating?
38:23 - My Fiance Cancelled Our Wedding
41:27 - My Husband Uses Dating Apps
44:58 - Close Friend or Foe?
49:50 - My Sister’s Wedding vs. My Baby
53:30 - My Wife Makes Out With Her Friends
58:31 - I Sold My Friend’s Concert Tickets
1:03:33 - Call of Booty
1:08:03 - Reading Your Secrets
1:09:38 - Listener Review
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High risk labor and delivery nurse here if you need to vent, ask questions, or hear positive stories ❤
I had a very positive birth even though things didn’t go according to plan.
I had an amazing midwife and nurses. I also hired a doula which was amazing! She coached me through every single contraction and calmed all my fears.
My daughter is a year old and I couldn’t be happier. ❤
“He has a female friend that calls him, texts him-“
John: NO
It’s corny to say because everyone says it but have faith and hope. My pregnancy i had placentia previa, preeclampsia, gestational diabetes, high blood pressure and no doctor wanted to take the risk with me as their patient. It was so stressful but and I was scared sh*tless throughout the pregnancy. I felt so numb from it all. She was a premie at 31 weeks. After a tough pregnancy and start, she is now a beautiful 2 year old monster :). Hang in there, wishing you and your baby lots of health. ❤
Omg I have a similar story, I had gestation diabetes and placenta previa during my pregnancy and my son was born prematurely too at 35 weeks. He’s now an 11 years old and the love of our lives. It was all worth it.
I’m single and have never been pregnant but sharing that little bit of your story almost made me cry without even knowing what you’re going through, stay strong ❤ and as always best podcast ever, makes me hopeful that I’ll find my person someday and it’ll be fun and real as you guys
Sorry Jon, Alex is completely right on the remarriage thing. This is statistically true and not just "one article".
Yes he took that so personal lol
13 Reasons Why might be the wrong show for poor, sweet Alex. She might need to take some notes from Why Women Kill instead.
Men are also 6x more likely to leave their wife if they get sick so, sorry that facts disrupt Jon's worldview
Alex crying is killing me! I went through this with scary things with baby and it takes everything to hold it together and not stress an stress the baby and just pray for the best outcome and put the most positive foot forward. This is the journey to motherhood its like emotional training and will rip your insides apart! I call it the Grinch process where his heart grows and it hurts. It is wonderful you love your baby so much already!
2:10 John’s “oh no” was in all lower case letters ! 😂 John go give her a hug 😂
Alex you’re so strong ❤😭 idk how you can hold it together like that when tears are just coming out esp when you’re pregnant lol I admire you so much. You two are so awesome
Thank you continuing the videos even when life is going so fast for yall right now. I’m thankful for the transparency and honestly it’s helping me with my own personal life. This was so real and raw. That is important to see on socials too. Alex and Jon, you two are wonderful. Thinking of you and you have support from your online friends.
Omg Alex first mins in cracked hurts my heart 🥺 I hope that everything will get back on track,just keep that you and baby are healthy ❤ hormones are messing with you right ,but it is so normal,and just be you. Let it out gurl send you love and positive vibes 🌸
Gonna start my day watching your video all the way here in UK.
Every week, I always look forward to listening to your new episode. Sending hugs to you Alex, and you're right Jon, you'll get through this together ❤
100% you like your own kids way more than others lol & that’s just facts!!! 🤷🏻♀️
I just gave birth to my first baby in March and our pregnancy was wild. We got VERY scary news at our anatomy scan and basically our entire second trimester was a nightmare. My joy of being pregnant was stolen. We prayed and prayed and weren’t sure what to do, but I will say… doctors do not know everything. SO much happens during gestation and just because they think something now, doesn’t mean it’s true or will be true when baby comes out. They were 100% sure my daughter would never walk, talk, or fend for herself at all, but as she grew and progressed things quite literally worked themselves out. Nature and God are both amazing and nothing is set in stone. Our baby girl is PERFECTLY HEALTHY now. Nothing is “wrong” with her at all. Praying for you to have peace and that you can still be excited about this journey 💕
Jon being too lazy to look it up is further proof men can't live without help 😂
I love that y’all explore options when there’s vital missing info from the story/question to be able to answer it properly. I think it’s helpful to the listener when you bring up the hypotheticals or “assumptions” about said situation, and advice you have for that whether or not it’s not the case ❤️
I think y’all do really well answering the questions! I love y’all’s channel, and I’ve been watching for a couple of years now! It’s so fun to watch your videos! Thank you for all you both do ❤
My uncle reconnected with his first love after my aunt died, he's like in his 80's, you'd think the man was 19 again. It's honestly super adorable.
1. Sending positive vibes and love to Alex, baby & Jon!
2. You guys are so f’ing funny. I can’t wait for your pod’s to come out, I laugh so hard. Keep on keepin it real!🤘🏼
Sending you so much love and good thoughts Alex ❤️ your strength is amazing. Thank you for sharing what you have. I’m wishing you comfort, support, and the best.
Also sending love & good vibes to y’all for your pregnancy!!! ❤
I love watching your podcast through Spotify and UA-cam! I’m wishing your family the best as you navigate this difficult part of your life ❤
Omg when you guys described sitting at the closing in survival mode, it hit so close to home. Couple of years ago, we found out my husband had suffered a stroke (without us knowing as he did not display regular symptoms and long story short, regained his faculties after a couple of weeks) on the day of his sister's engagement party. So we literally had to be part of this celebration while our brains were still processing the news we had just gotten. It's that hardest. Sending you guys lots of love and may this journey go smoothly for you. ❤
It's ok to worry and it's ok to be vulnerable. We're here for you girl. ❤️
Jon! The car issue.... Don't go through YOUR insurance or you're fucked. Go through THEIR insurance. Either the Driver or the Company. Your insurance is for when you're at fault or someone hits you and they are uninsured. When it's someone else's fault, you go through THEIR company. You can then use your insurance for any "gaps" regardless of having gap insurance.
Totally know how you feel Alex. I was pregnant during Covid, so had to go to majority of my appointments alone. Towards the end received some possible scary news. I hid in the bathroom crying for a while before I could compose myself to drive home. Thankfully everything turned out ok, but you’re right that it never crosses your mind until it happens. Praying all goes well for you and baby. Blessings! 🙏🏽♥️
Love you guys!!! Praying for the best for baby & Alex ❤
Positive thoughts and vibes to you guys and your little ❤️
Let’s hear it for band-aid #3!
sending much love, Alex. your tears made me cry! praying for you both during this time❤
Appreciate you guys opening up. You’ll both and baby be in my prayers ❤
Thank you ❤
You were missed. I was waiting for all these stories. Alex big hug and stay strong. You guys should do a poll... team boy and team girl! Can't wait for the baby reveal.
Sending lots of love! We got news at 20 weeks about a possible heart condition as well as some other things with our baby and it was so stressful. Lots of extra testing and caution. Luckily in the end everything was fine but it’s so stressful and my heart goes out to you. It’s the last thing you want when you want to be excited. Hoping for the best for you guys ❤❤
I love yalls honesty as always I just know everything is gonna be okay💜
Alex is right! Men are much more likely to remarry after their spouses die. Stats are don’t lie.
Men need more help!!
Sweetest couple, your love for eachother shows and is so beautiful!
Yup pregnancy bad news or just warning news can be sooo challenging 😥 take time and be kind
Wish you all the best. You are such a great human beings❤
With all the problems you had and how you talk about it now, it all makes you more human. It is why this episode is by far the best. We got to share a glimpse of your life for a sec and got to know you a little bit better. I can know feel less worried when my boyfriend and I have little silly flights (like at the airport), because I will think about how after it is not that dramatic. Hope your baby’s health and momma’s health are ok🥺 love you guyssss 🫶🏽
Oh mamaaa😢 I’ve never seen Alex cry before and it made my eyes water. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I didn’t get pregnant easily, it also took a year and a half, so I’m always really nervous before appointments and scans, praying everything is okay, so in a way, I understand you. We’re all here to support you and Jon♥️
Alex you made me tear up when you started tearing up 🥲 I know pregnancy and the risks and issues are so so hard and having literally no control over what’s happening in ur body and to ur baby is mental torture!
I’ve been there and it’s ok to feel ur feelings! But what you can control is how you take care of yourself! Praying for your growing fam ❤
You’re right! Especially as a first time mom even small bits of news are harrowing to you, totally understandable 💗 pregnancy is such a journey!
❤ keeping you guys in my prayers
We also ended up having a high risk delivery and I remember crying when they told me that the end of my pregnancy and birth wasn’t going to go how I imagined it and would be a lot harder than I anticipated. It’s crazy the amount of things you are able to get through for your family♥️
Sending you strength, love and prayers ❤️
aww Alex, it broke my heart seeing you struggling like that. I hope uou and the baby will stay healthy and happy
Sending so much love ❤️
You guys are soo fun❤
I love that you just keep adding more bandaids to your laptop 😂
Oooh I'm sorry for you guys. ❤
It just sucks. I had two misscariages and it just sucks when you want to be happy and stress free, and pregnancy is not! It takes it to an whole other level... Gone is the happy bubble!
I'm crossing my fingers for you guys, that all goes well ❤
Love you guys and this pod, I'm so sorry Alex I hope everything is okay ❤❤❤
Not the poly Molly relationship 😂
The story with the pregnancy and the wedding made me so mad. 😂 Why is this crazy lady already planning a wedding when she's not engaged to a man she hasn't been with for more than a year??!!!! If she's so worried about her sister attending maybe she needs to make it for June for the following year, and get to know her fiance a little better........ Let the pregnant sister have her baby in peace, geez.
At 47:55 is the bestttt part , does it rhyme with grape and then Alex just is the icing on the cake with the rhyming 😂, but yesss it’s not funny but the rhyming is lol 😂
I love diners too. We always stop at when we drive through New Jersey. Congratulations on the pregnancy and good wishes.
I’m so sorry for whatever is going on right now. We also received a call from our OB specialist a few weeks ago with some terrifying news following an ultrasound and it just felt like the world was crumbling around me/us. I hope everything is okay for you guys, it’s a living nightmare going through it. I hope whatever is happening turns around for you three soon and baby/mama are safe. It’s a lot to take in and I’m sorry you guys are going through it too.
That start 😭
Sending you well wishes for you both and baby ❤
Thank you :)
I really feel for you Alex and Jon... sounds like a doozy... I know when it comes to baby everything is magnified. The joy and also the fear. I hope everything works out ok
You are not alone, pregnancy never goes the way we expect it. That’s ok, just do as your doc says & take it easy. Enjoy this season as much as you possibly can ❤️
I love watching y’all argue, we do the exact same thing makes me feel normal. Also pregnancy is so scary even when everything is going well, sorry you are having challenges. My thoughts are with you.
Best comment by Alex, once ppl show you who they are Believe Them!!!
I recently went to Lapland and had the exact same issue with the flights and losing luggage (thank goodness for AirTags)! The trip was magical, but the journey was … trying, to say the least.
AirTags saved us
“Does it rhyme is smesexual shashault” sent me to another dimension Alex 😂
2:30 when I was pregnant with my daughter they told me they thought she had down syndrome they took the test and turns out she was fine . They thought that because I had a risk pregnancy with my son and her . My daughter wanted to come out at 29 weeks . I had to bed written but I needed money so for my shifts I would just take 3 days off . I had gestational diabetes, Working at 3cm dilated at 29 weeks , getting steroids shots and pills that stop contractions to finally giving birth at 37 weeks . Baby came out healthy 🙏🏻 I’m sending so much positivity to your baby journey 💜
Men/women remarrying: Alex is right, statistically!
Women tend to have more relationships (friendships) that satisfy our emotional needs, that creates little support groups, which help maintain normal lives. Men tend to decline without their spouse. Of course there are exceptions.
Alex was right on the remarried spouse issue
You guys have to see the northern lights in Canada, they’re crazy!!! But it’s much colder than -3 😂
Welcome to NY...it sucks here, but welcome. ❤
So thankful that my mom sells gap Insurance at her job! I would also recommend getting an Umbrella policy if you own a home and a vehicle. Can help cover all the little things that your home or auto policy doesn’t.
I live in the north of Sweden so I have seen plenty of northern lights, a lot of them are indeed not super sharp and bright. However, we do get some of those sharp, bright, photogenic northern lights 😄 It's usually on the coldest nights, much colder than -3°F. More along the lines of -25°F because those are also the least cloudy nights. 😊
“Those dudes are fucking forsure” lmfao 😂😂
After a pregnancy loss and a long journey after that to get pregnant, I can truly
appreciate every change of my body, every morning sickness and swollen legs... I always thought these are the things to worry about.
Dear Alex - having a baby is the hardest and most wonderful thing you could ever do... looking back - I think I started worrying as soon as I got pregnant and it never ended! It just changes and morphs... My daughter is now 11... there will always be new challenges and curveballs along the way... sending you big hugs and wishing you all the best on your journey...
Do the Band-Aids have anything to do with your pregnancy journey?
I think it all started with a dent on her laptop, many commented on it so the next episode the dent was covered with the bandaid.😅
Back in the day women were allowed a lot longer amount of time to grieve their husbands before they remarried. Her community would support her while she continued to take care of her home and kids. Husbands would have to replace their wives a lot quicker so that someone could tend to the kids and the home and so that he could go back to work.
Usually they hound people at dealerships trying to get people to buy GAP insurance. 😢 that sucks about your car!
There is no “correct or wrong time” in lifetime to re marry . Point is they both need to be in the same life path and phase at the moment. Regardless of the circumstances or the past.
You two are couple goals...question...whats going on with the computer on the table in front of Alex...three bandages now....
Also would you consider taking 1 live call per podcast then you can get the full story!! I watch another podcast and they do live callers sometimes.
Lmao. Where do these men find the f******* audacity?! 😂 😂
Most basic requirements of being in a relationship. BE LOYAL.
Don’t expose his paws to escalators! My dogs paws got stuck in the metal grate and did damage!! 😢😢
WHAT NOOOO poor boy, hope he’s ok!
Now that y'all are in NY, you should do a podcast with Doctor Mike!!!
I live in upstate New York by lake Ontario in the '80s we used to get Northern lights all the time and they were bright green and they would fill the sky. They were ghostly. But it's been a hot minute since we seen it like that
@ 29:18 The diner you guys went to in New York, what was the name???!!!
Yes, always get a warranty and gap insurance. I have always gotten it. It has saved me so much $$$ in the end! 😅
Jon likes to learn the hard way
@@giveittomestraightsometimes we do 😅😂
Omg my in laws went to this place in lapland and they said it was awesome but super cold 😂... They went from the airport to the hotel with motoski (idk if it is how it is said). And they love the christmas village too 😁
Praying for you and your pregnancy.
Just starting to watch but Jon is not at fault for the flight thing😂 💩 happens. Gates are always a nightmare. He tried, not his fault that it was on the other side of the airport lol. Props for even talking to someone. I would have been like oh hi here is the gate and go back 😂
Hahaha 😂😂
The sisters sound like they don’t even like each other, if you don’t like your family why go? If your sis is important to you go. Easy choice.
I have a 2 month old baby and even though it was a good birth there is NO WAY I could have gone to a wedding or traveled in the condition I was in a month ago. Even if I physically could, I wouldn’t have thought of putting my newborn baby through that.
I really hope this girl’s family can see that but if not maybe take them to a doctor’s appointment so that the doctor themselves can tell them. It’s f’d up really
My mom remarried 4 month after my stepdad passed away from cancer. So I think it depends on the situation and the people involved. … Also, she was very successful in her career so money wasn’t the motivator. I think people just don’t want to be alone
On the concert tickets, I rarely disagree with Jon but yes the emailer was wrong. Those ex-friends were dumb to not get their tickets earlier especially before burning bridges with the emailer, but ultimately they had an agreement and exchanged money that the emailer accepted from them to do a service. This is the type of thing that gets you in small claims court if the friends chose to be pettier than the emailer. We don’t know the context or other side for why the friendship deteriorated, but having hurt feelings doesn’t get you out of your obligation to fulfill that agreement.
I'm on jon's side on this. being passionate with someone else is like cheating. Doesn't matter if they're "girl" best friends or not.
As a married mom with three little kids, 100% Jon is in the wrong and needs to apologize 😂
I game with my husband, and his friends join us and and some of them have girlfriends, but I would never game with them 1 on 1. If my husband was gaming with another girl, especially one that he used to work with and still talks to we would be having a very long conversation. She needs to look at their texts.
You're not alone❤ when you picture having a baby you think it's going to go well...or hope. I struggled with infertility and pregnancy loss for 9 years along with excruciating pain and multiple surgeries, and then 6 years of the adoption process which was so much harder than I expected. The pregnancy journey is hard and long for some, you got this.
If you have a loan always get gap insurance!
To the person who asked about travel one month postpartum for her sister’s wedding, don’t do it. It sounds like you already decided that based on your question but you won’t want to be apart from your baby and you’ll be healing like Jon said. If your family isn’t supporting you after your first baby after infertility issues, that makes THEM the assholes
❤🙏🏻❤
Ive neve got mad at Jon. It is so normal for men to remarried after be widowed
37:21 your bf is a cheater, leave him. That’s ridiculous!!
39:42 I think your fiancé met someone that made him reconsider the marriage.
42:18 leave him!!!
47:50 I think she had an affair with Joe either that or just don’t invite neither of them!
54:23 your wife doesn’t respect you, what if the roles were reversed? With a guy? Or your best friend? That is ridiculous!!
59:31 my question is, why are you still friends??
1:06:31 your husband likes the attention. You’re not the asshole
Whatever your view is, I can get behind this breakdown
Haha I love this breakdown 👏
@@letigre5822 hahaha thank. I’ve watched until the end.😂😂
2:17am in el paso tx and now im not going to sleep cause my favorite podcast is uploaded 🥹🩷