How to Be More Persuasive … Without Being Manipulative

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  • Опубліковано 27 жов 2024

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  • @ScienceOfPeople
    @ScienceOfPeople  4 роки тому +3

    Find out more in our full article on this topic:
    www.scienceofpeople.com/persuasion/

  • @nainafavs
    @nainafavs 6 років тому +12

    Literally binge watching your videos since I've discovered them (i. e. about 2 days ago. I know, I've been living under a rock 😬). Have also downloaded "captivate" straight away on my kindle and scored 120 on the investigation test in chapter 1 😉!!
    Very very interesting content. I can't help but keep thinking to join your team 😀
    For this video, being honest, I couldn't help but keep thinking about your eyeshadow. It appears to be half applied over your eyelid which is a strange illusion. (You can tell I'm high conscientious 😅)
    As ever, thankful for all the wonderful and amazing info you share. Much love xx

  • @anghitch
    @anghitch 6 років тому +8

    Thank you Vanessa! I wrote a children's book and this gives me a whole new way to add value to my conversations with my prospective clients.

  • @manolorca2185
    @manolorca2185 6 років тому +3

    Great video. The clarity + curiosity in the "non-elevator- proposition value" reminds me of evolutionary aspects of communication. We need to communicate clear, so the recipient knows that we are not a danger and we are consistent to our words (keeping cognitive effort low for the recipient) and to communicate with unexpectedness which triggers curiosity, because people always want to now whats behind the bushes (as we say in german).
    The rest of the video is also great because it tangents the book by the Heath Brothers (Made to Stick) in just 7 minutes. I really like it, and sorry for the long comment, but so I am remembering it more.

  • @amandeepbawa8199
    @amandeepbawa8199 6 років тому +5

    Hey Vanessa, I am reading your book Captivate, its amazing !
    I love all your videos, so much to learn. Much love❤️

  • @Mcgrandma
    @Mcgrandma 6 років тому +17

    These strategies are valuable for teachers also, to increase our students desire to learn.

    • @AmeliaBedelia9087
      @AmeliaBedelia9087 6 років тому

      Marcia I was just thinking that!

    • @tangoalpha1091
      @tangoalpha1091 6 років тому

      Reduced demand for weekend/holiday homework is a huge deal that will increase the desire to learn.

  • @zachmentalloadcoach
    @zachmentalloadcoach 6 років тому

    Thank you for this, I often think about how I share what I do with my youtube videos as a way to brag and I'm trying to let go of my ego and identity, now I am seeing how I can re-create the way I speak about my work on youtube as a value proposition.

  • @functionalaestheticse.c.8953
    @functionalaestheticse.c.8953 Рік тому +1

    Excellent video. Short and actionable.

  • @morphos2
    @morphos2 6 років тому +4

    I’m taking notes! Thank you very much!

  • @gladyswright2497
    @gladyswright2497 3 роки тому +1

    That was great. My value proposition is: I am a Family Advisor. I tailor your research experience for senior care, so that you don't feel so overwhelmed. Please let me know what you think. This was great and I will challenge my peers with it too!

  • @AlainaNicole
    @AlainaNicole 6 років тому +4

    Curiosity is key 🔑 great video 😊

  • @treybryantstyle
    @treybryantstyle 4 роки тому

    I educate and build confidence in men to feel amazing about their overall aesthetic

  • @baatmanabdlmalek4
    @baatmanabdlmalek4 6 років тому +7

    Hi vannesa I watch your videos every day you're amizing thank you so much and you always the best I'm from Algerian

  • @MarkFeaGuitar
    @MarkFeaGuitar 6 років тому +1

    Fantastic- made me re-evaluate my main website headline and it came to me immediately after using your second point! Thanks Vanessa!

    • @Darth_Pro_x
      @Darth_Pro_x 6 років тому

      cool! what's the before and after? :)

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much!

  • @RaghuONair
    @RaghuONair 4 роки тому

    Hi.. Your videos have been really helpful in shaping myself. Thank you very much..

  • @HzFvr
    @HzFvr 6 років тому +2

    Excellent - needed this Right Now! Thank you

  • @AbhishekpatilChannel
    @AbhishekpatilChannel 6 років тому +1

    Thanks Vanessa van Edwards for information. It was very useful

  • @s2thek323
    @s2thek323 6 років тому +3

    you earned a subscriber, from Kenya

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much! xo

  • @Han-dle598
    @Han-dle598 6 років тому

    Thank you for this video to think about persuasion, and congratulations to you.

  • @Pj-cu4xe
    @Pj-cu4xe 2 роки тому

    Thank you. Very valuable video.

  • @Franciscohazel
    @Franciscohazel 6 років тому +1

    I'm a fan!!! I've learned so much from you 👌
    One thing that kind of distracted me was the make up.... seems kind of over the top. But maybe because this was catered to a more business like audience? While other videos about "regular" interaction between people, require a more natural look.....I guess 😁
    Anyway the value proposition makes a lot of sense. Get a dialogue instead of a monologue pitch.
    That last bit about audience hasn't registered with me yet.

  • @belenmariagutierrez8920
    @belenmariagutierrez8920 2 роки тому

    Such a good video!!

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  2 роки тому

      Thank you for watching! I'm glad you liked it!

  • @silversunastrology
    @silversunastrology 6 років тому +1

    I like it. Good work, Vanessa!

  • @mohdwajahathali6436
    @mohdwajahathali6436 6 років тому +1

    I love watching your videos. Would you make any video on dialect

  • @wahhaj221
    @wahhaj221 5 років тому

    I have already completed 5 years of my corporate life. Wish could have seen your videos early on in my career

  • @JessieRawji
    @JessieRawji 5 років тому

    These tips are excellent. Thank you

  • @benrigsby2226
    @benrigsby2226 6 років тому +1

    Love your stuff, and believe we are all in the "people business". I'd be interested in knowing how this would relate to Simon Sinek's "Start with Why" strategy. It seems reversed to his approach, would you agree? Have you tested the results? You cited him in your book didn't you?

  • @1matim
    @1matim 3 місяці тому

    thank you

  • @arande3
    @arande3 5 років тому

    Crystal blue persuasion lalala. All good information

  • @completelydistracted5825
    @completelydistracted5825 6 років тому

    Would love to hear your taken on this subject Vanessa with couples or those wanting to head that way.😁 sorry, this smiley face doesn't show my crows feet😂

  • @AD-hj6qf
    @AD-hj6qf 6 років тому

    Hi, as a restaurant barmaid , would this pitch work ?
    I can guarantee that a customer will purchase minimum 3 drinks.

  • @MrsPeterson_xoxo
    @MrsPeterson_xoxo 6 років тому +2

    Love you V !!!!!! Your a badass !!! 💁🏼‍♀️

  • @kamilag6256
    @kamilag6256 6 років тому

    Can you recommend good books on negotiation, persuasion and influencing skills?

    • @Darth_Pro_x
      @Darth_Pro_x 6 років тому

      i guess you read how to win friends and influence people?

  • @nahword5604
    @nahword5604 6 років тому +1

    I would have expected Confidence to be one of the C's. Courage? Come on

  • @poweruser213
    @poweruser213 6 років тому

    Youre great and smart 😲🤯

  • @LucianaArtusiBaltoswki
    @LucianaArtusiBaltoswki 6 років тому +2

    Learners of English count on me to help them better their language skills and develop native-like pronunciation, that way they can become more effective communicators and achieve their professional and personal goals.
    How do you like it?
    (I’m an ESL English teacher as well an as an actress/singer/dancer.)

    • @monjier
      @monjier 6 років тому

      I'm the head of a company who hijacks the traditional professional networking environment to answer the 3 questions everyone wants to know about networking and business relationships.
      That's the one I made.

    • @Mr.Anugraha
      @Mr.Anugraha 6 років тому +1

      too loooonnnngg

  • @SouthernIndiandaRealtor
    @SouthernIndiandaRealtor 8 місяців тому

    What could a realtor say

  • @Tiki_Doll868
    @Tiki_Doll868 2 роки тому

    I help busy women look like walking trophies in a fraction of the time. (I sell Press-on nails)
    Agencies and DJs hire me to entice their audience (I'm also a Voice over artist) what do you think?

  • @reignofmo
    @reignofmo 6 років тому

    👍🏽

  • @ExecutiveExecutions
    @ExecutiveExecutions Рік тому

    🪛 👂