Paranoid Mother Decapitated by Son After "The Sopranos" Inspired Him | Jane Bautista Analysis
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- Опубліковано 23 бер 2024
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She was a horrible Mother. I feel sorry for the two sons. They must have really hated her.
I have schizophrenia, and I have had paranoid tendencies, but now my medication controls them. I never married and had few dates, so since I was single I decided not to have children because I didn't want to raisie them on Welfare. I have two B.A.s but was not able to find work in my line of training, professional Writng in English, so I had to relay on social assistance to eke out subsistence--I wouldn't call that living. In retrospect I don't think I would have been a good mother, so it's probably just as well I never had kids.
❤that's very responsible and loving of you
@@kathleensullivan4547FREELOADING is NOT responsible in ANY WAY!!!
I'm sorry you feel that way about yourself and I'm sure you have good reasons to believe you might be a bad mom but I can assure you the simple fact you worry about that means you would probably be better at it than many. I doubt it even crossed Jane's mind that she might be a bad mother before she started having kids.
Wise and unselfish decision!
Surely you could get work, it doesn't need to align with your B.A's, it'll be a better life then being on welfare and trying to occupy 16hrs a day with little money
It's...kinda funny that the paranoid lady....had a neighbor who followed her and apparently spied on her.
That struck me as odd too!
I thought so too.. but I think it's actually supposed to be "they" as in both of her sons, not "they" as in a neighbor of undefined gender. It'd make a lot more sense.
Gladys Kravitz comes to mind.
It actually is kind of ironic 😂
@@paulsto6516 I remember her from a long time ago! 😂
Too bad he wasn't inspired by The Sopranos to go to therapy.
What's your Therapist's phone number?
@@jeremyhall7495I don't have one. The voices in my head told me not to trust them.
Nice
It didn't help Tony either.
@@user-nz7co4pk5s- I doubt that he had access to therapy. If he didn't have insurance through work that would cover it (at least partially), it doesn't sound like he had the money to pay for it himself. What a wonderful system we have in the U.S...
I have a mentally ill mother and despite nothing excuses this horrendous murder,I can somehow sympathise with him as scary as it sounds.but the mind fck of your mentally sick parents can be overwhelming.its literally torture,esp when you re struggling with issues too..tragic story all around there
This is a tragedy. People give birth to demented individuals, regret having them.
But, what about when a demented individual gives birth to you?
A lifetime sentence.
I’m sorry but…just leave. You don’t owe her anything. You never asked her to bring you into this world. These people have us just to torture us as children, ruin our lives then expect us to take care of them when they’re older. That’s our whole purpose to them and it blows my mind how many people just go along with the plan.
My mother has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Undiagnosed but her “symptoms” are textbook and apparent.
I cut all contact almost a year ago and my life has never been more peaceful. We had food and shelter growing up but everything else was chaos. Why would I bend over backwards to take care of someone who never cared to take care of me/us? Nope. She can figure out her own sh*t and I’ll figure out mine.
I’ll also point out that she never did a single thing for her own parents either. I’m just following her lead 🤷🏻♀️
Same. She died when I was 19 and I’ve mostly forgiven but sometimes the anger I felt toward her when I was a teen comes back and scares me.
Those childhoods were horrendous!
feel bad for the younger brother, he basically was pressured to go along with his brother and was probably too scared to go to the cops
I feel bad for both brothers.
Sadly it seems violence is all jason knew. I hope the younger brother is OK wherever he is
There was a lot of tension in the relationship, mostly because of the brutal beating part.
"Suffered tremendously at her hands...."
Not anymore.
Macabre but very true!
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I feel bad for those abused children. How awful to be stuck with a mother like that. I don't think either of those children should have been charged with anything. They had no choice with such an awful person for a mother.
If Jason was inspired by The Sopranos then Jane was inspired by Mommy Dearest
Or Tony Soprano’s mom
Well said
Norman Bates, had a mommy, too. 😢
This is terrible. Never saw this show, but the whole production, directors, cast members, and writers should be sued.
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My mother has the same symptoms, and I see a lot of myself in Jason. My parents stayed married, but my farther would live his entire life as a spineless enabler who did everything in his power to avoid my mothers wrath, and him staying around was not a benefit for anyone involved. I totally understand why he would do what he did, even if it was the wrong decision. When all you have ever known in life is being held captured and tortured by your mother, ideas like “just move out brah” is not available to you.
My motto is "Never let the bad guys/gals win!" Just like Abraham Maslow who had a horrific mother, do not let the mental illness of your mother destroy your chance at a better life.
Still does not justify how he threw away his future and potentially his brother’s over their crazy mother as opposed to escaping and going to stay anywhere else. Sad case though totally. Wow. 😕
I cannot believe those boys were not taken away from this insane woman when they were just little boys. I bet Jane told Jason all the time that his father killed himself because of him. This is all so horrific and tragic. I wonder how the younger son is fairing all these years later?
If she refused to let him "transition" at 7 yr old they'd take him.
@@michaelwaninger3155 oh boy ain't that right
@@michaelwaninger3155 lol imagine writing this
@@d.thomas6988 😅
@@d.thomas6988Look up Jeff Younger, then tell me it's propaganda.
All my sympathy is for the abused kids.
I hear you. Mothers can be the worst
@@francisgalton2678That is why good fathers are important for children to have in their lives on an ongoing basis. Like a Venn diagram of two partially overlapping circles, mates need to be able to share common core values, belief systems, attitudes, and behaviors and be able to appreciate/cope with the differences in relationship with each other to raise kids properly in a balanced mentally and physically healthy manner.
I agree ❤
How different these boys could have been had they had loving parents.
The fathers may have been decent men had not the first committed suicide and the last left. It was the mother who was indecent to her boys. Being born a biological female does not mean a woman is a loving parent.
@@nanettevantriesteharder2469 And being born a biological male does not automatically make the man a responsible and loving father
Genes also play a big role. Jane had problems from the start. Their dad was possibly prone to depression but whether that's genetic or not, who can say.
And being born doesn't mean you deserve to live.
@@briskettacos that’s true, it’s hard to tell.
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"Not man enough to go on a date." Mother is talking to you, Norman! I agree with Dr. G. Jason was a sympathetic figure who committed inexcusable crimes. I'd like to think kids in Jason's situation could report their abusers to social services. Unfortunately, social services can also throw gasoline on a dumpster fire. I've dealt with them in my state and it doesn't always work out. Even when the abuse is obvious.
social services are a waste of taxpayers money or watever their paycheck comes from ,, clownery and waste of resources at its finest ,, children are rarely helped ,, just watch “ the trials of gabriel fernández “ Its a clear example of how the system fails these children. We need a better way to really help struggling kids while in the “care” of these psychpaths.
So sad but you are right
I’m pretty sure 50% of Social Service workers apply for the job with bad intentions. Even more so for foster parents. Unfortunately jobs and situations like this attract terrible ppl. Its so sad. Most of these kids never even get a chance at life. Politicians could change that but theres no money in it
Social services rarely take female abusers seriously. My brother and I were raised by one. Several times the police have come to our home, saw us bruised and bloodied, and all they'd do is recommend we spend the night at a friend's. It looks bad on law enforcement to arrest a female, especially a mother. Not once was she ever arrested. By the time I was an adult, social services finally contacted her job in child care to let them know she had an abuse record. So now she's permanently banned working with children. It took 7 years for social services to at least do that, but not once was she ever arrested for what she had done to me and my brother.
As a licensed foster parent in Tennessee, I personally think we have good services here compared to most! We dealt with Washington state getting my nieces and that was a dumpster fire situation! Not only had they been to there house three times the month their mom committed suicide in front of them in a fifth wheel trailer. They left them in her care with drugs all around and roaches as well as no running water or power! Then took a year to get custody while they stayed in a foster home there in Washington! The first two social workers were lazy pot smoking basement dwellers who didn’t know how to do their job! Finally the third one got them to us but it was to late, they formed a strong bond with there liberal foster family their and they told the girls they would always have a home with them and they could take them to see their dad in prison every month vs our once a year! The girls never could adjust to life in Tennessee and resorted to abusing our children so they could go back to Washington!
Dr. G, what about battered victim syndrome ? It's often invoked for women, but this is quite parallel
So these poor kids were never taken away from the crazy woman. Then the oldest son decides to kill her because she’s been making his life and his brother’s life a living hell he gets 25 to life.. What he did was wrong, but he shouldn’t get life in jail. He should get really good therapy for his mother being crazy and then get to live whatever normal life he could possibly make out of what his mother has done to him and his brother.
He may be guilty of murder but the provocation by the mother makes it manslaughter or 2nd degree murder
The way Jane ended up, she had every right to be paranoid.
Self filled prophecy.
⚠️ just a reminder: he will NOT be diagnosing anyone in this video; only _speculate_ on what may happen in a situation like this.
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It's like shows that say "meant for mature audiences," while the more fun ones add ".. but you'll probably listen in anyway"
I’m still waiting on him to make shirts that say this.
if you’re speaking in past tense speculate needs to be speculating instead of
it wasn’t even past tense smdh
I would say the mother was the monster
Did I hear right? Jane brutally beat up her mother. Wth
Edit: watched the rest. Paranoia 😢 undiagnosed mental health issues. I feel for the kids
I don’t understand how people can move through life this mentally unstable and not have some sort of intervention??
This country doesn’t have a comprehensive mental health care system so many people who need help are missed and never get treatment. Many people who might have helped them were probably struggling with their own mental health issues or any number of other major issues.
Who would intervene?
@@drivethruabortion280 My first thought was through the school system when the children were younger. (Social Services, etc.)
Insurance based healthcare
@@sandydee8003 That’s probably why Jane and the kids moved around so much. Her paranoia could have also included losing custody of them. The real question is why did no one else in the family help the kids? Aunt? Grandparents? They knew she was unstable enough to beat her mom, but left her alone with 2 kids?
Dr. G. Telling the truth about humanity one sad story at a time.
"Blanks you. You're just a security guard. You can't do anything." (slow clap) You can be smart at school and dumb at life!!
Security guards can't shoot people
Unfortunately childhood trauma/abuse often brings on NPD
I know people like this. They are very smart with high degrees, but can’t last on the jobs.
Whoever said people aren’t influenced by what they see in movies, tv, video games only have to look at the long list of murders where the killer admitted using ideas from violent media. Many thrill kills tend to be a copycat’s only motive or in this case the motive was his anger at mental mom and The Sopranos became the influence in how she would be killed.
Very bizarre indeed!
Jason was responsible for his actions, but consideration definitely should have been made for what she put him through. If he can ve verified to no longer be a danger to society, he should be out in time to still have a life.
I think he would need a lot of therapy first at the least since his brother didn’t make the same choice he did.
It’s too bad they didn’t give therapy to the mother way back when she was a teenager and was showing schizophrenic or some other psychological problems
As a huge Sopranos fan I couldn’t click fast enough.
This crime was definitely inspired by the Ralphie Cifferetto debacle 😱
Jason never had the makings of a varsity athlete.
HE WAS SLOW!! STRONG AS A BULL. HANDSOME LIKE GEORGE RAFT!!
Small hands
@@rosihantu1 haha thats what daddy usedtuh say
NOR even an average IQ.
Uncle Junior?
Guy I grew up with Mom was the same way... He was a 5'2 white kid covered in scars. I remember one day I was like Kevin was you in a gang or something cuz you got cuts and shit all over you... I guess his mom used to abusing horribly... I think stuff like this goes on more than you know.... And let me tell you this guy is literally blank and I mean literally... The things he experienced in his childhood I can only imagine.... So I definitely feel for these boys
He wasn't given a fair shake from the very beginning.
One day he will say "Can I analyze the case of (...)? No. They are too dumb. I just can't stand it. Pick again."
Covering one's windows with aluminum foil indicates a drug-induced paranoia.
meth
How do you know this?
@@JohnnyDanger36963 yeah I've seen people (during their meth benders) doing that kind of stuff
Many people do it in order to reduce air conditioning bills .
I’d like to reflect on that.
your post cadence is amazing
Agree!
Hardest working man in show business
What a sad situation for all involved
She clearly tortured her sons and the sentencing should have reflected that IMO.
She shouldn't have even had custody of those boys, clearly. She obviously was incapable of even taking care of herself.
I feel sorry for them all. This is a tale of extreme tragedy.
That woman was a nightmare and shocking that health care agencies did not step in.🌿
What a horrible childhood. Jason should have just taken his little brother and moved away somewhere, far from his mom.
I would have been yelling "NAILED IT" if I had made a B in algebra. So sad that this mother screwed up her kids so badly. The last part sums up exactly how I feel.
I've heard that Insanity is hereditary, you get it from your children.
OOHHH we got a comediann here!!
Lol😅
Nice one
Barroom Chee!
your kids will drive you crazy
WTF I'm literally watching The Sopranos right now 😂😂😂
Even if Jason was an adult, he couldn't necessarily leave the house since his Mom kept him under her thumb figuratively speaking. How could he get a job and be independent when his Mom wouldn't let him go on a date?
If your adult over 6 feet tall and over 200 pounds, it seems like he could easily escape. Just pull the window down and bust out the screen.
He did have two jobs and one of the cities they lived in at the laboratory and another job
It’s hard to correct my mistakes on this tiny iPad but I meant to write, you are not your.
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This was a very good analysis. Sad, but thank you!
Sounds like Jane lost her head around 1979.
The minute she was old enough to vote. And drink!
I miss Tony Soprano. He was cool.
It reminds a bit of Ed Kemper. It's what can happen to a boy raised by a horrible mother. Ed had an epiphany while on the prowl with a couple of girls in his backseat. He realized he didn't want to hurt the girls, it was his mother that was the problem. So, he dopped off the girls, and fininshed off his mother problem. Then he turned himself in. Which is admirable.
Pity too. Waste of a highly intelligent mind😢
I mean, yeah, I guess.
Bad parenting is a huge problem in society's school, social, and criminal justice systems. Risk factors for serial killers come out of intergenerational patterns of dysfunctional family behavior. Bad people should not have children, whether they are mothers or fathers.
@@nanettevantriesteharder2469 Bad parenting is a huge problem. But to be fair, if parenting created who you are, then all siblings in a family would have identical temperaments and personalities. People ARE born hardwired a certain way.
@@TaurusMoon-hu3pd I can understand and appreciate your confusion, but it is actually a combination of both nature and nurture as is seen in epigenetics-genetics. In biology, epigenetics is the study of heritable traits, or a stable change of cell function, that happen without changes to the DNA sequence. During the critical growth periods of human development from womb to tomb seen in the stages of neuron development a) neurogenesis, b) migration, c) differentiation and myelination, d) synapotogeneis, and e) apoptosis each individual, even those involved in groups of multiple births, is uniquely exposed to concentrations and combinations of water-soluble and lipid-soluble elements and compounds that cross the placenta. For example, domestic violence that commonly occurs during each progressive pregnancy gets worse with the birth order of each child, releases high levels of the toxic hormone cortisol in the freeze, flight, fight, or fawn response of the mother and unborn child. Also, a mother that tries to numb the emotional and physical pain through self-medication over the courses of several pregnancies can create an even greater problem. That is why every child is different to one degree or another.
I researched genetic inheritance of autosomal dominant, X-linked recessive, mitochondrial disease polygenic mt DNA for my research paper, "Why Would Susceptible Families Not Get Genetically Tested for Mitochondrial Dysfunction?" for a longitudinal study design of Huntington's Disease across generations during my Master of Public Health. I did a deep dive into my paternal grandfather's side of the family, which had gone through the Dutch Famine (1944-1945). I also did a deep dive into my paternal grandmother's side, which had gone through the Irish Potato Famine (1845-1852). Economic hardship is the top Adverse Childhood Experience that leads to early death. Regional, such as the aforementioned, famines are highly studied examples of familial, maternal, and fetal nutritional deprivation before, during, and after pregnancy. MELAS (mitochondrial encephalopathy, lactic acidosis, and stroke-like episodes) is specifically associated with the Dutch Hunger Winter. MELAS is one of the family of mitochondrial diseases that include MIDD (maternally inherited diabetes and deafness), MERRF syndrome, and Leber's hereditary optic neuropathy, which was characterized in 1984. A feature of these diseases is that they are caused by defects in the mitochondrial genome which is inherited purely from the female parent. The most common MELAS mutation is mitochondrial mutation, mtDNA, referred to as m.3243A>G.
My grandfather said, “If you plant corn you get corn. If you plant beans you get beans. And if you plant trouble you get trouble.” Jane planted trouble.
Mother created her monster. Edmund Kemper had a similar mum . Both mothers were killed . I do feel for him though, growing up with no real stability and not much positive care .
That's unbelievably sad.
I know what episode of the sopranos he’s talking about. The one with Ralphie
Yep
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If child services were involved maybe Jason could have the help he needed and the murder would not have happened.
If the mother might’ve had help as a teenager after she beat her mother and they realized she was schizophrenic or some other problem. Maybe she might’ve had medicine to take or something to help her and she might’ve been a better mother, or chosen not to be a mother who knows this is just a theory also.
I agree with the final thoughts on this one.
If he knew any better he would've known Quasimodo predicted it wouldn't have gone well.
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Does anybody else see the physical resemblance to younger Eminem?
Hi Dr Grande,
Excellent analysis. What is the old saying? You create what you sew!
As always I learn something new from your videos.
A: she was a hooah!!!
B: she hit me
lol
Great assessment Doc.
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So she kinda had it coming then.
Jason was an adult, and didn’t have to live with his mother; but what was the alternative? Being homeless?
GETTING a JOB, DUMBBELL!!!
Here we go.
He was in college, lots of college boys get a cheap apartment and three or four of them can afford the rent together. At an earlier time he had two jobs at once, one at a chemistry lab and one I think at a restaurant.
We want "situation like this" merch! (please)
I would never harm my Mother. 💘
No sympathy for those who abuse their children. No matter their size.
Can you discuss the case of Petra Pazsitka? She disappeared for two decades and was found alive again.
We have a society that is enthralled by celebrity and entertainment that has members of the society who cannot distinguish fact from fiction. Believe it or not but actors on shows like "America's Most Wanted" who are reenacting a crime for a tv show get spotted in a supermarket and have the police called on them. People often yell at actors in public thinking they are the characters they play on tv or in the movies. Kids play games on their phones and iPads where they killed guys in these video games and become desensitized to the consequences of violence. Good people who follow all laws suddenly get engulfed by show business and start talking about being "on set" when all they are doing is going to a photographer to get their picture taken. My point is that while it is extreme and horrible having someone inspired by a fictional tv show that is not real is not that unusual.
The oddly timing of this coming out while I'm rewatching the Sopranos.
Armando "could not live without her" and she was "all he ever wanted" RIP Armando
If they'd stayed together, he probably would've left her after becoming sick of her. That's the crazy part.
@@lochnessmunster1189 If Armando had committed a murder-suicide, taking Jane out at the same time, he would have spared their son Jason the job, and saved him from a life in prison
@@easternkiwiz Good point. RIP Armando.
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"How could you ma? Your only son, your middle child..I do right by you AND YOU TRY TO HAVE ME WHACKED?!" 😂
Reminds me of serial killer Edmund Kemper and his relationship with his mother.
If he loves Sopranos so much he will probably enjoy doing over 20 years in the can, like Phil Leotardo, eating grilled cheese off a radiator.
Dr. Grande, could you analyze the case of Bossman Jack please?
Rat
As a survivor of child abuse from my mother I can totally understand why a child would kill their parent
Dr. Grande, I honestly, sincerely enjoy everything that's you, but
I wonder how many crimes are Soprano inspired? The show makes it look so easy.
Omg... I thought I heard it all.... until NOW
Since you’re in the neighborhood, please review the Dale Akiki case!
She Got Ralphied…
Armando was armed and oh so conflicted he self-inflicted. Jason was chastened for decapitation as an inappropriate expression of his frustration but Jane was bat poo koo koo so wasn't much Matthew could do too.
Noice.
Allo dr. Grande can you do a story on riley strain next
Got drunk, fell in river. End of story
My theory is that it’s always drunk men cause they pee in the river and fall in. They are drunk and more adventurous, bad judgement, seems fun to pee in river instead of land
And the happy faces are just cause happy faces are so common, confirmation bias. You need to compare it to the number of happy faces by rivers not near bodies. I’m sure it’s even more
And he removed his debit card from his wallet put it on the ground then took a pee? Makes total sense😂😂😂
Don't become a detective, nancy drew🙄
I’ve experienced paranoid psychosis from taking meth but I can’t imagine living with that naturally. What a tragic story. I feel bad for every person in this story. Even the ones who were jerks. I especially feel bad for the younger brother.
What is the reason for not being able to see more photos?
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We put people in prison for decades for 2 reasons: the heinousness of the crime and the threat they may cause to the public if they get out. His crime was awful, but I think warranted. I might view it as self defense. He is probably no threat to anyone else.
Pretty eloquent ending, doc.
He should have moved far away from his mother without looking back and moving forward. You can’t reason with narcissistic parents or people for that matter. He was already an adult and should have kept onward.
Is he a practicing physician?
It would be interesting to have a once a month session for a year, and at the end, you receive a video breakdown.
PSA to future psychologists, give a similar style breakdown (recorded) after prolonged sessions.
The patient can really let it sink in.