This Asian Obsessed Couple is the Worst (90 Day Fiancé)

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    After investing, time, money and effort into scrolling through hours of TLC footage i’m hit with some sad news that the Naruto cosplayer and her Asian Prince’s relationship might not work out. Long story short Ella blamed her boyfriend for not coming to visit her all the way from China so she invited her friend over and became a cheater, and not in the video game kind of way. I ironically shipped this couple together at first cause it was silly and goofy. Who knew Ella would gaslight, gatekeep and girlboss ninjutsu johnny into taking the blame for her actions. This is why we can’t have nice ships in reality tv. Guess I’ll be doom scrolling on Tiktok for 3 hours. Here’s my commentary and reaction to this disaster of a situation. This Asian Obsessed Couple is the Worst, 90 Day Fiancé Before the 90 Days #edvasian

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  • @graysonspaw8661
    @graysonspaw8661 2 роки тому +11380

    Wow, she's so immature! Dating someone isn't just about having a person around, it's about mutual love. She doesn't love Johnny, she loves the idea of Johnny.

    • @georginaabi-hanna2670
      @georginaabi-hanna2670 2 роки тому +528

      And because he’s asain 😂

    • @lijo4518
      @lijo4518 2 роки тому +264

      Yea whatever Asian guy she can get 🤨🤔☹️

    • @jeongout1092
      @jeongout1092 2 роки тому +412

      She really was only interested in him bc he's Asian, that's 💀

    • @beexv8857
      @beexv8857 2 роки тому +39

      Exactly, well put

    • @lisbeth341
      @lisbeth341 2 роки тому +62

      @@georginaabi-hanna2670 that itself is the "idea" lmao

  • @jackiechan4AAR
    @jackiechan4AAR 2 роки тому +867

    His face when she admitted to cheating was heartbreaking. That poor guy has so much stress on him

    • @jungkooklo903
      @jungkooklo903 10 місяців тому +18

      For real, he didn't deserve that, he went through all that trouble, and for what, only to get cheated, poor dude 😔

  • @helgmelia84
    @helgmelia84 2 роки тому +4663

    Oh my gosh, this woman is ridiculous. She is not ready for a relationship. She needs to do a lot of work first. Johnny: RUN!

    • @Baldjotarokujo
      @Baldjotarokujo 2 роки тому +19

      Bro she needa start the entire company first (she's the company)

    • @lesha6531
      @lesha6531 2 роки тому

      looking at her im pretty sure she needs a run every now and then

    • @yumeka__
      @yumeka__ 2 роки тому +12

      I am afraid for this type the work never gets done... not without intense intervention. Case in point, the 50+ year old woman who fell madly in love with a guy - first guy she ever dated actually - and went on and on about him to me (we barely knew each other, just same gym). I would listen and sometimes offer input. He turned out to be abusive. They divorced (I got to hear the story at several month intervals - felt like watching a kdrama cause so much happened since the last "episode"). After the divorce she met a guy who was "totally different" after she said she would never date again. How is she doing now? I do not know cause I moved countries and she never really showed interest in my life so I didn't make and effort to get contact info... but I hope she is fine

    • @helgmelia84
      @helgmelia84 2 роки тому +3

      @@yumeka__ Oh wow, I hope she is fine, too. It must’ve been exhausting and stressful for you to be caught in the middle of that.

    • @shannonodea8432
      @shannonodea8432 Рік тому

      This was great until: RUN

  • @tommywiseauimpersonator
    @tommywiseauimpersonator 2 роки тому +325

    "I feel really bad now." Only NOW? Did she not feel bad about cheating before she told him??? Ella is exposing herself as a bunch of red flags in cosplay and Johnny should run.

  • @EXXTREMEGAMER5600
    @EXXTREMEGAMER5600 2 роки тому +6562

    Honestly johnny is a sweet guy, when I found out ella cheated on him I was heartbroken. She only liked him in the first place because she fetishized him for being asian, and now she’s gaslighting johnny. You can tell this is gonna fail badly

    • @blumeiworld
      @blumeiworld 2 роки тому +205

      the faster Johnny gets out the better

    • @JennaSakura
      @JennaSakura 2 роки тому +62

      I watch 90 day fiancé. And Johnny wants to buy Ella a ring AFTER she cheated on him! Why can’t I find a guy like that??? 🤣

    • @crypticcorvid
      @crypticcorvid 2 роки тому +211

      @@JennaSakura 🤨📸

    • @ReptilianTeaDrinker
      @ReptilianTeaDrinker 2 роки тому +132

      Johnny needs to RUN from her and quick! She is a toxic person and I feel so bad for him.

    • @elenhin
      @elenhin 2 роки тому +40

      How the hell can someone cheat on Johnny. Or anyone for that matter. Disgusting. :(

  • @zuzanka9998
    @zuzanka9998 11 місяців тому +77

    i love how she is crying, have a full tantrum and the music is like 💃🏻🕺🏻💃🏻🕺🏻

  • @PrincessNeise
    @PrincessNeise 2 роки тому +2968

    If she knows that she wants a physical connection , then why did she decide to date someone in a different country? She should've just dated someone closer to home.

    • @koobie83
      @koobie83 2 роки тому +246

      Because she didn’t. She made it up to pay him back and cause him pain for refusing to do what she wanted.
      Toddler tactics 101

    • @hinatamercury
      @hinatamercury 2 роки тому +43

      Dating local guys didn't work for her? sooooo...

    • @MagisterialVoyager
      @MagisterialVoyager 2 роки тому +111

      I suppose it’s because of her need to find “true“ Asian man?

    • @ongdesiree
      @ongdesiree 2 роки тому +19

      she likes asian men

    • @whitneyluvlife
      @whitneyluvlife 2 роки тому +19

      Exactly like why not date the guy she sexed and cheated on him with🤷🤦....you clearly have a sex buddy on speed dail

  • @nightshade6433
    @nightshade6433 2 роки тому +97

    That guy seems too sweet and reasonable. He deserves WAY better. I hate to see that he's being manipulated by someone who doesn't even love him, she just wants a boyfriend to say she has one and can't even be bothered to wait. True love doesn't have a time limit of 7 months.

  • @Iblistriggerr
    @Iblistriggerr 2 роки тому +5385

    I'm genuinely angry on behalf of that man, how is she gonna be like "oops haha I fucked someone and I'm only telling you this now bc you won't see me for good reasons, but I still didn't mean to" hearing him say he didn't fulfil his part of the relationship when he couldn't because he has adult things to take care of made me so sad.

    • @Pinkpinkybear
      @Pinkpinkybear 2 роки тому +66

      She's a disgusting pig! Manipulating and extremely selfish. Gosh I wish that nobody has that type of person in their lives!

    • @Kairibeachga
      @Kairibeachga 2 роки тому +198

      She's a narcissist for sure. She is not in love with him she just lusts him, and for her to play the victim makes me wanna throw up

    • @silverstorm1000
      @silverstorm1000 2 роки тому +98

      Yeah it pissed me off because she talks like it is an accident but I mean, if you're upset at your boyfriend and invite a man over to your home (especially if you're attracted to that man) that's pretty sus. I think she invited that friend because she wanted to have sex with him.

    • @ashassassin
      @ashassassin 2 роки тому +38

      Yeah it's sad. You can't help but feel so bad for him. I hope he finds someone much more suitable for him and his family.

    • @Ryuuko-chan
      @Ryuuko-chan 2 роки тому +9

      @@Pinkpinkybear ahaha I *almost* got one like her for life...🙃 I didn't realise he was manipulating me until I read some articles about toxic relationships and spoke with a friend that told me after that someone wrote in a group "oh his trying to manipulate her girlfriend into believing that what he's doing is right and not leaving him even tho he has already cheated on her from day one"

  • @SunsetEnvy
    @SunsetEnvy Рік тому +41

    "I love him but I can't wait forever" well if you did you WOULD WAIT

  • @Liltwilightprincess2
    @Liltwilightprincess2 2 роки тому +2719

    IS THIS GIRL SERIOUS!?!? OMG!! Johnny needs to just cut ties! Ella is too much of a risk and is too emotionally immature for a relationship!

    • @lijo4518
      @lijo4518 2 роки тому +41

      Especially for a 29 yr old

    • @Liltwilightprincess2
      @Liltwilightprincess2 2 роки тому +76

      @@lijo4518 right!? Seriously the gas lighting, the cheating, the pure manipulation, entitlement, audacity of this woman is unbelievable. She is red flag toxic queen

    • @krakenemoji
      @krakenemoji 2 роки тому +41

      @@lijo4518 Wait, she’s only 29? She looks way older… wow.

    • @lijo4518
      @lijo4518 2 роки тому +17

      IKR...def looks like late 30s

    • @ThexDynastxQueen
      @ThexDynastxQueen 2 роки тому +9

      I didn't realize this whole time I was older than her .__.

  • @Atetrigrams
    @Atetrigrams 9 місяців тому +20

    Whenever I hear somebody say that they hate seeing couples & are extremely envious because they’re lonely & don’t have anybody..I instantly become worried for their next partner because there’s going to be some sort of toxicity that revolves around them not wanting to lose that person.

  • @krystinay
    @krystinay 2 роки тому +3202

    Ella: "Physical touch is so important to me"
    Also Ella: "Let me find my Asian anime Boi from the other side of the world because there couldn't possibly be anyone in America"
    Also, she smirked the entire time she was telling him she was cheating on him and asking if he was mad. UA-cam guidelines prevent me from saying what I actually think.

    • @koobie83
      @koobie83 2 роки тому +57

      Say it.
      She made it up. She’s lying. She’s sociopathic.

    • @xChijouChanx
      @xChijouChanx 2 роки тому +167

      She's lying to try and force his hand

    • @yaboinoodle6878
      @yaboinoodle6878 2 роки тому +46

      @@koobie83 she should lose some weight

    • @edenkun01
      @edenkun01 2 роки тому +258

      @@yaboinoodle6878 this has nothing to do with her shitty behavior.

    • @feedmewithhate
      @feedmewithhate 2 роки тому +47

      @@edenkun01 true, but she still should

  • @atlashawke5036
    @atlashawke5036 2 роки тому +83

    She is so obsessed with herself and her needs she really don't consider he might be longing just as much but DIDN'T cheat. Wow.

  • @madelinehernandez2280
    @madelinehernandez2280 2 роки тому +2306

    As an adult who has been working with children recently, she is absolutely throwing a temper tantrum.

    • @koobie83
      @koobie83 2 роки тому +23

      Bingo. She lied about cheating just to make him feel pain because she feels he’s deliberately causing her pain by refusing to come to the USA.

    • @jennyp43
      @jennyp43 2 роки тому +69

      as someone who works in child care, she is definitely throwing a temper tantrum

    • @babieangeljeno1656
      @babieangeljeno1656 2 роки тому +11

      LMAOOO

    • @xaquariix
      @xaquariix 2 роки тому +43

      I'm a teacher, my students have more maturity than her !

    • @Suggiemomma8
      @Suggiemomma8 2 роки тому +13

      As a person who's mother ran an in-home daycare for 14 years, she is for sure throwing a tantrum.

  • @94x100karen
    @94x100karen 2 роки тому +219

    She's just too pretentious and egoist.
    Johnny feels like such a sweet guy, but really lonely and insecure about himself.
    I feel so sorry for both of them.

    • @CordeliaWagner
      @CordeliaWagner Рік тому +26

      I don't feel sorry for her.
      She is just another bad person that abuses him.

  • @mammonslifesupport2609
    @mammonslifesupport2609 2 роки тому +1364

    She's definitely victimizing herself, Johnny is the real victim. If anything she is severally gaslighting him, fetishizing him and basically inlove with the idea that shes in a relationship. She doesn't love him, she loves the idea of dating her "asian prince."

    • @yourstrulycam
      @yourstrulycam 2 роки тому +19

      THIS.

    • @alleyes4niyaa
      @alleyes4niyaa 2 роки тому +28

      If she wanted an Asian bf so bad, just find someone near you… There are plenty of AA’s (Asian Americans) in america

    • @Moi_81
      @Moi_81 Рік тому +6

      ​@@alleyes4niyaaOr just not fetishize because it is racist.

  • @indiemacabre9777
    @indiemacabre9777 2 роки тому +584

    Imagine looking and acting like that and ALSO being a gaslighting, racist cheater?
    Pick a struggle.

    • @bethanychatman9531
      @bethanychatman9531 11 місяців тому +28

      It's nothing wrong with the way she looks. She looks fine, it's her immaturity that's a problem.

    • @M123Xoxo
      @M123Xoxo 8 місяців тому

      @@bethanychatman9531 Um she's like 300 pounds over weight. She looks bad

    • @LaNoir.
      @LaNoir. 4 місяці тому

      ...racist?

  • @ambersmith2612
    @ambersmith2612 2 роки тому +663

    Imagine cheating on someone and then CRYING to guilt trip him into thinking it was his fault... " I feel really bad now" YOU SHOULD FEEL BAD

    • @lijo4518
      @lijo4518 Рік тому +6

      " I love him but I can't wait forever " cry me a river 🫣

  • @alipennington3764
    @alipennington3764 2 роки тому +33

    The part that really gets to me is how he's STILL trying to care about her feelings and be uplifting when you can clearly hear how much pain he's in and how upset he is 😢😢
    That's absolutely heartbreaking 💔💔💔

  • @keomeow1936
    @keomeow1936 2 роки тому +4646

    This lady is repulsive, not because of her appearance or anything, but I can't stand when people cheat and turn it into "I'm the victim, you MADE me cheat"

    • @yumeka__
      @yumeka__ 2 роки тому +214

      "not because of her appearance or anything" hahaha. It doesn't help all the other stuff when you see her actual face crying and acting like she's the one being hurt.

    • @suzyocean7392
      @suzyocean7392 2 роки тому +71

      Both

    • @butterfliesarefreetofly6964
      @butterfliesarefreetofly6964 2 роки тому +45

      Exactly!!! Shes a cheater!!

    • @ShutupandListen
      @ShutupandListen 2 роки тому +50

      It’s both😭

    • @sylnalise2242
      @sylnalise2242 2 роки тому +109

      I can't stand gaslighting, makes me so angry, we all choose our actions, sex does not just happened and cuddling with another man? Anyway...

  • @katc.6620
    @katc.6620 2 роки тому +15

    It honestly sickens me how she immediately starts "getting emotional" after causing him pain. Her sitting there to gaslight him after cheating is emotionally abusive. Poor Johnny was scrambling to figure out how to prove himself whilst still trying to be responsible. This relationship needs to end and hopefully it has.

  • @vvickedvvitch7550
    @vvickedvvitch7550 2 роки тому +15

    Ella really needs help on so many levels. I felt sympathy for her in the beginning, but after the whole, “I cheated on you & it’s your fault because you’re selfish” during a pandemic bit, I tapped out HARD.

  • @LioMurdest
    @LioMurdest 2 роки тому +22

    I love how she ALWAYS facetimes her stomach or just unaware of the front camera working 🤣 Not the first time, I believe.

  • @vg1384
    @vg1384 2 роки тому +605

    when this series started, I thought he was in it for the green card and she had an asian fetish but now I think no green card is worth this toxicity and he genuinely likes her which is so much worse

    • @fuchurZero
      @fuchurZero 2 роки тому +89

      He is hardly in this for a Green Card. He looks after his parents, I don’t think he would leave them. Besides: Which reasons does he have for wanting a Green Card? He has his job, his parents, his son and his friends….I am not sure he is willing to give this up

    • @vg1384
      @vg1384 2 роки тому +11

      @@fuchurZero yeah that's what I'm saying. It was my original thoughts but they have changed

    • @fuchurZero
      @fuchurZero 2 роки тому +39

      @@vg1384 sry, I didnt get the meaning while first reading it, you are right. Besides: not everyone wants to live in the US. There are better places in the world to live. I couldn’t imagine living in the States. The political and economic situation is too toxic IMHO

    • @vg1384
      @vg1384 2 роки тому +17

      @@fuchurZero omg I would never live in the states either

    • @monicaprzestrzelski4677
      @monicaprzestrzelski4677 2 роки тому +8

      Don’t forget social too, everyone’s so self centered and entitled which Ella is the absolute EPITOME of, Johnny seems too sweet and too good for constant exposure to people like her if he came here and I’m sure he’d get so homesick, he’d leave after a few months regardless

  • @kristen2693
    @kristen2693 2 роки тому +49

    Johnnys a nice looking guy. He seems so nice. She is treating him like a push over.
    If he goes for another American find one with class.

  • @phemseegrimm
    @phemseegrimm 6 місяців тому +4

    I love how the music was Klee's theme in the recap as she is the embodiment of chaos and this whole relationship is chaotic.

  • @ashtonmusie8
    @ashtonmusie8 2 роки тому +398

    Wow, as someone that has been in a long distance relationship and had this exact covid thing happen to me, cheating is still cheating. Gaslighting someone to think it's their fault for being away is so wrong. If the other person can't understand your situation, drop them and block them. What are they going to do? Book a flight to yell at you? Nah, Johnny you deserve better

    • @Lola1912
      @Lola1912 2 роки тому +3

      I had that happen to me. He was very toxic, left him before it was too late.

    • @ninalainu3942
      @ninalainu3942 2 роки тому +9

      @@Lola1912 proud of ya for leaving him!!💕

    • @Lola1912
      @Lola1912 2 роки тому +2

      @@ninalainu3942
      🤗

    • @ninalainu3942
      @ninalainu3942 2 роки тому +2

      I agree, I was in a LDR and the guy was extremely toxic. He gaslit me as well. So I get it! I agree how Ella should be way more understanding. 😬 But if she cant get that, she should just leave it be, or leave him. But it seems like he genuinely loves her which is wow..

  • @itsme2084
    @itsme2084 10 місяців тому +2

    I hope Johnny finds a woman that genuinely loves him

  • @NovaDoll
    @NovaDoll 2 роки тому +2

    That is some crazy gaslighting….

  • @ayakostitz1731
    @ayakostitz1731 2 роки тому +566

    The meme said it best and I quote; “The Lion, the Witch, and the AUDACITY of this BITCH!!!”
    Honestly, how she managed to land ONE guy much less cheat on him with another is waaay beyond me.
    Run, Johnny, run!!!

    • @kathygriffith5164
      @kathygriffith5164 2 роки тому +9

      She lied about it. Who would eff her?

    • @Likelyfairy
      @Likelyfairy 2 роки тому +4

      @@kathygriffith5164 righttt

    • @famouslastwords0791HR
      @famouslastwords0791HR 2 роки тому +21

      I really, really think she's making it all up about cheating. Watching her tell him made me want to reach into my phone and slap her silly. Smirking and pretending not to smile while breaking this poor man's heart?? No thanks, lady. If "physical touch' is so important to her why not try and get with the guy she allegedly cheated with? Cause he DOESN'T EXIST. I only hope Johnny wakes up and gets away from her soon. He can find someone much better than this woman.

    • @KimoraLikesGato
      @KimoraLikesGato 2 роки тому +3

      @@famouslastwords0791HR tbh i dont shes neccessarilry lying there are one night stands or in the heat of the moment stuff

    • @mittag983
      @mittag983 Рік тому

      ​@@famouslastwords0791HRHer AP probably doesn't want a serious relationship with her lol

  • @koobie83
    @koobie83 2 роки тому +348

    There’s no way she cheated. She’s just being a toddler and wanting to hurt him badly and make him feel jealous for refusing to give her what she wants.
    The look on her face when she said to the camera that she cheated 😌 so proud of herself.
    Johnny needs to ghost her. There’s no way this woman is ready to be a step mother. She’d probably see his son as her competition and make his life hell. She can barely look after herself let alone someone else’s child.

    • @Joseph-zd7kg
      @Joseph-zd7kg 2 роки тому

      How is there no way she cheated. She can pick from the most desperate self hating minority man.

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 2 роки тому +13

      She can't take care of herself at all!

    • @CordeliaWagner
      @CordeliaWagner Рік тому +2

      Plus people this size don't get old.

    • @notsuspicioususer4080
      @notsuspicioususer4080 Рік тому +3

      @@CordeliaWagneryes they do? They can live long lives, just with additional health issues depending on how over weight they are

  • @IfYouAreReadingThisILY
    @IfYouAreReadingThisILY 4 місяці тому +2

    I feel so darn bad for him, please save him

  • @astronautviolet153
    @astronautviolet153 2 роки тому +460

    Johnny can do better and find a woman that's understanding, loving and and gets his situation.

    • @vashythewabbit8288
      @vashythewabbit8288 2 роки тому +32

      @thornback It's not really that simple. In China, dating is completely different from any other country because of the government screwing up the male to female ratio. As a result, Chinese women are consider highly "valued" and have very high standards on who they date. And because of the 1 Child policy ruining the psyche of the citizens, dating a single father or mother with a child is considered a turn off if they want to have a child to continue their family lineage. It's a really messed up situation.

  • @AnakinSkywalker-xr1th
    @AnakinSkywalker-xr1th Рік тому +2

    That poor man 🥺 he sounds so genuinely hurt.

  • @aggy8886
    @aggy8886 2 роки тому +3

    I legit audibly gasped at 9:01. I’m actually surprised I watched this far since it’s my first time discovering your channel and it’s the second video related to this couple but somehow it’s like a black hole that I got sucked into. Anyway I feel so sorry for this man. He seems like he was really invested and wanted to try his best. Side note, these commentaries keep me addicted. New fan here! 😆

  • @alextheawkward8792
    @alextheawkward8792 2 роки тому +123

    10:50 is it just me or is she smirking after saying "are you mad at me?" it looks like she's feeling satisfied that she's getting a reaction out of him

    • @fatisummer9106
      @fatisummer9106 2 роки тому +32

      Cuz she was lying and her purpose of coming up of this cheating idea is to get a reaction from him,she looks so desperate

    • @koobie83
      @koobie83 2 роки тому +20

      That’s it! She made it up. Just to hurt him like how she feels he is deliberately hurting her. She’s a child.

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 2 роки тому +3

      Duping delight

    • @ninalainu3942
      @ninalainu3942 2 роки тому +5

      She’s absolutely lying. She’s immature for her age. She needs to grow up, she’s obviously smirking…which is trying to get a reaction out of him. It’s sad.

  • @ying5798
    @ying5798 2 роки тому +3

    she's the same as someone I dated online lmao, cheated then gaslighted and blaming me for being unable to fly to their country fast enough 🙄

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 2 роки тому

      Omg I just remembered that happened to me ! 🤣🤣🤣 I totally forgot! Guy was very memorable. Guess that's why his pathetic scheme didn't work.

    • @jungshook8339
      @jungshook8339 2 роки тому

      Same man that guy wanted me to fly to India

  • @Pooh_Bella
    @Pooh_Bella 2 роки тому +103

    The fact that he’s taking any blame whatsoever. This woman is beyond manipulative. Poor Johnny

  • @gileadsfinest3729
    @gileadsfinest3729 20 днів тому

    From the last episode, she said that she felt her weight is what scares off potential partners. This episode solidified for me that weight is NOT the issue, it’s her toxic personality, any guy that will get to know her is right to leave and dodge a bullet.

  • @hhh1234h
    @hhh1234h 2 роки тому +278

    This is legit the only way I can watch this show 😭 with you as my buffer from the cringe. Thanks so much fam💙

  • @yamii3281
    @yamii3281 2 роки тому +3

    i waited for 5 entire years until i was able to move and be with my long-distance partner, never cheated. this woman has no excuse

  • @RoxxyKaosGG
    @RoxxyKaosGG 2 роки тому +554

    Ella: Cheats on the man she claims she wants to marry.
    Also Ella: Is the victim when she cheated.
    Bruh. My husband is a soldier. Deployment is harder than this crap and I still don't cheat 💅

    • @wendynavarrete7216
      @wendynavarrete7216 2 роки тому +20

      Because you and your husband love each other for who you are not some fantasy like them with their fetishes

    • @chelseahollis4423
      @chelseahollis4423 2 роки тому +66

      Yes, 100%! I'm the child of a military family (Father was in the Navy) & even after retirement, he worked overseas to support my family growing up. No matter the distance, TRUE love doesn't let obstacles get in the way of a realistic marriage & my parents have been married 33 years strong. Long story short, if my parents can go through YEARS being apart & still love each other, 7 months ain't crap. This chick is full of excuses 😒
      Also, I thank your husband for his service!😊

    • @RoxxyKaosGG
      @RoxxyKaosGG 2 роки тому +37

      @@chelseahollis4423 And I thank your dad for his service, and you and your family for supporting him! Long-distance is hard on any relationship, be it romantic, family or friends. That still doesn't excuse wrong actions, like Ella did. Hope you're well :)

    • @Ash-zf8ir
      @Ash-zf8ir 2 роки тому +2

      Cheaters love deployments! A lot of people cheat on their spouses while they're overseas and end their extramarital relationships once they're state-state side. A lot of sexual assault happens during deployments too...

    • @RoxxyKaosGG
      @RoxxyKaosGG 2 роки тому +53

      @@Ash-zf8ir It's gross how normalized cheating is in the military. When my husband came back from basic (10 weeks) he said A LOT of people were getting divorced over infidelity. Last year I dealt with a guy who BRAGGED to me about cheating on his pregnant wife (after making advances towards me), then acted like I betrayed him and was awful for telling her 🙄 Deployments are hard, but cheating is a choice.

  • @angelcake7077
    @angelcake7077 Рік тому +1

    I have way too many things to say about this but I’m so angry that all I can say is “what the hell is wrong with this woman?!?!??”

  • @sdrawkcabemdaer5
    @sdrawkcabemdaer5 2 роки тому +74

    Wait, so if he DID agree to meet her in Dubai was she just not going to tell him about the cheating?! This makes me think 100% that she made it up as "punishment" for him not being able to go.

  • @temp_unknown
    @temp_unknown 2 роки тому +87

    I hope for both their sake they never meet cause this is TOXIC.

  • @cr0wzzz
    @cr0wzzz Рік тому +1

    wtf. I was skeptical about these dynamics until she talked about inviting that close friend over. poor guy wtf

  • @berryscreamin
    @berryscreamin 2 роки тому +70

    When my boyfriend and I were watching this episode and she said cheated on him then guilt tripped him. We literally had to pause and take a breather for a half hour cause we were both so upset and angry.

  • @Scgod2
    @Scgod2 2 роки тому +4

    Two things: Ella sounded like me when i was desperate and wanted the experience of a romantic relationship. I now learned that it is best to be alone than being with the wrong person. I also have experience of being gaslighted and punished because all i asked for was a video call with a guy living in a different country. (Yeah, i am someone who needs to see the person i am talking to…catfishing is real.)
    Johnny needs to run! And Ella needs strong medicine and karma to help her learn that she needs her self-love first than someone living on the other side of the country. I pray that no one gets hurt and they learn their lessons. I am embarrassed and ashamed by this.

  • @Psychotic.in.Seattle
    @Psychotic.in.Seattle 10 місяців тому +2

    This woman has some serious attachment issues. Needing physical touch doesn’t mean you’re entitled to it (ie. don’t cheat to meet that need!!!) Everyone gets lonely, but that doesn’t mean everyone gets a partner to fix that loneliness. That’s something to work on within yourself before you work on it with another person.
    …also if you need your physical needs met that badly there are plenty of adult stores where you can purchase a “friend” to fix that for you.

  • @hbelleasmr
    @hbelleasmr 2 роки тому +170

    omg this couple is the gift that keeps on giving

    • @beasmu
      @beasmu 2 роки тому +9

      LMAO PLEASE 😭

    • @Yuunarichu
      @Yuunarichu 2 роки тому +7

      NONO THAT'S TOO UNCALLED FOR LMAO

    • @Aloysius_OHare
      @Aloysius_OHare 2 роки тому +5

      and its giving alot.

    • @tbh8149
      @tbh8149 2 роки тому +13

      Can I get the receipt? I'd like to return it 💀

  • @sarahbrown6394
    @sarahbrown6394 2 роки тому +1

    I honestly do not have access to this show, but I am loving this recount of this. Thank you! It is probably more amusing than watching the show straight.

  • @RobinStarrTV
    @RobinStarrTV 2 роки тому +55

    Johnny is right in this one. Apparently quarantine was 5 weeks when he gets back to China.... that's insane. I understand not wanting or being able to feasibly do that

  • @Bellssiiiii
    @Bellssiiiii 9 місяців тому +2

    why am I laughing at this child like woman crying

  • @yessica5231
    @yessica5231 2 роки тому +62

    Johnny is so sweet, but I'm sure another person could give him the love and respect he deserves.

  • @NeroMai
    @NeroMai 2 роки тому

    How tf did she *cheat* and gaslight this guy into thinking it's *his* fault?? Someone free this man!

  • @starshine9016
    @starshine9016 2 роки тому +47

    That's so messed up. Poor Johnny. She didn't want a real relationship she just wants a boytoy...she is selfish, spoiled and honestly she doesn't deserve someone like Johnny.

  • @a.hinton6758
    @a.hinton6758 2 роки тому +1

    Bruh, she is so mean. No wonder she is still single. What a manipulator! RUN JOHNNY!

  • @codsamanta
    @codsamanta 2 роки тому +35

    I don't think you can say "I didn't mean for that to happen" when not only did you consent, but you set up the whole meeting to begin with. She has plenty of girl friends she could've asked for support.....Also, I "like" how she's been gaslighting him and now cheating on him, yet she says SHE wants to give HIM a last chance.

  • @Warthirium
    @Warthirium 2 роки тому

    I'm absolutely floored and annoyed of much Ella reminds of an Ex. It's not my ex that disgust me, it's that the same toxicity that makes me retch. Everything about this like a perfect reflection of what I dealt with. I don't want to watch this anymore

  • @nini52tvxq
    @nini52tvxq 2 роки тому +33

    Girl! He didn’t say he doesn’t want to go. You will just need to have to wait for 7 months! 7 months flies so fast if you get to spend quality time with yourself. Jesus, this girl. I would be so surprised if this relationship can last.

  • @etherealE777
    @etherealE777 21 день тому

    I feel so bad for him 😢he seems so sweet & deserves better.

  • @emmanuellaa.2621
    @emmanuellaa.2621 2 роки тому +1

    "Between you and me, someone needs help"
    Me: It's me...it's me.

  • @incite2004
    @incite2004 2 роки тому +2

    Johnny deserves better
    #justiceforjohnny
    He should just vibe with his son & run far & fast from this woman

  • @allyestrada4438
    @allyestrada4438 2 роки тому +36

    Ella is definitely not worth Johnny leaving his home AND his baby! He deserves so much better

  • @maef7026
    @maef7026 2 роки тому +1

    "It really hurt MEEEEE...and hdbaboua hvngbicdab ipb odb REEEEEEEE!"

  • @thelovelieness
    @thelovelieness 2 роки тому +47

    him : *posts*
    me : *intently clicks to watch*

    • @Xavierkmx
      @Xavierkmx 2 роки тому

      That’s not how you spell fairy…

    • @thelovelieness
      @thelovelieness 2 роки тому

      @@Xavierkmx thats the point, its supposed to be cute T-T

  • @kingworm7168
    @kingworm7168 Рік тому

    9:46 the SMIRK. Clearly not ashamed, almost proud.

  • @gabbyp.9016
    @gabbyp.9016 2 роки тому +14

    Why is he still with her?? She's demanding that he abandons everything to see her. He's trying his best and she's not even thinking abt his situation. She also completely betrayed him when he explicitly told her he didn't want anything like an open relationship. I'm wondering what is appealing to him at all now...

  • @treesspeaklatin8950
    @treesspeaklatin8950 2 роки тому +1

    Dude your hair is immaculate.

  • @minjahietaniemi7291
    @minjahietaniemi7291 2 роки тому +23

    Johnny: it's not your fault that Ella isn't able to be in a long distance relationship (or a relationship in general).
    Ella: You don't need to be in a relationship to be valued/happy, and you also don't need to be in a relationship to get physical attention.

  • @COFFEEWSUGA
    @COFFEEWSUGA Рік тому

    Ella is not ready to hear I've been in a long distance relationship for five years. We have met only once, last year! This is ridiculous!!!

  • @cheerfulsatanist
    @cheerfulsatanist Рік тому +1

    That poor cameraman.... With her....tantrum crying...

  • @DarlingsOrgans
    @DarlingsOrgans 2 роки тому +45

    There is no way she called herself a third wheel

  • @sprintingcookies2895
    @sprintingcookies2895 2 роки тому +1

    Am I the only one that hears Klee’s theme in the background? I was listening to him speak and my brain suddenly hears the upbeat fish blasting music

  • @Luck3STAR
    @Luck3STAR 2 роки тому +53

    Johnny needs to run 🚪🏃🏽‍♂️she’s literally trying to gaslight him and coerce him into doing what she wants and then she starts crying to get him to feel bad watching what she does in the show makes her seem like a red flag I just hope she doesn’t really act like this since everything’s exaggerated on TLC

  • @aca-scuseyou2043
    @aca-scuseyou2043 2 роки тому +1

    No freaking way. Johnny's face shattered my heart. Brooooooo.... Nuh uh nuh uh

  • @ashblackie4071
    @ashblackie4071 2 роки тому

    I've literally been long distance with my husband for 2 and a half years out of the 3 and a half we've been together. It's frustrating and horrible to be apart from someone but BRUH wtf the gaslighting and blaming for not bein able to or not wantin to meet durin covid is gross

  • @HaleyShay
    @HaleyShay 2 роки тому

    omg when u pointed out ellas face cam angle BRO I STARTED CRYYYYINNGGG. AT THE END WHEN SHE SAID BYE IT WAS LITERALLY SO-

  • @Nice-Rice
    @Nice-Rice 2 роки тому

    Gaslighting Ninjitsu is my new favorite term. Johnny deserves so much better!

  • @catandnova
    @catandnova 2 роки тому +35

    Ella needs to talk through her self-esteem issues with someone. God I feel so bad for Johnny and it seems like he doesn't understand/want to acknowledge he's being manipulated

  • @mszr0145
    @mszr0145 10 місяців тому +2

    15:16 "A-And it really hurt meeEEE🚨🚨🦟🦟🦅🦅🥺🥺" I've never seen a grown ADULT squeal and cry so loud over something they did wrong

  • @jazzisbadatnames
    @jazzisbadatnames Рік тому +1

    I can't be the only who doesn't believe she cheated on him. Like really? She's just being manipulative.

  • @ashc3504
    @ashc3504 2 роки тому +21

    She really just gaslit him into apologizing for her choosing to cheat on him, also here’s some food for thought, a physical touch it so important to you then don’t be in a fucking long distance relationship

  • @DieezahArts
    @DieezahArts 2 роки тому

    That woman needs a therapist, not a partner... When all you're saying is "I need..." to the other person, you don't love them. They're just a tool to you and that's plain wrong.

  • @MelaninCosplay
    @MelaninCosplay 2 роки тому +43

    "I cheated on you because you're following covid protocols and worried about just up and leaving your family, especially your son and you're afraid that if you get sick, you wont have the funds to take care of the bill, especially with you being in a country that you have never visited. Do you not see how upset I am?! You dont understand my feelings even though you've tried your best to get over to my country hours and hours away during a deadly pandemic in which you could die and or attract the disease in my country and take it back to your son and parents. This is very important to me. Apologize to me for cheating on you! I'm hurting so much. I feel so bad for hurting you but you still should apologize to me!" --- Ella from 90 Day Fiancé 🤨🙄😑🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @SG-ct2tb
      @SG-ct2tb 2 роки тому +4

      🤣🤣🤭🤭🤭🤭
      Very accurate

  • @hannahsubramony9908
    @hannahsubramony9908 2 роки тому +1

    The "waiting for you apanman" Jin finished me 😂😂😂😂

  • @Reszig22
    @Reszig22 Рік тому +2

    Okay not relevant to the vid. But does anyone else think edvasian looks like even better than usual in this vid?? Like the hairstyle works for him so well and I could not stop just thinking wow he’s gorgeous

  • @hannahsmith6216
    @hannahsmith6216 2 роки тому +43

    Johnny I wouldn't treat you like this....
    No but seriously I feel so bad for him and I hope he realises how unhealthy and bad for him this situation is. He seems to be a good person over all and definitely deserves better. Even when she said she cheated on him he did everything to cheer her up and make her feel better..

  • @RegularStupidPeople
    @RegularStupidPeople 2 роки тому +348

    Who admits to cheat while smiling? SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS

    • @fedenciogonzalezjr9051
      @fedenciogonzalezjr9051 2 роки тому +10

      So true lol 😆

    • @xkawaiikristinx
      @xkawaiikristinx 2 роки тому +22

      It's likely she lied about it, lol.

    • @annieromero145
      @annieromero145 2 роки тому +1

      @@xkawaiikristinx Maybe she did. Who would want to sleep with her??

    • @annieromero145
      @annieromero145 2 роки тому +5

      @@xkawaiikristinx She’s pushy, obnoxious, and everyone has already seen her personality on TV. She’s not a keeper.

    • @soontian3297
      @soontian3297 2 роки тому +6

      The Streets?
      more like the ocean

  • @glamgirl854
    @glamgirl854 2 роки тому +1

    she's soooo selfish, she doesn't deserve him

  • @dn45678
    @dn45678 2 роки тому +92

    Ella is rushing to get married because she’s 29…who just happens to have a sex addiction 💀😭
    5:12 because they are filming, they can’t show the camera man during video calls. So they have to change their angles or put their thumb over their picture (?)

    • @snooganslestat2030
      @snooganslestat2030 2 роки тому +4

      Attention addiction, not sex.

    • @dn45678
      @dn45678 2 роки тому +4

      @@snooganslestat2030 she went to the restaurant with her friends and talked about her toys and playing with her boobs…I think there’s a little bit of a sex addiction to fill that void. Lmfaoooooo

  • @m1lksoup
    @m1lksoup Рік тому +1

    she’s complaining over seven months… i waited a whole year to be with my boyfriend and now it’s been three years together 💀

  • @hannah6347
    @hannah6347 2 роки тому +39

    I wish she could understand that Johnny wants to see her, and I can understand her feeling lonely, but he has so many other things on his plate he has to take into account 🙁

  • @brittanylikesmemes_
    @brittanylikesmemes_ Рік тому

    “she’s using gas lightning jutsu.” PFFFT PLEAAASE .

  • @peachykeen1409
    @peachykeen1409 2 роки тому +14

    I'm so glad you pointed out the phone angle, it was bugging me!! Like he can't even see your face while you tell him you cheated on him and only show your face when you're crying.

  • @chaosandmischief2353
    @chaosandmischief2353 2 роки тому +33

    another video for our asian obsessed saga
    hit me with it, i’m ready 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @parris2573
    @parris2573 2 роки тому +1

    “I think a little bit my self worth is tied up in male physical attention”
    😪

  • @kristiennemarie3026
    @kristiennemarie3026 2 роки тому +14

    LOL MY JAW LITERALLY DROPPED WHEN SHE TOLD HIM THAT SHE CHEATED ON HIM.. like??? I get it, it is hard that you guys can't see each other and you have to wait til February, but you do not go and cheat just because things are getting difficult. T.T that made me so mad LOL

  • @salsa4817
    @salsa4817 2 роки тому

    The fact that i am invested in this relationship is SCARING ME //I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE// it's 3 am and i have finals and i am here craving more of this messed up show🌚😭