How to be More Interesting

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  • Опубліковано 22 гру 2024

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  • @ScienceOfPeople
    @ScienceOfPeople  7 місяців тому

    Learn how to be more interesting: www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-be-more-interesting/

  • @kiyarna3744
    @kiyarna3744 3 роки тому +43

    Boring is not a personality. Boring is a set of bad habits. Vanessa summarized this well.

    • @Marta-to1mf
      @Marta-to1mf Рік тому

      I may be boring to you but not to me and others. Who are you to decide that I'm boring? And who are you to say that my habits are bed ?

  • @Escocobar
    @Escocobar 5 років тому +296

    "To be interesting, be interested." Dale Carnegie

    • @billionaireconcepts1095
      @billionaireconcepts1095 5 років тому +3

      I love this

    • @tookytames8044
      @tookytames8044 4 роки тому

      I needed that

    • @oliverford5367
      @oliverford5367 4 роки тому

      @Karrie Dee I find that book is advocating being fake. Pretending and sucking up. Authenticity needs to be valued.

    • @NotMyGumDropButtons.444
      @NotMyGumDropButtons.444 3 роки тому +3

      I love how to win friends & influence peeps. Suck a good book.

    • @kiyarna3744
      @kiyarna3744 3 роки тому

      As someone who has a lot of experience, It only works for so long until they ask me the same questions. It's just one of the habits of interesting, like icing on a cake.

  • @hamzasabir6053
    @hamzasabir6053 5 років тому +87

    Interesting is absolutely equal self-improvement, exactly is when you work on yourself, your life and words become interesting!

  • @alisa6594
    @alisa6594 5 років тому +39

    I agree with some aspects in this video but definitely not all.
    When I’ve just gotten to know someone, I wouldn’t want them to ask me questions such as what I’m thinking. Tbh, that would just freak me out because I don’t wanna tell some stranger that I just met what I think. We shouldn’t expect to dive into super deep conversations as soon as meeting people because most people won’t open up that quickly. For many, it needs a certain level of trust to have deep, interesting conversations. In my opinion, it’s much better to ask about people’s favorite things because this is something that they love and are passionate about so they will obviously like to talk about it. Ask them what they like about it so much or what they don’t like about something. Just in general, ask for reasons, but don’t be nosy. I found out it can really make for interesting conversations, especially when it’s something you don’t know much about or are opposed to (but don’t judge them then, try to understand them) because then you get to know new viewpoints and expand your own horizon.
    I also only agree partly about doing things not everybody does. Of course it can be really fun and interesting to tell someone about something you’ve done, eaten or read but only if the other person can relate to it in some way, so you can have a conversation. Conversations, however, won’t work out if it’s something so different that the other person can’t relate to it and won’t know what to say about it. Then it’s in my opinion better to talk about the new bestseller that everybody’s read.
    I think most important is just to be open to and interested in new things, new experiences and new people. :)

    • @peterjhartvideo
      @peterjhartvideo Рік тому +3

      Alisa, four years ago you told the entire Internet how you thought.

    • @lm2519
      @lm2519 Рік тому

      @@peterjhartvideo just got it! 😅

  • @Magdnrobinson
    @Magdnrobinson 3 роки тому +6

    All I can say is THANK YOU Vanee.
    I have virtually all your videos.
    It helps me and I love going back to them over and over.
    I know I'm a work in progress and I believe I can be better, I will be better.

  • @marialisha3602
    @marialisha3602 3 роки тому +3

    5:27 starts
    Ask someone about the weirdest thing they have ever eaten?
    What's on their bucket list?
    What/which movie changed their life ??
    New skill they are learning?
    About their personal passion project??

  • @davidpeterson2374
    @davidpeterson2374 Рік тому +2

    I use alot of these videos in a high school social skills class I teach and I have loved them. The students seem to like them as well and I have defiantly noticed a few who really try to change using skills and steps given.

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  Рік тому

      Oh that makes me so happy! Thank you for sharing my work with your students. ♥

  • @annastromer1383
    @annastromer1383 2 роки тому +4

    I’ve been looking for videos about this topic, and none of them really helped me, but this one is actually really good!

  • @benbotan3000
    @benbotan3000 5 років тому +40

    The way she describes lazy people in a conversation, is a perfect description of myself sadly, lol know I know what I'm doing wrong thanks!

    • @sahilmalushte1532
      @sahilmalushte1532 2 роки тому +1

      Same here bro ,you are not alone

    • @kimmiewagner5628
      @kimmiewagner5628 2 роки тому +2

      Same! When she said boring people eat at the same place, go on the same vacations, watch the same shows… haha that is me to a T. I don’t think that’s wrong. I like what I like. I do interesting things too though. We wouldn’t be here if we were really “uninteresting”.

  • @amymcdaniel1433
    @amymcdaniel1433 5 років тому +6

    Vanessa I'm reading your book. I've taken your quizzes, and I watch every UA-cam video I can find. I'm feeling so much better. I know what to do with my body. I feel more confident. I know it takes practice but I'm so thankful for your work...Thank you. Thank you Thank you! 😘

  • @excellence90
    @excellence90 4 роки тому +4

    Laziness is the enemy of interesting. Well said

  • @nawfalshammari4579
    @nawfalshammari4579 5 років тому +65

    Your tips actually do help me. Thank you a lot Vanessa

  • @gregoryrunningelk865
    @gregoryrunningelk865 2 роки тому +1

    This is the best advice I have ever heard! Point blank! Thank you love. I love you because you hit great subjects.

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed the video. Sending love! 🤗

  • @SamTTrevino
    @SamTTrevino 5 років тому +213

    Take a shot every time she says interesting.
    That ought to make your night interesting 😶😂

    • @AhnastasiaRose
      @AhnastasiaRose 5 років тому

      I'd DIE

    • @MGrose407
      @MGrose407 5 років тому +2

      It’ll be your last night alive! 😂

    • @Tabsimone
      @Tabsimone 5 років тому

      Lol

    • @donditheblondie9758
      @donditheblondie9758 5 років тому

      Well, the title DOES say, " How to be more interesting." So........

    • @SenorJuan2023
      @SenorJuan2023 3 роки тому

      I think that would make me the "most interesting man in the world"

  • @d.collins1134
    @d.collins1134 4 роки тому +1

    Fact is most people don't think their interesting when they are. The willingness to engage in conversation is key. Don't just answer questions, have some to ask. My 2cents.

  • @WarinPartita6
    @WarinPartita6 2 роки тому +4

    You're a GREAT inspirer, Vanessa! BIG THANKS!! :-)))

  • @nutritionalblockbusters7690
    @nutritionalblockbusters7690 5 років тому +12

    This is by far one of the most interesting videos I have ever seen. I am going to try this. Thanks V. 🤗

  • @ayliea3974
    @ayliea3974 5 років тому +94

    I always thought that if you want to be interesting, be interested.😘

    • @benbotan3000
      @benbotan3000 5 років тому +1

      that's a good tip

    • @kool4209
      @kool4209 5 років тому

      you have to be what women want and find interesting. Thats it. It doesnt matter if youre doing what you love because if she doesnt find it interesting she will find you boring.

    • @RuberSocks
      @RuberSocks 4 роки тому

      I think a more effective and simple way to think about it is, "talk with the intention of having fun"

  • @Catyoukai
    @Catyoukai 4 роки тому +4

    Feel called out, but that's why I'm here. Fitting all the boring categories and feel desperate to break out

  • @Harshil_Deshle_
    @Harshil_Deshle_ 3 роки тому +2

    Hi, Vanessa , i thank god that i got you in start of 2021, i am very much impressed by your thoughts and movements. reayou are doing great things to pump up people life, your all videos are very interesting and see to understand, deep and encouraging , adv. sanjiv deshle , pune city, india

  • @created4passion442
    @created4passion442 5 років тому +4

    Sometimes it's a challenge to be when you're dealing with depression or discouragement but I do like the idea and will try to keep my antennas up

  • @Linda-dc7rl
    @Linda-dc7rl 5 років тому +6

    I wish i could give this a 1000 likes, I love your work Vanessa!

  • @ludovicmahieu8278
    @ludovicmahieu8278 5 років тому +47

    Watching the same Netflix shows can be a good way of finding similarity with people for bonding but that's not enough to be interesting past the bonding phase :)

    • @vladislavno
      @vladislavno 3 роки тому +1

      I just talk about the international banking conspiracy. It always gets people fired up.

    • @lookaroundyou8108
      @lookaroundyou8108 2 роки тому

      Only for a one time conversation, in the end u won't be able to talk about it forever

  • @sharonworyn8024
    @sharonworyn8024 5 років тому +69

    Great video and I have to say I do work at this. I am retired and there is nothing more boring than being with retired people who only talk about their ailments, doctor appointments and meds. I am currently learning how to speak French because I always wanted to learn that. I workout 5 days a week, I facilitate a Bible study and I'm reading Captivate! Psalm 92 has something to say on this subject: they will remain vital and green and still bear fruit in old age. I live by that.

    • @feliciakalman7815
      @feliciakalman7815 5 років тому +2

      That's awesome! So inspiring :)

    • @hanaabdulahiibrahim5074
      @hanaabdulahiibrahim5074 5 років тому +3

      That's amazing.....
      Try doing research and comparing different religions instead of going with the default

    • @sharonworyn8024
      @sharonworyn8024 5 років тому +4

      That's a good idea but I did that for college and I worked in an environment where almost everyone was Muslim so I do know a bit about other religions.

    • @hanaabdulahiibrahim5074
      @hanaabdulahiibrahim5074 5 років тому

      @Sharon worny
      Ooh, I see...... wish you best of luck

    • @Agr8fullife
      @Agr8fullife 5 років тому +1

      I love it!

  • @danter1126
    @danter1126 4 роки тому +1

    Vanessa is my favorite charisma teacher.

  • @ΚυριακηΤζογανακη
    @ΚυριακηΤζογανακη 4 місяці тому

    Great Video! Great ideas and with your bright energy! I hear it repeatedly!

  • @alphabeta8403
    @alphabeta8403 10 місяців тому

    2:00 The lazy law
    5:25 Interesting Q’s
    8:30 Who is the most interesting person you know?

  • @supplychainsants
    @supplychainsants 3 роки тому

    You are an interested person. I like you and learns from you since Nov- 2020. 👍
    Best wishes for your future endeavour.

  • @IAmNumber49
    @IAmNumber49 5 років тому +2

    Starting from point 2:29, did you consider, introversion and how fast a person thinks when referring to "lazy in conversation"? Also...if that "lazy uninteresting" person is interested on having a conversation?

  • @chuaseahhui
    @chuaseahhui 4 роки тому +1

    You are interesting person! Enjoy learning from you Vanessa. Thank you

  • @Erudite48085
    @Erudite48085 5 років тому +3

    This was really good with practical ideas and tips. "Fight the laziness." I feel like tatooing that on my body to remind myself that although my mind wants the best for me, laziness is my worst enemy! I will not let laziness win now that I can identify it! She has a good voice, tone and pace too. Pleasant and easy to listen too. Not distracting.

  • @AllyKit
    @AllyKit 4 роки тому +3

    Wow. I was interested bettering myself on one or two flaws but after watching your video I realize I am guilty on every count and feel so much worse. Thanks.

  • @jagteshwarsagar8728
    @jagteshwarsagar8728 4 роки тому +1

    You are right mam. .....laziness is cause of being boring

  • @supplychainsants
    @supplychainsants 3 роки тому

    Interesting 👍👍👍👍👍
    Vanesaaaaa! Your teaching content and way of delivery are amazing. You are toppest in the top 1%. 💫💫💫💫

  • @BE713VE
    @BE713VE Рік тому +1

    Very well put together speeches and videos. Great ideas and wonderful advice. Thank you!

  • @rdfi1823
    @rdfi1823 5 років тому +7

    Hey Vanessa! I love your videos, and I already watched your course on LinkedIn. I'm curious to know what are the books, documentaries, podcasts, or anything that changed your thinking and, ultimately, your life. How do you learn? What advice you give to people seeking personality development? What skills you advice them to learn?
    Now I know how to be interesting; how can I be a person who wants to be authentic, self-aware, confident, and proud?

  • @curtisfoster4256
    @curtisfoster4256 5 років тому +2

    Grand slam home run, per usual. Gold. 👑

  • @bellamonique
    @bellamonique 5 років тому +22

    Your channel is so interesting and I'm glad I found you. Just subscribed!

  • @rakeshkumarmadella7955
    @rakeshkumarmadella7955 5 років тому +8

    YOUR channel is also interesting.. I have seen your interviews with Tom beilyue.. impact theory and thought ur interesting that's y I subcribed ur channel.. happy Friday Vaneesa

  • @MohamedSalaheldin2021
    @MohamedSalaheldin2021 3 роки тому +1

    Do the axis need to be interchanged in "the curve of lazy and interesting" ?

  • @sherryrichelle
    @sherryrichelle 5 років тому +4

    Awesome, Vanessa! Thank you!

  • @pinacolada2386
    @pinacolada2386 2 роки тому +1

    Recommendation algorithms on social platforms (UA-cam, TikTok, ...) are making us less interesting as they only recommend things that align with our views/browsing histories. Have to turn on incognito mode to see some "interesting" new ideas

  • @lookaroundyou8108
    @lookaroundyou8108 2 роки тому

    People are more consumed in their past and live and repeat their trauma events, I have not so great past either, but I noticed that no one will be having a great time listening to my sob story and traumatic past at least not early on in a friendship or a relationship. So better not start with that, in the end no matter how much ppl care they will find themselves walking away from someone who complains about their life, no one wants to hang out around those who complain all the time whether u like it or not.

  • @lm2519
    @lm2519 Рік тому

    whoa...never thought of interesting and laziness being connected. but totally makes sense

  • @waseemtanzeemi2095
    @waseemtanzeemi2095 3 роки тому +1

    Interest is something which give you the more power to do your best. Be interesting and become more powerful. Thanks

  • @robinalexander3032
    @robinalexander3032 Рік тому +1

    Yes, we must fight the laziness! In 2023, it is a common temptation for many of us.

  • @centurion6651
    @centurion6651 5 років тому +2

    Love it! And you are one of the most interesting on UA-cam! Thank you for you dedication! ❤️

  • @menrofloridablanca7154
    @menrofloridablanca7154 5 років тому +5

    i love this video. I really got so excited! Thank you!

  • @earlraff9162
    @earlraff9162 5 років тому +2

    Trista and I loved your recommendation on visiting the forest and Tea House while in Portland. Thanks Vanessa!

  • @sihamnoha4963
    @sihamnoha4963 2 роки тому +2

    You are the most intresting person I know 😊

  • @Narraaja2
    @Narraaja2 5 років тому +1

    Just found your channel Vanessa. Great, easy to take steps here - and plus for the length of the videos! :)

  • @asthefanie
    @asthefanie 5 років тому +2

    The way Vanessa says interesting is the cutest thing! xD

  • @brenwaller5645
    @brenwaller5645 5 років тому +2

    Awesome, I love your videos Vanessa! Thank you so much!

  • @ishishir
    @ishishir 4 роки тому +1

    The whole idea of trying to be interesting has a flaw. It is as if one wants to impress. That philosophy is bound to fail because it puts focus on wrong things.
    Instead what you really want to do is
    1. Understand your audience
    (*what do they want to do* in given context, at party they want to relax, chill and have fun. In a meeting at office they want to solve a problem, in manager and your meeting manager wants to improve your performance, in networking they want to create new connections and have fun)
    2. Understand your context
    (are you talking at office meeting, at home party)
    3. Then according to audience and context, just talk and adapt your message. Experiment a lot and reflect what works. Typically shorter messages work better than long winded ones, etc

  • @shanemcaleer8582
    @shanemcaleer8582 2 роки тому

    Thanks Vanessa, I've just booked a hot air balloon ride when I go on holidays in August. That should be a great conversation piece.

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  2 роки тому +1

      That sounds like so much fun! I hope you have a great time =) it should be a great conversation piece!

  • @patrickt49
    @patrickt49 5 років тому +8

    Vanessa, do you have a book list that sparks ineterest in conversation? Much appreciated.

    • @zenamatthews9380
      @zenamatthews9380 5 років тому

      I think whatever is interesting to you falls under that list.

  • @ms.jasm92
    @ms.jasm92 2 роки тому

    You are interesting, Vanessa. That's the reason why I watched your videos 🥰🥰🥰

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  2 роки тому +1

      🥰 thank you!

    • @ms.jasm92
      @ms.jasm92 2 роки тому

      @@ScienceOfPeople Thank you too for sharing your expertise with everyone.

  • @robbymonger9381
    @robbymonger9381 2 роки тому

    I am a blue collar person that mostly only deal with other blue collar people and this is a guide on how to make those people not want to be around you. Most people. Interesting people are interesting to all people and not just other interesting people

  • @laneweatherbee2232
    @laneweatherbee2232 2 роки тому +10

    I agree with MOST of what you've talked about in this video, I did have a bit of a problem with how you framed it though.
    I came to this video because I'm dealing with social anxiety and depression and being called lazy really didn't hit me in the right way.
    Aside from that this is a great video and it actually has a lot of good tips, but being called lazy right at the start was a bit of a low blow. lol

    • @nahCmeR
      @nahCmeR 2 роки тому

      Ahhh I feel your pain friend. I too suffer with quite bad Social Anxiety and Depression along with others.

  • @katiehayden7632
    @katiehayden7632 Рік тому +1

    Not going to lie, I kinda giggled when you had the little conversation bubble that said, "I'm strange!". HAHA!!! All jokes aside though, those were some great tips. I often struggle with what to say next after someone tells me something. Like I know I need to acknowledge what they said and then respond approproately, but I often struggle with how to respond. Do you have any videos to help with that?

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  Рік тому +1

      Great question, Katie! You may find these articles on our website helpful:
      www.scienceofpeople.com/what-to-say/
      www.scienceofpeople.com/have-hold-conversation/

    • @katiehayden7632
      @katiehayden7632 Рік тому

      @@ScienceOfPeople Thank you so much!!!

  • @ronaldinho0072
    @ronaldinho0072 4 роки тому

    I don't know why people put dislike for this interesting video .. I suspect you mentioned them in the video because they are lazy people hhhhhhhh

  • @ShubhamKumar-ht8ld
    @ShubhamKumar-ht8ld 4 роки тому +4

    Me: What is your passion?
    Them: Ummm I don't know for sure...

  • @parshotamsingh2349
    @parshotamsingh2349 Рік тому +1

    Good Topic Thanks

  • @iytwales
    @iytwales 9 місяців тому

    I love this! Thank you!

  • @noussanim
    @noussanim 5 років тому +9

    i like the way how your content is so deep and so simple... :) thanks

  • @vipuldesai7251
    @vipuldesai7251 3 роки тому

    U r interesting Venesa.. So nice explained. Thanks.

  • @ivann200
    @ivann200 Рік тому +1

    Something equally important, don't be afraid to share interesting things about you! You may be the most interesting person ever, but if you don't let people know, they will think you're boring.

  • @prestonkoehn2323
    @prestonkoehn2323 5 років тому +3

    Very interesting video Vanessa! I had to laugh watching it but it makes so much sense

  • @apastamasengupta2434
    @apastamasengupta2434 5 років тому +3

    Thank you so much!!!!
    Can you tell about depression and how to fight it...seeing these videos I truely feel very confident and happy.
    And you are the most interesting person I can see right now..

  • @amitdedha6038
    @amitdedha6038 3 роки тому

    Amazing video, please keep it up...

  • @kuznetsov284
    @kuznetsov284 3 роки тому

    Great video! Thanks! 👋👋

  • @ftweedy5580
    @ftweedy5580 2 роки тому

    Excellent!!!!!

  • @andanssas
    @andanssas 5 років тому +2

    What about those that spot subliminal messages behind blockbuster movies?

  • @louisevandiepen4129
    @louisevandiepen4129 5 років тому +2

    Hi Vanessa, I am afraid that I sound so curious, I get carried away and scare people. I'm a female engenieer so typically not a boring combination. I have to find a balance in conversation. I sometimes ask myself: do I wanna know? I realy need to read your book. Cheers from Amsterdam

  • @ashutoshdwivedi1821
    @ashutoshdwivedi1821 4 роки тому

    You are really very much changed in 4 years 🤗🤗

  • @ChristinaAaliyah
    @ChristinaAaliyah 4 роки тому

    Your fear of being uninteresting makes you uninteresting. Every interaction becomes an apology.
    Your fear is stopping you from being interesting.
    Uninteresting people are lazy, they dont do interesting things, they expect you to do all the talking.
    1. Stop doin boring uninteresting things. Dont do what everyone else is doing, dont watch what everyone else is doing. Create a bucket list and pledge to do 1 interesting thing each month, achieve a big goal. Go to a workout class, restaurant or movie theater you've never been to.
    2. Ask interesting questions. Ask someone about the weirdest thing theyve ever eaten, what's on their bucket list? What movie most changed your life? What new skill are you learning? Do you have a passion?
    3. Consume interesting things. What u consume make you who you are. Food, media etc read and eat unpopular things. Read a news source that's the opposite from tour point of view. Find a new favourite columnist.
    4. Ask people what they are considering. What do they think? What intrigues them? How do they learn? What are they learning? Learn interesting things about other people
    5. Hang out with interesting people. Who is the most interesting person you know? Funniest? Intelligent? Well read? Well travelled? Go hand out with them!
    Laziness is the enemy of interesting

  • @parshotamsingh2349
    @parshotamsingh2349 2 роки тому +1

    Good . Thanks

  • @sukhwantfarar2623
    @sukhwantfarar2623 5 років тому +1

    Brilliant, thank you Vanessa

  • @LA-el9xv
    @LA-el9xv 5 років тому +2

    I apply this advice. Now im become girl magnet! Tq coach. Mwahh

  • @abderrahimtachi9465
    @abderrahimtachi9465 4 роки тому +1

    That's extremely right all these ways it works I think when I'm gonna start to be like that I will find my self in another world, but the good one is to surround yourself with interesting people and change the thing you did usually than you can find out your self like them without feeling,
    keep up the good work.

  • @anahitaaleli8365
    @anahitaaleli8365 4 роки тому +5

    You’re great at what you’re doing Vanessa! So interesting videos 😃👌

  • @Slime5276
    @Slime5276 5 років тому +4

    "Uninteresting people are lazy" -- Vennassa Van Edwardz

  • @thepictureshow7340
    @thepictureshow7340 5 років тому +2

    Its true that everyone Is interesting.

  • @patriciahalloff288
    @patriciahalloff288 3 роки тому

    Very unique. Very interesting.

  • @anastasiabennett4854
    @anastasiabennett4854 2 роки тому +2

    She called out a lotttt of people in this video, myself included

  • @leenalsader8476
    @leenalsader8476 3 роки тому

    Very helpful! 🌹🌹

  • @triciajensen9679
    @triciajensen9679 4 роки тому

    Great information and very interesting 😉

  • @Iamcapable4
    @Iamcapable4 2 роки тому

    thank you for this knowledge

  • @valeriotrujano6802
    @valeriotrujano6802 5 років тому

    Hi Vanessa your videos is awesome. With videos learning english

  • @bernardoescobedo2208
    @bernardoescobedo2208 5 років тому +1

    This interestering person is very intersted in this interesting video from a very interesting person 👍

  • @apositiveperson6820
    @apositiveperson6820 5 років тому +2

    You are so charismatic

  • @Iksiksinski.
    @Iksiksinski. 5 років тому +1

    There is a lot of powerfull practical knowledge i love it!
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  • @josephweber9587
    @josephweber9587 3 роки тому

    Sometimes i feel that no one is really interesting but it's just a presentation, prefrence and attraction that makes it, or that person seem interesting. If everyone were interesting no one would be interesting. Right? Im trying to understand. I feel super unitresting but I've heard people talk about someone being intresting however i sat there and was like wow, none of that sounds interesting to me.

  • @chriswaldorf1560
    @chriswaldorf1560 3 роки тому

    Great video. Thank you.

  • @raghvendraarya9852
    @raghvendraarya9852 3 роки тому

    Thank you mam, nice teaching...

  • @abym1086
    @abym1086 3 роки тому

    Loved it !!

  • @Ateneu2023
    @Ateneu2023 5 років тому

    Awesome Vanessa 👏👏👏👏

  • @sarabustossb
    @sarabustossb 2 роки тому

    Wow your cool! Thanks for getting us to be something because I was starting to get boring 😴

  • @shariqweston7191
    @shariqweston7191 5 років тому

    This is something interesting..thank u venessa 👍👍