First Time Hearing Monsters by James Blunt | Suicide Survivor Reacts
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Hi You should do a reaction to Lewis Capaldi - Before You Go, and another one by him called Someone You Loved, Both Great and Emotional Songs, he did 2 versions to someone you loved but this one is the best ua-cam.com/video/bCuhuePlP8o/v-deo.html
Amanda,
I love your reactions so far. Keep up the good work. As a person who suffers from severe depression, your perspectives are beautiful. Thank you so much. There is an Artist named Jordan Smith who has a couple of songs that you should listen to. The Songs are "Only Love" & "Be Still & Know" I promise you that you will NOT be disappointed.
Amanda, I love you and I just discovered you. I have dealt with anxiety and depression most of my life and I too am an open book about it. For that alone, I am sure your Dad is damn proud of you!
Profound loneliness. It's as much fun as it sounds. I moved, at age 57, to a completely new city, hundreds of kilometers from all my friends. The two female friends I did make here, tragically died, and I've made one male friend. With the pandemic It's been impossible to join any groups or clubs. I have mental health issues to begin with, and this situation is making it worse.
This is my first time watching one of your videos, it won't be the last. Keep up the good work of helping to break down the stigma that surrounds mental illness❤from 🇨🇦
@@dillowman8 , I too am open about my mental health struggles. It's no more shameful that my mother was bipolar than it was that she got cancer. Why should it be treated differently, it's ridiculous to do so, in my opinion.
I was 18, in the armed forces, when I came home for leave at Easter and my mum told me my dad had terminal bowel cancer but he didn't want us to know. She knew that he would probably pass before I got back home to see him again so she told me and let my dad know she told me. That goodbye when I left, knowing I wouldn't see him alive again, broke me and I cried my eyes out all the way in the taxi to the train station. He died 2 months later and was informed by a knock on the barrack door by MOD police. In my fifties now, thought I had gotten over that, but this songs has me crying like a baby every time I watch it (as i am now) but it feels therapeutic, so I keep putting myself through it. Stay safe everyone.
Thanks for that. I miss my dad too.
I lost my dad when I was,5 year's old 😢 song 🙏 ers to everyone who lost there dadsyso so sorry for your loss 😢😢
Thank You ❤@@barbaramelville337
Take comfort in the knowledge that your Dad saw you become a Man and was probably bursting with pride. From the tone of your post on here , the fact that you can express your emotions without fear speaks volumes ...in my prayers buddy ...and thank you for your service 🙏
The story of the music video is quite funny actually. By the end of the song, the whole (and I mean the entire) crew were in floods of tears. Everyone, particularly the Director knew there was no way they could ever go for a second take. But James' father looked around the room and asked "Why is everybody crying, I'm still here?"!!
I imagined that happening as I read it and chuckled to myself.
yep thats not true blunt said himself
But if you close up on his fathers face you will see his emotion. He probably said that to keep himself together
@@peterchapman3740 there is a video from about 3 years ago of James literally saying this himself
At its core, this really is a healing song. A gift from James and his Dad ❤
The pat on the arm from Dad is the hammer blow to the whole piece. Too many reaction videos stop and stop before it and miss the most emotional part…
Its his dad. He's in last stage of kidney failure. James and immediate family wasn't a match. His father donated a kidney years before. So he only had one. A distant cousin saw the video was tested and a match. His father has survived
Spot on.
James wrote this song for his father last year, he needed a kidney transplant his one kidney was failing. He was on the waiting list and his children weren't a match.
Both James and his father were high ranking officers in the British army, James a captain and his father a colonel, thats a stiff upper lip situation feelings aren't shown. James left the army to have a career in the music industry, a flippant career when you're expected to follow in your fathers footsteps, in Britain anyway.
After this song and video were released, a distant cousin was tested and was a match so he donated a kidney, a live donor, the transplant took place and his fathers still alive 😇.
The wonderful thing is both had the same name Charles Blount.
James changed his name as he thought the surname was a bit posh...
So at the moment a happy ending.
Always makes me cry, the first time I howled for a long time, I've lost both my parents. .
Well done....
Fun story about James Blunt's real last name, when I saw him live on the All The Lost Souls tour I was talking to James' band and one of the guys was laughing saying they call him the "Blounty Hunter"
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James Blunt at the Oxford union is a very good view, shows his humour, I can see he has that British Army humour, it was just that humour that reminded me of my British Army life in the 1960/70s
@@mikeandersonwa His actual real last name was Blount, that's his Dad's name. Blunt was just his stage name.
James was Born with the name JAMES
Not only 1 kidney was failing: he only had 11% left (in both kidneys)
When his dad reached over and puts his hand on his arm.....gets me every time. Despite this song being about the son chasing the monsters away it's still a father's instinct to comfort his son. ❤️ Love the reaction and subscribed
I get emotional every single time I hear this song. Thank you so much for sharing your story....
Anthony, that part always gets me too
That part always speaks volumes to me, even during such a difficult time for them both, he still was trying to be that comfort for james..
I'm glad you let the video play out to catch the "pat" at the end! So touching.
James Blunt says that in his comentary about the video
This was real emotion from James. His father was dying. But luckily a kidney donor was found and he survived. That’s him in the video
Not matter what you have done in the past, your late father will always love you and watching you and protect you and your family
It is so emotional because it is honest, not forced. The music the words are flowing and it pulls you in because we all have that type of relationship with someone , father, mother mentor, etc. Lost my dad 2 years ago, had many monsters in my life, but he stood beside me. I was able to help my mom when he had dementia before he passed . This song brings me back to him.
Amanda, yours is the most concise and eloquent analysis of this song I have seen. Thank you my dear, we have both been there. Lost Dad two years ago tomorrow. Miss you old man.....
You got that pat, so many people miss it, with love.VOIDRAKER SAYS YES.
when they made this music video, all the crew cried, james's father said why are you all crying, I'm still here
The man in the Video is his real Father, James Blunt’s father is Colonel Charles Blount, a man with a distinguished military career that has seen him inhabit the ranks of the 13th/18th Royal Hussars as a cavalry officer before becoming a helicopter pilot and colonel of the Army Air Corps.
Blount (which is where James’ Blunt stage name comes from) was clearly a huge inspiration to his son who followed his father into military service, a long-standing tradition in the Blount family which reportedly dates as far back as the 10th century
I'm impressed at how well you held it together. I lost my father to cancer 13 years ago and the first time I saw this it ripped my heart out. The next ten times I ugly cried. I've probably seen it 50 times now and I still get choked up.
same
To be honest, the one thing that kept me together is I have been getting a LOT of weird signs that make me feel close to my dad lately.
Me too
What dafuq does ugly cried mean???..Lols😂
James and his father were both military men. James was actually a tank commander in the first gulf war. When he was being deployed, his father would say: "You're not my son, I'm not your father, we're just two grown men saying goodbye...". This song breaks me every time I hear it. The video was shot in one take, because James wanted the emotion to be raw and genuine. ❤ What a beautiful reaction 👍🏻😁🏴
I doubt you will see this after the video has been up so long, but their is so much to know about this song and who James Blunt and his father are. To put it briefly, both James and his father are war hardened veterans and this was Jamess tribute to his father when he was diagnosed with stage 4 Kidney failure. He performed the emtire song in one take with his father sitting next to him because he thought it was important to show how much pain something like this brimgs and he really wanted the emotions to show. When the performance was over, James and every person dissolved were dissolved into tears, except for his father. His father laughed and asked, "Why is everyone crying? im not dead yet." All the proceeds of the song went to the Help for Heroes Foundation and the British Legion charities. This video became so viral and widespread that a distant cousin saw it and they tuned out to be a match for a kidney transplant for his father. The surgery was a sucess and he is living to this day
I’m so sorry for your dad
, but this song is just perfect for saying goodbye but it breaks my heart
I lost my dad too and I know the feeling
Love from Germany 🇩🇪
the pat on the arm at the end gets me every time
Ive watched every reaction i can find to this song since it came out and yours was one of the better ones. beautiful thankyou. i lost my dad in 2018 and i wish i could have played him this song before he passed. ive gotten into many discussions in many comment sections about this video. one of the best was about how this song is therapy in a way (quite fitting since your channel is about mental health, apparently). listening to it gives you permission to cry and to grieve, but also to move on. thankyou again for this reaction.
I have seen quite a number or reactions to this song. While there is something to be said for sharing in our common humanity with open crying, I do have to say that your response is the most insightful and mature of all the ones I have seen. Well done with a difficult subject.
Thank you so much 💗
Whoa... I'm floored. This is my first time hearing this song and also my first time seeing your channel. I learned his father had Stage 4 kidney disease in the comments but did successfully get a donor transplant. I can't fathom anyone else on YT doing a better 'react' video than yours. Your story of your own father added so much & so glad you shared your story of that. Glad to see you built up the strength to cope with such losses, even tho it's so hard.
I can relate heavily to both James & you, as my father had total kidney failure around 1972 and struggled/survived for 12 years after that on dialysis tho it weakened his other body systems over those years. He wanted to have a 'man-to-man' talk with me about his likely death during preparation for open heart surgery, but I (like you) also was in denial that it would result in his death (or him ever dying so young at age 58). I just kept telling him that he would "come out fine". He didn't, as he 'knew' inside that he wouldn't. I regret being in denial that it couldn't happen.
Now I just learned that I'm at the edge of Stage 4 kidney failure myself and will have to handle that as best as I can, solo. I'm grateful that father was a great example/teacher of strength & overcoming what life throws at you.
This really, really is not just a music video. It a totally true story, with genuine emotion, and thankfully a happy outcome. It expresses the words and feeling that I was unable to shar with my father who passed during Covid lockdown. Always breaks me up.
The bit that really gets me is towards the end where James looks his Dad in the eyes and sings "let there be no darkness in your heart" before quickly looking away.
I'm autistic spectrum and looking someone in the eye, even a loved one, literally drains my energy and makes me feel over stimulated (there is too much going on because faces keep moving and changing) Basically the briefly looking directly at someone and then having to quickly break eye contact is something I'm aware I do all the time.
When he sings, "I'm not your son, your not my father..." it strikes me that he is attempting to take a breath of detachment from the emotional agony so he can continue with what he needs to say. I, too, was so full of fear and denial at the passing of my dear mother that I never allowed myself to give her a loving goodbye. Still have regrets 35 years later.
My parents passed in 05 and 07 and I still have regrets too. It's normal. 💗
Perhaps trying to say his father doesnt have to carry the burden of being of being his father. That it's his turn to carry the load but even at the end his father's first instinct is to comfort his son.
I am not your son you are not my father was the way they said goodbye before being deployed. Both military men in the British army.
I see this is older but thought I’d comment anyway. First, I’m so sorry on the loss of your dad. I lost both my parents ugh. I read the story about James & his dad: James followed his dad into the British military so stiff upper lip & no showing feelings. James left to peruse music, which caused a bit of a rift there. Then his dad had kidney failure and they were unable to find a match for a transplant. His father was dying. James wrote the song Monster for him. Then, miraculously a cousin came forward & was a match!! His dad had a live donor for kidney transplant & is still alive. So yes!! That’s him in the video with James. It’s a haunting & beautiful song between parent & child about when your parent is I’ll & dying & the child becomes the parent. Then, we have to chase the monsters away 💔
I think it means that when our parents are ill & dying, the child becomes the parent & then WE have to chase THEIR monsters away!
Here in Canada during the covid lockdown my father has been living in a extended Care facility which also in lock down when he passed away. His health was continuously fading and I was not allowed in to see him for months. With the time of his passing drawing near and with him no longer being able to verbally communicate I had to say my goodbyes to him over a video call. During the call I played this song for him and I could see the tears starting to roll down his face. At that moment I knew he could still hear, and understand everything that was being said to him. And just how much I loved him and was proud to be his son. It was the hardest time I have ever faced in my life because I just wanted to be there to hold his hand before his time came. This song will forever remind me of that moment.
What a beautiful moment despite crappy circumstances. He got to go knowing how much you loved him. That's beautiful.
@@MentalAmanda Thank you for the kind words.🙂
❤ I cry every time I watch this video, you really are so real and authentic to watch and listen to with your telling of your own story as well as the action in the video. thank you, Love is sent here ❤ from Denmark / Europe
You seem like a Beautiful soul, honest and true. God Bless you for sharing your story. Im sure that your dad is watching over you. True LOVE os all around us, we need wyes to see it and to allow our hearts to feel it.
Bravo on this video
Well, that had me crying. I knew the song already, but wanted to see your reaction and breakdown of the lyrics. My dad died suddenly 2 months ago and if I'm honest I'm really, really struggling at the moment. He died peacefully in his sleep in his favourite chair. The absolute perfect way for him to go, but I feel I never had that moment to say goodbye as it was so sudden. I hope, I think he was proud of my and his grandkids.
My son (now 19) was born with a lifelong bowel condition. and I also hope that I've been able to chase some of his monsters away when he's been in for all his surgeries. He's also had several surgeries for spinal issues and I know it's affected his mental health, Sometimes all I can do is hug him or pat him on the arm and tell him I'm there for him.......but it often feels too little and I feel helpless.
My wife is struggling with her own health issues and now my daughter (16) has been diagnosed with the same spinal issues as my son. We go to the hospital today to hear if she will need the same surgery my son had (which ultimately failed).
I'm supporting my mum who was in hospital for 8 weeks last year and caught Covid in hospital. She's still very weak and very down after the death of dad. Through it all I'm trying so hard to support my wife and 2 kids and sometime an arm on their shoulder feels so insignificant and just not enough.......so thank you for showing me that sometimes it is enough.
If there is one thing I've learned, it's that we don't mourn their death. We mourn having to live without them. Just the fact that you are so concerned about whether your dad was proud or you scared your sons monsters away tells me that you have nothing to worry about. If you're being conscious of it, you are acting from your heart most the time 💗 You are doing amazing at being a protector and supporter. Just don't forget about yourself. You matter and you can't give if your own bucket is empty.
Miss as a father to a beautiful daughter who has autism, I can tell you there's nothing a daughter can do to make you stop being Proud of them, That's a father's
Love it never ends ,no matter what, blessings to and you family
I held my father's hand as he died. Seven years later, I held my mother's hand as she died. So hard...but I would not change one moment of it. Spiritual love from a stranger, Duke
Suicide survivor,I watch and listen to many reaction videos,you young lady are by far the most astute reactor I have watched,you understood what James wad trying to purvey better than anyone else,and yes it is powerful,ps James's father fortunately did not pass as James expected,he did however receive a donated organ from a distant relative who was made aware of his situation through this song,James donated all profits from this song to charity,the power of music is limitless,ps Suicide survivor you are a beautiful human being,mankind needs people just like you!!!
I'm glad you seen the Pat on his arm many stop before that part and it is like the perfect way to end the song..like saying good job son I'm proud of you
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Death to me is scary and a release at the same time. I'm not suicidal because I won't put my family through the hell my sister did when she killed herself. But I'm not exactly hiding from the grim reaper either. I'm so sorry about your family. As far as impressing your dad, You impressed him by staying alive, having a lovely personality and being a beautiful person.
That was the first time his Dad heard the song. Everyone on the crew was crying. The record company wanted to fix the cracks in his voice when he got emotional but he wanted to keep it real.
What a touching tribute, to your father also. A lovely interpretation of what the song meant. Your parents must be proud and look out for you in different ways. Keep your faith and believe in yourself .
absolutely ...the best, most touching analysis of a great song i ever heard!!!!...subbed for sure!...i totally relate to your story...and James Blunt made us think about it...our most loved and most important people in our lives...it could be a mother, it could be a father (yeah our parents) but yes, for most of us...a good dad... we cant really do without, and he has a bigtime & profound effect on a child's life!!
I very much appreciate that you are watching these with a point of view of someone who has had issues with menta; health. When I saw this video the first time, and I am an American living in Italy, where my grandparents were born....it immediately brought me back to my parent's deaths, which I was not there for. My dad, a few years ago had a stroke but when they brought a computer in and we face timed he couldn't speak and I forced him t o say hello to me, in Italian, and just say "ciao" which he did. I got the phone call 12 hours later that he had soon after, died. It left me wailing. My mom, 2 years ago, had vascular dementia and had been sinking for a year until my sister sent me the forms to put her in hospice care....no meds, no fluids, no food, just medication to make her comfortable. A nurse called me, here, one weekend, as this had been going on for 2 months and she was still alive and, I must believe, suffering. The nurse said she'd be going that day and I began to call every 15 minutes until the nurse asked if she could put the phone to my mom's ear (just because she could not speak does not mean she could not understand) and I told her, in English and in Italian, that it was OK and she could go and we would be ok then I named some people who were waiting for her. The nurse promised me that while my voice was on speaker, my mom was moving her eyes and eyebrows, so I would like to think she heard me because a few minutes later, she died.I have both their ashes, here. I suffer from PTSD, depression and anxiety...and that happened, though I always leaned toward drama and depression, because my partner and I were shot some years ago, in LA, and he died in my arms without half his head, yet, obviously, I survived. It was awful. Blood and brains and in the street with people trying to help and in that moment, I didn't even realize that I'd been shot in the face. It all came back slowly. After everything, I wanted to die. I felt guilt for surviving, sadness as he was my 1st real love and we'd been together for 4 years amongst so many other feelings. Once I was able, a month or so, to go out, I became very promiscuous and in the end, was infected with HIV.....now it is 30 years I have it without having, yet, become ill from it. I am on 1 medication for the HIV and about 5 for the anxiety. I was on an anti depressant when my mom died but was not told that one of the side effects was that I wouldn't be able to feel things as I should so I never cried for my mom and I yelled at the doctor and took myself off those meds. Better to feel badly than nothing at all. After the murder, I went back to NYC, where I am from, and never thought about ever meeting someone again, though I did, here, in Italy, which shocked me! 8 years now. I was rather exiled by my sister and her husband to our home, now my home, in Italy to get my parents, 13 years ago, into an adult living community. I also think my brother in law is an asshole and a homophobe and my sister didn't want to end up caring for me if and when I got sick. But I met Diego, here and he knew everything about my health and mental health issues, before marrying me, here. Still struggle though hard days, have few friends. Italy is a bit behind, sociologically, when it comes to Gay/AIDS...indeed when I told my husband he wept thinking I was about to drop dead but then I showed him statistics about how in half of gay couples, everywhere, one is positive. I believe this song is beautiful and is something I'd have loved to share with my parents...though I did with my mom in a way, giving her permission to move on. James Blunt is such an emotional singer and I appreciate him. I would like to believe that our loved ones move on, and not rot after they die and science backs me up. We are made of energy and even when the person dies, the energy does not and has to find another place to go, simplified. I believe in the Hindu belief in reincarnation. I've got to for so many reasons. Anyway, I think it is great you talk about your mental health, or lack of it, and it is needed. You are serving a community of people who are ignored and I applaud and respect you for it. I am sorry I wrote so much but when I start.....it never ends. I send you "abbracci" from Italy and hope you are always as positive and lovely as you were in this video! XOXO - Gary
I am very proud of you for your survival mentality and I genuinely wish you the most powerful healing. It boggles my mind that so much of the world is still ignorant when it comes to gays and HIV. I wrote an article several years ago about AIDS in Subsaharan Africa and it broke my heart to see the mindsets that prevail there.
@@MentalAmanda Thank you. I am well aware of how many Africans, in general, think about AIDS. In many places, one cannot even talk about it as it is completely tied to being gay, which is many places is a crime one can be executed for. Meds are scarce. This whole Covid experience has scared me to death and I have remained insulated, thanks to my husband, for most of it. I thank you for wishing me to heal but I don't think I can heal any further than what I have done thus far. It is now, one day at a time, living with it. Peace and thank you!
@@happyexpat3744 There are a lot of layers to healing. I am so happy that you have your husband. There are also a lot of LGBT individuals and allies here in the community (myself included.) You are worthy, lovable and never ever alone.
@@MentalAmanda Oh, that is very sweet and I appreciate it. My husband calls me a "pessimist" (in Italian) but I think I am a realist. I'm happy and shocked that I have a husband and the laws changed, here, a year after we met so we could marry. It was the first in the province so we kept it very lo key but it got a lot of attention, anyway. Diego does not see things as I do. He does not want to hear sad news or think about sad things. He is someone who denies to himself that there are evils out there. Both our moms died within 6 months of each other in 2020 and to this day, he will not speak about it. I have to pay attention to what I talk about as he will either turn me off or get angry and I hate getting angry. The gay community here is not like it is at home. Here, is is barely allowed to exist and when bad things happen to gay people, the police, carabinieri, deny it. When something bad happens here to a gay person, especially minors, there is no complaint signed against the aggressors because parents plead for their kids not so denounce, as it is called here, because 'everyone will know', 'your father could lose his job' (which is true), 'we will be outcasts'...also can be true depending on where you live. I have no friends, here. Lots of relatives and my husband's colleagues are very nice and we, when we can, dine together though I am a bit older. It's OK. I should be thanking the gods and goddesses that I am still alive given my history and it is difficult, when I find myself in a situation of being stuck in the past, to get out of it. However, I always do, eventually. Thank you for your kind words, again....and forward we go. Can't go back! Abbracci dall'Italia! - Gary
I can absolutely respect and understand that your partner isn't ready (he may never be) to talk. Some people struggle with opening up. I also understand how hard that can be for you since you need to.
Even if it is connecting with other LGBT individuals online through groups and communities, it's important that you have a safe place to freely speak and feel understood. And, of course, you can always message me or post here if you need to get it out.
Everyone has some sort of trigger that gets to them. For me it was "chasing the monsters away". Dad wouldn't chase the monsters away, he was the monster, and I had to chase him away. Regardless, I appreciate seeing how much James loves his father and singing his tribute song thinking the end was near. Still makes me cry, though. Peace be with you all.
I had plenty of fathers James, most of them drunks with a temper to match the Greek tragedy my life as a kid was. I still cried a Spring thawing river upon listening, I think some of us cry because we empathise with J. Blunt. Some of us might also cry because we can only imagine what such a relation with a father would be like, or perhaps a mix of both.
@@AurioDK I cry because because I can only imagine what it must be like to feel that way about your father. I lost my mum at 8yo and my father is every kind of bad. He was the moster. I think trauma victims are the often most empathetic too.
Great comment man. My father too, was the monster!
@@WillPage In movies we are always the bad guys ... kind of sad really.
@@AurioDK true.
I dont recall if I suggested this for a reaction or not. So happy you found this beautiful tribute to fathers. James wrote this for his dad. His dad was needing a kidney or something and couldn't find one. James wrote the song and played it for his father privately. That is his dad in the video. Someone saw the video and gave his dad a kidney, so happy ending. What a lovely song for everyone who is losing or has lost their father,
Never apologize for having emotions. I liked the way you explained a different view I had not thought of. Thank you
Amanda....i`m 2 years down the line...but still a sad reaction.. very tearful..... only made brighter cos you are beautiful..xxx
Your dad is still watching, and I am sure he is very proud.
Yes, it's EXACTLY how we feel watching WITH you.
And it's so fucking cathartic. ❤
love love love this
I'm here to support everybody!
This sad song save his father's life. My dad had cancer and per his request he died at home with his head in my brother's lap. We were all there for his finally moments so I cry like a baby every time I watch this video. That was 27 years ago and it still hurts.
What a beautiful loving moment. I hope I can go out the same one, surrounded by love and kindness. Feel free to share your favorite memories with him so we can help keep his memory alive
I like how he responds to people who give him bad tweets. He uses good humour when they troll him, a couple of examples, "a little bit of James Blunt never hurts anyone", and he goes, "depends where you put it". Another, "James Blunt has no talent, no this or that", and he just goes" and no mortgage". He has even written whole book of all sorts of tweets he has done. I have heard that when he responds to a troll, he would show one to his wife, and if she shakes her head in horror he took it as good enough to press send. Anyway all jokes aside, you say you don't think you gave your dad a lot to be proud of when he was alive. The way you describe him when he was alive, he was definitely proud of you. You described a pretty good father who thought the world of you, he really did I think. And your mother, the post you gave me on Instagram, she sounds like good fun how she bonded over the music you and I remember from school. I know my father was a good guy too. There are things I beat myself up over, I know I shouldn't. How I feel, can be well explained in the song, The living years" by Mike and the Mechanics. I think I have seen you come a long way in the short amount of time I have known you, you are definitely in a much better place than even a month ago, all the best 😊😊👍
This song reminds me of the loss of my own father. I lost him to esophageal cancer and I had to watch him slowly fade away. I always said the only thing I ever wanted was to make him proud. He was 26 year Air Force veteran and he was my hero. My only saving grace was the day before he died I hugged him and said "I love you Dad". At that moment his eyes cleared and he finally realized I was there and he was able to get out "I love you too". It hurts every day...even 3 years later. These words hit very close to home for me. Goodbye Dad...I have the watch now. I will do my best every day to make you proud of me. I love you Dad.
He is so proud of you my love ♥
@@MentalAmanda Thank you. I'm trying
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A heart-wrenching song & I did appreciate your reaction & comments. Thanks Amanda. I'm sure guys will explain to you the story behind this song as it is a true story. As for James Blunt, he has a distinctive voice, very british accent.
I have a soft spot for guys who show their emotions and british accents!
OMG Amanda this hits home in a VERY VERY hard way……. I feel EXACTLY the same way as he is saying in the song
Again thank you Amanda
The fact that he's staring down the barrel of the camera in such a tight closeup. You can't help but feel and be moved by every second of his emotions
So sorry you lost your Father especially being so young. Today is one day to the year my mother passed away. I am so blessed to hurt. So many don't know the love of a good parent but you and I do. God must love us deeply. I know my Mother is happy to be reunited with hers and one day so will I. Cling to counting your blessings and remember the love.
Thank you for your kind words I'm going through a very difficult time!
Certainly an emotional song, my mother fought cancer for 8 years, my dad a sudden heart attack. Both have been gone more than 20 years. They say time heals all wounds, but I'd say, as I think you and others here would agree, Time only lessens the wounds.
Mine was reversed! My dad was terminal and my mom died of a sudden heart attack. For me, time might heal the wound, but there will always be a scar.
It's been 30 years since my dad passed, and 29 years since my mum passed away. Time has of course lessened the pain 💔, but it's always there, like a lump in my throat. There are times when my need for a hug from them is staggering. In fact, just writing the previous sentence made my eyes fill with tears.
@@louisejohnson6057 I know I will never stop missing mine, I just try to shift the pain and use the grief for something positive and loving.
There is a fantastic Emily Dickinson poem known as "They say that 'Time Assuages'" (I say known as because Dickinson didn't actually name her poems, so most of them are known by their first line):
They say that "Time assuages"--
Time never did assuage--
An actual suffering strengthens
As Sinews do, wih Age--
Time is a Test of Trouble--
But not a Remedy--
If such it prove, it prove too
There was no Malady-
Hello from Hertfordshire, UK. Thankyou for such an open and honest reaction to Monsters! It really gets you in the feels doesn’t it? It is his real dad and they really love each other. Keep strong and remember that you are fabulous on a good day but more than perfect when you get through a bad day x x
Don't every apologize for emotions. Telling somebody they can go, imho the hardest thing to do. So feel the feelings and be yourself. We are on the journey with you.
In the song Monsters, James Blunt and his father sit at the kitchen table at home. The content and reason for his song “Monsters” is moving. Because Blunt’s father doesn’t have much longer to live due to kidney failure. In Monsters, Blunt sings about the premature and seemingly unstoppable farewell to his father, who can also be seen very moved next to his son. But then there was a happy ending! Shortly after the video was published, numerous potential donors contacted James Blunt and his father. Attention was generated during a few interviews on TV that the singer gave and a small appeal. And in the next few days he will receive a suitable kidney. What a touching story!
You are so young, yet you’ve gone through so much. You are more intuitive of life and death and the importance of letting go of worldly problems and moving on! I think you would be an amazing friend to have!! They are very lucky!
I always welcome new friends!
This song really makes me reflect on how beautiful life is, and to be with the ones you love while they still live. Having experienced lots of losses in my life since finishing high school, this song sure speaks volumes. Especially now that I not that long ago went through losing someone close to me and my family, I can't help but cry. plus, I know that it's okay to cry. sometimes you just have to let it go. my message to those who react to your videos, as well as to you who makes them happen is simply, let's cry with those who cry, and laugh with those who laugh.
If you wait till the very last moment, his dad pats him on the arm. A heartbreaker.
I first saw this video about one week after it was released, and I immediately was absolutely moved by it. I even found the chords and learned to sing it less than a month after it came out.
I have watched probably 50 reactions to it, and your video is the absolute best. You figured out where it was going even before the chorus first came on, and your personal experiences make your response wonderful. Thank you.
Jame's father is still living. He was in the video, as a tribute, because his dad has been diagnosed with chronic stage-four kidney disease and is in need of a kidney transplant. The song was written sort of like a way to say goodbye, while he was still alive. The blunts are a military family (James served as well) and his father is a high ranking officer, so held in high esteem.
The only song that consistently makes me break down. Takes me instantly back to my dads last days and even though.I know that James’ dad made it through with a transplant I cannot help but blub to this beautiful but haunting song.
This song also flags up another important message, …………tell your loved ones that you love them and thank them for what they do for you on as regular basis as you can. Don’t wait to do it at their eulogy cos they can’t hear you.
All I can say is ...yes. There isn't much to add
I watched my father die as well. He died at only 53 of brain cancer. To see someone so strong and your hero slip away like a storm in the summer takes a toll on you. I loved your reaction by the way, so thank you for being so kind in regards to this subject. God bless you in every way.
Loved the pink ensamble with the bunny ears and complimentary color finger nails. You have a good and sincere spirit about you.
This song really coaxes the tears at every listen. Such a simple, stark and sad ballad. Even though James is miming his studio recording you can see he’s still brought to tears by his own song. Which is perfectly understandable. I haven’t had the best relationship with my parents, particularly when I was much younger and still very mixed-up. Now that I’m older- and they are as well- we’re all more at peace with each other. But unfortunately, this song now has an added layer to it for me, as my cousins just lost their father to cancer under a week ago. His diagnosis was years back, but then this year he went into hospice… and now he’s gone. It’s a heavy void. And this is a beautiful song.
Pretty sure this wasn’t mimed it was a live take
@@mrd9161 Well, if that’s the case, then this was used on the studio album, as all of the instrumentation, plus lead and backing vocal parts are exactly the same as this on the record. As well, the singing by the children’s choir was prerecorded, so I don’t see much chance that a live performance would feature a studio vocal track, unless it was dubbed in during post-production. Regardless, what you hear here is a total match to the version on his studio release, which I own a copy of.
Woow, Amanda... How well spoken and understood, even before the chorus was started.
In this video you make your apologies for being emotional talking about your mental health in other videos. I did not watch them but do know that it sometimes gives much relieve watching someone else cry about the same subject, people don't feel alone. I hope you are doing well now. Wishing you all the best.
If I apologized, I take it back! We should never be sorry for being human!
My dad collapsed and died in our garden when I was 20, I was there for his last breath and kissed his forehead and told him I loved him. I feel your pain, I didn't have to watch him fade, instead he was there one hour and gone the next - I am not sure which is worse. He was my best mate, everything I considered solid in my life. It is the single most devastating and scary time in my life, worse than my divorce years later. 23 years to the day of my dad passing, my son was born, he was always going to be named after his Opa so it has turned what was a horrible date for me each year, to a wonderful day I celebrate with my boy Peter. This is an incredible song for letting loose and having a good cry - very therapeutic although a hard watch. John Pouw NZ
That is the most wonderful way I can imagine to share your dad's love with the world. He will show up in your son if you watch for him!
Thanks for sharing this reaction Amanda. 20 years ago since I lost my dad and I still have moments where I just tear up. This song does it every time but I love listening to it. It is a great release.
I just recently found your channel a few hours ago n I let every emotion that I could not let my sisters nieces and daughter see me in
Hi Amanda I am a new subscriber thank you for creating this channel where we can talk about our struggles. I've been dealing with anxiety and depression since the age of 14 now Im 50 and have a good days and bad days, lost my dad to cancer in 2001 and my mom in 2015, after I lost my mom my mind went to a really dark place but I decided to keep fight, You are a beautiful soul Amanda. Thank you Again, you are making a difference!
Losing my mom sent me spiraling too. We aren't taught to deal with grief! I'm proud of you for continuing to fight. Remember, you can find ways to share her love with the world every single day.
Amanda, you are so beautiful in every way from your eyes to your heart & how much you care about people you don't even know. Thank you for the rawness of your emotion & thank you for sharing more of yourself. You are truly a light for the world.
Magnificient song, and very, very beautiful commentary, smart, true, personal, clear... I think you are doing a good job. Thank you and keep on doing beautiful things... 👍👋
took me long enough to focus and find this video, but here i am, thank you for this...
Thank you for sharing. I'm 59 and crying like a newborn.
Amanda your reaction is heart felt and sweet. May any lingering grief turn into sweet memories. This song touches many many hearts of those who lost loved ones close to them. The message is let those who love others in family and friendships know that you love them. You never know when things will happen sooner than you expect. Love to you
Thanks you so much for your openness and honesty. It was very interesting to listen to you. Keep up the work and best greetings from Germany :)
I've watched many reactions to this song and yours was, hands down, the best I've seen! Please stay exactly as you are !!
It'd been 6 years since my dad died. Thought I'd made peace with it. Then heard this and damn closest I've come to crying in a long long time. Beautful , raw and pure. Love it
There's a song by Mike Shinoda called Over Again. "Sometimes we don't say goodbye once, we say goodbye over and over and over again." My parents passed in 05 and 07 and there are still things that make me cry.
In terms of parents' pride, my own father (who's currently dying of Alzheimer's Disease) once told me that parents are more or less proud of their children based on what they do, they're proud either way. When you have a moment of success, glory or validation, he said it's more that your pride as a parent is simply "more focused" in that moment. Parental love in its purest form is an unconditional love and there's nothing we can do to earn it or lose it. Whatever the relationship we have with our parents and all trials, tribulations, its endless complications, our parents know who we are to them and what we mean to them, even if we're estranged or there's some loss in the relationship. We can move on when they go because their love allows us to.
I haven't let my emotions out & cried my eyes out for a long long time!
Every now and again it's good to let go!
Thank you!
So glad I found you!
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What a beautiful soul you have❤ You completely understood the song and emotions. You found the beauty in this song, and it brightened my heart.
Wow - great analysis of I’m not your son line … it makes a lot of sense from you perspective. Like forget about the relationship for now… person to person saying goodbye. Like the time has come to pass the baton on.
This is the best reaction to this video I’ve seen! You have a beautiful and intelligent mind and an enormous heart! Bless you!
New sub here Amanda, beautiful reaction, this is indeed James dad,at the time his dad had stage 4 kidney disease and doctors had told him the prognosis wasn't good, none of family were compatible, so James wrote this as a eulogy, record company wanted James to use auto tune but James refused,this was James showing his dad how he felt,emotion was real, breaks in his voice when he was struggling emotionally with the song,both James and his dad were military officers so showing emotion wasn't the norm, thankfully when this song was released a distant cousin came forward and donated one of his kidneys ,operation was successful
Just to clear one little thing up, i believe there was a relative who was a match and donated a kidney to give his father the chance of living on.
I'm so sorry for your loss... My dad was the same as your dad..You seem like the sweetest person..Sending all the love your way!❤❤
Amanda - keep fighting - we're all touched by poor mental health in our lives - conversations that we should have with those that we love can sometimes be the cause of our angst. Thank you for opening your heart on this one, your Dad would be proud of you and is. Take care of yourself, you're precious.
The absolute best reaction video I've ever seen. Thank you so much for sharing.
this is a real story. that is his father who did recover from cancer. he wrote it during but this was the first time he sang this to his father so the emotion was real
It was stage 4 kidney disease
This song pierces my soul and my light leaks out.❤️🩹☯️😳☯️I miss my dad and my mom so much . Much love .
My son and my granddaughter who lives both have serious mental issues so although I have never suffered by things like schizophrenia/bipolarism and many of the 'terms' awarded to them I do know the effects and depths of despair they sadly suffer! I lost 3 very dear friends through depression because I never saw the signs of their suffering! I spend every day regretting that and wishing I had seen the signs of their darkness. The Simon and Garfunkel 'He Was A Most Peculiar Man' sums up depression and how the world fails to understand it remarkably :( I am so sorry for what you have been through Amanda but feel certain that you are strong enough to help others who have lived your nightmare x
Keep on keeping on, Give Love,Know Love, Show Love and Grow Love.
Such a beautiful and heartfelt reaction! May your dad rest in peace, Amanda
This song wrecked me for a week. Seeing someone else go through all the emotional runs like you did affirms my own reaction when I saw it. Thank you dearly for sharing this part of yourself. I don't know you, but something tells me that your parents are proud of you.
You have great intuition to read into and understand early on what this was all about. It's definitely a thing that females tend to be better at. Thank you for this reaction video x
Yes his father was terminal. How he did this is beyond me. I to watched my father slowly pass away and as much as I love this song it's amazing hard to listen without crying. Great video 🙏🙏
Yes that is his dad and at the time of recording this his dad had stage four cancer and needed a Kidney transplant put a compatible toner was not forth coming but after this recording a distant cousin who proved to be a match came forward and last I heard he was doing OK so all this was genuine emotion
You have such a kind soul. Thank you for sharing your story