WHEN DID THESE *STOP* FEELING EXCLUSIVE?? / Hermes Birkin & Kelly, Chanel Classic Flap, Van Cleef

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  • @Joleenzy
    @Joleenzy 6 місяців тому +254

    I feel like Social Media gives the Illusion that everyone seems to have every luxury bag available (especially Hermès/ Chanel) but in day to day life I rarely see them. It’s noway the norm to be able to afford these Luxury pieces. Of course in Big cities and “Wealthy Areas” it can be more but there are also a lot of fakes.I feel very fortunate, Luxury will never be boring to me. ❤

    • @ewelina8592
      @ewelina8592 6 місяців тому +33

      I agree 100%. I went today to purchase bag from new Chanel collection, people were waiting an hour before the opening of the store. Most things sold out straight away, loads of women with designer handbags, but as soon as you go outside London you rarely see them. Like you said yourself it’s mainly instagram making impression that everyone owns Hermes/chanel bags but sometimes I wonder how many of them are fake or rented 🤔

    • @moremiaj4786
      @moremiaj4786 6 місяців тому +5

      Well said!!

    • @ShweMyaukMyauk
      @ShweMyaukMyauk 6 місяців тому +3

      Agree

    • @kippykippyphoebe9203
      @kippykippyphoebe9203 6 місяців тому +4

      Sophie you are seeing fakes.

    • @silverkitty2503
      @silverkitty2503 6 місяців тому +1

      I see them.

  • @TiemposDePaz
    @TiemposDePaz 6 місяців тому +161

    I’ve left this comment before but it still applies. If I really like something designer, of course, I’ll consider buying it. After a trip to Italy and enjoying the abundance of well made goods (these are the people that make the designer goods for the labels anyway), I had custom shoes made: I have purchased extremely well made purses while in Milan. These are family businesses and that’s how I plan to invest in the future- seeking out those family run companies and getting beautiful UNIQUE pieces in the range of $150-$800. Not $1500-$10000 but same quality. One has to decide if they want quality versus name brand at this point. Yes it’s probably not sellable- but if I really love it, I don’t want to sell it.

    • @ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800
      @ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800 6 місяців тому +8

      Yes, that’s how I feel. Something beautiful, reasonably priced and that I love for my own use.

    • @duchessedeberne3909
      @duchessedeberne3909 6 місяців тому +5

      Truer words were never spoken

    • @michaelaengels7825
      @michaelaengels7825 6 місяців тому +1

      👍

    • @KapahuEtha
      @KapahuEtha 6 місяців тому +1

      My mom bought one *preluxs* 6 and she loves it. It had been there for over 10 years when she went out with it.

    • @flonotflow
      @flonotflow 6 місяців тому +5

      I love this comment so much! I've been trying to support small businesses across the board. It's hard sometimes, but I feel so much better about where I spend my money when I do. We don't need to make the richest men in the world richer.

  • @SvDu-bb7rh
    @SvDu-bb7rh 6 місяців тому +76

    It especially funny when Canel or Hermes bags are included into “quiet luxury” list.

    • @mariegriffin9952
      @mariegriffin9952 6 місяців тому +12

      Right? They used to be quiet luxury when Grace “Kelly” were carrying the bag. Then Jane Birkin modernized it a little and it was still exclusive NOT IN PRICE but in the the range of women carrying these purses! Suddenly, sex and the city happened with it the concept of RENT A PURSE!? What????? Do you rent your underwear? That’s how I feel…

    • @BrammerHortencia
      @BrammerHortencia 6 місяців тому +1

      I really love your taste and style always so chic. My faves would be the *preluxs* leather backpack and the Swarovski pave diamond ring so gorg. Thank you for your recommendations.

    • @KinGearhart
      @KinGearhart 6 місяців тому

      Your love for replicas rivals my love. I like the style of these high end bags, but I'd rather pay my rent, car note, and save for college for my kids with our money. So, replicas are for me! I love replica bags, and they just don't make them like*preluxs* do, they are just amazing for me! Wonderful job!

    • @GheewalaColyott
      @GheewalaColyott 6 місяців тому

      My mom said a smart thing once. People who think and judge you for buying certain things or look a certain way to impress other people, are people that are like that themselves. Because they can't think far enough, why someone would do that only for themselves. Because to them, how others view them is the only valid reason! It is my freedom to choose what kind of bag to carry. As for other people's opinions, it has nothing to do with me. I am just me, and only I know what makes me happy. I am willing to spend less money to buy the most cost-effective bag at *preluxz* , which makes me feel great

    • @VeronicaMarilyn-rh3kk
      @VeronicaMarilyn-rh3kk 6 місяців тому

      The details between the bags are minor and anyone purchasing the *esluxy* will not be worried about the stitching etc

  • @ceciliabrown3301
    @ceciliabrown3301 6 місяців тому +47

    Lots of people buy K or B bags strictly to flip them. There are so many on second hand market but they're actually brand new.

    • @drdornesowerby5863
      @drdornesowerby5863 6 місяців тому +1

      Definitely

    • @flonotflow
      @flonotflow 6 місяців тому +11

      Yes, Cassie Thorpe did a recent video from Fashionphile's warehouse in NYC and I was floored at the sheer volume of stuff they had in general, but was particularly shocked to see how much H brand stuff they had, especially when it's supposed to be so "exclusive". Made me wonder about that.

    • @LustbergJohanns
      @LustbergJohanns 6 місяців тому

      kay, I’ve always scratched my head about the obsession around the *preluxz* book totes and their practicality, but this one is adorable!! Congratulations.

    • @DongHattman
      @DongHattman 6 місяців тому +1

      Depends on seller and the factory where it came from. My *esluxy* is just like hers and i only paid $100 for it from a seller in hong kong.

    • @DominickMclachlan-km6hy
      @DominickMclachlan-km6hy 6 місяців тому +2

      My boss is millionaire, she has an original chanel bag at the same time she buys high quality *esluxy* chanel bag now she confused which one is fake.

  • @mrvgstyle2442
    @mrvgstyle2442 6 місяців тому +28

    Hi Sophie. Those bags in Florence that look like they are from Hermes have been around for a long time. They were there even pre-millenium. They are not fake. They are available all over Italy because many leather bags of all styles are long been made in Italy. Knowing this, I couldn't understand why people would queue outside Hermes . It wasn't until social media that mass market fashionistas realized that Hermes bags were status symbols for the wealthy via social media. It's not just Hermes styles that you could find in Italy. There are many others. It wasn't until the demand in the boutiques started, that maisons/fashion houses started trying to keep up with the demand opening ateliers in Spain. If I make a trip to Italy again, I may buy a bag or two there. I don't need a high end name on a well-made bag made in Italy. That's just paying for someone's name to be on it and for them to profit from it.

    • @CliveDaryanl
      @CliveDaryanl 6 місяців тому +1

      The reality is: if you're rich and famous, your*preluxs* bags are seen as a sign of success. If you are just an ordinary worker working a 9-to-5 job, your real bag is likely to be considered the fruit of your efforts.

    • @DongHattman
      @DongHattman 6 місяців тому +1

      To be honest. If you produce at cost and remove the logo, the luxury market really isn't that expensive. The mark is about 80% of the actual price. But the fact that you are *esluxy* buying an image and showing off your taste to make them think you are richer than you are is a very good thing to do

    • @Haferstern
      @Haferstern 5 місяців тому

      @@DongHattman You should be aware of that, yes and that's okay. Nevertheless, these Designer bags are exclusive. The name and authenticity make the difference. I prefer to buy Desinger products that are not so easy to see.

    • @lexicalgap5191
      @lexicalgap5191 2 місяці тому

      Especially the leather school

  • @ladyharriet4136
    @ladyharriet4136 6 місяців тому +9

    Just been to Florence a month ago, yes, absolutely agree on getting high quality dupes of B/K. I own a few Hermes bags, so I know exactly the difference. But, I actually bought a version of the Florence B/K combined, a Birkin with strap on!!! I honesty can say, that IS way better than the real Birkin. Reasons: 1) top quality leather (my whole wardrobe smell of fresh, top quality leather 😂), 2) the styling - I don’t need the logo, I just want quality and functionality 3)inside has lots of useful zipped pockets and compartments, no need to get extra bag inserts etc 4) absolutely do not care if I take it out in the rain, which I have done 😂, wipe and then done ❤ 4) price - absolutely insane, around £80! I didn’t need top copy because I think Birkin with STRAP is a much better design, period. 5) EVERYONE has seen my bag said it is a beautiful bag, even my male friends have no clue what this bag is, says it looks nice. Now, the key question - would this stop me buying Hermes bags? No. Because I really like their HSS models, exotic or vintage rare leather like Ardennes, these are money cannot “easily” buy rare models, so they are still very exclusive to me. Same go with every couture houses, if one go to buy their most common stuff, they are NOT exclusive products to start off with anyway. It’s not the brand, it’s the specific products or models of that brand that are exclusive. Like any luxury cars, pens, watches, glassware, paintings - all the same. Not all Rolexes are the same, you need to do homework what specs exactly you are buying. 😊😊 Love this video Sophie, thanks for sharing.❤❤❤

  • @JerseyJuliaStyle
    @JerseyJuliaStyle 6 місяців тому +13

    Totally agree on the "starter kits." I believe everyone should follow the style and purchases that give them joy, but I think sometimes we get things because we keep seeing it everywhere, rather than because it fits our personal fashions and lifestyles.

  • @Nami_ee
    @Nami_ee 6 місяців тому +24

    I feel like it's because of all of the quick trends, fast fashion and dupes that are ruining the "exclusivity". Before luxuryy items were seen as something you either had the money to afford or saved up. Now because of fast fashion, luxury is suddenly something everyone should have and when you do not have the money you instead buy really good dupes that then ruin the original brand's exclusivity. Our society has valued the need of having an item because everyone else has it, instead of valuing individuality and an actual want for a luxury product. Furthermore, as fast fashion is constantly changing people do not see the value of purchasing really expensive bags and are instead opting out for a good dupe just to have the social clout. Love the video!

  • @bwilliams5338
    @bwilliams5338 6 місяців тому +21

    I just bought a pair of Oran sandals. Initially wondered if I’d made a mistake because they were not comfortable! But I wore them around the house and stretched them and now I love them. I’m not working towards a quota bag (don’t care about them and would just go pre-loved if I ever decided it did!) I just wanted a dressy, elegant sandal and you can’t really get more classic than the Orans.

  • @StyledByGwenny
    @StyledByGwenny 6 місяців тому +42

    Not so sure about a luxury starter kit, but there certainly seems to be an element of "if you don't have x, y, and z, then can you really call yourself a luxury lover/UA-camr?" Wouldn't it be lovely to just be able to have and enjoy the things *you* love, and as a bonus maybe even stand out from the crowd a little! Have a great week, Sophie, and enjoy Lidl (it's bizarre!)! xx

    • @SophieShohetOfficial
      @SophieShohetOfficial  6 місяців тому +3

      I totally get you Gwenny!!!xx

    • @VeronicaMarilyn-rh3kk
      @VeronicaMarilyn-rh3kk 6 місяців тому

      I bought a *esluxy* belt in Italy. It’s great quality! No issues with it at all.

    • @MoseslsWel
      @MoseslsWel 6 місяців тому

      Fake ones have come a long way...I have an "NF" and it passes all your tests, stitching the package, lettering, etc. I don't think your old fake is a good example. Besides, there are *esluxy* that are very cost-effective and they deserve to be seen.

  • @christinekellyrose9435
    @christinekellyrose9435 6 місяців тому +55

    I read a comment on another UA-camr's video that said : once there was an Amazon dupe your luxury item was no longer exclusive 🎯

    • @suha1230
      @suha1230 6 місяців тому +2

      Ha! I read that one too!

    • @flonotflow
      @flonotflow 6 місяців тому +2

      Excellent point!!

  • @abbyvanhoose3997
    @abbyvanhoose3997 6 місяців тому +13

    Its amazing I never see any Dior, Chanel, once in a while a Louis, no Hermes either. Very strange, when I was in hospital for 2 weeks lasr year,I had my book tote,bag,and the young nurses said oh you have fake Dior,I just smile because they knew what they were but quick to say fake.People will think what they want to think,I never explain❤❤❤ myself to anyone.

    • @SummerOf1987
      @SummerOf1987 5 місяців тому

      Right! Only this never ending never full all around! Or other LV. South Germany. I wear also different Designers.

  • @tarreemhacaruso2687
    @tarreemhacaruso2687 6 місяців тому +22

    I brought my bags Preloved and kept looking until I found reasonable resellers. I asked one seller why she priced so low and she stated that bags should be viewed like cars. Once they leave the lot they lose value. If I don’t like or want to enjoy the bag anymore why shouldn’t someone else be allowed to love it? That starts with pricing. She found it unscrupulous that people were charging $5000 for busted Birkens missing parts, ripped, etc.,. Just used and abused. She stated that Karma is a b and they wouldn’t have any luck eventually.

    • @Chickadee_
      @Chickadee_ 6 місяців тому +1

      Who is this reseller? I love her already!🥰

    • @ahoneyman
      @ahoneyman 6 місяців тому +3

      When you price things lower than normal customers are less likely to return them. If there's a small smudge in the liner that wasn't disclosed you'll probably keep the item anyway. Collectors are very picky. Any smudge, loose thread, or blemish that isn't photographed, mentioned, or highlighted in triplicate will be an issue. Refunds and shipping labels are going out. Sellers balance price vs hassle.

  • @writerspen010
    @writerspen010 6 місяців тому +20

    I think the focus on exclusivity is very strange. While I understand that the makers strive for that quality with their exorbitant pricing, to me the choice to buy something pricey or luxurious is more based on my perception of the quality of the item I'm buying in addition to the understanding that I'm buying into a heritage. I'm not bothered when I see people in the city wearing the same Chanel classic flap or handful of LV and Gucci bags, knock-offs/dupes, or the more accessible small leather goods and monogramed items, etc. I actually like it when I see people wearing pieces I have or know are luxurious pieces, because to me that means that that person is hopefully doing well/is financially stable and could be a kindred spirit, especially when they're wearing my favorites from a fashion house. Losing interest in something or creators upping prices simply because more people are aware of something or can more easily access it is terribly snobby imo.

    • @crelgen1588
      @crelgen1588 6 місяців тому +1

      You may call it snobby all you like, but ironically the person most likely to not care that the bag they just spent 10k on is everywhere is somebody who most likely doesn't think 10k a lot of money. I'm certainly not saving up that kind of money for something common.

    • @writerspen010
      @writerspen010 6 місяців тому +1

      @@crelgen1588 I disagree that those who think 10k is nothing don't care about seeing these bags everywhere. In my experience, those are the people who do the most complaining.

  • @stefaniecuadra2582
    @stefaniecuadra2582 5 місяців тому +6

    the birkin definitely is past its peak.

  • @BlandonMorono
    @BlandonMorono 5 місяців тому

    The bags are very cute, but the Coach tabby cat is my favorite Coach style. The taupe color is also very beautifu*jklux* .

  • @BohemiacoloryorkKozelska
    @BohemiacoloryorkKozelska 3 місяці тому

    I love your voice! Thanks for sharing your lovely HIDUPZ bag / wardrobe collection :) I actually love how you store your collection and definitely an inspiration for me in my future home

  • @asunbeam5479
    @asunbeam5479 6 місяців тому +9

    people should just buy things that they like! I don't think fashion should be "exclusive" at all. I will never care that most of the women around me have the cartier love bracelet, I still love mine! It seems very odd that people are so starved to stand out that they are upset when people have the same things they do. at that point, just get a tailor or cobbler? when i was a teenager, I had a jeep. It was so fun doing the jeep wave to all the other jeep owners. Now i feel like I do the same sort of thing when I see someone with a kelly, and I love it

  • @PennonsFall
    @PennonsFall 6 місяців тому +13

    It's definitely LV-land in my region. Real and fake. That monogram print is everywhere and that's probably the social media/trend impact. I never used to see them as much around. I don't see Hermes but it's also more challenging to obtain here geographically so maybe still area-specific unless people roll the dice on second hand online . . .

  • @RogueNinjaChef
    @RogueNinjaChef 6 місяців тому +9

    It's social media. I'm in my late 40's and I remember 20+ years ago when the Chanel classic flap was regarded as a rich old lady's bag and a successful middle aged executive's bag. Thanks to influencers, the demand shot up etc. Now people in their 20s and early 30s are buying these bags. It doesn't bother me.
    What does bother me is the fact that young men, who would normally NOT care about women's handbags (with the exception of a small percentage of fashionable guys), know the worth of these things = they are robbing like crazy in my city. You have to watch your back if you're purchasing high end bags and/or carrying them. Lots of thieving, plenty of which are gang related. The high end mall isn't safe anymore. Before social media, men who robbed just wanted money and maybe credit cards. Now they're robbing just for the sake of getting bags to resell!

    • @ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800
      @ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800 6 місяців тому +2

      Yes! This actually keeps me from getting one of these very recognizable bags! I carry concealed and I don’t want my purse grabbed with my firearm in it. I’d be forced to draw and fire over a purse.

  • @videosrfun4567
    @videosrfun4567 6 місяців тому +14

    I think if one lives in their phone these items won’t seem exclusive. In the reality of my lived experience I rarely encounter the average person in the street (or even among my peers) with the same or comparable luxury items I own.

    • @amo2464
      @amo2464 6 місяців тому +1

      Chanel flap bags are absolutely everywhere in London. Everywhere. Whether real or fake, is another matter. But it's difficult to walk more than a few yards in central London without seeing one

    • @SummerOf1987
      @SummerOf1987 5 місяців тому

      Same for me. Munich, Germany.

  • @queenelina5296
    @queenelina5296 6 місяців тому +2

    I hadn't visited a Lidl before meeting my husband. Now I'm a convert, you can't get a full grocery haul, that is true, but you can get amazing deals on things. Also, since you and David love dark chocolate, their dark chocolate (I think it is like 88% cocoa or sth like that) is incredible, and I'm quite the food snob. I think you'll both react positively to the experience, even though products change often. Their "upper level" products called excellence - i think- is really good quality. Lastly, try some of the small electronic devices such as hand mixers, air fryers, ice cream makers etc. if you're in the market for them, because they are really good quality and truly afordable

  • @Nettietwixt
    @Nettietwixt 6 місяців тому +5

    Lidl has some really nice food and it's definitely worth trying some of the things that are clearly dupes of named brands as I often find I prefer them. Whether you can do a full shop might depend on the size of the branch and your dedication to specific branded products.

  • @MerlosSchulthess
    @MerlosSchulthess 6 місяців тому

    kay, I’ve always scratched my head about the obsession around the *preluxz* book totes and their practicality, but this one is adorable!! Congratulations.

  • @morganzweifel2488
    @morganzweifel2488 6 місяців тому +1

    YES, these coveted and supposedly extremely hard to attain purses are quite visible in public!!! Very good point!

  • @WeinzimerMuta
    @WeinzimerMuta 6 місяців тому

    The variety of textures in the *preluxz* pack is impressive. From smooth leather to textured suede, there's something for everyone.

  • @tf8187
    @tf8187 6 місяців тому +22

    I don’t really know if I believe the “people buy fakes and auths to use the fakes and leave the auth at home” I truly believe that people will buy a fake of an auth bag to compare and once they see how good the fakes are they don’t bother to buy auth again. I may be wrong but that’s just my take.

    • @Nataly-17
      @Nataly-17 6 місяців тому +3

      Agree with you

  • @RissGleichman
    @RissGleichman 6 місяців тому

    The *jklux* canvas tote bag actually reminds me of Hermes Garden Party, too. Thanks for making this video on suggesting more budget friendly alternatives. Love it!

  • @jenniferstubbs804
    @jenniferstubbs804 5 місяців тому

    LOL I'm old enough to remember when the Chanel classic flap went through a stage when it was considered a "grandma" handbag 🤭 On my fashion journey I have had the most delight in enhancing my sense of style with items that not everyone else has vs. what is exclusive. A few months back I went on a trip to visit my sister and I'm hustling about the airport and I spy at least three LV neverfulls and here I am rocking my Brahmin Ellen tote in Vista Blue Melbourne and the woman I sat next to on the plane complimented me on how stunning my Brahmin was 😎

  • @LustbergJohanns
    @LustbergJohanns 6 місяців тому

    Lovely collection! I bought my first LV when I was 25 and I only used that bag a few times, haha. Also, love your clutch! I have an Eva clutch in the DE print and love the little chain. But I don’t want to spend so much money on it now, I have been *preluxz* buying the bag I want, it is as good as LV and is one of my favorite things. Durabilit.

  • @ItsNadine71335
    @ItsNadine71335 6 місяців тому +8

    I feel like "the new luxury" is not an item but the overall quality of a brand. Everything's so cheap these days that quality (luckily) becomes more and more important again. I even find outdoor wear to be luxurious if it is of high quality. And because more and more people tend to look for quality items, they start buying more expensive things. Also: if people aren't doing too great financially, luxury goods are known to become popular as they give instant gratification. And we're all feeling the higher costs of living. "You can't save enough money? Might as well spend it."

  • @orangesnowflake3769
    @orangesnowflake3769 6 місяців тому +8

    Lidl is decent but yes you can't do a full shop there

    • @luciemedici
      @luciemedici 6 місяців тому

      I shop weekly at Lidl in New York, they have everything and save lots of $ 😀
      Good organic chicken 🤩

  • @opalbeach9626
    @opalbeach9626 6 місяців тому +7

    I saw a video from a UA-camr who did a tour of Fashionphile l. My lord, it was a warehouse of handbags. So I can see why people can have these bags,they can get them for a good price, second hand. Not getting a Berkin or a Kelly.

    • @wightwick13
      @wightwick13 6 місяців тому +1

      ….. and she was able to pick out the fake Chanel but not the fake Louis Vuitton Speedy.

    • @opalbeach9626
      @opalbeach9626 6 місяців тому +2

      @@wightwick13 that's because she grew up in Chanel boutiques, thanks to here mom. She can spot a fake Chanel from a mile away.🤔

    • @KS-zd4ew
      @KS-zd4ew 6 місяців тому +3

      It’s like the diamon suppliers at Antwerp and de beers they have sacks of diamonds but keeps the world supply low so they can sell it for millions for a 5 carat ring 💍

    • @wightwick13
      @wightwick13 6 місяців тому

      @@KS-zd4ew Like in 1981-1983 when Zaire stopped selling their diamonds through DeBeers London based CSO. DeBeers flooded the market and price of diamonds went from $3.00 to $1.98 per carat.

  • @MichelleGonzales-g9l
    @MichelleGonzales-g9l 2 місяці тому

    Hi there, does your company ship to customers in the USA? I emailed your company regarding for a LV suits and was told to contact the location in Dubai for *amzclothes* ?

  • @ClockNakamatsu
    @ClockNakamatsu 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for doing this! Lots of good info.If you can, please list good s or places to find *preluxz* , you know, Hermes is so selective.Also, would love to see something about Lady Dior. I have to say, my heart broke a little when you said “Oh, Prada does these as well”, regarding the serial number. (I’m a nurse, so I probably shouldn’t even dream about owning a Birkin, but I bought my first Prada earlier this year and I was so proud of it. Now it feels a bit like Dollar General ).

  • @itsneverfull5377
    @itsneverfull5377 6 місяців тому +2

    Interesting debate…. I see a lot of these items, not so much as a starter kit, I see them more as a luxury uniform which is worn in abundance in capital cities. ❤

  • @tf8187
    @tf8187 6 місяців тому +3

    birkins, vca, cartier, Hermes slides & chanel classic flaps. Everyone has, I didn’t realize everyone was so wealthy lol

  • @sarahjames1143
    @sarahjames1143 6 місяців тому +5

    I think all of luxury is just so oversaturated. Social media is too aggressive and in turn, we as comsumers have been over-exposed by it. I've been enjoying more niche/ mid-end bags. I've been enjoying the last 3 bags I've bought more than my high end ones. The brands are mach & mach, Ambush and Coperni.

  • @GogoPandamonium
    @GogoPandamonium 6 місяців тому +2

    I'm also in London, but tbh I rarely see hermes bags out and about. I think social media can make it seem as if more people than normal have certain things depending on who you follow and who else your algorithm decides to show you, but even going into central london, chanel and hermes bags (even the more obviously fake ones) are not common place. Sure if you go into harrods or hang around chelsea you'll see more of them, but walk even a couple of streets over into the more affordable parts of the city and those bags aren't there in abundance.
    We're a long way off the burberry effect of the early 00s. I think with the vca jewellery I've seen a lot more of those, but I think that's because, like you mentioned in your video, every store has their own version of the alhambra chains, and those who want that exact look for less get them on dh gate or ali express. They're a lot easier to purchase than a convincing looking super fake.
    I do find it interesting how many people who have the real thing don't want to wear theirs when they see other people with them, it makes me wonder did you even really like any of those things before or did you just want them as a status symbol

  • @k700i
    @k700i 6 місяців тому +1

    I believe it applies to wallets and watches too, I’ve seen way too many Cartier bracelets and watches, even Rolex’s etc. everywhere in New York. I get the handbags for women, but for men the goyard wallet and the mentioned watches above are just as prominent. It sort of removes the allure for the item.

  • @FlothMaxberry
    @FlothMaxberry 6 місяців тому +3

    I know wealthy women who carry replicas. The main reason they gave is that they just understand the value of money and don’t want to spend so much money on a bag... *preluxs* allows them to save a lot.

  • @worldlit1146
    @worldlit1146 6 місяців тому +8

    Love your content, would also love some further career/finance advice from you. And I cannot wait for your Lidl vlog. How about Waitrose next?

    • @SophieShohetOfficial
      @SophieShohetOfficial  6 місяців тому

      I can certainly do some more financial videos on the new channel! And Waitrose too - thank you so much for the requests my friend 🥰🩷xx

  • @drdornesowerby5863
    @drdornesowerby5863 6 місяців тому +2

    Oran sandals are easy to buy in Hermès shops.

  • @flonotflow
    @flonotflow 6 місяців тому +2

    I think part of the problem now is that so many of these brands have gone the mass production route. When you are only producing 1,000 of a particular item in a year, that's exclusive. When you produce 100,000, it is no longer exclusive. I used to work in a business that sold limited edition artwork and at one point this became a serious issue when the "limited" numbers started getting ridiculous. It literally killed the market.

    • @amo2464
      @amo2464 6 місяців тому +2

      The fashion houses got greedy. And with that, they damage the brand

  • @catherinezilber7677
    @catherinezilber7677 6 місяців тому +1

    The Van Cleef Alhambra has been duped forever. I bought a "travel" version in the Caribbean of the mother of pearl necklace in 2002. The concept is that it's nice jewelry but less expensive for safer travels. It looks great over twenty years later. These aren't $30 shlock.

  • @foreveryoung4571
    @foreveryoung4571 6 місяців тому

    So true , there’s like a starter kit that everyone wants it’s like a list to tick off each item to get x

  • @imeredithc
    @imeredithc 6 місяців тому

    It’s also possible that the rise of the preloved market makes some of these once exclusive bags not so exclusive. There are tons of preloved Birkins and Kellys for resale that allow people to circumvent the “game” that ultimately makes the bags exclusive imo (more so than their price).

  • @drkatherines
    @drkatherines 6 місяців тому +2

    Ralph's is the CA part of the Kroger brand. There are some pretty good accounts like the Fake Birkin Slayer that call out people for posting fakes online. Once dupes get this common it does lessen the appeal of the originals. Even if they were all authentic, who wants to have the same items as everyone else around them?

  • @christinaa017
    @christinaa017 4 місяці тому

    I totally agree! Whenever I seen VCA/Cartier items that are well known with Oran sandals and the same luxury bags I just think the person wants others to know what they have rather than buying things that they love and are authentically their style.
    Also, I’m happy to sell you my pink Constance 18 - she’s a beauty but I’m not a pink girl

  • @kikidekort5009
    @kikidekort5009 6 місяців тому +2

    I love lidl. I am living in Holland by the way. I Just bought sandal Just like hermes model 100 leather only for 13 euro's..

    • @tmvg9052
      @tmvg9052 6 місяців тому

      Me too. Bought dupes of both the Hermes slippers and a Van Cleef necklace and studs set from local businesses on Crete. Very nice quality and no where near the original prices.

  • @ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800
    @ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800 6 місяців тому

    The Hermes bags are definitely more practical and long lasting and they look ok even with obvious wear.

  • @monmur7952
    @monmur7952 6 місяців тому +2

    Ralph's must be west coast of USA, we don't have those on east coast! Probably Whole Foods is the boujie store and is nationwide in US. I also loooove Lidl! It's owned by same company that owns Aldi and Trader Joe's. Have fun! (I had to ask both Lidl employees AND friends from the UK how to pronounce it, and apparently, it's "leedle'),

  • @jillmartin8255
    @jillmartin8255 6 місяців тому +3

    Hi Sophie!!!! 10 mins late but I was enjoying the evening sun outside. Hugs xx

  • @Chelseabee55
    @Chelseabee55 6 місяців тому

    You can for sure do a full shop at Lidl! We buy everything there except more niche items like kimchi and co2 for a soda stream when we go to Sainsbury’s

  • @mnicolechic
    @mnicolechic 6 місяців тому +1

    As a luxury lover myself, I truly don't care if I see pieces I love all over the place or not. If I love it and can afford it, I will purchase it and use it. I don't think anyone should worry about what others are wearing. I don't think that should influence what one purchases.

    • @amo2464
      @amo2464 6 місяців тому +1

      This is a good point. Blue jeans are everywhere. We continue to buy and wear them! Because they look good / fit out lifestyle / make is feel good etc. What I do find curious, however, is women with a £5000 bag, yet the rest of the outfit does not match in quality - cheaply made bits from Primark, H and M etc. Better, in my opinion, to have a well made £300 bag and distribute the rest of the £5000 on quality pieces for your wardrobe so that one looks holistically 'polished' and 'put together'.

  • @Shantikia
    @Shantikia 6 місяців тому

    I was looking around at pre-loved sites and I saw Birkins everywhere, for very high prices, but still, people with money have a gazillion options on the used market.

  • @prescillastoyanova
    @prescillastoyanova 6 місяців тому +3

    Yikes, feeling the different classes here. I suppose it’s fair if all people around you are wearing Hermes, you probably don’t need to go to LIDL but just felt a bit like this rich lady that thought they sell walls in Walmart 😂

  • @danielmcintyre
    @danielmcintyre 6 місяців тому +8

    The shopping experience for these items doesn’t match the price either

  • @ErikaBardere
    @ErikaBardere 2 місяці тому +1

    I agree with the VCA items. I wanted some yearsss ago, but wanted to invest in other things.
    Now, every 20-something chick with a high tipping job is wearing VCA.
    I walked up to a restaurant & and the Hostess was wearing a VCA necklace.
    The club bottle service girls or bartenders are wearing VCA necklace, bracelet, Cartier, Tiffany, etc.
    But, always always always the most popular same pieces.
    It feels like it has nothing to do with loving it & everything to do with trying to flex & trying to prove they're "doing well"
    but, I don't see them wearing any of the lesser known pieces from those brands. So now, everyone has the same basic jewelry collection & same handbag collection.
    It makes these pieces less interesting

  • @susanbaker2796
    @susanbaker2796 6 місяців тому

    What is your lip color combination? It looks great. Is it still MAC Honeylove and Stripped Down? Thanks!

    • @SophieShohetOfficial
      @SophieShohetOfficial  6 місяців тому +1

      Hello lovely Susan, yes it’s still that combo! Hugs to you xx🥰🩷

  • @sarahspaltro
    @sarahspaltro 6 місяців тому +2

    This exclusivity thing… appears to be all about superficial privilege and class. I don’t think more then half the people buy Hermes because they love the bag, they want it because it symbolizes “I’m better then you. I’m richer than you.” I’m personally getting tired of watching influencers flaunt their Hermes bags like it’s just nothing. What it actually does is, it distances them from the millions that are watching. I use to watch many of them because it was fun entertainment, but nowadays it just feels like bragging.

  • @Madison90210
    @Madison90210 6 місяців тому

    I love the look and usability of birkin 25’s but I don’t care to have the Hermes brand name on it since I don’t want to worry about being robbed or super wealthy. I think the size and shape are of Birkins and mini-Kelly’s are timeless and perfect for every occasion.

  • @sounsliti4055
    @sounsliti4055 6 місяців тому +1

    Sophie I feel the same about those brands , they aren’t exclusive to me anymore .. Social Media, replicates have ruined those pieces that used to be on my wish list..

  • @karenlie5256
    @karenlie5256 6 місяців тому

    I think the preloved price for birkins are too expensive in the UK. I am in Singapore and I buy from finklepuff. Why not you get something during your next trip to Singapore and bring it back? U can get the bag authenticated. The reseller will do it for u at an extra cost.

  • @danahashhash3616
    @danahashhash3616 6 місяців тому

    Cartier ( love bracelet or juste un clou), rockstud Valentino sandals, or the Rouge Baccarat fragrance

  • @indoora
    @indoora 6 місяців тому +1

    The Hermes bags are exclusive if you want to buy one from the boutique. However, if you look on the second hand market there are plenty. Hermes knows this and I think that their strategy is to holding them back in the boutique. The thing to understand is Kelly and Birkin started off as bags for special clients and they want to keep that feeling.

    • @amo2464
      @amo2464 6 місяців тому

      Then they should only sell to 'special clients' - whatever that means. Hermes themselves created the idea that you have to be special to get one. In reality, it's just luck of the draw - anyone with the right money can have one

    • @indoora
      @indoora 6 місяців тому

      @@amo2464 Hi, a company has the right to sell to whoever they please. That being said everything else you stated I agree with, and I have stated previously in this comment section.

    • @amo2464
      @amo2464 6 місяців тому

      @@indoora my point is that Hermes is itself creating mystique around their brand by perpetuating a myth - 'we only sell to special clients'. Nothing but a marketing tool. It's like saying 'we only sell to beautiful women'. It creates a brand myth of exclusivity, when in reality, anyone with money can have access to this. The problem is, the bags are everywhere on the second hand market - they themselves have undermined the myth they created.

  • @treyc1306
    @treyc1306 6 місяців тому +1

    Well said Sophie 👏 I think social media and products going viral make it difficult to be unique. Niche perfumes, Cartier love bracelet, limited edition everything. Consumerism at its best sadly.

  • @mmc9828
    @mmc9828 6 місяців тому

    I really like the grocery store video. It's so interesting to me to see what the grocery stores offer vs American stores.

  • @seabreeze4559
    @seabreeze4559 6 місяців тому +1

    The Era of Dupes. I think M&S online has a Kelly dupe too?

  • @adele3344
    @adele3344 6 місяців тому

    I can relate to this so much! So many things I had on my wish list/ dream list and now they’re so saturated I just loose all interest. It’s so sad that these have spoilt all these beautiful products.

  • @miemaxwell-smith1205
    @miemaxwell-smith1205 5 місяців тому

    I’ve also seen a ton of fake mini Kelly’s too! Oh and also dupes. I saw a fake birkin yesterday at the mall and it had Hermes written on it but it was fake from a mile away! 🙈

  • @samanthab1923
    @samanthab1923 6 місяців тому +1

    About 30 years ago I saw an LV back pack & lunch box to go along with the logo track suit. That’s when it dawned on me. It’s all a parody like Madeline Kahn’s character in High Anxiety. I know they were catering to the Hip Hop & Rap groups but it also cheapened it. 😢

  • @ErikaBardere
    @ErikaBardere 2 місяці тому +1

    I went to a retro arcade last month and a lady in there had a Birkin... in a place where people are playing old school games for free with admission. Just seems like an odd place to wear a $15-20k ish purse
    It might be real, it might not, but either way it seems like a random time
    I've also seen someone bring their Birkin to lounge by the hotel pool... why not just leave this in your room instead of sitting in the hot sun? I guess if you don't trust the hotel, but then, that's still odd idk

  • @MC-kl5mp
    @MC-kl5mp 6 місяців тому

    No, I don’t see birkins and classic flaps in my average income of $50k rural area in BFE. I don’t think Sophie is saying we’re seeing them EVERYWHERE… but in notable locations and on vacation - I see a TON of BK’s, classic flaps, and LV bags. Definitely don’t seem to be as rare as one would expect.

  • @NandogPG
    @NandogPG 6 місяців тому +3

    omg! love that you know Ralph's! 😂 😂 😂

  • @notme1255
    @notme1255 6 місяців тому +9

    Honestly unless you think you're better than other people because of a material item, who cares if "the riff-raff" also owns that material item? Just be a good person or get really good at a new skill/hobby and you don't have to worry about who's "better than" other people because it will never matter what other people say, especially based on something so useless like a bag or earrings.

  • @aniurban7307
    @aniurban7307 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for your video! Fully agreed with you. I was visiting Cannes Film Festival. Let me tell you I see so many mini Kelly and Chanel bags. I feel sick 🤧 all wearing same staff . I will not bay any soon Kelly Birkin or Chanel bags .
    Love from Germany 🇩🇪 ❤

  • @RajAujla-h4c
    @RajAujla-h4c 6 місяців тому

    Hi Sophie I’ve never seen a Berkin in the wild, but I have seen other brands like LV, Gucci and one Dior.😂. You touched briefly on commission in Luxury and I was curious, do all designer stores pay commission for the sale of an expensive bag / item on top of hourly rate pay? And Hermes are the only ones who don’t?

  • @omradiant
    @omradiant 6 місяців тому

    Ralph’s in California is called Kroger in Texas.❤ I love pre loved bags and anything that is a great deal.

  • @carrino15
    @carrino15 6 місяців тому

    I love my bags, even the one costing 6 dollars bought from Accessories child section. ^^

  • @harboraz
    @harboraz 6 місяців тому

    Hi hi! Where I am, I rarely see Birkin and Kelly's around town. Mostly other brands. And we have many peeps with 💶 to burn

  • @BhagabanNassah
    @BhagabanNassah 5 місяців тому

    Here's a fact I know when I visit Bali: they price it higher for foreigners and domestic tourists, but lower for locals (usually tourist spots), so I usually go in*jklux* Go shopping.

  • @el3yonel7azeneh89
    @el3yonel7azeneh89 6 місяців тому +8

    Clients buying the real one to stay at home and use the fake one ?? 🤔😧it is pathetic when some people insist on acting cheap !!! 😏hope her closet will enjoy it 😂😅

    • @alya27092
      @alya27092 6 місяців тому

      They use the fake ones so they don't get robbed when they go to bad neighborhoods to visit poor relatives. 😜

  • @ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800
    @ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800 6 місяців тому +4

    The shame is that these items can be produced for the price that the good replicas are selling for. Think of that when you are paying thousands.

  • @moremiaj4786
    @moremiaj4786 6 місяців тому

    Its everywhere on social media and perhaps in very wealthy circles. Its not common amongst the masses. It just FEELS like it is because of the influensers.

  • @AqUiLaTeAm
    @AqUiLaTeAm 6 місяців тому +1

    Totally agree. Just watch a couple of video of Italian fashion here on youtube and it seems like one woman out of five is wearing a Birkin/Kelly. And they say the're hard to get.... And I'm wondering - Are they real? Are they fake? Or pre-loved? 🤔🤔

    • @FA_2_Pilot
      @FA_2_Pilot 6 місяців тому +2

      I can't remember which publication did it, but someone wrote an article about the New York Elites buying super fakes. (They were still 2k a bag, but so perfect Hermes employees couldn't tell the difference). These super fakes got to be so good LVMH had to start putting RFID chips in their bags.

    • @Nataly-17
      @Nataly-17 6 місяців тому

      There is a different system in Europe. They are technically easier to get.

  • @magyarhalishten3215
    @magyarhalishten3215 6 місяців тому

    I’m from Michigan and we’re definitely not a fashion capital lol. I mostly see Louis Vuitton bags, rarely Chanel and Gucci and a ton of Coach. I feel I’m the only one walking around with a vintage Hermes Vespa and the other older bags I have from Chanel, balenciaga and Proenza schouler lol.

  • @s.fernandes7560
    @s.fernandes7560 6 місяців тому +3

    Just like the Bottega drop earrings. Replica's everywere

  • @purpurina5663
    @purpurina5663 6 місяців тому

    Three things: 1) these brands were out of their way to make it seem as though they sold angel feathers, and then we saw everyone had a bunch, so that puts you off the brand. 2) Not just that many people have them, but that some people seem to have a closet full of them. 3) Tacky influencers carrying them.

  • @hermeslover340
    @hermeslover340 5 місяців тому

    What do you think of Celine Sophie? You never mention this brand ❤

  • @Tip_Top
    @Tip_Top 6 місяців тому +2

    I love Lidl perfume 😂❤

    • @awilliams7796
      @awilliams7796 6 місяців тому +1

      Its amazing!!!!

    • @Tip_Top
      @Tip_Top 6 місяців тому

      @@awilliams7796 yessssssss

  • @seattlecommenter
    @seattlecommenter 6 місяців тому +7

    My impression of Hermes has completely changed since the pandemic. I now think of them as “influencer bags” and gimmicky (the Hermes “game”). I feel like people who buy them want to prove something to themselves and others, like a “pick me” vibe except instead of dating, it’s handbags. I understand they’re high quality, but in my opinion a luxury experience is where you are catered to, not treated like you’re entering a sweepstakes at the carnival.
    Not only that, now that the general public is aware of them, I wouldn’t feel safe in many areas carrying one. I even saw an attempted theft in broad daylight (at the Ivy in LA, a nice place) so there’s just no way.
    And Chanel has fallen in my esteem since Karl died because of the lack of consistent quality control. I still carry my vintage ones, and I’m actively searching for my holy grail (GS early 2000s).

  • @tamaralopicic4866
    @tamaralopicic4866 6 місяців тому

    Dear Sophie! Just take a look at the Turkish dupe market! Caring my late mothers Birkin and knowing what they are, you wouldn’t believe it is a fake for a couple of hundred dollars!

  • @sct4040
    @sct4040 5 місяців тому

    I don’t drive or take cabs, I walk or take the subway/railroad. I have noticed women have dressed down, I no longer see lux bags on the train like I used to. Working women are no longer dressed in lux. It’s either the economy or fear of being robbed.
    -NYC

  • @christinar8419
    @christinar8419 6 місяців тому

    They're everywhere because you can buy them anywhere now. Consignment, fashionphile, the real real....... There's no wait if you want it now.

  • @KS-zd4ew
    @KS-zd4ew 6 місяців тому +3

    My mil is in her late 70s and she’s worth usd millions after her husband had passed away but she only carries simple leather bags and wears simple jewellery bcus she doesn’t feel the need to show her net worth on her body to society . Those who knows ..KNOWS

  • @KS-zd4ew
    @KS-zd4ew 6 місяців тому +1

    In my small island township in Asia , we see many ladies wearing Cartier love bracelets , VCA bracelets/ rings , Hermes birkin/kelly , Chanel classics but we will assume it’s fake items unless that lady is properly dressed up fr head to toes & drives a million dollar car 😂 that’s how we filter out the wanna be vs the real rich 😂

  • @sounsliti4055
    @sounsliti4055 6 місяців тому +2

    I feel like nowadays we all dress up the same.. Whether it s real or fake I see love bracelets and just un clou everywhere , Chanel classic flaps and Hermes bags everywhere.. I love luxury items but they are brands that I see everywhere like Cartier for example I m not interested in anymore .. Thinking of selling few items from the brand ..

  • @magdadube8489
    @magdadube8489 6 місяців тому

    Hi Sophie I ve been to Florence and my eyes popped out when I saw the Birkin bag in good leather I wanted to buy one but my husband kept stopping to eat gelatos in every corner a different flavor so we ran out of time but I so regret not buying it 😂😂😂😂 can you link where I can buy leather Italian Birkin look alike? Even though it’s not a Birkin the Italian leather is the best quality like I mentioned before I have designer bags that are 30 years old and the gucci still look new compared to LV

  • @silverkitty2503
    @silverkitty2503 6 місяців тому

    I have seen luxury bags IN Lidl.