The Secret Behind Perfect Hair in Asia - It’s a Scam

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    Another impossible beauty standard unlocked - Let’s go down another rabbit hole! Having hair is important in most parts of the world but especially in Asia - a country with some of the highest expectations for visuals. There’s a lot of weight placed on first impressions and your appearance. It’s always looks first and personality second cause if you’re a 10 you must be attractive on the inside too. Chances are your hairstyle is giving you extra points on the beauty scale.
    So what happens if you’re unluckily born with thin hair genetics? There are a lot of negative connotations with thinning hair and male pattern baldness. It’s crazy how this stuff on top of our heads can change the quality of our life so much and how we’re treated. People are turning to plastic surgery, wigs, high cranial top hairstyles, and cosmetic procedures to fit in with society. The Secret Behind Perfect Hair in Asia - It’s a Scam #edvasian
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  • @Edvasian
    @Edvasian  Рік тому +178

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  • @sunnisideupplz3920
    @sunnisideupplz3920 Рік тому +4206

    I'm surprised the kpop idols aren't using wigs?! I feel like using wigs for music videos/promotions is so so much more common in the west. Nicki Minaj....Doja Cat....Melanie Martinez.....Katie Perry.....and so on. It keeps their natural hair healthy while being able to try new looks!

    • @Emma-qd5mc
      @Emma-qd5mc Рік тому +207

      They use extensions

    • @shl24yw89
      @shl24yw89 Рік тому +435

      Recently I saw male kpop idols start using temporary hair wax color. The pigment is strong enough even on black hair. I saw them going blonde and platinum easily. Works well but a tedious process to put it on everyday. But unfortunately doesn't work for female idols because you can't use wax on long hair so they have to bleach it no matter what.

    • @JuMiKu
      @JuMiKu Рік тому +75

      I'm guessing because the hair is supposed to be super long. Such wigs wouldn't just be expensive but may cause headaches.

    • @fromdusktilldusk2856
      @fromdusktilldusk2856 Рік тому +270

      @@JuMiKu I think you are right about headaches but wigs would actually cost less than thoses extensions. Because they are using long, natural and bleached extensions, a full can easily cost 1200$, a very realistic long wig is like 500 to 1000$

    • @shanliekpop
      @shanliekpop Рік тому +243

      Probably because even good wigs can look fake at some angles. It's also a lot more socially acceptable to wear wigs in the POC communities. If their wig fell off it wouldn't be that embarrassing. But the Idols want to fool you and bee seen as *natural* . They don't want you to to know it's fake, so putting extensions under your real hair where your natural scalp shows looks much more realistic. Fans thought for YEARS that Rose's thick blonde hair was naturally that full until she removed them due to extreme damage after OTG promos.

  • @princessjello
    @princessjello Рік тому +4703

    Another thing to add: most these actors/idols are forced to stay thin through extreme dieting, which is known to cause hair loss.

    • @eugenie8661
      @eugenie8661 Рік тому +447

      omg that's true, malnutrition is a big factor too

    • @berobero686
      @berobero686 Рік тому +525

      Stress + malnutrition combo is horrible for hair, nails and skin (end mental health too)

    • @estherrani9838
      @estherrani9838 Рік тому +38

      Still their hair and skin looks so good, how? Is that possible

    • @parkchimmin7913
      @parkchimmin7913 Рік тому +333

      @@estherrani9838 Possibly clinical treatments or expensive products

    • @user-me8fm5yf4n
      @user-me8fm5yf4n Рік тому +200

      @@estherrani9838 skin is probably makeup/ expensive facials

  • @Edvasian
    @Edvasian  Рік тому +3600

    Guys... I bleached my scalp for 2 years straight ofc I would call Asia a country lmao 💀

    • @larrytay619
      @larrytay619 Рік тому +285

      We move forward by learning from mistakes .

    • @marliestol9414
      @marliestol9414 Рік тому +133

      I was looking for this comment, I though I miss heard it 😂😂😂

    • @aprilianindy3200
      @aprilianindy3200 Рік тому +32

      💀💀💀💀

    • @dreamtv2710
      @dreamtv2710 Рік тому +29

      We live and we learn. Another great vid btw I really enjoyed it

    • @chooyoo
      @chooyoo Рік тому +10

      😂😂😂

  • @NathalieCwiekSwiercz
    @NathalieCwiekSwiercz Рік тому +3465

    I got one hair left on my head and I still cant stop abusing it every few months

  • @lerialazariuc5923
    @lerialazariuc5923 Рік тому +917

    I've been losing hair for the last six months
    Sometimes I cry in the shower
    The doctor concluded It's because of stress and I don't know how to stop the stress because I am always stressed that I am losing hair
    Update: School semester ended and the hair loss stopped
    Second update: Over the summer a lot of new baby hairs started to grow and hair falls at a normal rate, no more than 100 strands a day
    Thank you for the encouragement!

    • @lilliesinthegard32
      @lilliesinthegard32 Рік тому +15

      Yay good for you❤

    • @lizziefg10
      @lizziefg10 11 місяців тому +12

      Hope you can rest well and manage a more peaceful routine moving forward! ☺️

    • @alanaadornato5596
      @alanaadornato5596 10 місяців тому +18

      Don't worry! Hair loss from stress regrows about 6 months after you've recovered from stress.

    • @roundsdm
      @roundsdm 10 місяців тому +4

      Im glad you can rest! You may want to consider an anxiety medication if that starts happening again every time youre in school!

    • @sionkaze
      @sionkaze 8 місяців тому +3

      Stressing over things is not going to stop that thing from happening. Just stop, take a moment to yourself. You'll perform even better after some r&r.

  • @sarakim1070
    @sarakim1070 Рік тому +1059

    Here in Korea scalp treatment clinics, hair transplant clinics and wigs designer are more common than people think.
    We perm the roots for volumes, we have every type of curl perm possible (yes, the natural looking waves are often perms lol), men perm the sides of their hair to make them stay flatter and the rest of the hair for more volume/easy styling in the morning. My boyfriend and all my male friends have some sort of perm and so do most of my female friends.
    I guess my whole country will eventually get bald LOL

    • @lilcomment1946
      @lilcomment1946 Рік тому +89

      So they do not care that perming hair is bad for people??😭😭
      Hopefully they tell them to not get perms regular or often💀

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv Рік тому +85

      But there is also tons of hair care products and hair clinic treatments right. Also the hairdressers always look like they know what they’re doing so they could probably fix a balding person’s head. My last visit to the hair salon, I asked for a wolf cut (back when it was in style) and I came out looking like Dora no fr I wish I was joking 😭 After a week of getting hurtful fake nice reactions from colleagues, I realized I couldn’t just let it be. I watched some youtube videos and cut soft layers (even in the back) and it came out looking exactly like I wanted initially. What a hairdresser couldn’t do in an hour my untrained ass did within 20 minutes 😀 Never going back again

    • @cyberspace7208
      @cyberspace7208 Рік тому +2

      I don't see what is wrong with that

    • @she5139
      @she5139 Рік тому +1

      omg the last sentence lol!

    • @sarakim1070
      @sarakim1070 Рік тому +45

      @@lilcomment1946 our hair is fairly strong so they do survive perms quite well. From personal experience, hair stylists do tell you if your hair is too damaged and needs a break. I'm currently on a break after 5 years of perming because my hair got a bit too dry

  • @uhmeenah
    @uhmeenah Рік тому +3961

    As someone with a genetically high forehead and thin hair, this is definitely a sensitive topic for me and it’s my biggest insecurity. I used to cover my forehead with bangs since I was a child. I hate bangs because they are so high maintenance and they would get oily really quickly and break me out (I have oily, acne prone skin as well) but I always felt like I couldn’t go without them because I was so embarrassed because I look like a balding man without them. I was considering surgery but I can’t afford it and there are risks that come with surgery. So now I’m at a point in my life where I go out without bangs and just accept that my forehead is large and disproportional to the rest of my face. It still hurts every time someone points it out but there’s not much I can do about it 🥲 I’m always so envious when I see people with thick hair and normal sized foreheads but I try to remind myself that I am more than just my appearance and there is more to life than the way you look.

    • @breadisgood9336
      @breadisgood9336 Рік тому +254

      It sucks that it’s all some people notice, there’s a lot more to a person than one they look like. Of course I’m not innocent either, but I try my best not to judge other based solely on appearance.

    • @briannaholder6842
      @briannaholder6842 Рік тому +179

      I’ve dealt with EXACTLY the same thing my entire life 🥲 used to get made fun of all the time, and sometimes still do 😭

    • @xActingxBabyx94
      @xActingxBabyx94 Рік тому +212

      I feel you -- same genetically high forehead, and really prefer how my face looks with heavy bangs but maintenance is such a bitch so I gave it up.
      In my family's culture you give newborn babies a nickname based on some characteristic... mine literally translates to "big forehead"... That's that lifetime trauma LMAO

    • @goldensloth7
      @goldensloth7 Рік тому +69

      i have the same thing. but no one else is as hard on ourselves as we are. most people give zero thought to the forehead size of people around them. kids can be horrible though. and people with thick hair have their own problems! i'm sure you are lovely. have a good day.

    • @aminalalla2995
      @aminalalla2995 Рік тому +51

      If it helps, back then it was the beauty standard to have big foreheads in Europe because it made them look more youthful, also totally off topic but I noticed you have the same name as me.

  • @saph_ire_
    @saph_ire_ Рік тому +654

    “Especially in Asia, a country with some of the strictest beauty standards in the world.” 😭😭😭

    • @alsimanche
      @alsimanche Рік тому

      Only in korea, china or japan.... The rest don't really give a sh*t

    • @c.q.cumber5870
      @c.q.cumber5870 Рік тому +18

      💀💀💀

    • @aiswaryabersan7983
      @aiswaryabersan7983 Рік тому +11

      Not all asian specially east asian is high

    • @sm1purplmurderedme583
      @sm1purplmurderedme583 10 місяців тому +4

      @@aiswaryabersan7983nah it’s everywhere in asia

    • @sm1purplmurderedme583
      @sm1purplmurderedme583 10 місяців тому +3

      i’m so happy i’m african and haven’t been forced to bleach my skin😭

  • @zeideerskine3462
    @zeideerskine3462 Рік тому +1299

    The main problem seems to be that so many people view others as fungible commodities until they begin to view their own bodies as fungible commodities and, shamefully, a whole industry has sprouted around it.

    • @nicoledoubleyou
      @nicoledoubleyou Рік тому +23

      What does that word even mean I've heard it in the nft sense but that's it & I just thought it meant not fake-able lmao

    • @sevenmillionhobbies7840
      @sevenmillionhobbies7840 Рік тому +10

      I learned a new word!

    • @DavidCruickshank
      @DavidCruickshank Рік тому +60

      @@nicoledoubleyou Fungible? Fungible means that something is replaceable by another identical item.
      Money is a great example of fungible, so if you have a £5 note and i rip it up and give you another £5 note you are in an identical position because every £5 note is equivalent to every other £5 note. However if you have the first £5 note you ever made and i rip it up and give you another £5 note then you are not in an identical position because your £5 note was unique or non-Fungible.

    • @zeideerskine3462
      @zeideerskine3462 Рік тому +15

      @@nicoledoubleyou I assume you mean the word 'fungible'. Fungible means exchangeable for some like and equivalent. Commodities are fungible, for instance, like one peanut is just about the same as any other peanut when you are going to use multiple peanuts in making peanut butter.

    • @caramazzola2399
      @caramazzola2399 Рік тому +16

      The multiple uses of "fungible" in this comment makes me irrationally annoyed, especially because of it's association with NFTs lmao

  • @mimi-xx
    @mimi-xx Рік тому +953

    as a woman with shitty hair genetics (thin, bad hairline) its enough to put me to tears some days. hair loss sucks for everyone, but as opposed to male pattern baldness, its not even talked about for women, nor is baldness seen as an option for like 95% of us. and while a healthy lifestyle is great, you cant fight genetics.

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 Рік тому +6

      I can suggest a couple of things that might help, but only if you want me to?

    • @sayeemooo
      @sayeemooo Рік тому +63

      @@djlivvy46 suggest them. I’m a 23 yr old female that’s lost most of her hair cause of genetics
      The devastation is destroying

    • @TheTacitusKilgore
      @TheTacitusKilgore Рік тому +30

      ​@@sayeemooo minoxidil and anti androgens if you're a woman.

    • @gethina-come7885
      @gethina-come7885 Рік тому +38

      @@sayeemooo See your dermatologist ASAP but minoxidil and pills (men use finasteride BUT woman cant take it if im not mistaken, idk what woman need to take) also hair transplant is an option too !

    • @flyingfox3296
      @flyingfox3296 Рік тому +18

      If you've heard of derma-pens or derma-rolling, it's very effective at stimulating hair growth (and even moreso when used with hair growth medications--it greatly increases the effects of them). You can look into it here on youtube! Don't forget to eat healthy (meats should give you lots of collagen and proteins for growth), exercise, and get proper sleep. And, especially, give yourself some graciousness when other people won't. Take care of yourself

  • @orbit-l9046
    @orbit-l9046 Рік тому +755

    as someone who lost her hair at 9 because of alopecia I'm very sensitive to any kind of baldness discussions, it really is something people make fun of on a daily basis unprovoked. I'll never get why it's acceptable to make fun of someone purely for having a receding hairline, it's horrible

    • @a03k1llm4
      @a03k1llm4 Рік тому +7

      idk if it helps but leo vader made a fun vid about it

    • @orbit-l9046
      @orbit-l9046 Рік тому +24

      @1R1S I haven't heard of him but I might check it out! I tend to avoid any types of videos discussing hair so I'll wait til I find a moment where I feel brave like I did this morning on this video 😅

    • @fellwren9113
      @fellwren9113 Рік тому +5

      you're at 69 likes and i don't want to ruin it so pretend this is a like, lol

    • @leonaj.5835
      @leonaj.5835 Рік тому +7

      As someone who survived almost being murdered 3 times when I was 9 years old, I never get why some people who lost their hair so young can't get emotionally stronger, conquer their insecurity & be inspirational to others who suffer from hair loss & even to normal people as an example, but they expect society to just change for them so that their feelings don't get hurt. Horrible things happen to ALL people & most people learn how to cope & get through it. We don't expect special treatment nor do we ask to be pitied. You lost your hair but you're still alive. Maybe try to be grateful instead?

    • @orbit-l9046
      @orbit-l9046 Рік тому +128

      @Leona J. that's a wild comment to write, I didn't know I'd just entered the struggle Olympics. congratulations on being better than me?

  • @angel_qu3en
    @angel_qu3en Рік тому +519

    You know what baffles me. All the doctors and surgeons that do these procedures, I've never seen them do these procedures on themselves.

    • @Mr-pn2eh
      @Mr-pn2eh Рік тому

      It's dangerous to surgery on your self.
      Your eyes can't see everything

    • @mile_851
      @mile_851 Рік тому +140

      Maybe they just accepted their baldness and don't even care about it no more

    • @flonny1340
      @flonny1340 Рік тому +16

      Really makes you think 🤔 huh?

    • @berobero686
      @berobero686 Рік тому +135

      Cause they have good self-esteem and know long term downsides for most of treatments. Good mental health does wonders too you

    • @angel_qu3en
      @angel_qu3en Рік тому +64

      @@aeughhhhhh No you weirdo. Its just the irony of it. Everybody wants perfect this and that because of their insecurities. Some of the doctors aren't the beauty standard either but because they know the dangers of these procedures they won't do it to themselves even though they can

  • @emilyonizuka4698
    @emilyonizuka4698 Рік тому +379

    for some reason, I always thought kpop idols just wore wigs. like I know their hair colour and everything changes every two weeks, but I didn't realize they were actually bleaching and dying and styling their hair and causing damage. I just assumed they had a new wig.

    • @nbucwa6621
      @nbucwa6621 Рік тому +142

      I honestly don't understand why they don't. Esp for music videos and concerts where no one is looking closely and its for a short time. That's how most western stars keep their real hair healthy.

    • @ldive
      @ldive Рік тому +11

      @@nbucwa6621 Because they actually perform the songs in real life and do it for the concept. Sometimes it's to highlight a member so they make them have blonde hair while the others have black hair etc

    • @nbucwa6621
      @nbucwa6621 Рік тому +65

      @@ldive I hear what you're saying. I'll admit I'm not knowledgeable enough about the process but tbh it doesn't sound that different from black western performers. There are hair glues that keep the wig on for weeks and the wig can always be kept on whenever they are in public and only taken off when they are going to bed (some even sleep and shower in their wigs) and it can be done seamlessly enough that you can't even tell that it's a wig esp when wearing make up, which most idols always are, and esp when a person is far away, which the audience usually is during a performance. Even up close, under lights etc, a wig should blend enough to be pretty much invisible unless someone is looking right up close at your hairline. So I don't really see any reason why wigs wouldn't work rather than damaging one's hair.

    • @DeadKraken
      @DeadKraken Рік тому +94

      @@ldive Uh, wigs can do all that and more lol
      The companies probably just want to be cheap, because a professional wig and its installation costs a lot, while ruining your idol's hair is much cheaper.

    • @nobarakugisaki_._
      @nobarakugisaki_._ Рік тому +12

      Because companies who manage them must have told them to do so and ofc they don't care about their members health.

  • @tytrack9289
    @tytrack9289 Рік тому +416

    It broke my heart knowing Cube made Peniel hide his hair loss for so long, when he himself said he wanted to be able to live freely and wear whatever he wanted not worrying about covering his hair.

    • @Eliza0girl
      @Eliza0girl Рік тому +36

      I had to think about that as well! Im so happy for him he can live confortable now and everyone has accepted it. Also it looks really good on him ^^

    • @tytrack9289
      @tytrack9289 Рік тому +16

      @eliza0girl It suited him perfectly honestly he's handsome enough to not need hair to mask facial features but at the end of the day I just want him to be styled in whatever way he feels most comfortable

    • @tytrack9289
      @tytrack9289 10 місяців тому +1

      @@CentreCircle0 People these days rly just spread whatever kinda 'info' they want huh no wonder we get generalised as these chronically online bullies by 90% of the population

    • @tytrack9289
      @tytrack9289 10 місяців тому

      Not the generalising please get off the internet you should literally not be allowed to interact with other people till you get a grip on reality @@CentreCircle0

  • @anthropomorphicpeanut6160
    @anthropomorphicpeanut6160 Рік тому +1847

    As a woman who has had long hair for her whole life, I shaved my head last week and it's the best decision I've ever made lol. Dries in literal seconds

    • @pickledginger4574
      @pickledginger4574 Рік тому

      It's wonderfully liberating! Oddly enough, I felt my most boss b*tch and sexy when I buzzed it all off - added bonus, I donated it❤.

    • @oyabun9650
      @oyabun9650 Рік тому +129

      Just wait until you hit the "awkward phase" and it won't be so great anymore (speaking from experience) lol

    • @anthropomorphicpeanut6160
      @anthropomorphicpeanut6160 Рік тому +186

      @@oyabun9650 I'm honestly excited for it, I see it as a challenge

    • @gooseofspooks2500
      @gooseofspooks2500 Рік тому +86

      I'm doing the opposite, never had long hair in my life so trying it for a change 😄 My goal is to get to belly button length so it's gonna take a while still.. But have fun trying out all the different haircuts and colors, that's the best thing about having shorter hair!

    • @semerahpadi4484
      @semerahpadi4484 Рік тому +18

      ​@goose of spooks I always had shoulder length hair. Then kept in long until it passed below my chest, I braided my hair when working. Then decided to cut the hair up to chin level because my hair loss was too much to handle. My crown is exposed, short hair can cover it so much better and makes me look younger.

  • @serafia_
    @serafia_ Рік тому +285

    I've lost almost half of my hair from a lifesaving biological medicine. The way people treat me is so different! My friend has alopecia and got bullied for being bald but when she got money from the government (due to her illness being a disability and the wig is basically a disability aid) to buy a wig, people sent hate to her for using tax payers money for a wig.

    • @ruiqi22
      @ruiqi22 Рік тому +83

      That’s ridiculous! Bullying someone for a disability and then bullying them for using the tools that are meant for them to combat the stigma against them. I’m glad the medicine saved your life, and I hope people treat your friend better!

    • @amordesdemona
      @amordesdemona Рік тому +54

      Those people would do the same. I swear everyone goes 'if I lost my hair I would just OWN IT!!!!!!" until it really does happen to them. Maybe they would, but they don't know if they haven't been there.

    • @user-vx3vt7nj5n
      @user-vx3vt7nj5n Рік тому +10

      how is alopecia a disability

    • @Night-Shade.
      @Night-Shade. 8 місяців тому +5

      Thanks for sharing your stories. Stay strong and don't listen to the toxic people.

    • @mallarieluvsgirls
      @mallarieluvsgirls 8 місяців тому

      @@user-vx3vt7nj5nit can greatly impact someone’s quality of life. and you don’t know that person. alopecia can be caused with OTHER ILLNESS. use context weirdo

  • @PrinceDuCiel7
    @PrinceDuCiel7 Рік тому +446

    I’m a hairdresser who’s been bleaching my hair bright colours for about 21 years.
    The people doing 90% of idols hair need to be FIRED.
    The extensions looks awful, the colour jobs are awful, the maintenance routine non existent.
    It’s Criminal!

    • @SanC224
      @SanC224 Рік тому +10

      Woah! Fr?! Damn...

    • @Mimi-Pancake
      @Mimi-Pancake Рік тому +5

      I'm curious, what are the other hairdressers doing wrong? And what's the proper way to treat bleached hair?

    • @hana5370
      @hana5370 Рік тому +31

      @@Mimi-Pancake Hi, so i have been bleaching my hair for 10 years and i can say there are multiple factors that play the role. First is the sole process of bleaching. If you go from really dark hair to blond in short period of time it will damage the hair a lot. For me, the most damaging factor was heat styling. It damaged my hair more then bleaching itself. As for treating the hair i can only speak for myself, but first i stopped any kind of heat styling and let my hair dry naturally, swap from brush to comb and find the right shampoo. I have long and shiny hair ever since. For reference i am currently using the Olaplex shampoo, but i had different, less expensive shampoo's, that worked as well. Just make sure that the shampoo doesn't have any silicone in it. It will make your hair shiny but damage them in the long run. Hope that helps :)

    • @TedEhioghae
      @TedEhioghae 10 місяців тому

      Changing the natural colour of your hair is a sin and leads to Hell Fire (lava).
      Please, repent before it is too late.

    • @Mimi-Pancake
      @Mimi-Pancake 10 місяців тому +7

      @@hana5370 oooo very interesting indeed! Thanks for the information bud!

  • @ricequin
    @ricequin Рік тому +264

    My husband started balding at 14. I met him when he was 21 and thought he was about twenty years older. He actually looked younger after shaving his head because it wasn’t so obvious that he was balding: it could have been a choice.

    • @Cillian-wwweeee
      @Cillian-wwweeee Рік тому +20

      I never get people who try to hide balding, if it were me I would go full buzz

    • @Widdekuu91
      @Widdekuu91 Рік тому +32

      I know someone that started balding at 20 and shaved his head, he got a massive beard to compensate for it. I think he looks like a Viking now.

    • @moonlight-ph22
      @moonlight-ph22 Рік тому +18

      I wish such options were available to women in world. But we have to treat our hair like gold so don't get criticized by society everytime we out of our house.

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 9 місяців тому

      ​@@moonlight-ph22or you can just cover it

    • @andshereadstoo7809
      @andshereadstoo7809 9 місяців тому +9

      ​@@moonlight-ph22 RIGHT suddenly you have to deal with weird looks with any kind of short hair as a woman, I've had both long and very short hair before and the difference in how people treat me is staggering, wanted to cut my hair off when I was losing it but I dont want to explain myself everywhere I go 😭😭

  • @basquiatt
    @basquiatt Рік тому +89

    i once landed on the "getting hair transplantation in turkey" part of tiktok and boy let me tell you it was a wild ride. those doctors are magicians in my book

    • @justmike1753
      @justmike1753 Рік тому +13

      They only show you the good results, which doesn’t always happen

  • @SandMansWims
    @SandMansWims Рік тому +436

    I have PCOS, which means that I have cysts on my ovaries messing up my hormonal system, amongst other stuff. I produce some testosterone, and the “hairy” side of it manifests itself through hirsutism on my face and hair loss on my head.
    I can hide the former by shaving and bleaching the “beard”, but the latter is far more difficult. I’m in a much better spot than other women with the same condition. But hearing, a couple of years ago, as a 15 years old girl, that I was losing hair much like a middle aged man would, was a pretty harsh blow to my self esteem. Man, the beard I could accept, made for a pretty cool party trick, but hair loss too?

    • @nbucwa6621
      @nbucwa6621 Рік тому +30

      We in the same boat. I'm actually not so bothered now by my "beard" as I am by my hairline. I shaved my hair a while back and it was honestly one of the best things I did for my self esteem. Since I discovered hair powder tho, I've been using it to fill in while I grow my hair out again and I don't hate it tbh. Not much different to wearing a wig which is just normal as a black woman.

    • @SanC224
      @SanC224 Рік тому +7

      I can totally relate to what you're saying. I don't have PCOS but for some reasons I've got more facial hair and thick body hair. I have considered shaving my face but never did that because first I am not sure about their side effects and second, it seems unfair to not accept who I am (that still doesn't mean that I like facial hair)

    • @dees21984
      @dees21984 9 місяців тому +2

      I have PCOS as well and have similar issues. My hair was shedding so badly that I was starting to get depressed. It would come out in clumps every time I washed it. Adding magnesium and zinc supplements plus Ovasitol to my daily regimen seems to be helping a lot. I think it’s mainly the Ovasitol. I have a normal amount of shedding now and my fullness is coming back slowly. It’s doing nothing for the hirsutism unfortunately but I don’t have that as badly as some women so I try not to complain.

  • @odettemargal
    @odettemargal Рік тому +296

    I naturally have 2b/2c hair that's basically mixed between wavy with ringlets, this usually means that if I don't hydrate it properly my hair will look like a lion's mane.
    But the thing is, when I was a child I remember that straight hair was in on my country and on school I was sometimes picked on by other kids because to them my hair was "messy and dirty", so they would basically treat me as if I hadn't showered for months and make fun of me. Growing up I hated my natural hair texture and would do anything to try and make it straight, to the point of even hurting my scalp from brushing it too roughly.
    I have now given up on trying to get straight hair and just embraced my fluffy hair that I inherited from my mom, so seeing that voluminous hair is now in just keeps on reminding me that when it comes to beauty standards you can never win, damned if you do, damned if you don't

    • @witchwoman2515
      @witchwoman2515 Рік тому +17

      I have had the Lions Mane for many years, enjoy it while you have it. You never know where life takes you. Be proud and stand tall. I grew to love my hair in all it's glory.

    • @sprigganpanda
      @sprigganpanda 11 місяців тому +1

      Damn, growing up I always wanted the poofy curly hair that folks like my bestie are just born with. I live in a dry climate so my already dry hair becomes like straw if I'm not doing the most, but as I'm visiting family in a humid climate it's a poofed and fluffy with no effort. Wish I could replicate this back home but nah, best thing I could do for it would be chopping it off :/

    • @sm1purplmurderedme583
      @sm1purplmurderedme583 10 місяців тому +2

      i have type 4 hair and i just relax it, it grows easier and it’s longer

    • @roundsdm
      @roundsdm 10 місяців тому +3

      Thats so sad, im so sorry you went through that…I was never bullied for my hair specifically, but i was bullied in general & i feel like my hair always looking so flat & thin & never cut very nicely could’ve contributed to that, honestly cannot put into words how insecure ive always been over my hair & ive always wished so badly that i had wavy or curly hair so i dont look so bad😢 i just learned you can get a perm to get waves & not just curls or you can perm the roots for volume in another comment!

    • @ahleenah
      @ahleenah 6 місяців тому +2

      My fluffy hair was the only thing hiding my hair loss that I got from stress and hormones for the past ten years

  • @sprigganpanda
    @sprigganpanda Рік тому +158

    I've done nothing to my hair yet it's still fragile and thin. However hair masking and leave in conditioner and hair oil has made it not feel like straw :D So like, progress...

    • @sprigganpanda
      @sprigganpanda Рік тому +37

      @@SG-df9er No, I eat very well and am the most laid-back person I know. It's always been like this so I'm pretty sure it's just genetic.

    • @b0s0rka
      @b0s0rka Рік тому +25

      i feel you! i thought it was stress, lack of nutrition and dye, but every single woman on my moms side just has thin and fine hair :,D its just unlucky genetics 🥲

    • @semekiizuio
      @semekiizuio Рік тому +3

      Youre good, your hair is fine too. I also have fine hair and hair like ours likes moisture, leave in conditioners are the best to keep it healthy. Its just genetics at this point

  • @MaguireGOAT4Ever
    @MaguireGOAT4Ever Рік тому +160

    I have blond hair and I don't give a shit about people bleaching their hair and I think 99% of other ppl with blond hair will agree. I really don't get the girl at the end 😂

    • @xActingxBabyx94
      @xActingxBabyx94 Рік тому +95

      Girl just wants to be oppressed so bad 🤣🤣

    • @Abby_Liu
      @Abby_Liu Рік тому +30

      how is it -phobic to literally pretend u have the thing lol

    • @silverghostcat1924
      @silverghostcat1924 Рік тому +36

      Maybe my eyes don't work or maybe it's her lighting, but her hair looks light brown to me.

    • @biguattipoptropica
      @biguattipoptropica Рік тому +50

      @@silverghostcat1924 I was going to say, my hair is the same color (or a little lighter) and I’m fairly sure it’s mousey brown.
      Also, blonde hair goes in and out of fashion and people have understood how to bleach hair for centuries so she’s just being dramatic. She’s talking about regular misogyny but she’d rather feel unique than fight that.

    • @silverghostcat1924
      @silverghostcat1924 Рік тому +3

      @@biguattipoptropica I agree

  • @Hip.Username
    @Hip.Username Рік тому +334

    I didn't know there was actual hair powder, when I wear my hair up my hairline sucks so I use a taupe eye shadow and pat that into areas that look bald lol. It works really well, I nearly forgot about it because I've had a bob for a few years now

    • @nicoledoubleyou
      @nicoledoubleyou Рік тому +10

      Taupe? Sorry I'm not picking on you I was just like wtf is she saying... Ohhhh.
      I'm gonna do that that's such a good idea lol my hair is falling out cuz I just had a baby (In case people don't know, that's always gonna happen, cuz pregnancy hormones make it so your hair doesn't shed while pregnant, so when you have the baby, all that hair you were supposed to shed, starts shedding all at once)

    • @Hip.Username
      @Hip.Username Рік тому

      @@nicoledoubleyou lol I thought it looked wrong thanks 😅

    • @TheAkumaChan
      @TheAkumaChan Рік тому +10

      I’ve used the hair powder before, it is a bit annoying since I don’t wash my hair everyday, so I never knew how to remove it. Otherwise, you just need to make sure you have baby hair surrounding it so that it doesn’t look too obvious. IMO it is not worth the trouble.

  • @nikolasincorporated
    @nikolasincorporated Рік тому +57

    The fake hair- it’s bonded to your scalp and you have it re bonded every few weeks. I can’t even tell mine’s on most of the time.

    • @availanila
      @availanila Рік тому +5

      And the way I feel my braids! 😩 I never go longer than shoulder length for any comfort anymore.

    • @keiths2902
      @keiths2902 Рік тому +2

      If I were wanting to get this done, what’s a key word to search for? Like what’s the term for getting it?

    • @nikolasincorporated
      @nikolasincorporated Рік тому

      @@keiths2902 men’s hair system, I found a lot of info on UA-cam on the lordhair channel and there are a few UA-camrs who even go into details about self-maintenance too it’s super helpful

    • @amordesdemona
      @amordesdemona Рік тому +2

      @@keiths2902 look up 'lace front hair pieces for men', they're using one of those and (most likely) glue it with something like Got 2B glued spiking gel, typically used for wigs

  • @myakugel
    @myakugel Рік тому +82

    i have 'female pattern hairloss' at age 20 and it sucks having a part as wide as the nile river. my hair also sheds more than a long haired dog

    • @sabrina1646
      @sabrina1646 Рік тому +6

      yep i know exactly how you feel :((
      have you gone to the doctors and get blood tests done to find the root cause?

    • @annierminx
      @annierminx Рік тому +4

      welcome to the barely haired at 20s gang, can't even do a ponytail because I shed more than my cat

    • @myakugel
      @myakugel Рік тому +3

      @@sabrina1646 just saw this buttt they say it’s a genetic thing - there’s not really a specific cause + it’s not curable :((

    • @sabrina1646
      @sabrina1646 Рік тому

      @@myakugel owhh i’m sorry to hear that, it really sucks 😭 but it’s possible to maintain and deal with pattern hair loss, are you thinking of using treatment?

  • @M5FTZ
    @M5FTZ Рік тому +421

    I can confirm that ur hair changes how ur treated or perceived. When I was younger my mum shaved my head in order to make my hair thicker (which worked somehow) and people were called me a boy saying I should wear trousers ( makes no sense). But once my hair grew back ppl treated me like a normal person 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @--julian_
      @--julian_ Рік тому +23

      wait so why did she shave your hair?

    • @crazyowlgirlcncowner
      @crazyowlgirlcncowner Рік тому +26

      ​@@--julian_ to make it grow thicker

    • @crazyowlgirlcncowner
      @crazyowlgirlcncowner Рік тому +113

      ​​​@@--julian_ basically when you're a baby and your hairs grows out for the first time it looks thin and small because it's more tapered? I guess. Like thicker towards the base of the hair and thinner towards the end of the hair. So when you shave the head and the hair grows back out it's blunt at the end so it looks thicker overall. At least that's the idea behind shaving babies' heads. Not sure where this person is from but I'm a Hispanic Latina and it's common in our cultures to shave babies'
      heads to make the hair look thicker and fuller once it grows back.

    • @--julian_
      @--julian_ Рік тому +23

      @Crazy Owl Girl CNCOwner gotcha. I guess they forgot to type that part. since it just says "to make my hair" . and I was like to make yout hair what lol

    • @crazyowlgirlcncowner
      @crazyowlgirlcncowner Рік тому +3

      @@--julian_ lol yeah I would not have understood that unless i had the previous experience of seeing it done.

  • @nunkibangtan07
    @nunkibangtan07 Рік тому +91

    I’m surprised you or anyone in this comment section is not mentioning BTOB’s Peniel. He I think has alopecia. So he often keeps his hair shaved or very short. He started losing hair after becoming an idol so he often talks about it

    • @o2gappy
      @o2gappy Рік тому +1

      omg i love peniel

  • @ricevid
    @ricevid Рік тому +281

    Ohhh Ed, I've been bleaching my hair for 12 years by the roots too. The only way to keep the hair healthy and strong while you bleach like crazy is with really good (often expensive products) and a really good hairdresser. I never attempt to do it myself.

    • @Treasure-bl3cn
      @Treasure-bl3cn Рік тому +2

      what products do you use? I'm intersested

    • @ricevid
      @ricevid Рік тому +5

      @@Treasure-bl3cn my steps are this. Olaplex #0 for 10 mins. Then Olaplex #3 for another 10 minutes. Don’t believe what they say about Olaplex being bad for your hair. Those women who are suing Olaplex are most likely allergic to ingredients that they didn’t know and also Olaplex is only meant for chemically damaged hair. It’s not meant for natural hair.
      Then I rinse off in the shower. And then use Kerastase Resistance Strengthening shampoo. Then Quantum sterling purple shampoo for no more than a minute. Then Kerastase Resistance strengthening conditioner for about a minute. Then Kerastase Resistant strengthening hair mask for 5-10 minutes. Then towel dry hair a bit. Then use Olaplex #6 leave in treatment before you blow dry with a round brush. Always blow dry with a round blush, never let it air dry. The blow dryer and brush helps to smooth out frizz. Then I top it off with Kerastase Hair treatment oil meant for blondes (it comes in a purple bottle). And then I only wash my hair once a week. Max twice a week if needed. In between I use the Verb dry shampoo meant for blonde hair and the Kerastase hair oil again.

    • @ilovethescript1000
      @ilovethescript1000 Рік тому +11

      I bleach my hair all the time all I do is use a protein mask and moisturizing masks often and I accept that my hair will never feel the same after bleaching it’s just the way it is 🙃

    • @caprisunsess1753
      @caprisunsess1753 Рік тому

      @@Treasure-bl3cn fr me too

    • @fagiolification11
      @fagiolification11 Рік тому +4

      ​@@Treasure-bl3cn mainly olaplex bond treatments, I guess

  • @TheDanielleHarmon
    @TheDanielleHarmon Рік тому +160

    I’m 28 and I have incredibly thin hair thanks to genetics and all the medication I take for my mental illnesses. My hair is a very big insecurity for me and I use colored dry shampoo to cover up how thin my hair is and it’s a pain in the ass. It’s messy and honestly kind of expensive to keep repurchasing. I hope one day beauty standards will evolve to not focus on hair as much, but until then I’m stuck trying to hide the fact that I’m “bald” and hating the way I look.

    • @Debicat777
      @Debicat777 Рік тому +6

      Hugs 🤗 You’re not alone

    • @goldensloth7
      @goldensloth7 Рік тому +4

      ahhh same! the lithium works but it's not great for my hair... ya win some, ya lose some.

    • @foufamess761
      @foufamess761 Рік тому

      Use henna

    • @sm1purplmurderedme583
      @sm1purplmurderedme583 10 місяців тому

      ur hair looks beautiful ❤

  • @sm1purplmurderedme583
    @sm1purplmurderedme583 10 місяців тому +20

    i have type 4 and my mum used to always relax my hair and she did it incorrectly and my hair became so damaged and unhealthy. this is when i big chopped at the beginning of COVID and let it grow for 3 years. i then had an afro which was what i loved because it was healthy. i then decided to relax it due to me learning how to care for it properly. my now relaxed hair is much healthier and thicker and i love it. we go to a salon to do it as they do it correctly and make my hair look great :). i make sure to relax my roots every like 5-6 months. i’ve had 2 relaxers so far and it grows EXCEPTIONALLY FAST. it’s probably genetics as my mum had super long hair when she was young (i’m nigerian yoruba).

  • @anjupanch2694
    @anjupanch2694 Рік тому +82

    This video hits a little too close to home for me 😓 I'm a teen from India and I have naturally fine hair. Up until a few years ago everything was fine, but recently I started losing a lott of hair which has made me rather insecure about my scalp showing. For a year now I've been doing scalp massages everyday, had a strict diet full of nutrients, my anxiety has also been less intrusive.
    It's so embarrassing to be honest....and I will be going to the dermatologist soon so hope I find the "root" cause of the problem
    .....

    • @SanC224
      @SanC224 Рік тому +3

      Dw, everything will b fine❤

  • @uNtando
    @uNtando Рік тому +185

    As a black woman I’ve completely lost my edges and wigs do more damage to the scalp. At this point I’m thinking of tattooing my edges😂😂😭

    • @froufroudeluxe
      @froufroudeluxe Рік тому +32

      That’s honestly such a good idea. There should be a more temporary form of tattooing so you can change it up when you want to try something new

    • @Foxy-ct4yn
      @Foxy-ct4yn Рік тому +10

      @@froufroudeluxe Henna?

    • @caramazzola2399
      @caramazzola2399 Рік тому +2

      Me too! Are you South African, Ntando? I'm in CT and I went for microblading on my eyebrows at a really good artist. I am considering asking them to fill in my hairline with the same technique

    • @uNtando
      @uNtando Рік тому +1

      @@caramazzola2399 yes I’m South African living in Durban. I think it’ll work using the microblading technique Yoh but I’m scared what if it looks bad🙈😂

    • @marybean2231
      @marybean2231 Рік тому +8

      There are custom temporary tattoo websites - You could make a few designs to test and then make a business out of it! I believe in you!!

  • @ratking927
    @ratking927 Рік тому +33

    My hair started to fall out in clumps due to a disease I have recently. I never realized how much I could hate my hair. It’s awful how many things bring us stress in our everyday life at this point

  • @mochi355
    @mochi355 Рік тому +27

    I wear a hairpiece at the top of my head all the time, the hardest part about it is that you have to do regular maintenance on it every 2 weeks so it continues to stick to your head and you have to clean it well to get rid of the glue. It also sheds as it ages so you will need to replace it every 6 months or so. The upside about it is that it was only after I started wearing the hairpiece that I started getting compliments about my appearance.

  • @GiGitteru
    @GiGitteru Рік тому +6

    6:27 "Ganja" is not a slur for bald people, it's just the literal translation of the word "bald".

  • @kippylily
    @kippylily Рік тому +140

    My bf started losing his hair during COVID and while he says he doesn’t care, I know it had some effects to his self esteem. I always remind him that he is still the most handsomest man in the world and that I fell in love with his personality!
    I find it super annoying that my single friends act like a man with no hair is the biggest deal breaker…we’re getting old, it’s part of life. I’ve met people with amazing hair but are complete a-holes so let’s stop with this vain Hollywood mindset!

  • @Shiro642
    @Shiro642 Рік тому +826

    I got a hair transplant, don’t care what hypocrites think. My hairline frames my face and brings out features

    • @eugenie8661
      @eugenie8661 Рік тому +89

      Great! I'm happy for you, you seem confident that's awesome

    • @erikas.6790
      @erikas.6790 Рік тому +60

      Good for you! I can totally understand watching in the mirror and not liking what you see, if there's a chance to get and feel better you have to take it

    • @naufrage0
      @naufrage0 Рік тому +7

      How much did it cost

    • @Shiro642
      @Shiro642 Рік тому +44

      @@naufrage0
      5K for the procedure

    • @weirdo8199
      @weirdo8199 Рік тому +15

      I'm planning to get in the future.

  • @Beanie--
    @Beanie-- Рік тому +29

    I honestly forgot you used to be a hair channel! I'm pretty sure that's how I found your channel too lol

  • @Slayoon
    @Slayoon Рік тому +207

    It wasn’t just Chaeryeong’s hair that made her glow up she also had a nose job which there is nothing wrong with.

    • @thedayhopeworldbroketheint7669
      @thedayhopeworldbroketheint7669 Рік тому

      I heard someone saying "weightloss is the best plastic surgery" and I think this is what happened to Chae. Plus stylists finally giving her a a good hair colour and better matching makeup.

    • @Slayoon
      @Slayoon Рік тому +40

      @@thedayhopeworldbroketheint7669 Weight loss doesn’t change the structure of someone’s nose. It’s very clear she had a nose job which again is perfectly fine most idols get PS. Just look at before and after pictures of her nose.

    • @thedayhopeworldbroketheint7669
      @thedayhopeworldbroketheint7669 Рік тому +1

      @@Slayoon There is a possibility that she had a surgery. Korean surgeons are on the top of the game when it comes to small changes that give a natural, amazing effect.

    • @ruiqi22
      @ruiqi22 Рік тому +17

      It honestly makes me a little sad when I see those comments, because while I see the glow up, I also feel guilty for finding her new face prettier bc I don’t want her or anyone else to feel like they need to change their appearance to be appreciated :(

    • @thedayhopeworldbroketheint7669
      @thedayhopeworldbroketheint7669 Рік тому +2

      @@trinitym5552 Yes this is what kpop is all about - looks and looks. It's heartbreaking that young people are forced to have surgeries (either by company or high expectations of fans) before they have a chance to grow into their looks in their 20's.

  • @Prinren
    @Prinren Рік тому +2

    Yay you’re talking about this! It’s so true tbh. There’s such a difference and in art you often think about this as a way to proportion your characters, but it works in real life too.

  • @arnold-shortsnigga
    @arnold-shortsnigga Рік тому +26

    "so take a look at my hair"
    "ooh"
    "I use my hair to express myself"
    "that sounds really boring"
    🔫"I use my hair to express myself"

  • @SwimGrizzly
    @SwimGrizzly Рік тому +31

    I’ve been balding for a few years, actually depressing as hell

    • @TheSamasi
      @TheSamasi Рік тому +3

      Use rosemary oil!

    • @weirdo8199
      @weirdo8199 Рік тому +7

      @@TheSamasi no oil works with androgenic alopecia

    • @amordesdemona
      @amordesdemona Рік тому +1

      minoxidil is the only thing known to work for MPB as far as I know

  • @TragicHeroine_
    @TragicHeroine_ Рік тому +49

    You should check out Liang Sen who was on the Chinese idol survival show Youth With You Season 3! He was the only bald contestant on the show and everyone finds him incredibly handsome. Even though he did get eliminated in the end he maintained a high ranking throughout the entire show, often took center position, and even ranked 2nd at one point :)

  • @carolinatorres7575
    @carolinatorres7575 Рік тому +113

    I've always complained about how much hair I have since I get headaches when I put it up (even with short hair) and I cant leave it down or grow it out since it's just too voluminous.
    My mom always said she was jealous of how much hair I had since she has fine straight hair. I've learned to not take it for granted, even though I do wish I had less hair.. 🤷‍♀️

    • @Jess-Rabbit
      @Jess-Rabbit Рік тому +17

      You can always get your hair thinned out if it bothers you. Although I will say getting my hair thinned was one of the worst things I've ever done because I keep trying to grow it out one long length without cutting it and its damn near impossible

    • @audriiiiroberts3030
      @audriiiiroberts3030 Рік тому

      @@Jess-Rabbit same it like ruined my hair when I was younger lol

    • @TinyGhosty
      @TinyGhosty Рік тому +5

      I feel similar. My hair is really thick and frizzy that I have to have it long for the weight to pull the hair down into a semi straight look. If it is too short it is unmanageable and barely manageable when longer. I had an undercut for 4 or 5 years and it was soooooo nice. It helped a lot with the weight on my head/neck and with overall having thinner hair, but I did start growing it out because I missed a full ponytail look. If you don't mind keeping up with an undercut and how it looks it is a great option.

    • @carolinatorres7575
      @carolinatorres7575 Рік тому +1

      @@Jess-Rabbit I have before, it's not enough 😅 the hair stylist told me to have it thinned out every time I go have it cut.

    • @dragonsstars7734
      @dragonsstars7734 Рік тому +8

      You can get an undercut if you want, one of my friends with a huge amount of hair got it and she said it felt pretty good

  • @coldtaboo
    @coldtaboo Рік тому +11

    This topic is super interesting! Most people aren’t able to pinpoint it but a high cranial top has such a huge influence on beauty

  • @joeblack5393
    @joeblack5393 Рік тому +6

    Samurai regular from the Edo period. You made me spill my coffee sir. Funny. I love your sense of humor and delivery.

  • @joyjoin862
    @joyjoin862 Рік тому +14

    i’ve been a supporter of yours for years now, it’s always exciting to watch your new videos. i have yet to finish this video, but i’m sure it’ll be good.

  • @cebilenkabinde1493
    @cebilenkabinde1493 Рік тому +6

    I refuse to believe the statement "oh its just hair" for me it's much more that....

  • @LadyPrincessDiana
    @LadyPrincessDiana Рік тому +9

    On the topic of rare bald celebrities in Asia, I can't believe Peniel from BtoB and his alopecia weren't mentioned!

    • @SOLOTUYA
      @SOLOTUYA Рік тому

      Chanyeol red hair had a large bald spot at the top of his head. Very visible, but I didn’t see it here either 😢

  • @rochellerodriguez6431
    @rochellerodriguez6431 Рік тому +10

    I have been having hair loss issues due to a medical condition and korean hair powders have been a godsend for my confidence. A lot of them are fairly water resistant too so things like sweating or a rainy day don't mess them up. For anyone in a similar position I swear by the Toppik hair building fibers. Also pigmented dry shampoo helps a ton too

  • @urasai101
    @urasai101 Рік тому +7

    My dad has a hair piece that is glued on to his head. To answer your question it is not glued on forever. He can take a shower and wash his hair but every few months, he has to go back to the salon to get it reglued on to his head.

  • @RentaroSatomi_Enju
    @RentaroSatomi_Enju Рік тому +1

    Your videos are literally my morning tea every time ☕thanks once again for making it interesting :)

  • @personneici2595
    @personneici2595 Рік тому +1

    I've always been terrified of bleach but I did temporary colour once in my teens. It's fun to be able to change your hair but pressure from others sure bites. Great video. ❤

  • @lucituci97
    @lucituci97 Рік тому +92

    I have black natural 4C hair and taking care of it is a PAIN

    • @heykayrenee_
      @heykayrenee_ Рік тому +8

      I’m still learning how to do it and to be patient with myself when it comes to dealing with it. 🙏🏾

    • @patricehomer4179
      @patricehomer4179 Рік тому +7

      4c haired people always gonna let everyone know how hard having it is.

    • @CaraMarie13
      @CaraMarie13 Рік тому +3

      Mine is 3C and I chopped it off. Like that was too much work on top of the fact that it got tangled the moment its wet and i lost of a lot of hair undoing those knots.

    • @allMinabe
      @allMinabe Рік тому +4

      It doesn't have to be a pain, just be gentle to it.♥

    • @prettyrat.
      @prettyrat. Рік тому +32

      @@patricehomer4179 you when people people with different hair mention that their hair is different 😡🥶😡🤯😳😳😭😭🤭😢🫣🤯🫣🫠🫠👹👹😱😱🤯🫣👺👺🤯🤯🤬🤬🤬

  • @Jun_o.2
    @Jun_o.2 Рік тому +59

    As a korean going to a school where the uniform policy isn't strict when it comes to hair, 50% of the people i've seen around the school has either bleached hair or dyed it a different color. Some are the safer darker colors, others are bright pink, blonde, dirty blonde (mind you the dudes that bleach and dye their hair blonde, their hair has been like that for like 3 years already).
    Theres only ONE bald dude in the school and kudos to him because he is an icon in the fuckin school lmao

  • @ghkncdgnjvx
    @ghkncdgnjvx Рік тому

    CONGRATS ON 700K 🎉❤💓💜💙💚💛🧡
    thanks for existing, we love you!!!!!!

  • @denzelellis8470
    @denzelellis8470 Рік тому +2

    LOVE YOUR CHANNEL!

  • @oogaboogass
    @oogaboogass Рік тому +2

    5:14Dear peachie omg!!! Their content is actually so good and helpful!!!

  • @noel-ts3jr
    @noel-ts3jr Рік тому +21

    Feeling so enlightened rn with my buzzcut. Like I've transcended the hairy mortal realm.

  • @hatch2141
    @hatch2141 Рік тому +98

    honestly i really feel for ppl who lose their hair and cant do anything about it. 2-3 years ago i was steadily losing my hair from stress, genetics and a hormone imbalance. i even lost an inch on my hairline and several inches near my temples along with extreme thinning all around. it caused me so much intense distress at the thought of losing all my hair that i would throw up regularly. but i count myself really lucky that i have been able to grow my hair back including my old receding hairline naturally. i cant imagine the pain of seeking or being unable to seek medical intervention for something that is so permanent as balding
    edit: heres what i did for those asking!! sorry it took 3 weeks to notice the inquires in the replies :,>
    I used rosemary oil treatments! It can be homemade or you can find others who make it though it can be pricey. If you do some research there's a track record of it helping improve hair growth. Make sure you massage it gently into your scalp focussing on the problem areas. Dont use too much as a little goes a long way. Depending on your hair type it can be left in overnight or only a few hours.
    20 minutes before a shower where you wash your hair, take a silicone exfoliation brush to your scalp or any kind of comb that wont be too harsh on your skin. Rotate in small gentle circles all around your head. This will loosen up any dried skin that is clogging your hair follicles as well as promote growth. If you have long hair and tie it up regularly, switch to using scrunchies as opposed to regular hair elastics to prevent ripping out hair and causing tension to the scalp.
    Dont give up on your journey! It takes a while to notice the growth. Take pictures of your hair as it is now to look back on later to see improvements!

    • @alexamuhlach9951
      @alexamuhlach9951 Рік тому +4

      Can you share how you did it?

    • @shimaisaak4004
      @shimaisaak4004 Рік тому +2

      Yeah how did you grew back? I am suffering from the same thing rn

    • @kuto_ni
      @kuto_ni Рік тому +1

      so how did you fix it? help a fellow balding sister pls, before I lose all the hair I have left.

    • @deborahdaniel1432
      @deborahdaniel1432 Рік тому +1

      How'd you do that? 😭 share your secrets ̄へ ̄

    • @nourdinnourdin447
      @nourdinnourdin447 Рік тому

      ​@@alexamuhlach9951 take biotin 10000mcg 1 pill a day and 1 iron pill a day it will grow your hair back fully

  • @cloudanimal5209
    @cloudanimal5209 Рік тому

    I love the way you talk, your voice is comforting

  • @fawshu
    @fawshu 2 місяці тому

    Ok that ad transition was SO clean

  • @biljam972
    @biljam972 Рік тому +11

    My dad started losing his hair as early as 18! And he had great, thick, quality hair. He never got over it, but at one point he just gave up and shaved his head, and still does shave it bald. I think tt's just less hassle than having "a thinning half ring of hair".

  • @yaniecute1234
    @yaniecute1234 Рік тому +11

    I have thin hair. And when im stressed, i get bald spots. Its been 2yrs since the last bald spot. I stopped coloring my hair for 7yrs already. I only shampoo my hair thrice a week. Avoided heat from curling iron as much as possible. I studied my face shape and learned how i can style my hair without using heat and chemicals. You just have to make some effort to make yourself feel confident/comfortable because no one will do it for you.

  • @vociferonheraldofthewinter2284

    My beloved groom is so lucky. He started losing his hair in his 20's. By 30 he had the monk's bare dome look going strong. He finally embraced it and went for the shaved glow up.
    Well, he's a powerlifter with a glorious beard. That bald head upped his sexy points to eleven and now he just looks awesome and scary. Truly love it.

  • @oO0Lauren0Oo
    @oO0Lauren0Oo Рік тому

    His vids are fr so enjoyable to watch

  • @neoneor
    @neoneor Рік тому +22

    I've been bleaching dying my hair 2-3 times a year for the last 6 years and honestly, my hair is completely fine. But for Kpop idols it's probably different, because they naturally have darker, most of the time black, hair, so they must use stronger bleach. I imagine that's why their hair is so fried x.x
    I think this must be why all brown and black hair is back in now for groups haha.

    • @tdelioncourt1268
      @tdelioncourt1268 Рік тому +21

      not only the color and dye, but hairstyling everyday is bad (blowouts, irons, hairspray, tight ponytails, extensions)

    • @neoneor
      @neoneor Рік тому +5

      @@tdelioncourt1268 true. everytime I see the really tight ponytail I cringe...ouch

  • @Adrastia
    @Adrastia Рік тому +11

    I have lupus and suffer from off and on hair loss. I recently recovered from traumatic hair loss. I was prescribed betamethasone and it worked better than anything else I ever used. I didn't use wigs or anything. I actually hate the sensation of things on my head. But I did use an umbrella and sunscreen. I felt awful for months because of what happened. When my hair started growing back I was so happy to actually part it again. It's really bad for women because society doesn't accept us with hair loss. People tend to forget that we also can lose hair.

  • @maeverobertson1108
    @maeverobertson1108 Місяць тому

    I really enjoy your channel. You always have interesting topics.

  • @pinappleaye2455
    @pinappleaye2455 Рік тому

    Love your content and your voice is so calming lol

  • @secretlybees
    @secretlybees Рік тому +57

    I've been losing my hair for a while, but more than ever recently. I bought a wig that looks just like my natural hair, color and texture. When I put it on, I look 16! I am NOT 16. But yeah, everyone thinks I look younger. It's so upsetting! I'm not even 30, but my hair loss ages me D:
    I can't wear the wig regularly. It's too uncomfortable and hot, but I feel so much more confident with it! I just want to have healthy hair. I'm not a man, so it's especially rough and like, unexpected

  • @eebee8052
    @eebee8052 Рік тому +8

    ever since i was a kid, going to get haircuts there's always hairdressers who recommends me (or my mom) to get my hair straightened. the women on my mom's side of the family genetically have very thick, full hair that would get a lot of frizz with the tropical climate here. so often we would depend on oils/creams to manage our hair.
    i am now 29, and recently went to get a haircut, and for the first time ever i had a hairdresser who figured out that my hair was actually curly/wavy! and she knew how to handle my hair! she brought out the curls and its volume, and OMG. for the first time ever i felt so happy to see my hair so differently done! now i know how to take care of my hair, use appropriate shampoo/conditioner types that's formulated for my kind of hair. i finally feel comfortable with how it looks, even with the frizz!

    • @darknightmare7281
      @darknightmare7281 9 місяців тому

      I do have the same problem as you so can you recommend some products and useful tips if that is fine with you

  • @skypuppeteer
    @skypuppeteer Місяць тому +1

    This is everyone's friendly reminder that you can donate hair! I did this for the first time during December of 2022, and since then I have been growing my hair out again to try and donate it as well (with it being summer now, there's a fat chance I might just go for the shorter allowed donation amount, because this length is driving me crazy, along with taking care of it. I get really bad knots and tangling constantly, and it gets worse when it gets longer; I have to use a $30+ detangler, as it's the only thing that works for getting out those knots, and I end up using so much because of my hair's length 😭)
    It'll likely take a bit of searching online to find locations near you, or ones you can easily ship a baggie of your hair in to, and also to find any barbers or hair stylists that can help you, but honestly it's so worth it. You can get a nice hair cut and free up your head after growing out that much hair, and the hair that gets cut off isn't wasted, and can go to someone who would greatly benefit from it. (Here around the Great Lakes area, I donated my hair to Wigs4Kids in Michigan, if that may be useful knowledge for anyone else)

  • @KmChx_MX
    @KmChx_MX Рік тому

    This was super informative! I’m glad this is being addressed!

  • @bellarina
    @bellarina Рік тому +36

    Our brains are coded to be considering hair 😅 it should not affect someone's career! But we cannot choose what we find attractive 🙈 I'm a girl and I'm using minoxidil to fix my hairline just because I don't like how it naturally looks 😅 also hair fibres in spray! 😀 great stuff!

    • @stay1080
      @stay1080 Рік тому +2

      how's that working out for you? I hear it takes 6 months up to a year to see any tangible results 🥹 I've been thinking of trying that as well

    • @bellarina
      @bellarina Рік тому +4

      @@stay1080 My hair was always kinda there, just in a form of tiny fuzz, and when I started using the minoxidil spray, I noticed it like after little over a month as the hair was growing and looking like "regular" hair so it optically filled up the area. The ends are also just new growth and not trimmed so the onset is so natural and for me, the areas at the front filled up but were not weird and obvious, and I was so happy. The product I got also said it can take up to 4 months to notice, but my hair grows fairly fast anyway.
      The first week it did itch like crazy and I got a few spots, but not like any severe allergic reaction or swelling, so I kept going. To my self-image, it really does make all the difference 😊
      (also helps regrow overplucked eyebrows!)

  • @abyss5874
    @abyss5874 Рік тому +5

    SHOUTOUT TO EDVASIANS HAIR FOR STAYING ALIVE ❤❤❤❤

  • @teatea1115
    @teatea1115 Рік тому

    Ad transition was smooth AF

  • @axelsgf
    @axelsgf Рік тому +1

    its true that hair can change by how you treat it, i have natural curls and once i cut it really short, dyed it and change hair products my hair has become more loose, i still have my curls but it definitely changed to how it used to look but many still love to mess with my hair.

  • @vubsi
    @vubsi Рік тому +11

    A few years ago I started plucking my hair because of stress without even reslly thinking about it. It was just a few strands a day so I thought it wasn’t noticeable until a friend of mine took a picture of me from above on a trip, and I had a huge bald spot on the back of my head 😭 I had been blissfully unaware of it for months because no one around me dared to say anything, but damn was I embarrassed of it. Now my friends have promised to mention if a similar bald spot appears again

  • @skiski2485
    @skiski2485 Рік тому +9

    thanks for covering Indian hair ! We are usually forgotten.

  • @diegoguisa4768
    @diegoguisa4768 Рік тому +6

    Im currently loosing my hair and I’m only 22 (male) and I can say that it absolutely has killed any self confidence I have j wanna cry when I look in the mirror

  • @lizvalentine1811
    @lizvalentine1811 Рік тому +3

    “Those strands are hanging on for their dear life.” You are amazing.

  • @antobutera
    @antobutera Рік тому +13

    I have long, thick hair and still sometimes I think about shaving it all off and using a high quality wig instead so I don't have to deal with the pain in the butt of keeping it looking soft, shiny and frizz-less.

    • @bleaktripod3266
      @bleaktripod3266 Рік тому +1

      Just cut it short and get a devolumizing cut. You dont need to shave it off

  • @Maks-se8pn
    @Maks-se8pn Рік тому +8

    When I was a kid I had really thick almost wig like hair with no visible scalp and all that, then my hair started thinning when I was 22 and it was one of the worst experiences I had body wise I was panicking so much I spent a lot of money for different hairloss stopping procedures and taking hormonal blockers. Idk if it worked or my body just evened it out naturally bc the process stopped and I don't have any bald patches on my head only my hair is not as thick anymore. The worst part was that ppl around me (even medical professionals i went to seeking help) said I'm shallow and I should act like a man and not care about even that i would look more like a man if I shaved my head. I like having hair so it really shattered my confidence and everyone would just make me feel even worse about it.

  • @fairchan67
    @fairchan67 9 місяців тому

    I started watching you last night. Now. it's 09:55 UK time. You are an eye opener. The world is really a platform for amazing people, with so many plethora of unexpected behavior. I am laughing like crazy.

  • @blushface
    @blushface Рік тому +10

    "in Hindi, you are called /ganja/"
    *stoney giggle*

  • @BambiLena666
    @BambiLena666 Рік тому +7

    Ok the hair definitelly helped but cmon Chae from Itzy absolutely had plastic surgery done. She definitely had her nose done and idk if she had buccal fat removal or some bone structuring because her cheekbones and jaw are waaay more sharp now.

  • @mocinhatrampante
    @mocinhatrampante Рік тому

    Thank you love and pies for sponsoring my favorite youtube creator, and helping him to buy bleach. I was actually missing a cellphone game for situations of a reception, or waiting on a line. You re in my phone now.

  • @erikad0511
    @erikad0511 Рік тому +1

    We've got that "hairline powder" compact in the US, looks the same but here it's marketed more to cover grays

  • @giki42
    @giki42 Рік тому +9

    This made me think of Chenle from NCT. He is constantly showing fans his bald spots from over-bleaching, and him doing it really upsets Jisung who keeps trying to protect Chenle's image.

    • @TheAkumaChan
      @TheAkumaChan Рік тому +1

      Isn’t he only 20 😱 SM free Chenle from his bleaching. He looks perfectly fine with black hair. But ngl, I literally imagined him in blond, pink, and green hair when he was mentioned.

  • @allMinabe
    @allMinabe Рік тому +9

    One thing I love about my hair is that it rarely sheds.

  • @user-tu3ol6yh8p
    @user-tu3ol6yh8p Рік тому

    Brooooo I can’t believe you’re almost at a million subs. I been watching since the beginning

  • @K.Arashi
    @K.Arashi Рік тому +2

    yea, i've been losing a lot of hair this past year due to illness, and it's done a number on my self-esteem, in addition to other changes to my body. to the point i don't want to leave the house because i don't want anyone to see me

  • @foggyfrogy
    @foggyfrogy Рік тому +7

    ,,it protects you scalp from sunburn''
    meanwhile my head starting to burn because of my dark hair

  • @paxton9299
    @paxton9299 Рік тому +4

    I have had experience with hair loss since the pandemic with diffuse thinning. It's my senior year of high school now and the right side of my hairline is slightly creeping back. It's not terrible at all- my hair is still manageable, but man, does it suck to be losing hair at such a young age. I'm on finasteride and minoxidil so hopefully I can get some regrowth or at least stabilize further loss.

  • @hannahshark8080
    @hannahshark8080 Рік тому +2

    Dear Peachie is great at explaining visual tricks and 'illusions' to enhance beauty without surgery. Their videos are really interesting.

  • @maribaka93
    @maribaka93 Рік тому

    I cut my hair recently, got bangs and it makes so much difference!!!

  • @coolbeans5911
    @coolbeans5911 Рік тому +3

    i have thin ass blonde hair with balding spots and it's been such a knock to my self confidence for years, but especially this last year. I feel sick and ugly looking at my hair and i honestly feel so hopeless about it cuz hair products are expensive and it takes too much time out of the day to style it in a smart way so it doesn't look so bad. I didn't realise my hair would make me feel so horrible later in life but here we are. It's a sensitive topic for a lot of people