Psychotherapist with Insatiable Desire for Sex Conspires to Kill | Michelle Theer Case Analysis

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  • @TheSahand68
    @TheSahand68 Місяць тому +1241

    After watching this video and after following the horrific story on Ruby Frankie and Judy Hilderbrand I'm becoming increasingly aware that mental health professionals can be dangerously crazy. Having a licence in mental health doesn't automatically mean that the person is mentally healthy.

    • @allenbanks9034
      @allenbanks9034 Місяць тому +140

      In college, every person I knew who was pursuing a psychology degree was demonstrably nuts, one way or another. The all had one thing in common - whatever you were doing, whatever the size of the group, wherever you were…it was all about THEM. Definitely interesting when with a group of them, but mostly annoying.

    • @danielkomorowski7966
      @danielkomorowski7966 Місяць тому +46

      Hanable was a doctor of psychiatry

    • @jenniferfox6300
      @jenniferfox6300 Місяць тому +51

      I just had my therapist end the session cause I had a question. I thought we were supposed to talk in therapy?

    • @swl9104
      @swl9104 Місяць тому +16

      Hanable

    • @hydrostatic8048
      @hydrostatic8048 Місяць тому +11

      Has anyone ever stated otherwise?

  • @counterbalancelife4305
    @counterbalancelife4305 29 днів тому +144

    She was actually dual certified, as both a Psycho and a Therapist.

  • @dawndraper9371
    @dawndraper9371 Місяць тому +409

    Dr. Grande needs merch that's says: "Mostly because of the murder part"

  • @ethorii
    @ethorii Місяць тому +463

    I turn heads too. People prefer to look away from me.

    • @petergianarakos4439
      @petergianarakos4439 Місяць тому +28

      Awww, I bet that you are a fine person inside and outside. It's really the person you are inside that matters. Beauty and "handsome " fade all too soon. Never undervalue or be negative about yourself. ❤

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Місяць тому +14

      Lol.

    • @nellybean69
      @nellybean69 Місяць тому +11

      ❤ 😂

    • @russellgoulding4263
      @russellgoulding4263 Місяць тому +19

      Eat your heart out Rodney Dangerfield.

    • @ethorii
      @ethorii Місяць тому +21

      @@petergianarakos4439 It's just a play on words. I'm a smoke show.

  • @djt8937
    @djt8937 Місяць тому +489

    Someone asks if they can borrow my firearm, that is registered to me, and it's hell no.

    • @Catherinzsl
      @Catherinzsl Місяць тому +30

      Practice run: "Hey, are you using your handgun this weekend? Could I borrow it? I need it for.... a thing. I'll bring it back Monday - assuming it hasn't been stolen or anything weird like that."

    • @BokushingusKendoTV
      @BokushingusKendoTV Місяць тому +14

      Right!!! Isn’t like borrowing a jacket!

    • @ImNotaRussianBot
      @ImNotaRussianBot Місяць тому +11

      ​@@BokushingusKendoTV Borrowing a jacket is even weirder. Who calls up a buddy to borrow a mundane article of clothing?

    • @JMazzaTaz
      @JMazzaTaz Місяць тому +8

      What about somebody that’s anonymous? Like me. Can I borrow it?

    • @BokushingusKendoTV
      @BokushingusKendoTV Місяць тому

      @@ImNotaRussianBot you really wasting you time on this?
      Who makes a comment of this?

  • @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
    @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 Місяць тому +318

    A good amount of people who become therapists choose that career path to try to figure out their own problems.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Місяць тому +9

      And people who don't become therapists don't care to figure out their problems.

    • @williamrunner6718
      @williamrunner6718 Місяць тому +4

      True

    • @lamulatonagrande9835
      @lamulatonagrande9835 Місяць тому +7

      Amen !!!! I’ve always suspected that.

    • @nurse580
      @nurse580 Місяць тому +13

      Absolutely true
      I am an RN, worked in a psychiatric Hospital with a lot of unstable people
      Psychiatrists had the highest suicide rate amongst professionals in Australia for a while & Im sure Nurses have a much higher rate as well

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Місяць тому +12

      @@nurse580yup I'm a mental health nurse in the UK with bipolar disorder. With that comes my own commitment to my mental health albeit over here we suffer much vicarious trauma & appalling working conditions that's the main reason for our mental ill health; I've been off by far more with work related stress

  • @JT1358
    @JT1358 Місяць тому +61

    I worked in a pathology lab for many years. When phoning lab results to our psych wards we could never be sure who had picked the phone up at the other end. There's often a fine line between the patients and those staff in those places.

  • @naturalroyalflush
    @naturalroyalflush Місяць тому +109

    Buying life insurance can be hazardous to your health.

    • @briant7265
      @briant7265 Місяць тому +12

      A friend of mine was shopping for a policy, and they told him they wouldn't write a policy over a certain amount. They told him that insureds with policies over that have a disturbingly high rate of being murdered.

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 29 днів тому +2

      of course when trust goe's away!

    • @dwoodstwin
      @dwoodstwin 26 днів тому

      @@briant7265🧢

    • @ethorii
      @ethorii 13 днів тому +2

      Having it bought for you is even worse.

    • @kathleensueoka3599
      @kathleensueoka3599 2 дні тому +1

      @@ethoriior the day you find out you have Cancer? Your husband hands you a life insurance policy that “just happened to come in the office mail” and told to fill it out asap. Nope!

  • @gauthamseran
    @gauthamseran Місяць тому +249

    "The only involvement of a birthday was through the deployment of a birthday suit." Stellar writing.

    • @DAmore143
      @DAmore143 Місяць тому +5

      🥊

    • @russes088
      @russes088 Місяць тому +15

      This one got me so good!! Stone cold delivery as always- Dr. Grande has a PHD in comedy 😂

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 Місяць тому +6

      😂

    • @micnorton9487
      @micnorton9487 Місяць тому +5

      COULDA BEEN BETTER lol,, I know it's warped but there should have been a lot more soldier allusions,, "John tried to be all he could be, assigning himself to duty with a real moving unit who kept his pecker hard and his powder dry, but when an enemy incursion happened he almost lost his little spitfire so he got a gun from Navaronne, but he went a bridge too far and ended up standing tall before the man, trading the sands of Iwo jima for a lifetime deployment in The stockade" lol.......

    • @aread7
      @aread7 29 днів тому +3

      Awesome 😎

  • @WilberforceWooster-uo2bl
    @WilberforceWooster-uo2bl Місяць тому +92

    I don't know about turning heads, but her photos certainly turn my stomach.

    • @raspberrykitten6676
      @raspberrykitten6676 Місяць тому +2

      Bertie!!
      👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

    • @iangallager4091
      @iangallager4091 Місяць тому +14

      she had a very misty mirror in the bathroom and it told as many lies as she did throughout her life

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 29 днів тому

      made me turn away too!

    • @ashleylala4293
      @ashleylala4293 25 днів тому

      Lol!

    • @MisterCaution
      @MisterCaution 24 дні тому +2

      Turned heads because it’s not often one sees a human face without lips.

  • @poetcomic1
    @poetcomic1 Місяць тому +87

    How can you live with, sleep with, eat with, know a man for years and then MURDER him.

    • @tomz1daful
      @tomz1daful 24 дні тому

      Men are ruthless romantics trying to be practical, women are ruthlessly practical, trying to be romantic.

    • @ryanoneal8480
      @ryanoneal8480 23 дні тому

      lol considering how often ppl murder their spouse im really not sure how youre surprised

    • @istudios225
      @istudios225 22 дні тому +8

      You easily can if you have no soul. It would be like brushing their teeth or deciding what to have for lunch. No conscience is involved because they don't have one.

    • @spiroclimb2523
      @spiroclimb2523 18 днів тому +9

      Definition of a pyschopath

    • @gr8-fun162
      @gr8-fun162 18 днів тому

      Easy. Just be a typical woman. Women do not love like men do, and are ruled by their emotions. Like children, they are fickle. Once they decide they are unhappy, the switch turns off and they have NO consideration of the man and what he has done for them in the past. It's all about how he makes them feel in the moment. Mix that with female hypergamy, and she will always figure there is a "better option" out there for her. She'll dump the current guy in a heartbeat and have no second thoughts about destroying him in divorce court, or in this case, ending him. Because they don't accept accountability, she will actually find ways to blame the guy and justify her behavior.
      All that stuff seen in movies and in stories about women being sugar, spice, and everything nice, is just a fairytale. Never forget that.

  • @StartingOverSingleAgain
    @StartingOverSingleAgain Місяць тому +89

    I'm glad she didn't take the 10 year deal; she's the worst kind of evil betrayer. Her husband went to therapy and dates with her, had a good job, and didn't seem to notice what a POS she was. She never appreciated him. 😒

    • @iangallager4091
      @iangallager4091 Місяць тому +10

      photos suggested he looked a really nice guy

    • @jillruben8924
      @jillruben8924 Місяць тому +13

      They offered her only 10 years? Our Justice system at its best.
      Good to know she’s in for life.

    • @kylefaber5449
      @kylefaber5449 29 днів тому +6

      Probably thought she wouldn’t get convicted. If she would have taken it she’d have been out 13 years ago

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 29 днів тому +2

      100% indeed!

  • @ea8269
    @ea8269 Місяць тому +258

    Her poor husband was married to the devil.

    • @motowngirl5891
      @motowngirl5891 29 днів тому

      That’s NOT marriage, the man is not even there
      It’s all stupid and unhealthy
      It’s been accepted forever, it should not be

    • @ivannovotny4552
      @ivannovotny4552 29 днів тому +3

      @ea
      No, to nymphomaniac.

    • @superxorn
      @superxorn 28 днів тому

      I think they are refering to the homocidal aspect@@ivannovotny4552

    • @natas12rm
      @natas12rm 25 днів тому +1

      Am I?

    • @Brando-wc8fz
      @Brando-wc8fz 21 день тому

      @@ivannovotny4552That is disgusting. You are giving nymphomaniacs a bad name because of this monster?

  • @littlemissliv100
    @littlemissliv100 Місяць тому +38

    I like it when dr grande says “mostly because of the murder part.”

  • @tripledair
    @tripledair Місяць тому +104

    Turns head…away.

    • @danielkomorowski7966
      @danielkomorowski7966 Місяць тому +8

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @GeeBee909
      @GeeBee909 Місяць тому +2

      The Exorcist comes to mind. Also, clearly she didn't have any mirrors in her house. She was "writing checks" that her body couldn't cash🤣🤣🤣

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 29 днів тому +1

      sure turned mine away!

  • @p52893
    @p52893 Місяць тому +109

    One look and I realize why I love my stamp collection.

  • @adamantman3200
    @adamantman3200 Місяць тому +50

    'I turn heads.', YES! But in which direction?

  • @Schnauzerpatrol
    @Schnauzerpatrol Місяць тому +168

    Deployment of bday suit😂. You are a master of language Dr Grande

  • @alukuhito
    @alukuhito Місяць тому +47

    Imagine you join the military and the worst thing that could happen to you is to be killed by an enemy in a different country, only to end up being killed by your own wife in your own country?

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 28 днів тому +1

      I stg, I think about stuff like this all the time. 😢

  • @shameronstar7220
    @shameronstar7220 Місяць тому +379

    Poor Marty, he seemed like a stand up and handsome man and this is how he gets repaid for serving his country? SMH

    • @grbggaming6885
      @grbggaming6885 Місяць тому +24

      Unfortunately it happens a lot to servicemen

    • @Tyler-vw9bh
      @Tyler-vw9bh Місяць тому +57

      Unfortunately my experience in the military showed me that 90% of military wives don't view their husband's service (or mediocre paycheck lol) as sufficient motivators to stay faithful.
      The situation is made worse by the fact they live in a town that is 80% physically fit, testosterone-filled, lonely college-aged males. I learned to assume any woman within 20 miles of base was married. Even worse are the 'brothers' who couldn't care either way.
      I would say 80-90% of my friends' wives got caught cheating. I've never been married, I would like to be but that experience has made me very apprehensive/worried.

    • @perennialxennial
      @perennialxennial Місяць тому +15

      In the military they call them Jodie's.

    • @gregevans6044
      @gregevans6044 Місяць тому +4

      And he’s got your Cadillac. So, there ain’t no use in lookin’ back.

    • @augustek5382
      @augustek5382 Місяць тому

      @@Tyler-vw9bh lol so just military wives that cheat but military men do not. Looks like the other cheater in this story was also a military man.

  • @karilynn3535
    @karilynn3535 Місяць тому +52

    The arrogance of thinking you can get away with murder astounds me.

    • @Jenny-nz8fb
      @Jenny-nz8fb 28 днів тому +1

      Yes, it never ceases to amaze me that people think they’ll get away with murder.

    • @markhillary7402
      @markhillary7402 28 днів тому +5

      And she’s not even an Israeli prime minister!

    • @michaelterango3074
      @michaelterango3074 27 днів тому

      lol

    • @NathanHigger
      @NathanHigger 27 днів тому

      @@markhillary7402based

    • @Zach.3246
      @Zach.3246 27 днів тому +1

      People get away with murder all the time…

  • @CB-ke9rs
    @CB-ke9rs Місяць тому +26

    Therapists fall into two categories: those who obtain the education in an attempt to heal themselves or those who have a genuine desire to help others.

  • @pam7500
    @pam7500 Місяць тому +47

    They both threw their lives away because of lust. I feel bad for her husband. He was innocent in all this.

  • @Dark_AbsoI
    @Dark_AbsoI Місяць тому +167

    Usually with these older cases I grit my teeth cause I know the “she was free on parole after serving 3 years” is coming. I’m pleased to see they are both still rotting in prison where they belong.

    • @ew4932
      @ew4932 Місяць тому +9

      Not with the sentences she has. Life sentence plus 13 years in North Carolina. I'm sure that we don't have to worry about that. Especially as she is extremely difficult in prison.

    • @jose2226
      @jose2226 28 днів тому

      ​@@ew4932wdym she's difficult?

    • @ashleylala4293
      @ashleylala4293 25 днів тому

      You should look into the DuPont pedo case, very disturbing. Corrupt judge Jan Jurden gave that creep zero jail time because she said he “would not fare well in prison”. Unbelievable.

  • @enjoystraveling
    @enjoystraveling Місяць тому +91

    Is an affair really worth all that prison time? Both of them were fools

    • @sheilagravely5621
      @sheilagravely5621 Місяць тому

      She'll be getting a different kind of sex in prison.😊

    • @MarlinWilliams-ts5ul
      @MarlinWilliams-ts5ul 29 днів тому +2

      She had to have it. Now she's not getting any,

    • @Thatsinteresting363
      @Thatsinteresting363 29 днів тому +2

      She’s not in prison for having an affair.

    • @tambourine36
      @tambourine36 11 днів тому

      Not worth it at all. Leave someone alone if you want someone else don't torture them. Let them move on and you take a hike. Should have gotten some treatment for nymphomania if she needed sex that bad and there was no love involved. Sounds like early childhood rape victim acting out with hypersexuality. Go get some therapy. Check your hormone levels. Poor self control. I guess there will be lots of opportunities in jail to counsel inmates or find lots of sexual partners. She's not well enough to help others and is clearly a predator who has shut off emotional and uses sex for her own gratification. See how it goes but hopefully she gets a thorough assessment.

    • @tambourine36
      @tambourine36 11 днів тому

      ​@@MarlinWilliams-ts5ulMaybe jail will be her next play spot😢

  • @lindareboh-king1064
    @lindareboh-king1064 Місяць тому +677

    Proving. That a psychotherapist licence doesnt insure mental health.

  • @aarondavis8943
    @aarondavis8943 Місяць тому +148

    She could have just left him. There was no way an insurance company was going to pay a claim in a motiveless murder where the payee was having an affair, and the police were always going to discover the affair and therefore the killer. These two never gamed out how these events would transpire; they just engaged in some wishful thinking and then acted.
    What a pair of absolute knuckleheads.

    • @mikewood8695
      @mikewood8695 Місяць тому +15

      yeah being a narc doesn't guarantee intelligence or wisdom!

    • @Bold11x
      @Bold11x 29 днів тому +8

      Exactly these people actually really believe they are above, and smarter than everyone else. So smart in fact, that they don’t need to plan too much or over think little details, because we’re all so small and ignorant that we’ll all be fooled. They believe we’re are foolish for following “the rules” because they have gotten away with breaking them every time….until they don’t, and it’s beautiful to watch them squirm and have to face their utter ignorance when they get caught. Jodi Arias comes to mind here

    • @BadForYourKidneys
      @BadForYourKidneys День тому

      @@Bold11x very true, a narcissist literally cannot read the room.

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 Місяць тому +33

    Your and your dog are so cute together. Yes, I watched the Factor commercial. And John didn't act alone. Michelle is where she should be.

  • @margonaut
    @margonaut Місяць тому +89

    just break up no need for these shenanigans

    • @lynnmartz8739
      @lynnmartz8739 Місяць тому +8

      It sounds like she came up with 500,000 reasons when making her decision...

  • @DominicMagrinoMassageTherapist
    @DominicMagrinoMassageTherapist Місяць тому +71

    Hi Dr Grande, don’t know if you read the comments but I wanted to say thank you. Watching your videos has helped me to recognize a lot of significant behavioral and psychiatric issues that are greatly affecting my life in almost every way right now, and if I look back they’ve always been there, its just I couldn’t recognize them. Because of you and your videos I’ve taken the steps to start receiving mental health treatment. I don’t even know how to thank you 🙏

    • @SpicyMango7
      @SpicyMango7 Місяць тому +17

      From a random internet stranger: I’m proud of you 😊

    • @tanikajones6213
      @tanikajones6213 Місяць тому +11

      This is amazing. I wish you all the best ❤

    • @briant7265
      @briant7265 Місяць тому +4

      Best wishes, for sure!

    • @greatamericandreamrealtyli6583
      @greatamericandreamrealtyli6583 29 днів тому +1

      It takes a strong person to admit that and an even stronger person to correct it. Best of wishes to you!

  • @jdd3786
    @jdd3786 Місяць тому +22

    It's crazy how all these stories that involve infidelity are exactly the same. Just the names and places are different.

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Місяць тому +46

    I remember when this happened. So Heartless. Rest In Peace Marty 🥀🥀🥀🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @karen-dh8dp
    @karen-dh8dp Місяць тому +20

    As a side note, I loved the video of you with your dog, as you displayed the food. Both of you were looking right at the camera and both of you were smiling.

  • @Somegirl811
    @Somegirl811 Місяць тому +27

    How can these people even live with themselves.

  • @SiganQ
    @SiganQ Місяць тому +137

    Why can't I ever get the therapists that are sexually insatiable? I only ever get the sexually satiable ones and, often I find, they're already sated before I meet them. It's really sad

    • @banjopete
      @banjopete Місяць тому +5

      All the ones I know are as Randy as Rabbits!

    • @fairy12324
      @fairy12324 Місяць тому +4

      😂

    • @adotintheshark4848
      @adotintheshark4848 8 днів тому +1

      you have to pay the "therapists" for a session!

  • @lilacbazzi493
    @lilacbazzi493 Місяць тому +47

    I hear that theres a good percentage of Psychotherapists that are truly mentally ill themselves that's why they're interested in psychotherapy to begin with. Except of course Dr Grande coz he's the best! His analysis is always spot on!

    • @PositiveMommaLife
      @PositiveMommaLife Місяць тому +7

      Wounded healer theory

    • @felixjones9198
      @felixjones9198 Місяць тому +11

      My former girlfriend was a family psychologist, she was good at her job, lovely to behold, but completely insane.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Місяць тому +2

      I think people forget the sheer level of intellectualism it takes to be a psychotherapist & you have to go under continual therapy to practice legally

    • @geraldfriend256
      @geraldfriend256 Місяць тому +1

      How about a couples counselor with kids and no steady relationship? They’re out there trust me

    • @reneelibby4885
      @reneelibby4885 28 днів тому

      out of 4 - one was harmful and bAtsh*T

  • @emmapeel8163
    @emmapeel8163 Місяць тому +55

    15:08 .. by far, the weirdest people i've ever met were psychotherapists, psychiatrists & their children.

    • @staciacrick3373
      @staciacrick3373 Місяць тому +3

      Psychiatrists earn a medical degree while Psychotherapists can come from a counseling, Family and Marriage therapist with a PHD and clinical Social Worker. All have very different coursework. Psychiatrists aren’t focused on feelings/ emotions as much as the other degree’s.

    • @staciacrick3373
      @staciacrick3373 Місяць тому +6

      Also, life coaches are not licensed, likely do not hold a degree in the Psychology or other therapy focus nor regulated by any professional board.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Місяць тому +3

      I wouldn't put psychotherapists & psychiatrists in the same bracket; completely different mental health paradigms

    • @thecorrectoification
      @thecorrectoification Місяць тому

      Me too!

    • @kevinowens6010
      @kevinowens6010 27 днів тому

      Extremely bent. Married one and dated three. I don't do that behavior anymore.
      Many never fix their damage, but will jump in and screw you up with enthusiasm.

  • @nhmooytis7058
    @nhmooytis7058 Місяць тому +31

    ...”deployment of a birthday suit”...caught me with a mouthful of chicken soup 😮

  • @pambennett3390
    @pambennett3390 Місяць тому +21

    Thank God there are no children involved.

  • @notozknows
    @notozknows Місяць тому +50

    Wow, I would be so mad at myself for turning down that 10 years instead of life.

    • @taydestiny38
      @taydestiny38 Місяць тому +10

      It shouldn’t have been offered in the first place.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Місяць тому +4

      Yes, same. She was actually offered inside 10 years, so she probably would have been out on good behaviour much earlier.

    • @Seeker0fTruth
      @Seeker0fTruth Місяць тому +5

      I’d be mad at myself for far more than THAT particular error in judgement…🙃

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 29 днів тому

      this is good example when your stupid and greedy!!!

  • @theglobalvagabond3074
    @theglobalvagabond3074 Місяць тому +101

    The first problem is purchasing a Pontiac Firebird. The second is his buddy needs to be charged with stupidity. Who loans a deadly weapon to a friend??? SMH.

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Місяць тому +2

      So who would one loan a deadly weapon to. An enemy?

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Місяць тому +1

      Anything can be a deadly weapon.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Місяць тому +2

      Firearms in general shouldn't be accessible to the general public. Sure we have knife crime in the UK but thank God we don't have guns to contend with as well

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Місяць тому

      @Tified96 Criminals don't give a shit about laws. Therefore, they will always possess guns. So your bright idea would be to disarm the law abiding general public and leave them at the mercy of an armed criminal. The authorities are always 20 or more minutes away but will arrive to draw a chalk line around your dead body. Very deep thinking you got going there.

    • @cg5648
      @cg5648 24 дні тому +4

      @@ISTPx5w6, your knife crime is unbelievable. At least in America, as a law abiding citizen I have the right to carry a handgun for protection.

  • @buzzcrushtrendkill
    @buzzcrushtrendkill Місяць тому +21

    Anecdotal, but every person that I've known to study Psychology are ultimately motivated to pursue that to understand something about themselves.

    • @Catherinzsl
      @Catherinzsl Місяць тому +3

      Yes, but I think there's a spectrum between wanting to understand and better oneself (and others), and being a manipulative, homicidal demon.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Місяць тому +3

      Which is actually very healthy and it's a shame more people don't want to gain insight and self-awareness.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Місяць тому

      @@24JJ821exactly. I'm a mental health professional with bipolar. Yes I want to enlighten myself and ultimately to pass that insight on to the young people I work with which I believe I do my best to do. It's shocking in society how surface level & unaware most people are. I had a lot to deal with re childhood trauma & also having bipolar disorder...The onus is on me to deal with those demons before beginning the process of helping others.

    • @buzzcrushtrendkill
      @buzzcrushtrendkill Місяць тому

      @@24JJ821 there are others ways then to pursue degrees.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Місяць тому +1

      @@buzzcrushtrendkill Yes there is, so why rubbish people who have degrees?? It's always people who don't have higher education who do that. Deal with your own insecurities and leave those of us with higher education alone.

  • @urielflames3799
    @urielflames3799 Місяць тому +72

    Marty was a handsome good man. RIP Marty

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Місяць тому +17

      I don't understand why people murder instead of divorce. It's unfathomable that they value money over human life.

    • @JustLift-ep9vr
      @JustLift-ep9vr Місяць тому

      @@dissidentfairy4264divorce is a long process where some individuals lose a lot of money.

  • @tyrone4u559
    @tyrone4u559 29 днів тому +21

    Never ever let someone back into your life or forgive them for betraying you; they will despise you for your weakness and continue to take advantage of you.

    • @kevinowens6010
      @kevinowens6010 27 днів тому +1

      It's absolutely true.

    • @Malama_Ki
      @Malama_Ki 24 дні тому +2

      FACTS!!!! When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

    • @armynurseshark
      @armynurseshark 13 днів тому +2

      That sounds harsh but it’s true- I learned the hard way

  • @lizmonard
    @lizmonard Місяць тому +29

    In my experience, many people with mental illness/ psychiatric disorders are attracted to the psychology / psychiatric fields because of their own self obsession! My nursing course decades ago included psychiatric nurses who were doing required extra courses , and boy, there were some VERY strange ppl there! 😂

  • @marlaroberts2087
    @marlaroberts2087 Місяць тому +37

    The guilty always have the same laundry list of evil attributes! Poor Marty!

  • @sophiaandre139
    @sophiaandre139 Місяць тому +32

    Your dog is awfully cute!

    • @dallynutkat3252
      @dallynutkat3252 29 днів тому +2

      I came here to say this. He / she is adorable 🥰

  • @twown
    @twown Місяць тому +22

    Look how gently Doc stabs that Factor box.

  • @25Soupy
    @25Soupy Місяць тому +13

    After watching video after video I can't believe how many people don't just get a divorce opposed to murder.

  • @tomnohmy1273
    @tomnohmy1273 Місяць тому +7

    I would consider patreon but Dr Grandes voice causes me to fall asleep so I always forget.

  • @hrdley911
    @hrdley911 Місяць тому +266

    Tip for a happy marriage: DON'T CHEAT!

    • @riblets1968
      @riblets1968 Місяць тому +20

      That's easy enough to say, but there are two problems with this advice: 1) it ignores why people cheat in the first place and 2) even if the unsatisfied/marginalized spouse steadfastly refuses to cheat, he can still be quite miserable.

    • @donna119
      @donna119 Місяць тому +44

      @@riblets1968Tell me you’re a cheat without telling me you’re a cheat 😂

    • @M.Kabane
      @M.Kabane Місяць тому +18

      A "happy"marriage is based on several factors. Cheating is only the aftermath.

    • @SinisterScoundrel6562
      @SinisterScoundrel6562 Місяць тому +24

      Or just don't get married. Saves health, money, and resources.

    • @Ann-sj4pt
      @Ann-sj4pt Місяць тому +18

      @@riblets1968leave then.

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Місяць тому +23

    I love your sense of humor, Dr. Grande!🤣😂🤣😂

  • @thesilversurfer7136
    @thesilversurfer7136 Місяць тому +19

    Dr. Kenneth Pope did a study on psychiatrists and their patients in 1976. He found that a full 55% of psychiatrists emotions were just as skewed as their patients.

  • @Candokettlebells
    @Candokettlebells Місяць тому +79

    The birthday suit reference killed me 😂❤

    • @MiaQuacko
      @MiaQuacko Місяць тому +4

      I thought maybe there was some sort of birthday cake situation but thankfully there wasn’t

    • @nickid5210
      @nickid5210 28 днів тому +1

      I am in tears😅 ... lol it was tooo early in the morning for that play on words 😂

    • @MiaQuacko
      @MiaQuacko 27 днів тому +1

      @@nickid5210 the way how he just says it without ANY emotion cracks me the hell up. I would give it away and go on and on and on about it but he just drops the line in there like with ice in his veins lolol

    • @nickid5210
      @nickid5210 25 днів тому

      @@MiaQuacko Dr. Grande is the best, the videos are just long enough with enough information and you have to sometimes listen twice to catch his play on words lol😂.

  • @markferguson3745
    @markferguson3745 Місяць тому +53

    Part of the reason that I changed my Psych major was realizing that the majority of my professors were mentally dubious themselves, in a few cases, perhaps dangerously.You often hear that those in the field became interested due to their own challenges and issues, and I've found that to be the case.Even in talking with less acredited counselors, I'd advise circumspection.I know several people who have been given heavily biased and poor advice that ultimately had a negative impact on their lives, and their mental health,- particulaly where medications were involved.
    Get a second opinion, and avoid those that champion specialized agendas.

    • @christinelee4780
      @christinelee4780 Місяць тому +3

      I work in the university sector, and I came to know that a lecturer whose area of expertise was the dark triad of personality was also a sexual predator

    • @jeffrey501green
      @jeffrey501green Місяць тому +7

      The majority of head-shrinkers are alot crazier than their patients....

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Місяць тому +3

      Yup I hate the biomedical model of mental ill health sure psychiatry has a role but isn't the be all & and all

    • @oldrandon
      @oldrandon Місяць тому

      I worked in a psych. department over 20 years ago as someone with only a bachelor's degree. The Ph.D. who ran the department was a total narcissist (and bigot). All the psychologists in the department hated him.

    • @chadx8269
      @chadx8269 28 днів тому +1

      There are several Phd psychologist in Prison, one is in Florida name Touchton-Williams. They are crazy and known it, that why they study Psychology.

  • @janetrogers4738
    @janetrogers4738 Місяць тому +8

    Divorce never enters these peoples minds.

    • @ayomidel
      @ayomidel Місяць тому +3

      There's no life insurance policy attached to that.

    • @janetrogers4738
      @janetrogers4738 Місяць тому +1

      @@ayomidel But there's no prison time attached to divorce Ty for the explanation.

  • @Ironboots123
    @Ironboots123 Місяць тому +13

    I almost spit out the vodka in my mouth when you mentioned birthday suit 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @Gallop4Me
    @Gallop4Me Місяць тому +15

    I always want to ask the guy in a situation like this, "Well, was she worth it?" 😮

  • @sBaum
    @sBaum Місяць тому +13

    The good old birthday suit bit got a good chuckle out of me

  • @JustineBrownsBookshelf
    @JustineBrownsBookshelf 27 днів тому +11

    Our culture’s reduction of sex to recreation hasn’t served us well.

    • @marcoprolo1488
      @marcoprolo1488 23 години тому

      Let's not exaggerate. It's fairly rare to end up that badly.

    • @JustineBrownsBookshelf
      @JustineBrownsBookshelf 22 години тому

      @@marcoprolo1488 No, what I said was an understatement. The number of ill effects from the Sexual Revolution are in fact staggering.

    • @marcoprolo1488
      @marcoprolo1488 22 години тому

      @@JustineBrownsBookshelf Yeah, loads of puritans out there that want to control other people sexuality. I'll never understood why. I could not care less personally.

  • @festina_lente7655
    @festina_lente7655 Місяць тому +160

    Martin Theer wasn't an enlistee. He graduated from the Air Force Academy and fulfilled his commitment to serve.

    • @andrews527
      @andrews527 Місяць тому +4

      A noble set of junk.

    • @swl9104
      @swl9104 Місяць тому +2

      What's your trouble?

    • @jbinmd
      @jbinmd Місяць тому +12

      Yes, hard to go from enlistee to captain.

    • @joshuabekel9700
      @joshuabekel9700 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@andrews527???

    • @blainechild9068
      @blainechild9068 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@andrews527you've done nothing

  • @Decgyrrl
    @Decgyrrl Місяць тому +6

    A story as old as time, almost. Same crime, just different faces. Evil is always busy. I feel bad for her husband. Poor guy.🕊

  • @Paul-ou1rx
    @Paul-ou1rx Місяць тому +14

    Once there is infidelity, the offending partner can be trusted to leave the room to make toast. Going out of town for an unknown classmate? Hell no.

    • @sarahalbers5555
      @sarahalbers5555 Місяць тому +4

      Boy, are you ever right about that(sadly).

  • @derek04151
    @derek04151 Місяць тому +5

    I drove my therapist crazy. Now she understands me. 😁

  • @TheKatyPB
    @TheKatyPB Місяць тому +13

    Your pup is adorable❤

  • @cobracommander8133
    @cobracommander8133 Місяць тому +17

    I'm curious about the schools she got her doctrate and undergrad eduction from??

  • @sandrabaker1312
    @sandrabaker1312 Місяць тому +16

    Dr Grande makes me laugh with his quirky comments 🤣.

  • @coryskizm
    @coryskizm Місяць тому +9

    Yoooo 😂😂😂the flip from the microwave meal to the timeline of the crime with that picture of Dr Grande smiling ,,,fucking took me out..😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭

  • @MrJacktown5
    @MrJacktown5 Місяць тому +13

    “The Deployment of a bday suit” doc, I wasn’t ready for that one 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 Місяць тому +11

    For having a PhD, Michelle fortunately didn’t know how to avoid prosecution.
    (I love the Factor ads Doc cause I get to see the puppies 😊)

  • @virginialangford6257
    @virginialangford6257 Місяць тому +29

    I quite admire your wife’s Easter rabbit salt and pepper shakers…she has a wonderful eye for home decor.

    • @totti.
      @totti. 29 днів тому

      He made it himself

  • @blondefro
    @blondefro Місяць тому +37

    Spoiler alert: does *not* turn heads

  • @opium77757
    @opium77757 Місяць тому +30

    Dr. Grande: Your channel is very entertaining & I look forward to "daily visitation."🎉

  • @LadyBabaji
    @LadyBabaji Місяць тому +6

    That picture at the end of the factor ad of you and your white puppy, absolutely made my day! A picture of joy 🤩

  • @ninehundreddollarluxuryyac5958
    @ninehundreddollarluxuryyac5958 Місяць тому +11

    I knew the intro was an April fools joke because you rolled your eyes to your right instead of your left when you say "a situation like this". Your dog in the Factor commercial is adorable.

  • @drewintampa
    @drewintampa Місяць тому +16

    Given the amount of adjectives Dr. Grande used to describe Michelle, I believe it would be safe to say that he is not her number one fan. =)

  • @nataliapolova2850
    @nataliapolova2850 Місяць тому +11

    Your videos are so peaceful! I wish they were a little longer but I'll just listen to them back to back before bed! Your voice is so soothing and the lack of background noise and music and sound fx make for an easy slumber!

  • @megret1808
    @megret1808 Місяць тому +8

    Proves my belief that many go into psychotherapy as a profession because they feel uneasy about themselves and want to know why

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Місяць тому

      Whilst this is true we have to understand that psychotherapy is a postgraduate masters degree incorporating a lot of philosophy, psychology etc; it's an extremely demanding course both academically & mentally plus you have to undergo consistent therapy yourself to practice. The vast majority of the population have trauma in some form indeed it's a mark of resilience- we need some trauma as a prerequisite for healthy development. At least they're willing to explore & face that trauma whereas a high percentage of the population walk around completely unaware & with little self introspection. This lady is indeed an exception to the norm in psychotherapy.

  • @JJ-ui4ph
    @JJ-ui4ph Місяць тому +12

    I’ve never understood In cases like this why they don’t simply get a divorce. Instead of killing the person and potentially going to prison, why not just get a divorce? Another thing is how many men was she having sex with before she got married? It’s as if she didn’t understand what was being asked of her in marriage. She clearly wanted to have more sex with men after she got married. Why get married in the first place?

  • @tplummer217
    @tplummer217 Місяць тому +23

    You couldn’t make up a better name for a home wrecker than John Diamond.

  • @gabe_2544
    @gabe_2544 Місяць тому +12

    I bet there was an uptick in online sales of men’s hairpieces. Those who couldn’t afford it or didn’t want to wait bought the spray.

  • @pearlsbeforeswine60
    @pearlsbeforeswine60 Місяць тому +31

    Yikes, Dr Grande! That Factor PR photo of you scared the living bejesus out of me..I have never seen you smile and was not even sure you had teeth. I'm settling down now.
    And hello there, small white dog.

  • @Swansong321
    @Swansong321 Місяць тому +51

    SO .. become therapists bc they've got serious issues themselves...mental health professional with mental issues are shockingly commonplace!😜

    • @crabofchaos7881
      @crabofchaos7881 Місяць тому

      It's not shocking if you consider how many people experience issues with mental health. 1 in 8 people in the world live with a mental disorder, according to WHO. 12.5%, man.

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us Місяць тому +10

      Very. You want to see sick? Meet social workers and therapists 🤯

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Місяць тому +1

      So it's common for therapists to be narcissistic murderers? Lol.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Місяць тому +2

      Yup when you work in the appalling conditions we work in & are overworked & the vicarious trauma we suffer it's hardly surprising

    • @yankeecitygirl
      @yankeecitygirl Місяць тому +2

      @@ISTPx5w6 the pay is barely livable. It’s the heartless psychos who move up the chain that pull the big bucks. There are good people in social work and the mental health field, though. When you encounter them they are a treasure

  • @chelseaavalos3402
    @chelseaavalos3402 28 днів тому +3

    His smile in the factory ads always gets me coming back for another video

  • @alukuhito
    @alukuhito Місяць тому +6

    Dr. Grande, can you analyze the case of Robert Pickton, the Canadian serial killer? Lynn Ellingsen was my elementary school classmate, but when she became an adult, she befriended him and became the key witness against him.

  • @debbiec4530
    @debbiec4530 Місяць тому +5

    Awww gimme those bunny salt and pepper shakers! 🤠💕🐰

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 Місяць тому +34

    Hope you can cover the Sam & Marilyn Sheppard case. Thanks for all your work, Dr.Grande.

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Місяць тому +3

      I second that I’m from Bay Village where it happened, born 2 years before . We lived 4 blocks away! Who do you think did it?

    • @rayross997
      @rayross997 Місяць тому +3

      @@nhmooytis7058 I am inclined to think Sam killed Marilyn and staged the crime scene. I watched a video where a former FBI agent said that F. Lee Bailey, while speaking to a group of law students had admitted that Sam was guilty. Bailey said he argued the case on the grounds that Sam did not get quote, "a fair trial". Maybe Dr. Grande can give his speculation on the case. Who do you think did it?

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Місяць тому +2

      @@rayross997 well my dad who was best friends with the BV cop on the scene and saw photos said it was the then Mayor of BV Spencer Houk because he was having an affair with Marilyn. (The cop thought she was beaten by someone wearing brass knuckles). My mom’s hairdresser said it was Sam’s mother because she had bushy hair! I’m honestly not sure myself, but I don’t think it was the window washer which was Sam’s son’s theory. My dad felt Sam got railroaded by Louis Seltzer of the Cleveland Press. When I was in HS my guidance counselor lived in the former Sheppard house which I found creepy. It was torn down some years ago...early 2000s I think.

    • @raspberrykitten6676
      @raspberrykitten6676 Місяць тому +5

      Definitely would like to hear about what might be happening in a case like this 👀

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Місяць тому +1

      @@raspberrykitten6676 but only speculating 🤔

  • @rachaelb.
    @rachaelb. Місяць тому +7

    I always laugh when Dr. Grande says, "...mostly because of the murder part."

  • @herewegokids7
    @herewegokids7 Місяць тому +4

    "Mostly bc of the murder part" gets me every time 😅😅

  • @dmr4450
    @dmr4450 29 днів тому +2

    Those puns are pure gold, Dr. Grande. 😂 Makes me smile first thing on my timeline.

  • @KaraLey98
    @KaraLey98 Місяць тому +13

    I have to wonder what kind of “heads” she turned..

  • @DeejayRobert
    @DeejayRobert Місяць тому +12

    "Deployment of birthday suit".... really dude?😀😀😀

  • @gracie1598
    @gracie1598 Місяць тому +4

    Self-esteem obviously does not come with a PhD.

  • @EB-wl9st
    @EB-wl9st 23 дні тому +2

    My favorite part of today's sponsor and Dr Grande's videos is that I get to see the doggies and I get to see the bunny salt and pepper shakers every time. It's somehow familiar and comforting❤❤❤

  • @simonsmith7251
    @simonsmith7251 20 днів тому +2

    She's such a lovely person and shines a light on the mental health profession.

  • @Positivevibes6238
    @Positivevibes6238 Місяць тому +6

    Happy Easter Dr.Grande and family.God bless🙏🏻💞

  • @glendasully
    @glendasully Місяць тому +15

    Marty was a handsome & successful man & was too good for the harlot. It's so sad he couldn't see that

  • @TheLegendInYou
    @TheLegendInYou 29 днів тому +2

    As a former firearms salesman. Most hand held semi automatic pistols are indeed 9mm. That litterally means nothing on its own.

  • @sonnyca
    @sonnyca Місяць тому +10

    Just when a guy thinks he’s about to make the cut, he fails the 6’+ height requirement 😂

    • @reginaldrichmond9485
      @reginaldrichmond9485 21 день тому

      Don’t forget if you’re not 6 inches or better you don’t make the cut too.

  • @shakespeareswingman
    @shakespeareswingman Місяць тому +9

    💋.....Dr Grande, could you please examine the case of the British solicitor, Sally Clark, who, in 1998 was incorrectly arrested for murdering hrr adopted children....👠