You'll Never Doomscroll Again If You Do This In 2025

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  • @yatshie8717
    @yatshie8717 Місяць тому +340

    I'm absolutely guilty of being addicted to UA-cam and framing it as being "educational". I got to work on a big project this year and that's where I noticed that I'm addicted to my phone. The moment I don't understand something right away, I'll reach for my phone. Great video! Also unrelated but I love your hair, looks absolutely amazing!

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +15

      Yatshie, I know that feeling all too well. You're so right about how it seems almost easier to frame UA-cam as productive because on the surface it seems more 'educational' than TikTok or Instagram. Then you just forget that you're spending all your time on your phone haha. Glad that you found the video helpful though and I hope that you can start to get in control of your phone addiction.
      Thanks so much haha - I've been growing my hair out for about 2 years now and it was such a good decision !! :))))

  • @intrepid_divulge
    @intrepid_divulge Місяць тому +227

    Summary :
    - write down 3 goals for 2025
    - do not use the phone first thing in the morning
    - replace phone addiction with reading
    - be mindful about what hard thing are you avoiding by doomscrolling

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +17

      Thanks so much! That's an excellent summary and hopefully it's helpful to some of my viewers :)

  • @YearofShakespeare
    @YearofShakespeare Місяць тому +156

    I just hit “ignore” on my phone’s UA-cam limits to watch this

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +20

      Haha, I am not sure how to feel about this, Adrienne !! As long as you're only hitting ignore to watch my videos - I guess that's okay lol. All the best and thanks for the support :)

    • @Kind_kelpie1989
      @Kind_kelpie1989 Місяць тому +7

      The most relatable comment I’ve seen all day 😂😂😂

    • @jennielwer4548
      @jennielwer4548 10 днів тому

      Me too

  • @kylie2892
    @kylie2892 Місяць тому +46

    I read the book “Break up with your phone” many years ago and it just made me learn you just need to get up and do whatever it is you’re trying to do, don’t think-just do it

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +2

      That sounds like a great suggestion, Kylie. I love that idea of not overthinking something too, just getting up and cracking on with the task at hand !! :)

  • @Hannah-sr6qz
    @Hannah-sr6qz 11 днів тому +1

    Amazing video!! I’m 23 and recently had a, for want of a better phrase, existential crisis? Something like that. I got my first smartphone when I was 11, and it’s dawned on me that I wasted a lot of my formative years since then. I have no hobbies because I never experienced the boredom that leads to trying new things and sticking to less stimulating tasks. Only recently have I tried actually picking up hobbies like reading, drawing, even trying to learn the piano, and I feel so far behind everybody else. I’ve been trying to break this cycle for a couple of years now and it’s tough. I deleted TikTok in 2023 and never went back, and have my ups and downs with Instagram. UA-cam I just can’t seem to let go of. I’m gonna give the advice in this video a go and hope I can break free from this curse!!

  • @AileGarcia
    @AileGarcia Місяць тому +67

    Amen, 2025 will be about having self control in dopamine

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      Aile, I can feel that 2025 is going to be a GREAT year for you and you're gonna finally get control over your dopamine !! Love your channel by the way :)

  • @nicoleebner4929
    @nicoleebner4929 Місяць тому +57

    I noticed my "doom scrolling habit" a while ago. I tried deleting Instagram and UA-cam from my phone and only using it in the browser. Sadly UA-cam added Shorts there, and there I was doomscrolling again.. So I downloaded an app to block the two websites and I changed my phone background to being black, turned it to grayscale and deleted all games.
    Now I only allow myself to watch UA-cam on my Laptop. I don't use that one very often because I have two little kids at home and simply not the time, and they always wanna watch what Mommy does on the screen, so I only take it out when they are asleep 😂 Have been doing this since 3 weeks now and it's going great.
    To be honest, I only watch your videos at the moment, because you make such amazing content that inspires me to take out my journal and not watch another video 😉
    So Olly, thank you again for an amazing video. I am taking notes in my physical journal here😊

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +2

      Hi Nicole, thank you so much for sharing your doomscrolling journey and I am sure that it must resonate with some of my other viewers, not least me !!
      It's very interesting to hear that you seem to have cracked your doomscrolling addiction but only after blocking the websites on your phone and restricting yourself to UA-cam on your laptop. I think it really shows the extent to which these platforms have us addicted.
      Nevertheless, hopefully your story can inspire some more of my viewers that they too can stop doomscrolling - especially if they have a family they want to be present for (like I'm sure you do).
      Thank you so much for your kind words of support, it means a lot to here that I am inspiring other people to journal and experiment with other ways of levelling up their life.
      You're going to absolutely LOVE the videos that I've got lined up in the future !!
      Talk soon,
      Ol :)

    • @miriamllamas224
      @miriamllamas224 Місяць тому +2

      I tried to control the time spent in these ups with the parental control but, since I'm the parent 😂😂, it didn't work 😢

  • @sopstr192
    @sopstr192 Місяць тому +22

    from how well thought out and edited this video is i was shocked to find out it didnt have hundreds of thousands of views

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +3

      Thank you so much for your kind words !! It means a lot that you noticed the effort I put into these videos. But, I assure you that if you go back and look at my earlier videos, this was not the level I started at lol. Hopefully my channel can continue to grow so that I can help more people. As a bonus, you might be able to say you were one of the first few subscribers !! :))

  • @miahhd9526
    @miahhd9526 Місяць тому +9

    Great tips to reduce doomscrolling! To stop myself doomscrolling when out and about, I have actually decided to stop taking my phone out of the house so I can look around me and appreciate where I am and have the confidence to smile at strangers and even make conversation with people I pass - much more meaningful than being on my phone :)

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому

      So happy that you found these tips helpful, Miah! That sounds like a great suggestion to not even take your phone out and about. To any of my viewers struggling with making conversation in public, that's such an awesome tip to consider. Leave your phone at home and see what happens....

  • @Mystic_Paths
    @Mystic_Paths 18 днів тому +1

    Setting goals reflects your aspirations and helps you build a roadmap toward a fulfilling and meaningful life. ❤

  • @moia668
    @moia668 Місяць тому +20

    Having to watch this on double speed really reinforces this problem😭😭

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому

      Oh no, Moia! I really hope that you took some helpful tips from this video though :)

    • @movingforwardLDTH
      @movingforwardLDTH 28 днів тому +1

      Or it means our brains process information more quickly than he speaks. (No slam on him, there are many people who don’t need to adapt in this way.)

  • @airo30
    @airo30 Місяць тому +17

    I'm just here because I doomscrolled my brain into a dopamine rush.

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      Well, I am glad that you found the channel, Airo. Welcome, hopefully my videos can get you feeling a little more productive with some simple strategies and systems :)

    • @MelonieMayhem
      @MelonieMayhem Місяць тому

      Me too😅

  • @benironside1264
    @benironside1264 Місяць тому +8

    I think creators of “shorts” and such short sharp content designed to profit from dopamine hits have something to answer for. They are designed knowing the science and long term impacts on people for personal gain … they are just like “dealers”.

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      You know what, Ben, I am inclined to agree with you. I am wary about creating shorts because I know first-hand the feeling of being 'trapped' in that doomscrolling cycle and it sounds like you know that feeling too. Hopefully you found this video helpful :)

  • @emilia-y2s
    @emilia-y2s 23 дні тому

    amazing video!! I believe the last point especially, is crucial for getting a hold of our behavior.
    Aside from that, it’s a bit funny that you ended your video about stopping doom-scrolling with a reference to another video.

  • @rebekah.griffith
    @rebekah.griffith 27 днів тому

    Fantastic video. Every part. The editing, footage, and advice. Well done.

  • @rashedulkabir6227
    @rashedulkabir6227 Місяць тому +8

    I will make some new habits in 2025. I will work towards progress.

    • @Avi_n_Ash
      @Avi_n_Ash Місяць тому +1

      :) all the best.
      One piece of advice that's working for me... start now. Don't wait till 2025. Lessen the pressure and the big expectation all set on the idea of a new year. It's kind of like "I'll do it starting Monday". Start now instead and you'll begin 2025 with existing momentum.

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      Hi again, Rashedul. So awesome to hear that you're going to be setting some new habits in 2025 and hopefully you're feeling optimistic that you'll progress towards them. What habits have you got that you want to work towards?

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      Hey Avi, that's such good advice - thank you so much for sharing that with my viewers. You're so right that if you start now, you can build momentum that you then carry into 2025 !!

    • @rashedulkabir6227
      @rashedulkabir6227 Місяць тому

      @@ollystaniland I will work towards cultivating habits for regular study, coding practice, physical exercise, reading, and journaling.

  • @aleksandramorka758
    @aleksandramorka758 Місяць тому +3

    Great video, Olly! Really happy I stumbled upon your channel, you content is such high quality - also gotta appreciate the editing!

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  29 днів тому

      Hey Aleksandra, so awesome to hear that you're finding my videos helpful and thank you so much for the kind words :)
      Is there anything you'd love to see me cover in future videos? :)

  • @thathomie9o
    @thathomie9o 19 днів тому

    I’ve used my old Nokia for 2 months and the only things that I could do was call and text. My battery life was 10 days and when I woke up, my phone wasn’t the first thing I thought about. I started using it more when I found out that I couldn’t do my job without a phone because we have like three different verification apps. And now I’m back on UA-cam, WhatsApp and instagram again😭 maybe I should leave this phone in my office and get back to the Nokia again. Biggest problem I’ve noticed is how much the entire world uses a phone during conversations, work, workouts, dinner, literally everywhere

  • @Ojas2025
    @Ojas2025 26 днів тому

    great job buddy! looking forward to when you get famous!

  • @aoifelol
    @aoifelol 28 днів тому

    Martha ur such an icon. Wishing you a very slay 2025 xx

  • @SSandtheRVCats
    @SSandtheRVCats Місяць тому +1

    Your channel is really growing Olly! Congrats! As far as social media goes, I can't tell you how many times I have gone on Facebook or UA-cam for a specific purpose and the next thing I know it's 30-60 minutes later and I was distracted by something else. It's so annoying and makes me not want to go on those sites anymore, particularly Facebook which I don't go on very much these days. Thanks for the tips. I really want to stop scrolling!

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому

      Hey folks, thanks so much for the support, as always. So nice to see you in the comments again as I remember you being here from the start lol!!
      Interesting to hear how you too seem to have logged into social media for a specific purpose and then end up getting distracted by something else. Must be super frustrating when you feel like you can't even go on those sites anymore. Regardless, hope that these tips were helpful to you. See you in the comments again soon, hope RV life is going well :)

    • @SSandtheRVCats
      @SSandtheRVCats Місяць тому

      @@ollystaniland Thank you Olly. I'm glad that you remember me (Sharon) and my husband (Sal) has been watching with me lately.
      Yes, the videos of yours that I've been watching (sometimes twice) have been very helpful. I set up a Dopamine Journal the other day for January so I plan to start that on the first and I want to try setting up the other Dopamine tracker that you have too. Thank you so much for your videos and looking forward to more!

  • @izzahhaneen100
    @izzahhaneen100 Місяць тому +4

    Hi Olly,
    I'm a huge fan of your content! As someone new to reading self-help books, I'm determined to make 2025 my best year yet! I'd love to hear your top book recommendations for improving productivity, self-improvement, and goal-setting.
    Also, what other books do you think are must-reads for personal growth and self-development?
    To be honest, I've been consuming a lot of self-help content on my phone, but I struggle to take action. So, I'm excited to start reading books and applying the knowledge. Thanks for the inspiration!
    Thanks in advance for your recommendations!

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +2

      Hey Izzah, great to hear from one of my biggest fans and so awesome to hear that you've been consuming a lot of self-help content and wanting to take control of your life.
      That's a great question on some book recommendations...
      To start with, I think that the Four Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss is a MUST READ. It was one of the books that got me hooked on wanting to level up my life and even if you don't want to start your own business, the book is packed full of actionable tips on productivity, time-management and goal-setting.
      Next, I would read How To Win Friends And Influence People by Dale Carnegie. This was one of the most readable books I have ever encountered and every page is full of golden advice.
      That's a great start but the danger you can run into is reading lots of content but not actually taking action on anything you've read. Like you saw in my email, I'm opening up a very limited mentorship programme in the New Year. I'll give you access to all of my productivity systems, journaling hacks I have never shown anyone before and you'll get the chance to work 1 on 1 with me to create a self-improvement system for your own life and needs.
      I've replied to your email but I do think you're a great candidate for these very limited spots. Keep an eye out on your email as the waitlist signups mean that the programme is already oversubscribed. I'll be sending out next steps in early January.
      Speak soon,
      Olly :)

    • @izzahhaneen100
      @izzahhaneen100 Місяць тому

      @@ollystaniland Thank you so much for the great advice! I’ll make sure not to get overwhelmed and take action after every chapter I read. I’ve already started using the crash list system, and it’s been super helpful!
      Looking forward to hearing more about the mentorship program.
      Thanks again!

  • @nicolette2007
    @nicolette2007 Місяць тому +2

    Love this! Thank youuu!

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому

      Hiya Nicolette, super happy to hear that you found the video really helpful :))

  • @Paint57NoBlue
    @Paint57NoBlue Місяць тому +1

    UA-cam is definitely one of my problem areas, and something I'm looking to fix in 2025. In 2024, I fixed my facebook and Instagram problem by setting the rule that I could only access these things on my desktop. I don't think social media is all bad--i think Facebook groups have been really supportive in my areas of interest, for example. It's using social media on my phone that's the problem, because it's too accessible. I use UA-cam to access workout routines, listen to music, and get inspired to keep going. None of these are bad, EXCEPT when I'm using content as a procrastination excuse.
    I'm switching to Spotify foe music I 2025. Does anyone have any good podcast recommendations?

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому

      Hiya, it's so awesome to hear that you fixed your Facebook and Instagram addiction and it's a great idea to have restricted your use just to your desktop. You're also right that not all social media is bad, especially if you're connecting with like-minded people. Hope that you can find a solution to balance UA-cam with the rest of your life but hopefully my channel can offer you a few ideas. I'm really loving Mark Manson's podcast at the minute :)

  • @KatherineS-y4l
    @KatherineS-y4l Місяць тому +1

    Another helpful video. Thank you!

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому

      Super thrilled that you found this video helpful, Katherine! Thanks for your support, as always :)

  • @JohnnyOrellana-u9f
    @JohnnyOrellana-u9f 23 дні тому

    My daily average on my phone is 11 hours,10 of which are on UA-cam I’m cooked but I will undo it.

  • @DarianaVichi
    @DarianaVichi Місяць тому +2

    I use a app to restrict myself from doom scrolling it times your screen time and you can set your times. I’m on day 2 but I’ve noticed how productive I am 😔🤚🏽

    • @Honeyduck_writes
      @Honeyduck_writes Місяць тому

      What app??

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому

      Hey Dariana, that's awesome to hear that you're more productive with this new app. Do you see yourself using it long-term?

    • @saf.081
      @saf.081 Місяць тому

      @@Honeyduck_writes I think opal is a pretty good app

  • @CherokeeRoses
    @CherokeeRoses Місяць тому

    Great video and an even greater reminder to set tangible goals for 2025! Subbed✨

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  29 днів тому +1

      Hey Claire, so amazing to hear that you loved the video and found it really helpful!! Loads more content just like this coming up in the future for you to look forward to.... What goals are you setting for 2025? :)

    • @CherokeeRoses
      @CherokeeRoses 13 днів тому

      ⁠@@ollystaniland Awesome, can’t wait! 😊 I’m working on my debut dark fantasy novel and hope to have the first draft ready by the end of this year. 😁 How about you?

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  13 днів тому

      @@CherokeeRoses That's such a cool goal, you must feel so excited! Myself, I'm building a complete journaling system to help you folks organise your life. Super excited to share it :)

  • @drmelontarsaul
    @drmelontarsaul Місяць тому +1

    Thanks!

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      No problem, my friend. So glad that you found this video helpful :)

  • @jinathosain9751
    @jinathosain9751 Місяць тому +1

    Loved your video, anyways you look like son of Mark Manson 😆❤️

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +2

      Hey Jinat, so glad to hear that you found this video helpful!! You know the crazy thing..... I have got the Mark Manson comment a few times before but I can't be the only one who doesn't see the similarity lol?? For what it's worth, I see more of a resemblance with Heath Ledger haha.
      Anyways, thanks for the support, see you in the comments again soon :)

  • @AlethiaDaisy-Rue
    @AlethiaDaisy-Rue 25 днів тому

    You look like Heath Ledger in Ten Things I Hate About You... cool video!

  • @Adellc3
    @Adellc3 24 дні тому

    Great video! But I had to watch at .75 speed because you speak so quickly on normal speed.

  • @JosephDickson
    @JosephDickson 25 днів тому

    You’ll get far better information from books vs youtube because they’re properly curated for the topic.

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  25 днів тому

      So true, Joseph! Well, except maybe my videos lol! Hope that you found this helpful :)

  • @VasilisDeerlington
    @VasilisDeerlington Місяць тому +1

    An amazing video.... Like always, lol

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      Vasilis, you're the best !! So glad that you enjoyed this video, loads more to come just like this :)

  • @Ado-Desu
    @Ado-Desu 20 днів тому

    you know im cooked when im losing interest 60 seconds into this what has tiktok and youtube shorts doing to me

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  19 днів тому

      Noooo, sorry to hear that alex! Hope this gave you some ideas of how to focus? :)

    • @Ado-Desu
      @Ado-Desu 19 днів тому

      @ definitely did i started note booking before but not as much as i should its mainly filled with poems finance checklists etc but i should definitely start doing it more thanks to this

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  19 днів тому

      @alex-b2d9b Awesome to hear bro, best of luck. Let me know how it goes! :)

  • @ShekarGoud8055
    @ShekarGoud8055 20 днів тому

    It's always an Ali Abdal video

  • @deborahwilson6970
    @deborahwilson6970 Місяць тому

    I have a notebook in which I list all the books I read each year I used to keep a quote book, but how am I ever going to get the quote I need from Nelson Mandela's Long Walk to Freedom?. Now on separate pages, behind where I log my reading, I name the book (with all the notes needed for referencing). I now have a place for the quote, with the page where it was found.

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      Hey Deborah, that's really interesting to hear that you log all of the books you've read in your notebook. But it sounds like it must have been a little difficult using a quote book in the past? Sounds like you've got a good idea with how to log your reading now on separate pages. Hope that you found this video helpful. See you in the comments again soon :)

    • @deborahwilson6970
      @deborahwilson6970 Місяць тому

      @@ollystaniland I liked my little quote book. It was a commercially produced journal that did not meet my needs that gave me the idea to start logging the books I read. I knew I would not be able to use the quotes in the quote book without re-reading the entire book where I originally found it. I have a log of how many (and what books) i read in a specific year. Only books that i actually quote will get their specific foot notable title page. I like to read to the point that I have to time how long I read

  • @cassadeewilliams339
    @cassadeewilliams339 Місяць тому +2

    Stop your UA-cam addiction
    Click next video to find out how
    Lmfao
    In all seriousness great, concise content

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому

      Haha, you have a point, Cassadee. But for what it's worth, if I can introduce you to a few more concepts of how to stop spending all your time on social media, just for watching a few videos... I think that's a trade-off that's worth it. Hope that makes sense lol, thanks for the support :)

  • @barbarad4147
    @barbarad4147 Місяць тому +3

    For me the video at the end was not visible. I mean the link. Moreover, is it only my impression that you were speaking faster than in other videos🤔? I know that I can slow you down but then it sounds unnatural🙈

    • @free2trvl
      @free2trvl Місяць тому +2

      Top right is a little spoke looking button that is the settings, you can speed up or slow down videos there 😉

    • @barbarad4147
      @barbarad4147 Місяць тому +2

      @free2trvl I know, I wrote about that

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +6

      Hey Barbara, if you check now - the video should be visible, sorry that wasn't there for you first time. In terms of the speaking, I think you might be right that I was speaking slightly faster than in other videos. I think I was just so excited to talk about the Dopamine Detox that I got a bit carried away haha. Hopefully this won't be an issue in my future videos. Thanks for your support, as always 🫶

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks for the suggestion, Jennifer. Appreciate it :)

    • @grooviechickie
      @grooviechickie Місяць тому

      Thank you for this! I'm older and find everyone is speaking too fast and I struggle to understand them.
      I hope there is an app in the future that will help me by slowing down the speech of all the younger people so I can understand them. Or perhaps give me subtitles? 😂

  • @38k25m
    @38k25m Місяць тому +2

    is this video going insanely fast?

    • @liiishilin
      @liiishilin Місяць тому +1

      Now that you say this.. yes definitely

    • @38k25m
      @38k25m Місяць тому +1

      @ okay good lol i stopped watching cause it was stressing me out and i fully thought that im crazy

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +1

      Hey Kait and Li, sorry about this - you're right that the video was going just a bit more quickly than usual. I think I was just really excited to talk about the 'Dopamine Detox', hopefully this won't be an issue in future videos. :)

    • @liiishilin
      @liiishilin Місяць тому

      @ no worries it wasnt really an issue

    • @38k25m
      @38k25m Місяць тому

      @ omg yes definitely not an issue! i’m dramatic! please don’t feel discouraged or anything. so sorry 💗

  • @ProfCapyofc
    @ProfCapyofc Місяць тому +4

    Have you guys noticed that he is manipulating us into watching more and more with his videos by leaving blanc information and providing his channel's video easily as a response to that information missing? PS: Still love your content, dont take Thais as a hate comment, only a funny reference ok? ❤

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  Місяць тому +2

      Haha, I wouldn't call it 'manipulating' lol. In all seriousness, if you have a look at the content on my channel, you'll notice that most of the videos really work together and in order to get the best results, you need to understand a few different concepts. Hope that makes sense, glad that you're finding my content helpful :))

    • @ProfCapyofc
      @ProfCapyofc Місяць тому +1

      @ollystaniland I watched like 4 videos in a row before realising how interested and entangled I got in your content. Really good work. And I find your voice super chill.

  • @jvhunt6319
    @jvhunt6319 28 днів тому

    this is awesome! my problem is scrolling through YT Shorts. is there a way to disable it?

  • @metaphuck
    @metaphuck 10 днів тому

    I use podcasts as substitute for youtube.

    • @ollystaniland
      @ollystaniland  9 днів тому

      That's an awesome suggestion! Does that help you waste less time on UA-cam?