How To Be More Confident

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  • Опубліковано 22 тра 2024
  • Do you know how to look confident? When you walk into a room, go on a date or pitch at a meeting you want to make sure you look confident. In this video I will show you how to both feel and look more confident.
    Confidence is a skill that can be developed with intentional and purposeful practice. It starts all in the mindset, but your own body language and verbal can do a lot for your mindset. I think that when you can implement some of the tips I mention in this video, that confidence can come naturally for anyone!
    Be more confident and captivating with my book Captivate: www.scienceofpeople.com/capti...
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    In this video:
    0:00 Intro
    0:25 Confidence myth
    0:56 How to LOOK confident
    2:32 Hot to SOUND confident
    4:18 Happiness and confidence
    5:44 Hot to walk confidently
    6:44 Find a confident role model
    8:06 Pump up your confidence
    8:47 Overcome imposter syndrome
    10:46 Sparking confidence in your brain
    12:00 Limit social media consumption
    13:23 Final thoughts
    ******
    Hi, I’m Vanessa!
    You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you.
    Do you want to be the most likable person in the room? Get my FREE guide now: www.scienceofpeople.com/
    My name is Vanessa Van Edwards and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also a multi-time bestselling author of:
    Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/) Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (www.scienceofpeople.com/capti...) and I am the creator of People School. This advanced video communication course is for high achievers who want to be confident communicators.
    My goal is simple: Help YOU get to your goals faster. Never be overlooked, interrupted or forgotten again.
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  • @ScienceOfPeople
    @ScienceOfPeople  2 роки тому +17

    Learn more about the science of confidence in the article: www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-be-confident/

  • @ignaciomoranbarrascout
    @ignaciomoranbarrascout 3 роки тому +505

    Self confidence is not "they will like me"
    It is "I'll be fine if they don't"

  • @simharasiphalaalu
    @simharasiphalaalu 4 роки тому +119

    The qualities that confidence people have:
    1. Demonstrates confidence and leadership
    2. Isn't afraid to be unique
    3. Communicates and interacts with everyone.
    4. Shows respect and concern for everyone.
    5. Is knowledgeable and well-rounded
    6. Has humility and shows willingness to admit mistakes
    7. Does good things outside the job

  • @natebarlow6408
    @natebarlow6408 4 роки тому +373

    My biggest takeaway from this video is: To be confident, be happy; to be happy, find some humor.

    • @YET64
      @YET64 4 роки тому +4

      You put it in good way. I was about to comment !!

    • @Studio-uv8ve
      @Studio-uv8ve 4 роки тому +2

      @@YET64 qze3

    • @angelus_solus
      @angelus_solus 3 роки тому +2

      Real easy to say for those who don't suffer from chronic depression and schizophrenia, even when being treated by drugs.

    • @katherinepem6676
      @katherinepem6676 3 роки тому +1

      @@angelus_solus Yep...most people aren't going through that...😬

    • @x3no841
      @x3no841 3 роки тому +1

      Here's a thing...im not that funny lol

  • @amala7647
    @amala7647 4 роки тому +51

    I become so nervous when i have a presentation that my voice ends up cracking, but at the end i’m proud that i’m brave enough to present in front of people and with time i’ll get used to it and become confident presenting

    • @alisalman254
      @alisalman254 3 роки тому +1

      I think ,it call stage fear at initial but gradually removed

    • @catherinewest5609
      @catherinewest5609 Рік тому

      That's great but is public speaking necessary for everyone? Can you be a confident introvert without others expecting you to change?

  • @shailyshekhar3409
    @shailyshekhar3409 4 роки тому +127

    You are just wonderful Vanessa. You boosted my confidence to yet another level, now I got elected as school president against the most popular girl in school. Couldn't thank you more💜

  • @mumyjan
    @mumyjan 11 місяців тому +3

    I worked with Filipino interaction with other companies with Filipino, their style of saying heloo over phone is mind blowing, filled with happiness...helooooo

  • @bangfruit
    @bangfruit 4 роки тому +6

    This is literally the best video I have watched in quite sometime! Thanks Vanessa!!

  • @Santhanaram
    @Santhanaram 4 роки тому +7

    Hey Vanessa, you are truly awesome. Thank you for sharing your videos over the years. A fan of your stuff.

  • @ted775
    @ted775 3 роки тому +8

    You are now my secret role model! Your confidence is astounding.

  • @Cats4origami
    @Cats4origami 4 роки тому +9

    I am watching this while getting ready for work today and I’m so excited! I hope to ask my manager how I can feel more confident. I’m motivated to be confident! Thank you ❤️

  • @jennyrodriguez7166
    @jennyrodriguez7166 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you Vanessa for creating these awesome videos!!!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @rizalfatoni4075
    @rizalfatoni4075 4 роки тому +4

    It's hard to live when we always worry about small things, we hardly focus and neglect our responsibilities, thus we can't get what we want and that become disappointment.
    This kinda how to tips arereally helpful especially as an insight, so we have options when we feel trapped in a difficult situation.
    Thanks Vanessa, this is really helpful for many people out there,
    The the gestures, expression, and tone when you deliver this video is fantastic!!!

  • @gugonim9738
    @gugonim9738 3 роки тому +2

    This is like a crash course for learning how to be confident.. DAMN AWESOME.

  • @g6mogulthepeoplesmogul
    @g6mogulthepeoplesmogul 4 роки тому +4

    This was great ! Definitely appreciate the tips. Love your work !!

  • @Neethu____
    @Neethu____ 4 роки тому +9

    I come across many videos in you tube speaking about building up confidence. But truly she cracks it all with such wonderful presentation skills and I haven't come across such a person who speaks so naturally and with ease. With each word this video carries that energy reaching its subscribers an amazing level of confidence! May be because she really does mean every word she says instead of thinking it just a subject or topic and do this with all passion inside her, to motivate others! Thanks much!!

  • @katywaldrop5036
    @katywaldrop5036 4 роки тому +11

    God bless you Vanessa! Love your content!!

  • @yarobhaddad4014
    @yarobhaddad4014 2 роки тому

    Hi Vanessa, I would like to thank you so much for all the precious information you provided. Appreciated. Hope in the future I can see in real your lectures. Wishing you all the progress.😊

  • @claumalta4371
    @claumalta4371 4 роки тому +2

    By far the most intereting video I found on youtube in these last months. I can't wait to read your books! And thanks for share it! =)

  • @rajgajjar7987
    @rajgajjar7987 4 роки тому +3

    The ownership of thoughts is really necessary and therefore . I always know something new from you

  • @hunterdale3186
    @hunterdale3186 4 роки тому

    Vanessa, you are wonderful! Thank you!

  • @dmdildar
    @dmdildar 3 роки тому

    You are just amazing! i love your videos and when I start watching them, it takes me minutes if not hours to watch or listen to them. Thank you

  • @sarushanarayan3838
    @sarushanarayan3838 2 роки тому +11

    My role model is you Vanessa Van Edwards .
    I’m that awkward person, who realised my awkwardness only after watching your Videos.I’m headed towards that complete positive transformation with you backing me up virtually.
    Lots and lots of gratitude, respect and Love Vanessa 🙏🏻

    • @deepikaa.18
      @deepikaa.18 11 місяців тому +1

      A year later, where are you on this journey

  • @enumahglory6921
    @enumahglory6921 4 роки тому +1

    This is my first time of meeting you.
    I love you already.
    You are amazing Vanessa

  • @theAvaNJames
    @theAvaNJames 3 роки тому

    Absolutely agree to stealing the show with the confidence you talk about!

  • @danialteaches
    @danialteaches 4 роки тому +47

    I love how Vanessa talks about confidence in such a simple and effective way. Great video.

    • @mattjahnke239
      @mattjahnke239 2 роки тому

      I love how she breaks down everything.

  • @DailyCollectiveChannel
    @DailyCollectiveChannel 3 роки тому +1

    You're amazing! I always learn something new from you.

  • @sevanyouhanna2491
    @sevanyouhanna2491 4 роки тому

    You are so awesome. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

  • @FadedImmaculate808
    @FadedImmaculate808 3 роки тому

    This entire video is gold

  • @karengonzaga1508
    @karengonzaga1508 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you for reminding me again that confidence can be put into practice. God bless :)

  • @zarinaspace
    @zarinaspace 3 роки тому +1

    Confidence is the best outfit. A lot of it depends on how you feel inside. That way, it radiates outside. Thank you for this video.

  • @heythere6660
    @heythere6660 3 роки тому

    These are wonderful contributions. Thank you.

  • @selimreza9439
    @selimreza9439 2 роки тому

    Vanessa, I think this is the best video you have ever made. Thank you. I love your way of expression. Love for you from Bangladesh...

  • @admirbarucija2018
    @admirbarucija2018 4 роки тому +9

    I wish I had any sort of confidence. I’m looking forward to this video :)

  • @zfoska
    @zfoska Рік тому

    Thank you, you beautiful soul! 💖🌻

  • @spike803
    @spike803 4 роки тому

    Excellent video. Thank you so much!

  • @apositiveperson6820
    @apositiveperson6820 4 роки тому +2

    Thankfully for you

  • @infodwheels623
    @infodwheels623 2 роки тому +1

    Your hands along with the rest of your body language is amazing. wow!

  • @saurabhaggarwal1950
    @saurabhaggarwal1950 4 роки тому

    You are amazing, thanks!

  • @hironimusria6910
    @hironimusria6910 4 роки тому +1

    Vanessa thanks...
    I love it, GBU...

  • @laflameee6968
    @laflameee6968 3 роки тому

    I am definetly sooo much more confident thank u babe

  • @joramsvlog9907
    @joramsvlog9907 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this awesome topic on how to be more confident in different ways.I learned a lot!!!

  • @yonitomorrow7502
    @yonitomorrow7502 4 роки тому

    Thanks 🙏 for everything

  • @_valeriabeauty__
    @_valeriabeauty__ 4 роки тому +1

    You are the only one I can watch the whole video!!!!

  • @jana301
    @jana301 4 роки тому +1

    Omg huge fan!!!!
    Btw I bought ur book and finished reading it. It's amazing!
    Good luck!! 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @JJMLJ
    @JJMLJ 2 роки тому

    I love this video. Thank you.

  • @Theredsurge99
    @Theredsurge99 3 роки тому +1

    This video is sooo helpful! I practice this on my channel and at work all the time haha

  • @TheMikaylaah
    @TheMikaylaah 4 роки тому

    This is the best video ever ❤️ Thank you so much

  • @omarhamid5107
    @omarhamid5107 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much teacher

  • @nerdshala2997
    @nerdshala2997 4 роки тому +2

    You are amazing!

  • @gtberg
    @gtberg Рік тому +1

    What worked for me was hypnosis. My confidence went up 200% in one session! Much easier than trying to force ourselves to follow all these rules.

  • @ralfj.1740
    @ralfj.1740 Рік тому +3

    Confidence comes with acquiring skills.
    Great video Vanessa! 🙂

  • @virgilstox2677
    @virgilstox2677 2 роки тому

    So substantially informative

  • @ayeshashaikh8855
    @ayeshashaikh8855 4 роки тому

    Well explained!... Great job! 👍👏

  • @savelikeaprowithleah5157
    @savelikeaprowithleah5157 4 роки тому

    Amazing Content! Thanks for sharing!

  • @virtualtreadmillwalknature1488

    Amazing tip!! Stay Fit

  • @sanket10120
    @sanket10120 3 роки тому

    Thank u so much beautiful, for this video. It means a lot❤️

  • @teesta80
    @teesta80 2 роки тому +4

    My sincere thanks for all your wonderful work to help us! My takeaway is internal happiness directly reflects confidence. During the down days look at your accomplishments that I made it through big or small. Trash Imposter Syndrome. Avoid social media to get a digital detox living a fake life! Take time to learn YOU!

  • @firstclasslady1719
    @firstclasslady1719 4 роки тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @GroUp512
    @GroUp512 3 роки тому +9

    Finding happiness and confidence comes from discovering your value and your strengths. What you bring to the table. Thanks for the awesome video!

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      @estherIU Рік тому +1

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  • @aktharshah73
    @aktharshah73 4 роки тому

    Thank you for your videos 😊

  • @hollymoses5108
    @hollymoses5108 4 роки тому +1

    Venessa your awesome! I like your words religiously keep going.

  • @johneq
    @johneq 4 роки тому +30

    I’ve been googling “How to walk Science of People” the past few days. How did you know? 🤯 I wish I’d seen this channel in high school. Your work is truly life changing, Thank You Vanessa! 😁

    • @angelus_solus
      @angelus_solus 3 роки тому

      You do realize that Google owns UA-cam. Right?

  • @pitchireddymedagam673
    @pitchireddymedagam673 4 роки тому +2

    Hi mam you are sharing a very valuable information. Simply superb.

  • @khosiiaimson8023
    @khosiiaimson8023 2 роки тому

    I like the way your talk.your smile,your presentation 👍

  • @erickcarrillo3249
    @erickcarrillo3249 4 роки тому

    I love this!

  • @sarahirwin6631
    @sarahirwin6631 Місяць тому

    You’re the best!

  • @openclassusa3534
    @openclassusa3534 4 роки тому

    Excellent video !!

  • @mskaification
    @mskaification Рік тому

    Great ideas about a job. Makes me think of what career matches me. High school counselors should have there students ask these questions to find what career they would like. Thanks so much you! I now know what career is best for me

  • @kawsudrammeh3055
    @kawsudrammeh3055 4 роки тому +12

    "I don't want to build my confident because of social media I wan't to build my confident to inspire powerless people.

  • @y_m_2025
    @y_m_2025 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing video sister. Thanks for your genuine effort

  • @henryventurina8832
    @henryventurina8832 4 роки тому

    Ive learned a lot from you. Pls make more videos. Your content are awesome.

  • @aminalakhal9527
    @aminalakhal9527 4 роки тому

    Thank you.You helped me a lot.😘

  • @aamirnaqvi4593
    @aamirnaqvi4593 4 роки тому

    Thanks and my love for you 🍁

  • @nightcrawler2659
    @nightcrawler2659 4 роки тому

    Love your video content Vanesa!! 😉

  • @sarthakaswal7023
    @sarthakaswal7023 3 роки тому

    Amazing.🙏

  • @YET64
    @YET64 4 роки тому

    Vanessa@ great one as usual!

  • @BdotWizzle
    @BdotWizzle 3 роки тому

    Thanks!

  • @FaithVista
    @FaithVista 4 роки тому +2

    You’re my role model 😊

  • @bettyleongsfx
    @bettyleongsfx 2 роки тому

    You are amazing and marvellous Vanessa

  • @HealThyLivingQueen
    @HealThyLivingQueen 4 роки тому

    You're a role model for me now!

  • @mohammadiqbaldawah
    @mohammadiqbaldawah 4 роки тому

    Thanks lady

  • @boybungottv6785
    @boybungottv6785 2 роки тому

    It's so helpful ...

  • @samazaidi3087
    @samazaidi3087 4 роки тому +6

    Hey Vanessa, thanks for sharing this knowledge. Much love for you and your team. I don't listen to your words, i digest them.
    Love ❤️

    • @nady2265
      @nady2265 4 роки тому

      you must have a magnificent metabolism. Lolll

    • @nady2265
      @nady2265 4 роки тому

      @Hemle c is it possible to at least try and make some sort of sense when replying.. thanks

  • @jovanpantelic8536
    @jovanpantelic8536 4 роки тому

    Ty!

  • @lucywanja6179
    @lucywanja6179 4 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @fashioniistaa5777
    @fashioniistaa5777 2 роки тому

    Yeah I do look like a winner!!!

  • @emsaye
    @emsaye 4 роки тому

    Great video, Mrs. Edwards!

  • @rtem1sFowl
    @rtem1sFowl 2 роки тому +1

    This was a very good video on how to present yourself to others confidently.

  • @abpoint2476
    @abpoint2476 4 роки тому

    This is great!

  • @lifelessons19951
    @lifelessons19951 2 роки тому

    Wow so educative especially for me and I have just started practicing what you just taught us ma'am . 😃💃💃💃💃💃 thank you so much ma'am . I wish you can be my coach really. 🙈🙈🙈

  • @NenaLavonne
    @NenaLavonne 4 роки тому +14

    Your personality is simply contagious. Inspiring and insightful video, thanks for all you do! ♥️

  • @nadeemtabraiz2928
    @nadeemtabraiz2928 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks

  • @MustafaTupiya
    @MustafaTupiya 3 роки тому

    Superb 😊

  • @wahidi411
    @wahidi411 2 роки тому

    Great video and tips, it definitely helps us alot...

  • @bettyleongsfx
    @bettyleongsfx 2 роки тому

    Your video is superb. I like the tips that comes with some proven research and reaction steps👍👍👍🌟🌟🌟

  • @smilingbuddha2817
    @smilingbuddha2817 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you.. You are the best venessa van edwards 👌

  • @obaidullahahmad171
    @obaidullahahmad171 4 роки тому

    You are awesome!!😀

  • @socialsimodesign926
    @socialsimodesign926 2 роки тому

    I really enjoy watching your videos 🙋‍♀️

  • @lamouralice4533
    @lamouralice4533 2 роки тому

    Really useful ✨thank you